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@danielabeasley @@millingabout2447 "Almost" happened with the Gabriel Fernandez case but of course did not, thanks to the Spineless Judge & PA's. Every one of those lazy, incompetent, slovenly CPS Workers should have went to Prison. EVERYONE in that childs life failed him. I will never forget that poor little Angel or his Story & then a similar case in the same area happened very shortly after Gabriel. The only (can't even think of an appropriate word to describe the feeling, so I will use "thing"), but the only positive "thing" that has come from Gabriel's story is that his Mother is/has been "strongly punished" by fellow inmates ever since they found out what landed her in Prison. That's the one good thing about Inmates in Prison, they do not like or tolerate any other inmate who has harmed a child. It happens A LOT, we just don't get to hear about it very often is because it makes the Prison Systems look bad. I only accidentally found out about it after researching & stumbling across some Podcaster that interviews released inmates that weren't afraid to tell what they had witnessed. Same goes for all the crime on the streets that our Officers risk their lives to clean up only for the Cowards/Spineless that run our Criminal Justice Systems who turn around & let the monsters right back out on the streets with slaps on the wrists, plea deals, early releases, inadequate sentences & so much more. It's beyond disgusting & disturbing. YT will probably delete this comment because it's all truth & facts, & for some sick reason, they do not allow that.
They didn't fail, they kept a person under the custody of someone that would give them more case time which gives more money. It's all a game and they know exactly how to play it!
@@Catn255my ex worked for CPS, showing your child p*rn is makes it incredibly easy to get your custody taken away especially if it's CPS reporting it so I doubt the CPS workers were escalating properly
@Catn255 The judges see the defendant in the courtroom only. CPS is much more involved. Home visits with the children family and yhe offending parent on a weekly basis. Bringing up the 40k salary per year means nothing. They choose their profession and are utterly derelict in the responsibility bestowed to them.
Ive been watching body cam footage a lot for the last couple weeks and theres never been one where the cops have all this probable cause and reasonable suspicion, or WAYYYY less, and LET THE PERSON GO. Nevermind, DRIVING THEM HOME. Absolutely disgusting. So many people dropped the ball while being involved in all this and it's horrifying
Judges are never held responsible for anything, ever. They have immunity built into the law. A judge can do what he wants, and at most, the decision can be over-ruled by a higher court. But the judge will still be a judge. No matter how ridiculous their rulings or abusive and inept they are - the judge will not be sued or criminally charged. They can't be.
Let me get this straight… You pull over a vehicle that has blood everywhere and shotgun, shells and bullet holes in a car seat and you let the woman go because she was cold and becoming uncooperative?? Those officers should lose their job immediately
@@thematic3893 watch the end of the video where it's revealed that a similar situation occurred with a father. Gender doesn't matter in this regard and it's as simple as that
There has to be a point where CPS can be Charged with the death of a child when they discover a child in this condition and a parent who is obviously a threat to the child and the wellbeing of the child. This is one of the worst cases I’ve heard of and CPS should be held accountable
not really. this is america so if it's government or police, their level of responsibility is much lower than the average citizen. we dont get immunity for not knowing the law, only the enforcers of such law are. it's backwards, but thats the usa.
I don't know if that's meant to be a joke but that's a messed up joke cuz it blows your mind like Elis head off his shoulders while he was still in the car seat 🤢🤮
I guess the same can go for the father at the end of this video that was awarded custody of his seven children, and turned around and killed a few people with them present@@prettiestgirlmusa
It's mind boggling. I have no words, but am filled with disgust, anger, but also sorrow, for that poor little boy who had no choice or say in the matter
This is utterly disgraceful! Everybody involved in sending that poor boy back to the ABUSIVE, DISGUSTING, EVIL CREATURE he called mom, should all be behind bars! My heart hurts for Eli and his Dad!
@@wrappedaroundmyfinger Statistically speaking, men are more likely to lose their children from false accusations than they are to get away with abuse.
I live in Oklahoma & DHS here is F-ING useless!!! I will agree that social workers are overworked & under paid. However that does NOT excuse the fact that there are THOUSANDS of children in DHS custody that are “missing.” They can’t find them!!! SHAME on the people that swore to save children be SO CARELESS!!!
@@Tatt2ed82man when I’m dealing with anything corporate I ask for a Caucasian. When I got shot the black nurses where so rude, they didn’t gaf, on they phone all the time. I swear most blacks people are just hired for diversity. We need to step it up
i’m so sorry you have to deal with that. it’s crazy how the courts always give the mother custody no matter how abusive they are. it’s a huge issue and i can’t imagine the anger and pain that would cause as a father
Dakota county and CPS should be sued by Eli's father! He was the ONLY person who cared about that little boy! This is a HUGE miscarriage of justice and that poor child paid with his life!
There was one in my neck of the woods in Elk River a handful of years ago with the same outcome. I think the whole state needs a major overhaul. The mother was begging the cops to go check on her kid, who was with the dad and his gf or new wife, and they wouldn't let them in the apartment and the cops didn't even press it. The excuse was COVID and they were fine just looking up at their apartment. I think the kid was starved and beaten to death.
This proves that the argument of moms are better parents than men is sexist and plain ignorant. Instead of just looking at the evidence at hand based on facts they based it on emotions. They don’t want to help men. They only will favor the mother.
@@vaska1999 Of course The government has set itself up to be held unaccountable, and will continue to do so until the people have no rights. We think this is a democracy, but it isnt.
It's ridiculous, but you can't sue judges. The judge did something similar in the case of baby Iris in New Castle PA. He should've never given unsupervised visits to the dad and his girlfriend after the evidence he was presented, but unfortunately, these decisions keep being made by judges over and over again. The system needs reformatted to say the least.
I do not, nor will I ever understand this delusion the courts have that children belong with their biological mothers. WRONG. Children belong with the parent that proves time and again they are capable and willing to care for and love the child. Wake up, justice system! Make better choices and actually PAY ATTENTION TO FACTS.
That whole county needs to be investigated. That judge needs to be relieved of his duty and disbarred!!! I pray that the father wins his lawsuit!! WTH is going on in Minnesota???!!!
As a retired licensed therapist, i have to say that CPS is a total failure. I am still haunted by a case i was involved in many years ago, and it's only gotten worse.
As a guy holding a diploma in International Policy and Conflict Resolution, everything on that front is also a failure. I was on the MUN team that went to nationals and took it when I was in university. I'll also say the United Nations is a failure. I work professionally as an archaeologist and anthropologist and the common denominator that I see in all Socio-Political failures is the simple fact that everyone just wants to point fingers at nameless people and agencies to solve everything. Nothing will change or get better until more people decide to take things into their own hand and getting directly involved themselves. Dumping off responsibility on government and organizations is just how we open up windows for dereliction of duty and corruption.
@@jodiforeman3314 It's simple they won't. Have you ever been to the DMV? That's what we get from our government. Why would any other facet be any different?
The judge and CPS murdered Eli. As a past foster parent, you learn in training that the state will always choose family and aim for reunification. That means anyone who fosters will be handing their kids back, often directly into harm. This is why no one fosters - it is heartbreaking. It ends up being a majority who use it as a source of income. RIP Eli
This is standard in Dakota county. My sons mom was labeled dangerous by her therapist and my son’s therapist and they still were pushing for reunification. It has to be reapproached at 365 days to see if she’s still a viable option. They extended it two more times. After a long two years and 20k plus spent by me, I finally got full custody of my son. His mom only sees him twice a month supervised by me
This is why my husband and I can’t foster. We would not be able to be kind or understanding of the family members and we would find it impossible to give kids back to bad families. It’s truly infuriating that reunification is always the goal. That’s why there are so many older kids with severe trauma in foster care. They need to remove them when they are young and give them a max of 6 months to fix things and if not those babies become available for adoption!
You have to understand when you’re fostering, they’re still not your kids so of course you have to give them back. Fostering is temporary housing but many foster parents believe the kids become their kids, which they don’t. I think people who want to foster need to understand they are only housing kids temporarily and the kids don’t belong to them.
@@GodLovesYou1624 I’m so sorry that is happening to you. As someone who grew up without a father, you are the true definition of a loving parent. Don’t let the idiots in the system wear you down.
