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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @patriciamccary8894
    @patriciamccary8894 2 года назад +10

    Hi TT & Jake! I can relate to this video. I left Ohio at 19, and relocated to Chicago. I say I grew up in Chicago, Partying, 1 hour sleep and go to work. I'm much older now, that draining yourself to build your significant other up was on point.
    Very good advise for those in relationships. Listen to them people😊. Showers of Blessings to you both!💯❤

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Thank you!😌🥰

  • @danettelouise2921
    @danettelouise2921 2 года назад +21

    I loved this video! All I can say is that I’m glad each of you did the work, and went through what you needed to in order to bring you here. Giving us a glimpse of your very real and loving relationship!!!

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +4

      Yes ma’am 🥰🥰

  • @vanessabarsetti
    @vanessabarsetti 2 года назад +9

    TT i can totally relate,being in toxic relationships and always wondering what you did wrong and constantly changing yourself to try and suit your partner's toxicity.I have been there and i am never going back.😂

  • @darlenetavares5641
    @darlenetavares5641 2 года назад +2

    Oooo chile! Whatchuknowboutdat Lawry's seasoned salt??? They betta know it!! You guys are truly twins..and 😁 😂 Both gorgeous humans too!! Much love from Bermuda 🇧🇲 ❤️

  • @gwendolynforest9610
    @gwendolynforest9610 2 года назад +10

    Love watching you both, You both are so attractive and down to earth. Keep the flames burning.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Will do! Thank you 😌🥰

  • @ericatoliver4175
    @ericatoliver4175 2 года назад +11

    Loved it!! I enjoy watching the both of you ! Such an amazing and beautiful couple. Stay blessed and healthy!

  • @dianneturner7026
    @dianneturner7026 2 года назад +14

    You Both are such a joy to watch. I Love watching your Good Energy, Honesty, Love and Respect towards Growth and Life Experiences and That You Are Bold Enough to Be Transparent and Share with us is Simply Amazing.
    God's Continual Blessings in Your Relationship!!!

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!♥️

  • @cegecej
    @cegecej 2 года назад +3

    "Still looking" 😂🤣🤣😅😅🤣🤣. You guys are absolutely hilarious! Jake, it's too obvious that you love TT so much to play a joke like that😂🤣😅

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +2

      Haha love her forever!

  • @brownetime08
    @brownetime08 2 года назад +5

    Great topic! And I 100% concur about the need for putting in the work to grow individually. 💯💯 Bring in more story time!

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +3

      Yes ma’am! 🥰♥️

    • @mellowhaven
      @mellowhaven 2 года назад +4

      Yeah. More story time💯

  • @shondahansen7594
    @shondahansen7594 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing. I didn't learn a lot of what I needed about myself is really I. My 40's. I was a single mom in my 20's. Then I was Married. I didn't grow up with my dad so I experienced a lot of what you went through T.T. I've completed a lot of personal goals and I feel like I'm ready but really God does know the plan he has made for our life.

  • @sodvine3486
    @sodvine3486 2 года назад +5

    Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future ...*snaps fingers* you heard!!

  • @mariamunroe6861
    @mariamunroe6861 2 года назад +9

    There is no such thing as perfect..., all You both need is love , trust and RESPECT..., now when is the wedding?

  • @deborahmartin1513
    @deborahmartin1513 2 года назад +3

    Such a great video!!! I think one important thing that y’all said, was letting God lead. So many times we want to do it our own way, but Gods plan is so much bigger and better. Y’all are such a beautiful couple!! 🙏🏾❤️🤗

  • @sheena.m7802
    @sheena.m7802 2 года назад +5

    I can totally relate to what you guys said here . You guys should do some more sit down videos on more relationship topics .. would definitely love to hear your thoughts

  • @deltoriamcclendon8246
    @deltoriamcclendon8246 Год назад

    You guys speak with both intellect and truthfulness to be as young as you are. I'm so invested......

  • @AuthenticallyTee
    @AuthenticallyTee 2 года назад

    “I realize I was ready when I was realized I was never gonna be ready”. I. Felt. This.

