LOVE that Matt was so quick to say “No it’s not fine” because it is not! As someone who has been in a physically abusive relationship, I think it so easy to down play our experience because we already lived it.
He didn't care to include his wife Abby in the conversation. Also, he obviously loves the camera and attention, including doing every single sponsered ad. It's extremely weird and felt so uncomfortable watching
@ you could tell abby was a bit uncomfortable and kinda awkward in some spots in the conversation, not his fault, he was being genuinely respectful about the whole conversation at hand and was intrigued.
She’s matured incredibly well since the show started. I love her mindset as well! Shes intelligent and articulate. I hope she has a long lasting relationship with her boyfriend too!
She really has! I just watched, what I’m assuming, is one of the first episodes and she was so childlike and I was so upset at her parents because they treated her that way. It seem like very limiting for her. It looks like the show helps A LOT!
@ComeSeeVee Fr! She's matured so much and doesn't seem like she's constantly trying to overcompensate to be treated like an adult anymore, it's great to see
To be fair, her parents did hinder her in that regard. They were very over protective. Rightfully so given the circumstances. But her lack of maturity wasnt really her fault.
@titusfishbomb3895 your making this judgment based on your own personally witnessed average standards. Your argument is irrelevant in this circumstance. But whatever you want to think bud.
I can see a lot of people aren’t happy with this interview but I really appreciated it. Thank you, Shauna, for being so open and honest with everything you’ve experienced. I like her a lot!
@MiaLucifer I've not seen 1 comment and I went thru a lot of them that said anything about Matt whatsoever. You are the only one. Lot's about Shawna and good amount about Abbey but zero about Matt. This is his podcast. It's an interview style podcast! They literally ask questions of every guest they have on. This isn't the Shawna show.
I AM ABOUT TO CRY!!😢 Bc I am a disabled person and I just heard Shauna Rae say.. “Disabled people can do the same things as abled people, we just take a different avenue to get there.” I hardly ever feel understood and she makes me feel understood and makes me believe more in myself!! ALSO,I AGREE WITH ABBY THAT SHE’S POWERFUL!! AND REALLY COOL!!
I agree with this too. I have mild cerebral palsy and shorter than most people. People say she can’t do this. I say No, I can do it but I do it differently
I had a learning disability growing up in couldn't remeber alot of things for school. So I didn't learn like everyone else, I had to tell a boss the other day someone explained something to me. But my brain needs you to show me how to do it. Some times I still struggle. And I was in a class thag had extra help. And not everyone knows unless I say something. I use to struggle alot in my early 20s but I'm trying so hard now to learn and write everything down to remeber. I'm probably a little bit taller then Shauna but not buy much tbh.
Might have something to do with shauna literally locked into a conversation with Matt . Abby’s completely blocked out. Zero eye contact, neither of them are including Abby, nor giving any opening to her. It’s definitely a vibe the guest is putting off towards Abby. Imo.
People have such a problem with someone being authentically themseleves. Just because someone makes you uncomfortable doesnt mean there is anything wrong with them. Our world is diverse and if all you do is watch interviews to judge and comment about how she acted like XYZ then obviously you have bigger things to worry about!
Those people are viewing her as a child, unfortunately. If an average sized adult woman with a regular voice sat there and said all these same things, people wouldn't be making these comments.They'd view her differently.
I have so much respect for her. Not only to face adversity with a disability but also in so many other avenues discussed here. I just am in awe of the woman she is. Feeling really thankful to have found this. Thank you for shining a light on Shauna. She's definitely gained me as a fan.
I love this! I myself have dwarfism, I’m 45 years old and people treat me like I’m a child. Like they ask weird questions and don’t realise that they are offending you. Like I just went grocery shopping the other day, and some random guy came up and asked me where my parents were and who was shopping with me. It really made me feel a little upset. It’s so hard to deal with things like that. So I know exactly how you feel. People really should actually be more careful about what they say. Especially when you’re grocery shopping. They see you pushing the buggy by yourself, so obviously you’re an adult and not a child. It gets frustrating. And then when someone tells you that you’re so adorable! I’m not a child, or a cute furry animal! I AM AN ADULT!
If someone had questioned the boys who kidnapped James Bulgar in more detail... he would be in his mid thirties by now. I get it must be frustrating but checking in what you think is a child and no obvious parents in site with a buggy is normal. Obviously depending on their response when they realise may mean they ARE an arsehole!
@pippastjohnsmith1299The thing is, some people did ask those boys. James was crying, and the boys told the people who asked that they were James’ brothers, and were taking him home.
Like its crazy how people treat her like a child when shes clearly an adult. Dwarfism has been around for a long time and theres so many forms of it. Never judge a book by its cover you know. You can tell by the way she carries herself, shes not a child. Wishing pure happiness for her
Shauna is an inspiration to more people than she realizes! She speaks up for people and brings comfort and security to people who need it who do not fit in with the world! I loe that about her so much!
Put an adult sized human with a lower pitched voice in that seat speaking the words she is speaking, and i bet noone judges the same. This was a great episode, and i think Abby was just absorbing everything she said and was letting her have her moment to explain it all...I absolutely LOVED this episode!!! So eye opening...