@@lightarmy.888 No one denies that fostering is temporary. The denial occurs in the belief the system wouldn’t place kids in harm’s way. It does. Often. And that’s the true reveal of being a foster parent: this cycle of abuse is entirely and easily preventable.
This is beyond devastating. I am in school obtaining my Bachelor's in Social Work. It is unforgivable what this social worker and judge did to Eli. Systems are put in place to protect children, and when the people within those systems fail to do their jobs, they need to be held accountable. Reunification was unnecessary in Eli's case, and it doesn't take a license in social work to see that. Many new DCFS and social work procedures aim to keep families together and avoid removing children from their homes. This is not one of those cases where these methods should've been applied. I commend Eli's father for suing Dakota County, and I hope everyone who failed to protect a little boy's life faces accountability for their failures.
The judge that let her have that child, the social worker, the police who didn't search the car and drove her home, wow. They should all be charged for being contributors to that childs death and failure to investigate. Enough is enough with this incompetence.
Unfortunately the POS judge in this case got to retire and is reaping all the financial benefits. Bet he doesn't even think about Eli and what he did. Complete negligence & extremely infuriating!
@@eko4749they didn’t feel they had enough probable cause so they submitted a search warrant based off of everything they saw because they wanted to search the truck but you need good evidence or a search warrant to do it. The judge agreed. They cannot hold her any longer than they need to per the 4th amendment. It’s considered an unconstitutional seizure for me to hold you longer than I have a reasonable articulable suspicion or probable cause to do so
@@jazzymedic7702understood they didn’t think they had PC to detain and search, but what we’re all flabbergasted by is why blood, bullet holes, missing tire, ammunition strewn about the car, etc didn’t reach the bar of probable cause.
8:02 that firearms store should be held accountable for selling that weapon to an individual with history of numerous mental health cases. That is a violation on her part for denying that information on the application. As a gun owner of 5, i know the process well and am in utter shock and disbelief she actually walked out that store the SAME DAY with a weapon in hand. Im military with a history of a single petty theft from before i joined the military and even I have to wait 3 days before im approved for my firearm. That is insane. That poor child. RIP little prince.
That's not how the law works. Courts wouldn't take away custody from either parents based on one failed drug test. If they did, people would be screaming and crying about that.
@@allieannette3712: F*ck 'em, it's quite simple. Don't do drugs. How hard can that be? Parents need to be held accountable for their actions & poor decision-making. It's what cost this "family" everything.
@@davidcosta2244 Very few people care about who they're actually voting for when it comes to any position other than the president. Most just stick to one party because it's easier than doing research.
@@jfloyupyupthe gun store wouldn’t know anything about it her history aside from running her background check. The system should have kept her from passing that background check due to her mental health issues so the fault would be on her providers and le for not updating it.
@@Haydini69 Yes exactly. The court systems failed numerous times where they shouldn't have, well before a gun was involved. This is all on this witch of a woman and the ''child protective services''
The system isn't funded appropriately to work and how can you hold a 'system' liable. That's like saying a badly-designed road is 'liable' for someone's dead.
@@wiseguysoutdoors2954 that's not how the system works. And good thing, too. Do you think CPS workers- already underpaid and overworked- would risk being held 'accountable' whatever that means for mistakes. Mistakes that are bound to happen in such an underfunded public sector? Also, again, saying "the system" should be held accountable is so broad it hardly means anything.
@@allieannette3712 CPS workers do not care about being held accountable, because they never will be. The courts are far from underfunded friend. The simple fact is, they don't care. The courts do not care, CPS does not care, and the people who run and maintain these things do not care. Sure there may be outliers which happen, both in cases where children are actually protected and people in these systems who do care. However - we see time and time again these "mistakes" are a repeated and constant sent of "mistakes" which occur far more frequently than one might like to think. True, saying that "The System" should be held accountable is broad, yet any reasonable person can understand what that actually entails. That simply entails holding those who put him in that situation accountable by charging them with neglect for failing to do the very thing their jobs exist for. The main people being the Judges who constantly placed him back in his mothers care after she has been shown time and time again to be a complete danger to herself and - more importantly- her child. The only way for CPS to actually function anymore is to upturn and redo the whole CPS system. Put in people who actually care for the children involved in these cases, and make laws even clearer than they are.
Based on Minnesota law the parent has to be compliant, she was NOT compliant and failed everything the courts asked her to do and mandated her to do but still gave that beautiful angel back to her! The state of Minnesota should be held accountable along with everyone who failed that little boy!
@@tammyharper6583no need to wonder that. Definitely not. I wonder if it would have been the same for a man in general. Escort him home because he’s cold and impatient
It is mind boggling that the cops just let this person go. I mean, "Some kids shot my vehicle. That's not blood, it's deer meat. There's a farm round here."
Some of the worst police work I've ever seen. Note to criminals, cops in Orono will just give you a ride home with blood and brain matter all over your car that is missing a tire and has it's rear window and a car seat shot out. What in the actual f$%k.
They had to let her go. She was getting fussy so they had no choice to let her go. That's the law. MN State Statute 91.61c states that you must release someone who is being detained if they get mildly agitated.
This channel deserves way more recognition!!!! This is hands down the most researched and detailed video/story I’ve ever seen on RUclips. Gained a new subscriber for sure!!!!!! Anyone who agrees 👇
It’s because some studies find it best to reunify and everything has to be evidence based. We all know that studies can have manipulated statistical analysis and can be open to research biases. And the kids just suffer on😢
@@Doodoohead725 as someone who works adjacent to cps, I disagree wholeheartedly. The workers who care her burned out fast because of their caseload. Better funding would keep them in the field longer. Fewer cases would allow workers to build closer relationships with the kids they are overseeing. Not saying it would help this particular case, but in general it would help significantly.
It took me nearly 2 years to get custody of my sons when they were babies! Their mom had drug problems, yet I still had to fight the system until I got custody and saved my boys lives! This is something that shouldn’t happen just because I’m a man…
^^ Anything to push religion. Sometimes a man fights hard enough to get something done. Raven.. I had the same thing. Was a battle. I have had my daughter 6 years. Her mom finally turning stuff around. It’s a challenge. Congratulations on sticking to it and fighting for your family.
The courts did the same thing to my friend. He was with a woman who had a documented history of abuse and psychological disorders. The judge had a favorable bias toward mothers, awarding her custody of the child, despite the evidence my friend presented to the court. She later left the child in a playpen for three days without food and water, when he subsequently died of dehydration. She was given a 20-year sentence with the possibility of being released early on parole. My friend's child was only 2 years old.
CPS constantly fails children and miss management is astronomical within the State system. They don’t give two shits when the child is alive what makes you think they start to care once the child is dead.
Right. And in the next video you’ll be complaining that CPS was overreaching by removing children from their home. You need to decide on what you want to pretend to believe and stick to it.
The amount of money that it takes for a father to gain custody of children pretty much means it’s nearly impossible for a young man. We paid for my son’s legal expenses so that he could gain custody of our grandson. We spent nearly $165,000 in 2006. He won custody and thank goodness we could afford it.
OMG! I stopped from saying "No way" out of fear you would think I thought you were lying. I feel so bad for you! I hope your son and grandbaby are well! Blessings
Took me eleven years and 179,000 myself to get full custody. Half and half for five of those years, despite mother's issues and unemployment. And it wasn't until my son ran away and recorded video of his mom abusing him that we finally got full custody. It's hard, but if you love your kid and they love you, the price is almost nothing. But it's still too much. Thank you for helping your son .
@@samanthav8728 it’s all good. We’re proud of our sons and grandson. Our grandson graduates this spring. He’s a great young man with a beautiful girlfriend. His mom’s family is still a mess but we encourage him to stay on good terms with them. He knows we love him and he shows us his love and pops in on us a lot for dinner with his girlfriend. It was worth the $ and effort.
@@stonefamily4582 our battle began before our grandson was born. By the time he was six months old the custody battle was over. We were able to prove Munchausen by proxy very quickly. She had already begun faking his symptoms at one week old. She was already on the path to killing him. The CPS really came through for us and helped expedite the case. This was in Dallas County, Texas. He’s now a very healthy mature 17 year old young man on his way to a great life.