  • @KhaliahAli
    @KhaliahAli 2 года назад +3

    I’m quite a bit older, but I related to you TT when you said that you did the work and then God knew it was time. Then Jake really nailed it when he said he knew he was ready when he realized he would never be really ready. I met someone in the pandemic as well. I had completed almost a year of singleness and working on me/healing. They had been abandoned and asked could we hang as friends but I declined because I didn’t want to mess up what God maybe working on for us both. Then a few months went by and they asked again to go out as friends. I said yes, we really were there for each other so much. They had to move due to circumstances and still had some baggage and my heart hurts. We still speak often, but the distance. Thank you both for sharing your perspectives on intentional dating it’s quite lovely! 🥹🤗

  • @jenyfursmith8413
    @jenyfursmith8413 2 года назад +2

    My girl! Lawry’s is clutch! ❤️

  • @moe_creations
    @moe_creations 2 года назад +5

    Loved the chat, thanks for sharing some of you, have a great night!

  • @kerrypalmer2311
    @kerrypalmer2311 2 года назад +3

    Growth is good! Glad that you both found each other.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Thank you 🥰🥰

  • @mphommaaga3965
    @mphommaaga3965 2 года назад +2

    I think this has been my favourite video. I wish I had met you in my lifetime I could have learned what you just taught me in this video, such wisdom and TT I really identify with all you said about toxic relationships. I am so happy for you guys to have worked on yourselves and now are together.It is true blessings and God's doings. I am in awe of you too

  • @TheChocBeauty
    @TheChocBeauty 2 года назад +2

    You two are so strong in who you are. A wonderful way to be.

  • @minimalassembly7893
    @minimalassembly7893 2 года назад

    Terecia, I remembered when you were trying to find love on the tv show “Coupled” and how everyone thought that you guys would work out. Glad that you took time to heal and ground yourself in order to find your current relationship. Let him hurry up and put a ring on it after two years!!

  • @diannadawson4429
    @diannadawson4429 2 года назад +1

    Everything you said is on point! What we allow WILL continue. Taking the time to work on yourself before a relationship is tantamount, but also just for one’s SELF regardless of relationship status.

  • @JayyBee5557
    @JayyBee5557 2 года назад +2

    Good to see two young people having such a mature conversation, I have high hopes for you guys, BUT don't make it sound that y'all didn't notice how cute y'all are !!!!! Hahahaha

  • @samuelgatling4635
    @samuelgatling4635 2 года назад +1

    I am a 66 yr old Gay Man living in Chi town and I find you Guys ABSOLUTELY breath taking and SO refreshing!! Keep doing what you do. I never do not feel good after watching your episodes -;) Much luv from The Chi!!!

    • @reggieredmond2432
      @reggieredmond2432 2 года назад +2

      I’m 66 year old married man in Madison Wisconsin married 34 years and I think they are absolutely refreshing too. I told my wife there are kids . We are a interracial couple also. I grew up in Los Angeles and my my wife Reedsburg Wisconsin. 🥰❤️🤪

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      LOVE the Chi! Thank you so much 🥰🥰

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      🥰♥️

  • @gloriamkhize9586
    @gloriamkhize9586 2 года назад +1

    That is really eye opening. I adopt it for me.When my significant other is in some type of mood, it's not my fault and not my duty to fix it,I can just be there for when they need and ready for me,love that,and love you two ❤

  • @sheilar1051
    @sheilar1051 2 года назад +2

    You too are so sweet, I like how you learned and are learning yourselves and that's how you grow. You know when to give each other space but you know when to come together and be there for each other believe me know matter how old you get we will always be learning. Keep putting in the work and you will see the blessing :)

  • @kckgirl78
    @kckgirl78 2 года назад +1

    You two are on the right path to keep growing and learning. Thanks for sharing! 😃❤️

  • @lalame23
    @lalame23 2 года назад +1

    I am just coming across your channel & this is the second video I’ve watched so far & I needed this one SO MUCH! Doing the work is key. Thank you!

  • @lightbrownsugarsister6141
    @lightbrownsugarsister6141 2 года назад +1

    There are RUclipsrs that do ASMR videos where they just eat food and don't say anything. They just wave to say hello at the beginning of the video, and wave to say bye at the end of the video.

  • @veradarby7222
    @veradarby7222 2 года назад +4

    I thoroughly enjoyed this! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @TheresAlwaysTamara
    @TheresAlwaysTamara Год назад

    Love this so much! You guys dropped a lot of gems here 👏🏾

  • @patricejackson2583
    @patricejackson2583 2 года назад +2

    Absolutely love watching you two!!!!