Exactly. I don't understand why she ruffles so many feathers. It seems like they take her vivacious and no bs personality as rude and I don't see that at all. She seems like a lovely person and I love learning more about her and her life. 💕
Yes. Even an average size woman and average woman voice saying the exact things she said. I don’t think any difference in Abby has to do with her being small.
Cancer can definitely mess with your hormones. My son had cancer at age 4 and MANY people tried to reassure me that they knew someone who had cancer as a child and was still able to have children. Umm what??? That wasn’t even on the last page of all my concerns for him. I just wanted him cured. And he was. He’s a senior in HS now and has remained in remission for 11 years. I still am unbothered by whether he can or cannot have his own children: he’s alive and healthy.
No of course you weren’t concerned about that. They probably didn’t think of her reproducing when she was fighting to get over the cancer either. It became an issue years later when she wanted to have children. It’s a whole terribly sad situation for all of you. I wish a long health life for your son.
After reading through a lot of the comments I just find it really sad that a lot of these people can't seem to put themselves in her shoes, but they are still willing to judge her and make assumptions about her. Living with a disability in an ableist society is really tough and this comment section shows it. I am grateful for the people talking with kindness and offering different perspectives.
I think some people are empathetic towards that aspect. I think it's her personality that is off-putting. It has developed due to her past, but she's an adult now so she either overcomes or doesn't.
Shauna set baby straight after her comment saying oh your so spunky like Abby wouldn't say that to any other 25 year old woman and Shauna set her straight by saying comments like that still sound condescending she is more mature than Abby who I can't stand
I really don't understand the negativity towards Shauna. What I am seeing and hearing is a strong confident woman who is not letting her circumstances take her down.
@babybowzerfor the last 25 years of her life, every single day she has been called a child and treated as such. She is used to the daily routine of someone acting like she is a 10 year old, when in reality is an adult with adult responsibilities. I think that instead of a victim personality, it’s more of a regulated response to the day to day interactions she faces.
I think you have to watch all of the episodes of her show to truly understand what it is ppl don't like. It's more complicated than this interview. She seems fine in this interview.
@kathyjam2482 Well they are nit referring to this clip. They are referring to how onnone had she claims to be independent and doesn't need anyone but them gets super whiney and seems to embrace her disability to the point of embodying all it's limits instead of trying to overcome what she can. She turns back into a child very quickly when faced with hard things and hides unde her parents care. That's what ppl mean.
I feel like Abby backed off because she came in with energy said "I love how strong and spunky you are!" and Shauna immediately says something to the effect of " People always compliment me with a stereotypical motive.... that totally insinuated that Abby's compliment was based on ulterior motives
Totally agree! It seemed like Abbey was really uncomfortable and unused to talking openly about disability. Her compliments come off as othering and Shauna was right to call that out. Abbey has to sit with those uncomfortable feelings and learn. Shauna seems like she has some growing to do as well but they are all young- about the same age.
But abby also interviewed someone else with a disability worse than shauna....the guests name was abby as well , she has autism , and she was just fine with her soooo..
in the first 8 min shauna says the same thing about how other peoples compliments are fundamentally condiscending, usually or exclusively about her doing everyday things. im a compliment hater too, since i dont do anything amazing by world or personal standard that warrants compliments.
As someone who deals with health issues and is married, I really appreciated when Shauna Rae talked about people criticizing her ability to be a wife because of her disability. She points out that there’s nothing wrong with an able bodied person choosing to marry a person who has different abilities. 💕
Yes let's judge her for one instance that was televised out of the thousands of hours they had where she was calm but calm doesn't make good TLC television (ironic it's called Tender Loving Care but they push the opposite more)
There have been times when clips of Shauna’s comments or beliefs have rubbed me the wrong way but I always kept it in mind those are edited with the purpose of eliciting a response. This interview to me proves that she doesn’t actually get on my nerves at all. I see a fair share of hate comments and I really can’t relate. I thought she was honest and polite and interesting to listen to.
I have watched Shauna's show on TLC and had a lot of respect for her. After watching this, I am so impressed with her resolve. To be a woman of short stature and to be so comfortable with her body and so confident in herself at her age is very impressive. As a disabled adult I totally understand what she means about people being happy with themselves & their life. So many people do nothing but complain about their disability, but do nothing to help themselves.
wow, what an incredibly wise, strong, confident, intelligent and humorous woman. In a metaphorical sense, she is many times larger than her body indicates I wish her all the best that life has to offer her.
I loved her show, but there's something uncomfortable about this..Shawna said a few offensive comments and other comments that just sounds really stuck up and out of touch and her answers are all over, I think she caught herself a few times before she said other non sensitive comments or story. Its just odd..
I respect Shauna Rae in the most difficult situation and I like that about her I think she is very smart knowing what she wants in life and I am a very happy that she went into this interview with Matt and Abby
As a wheelchair user when she is talking about bad connotation of words YES. Also she’s so correct unfortunately with how competitive this community can be🥺 but it can be beautiful to have friendships with people who relate. Absolutely love that you had her on. Thank you!