Fathers, men in general are treated like garbage all the time. But then things start going wrong with youth in the world and they say “where’s the father?” …Oh now you care about the father
PLEASE. EVERYONE. keep insisting that social workers and judges be held accountable. One case is all it takes. We recently are seeing the parents of a serial Killer be held responsible. We all have to STAND UP to this. Children deserve a chance at life.
This is what leftism does. Seeing how these judges treated the entire incident, the lefty judges probably would've taken her side on any allegations of misconduct.
Can we as a society, please stop thinking mother's are saints and fathers are awful. How many of these cases do we have to see, and how many children have to suffer or die in the custody of the mother, when the father is an amazing dad? The family court system needs a massive overhaul! This boy should have been given to his father.
It's been proven time and time again that FATHERS are WAY safer options but it doesn't matter because we live in matriarch that have made men the bad guys in every single situation.
You know the Elders of Zion definitely wrote those lies and forced them into society's way of thinking, right? You can't fix a symptom without removing the disease. Hence why America won't stop endlessly defending Israel's genocide.
that was a blunder of epic proportions. I cant even begin to state how bad that couldve gotten. Theyre very lucky she was on foot and not smart. They had enough PC to do a actual search of the car. Her attitude should not factor into it. Anyone drivng with no tire and a blown out back window has to be investigated for a dui at least.@@kdizzle901
@@awhisperinthewind4253I was gonna say in our countries history , does any court/judge ever get charged for negligence if something like this happens and is directly resulting from the judges bad decision . I bet either zero or a handful in our whole county , I know judges lose their rights to practice law anymore if they misbehave but are they ever charged as a result of wrong doing .
The failure of child services, the failure of the courts, and the failure to Julissa who desperately needed mental health services, medications (likely for schizophrenia), and substance abuse counseling. Disgusting.
CPS, courts, even the traffic stop feels like it should have benny hill music over it when they actually drop her off at home then rush back after realizing whats happened.
Oh there’s one up in Washington state going on that’s pretty bad .. where the family did something to the child after they removed it from a loving foster family for no reason back to the abusive parents bc of reunification protocols and now the child is no where to be found although the police have looked for the child .. the other child was removed from the home and is being fostered by my friends.. the little boy keeps saying that his big sister is dead at the hand of the parents but they won’t find her and nothing much is being done about it.. the story is on RUclips and was in the news .. thankfully the little boy is in loving foster care and cps hasn’t taken him away from my friends who absolutely adore him like they did to his sisters loving foster parents.. this goes on all over the place .. sadly it’s not uncommon..
The judge wanted child support and the father had a job. Child support funds judges retirements. The judge who constantly gave the mother custody should be charged with child neglect.
Thats not at all how it works. Don't know where you came up with that nonsense. Judges don't profit off child support. You should be ashamed that you are spreading that rediculous misinformation online.
Tory should sue social workers/child services for their negligence in due diligence and maybe even the court system for allowing this dear little boy to be placed back with his unfiltered mother. Surely the systems should be made just as accountable as the murderer.
This is heartbreaking and gruesome. The society have to protect children at all cost. Eli had no one to help and protect him. And the social worker did nothing to help and protect him. They should be in jail to. Sweet innocent loving boy. This has to change now. The first mistreat of a child should be enough to take them to a safe enviroment.
The dad who hadn't done anything wrong you to this point had to do classes and prerequisite training just to get custody of his obviously neglected son? Finding him multiple times with no clothes neglected and abused wasn't enough that's crazy.
Simple. Criminal and family courts are sexist against men. Mom could be an absolute monster and be homeless, the dad could be a millionaire and a saint, and CPS/Courts would still award the mom custody.
The only comfort I have is that I know Jesus is holding that little boy in His arms and He doesn't need those hearing aides because he can hear everything. Father God is also caring for him. They love him so much.
The amount of different instances that failed the safety of this poor kid is absolutely mindblowing. All that could've prevented if the court just gave the father custody over the kid, that could've been it. But they'd rather have a innocent kid go through all of this just to give custody to the mother. It's unbelievable.
Same here. If you've never seen the story of Gabriel Fernandez's case (Netflix), it will definitely rip your heart to shreds. I saw it a few years ago & still cry for him. 😢😢 One of the most disturbing cases I've ever seen. CPS workers should have gone to Prison. Literally EVERYONE in that child's life failed him. I will never forget him. 😢😢😢
@@jro9365 a horrific case. I grew up near there & have friends on the LASO who worked this case. Everybody including lawyers & the DA will never be the same. Honestly, prison is to good for these people.
I was born physically disabled and my beautiful parents, who had little money, spent the rest of their days making sure that I was loved and cared for. They gave up more than words can say in order that I thrived. I studied well and since the age of 12, have never been out of work (paper rounds, glass collecting, etc). At 17, I started work in a company and was there for 40 years, rising to a senior position until my disability forced me to retire. Both of my parents have passed but I thank them in prayer, every single day. Today I will pray for Eli and his sweet, dear soul 🙏💔
When YOUR OWN FAMILY is telling the courts you shouldn’t have custody, then you darn well shouldn’t have custody! All of that information and they kept giving him back to her?? 😢😡 The only positive about this horrendous crime is that precious child is somewhere where she can never hurt him again. Rest in peace little one.
@@karaeverman1164the majority of this video talked about THE FATHER FIGHTING FOR CUSTODY OF HIS CHILD AND THEG KEPT TURNING HIM DOWN. because of the state and court that child is dead.
Even though this case is extremely sad the system is set up this way (very hard to lose custody of a child) to protect the rights of the majority of parents who are healthy.
My husband and I were foster parents and we were shocked how many times that vulnerable children were given back to the families that abused them. And they would do this over and over again. I saw kids that had permanent scars and cigarette burns and bruises all over their little bodies. Was so heart breaking !
@@alfredonskisame. Happened to my sister in law. All because she didn't want her 7 year old daughter on prescription amphetamines. Her teacher actually conspired with cps to get her kids taken. Her kids were returned within a month but they kept trying to adopt out her baby for over 2 years. They would say her routine drug tests were positive but never show the results. I seen her take home drug tests and pass multiple times. They're so corrupt. They don't actually care about children they just care about adopting out little babies.
Infuriating knowing so many people who want nothing more than to be a parent are sent through endless hoops waiting, while really bad parents are abusing their own children.
A failure on so many levels, the child custody system, the fact that she was able to buy a firearm with a record of mental health issues, the fact that the police let her go home after finding her with a blown out window and no tire as well as blood in the car. Absolutely insane.
The buying a gun while being in the crazy house several times boggles my mind! I barely got my conceal carry license when I was 25 because I have asthma! Luckily I proved that it was cold/virus induced when I was a kid, and showed doctors visits from the last 17 years that I haven’t complained about my asthma and said it was totally fine. I don’t even use my inhaler 😂
That poor father. I can’t believe the amount of prior lies and abuse that was documented on this woman yet she was still able to have custody. Unbelievably frustrating and sad
Court's are biased against the fathers, I just went through a 14 month custody case to get my 11 year old son, his mother and stepdad abused him, both of them drinking, drugs, DUIs, Filthy house....When I first went to court they said I was homeless, on drugs, not paying child support no job and the judge believed it, which were all Lies, I still had to submit to random drug testing, parenting classes, mental health evaluation, multiple visits by dcbs to my home and work, ...was it worth it ? YES Definitely, but I have seen first hand that they try to give them back to the mother! Even if she is a mental case and POS !
Why are these agencies protecting these horrible parents and not the children? They should be held responsible for all the children lost to this horrible system.
WTH? The father was clearly a better parent. But not only that….the child was repeatedly abused and neglected. She was arrested, homeless, etc. this is absolutely horrific. No protection for this child. That father was in fear for his son. No one would help. Everything he had to go through was bc of false accusations by the mom. His visitations were good. Mother was horrible and they kept giving that child back to mother. Poor poor child. He didn’t need to die. That poor father. I hope he sues that county for a gazillion dollars. It won’t bring his child back…but will at least he will hurt them In the pocketbook and hopefully bring down the wrath of the public. Poor poor poor child. Just no reason for this tragedy. I feel for that father.
This is a perfect example of how the system automatically believes the mother. I've seen countless cases where a child is better off with the dad. But because of false or exaggerated accusations, of domestic violence, children are often left with their abusive mothers. This is because of the war on men by women's groups.
Reunification at any cost is incredibly inhumane. I've worked with children whose only hope for a decent future was to have a parent permanently out of their lives.
Agreed!!! My family is trying to legally adopt a little boy who’s mother they knew through church before his birth well she’s in and out of jail constant always on drugs and yet they give her visitation. He was a ward of the state and then mom was given custody back all because she went to therapy twice but continues to fail her drug tests. 🤦🏼♀️
My neighbor hated my parents when i was young, so she made a false report to CPS services without any evidence. They came that afternoon to check everything. They apologized for the inconvenience and left, because my parents are good people. They messed up so bad in this case. Its a disgrace and that kids death is on the court systems hands.
The judge and child protective services need to be hold accountable. Absolutely outrageous
@danuel…will NEVER happen.
It's not enough. Mental hospitals should be open again. Otherwise cases like that will have no ending..
@danielabeasley @@millingabout2447 "Almost" happened with the Gabriel Fernandez case but of course did not, thanks to the Spineless Judge & PA's. Every one of those lazy, incompetent, slovenly CPS Workers should have went to Prison. EVERYONE in that childs life failed him. I will never forget that poor little Angel or his Story & then a similar case in the same area happened very shortly after Gabriel. The only (can't even think of an appropriate word to describe the feeling, so I will use "thing"), but the only positive "thing" that has come from Gabriel's story is that his Mother is/has been "strongly punished" by fellow inmates ever since they found out what landed her in Prison. That's the one good thing about Inmates in Prison, they do not like or tolerate any other inmate who has harmed a child. It happens A LOT, we just don't get to hear about it very often is because it makes the Prison Systems look bad. I only accidentally found out about it after researching & stumbling across some Podcaster that interviews released inmates that weren't afraid to tell what they had witnessed. Same goes for all the crime on the streets that our Officers risk their lives to clean up only for the Cowards/Spineless that run our Criminal Justice Systems who turn around & let the monsters right back out on the streets with slaps on the wrists, plea deals, early releases, inadequate sentences & so much more. It's beyond disgusting & disturbing. YT will probably delete this comment because it's all truth & facts, & for some sick reason, they do not allow that.
the judge should be jailed with her
The judge and Child Protective Services need to be held accountable not hold accountable learn proper English.
When social workers fail this bad they need to be held accountable.
Don't forget about the judge and court. They are just as responsible and guilty.
The judge makes the decision, not the social workers. Also cps social workers get paid like 40k a year and have high turnover.
They didn't fail, they kept a person under the custody of someone that would give them more case time which gives more money. It's all a game and they know exactly how to play it!
@@Catn255my ex worked for CPS, showing your child p*rn is makes it incredibly easy to get your custody taken away especially if it's CPS reporting it so I doubt the CPS workers were escalating properly
@Catn255
The judges see the defendant in the courtroom only. CPS is much more involved. Home visits with the children family and yhe offending parent on a weekly basis. Bringing up the 40k salary per year means nothing. They choose their profession and are utterly derelict in the responsibility bestowed to them.
Car with a blown out windshield, missing a tire, blood throughout the car, shotgun shells on the floor and you let her go???
Common sense is not that common in Murica 🦅🇺🇲
And they didn’t notice the brain matter in her hair?
@@borky1987 *Wisconsin and Florida.
Yea, she was being annoying and they didn't feel like doing their job.
Ive been watching body cam footage a lot for the last couple weeks and theres never been one where the cops have all this probable cause and reasonable suspicion, or WAYYYY less, and LET THE PERSON GO. Nevermind, DRIVING THEM HOME. Absolutely disgusting. So many people dropped the ball while being involved in all this and it's horrifying
The fact that they gave this woman a ride home and set her free is diabolical
Bet you that if she was of another color she would have long been in cuffs.
Incredibly
@@AshJaethey probably are following the systems laws of NOT escalating as evil as that is in this way it shown,but they would get into trouble too ao
That's not diabolical. That's idiotic.
like are they on drugs????
Judge needs to be held accountable.
He should be fired, sued and prosecuted.
Too busy being racist
Judges are never held responsible for anything, ever. They have immunity built into the law. A judge can do what he wants, and at most, the decision can be over-ruled by a higher court. But the judge will still be a judge. No matter how ridiculous their rulings or abusive and inept they are - the judge will not be sued or criminally charged. They can't be.
@@jlatzke
that's how pos like Brock Allen Turner get off.
@@KabzieMusicthe workers that pushed to have them reunited should as well
Let me get this straight… You pull over a vehicle that has blood everywhere and shotgun, shells and bullet holes in a car seat and you let the woman go because she was cold and becoming uncooperative?? Those officers should lose their job immediately
White Privilege strikes again.
@@brazilianbenji1313come on now... mom calling is old news... you're grandparents maybe 😂😂😂😂
@@user-bu9vb3il3y😂😂😂
What happens in a state that is co-opted by the BLM and Antifa sympathetic judges and DAs….
@@brazilianbenji1313ur mom
RIP Eli. I’m so sorry this world dealt you such an awful hand from birth.
Not the world but his so called deranged mother
@jesusislight777 No need for rest? Rest is guaranteed for those who died as believers.
so sad 😢
It just what people say. Nothing bad was meant by it.@jesusislight777
@jesusislight777ing much of jesus light with your aggressive comments
It's disgusting that courts give custody to mothers over fathers no matter what.
Especially in this case
gender doesn't play a part in this and there's been many instances where the roles were reversed. the systems we adhere to are all heavily flawed
@@bran7088 oh stop…
@@thematic3893 watch the end of the video where it's revealed that a similar situation occurred with a father. Gender doesn't matter in this regard and it's as simple as that
@@bran7088 yes I saw, and it had nothing to do with the circumstances of the case and was only put in there to relieve certain fragile sensibilities.
There has to be a point where CPS can be Charged with the death of a child when they discover a child in this condition and a parent who is obviously a threat to the child and the wellbeing of the child. This is one of the worst cases I’ve heard of and CPS should be held accountable
CPS doesn't decide when kids go back to their parents. Judges do.
But they give recommendations.
@@dankeyes292 yes, based on CPS recommendations, which is the dominant course in a CA family court, im sure there is differences in other states
not really. this is america so if it's government or police, their level of responsibility is much lower than the average citizen. we dont get immunity for not knowing the law, only the enforcers of such law are. it's backwards, but thats the usa.
Classic government negligence and or corruption. Crazy to think that there are people who want to give the state even more power and control.
The fact that Eli could have just been in the custody of is father blows my mind.
Courts would rather let a mother unalive a kid before giving it to the father.
yep thats feminism for ya
I don't know if that's meant to be a joke but that's a messed up joke cuz it blows your mind like Elis head off his shoulders while he was still in the car seat 🤢🤮
Right the courts aren’t for men , we are nothing but a dollar sign
I guess the same can go for the father at the end of this video that was awarded custody of his seven children, and turned around and killed a few people with them present@@prettiestgirlmusa
The father should have been given custody after the first time she missed anything relating to counseling and negative drug tests from mom.
It's mind boggling. I have no words, but am filled with disgust, anger, but also sorrow, for that poor little boy who had no choice or say in the matter
This is utterly disgraceful! Everybody involved in sending that poor boy back to the ABUSIVE, DISGUSTING, EVIL CREATURE he called mom, should all be behind bars! My heart hurts for Eli and his Dad!
The courts would rather see a child die in the hands of an abusive mother than admit that there are times when the father should have custody
This is the truth absolutely.
Exactly! 😢😢😢
Sure but there are countless stories of courts not protecting mothers and children from abusive males.
@@wrappedaroundmyfingerthat adds no substance to the conversation. There’s an obvious disproportion and it’s messed up.
@@wrappedaroundmyfinger Statistically speaking, men are more likely to lose their children from false accusations than they are to get away with abuse.
And they let him go back to her. Man, these judges, CPS and social workers need to be held accountable
I live in Oklahoma & DHS here is F-ING useless!!! I will agree that social workers are overworked & under paid. However that does NOT excuse the fact that there are THOUSANDS of children in DHS custody that are “missing.” They can’t find them!!! SHAME on the people that swore to save children be SO CARELESS!!!
😎🫤😁@@Tatt2ed82😤
😂😮😢😮🎉🎉😢
It's just a job, none truly care....