Except she said "wheelchair bound" and wheelchair users know our chair is our freedom and you don't say that. She also said handicapped so she has a lot to learn about words herself. We can all keep learning.
I miss the Shauna Rae tv show. She is such a beautiful and brave woman . I pray that she will have a successful and loving relationship in her future 🙏🏽❣️
@gracewilliams548 around 58:40... it was a weird story. even if I was bored, if I was not interested in a guy, personally I would NOT give out my number.
WOW this was so great! Thank you for sharing! Shauna is so intelligent & commendable I just love how she just stands so tall from the inside out love her energy! So happy so found the love of her life, her soulmate so sweet.
I don't think Abby was rude or disinterested during this episode. As she explained at the end (and she did apologise for not talking more), she was letting Matt lead and giving Shauna plenty of opportunity to talk. Both Matt and Abby are always so non-judgemental and gracious in the way they interact with other people, even if they have different morals from them. E.g. Shauna clearly does not believe it would be best to save sex until the commitment of marriage, as Matt and Abby do, but not once did Matt or Abby step in and suggest this to her and that it might have spared her a lot of grief. I was super impressed how respectful and empathetic Matt and Abby were when they interviewed Taylor Odlozil (Ep. 87), as Abby's tears throughout and the way they gave him space to speak showed. Matt and Abby have loving hearts ❤
Absolutely not! I just believe in thinking the best and being a peacemaker and that you can't assume someone is rude and disinterested if they don't say much - they may not be able to get a word in or they may be feeling uncomfortable!
I kind of feel like after Abby called her Spunky, and Shauna replied with basically compliments like that can be discriminatory- Abby seemed to shut down after that.
I love Shauna's REAL view of life and the way people are perceived. She is so intelligent, humble and compassionate about others and an inspiration to all sorts of backgrounds.
Yeah that’s just weird… I used to go to the karaoke bar that my dad worked at with him, but only before they opened. Who lets a 10 year old regularly hang out at a bar??
if you listen to the whole interview, she was telling a story about being 10 years old at her family owned bar. A pedo followed her into a bathroom because he knew she was always there. At 10 years old!!
Matt really carried this interview. He’s always trying to get more insight but he really seemed to care and carry the conversation. Abby was noticeably uncomfortable which is very common for Shauna to experience, most women can’t see her as a woman bc she so much so resembles a child still.
@AdrienneM08yes…I usually think someone’s personality and attitude usurps how they look, but there’s something still childish about Shauna. Maybe some sort of entitlement? I can’t really pinpoint it so would like to hear why other people think this way too.
@MLGDuckkI think it's just her voice and her visibly looking like a child. She doesn't act like a child especially in the interview so not sure what you mean.
I understand how she feels because I have Lupus and Fibromyalgia and other health issues. Some people look at me and say “You don’t look sick!” I’m almost 60 and still here people tell me that I’m way too young to be sick. Like age has anything to do with it.! People just assume I’m fine because the way I look and that’s always upset me.
I totally understand why Abby isn’t saying much. Sometimes that’s the best approach to take. I don’t perceive it as being rude. Besides, it’s not like she’s getting the opportunity to ask questions
I had a best friend in high school, and I treated her just like any other friends of mine. But our bond was special enough where i could take her from class to class and not get in trouble for it. And helped her out of the school before an assembly or prep rally was over. And those little things helped both of us out in completely different way. She isn't on socialmedia, so its very hard for me to get back touch with her. And I think of her alot and miss her so much. I see her when looked at Shauna like a friend.
It’s such a delicate topic. I honestly wouldn’t have said much either if I was in one of those chairs, especially if you have a very strong stand on your opinion, one way or the other and if it doesn’t align with the other person in the conversation, there’s no point to argue about it.
She might've had a rough day/night, or week. I don't watch this channel normally but I heard she's a mom so lol everyone has their days, especially new/er moms. Can't always be peppy and energetic.
it could be because like how shauna said that people walk around eggshells when talking to her so she probably didnt want to say much because she didnt want to make shauna feel bad in some shape or form or also because it is the internet and people will ALWAYS have something negative to say regardless what youre posting. or like how other people said in the comments.... she probably is having a bad day week
I know people should mind their own business and it must get frustrating but sometimes I’m sure it’s with good intentions to protect someone who they perceive as a child unknowingly. Thank you so much for fighting for safe places and eduction!
Some families that own a bar, kids will be hanging around. When I lived in the UK, parents that ran a bar or pub their young kids would be hanging round.
i had addict parents.. i fell asleep in the car most nights, because i’d been stuck at the bar every afternoon/evening. once older.. like 10 or 11, i ran a business of entertaining other ppl’s children each night, so that parents weren’t annoyed by them.. i felt like a boss, making 20-60$ nightly, and charged more on weekends. lol i learned to hustle from the bar at way too early of an age; thanks to a bunch of addiction parents.