@@Tatt2ed82man when I’m dealing with anything corporate I ask for a Caucasian. When I got shot the black nurses where so rude, they didn’t gaf, on they phone all the time. I swear most blacks people are just hired for diversity. We need to step it up
As a father that has been terrorized by the family court none of this surprises me.
Not one bit! Won’t change anytime soon either
I'm done.
Same even in Australia too. The courts and CPS need to be held accountable in this case ….
i’m so sorry you have to deal with that. it’s crazy how the courts always give the mother custody no matter how abusive they are. it’s a huge issue and i can’t imagine the anger and pain that would cause as a father
The fact that she was able to purchase a firearm is insane.
The fact that Jelly Roll Julissa has the child bearing hips to pop out a few more victims...seems about right.
Murica....
They knew she was psychotic, and left a child in her care.
Dakota County needs a major overhaul.
Dakota county and CPS should be sued by Eli's father! He was the ONLY person who cared about that little boy! This is a HUGE miscarriage of justice and that poor child paid with his life!
The court will always side with the woman. No matter how much human trash she is, the courts almost always side with the woman.
@@lareeweatherman8309, they're all just as guilty of murder. Accomplices.
Guilty of murder of an innocent child. 😞
There was one in my neck of the woods in Elk River a handful of years ago with the same outcome. I think the whole state needs a major overhaul. The mother was begging the cops to go check on her kid, who was with the dad and his gf or new wife, and they wouldn't let them in the apartment and the cops didn't even press it. The excuse was COVID and they were fine just looking up at their apartment. I think the kid was starved and beaten to death.
@@lareeweatherman8309 Not only sued, but people need to lose their jobs and never be allowed to work in that field again.
The judge needs disbarred and cps needs to be fired. Too many people failed that poor kid.
Agree 100%. This is bloody outrageous. It looks like the system dropped the ball massively here. Poor little man.
And this country teaches life to the whole world? Look after your children, America.
@@user-kb5xo3ov9qWdym by that? America is seen as a literal dystopian joke elsewhere.
They almost always fail- these kids hv no protection over 1:40 abuse. The whole system needs to be uprooted and redone.
@@user-kb5xo3ov9qmmm this happened everywhere
That poor man and poor baby...
That man tried everything and did everything he could to save his son😢
Everyone on all levels should be held criminally liable, point blank, that judge should be in jail 100%.
The level of incompetence regarding this case is utterly astounding.
I can almost assure you it's being run by Democrats. Vote wisely next voting day.
Her face was totally dry also. No hint of care, love or sadness for her child, only boredom. She is not crazy, just evil.
Red flags all over the place.
@@actual_doge3221 Dude, she is absolutely batshit insane. Did you not see the video?
This proves that the argument of moms are better parents than men is sexist and plain ignorant. Instead of just looking at the evidence at hand based on facts they based it on emotions. They don’t want to help men. They only will favor the mother.
If he hasn’t already, he needs to sue the judge and the state for the lack of protection of his son
Can't sue a judge. U can go after the state but unfortunately judges can't be sued. Sux...but believe me I tried
@@jmasel2789That needs to change!
@@vaska1999 Of course The government has set itself up to be held unaccountable, and will continue to do so until the people have no rights.
We think this is a democracy, but it isnt.
It's ridiculous, but you can't sue judges. The judge did something similar in the case of baby Iris in New Castle PA. He should've never given unsupervised visits to the dad and his girlfriend after the evidence he was presented, but unfortunately, these decisions keep being made by judges over and over again. The system needs reformatted to say the least.
I do not, nor will I ever understand this delusion the courts have that children belong with their biological mothers. WRONG. Children belong with the parent that proves time and again they are capable and willing to care for and love the child. Wake up, justice system! Make better choices and actually PAY ATTENTION TO FACTS.
This is beyond absurd the father needs to recieve compensation and the courts need to be held accountable
Again the system failed another child. STOP leaving these babies alone with these monsters.
The judge and CPS officers that allowed this child to stay with that abuser should be put into jail for life. Period.
I agree.
Most of the time they rather put the child with a rotten mother instead of a good father.
They don't care about children. And no, they will (amazingly) NOT be putting themselves in jail.
@@Rocket9944exactly it’s disgusting
Wow. Hurts my heart to see the last footage of him before he was killed. So senseless. RIP Eli.
That whole county needs to be investigated. That judge needs to be relieved of his duty and disbarred!!! I pray that the father wins his lawsuit!! WTH is going on in Minnesota???!!!
As a retired licensed therapist, i have to say that CPS is a total failure. I am still haunted by a case i was involved in many years ago, and it's only gotten worse.
I’ve seen like 10 brutal cases CPS failed
When will they be trained for the kids ?
CPS is worse than a failure!
As a guy holding a diploma in International Policy and Conflict Resolution, everything on that front is also a failure. I was on the MUN team that went to nationals and took it when I was in university. I'll also say the United Nations is a failure. I work professionally as an archaeologist and anthropologist and the common denominator that I see in all Socio-Political failures is the simple fact that everyone just wants to point fingers at nameless people and agencies to solve everything. Nothing will change or get better until more people decide to take things into their own hand and getting directly involved themselves. Dumping off responsibility on government and organizations is just how we open up windows for dereliction of duty and corruption.
@@jodiforeman3314 It's simple they won't. Have you ever been to the DMV? That's what we get from our government. Why would any other facet be any different?
I'm a retired RN and nearly every professional interaction I've had with CPS in 3 states they have been incompetent with hearts black as coal.
The judge and CPS murdered Eli.
As a past foster parent, you learn in training that the state will always choose family and aim for reunification. That means anyone who fosters will be handing their kids back, often directly into harm. This is why no one fosters - it is heartbreaking. It ends up being a majority who use it as a source of income.
RIP Eli
This is standard in Dakota county. My sons mom was labeled dangerous by her therapist and my son’s therapist and they still were pushing for reunification. It has to be reapproached at 365 days to see if she’s still a viable option. They extended it two more times. After a long two years and 20k plus spent by me, I finally got full custody of my son. His mom only sees him twice a month supervised by me
This is why my husband and I can’t foster. We would not be able to be kind or understanding of the family members and we would find it impossible to give kids back to bad families. It’s truly infuriating that reunification is always the goal. That’s why there are so many older kids with severe trauma in foster care. They need to remove them when they are young and give them a max of 6 months to fix things and if not those babies become available for adoption!
You have to understand when you’re fostering, they’re still not your kids so of course you have to give them back. Fostering is temporary housing but many foster parents believe the kids become their kids, which they don’t. I think people who want to foster need to understand they are only housing kids temporarily and the kids don’t belong to them.
@@GodLovesYou1624 I’m so sorry that is happening to you.
As someone who grew up without a father, you are the true definition of a loving parent.
Don’t let the idiots in the system wear you down.
@@lightarmy.888 No one denies that fostering is temporary. The denial occurs in the belief the system wouldn’t place kids in harm’s way.
It does. Often. And that’s the true reveal of being a foster parent: this cycle of abuse is entirely and easily preventable.
This is beyond devastating. I am in school obtaining my Bachelor's in Social Work. It is unforgivable what this social worker and judge did to Eli. Systems are put in place to protect children, and when the people within those systems fail to do their jobs, they need to be held accountable. Reunification was unnecessary in Eli's case, and it doesn't take a license in social work to see that. Many new DCFS and social work procedures aim to keep families together and avoid removing children from their homes. This is not one of those cases where these methods should've been applied. I commend Eli's father for suing Dakota County, and I hope everyone who failed to protect a little boy's life faces accountability for their failures.
The system failed that poor child. I can not fathom how poorly DCS did NOTHING!! I BLAME them completely! 😡 This is so sickening
The judge that let her have that child, the social worker, the police who didn't search the car and drove her home, wow. They should all be charged for being contributors to that childs death and failure to investigate. Enough is enough with this incompetence.
Unfortunately the POS judge in this case got to retire and is reaping all the financial benefits. Bet he doesn't even think about Eli and what he did. Complete negligence & extremely infuriating!
How are the cops ‘who didn’t search the car before driving her home responsible for the kids death? He was already dead…
@@rangerjones5531just conveniently left out the "failed to investigate" portion at the end of the comment huh.
@@eko4749they didn’t feel they had enough probable cause so they submitted a search warrant based off of everything they saw because they wanted to search the truck but you need good evidence or a search warrant to do it. The judge agreed. They cannot hold her any longer than they need to per the 4th amendment. It’s considered an unconstitutional seizure for me to hold you longer than I have a reasonable articulable suspicion or probable cause to do so
@@jazzymedic7702understood they didn’t think they had PC to detain and search, but what we’re all flabbergasted by is why blood, bullet holes, missing tire, ammunition strewn about the car, etc didn’t reach the bar of probable cause.
CPS and those involved with allowing her to continue getting custody need to be held accountable. This is just unreal
serious jail time needed including the judge ..JUDGES are not above the law
@@castorkat4868 apparently they are 😮😢 "Isa"
Especially when her own grandmother and father testified against her continued custody of Eli
but somehow not surprising at all, with their history
CPS is just like PETA - neither cares about the beings in their charge, only their political agenda ...
I feel once you have been convicted of child abuse, you should never get them back.
Right! It's not like it was an accident the first time! So disgusting 🙄🤮😢
8:02 that firearms store should be held accountable for selling that weapon to an individual with history of numerous mental health cases. That is a violation on her part for denying that information on the application. As a gun owner of 5, i know the process well and am in utter shock and disbelief she actually walked out that store the SAME DAY with a weapon in hand. Im military with a history of a single petty theft from before i joined the military and even I have to wait 3 days before im approved for my firearm. That is insane. That poor child. RIP little prince.
Court should have awarded custody to the dad the second she failed a drug test. So infuriating 😤
Exactly especially if he did everything he needed to do and passed
Happens EVERYDAY here in Minnesota!!!
@@Gijeff69and California
That's not how the law works. Courts wouldn't take away custody from either parents based on one failed drug test. If they did, people would be screaming and crying about that.
@@allieannette3712: F*ck 'em, it's quite simple. Don't do drugs. How hard can that be? Parents need to be held accountable for their actions & poor decision-making. It's what cost this "family" everything.
Judges should be held accountable for wrong judgment
Most judges are elected, so they can be held accountable, however, people keep re electing them.
@@davidcosta2244There need to be other mechanisms of removal.
@@davidcosta2244 Very few people care about who they're actually voting for when it comes to any position other than the president. Most just stick to one party because it's easier than doing research.
Don't retain judges when you vote.
Another case where a judge should be held accountable
😢😢🙏🏾RIH little Angel 💔 social services needs to be held accountable and punished as well 😡😤
Tory needs to sue ALL involved, including the judge. Every single one of them has blood on their hands. What an absolutely heartbreaking story.
Espically the place that sold her the guns.
@@jfloyupyuphow's it the stores fault are you sped?
@@jfloyupyupthe gun store wouldn’t know anything about it her history aside from running her background check. The system should have kept her from passing that background check due to her mental health issues so the fault would be on her providers and le for not updating it.
Exactly!!!
@@Haydini69 Yes exactly. The court systems failed numerous times where they shouldn't have, well before a gun was involved. This is all on this witch of a woman and the ''child protective services''
He should have never, EVER, been given back to her!!!! The system failed miserably and should be held liable for his death
The system isn't funded appropriately to work and how can you hold a 'system' liable. That's like saying a badly-designed road is 'liable' for someone's dead.
@@allieannette3712 duh!! They knowingly give the kid back, knowing that she's abusing him, then they should be held ABSOLUTELY ACCOUNTABLE!!
@@wiseguysoutdoors2954 that's not how the system works. And good thing, too. Do you think CPS workers- already underpaid and overworked- would risk being held 'accountable' whatever that means for mistakes. Mistakes that are bound to happen in such an underfunded public sector?
Also, again, saying "the system" should be held accountable is so broad it hardly means anything.
@@allieannette3712 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@@allieannette3712 CPS workers do not care about being held accountable, because they never will be. The courts are far from underfunded friend. The simple fact is, they don't care. The courts do not care, CPS does not care, and the people who run and maintain these things do not care. Sure there may be outliers which happen, both in cases where children are actually protected and people in these systems who do care. However - we see time and time again these "mistakes" are a repeated and constant sent of "mistakes" which occur far more frequently than one might like to think. True, saying that "The System" should be held accountable is broad, yet any reasonable person can understand what that actually entails. That simply entails holding those who put him in that situation accountable by charging them with neglect for failing to do the very thing their jobs exist for. The main people being the Judges who constantly placed him back in his mothers care after she has been shown time and time again to be a complete danger to herself and - more importantly- her child. The only way for CPS to actually function anymore is to upturn and redo the whole CPS system. Put in people who actually care for the children involved in these cases, and make laws even clearer than they are.
The absolute incompetence of EVERYONE from the judges in the custody hearings to the police who originally pulled her over. Mind boggling
Based on Minnesota law the parent has to be compliant, she was NOT compliant and failed everything the courts asked her to do and mandated her to do but still gave that beautiful angel back to her! The state of Minnesota should be held accountable along with everyone who failed that little boy!
When the narrator said after the cops saw the blood and shotgun shells and heard her “stories”,they escorted her home… I was DONE!
Wonder if it would have been the same for a brown or black person😮
@@tammyharper6583 undortunately definitely not same.
I almost threw up!
@@tammyharper6583no need to wonder that. Definitely not. I wonder if it would have been the same for a man in general. Escort him home because he’s cold and impatient
I honestly thought I was hallucinating or something I literally couldn’t believe that happened and I still don’t believe it. Like what???
It is mind boggling that the cops just let this person go. I mean, "Some kids shot my vehicle. That's not blood, it's deer meat. There's a farm round here."
Truly. She never even got questioned about where and when the shots rang out?
WHO did the shooting?
Some of the worst police work I've ever seen. Note to criminals, cops in Orono will just give you a ride home with blood and brain matter all over your car that is missing a tire and has it's rear window and a car seat shot out. What in the actual f$%k.
Something seriously wrong in that county.
Too afraid of her crazy reaction….
They had to let her go. She was getting fussy so they had no choice to let her go. That's the law.
MN State Statute 91.61c states that you must release someone who is being detained if they get mildly agitated.
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Anyone who agrees
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This breaks my heart. How everyone failed him.
Judges that return children need to be accountable! I worked in DCFS for 11 years. This happens ALL THE TIME!
It’s because some studies find it best to reunify and everything has to be evidence based. We all know that studies can have manipulated statistical analysis and can be open to research biases. And the kids just suffer on😢
judges are never made accountable
That would accomplish nothing
CPS needs better funding. As does our mental health aid
@@allieannette3712former foster youth…the department doesn’t need money. The children just need to be cared about
@@Doodoohead725 as someone who works adjacent to cps, I disagree wholeheartedly. The workers who care her burned out fast because of their caseload. Better funding would keep them in the field longer. Fewer cases would allow workers to build closer relationships with the kids they are overseeing. Not saying it would help this particular case, but in general it would help significantly.
It took me nearly 2 years to get custody of my sons when they were babies! Their mom had drug problems, yet I still had to fight the system until I got custody and saved my boys lives! This is something that shouldn’t happen just because I’m a man…
And you probably still don't believe the Bible. It explains everything.
^^ Anything to push religion. Sometimes a man fights hard enough to get something done.
Raven.. I had the same thing. Was a battle. I have had my daughter 6 years. Her mom finally turning stuff around. It’s a challenge. Congratulations on sticking to it and fighting for your family.
@@s1988tevewhat’s wrong with you??
@@s1988teve What does the Bible have to do with anything???
@@heathercanzoneri8951he’s a troll
Minnesota, the state that keeps on giving!!!!!!!!
The courts did the same thing to my friend. He was with a woman who had a documented history of abuse and psychological disorders. The judge had a favorable bias toward mothers, awarding her custody of the child, despite the evidence my friend presented to the court. She later left the child in a playpen for three days without food and water, when he subsequently died of dehydration. She was given a 20-year sentence with the possibility of being released early on parole. My friend's child was only 2 years old.
CPS should have an investigation launched and people should be held accountable.
CPS constantly fails children and miss management is astronomical within the State system. They don’t give two shits when the child is alive what makes you think they start to care once the child is dead.