Abby lol 31:59 mmm 🤔 I know what she’s thinking lol Abby you get more and more classy with every interview. You’re intelligent, and you know what and what not to say… this episode proves it 😉 I’m sure you had a lot to say but didn’t want to seem offensive or rude. Proud of you Abby! Great interview guys!
Such a beautiful interview:) there is so much to learn here she is so funny and so brave and strong so beautifully her I love everything about it I pray all of her days are so beautiful
I love love love this podcast, but the episode was not my favorite 🥺. I also really missed hearing Abby she was so quiet, but I appreciate Matt for being an amazing host as usual ❤❤❤
I can see why she isn’t for everyone, I think she uses humor because of all the experiences she’s been through. But she had a lot of great insight and a lot of wisdom, very articulate once you got past the judgement.
You should interview Miss Rachel!
I second this!
AHHHHH!!! I WOULD LOVE THIS!
Yes!!
Bring the kids too! They would love it ❤
yesss
LOVE that Matt was so quick to say “No it’s not fine” because it is not! As someone who has been in a physically abusive relationship, I think it so easy to down play our experience because we already lived it.
Yes, it brought me to tears when he said that.
Me too. I heard one in four and teared up, I’m one in four 😢 I’m so sorry to anyone who has been hurt by a loved
Exactly
Well..... He may want to objectively apply it to his own relationship then.
You people will believe any sob story people tell
i love how matt was genuinely asking questions and being really respectful and understanding while asking and really trying to understand the answers
He didn't care to include his wife Abby in the conversation.
Also, he obviously loves the camera and attention, including doing every single sponsered ad. It's extremely weird and felt so uncomfortable watching
@ you could tell abby was a bit uncomfortable and kinda awkward in some spots in the conversation, not his fault, he was being genuinely respectful about the whole conversation at hand and was intrigued.
Me too!
She’s matured incredibly well since the show started. I love her mindset as well! Shes intelligent and articulate. I hope she has a long lasting relationship with her boyfriend too!
She really has! I just watched, what I’m assuming, is one of the first episodes and she was so childlike and I was so upset at her parents because they treated her that way. It seem like very limiting for her. It looks like the show helps A LOT!
@ComeSeeVee Fr! She's matured so much and doesn't seem like she's constantly trying to overcompensate to be treated like an adult anymore, it's great to see
To be fair, her parents did hinder her in that regard. They were very over protective. Rightfully so given the circumstances. But her lack of maturity wasnt really her fault.
She really hasnt. She's extremely immature for her age.
@titusfishbomb3895 your making this judgment based on your own personally witnessed average standards. Your argument is irrelevant in this circumstance. But whatever you want to think bud.
I can see a lot of people aren’t happy with this interview but I really appreciated it. Thank you, Shauna, for being so open and honest with everything you’ve experienced. I like her a lot!
No one’s hating on Shauna. They’re hating on Matt speaking the whole time and Abby never getting to
SAME SAME SAME
@MiaLucifer I've not seen 1 comment and I went thru a lot of them that said anything about Matt whatsoever. You are the only one. Lot's about Shawna and good amount about Abbey but zero about Matt. This is his podcast. It's an interview style podcast! They literally ask questions of every guest they have on. This isn't the Shawna show.
@MiaLuciferAbbey is a very capable woman who has no problem speaking up when she wants to. How rude to portray her as some weak, suppressed, woman.
@holliewood55totally agree 👍
Watching her smile through the trauma of explaining her abusive relationship was heartbreaking. She’s a strong woman
YESSSS
Yaaasss queeen, slay! Muh strong wamen!
I AM ABOUT TO CRY!!😢 Bc I am a disabled person and I just heard Shauna Rae say.. “Disabled people can do the same things as abled people, we just take a different avenue to get there.” I hardly ever feel understood and she makes me feel understood and makes me believe more in myself!! ALSO,I AGREE WITH ABBY THAT SHE’S POWERFUL!!
AND REALLY COOL!!
It might just take you longer to do something then the other people
I agree with this too. I have mild cerebral palsy and shorter than most people. People say she can’t do this. I say No, I can do it but I do it differently
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I had a learning disability growing up in couldn't remeber alot of things for school. So I didn't learn like everyone else, I had to tell a boss the other day someone explained something to me. But my brain needs you to show me how to do it. Some times I still struggle. And I was in a class thag had extra help. And not everyone knows unless I say something. I use to struggle alot in my early 20s but I'm trying so hard now to learn and write everything down to remeber. I'm probably a little bit taller then Shauna but not buy much tbh.
Abby is so checked out during this episode lol
Big time
I can’t blame her I checked out early myself!😂
Might have something to do with shauna literally locked into a conversation with Matt . Abby’s completely blocked out. Zero eye contact, neither of them are including Abby, nor giving any opening to her. It’s definitely a vibe the guest is putting off towards Abby. Imo.
Agreed
she seems to me like she doesn't feel well maybe? Geeze so judgy are we?
I love that she keeps her boyfriend's identity private 🥺 I love her so much 😍
She keeps him private to gain more attention
@CrisTay-um1mfshe keeps him private because people online will call him a predator and go after him.