@@TRUMPGOLDFORCEMAGA-dm5syyou buy your pair of pride parade booties princess?
@@TRUMPGOLDFORCEMAGA-dm5syyou go into debt for your pride parade booties sweet pea
@@TRUMPGOLDFORCEMAGA-dm5syAwww. How in debt are you from buying your pair of pride booties?
Right. And in the next video you’ll be complaining that CPS was overreaching by removing children from their home.
You need to decide on what you want to pretend to believe and stick to it.
I feel so bad for the father. The system failed him, not to mention he lost his child.
Disgusting how the courts treat Men. We live in a matriarchy.
SERIOUS JAIL TIME NEEDED
The system failed the child first and foremost!
The amount of money that it takes for a father to gain custody of children pretty much means it’s nearly impossible for a young man. We paid for my son’s legal expenses so that he could gain custody of our grandson. We spent nearly $165,000 in 2006. He won custody and thank goodness we could afford it.
OMG! I stopped from saying "No way" out of fear you would think I thought you were lying. I feel so bad for you! I hope your son and grandbaby are well! Blessings
Took me eleven years and 179,000 myself to get full custody. Half and half for five of those years, despite mother's issues and unemployment. And it wasn't until my son ran away and recorded video of his mom abusing him that we finally got full custody. It's hard, but if you love your kid and they love you, the price is almost nothing. But it's still too much.
Thank you for helping your son .
@@samanthav8728 it’s all good. We’re proud of our sons and grandson. Our grandson graduates this spring. He’s a great young man with a beautiful girlfriend. His mom’s family is still a mess but we encourage him to stay on good terms with them. He knows we love him and he shows us his love and pops in on us a lot for dinner with his girlfriend. It was worth the $ and effort.
@@stonefamily4582 our battle began before our grandson was born. By the time he was six months old the custody battle was over. We were able to prove Munchausen by proxy very quickly. She had already begun faking his symptoms at one week old. She was already on the path to killing him. The CPS really came through for us and helped expedite the case. This was in Dallas County, Texas. He’s now a very healthy mature 17 year old young man on his way to a great life.
Fathers, men in general are treated like garbage all the time. But then things start going wrong with youth in the world and they say “where’s the father?” …Oh now you care about the father
Rest Easy& in Peace Eli 🧍♂️ ❤
PLEASE. EVERYONE. keep insisting that social workers and judges be held accountable. One case is all it takes. We recently are seeing the parents of a serial
Killer be held responsible. We all have to STAND UP to this. Children deserve a chance at life.
Why tf did the police drive her home from such an incredibly suspicious stop
They were worried getting a complaint from her... What's happening
This is what leftism does. Seeing how these judges treated the entire incident, the lefty judges probably would've taken her side on any allegations of misconduct.
No one else would have been driven home like that. Such a strange situation
@@AAron-es4fh Searching her car would not have violated her rights.
She has the chance to escape otherwise?
The legal system failed him
Fails most men
Yes
Enough
It’s the System that failed
The judge should be fired
@@jodiforeman3314the judge should be in jail for child endangerment
Every system failed him.
This is definitely one of the most insane videos I’ve ever seen. What people are capable of, never ceases to amaze me.
RIP to this poor, innocent baby. I'm so sorry that those who were meant to protect you, failed you.
Can we as a society, please stop thinking mother's are saints and fathers are awful. How many of these cases do we have to see, and how many children have to suffer or die in the custody of the mother, when the father is an amazing dad? The family court system needs a massive overhaul!
This boy should have been given to his father.
I AGREE. The family courts need to be flipped upside down and completely changed
It's been proven time and time again that FATHERS are WAY safer options but it doesn't matter because we live in matriarch that have made men the bad guys in every single situation.
You know the Elders of Zion definitely wrote those lies and forced them into society's way of thinking, right? You can't fix a symptom without removing the disease. Hence why America won't stop endlessly defending Israel's genocide.
Wrong
I agree she should have never had that boy the judge should be sued
It's a shame that judges aren't held accountable for their lack of judgement.
I find it hilarious that these idiot cops drove her home
The whole systems on Meff🥴
that was a blunder of epic proportions. I cant even begin to state how bad that couldve gotten. Theyre very lucky she was on foot and not smart. They had enough PC to do a actual search of the car. Her attitude should not factor into it. Anyone drivng with no tire and a blown out back window has to be investigated for a dui at least.@@kdizzle901
Woke liberal judges and gorl power judges
Everyone needs to lose their jobs and be held accountable. CPS, the judges, those cops. EVERYONE FOR FAILING THAT POOR CHILD
This story makes me absolutely sick to my stomach. How can someone ever do such a thing to a child?
This judge needs to be fired for negligence immediately
Barely anything can be done against judges, they’re untouchable, it is ridiculous…
its sickening@@mandarina4157
Fired? More like disbarred completely.
This is pure criminal negligence by the courts. They should be held liable.
should be but will not
@@awhisperinthewind4253I was gonna say in our countries history , does any court/judge ever get charged for negligence if something like this happens and is directly resulting from the judges bad decision . I bet either zero or a handful in our whole county , I know judges lose their rights to practice law anymore if they misbehave but are they ever charged as a result of wrong doing .
The failure of child services, the failure of the courts, and the failure to Julissa who desperately needed mental health services, medications (likely for schizophrenia), and substance abuse counseling. Disgusting.
This is so sad. How can the government and these workers so clearly mishandle this case.
This is one of the most negligent case by Child Protective Services I've ever heard.
this happens more often then you think and its so fuc*ed up it makes me sick
@@ronules1women get away with it they’re manipulative Courts suppprt them cuz they don’t take there nature in account
CPS, courts, even the traffic stop feels like it should have benny hill music over it when they actually drop her off at home then rush back after realizing whats happened.
CPS is useless.
Oh there’s one up in Washington state going on that’s pretty bad .. where the family did something to the child after they removed it from a loving foster family for no reason back to the abusive parents bc of reunification protocols and now the child is no where to be found although the police have looked for the child .. the other child was removed from the home and is being fostered by my friends.. the little boy keeps saying that his big sister is dead at the hand of the parents but they won’t find her and nothing much is being done about it.. the story is on RUclips and was in the news .. thankfully the little boy is in loving foster care and cps hasn’t taken him away from my friends who absolutely adore him like they did to his sisters loving foster parents.. this goes on all over the place .. sadly it’s not uncommon..
The judge wanted child support and the father had a job. Child support funds judges retirements. The judge who constantly gave the mother custody should be charged with child neglect.
Thats not at all how it works. Don't know where you came up with that nonsense. Judges don't profit off child support. You should be ashamed that you are spreading that rediculous misinformation online.
The judge receives part of the child support?
@@pegs1659 Yea they get a kick back somehow for every child support case.
The judge should be held as an accomplice.
No, that doesn’t happen at all. That is eye-rollingly made up.
Tory should sue social workers/child services for their negligence in due diligence and maybe even the court system for allowing this dear little boy to be placed back with his unfiltered mother. Surely the systems should be made just as accountable as the murderer.
This is heartbreaking and gruesome. The society have to protect children at all cost. Eli had no one to help and
protect him. And the social worker did nothing to help and protect him. They should be in jail to. Sweet innocent loving boy.
This has to change now. The first mistreat of a child should be enough to take them to a safe enviroment.
The dad who hadn't done anything wrong you to this point had to do classes and prerequisite training just to get custody of his obviously neglected son? Finding him multiple times with no clothes neglected and abused wasn't enough that's crazy.
The dad must be livid what can he do now he lost his child this is the system fault
@@ExistentialismPsychosis Yes my entire life a man is always guilty until proven innocent whenever a female accuses a man.
Feminism
The court systems hate fathers
Simple. Criminal and family courts are sexist against men. Mom could be an absolute monster and be homeless, the dad could be a millionaire and a saint, and CPS/Courts would still award the mom custody.
This is how trash our system is judge and case workers should be held accountable as well
The system will rather see a abused, or dead child, than to ever grant a father full custody.
She has the audacity to call somebody else “garbage”
Lol dude ANYONE else. Insane to me too
Her lawyer though 😂😂
His sweet little schoolwork in the dumpster, broke me. He had such a rough life. It’s so sad. 😢
Yes that made me tear up. Poor baby boy didn’t deserve that kind of life. It so heartbreaking.