@CrisTay-um1mfor he’s not real 😂
Nobody cares- that's why
@CrisTay-um1mfthat’s literally like the opposite of what would happen
Shauna is awesome! Unapologetic about her viewpoints because she's carefully thought about everything and has a strong sense of self.
“I’ve always been a little more mature….” woww
People have such a problem with someone being authentically themseleves. Just because someone makes you uncomfortable doesnt mean there is anything wrong with them.
Our world is diverse and if all you do is watch interviews to judge and comment about how she acted like XYZ then obviously you have bigger things to worry about!
Im genuinely really suprised at the negative comments? She just came on here and talked about her experiences let her be omg
Thank youuuuu like what are these people are talking about!
Exactly!!!!!! Thank youuuu!!
Those people are viewing her as a child, unfortunately. If an average sized adult woman with a regular voice sat there and said all these same things, people wouldn't be making these comments.They'd view her differently.
@AreYouABadfishToo roger dodger
Shauna seems cool. Matt and Abbey were awkward 😬
I have so much respect for her. Not only to face adversity with a disability but also in so many other avenues discussed here. I just am in awe of the woman she is. Feeling really thankful to have found this. Thank you for shining a light on Shauna. She's definitely gained me as a fan.
I love this! I myself have dwarfism, I’m 45 years old and people treat me like I’m a child. Like they ask weird questions and don’t realise that they are offending you. Like I just went grocery shopping the other day, and some random guy came up and asked me where my parents were and who was shopping with me. It really made me feel a little upset. It’s so hard to deal with things like that. So I know exactly how you feel. People really should actually be more careful about what they say. Especially when you’re grocery shopping. They see you pushing the buggy by yourself, so obviously you’re an adult and not a child. It gets frustrating. And then when someone tells you that you’re so adorable! I’m not a child, or a cute furry animal! I AM AN ADULT!
If someone had questioned the boys who kidnapped James Bulgar in more detail... he would be in his mid thirties by now.
I get it must be frustrating but checking in what you think is a child and no obvious parents in site with a buggy is normal.
Obviously depending on their response when they realise may mean they ARE an arsehole!
@pippastjohnsmith1299The thing is, some people did ask those boys. James was crying, and the boys told the people who asked that they were James’ brothers, and were taking him home.
@stevencass8849 yes, it is sad.
That is why i said 'questioned them in more detail'
Shauna does look like a child, but adult dwarfs don’t. If ppl weren’t so ignorant they could tell in an instant. They don’t look like children.
That must be so frustrating😢
Like its crazy how people treat her like a child when shes clearly an adult. Dwarfism has been around for a long time and theres so many forms of it. Never judge a book by its cover you know. You can tell by the way she carries herself, shes not a child. Wishing pure happiness for her
Shauna is an inspiration to more people than she realizes! She speaks up for people and brings comfort and security to people who need it who do not fit in with the world! I loe that about her so much!
Nah
@ apparently she has some kind of affect on you if you are watching this video!🤣
Abby seems super uncomfortable.. I hope she's ok
@moderator7169 a little extreme? Lol 😆
Omg yes how traumatic and horrible this must have been u should message her
she just seems really tired tbh
She shouldnt be acting stand offish...this is her job FFS
Put an adult sized human with a lower pitched voice in that seat speaking the words she is speaking, and i bet noone judges the same. This was a great episode, and i think Abby was just absorbing everything she said and was letting her have her moment to explain it all...I absolutely LOVED this episode!!! So eye opening...
💯 yep yep yep
I agree!!
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Exactly. I don't understand why she ruffles so many feathers. It seems like they take her vivacious and no bs personality as rude and I don't see that at all. She seems like a lovely person and I love learning more about her and her life. 💕
Yes. Even an average size woman and average woman voice saying the exact things she said. I don’t think any difference in Abby has to do with her being small.
I would love to know your guys personal conversation between the two of you after Shauna has left.
Pleaseeee😅😅
literally thinking the same thing
Cancer can definitely mess with your hormones. My son had cancer at age 4 and MANY people tried to reassure me that they knew someone who had cancer as a child and was still able to have children. Umm what??? That wasn’t even on the last page of all my concerns for him. I just wanted him cured. And he was. He’s a senior in HS now and has remained in remission for 11 years. I still am unbothered by whether he can or cannot have his own children: he’s alive and healthy.
No of course you weren’t concerned about that. They probably didn’t think of her reproducing when she was fighting to get over the cancer either. It became an issue years later when she wanted to have children. It’s a whole terribly sad situation for all of you. I wish a long health life for your son.
Great to hear your son is doing well!
and he can always adopt if he can't and if he doesn't want kids that's fine too
Why does your story sound so similar to the kid in my grade in my class from 8th-10th grade who also had cancer
@nmand idk but I hope your classmate is alive and healthy. Cancer is a beast
After reading through a lot of the comments I just find it really sad that a lot of these people can't seem to put themselves in her shoes, but they are still willing to judge her and make assumptions about her. Living with a disability in an ableist society is really tough and this comment section shows it. I am grateful for the people talking with kindness and offering different perspectives.
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I think some people are empathetic towards that aspect. I think it's her personality that is off-putting. It has developed due to her past, but she's an adult now so she either overcomes or doesn't.
Shauna set baby straight after her comment saying oh your so spunky like Abby wouldn't say that to any other 25 year old woman and Shauna set her straight by saying comments like that still sound condescending she is more mature than Abby who I can't stand
Typo on word baby was supposed to say abby
I love matt and how hes maturing.
I really don't understand the negativity towards Shauna. What I am seeing and hearing is a strong confident woman who is not letting her circumstances take her down.
@babybowzerfor the last 25 years of her life, every single day she has been called a child and treated as such. She is used to the daily routine of someone acting like she is a 10 year old, when in reality is an adult with adult responsibilities. I think that instead of a victim personality, it’s more of a regulated response to the day to day interactions she faces.
I think you have to watch all of the episodes of her show to truly understand what it is ppl don't like. It's more complicated than this interview. She seems fine in this interview.
@breezeh1127 I have watched all of the episodes.
@kathyjam2482 Well they are nit referring to this clip. They are referring to how onnone had she claims to be independent and doesn't need anyone but them gets super whiney and seems to embrace her disability to the point of embodying all it's limits instead of trying to overcome what she can. She turns back into a child very quickly when faced with hard things and hides unde her parents care. That's what ppl mean.
@ayvahbellexactly, it's about everyday fighting to be taken seriously and seen as the adult that she is
I feel like Abby backed off because she came in with energy said "I love how strong and spunky you are!" and Shauna immediately says something to the effect of "
People always compliment me with a stereotypical motive.... that totally insinuated that Abby's compliment was based on ulterior motives
I doubt it as Abbie repeated the same comments at the end.
Totally agree! It seemed like Abbey was really uncomfortable and unused to talking openly about disability. Her compliments come off as othering and Shauna was right to call that out. Abbey has to sit with those uncomfortable feelings and learn. Shauna seems like she has some growing to do as well but they are all young- about the same age.
But abby also interviewed someone else with a disability worse than shauna....the guests name was abby as well , she has autism , and she was just fine with her soooo..
@ I don’t think you should be declaring whose disability is worse.
in the first 8 min shauna says the same thing about how other peoples compliments are fundamentally condiscending, usually or exclusively about her doing everyday things. im a compliment hater too, since i dont do anything amazing by world or personal standard that warrants compliments.
As someone who deals with health issues and is married, I really appreciated when Shauna Rae talked about people criticizing her ability to be a wife because of her disability. She points out that there’s nothing wrong with an able bodied person choosing to marry a person who has different abilities. 💕
“i’ve always been more mature for my age” -- flashback to that fit she threw in the halloween store dressing room lol
Yes let's judge her for one instance that was televised out of the thousands of hours they had where she was calm but calm doesn't make good TLC television (ironic it's called Tender Loving Care but they push the opposite more)
@ImChickenLittleTLC stands for "The Learning Channel" btw 🤣
@ImChickenLittleShe was nasty and rude and pouty the whole time on the show.
As for the advertisement, I don't feel good after running, cause if I'm running, then something is chasing me.😂
I hope they do another season of her show. Thank you, Matt and Abby. I really enjoyed this interview.
Thank you for opening up! This video is going to reach and teach many.
There have been times when clips of Shauna’s comments or beliefs have rubbed me the wrong way but I always kept it in mind those are edited with the purpose of eliciting a response. This interview to me proves that she doesn’t actually get on my nerves at all. I see a fair share of hate comments and I really can’t relate. I thought she was honest and polite and interesting to listen to.
I’m really happy Shuana found her person and is living more independently like how she wanted❤
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I am glad that Shauna got out of that abusive relationship.
It would be a blast to have some cocktails with Shauna! She was hilarious on the show. It was nice to see her here again. ❤
I have watched Shauna's show on TLC and had a lot of respect for her. After watching this, I am so impressed with her resolve. To be a woman of short stature and to be so comfortable with her body and so confident in herself at her age is very impressive. As a disabled adult I totally understand what she means about people being happy with themselves & their life. So many people do nothing but complain about their disability, but do nothing to help themselves.
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Yes!❤
wow, what an incredibly wise, strong, confident, intelligent and humorous woman. In a metaphorical sense, she is many times larger than her body indicates I wish her all the best that life has to offer her.
fr she's admirable
I loved her show, but there's something uncomfortable about this..Shawna said a few offensive comments and other comments that just sounds really stuck up and out of touch and her answers are all over, I think she caught herself a few times before she said other non sensitive comments or story. Its just odd..
I respect Shauna Rae in the most difficult situation and I like that about her I think she is very smart knowing what she wants in life and I am a very happy that she went into this interview with Matt and Abby
Great episode!!!! Your guests always surprise me & they always turn out SO good. Thanks Matt & Abby! ❤
i am so proud of you Shauna Rae, you are such a huge inspiration to everyone.
Not really
No, she isn't. She's be immature, has a victim mentality and is entitled..this was not a good interview..