I can hardly stand to hear about it. Heartbreaking
Yea, that broke the dam for sure. Geez 😢
He was doomed from the start.
The only comfort I have is that I know Jesus is holding that little boy in His arms and He doesn't need those hearing aides because he can hear everything. Father God is also caring for him. They love him so much.
When you realise the society you live in isn’t as safe as you thought, this is horrific.
The amount of different instances that failed the safety of this poor kid is absolutely mindblowing. All that could've prevented if the court just gave the father custody over the kid, that could've been it. But they'd rather have a innocent kid go through all of this just to give custody to the mother. It's unbelievable.
I’m a 41 year old father of 3 and this literally made me cry. RIP Eli.
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Same here. If you've never seen the story of Gabriel Fernandez's case (Netflix), it will definitely rip your heart to shreds. I saw it a few years ago & still cry for him. 😢😢 One of the most disturbing cases I've ever seen. CPS workers should have gone to Prison. Literally EVERYONE in that child's life failed him. I will never forget him. 😢😢😢
Blessings and respect to you Sir. . .🙏🏻
@@jro9365 a horrific case. I grew up near there & have friends on the LASO who worked this case. Everybody including lawyers & the DA will never be the same.
Honestly, prison is to good for these people.
@@MearnieToonWho hurt you? Or are you just another crazy one who hates men in general?
I was born physically disabled and my beautiful parents, who had little money, spent the rest of their days making sure that I was loved and cared for.
They gave up more than words can say in order that I thrived.
I studied well and since the age of 12, have never been out of work (paper rounds, glass collecting, etc).
At 17, I started work in a company and was there for 40 years, rising to a senior position until my disability forced me to retire.
Both of my parents have passed but I thank them in prayer, every single day.
Today I will pray for Eli and his sweet, dear soul 🙏💔
What a great story to share. Cheers BR.
You're a good man, best wishes to you sir.
Way to put yourself into it
Your parents don’t get a pat on the back for taking care of the child THEY created.
@Justsomebodyelse235 way to downgrade someone else cause you're depressed
This hurts my heart . I could never do this to my child . She is my world. As should all children be made to feel . Poor little guy 😢
So, so sad. RIP little one. So many would have loved to have him to love.
When YOUR OWN FAMILY is telling the courts you shouldn’t have custody, then you darn well shouldn’t have custody! All of that information and they kept giving him back to her?? 😢😡
The only positive about this horrendous crime is that precious child is somewhere where she can never hurt him again.
Rest in peace little one.
Because they had no one to keep him more than likely.
@@karaeverman1164 His father Tory who had literally continued to fight for his child! Foster care is another option.
@@karaeverman1164the majority of this video talked about THE FATHER FIGHTING FOR CUSTODY OF HIS CHILD AND THEG KEPT TURNING HIM DOWN. because of the state and court that child is dead.
Family court is a farce, and discriminates against males/Fathers.
Even though this case is extremely sad the system is set up this way (very hard to lose custody of a child) to protect the rights of the majority of parents who are healthy.
My husband and I were foster parents and we were shocked how many times that vulnerable children were given back to the families that abused them. And they would do this over and over again. I saw kids that had permanent scars and cigarette burns and bruises all over their little bodies. Was so heart breaking !
There are also the cases where they remove children from perfect families. I know multiple examples. Very sad situations.
@@alfredonskisame. Happened to my sister in law. All because she didn't want her 7 year old daughter on prescription amphetamines. Her teacher actually conspired with cps to get her kids taken. Her kids were returned within a month but they kept trying to adopt out her baby for over 2 years. They would say her routine drug tests were positive but never show the results. I seen her take home drug tests and pass multiple times. They're so corrupt. They don't actually care about children they just care about adopting out little babies.
That's because they don't care about children.
The government is 100% inept
Infuriating knowing so many people who want nothing more than to be a parent are sent through endless hoops waiting, while really bad parents are abusing their own children.
All kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids.
It’s extremely hard to get CPS to listen to anyone but themselves. They really look down on family members.
A failure on so many levels, the child custody system, the fact that she was able to buy a firearm with a record of mental health issues, the fact that the police let her go home after finding her with a blown out window and no tire as well as blood in the car. Absolutely insane.
Just her getting Eli back over and over is beyond crazy!!!!
Law makers in that state need to be fired, sued and prosecuted!!!
The buying a gun while being in the crazy house several times boggles my mind! I barely got my conceal carry license when I was 25 because I have asthma! Luckily I proved that it was cold/virus induced when I was a kid, and showed doctors visits from the last 17 years that I haven’t complained about my asthma and said it was totally fine. I don’t even use my inhaler 😂
This is America
That poor father. I can’t believe the amount of prior lies and abuse that was documented on this woman yet she was still able to have custody. Unbelievably frustrating and sad
Thank feminism.
Agree
Court's are biased against the fathers, I just went through a 14 month custody case to get my 11 year old son, his mother and stepdad abused him, both of them drinking, drugs, DUIs, Filthy house....When I first went to court they said I was homeless, on drugs, not paying child support no job and the judge believed it, which were all Lies, I still had to submit to random drug testing, parenting classes, mental health evaluation, multiple visits by dcbs to my home and work, ...was it worth it ? YES Definitely, but I have seen first hand that they try to give them back to the mother! Even if she is a mental case and POS !
@@AntiSocialMachine.
Nothing to do with feminism, courts have always been biased towards the mother.
The cult of motherhood. The mother is always best to have the child … even when she obviously isn’t.
Anything but give custody to the father, the sheer ammount of leeway this mouth-breather recieved is astounding
Why on earth would they not give the father full custody with all the evidence of how much better of a parent he is
Why are these agencies protecting these horrible parents and not the children? They should be held responsible for all the children lost to this horrible system.
Satanic influence
Leftists. If you vote Democrat this is what
you vote for🎉
Because to these people, adults like her deserve their freedom, while children on the other hand are disposable.
Normal for Minnesota, the people there are deviate
So many dads do the minimum for their children but this poor father tried so hard to save his baby. Makes one sick.
I know, I can’t imagine the pain he feels. He fought so hard to protect his son…This is tragic beyond belief.
WTH? The father was clearly a better parent. But not only that….the child was repeatedly abused and neglected. She was arrested, homeless, etc. this is absolutely horrific. No protection for this child. That father was in fear for his son. No one would help. Everything he had to go through was bc of false accusations by the mom. His visitations were good. Mother was horrible and they kept giving that child back to mother. Poor poor child. He didn’t need to die. That poor father. I hope he sues that county for a gazillion dollars. It won’t bring his child back…but will at least he will hurt them In the pocketbook and hopefully bring down the wrath of the public. Poor poor poor child. Just no reason for this tragedy. I feel for that father.
This is a perfect example of how the system automatically believes the mother. I've seen countless cases where a child is better off with the dad. But because of false or exaggerated accusations, of domestic violence, children are often left with their abusive mothers. This is because of the war on men by women's groups.
That part that shows little Eli playing before getting in the car just broke my heart...
Yeah same here it broke my heart to see him playing then getting in that car soon sad
Same
Same 😢
Reunification at any cost is incredibly inhumane. I've worked with children whose only hope for a decent future was to have a parent permanently out of their lives.
Agree!
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I agree, toxic people should not be around children,, never mind raising them.
Agreed!!! My family is trying to legally adopt a little boy who’s mother they knew through church before his birth well she’s in and out of jail constant always on drugs and yet they give her visitation. He was a ward of the state and then mom was given custody back all because she went to therapy twice but continues to fail her drug tests. 🤦🏼♀️
It is pretty sad. Some people aren't meant to be parents.
This may be the most incompetent legal system in the US. From the police to the judges.
My neighbor hated my parents when i was young, so she made a false report to CPS services without any evidence. They came that afternoon to check everything. They apologized for the inconvenience and left, because my parents are good people. They messed up so bad in this case. Its a disgrace and that kids death is on the court systems hands.
Every child deserves a loving, caring, empathetic parent. Not all parents deserve children
it's true, but it's also kinda irritating to write it under every video.
@@warrax111 fr mfs be racing to say this
@@jontrellolandoFr tho I saw this one girl who killed her dad because he didn’t like her boyfriend so not every child deserves parents