As a wheelchair user when she is talking about bad connotation of words YES. Also she’s so correct unfortunately with how competitive this community can be🥺 but it can be beautiful to have friendships with people who relate. Absolutely love that you had her on. Thank you!
Except she said "wheelchair bound" and wheelchair users know our chair is our freedom and you don't say that. She also said handicapped so she has a lot to learn about words herself. We can all keep learning.
I miss the Shauna Rae tv show. She is such a beautiful and brave woman . I pray that she will have a successful and loving relationship in her future 🙏🏽❣️
is there not gonna be season 3?😪
I feel like Matt is really improving his interviewing skills. This was a great interview. I always like when Abby pops in too!
"Well can i still get your number?"
"Fine im bored!"
What!? Haha
Where?
@gracewilliams548 around 58:40... it was a weird story. even if I was bored, if I was not interested in a guy, personally I would NOT give out my number.
Why not 🤣
The fact that she talked openly about her abusive relationship without breaking down is incredible!
WOW this was so great! Thank you for sharing! Shauna is so intelligent & commendable I just love how she just stands so tall from the inside out love her energy! So happy so found the love of her life, her soulmate so sweet.
Shauna Rae is so intelligent and a very interesting young woman. Loved this interview with her.
Matt really carried a great convo. Shauna Rae seems like such a put together person.
The only thing I got from this was. Of course Matt’s favorite liquid IV flavor is cotton candy lol
I don't think Abby was rude or disinterested during this episode. As she explained at the end (and she did apologise for not talking more), she was letting Matt lead and giving Shauna plenty of opportunity to talk. Both Matt and Abby are always so non-judgemental and gracious in the way they interact with other people, even if they have different morals from them. E.g. Shauna clearly does not believe it would be best to save sex until the commitment of marriage, as Matt and Abby do, but not once did Matt or Abby step in and suggest this to her and that it might have spared her a lot of grief. I was super impressed how respectful and empathetic Matt and Abby were when they interviewed Taylor Odlozil (Ep. 87), as Abby's tears throughout and the way they gave him space to speak showed. Matt and Abby have loving hearts ❤
CLEARLY you believe ANYTHING Abby says, BECAUSE it's all bs
Absolutely not! I just believe in thinking the best and being a peacemaker and that you can't assume someone is rude and disinterested if they don't say much - they may not be able to get a word in or they may be feeling uncomfortable!
@CrisTay-um1mfIm curious - why do you say that ? Cause they’re online personalities so they’re obviously fake - or has she done something?
I kind of feel like after Abby called her Spunky, and Shauna replied with basically compliments like that can be discriminatory- Abby seemed to shut down after that.
I didn't like hearing Abby say "hmm" while Shauna was speaking. Let the guest speak without making your little noises. 🙄
I love Shauna's REAL view of life and the way people are perceived. She is so intelligent, humble and compassionate about others and an inspiration to all sorts of backgrounds.
Also why would her parents have her at the bar at 10?! Even if they owned it!! They’re just asking for trouble 😢
Yeah that’s just weird… I used to go to the karaoke bar that my dad worked at with him, but only before they opened. Who lets a 10 year old regularly hang out at a bar??
I thought she is an adult
if you listen to the whole interview, she was telling a story about being 10 years old at her family owned bar. A pedo followed her into a bathroom because he knew she was always there. At 10 years old!!
@katwesigyemarjorie9920she was talking about her childhood
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Why would anyone want to hurt this beautiful soul
Matt really carried this interview. He’s always trying to get more insight but he really seemed to care and carry the conversation. Abby was noticeably uncomfortable which is very common for Shauna to experience, most women can’t see her as a woman bc she so much so resembles a child still.
And acts like a child
@AdrienneM08yes…I usually think someone’s personality and attitude usurps how they look, but there’s something still childish about Shauna. Maybe some sort of entitlement? I can’t really pinpoint it so would like to hear why other people think this way too.
@MLGDuckkI think it's just her voice and her visibly looking like a child. She doesn't act like a child especially in the interview so not sure what you mean.
Would LOVE to see you do an episode with Tara from little women! She is a momma too and great at raising awareness
Ahhh i miss seeing Shauna loved the show. Wonderful STRONG WOMAN
THE SIDE OF THE ROAD AND HE'S GOING TO GET TO HER AND THAT'S AMAZING 😭
I understand how she feels because I have Lupus and Fibromyalgia and other health issues. Some people look at me and say “You don’t look sick!” I’m almost 60 and still here people tell me that I’m way too young to be sick. Like age has anything to do with it.! People just assume I’m fine because the way I look and that’s always upset me.
I totally understand why Abby isn’t saying much. Sometimes that’s the best approach to take. I don’t perceive it as being rude. Besides, it’s not like she’s getting the opportunity to ask questions
This interview is about Shauna, so why are people expecting Abbey to be speaking a certain amount of words per minute? 🤷🏾♀️
I totally agree
I had a best friend in high school, and I treated her just like any other friends of mine. But our bond was special enough where i could take her from class to class and not get in trouble for it. And helped her out of the school before an assembly or prep rally was over. And those little things helped both of us out in completely different way. She isn't on socialmedia, so its very hard for me to get back touch with her. And I think of her alot and miss her so much. I see her when looked at Shauna like a friend.
4th also ive been waiting since the short you posted
Omggggg I wish her show would come back on TLC❤
Shauna is like me if I didn’t have growth hormone
Abby seemed extra quiet when she talked about pro choice
It’s such a delicate topic. I honestly wouldn’t have said much either if I was in one of those chairs, especially if you have a very strong stand on your opinion, one way or the other and if it doesn’t align with the other person in the conversation, there’s no point to argue about it.
A person can provide humanity and dignity and humor and integrity.
I’m number 14 in the comments!!!! lol I was dying for this episode to drop.
So educational… what a great interview!
Would be really cool to see you guys interview Adam and Danielle Busby from TLC's show OutDaughtered!
abby was not feeling this one
Agreed, can you blame her lol
I know she seemed actually uncomfortable at times
She might've had a rough day/night, or week. I don't watch this channel normally but I heard she's a mom so lol everyone has their days, especially new/er moms. Can't always be peppy and energetic.
@youcantdiealonewithcats no
it could be because like how shauna said that people walk around eggshells when talking to her so she probably didnt want to say much because she didnt want to make shauna feel bad in some shape or form or also because it is the internet and people will ALWAYS have something negative to say regardless what youre posting. or like how other people said in the comments.... she probably is having a bad day week
Oh my gosh I forgot about her!! So glad to see her on your podcast! ☺️
how can there be 4 sponcers on 1 podcast i throt it was not possible
I don't think she sounds immature. Not sure why people are being so rude.❤
Matt never watched a single episode or a trailer for her tlc show
I know people should mind their own business and it must get frustrating but sometimes I’m sure it’s with good intentions to protect someone who they perceive as a child unknowingly. Thank you so much for fighting for safe places and eduction!
Ok but why was a 10 year old in a bar regularly?!
Some families that own a bar, kids will be hanging around. When I lived in the UK, parents that ran a bar or pub their young kids would be hanging round.
i had addict parents.. i fell asleep in the car most nights, because i’d been stuck at the bar every afternoon/evening.
once older.. like 10 or 11, i ran a business of entertaining other ppl’s children each night, so that parents weren’t annoyed by them.. i felt like a boss, making 20-60$ nightly, and charged more on weekends. lol
i learned to hustle from the bar at way too early of an age; thanks to a bunch of addiction parents.
she probably looked way younger too at 10
I grew up in a bar because my mom worked there, but after a certain time kids aren’t allowed in anyway
it was her uncles?? lolol
No WAY Shauna REA what! That’s crazy🤯🤯I LOVE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOVE this podcast!! The Best!! Love yall
I love that she is an advocate for education and women’s health. The way Shauna explains herself is so clear and heartfelt.
Weird vibes man..weird vibes
No what's weird is all the hate comments you've left Lindsey ward
@jasl9987 have literally left no hate comments lol
My aunt and uncle were both small ppl. They were just amazing
I was literally just watching her randomly theses past couple of days and she’s on Matt and Abby now?!?
literally same
0:40 she’s gone through so much, i feel so bad for her
You should interview Ben and Jen from the little couple!
I subscribed to shaunaRae tonight. I’m glad I watched your podcast tonight.
I like Shauna Rae I miss her show💯♥️
I love Shunas show on TLC, I really hope another season is coming out! ❤
Shauna, you seem like such a cool person to be around!! Was so excited to see this episode since you were being interviewed and it did not disappoint.
Love this interview! I always forget how intelligent she is!! She knows what is up out there!
Abby lol 31:59 mmm 🤔 I know what she’s thinking lol Abby you get more and more classy with every interview. You’re intelligent, and you know what and what not to say… this episode proves it 😉 I’m sure you had a lot to say but didn’t want to seem offensive or rude.
Proud of you Abby!
Great interview guys!
I love her so much. Idk why, she just seems cool af. I've always been so interested in people living unique lives
Adopting a child doesnt stop them from having mental health to handle. She really needs to think before she speaks.
Such a great interview!
Her voice is so prettyyyy 😍
Such a beautiful interview:) there is so much to learn here she is so funny and so brave and strong so beautifully her I love everything about it I pray all of her days are so beautiful
I love love love this podcast, but the episode was not my favorite 🥺. I also really missed hearing Abby she was so quiet, but I appreciate Matt for being an amazing host as usual ❤❤❤
I absolutely love her energy, her understanding, and especially her strength! What an amazing human!
That fertility doctor sucks. I got pregnant with a .13 ovarian reserve
No way!! i used to watch all the drama videos with shauna rae!
I can see why she isn’t for everyone, I think she uses humor because of all the experiences she’s been through. But she had a lot of great insight and a lot of wisdom, very articulate once you got past the judgement.
I mean I think it's her defense mechanism..
I have a 9 year old daughter and people think I am a kid but I sm 29 and when I tell them they go no way