  • @brendawalker8280
    @brendawalker8280 2 года назад +6

    You guys are so great to watch.....Keep on doing what your doing.....Much love....❤️

  • @yvonnemieux6624
    @yvonnemieux6624 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing. You couldn't have said it any better ❤💕❤.

  • @myspritelover
    @myspritelover 2 года назад +3

    Great video as always! It was giving what it was suppose to give and then some🔥maybe you can touch on it in a future video but I am curious to know how Jake became vegan…The Who, the what, the when, the where, and the why. ❤️

  • @kadianesson209
    @kadianesson209 2 года назад +5

    I pray love and peace stay with you both

  • @1safespace828
    @1safespace828 2 года назад +2

    I LITERALLY WAS ON YALL TIKTOK SAYING IM ABOUT TO BINGE WATCH YALL YT 😩😩❤️🥰🥰😘😘

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd2289 2 года назад +1

    I’m so happy that my favorite lovebirds in the whole wide world did all the work in their twenties to be fully ready for each other now. I so enjoyed as I always do listening to your stories. Please know I’m wishing you the best as you traverse this thing called li life together. God Bless.

  • @jennifergranati8096
    @jennifergranati8096 2 года назад +3

    You both are so refreshing and relatable. Love this video . Have a lovely week .❤️

  • @rievinebyshauntaemarie9515
    @rievinebyshauntaemarie9515 Год назад

    Mike Todd on deck!! Whoot Whoot!@ my kids love they part and so do I!! Transformation Nation!! Stay safe and Stay Blessed!! You all are a beautiful couple!!+

  • @Lioness22312
    @Lioness22312 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing.. I started my journey but now I am just waiting because the app I went on was nothing but (men)scammers on a Christian app believe it or not.. Thanks again❤

  • @patriciamorgan3171
    @patriciamorgan3171 9 месяцев назад

    Aww, I do whatever you like , ripping the bag. Such a gentleman. the little things count. TT thanks for sharing ; your adversites did not break you. I can relate to not knowing my birth father. It definitely affects yur relationships and I to had to learn how to cope with rejection and abandoment.

  • @debbiesmith3443
    @debbiesmith3443 2 года назад +2

    Oh my gosh me and my twenties, I thought I knew everything plus the guys was always calling me slim goody or a tall glass of water, I'm drooling over here watching y'all eat.😆🤤😃

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Hahaha didn’t we all

  • @sheena.m7802
    @sheena.m7802 2 года назад +3

    How did you guys handle your first fight or big disagreement

  • @sandythompson5096
    @sandythompson5096 2 года назад +2

    Hello my favorite couple!💞 Loved your mukbang, You guys obviously enjoy good food and this topic today hit home. Good Success in your individual pursuits and as a couple!

  • @AuthenticallyTee
    @AuthenticallyTee 2 года назад

    Love you guys. Love this❤but seriously, I wanna see some sponsorship on these restaurants now. Hope you guys start getting those ads.

  • @dajuannak
    @dajuannak 2 года назад +3

    this was a really helpful video because i am 21 so i learned a few things from y’all so thank you 🤍

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Thank you for watching! Glad we were able to share something useful!!! 🥰🥰

  • @angelamartin6211
    @angelamartin6211 2 года назад +4

    Love watching you videos great vibe between you two.

  • @kimberlymitchell372
    @kimberlymitchell372 2 года назад +1

    Loved this video experiencing that now and I was just having this conversation, with my boyfriend the other day. Now I want to get Chipotle and donuts.

  • @katelynchristi5125
    @katelynchristi5125 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful couple! Thank you for sharing!

  • @debradunham8508
    @debradunham8508 2 года назад +2

    Hey guys! I just love your relationship and you always keep it real. Good talk. Many Blessings .

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Thank you so much!♥️

  • @lungilemkhize640
    @lungilemkhize640 2 года назад +1

    Mature couple 💕 love how you grew from your experiences

  • @michellewilkesmatthews246
    @michellewilkesmatthews246 2 года назад +1

    We all have to grow up we have to know our worth and don't have to settle for less because I been there where I was settle for less but not any more but because I know who I'm as a woman

  • @spring7970
    @spring7970 2 года назад +2

    Hey TT and Jake. Enjoy your video and honesty

  • @samuelgatling4635
    @samuelgatling4635 2 года назад +4

    PS I would like to hear about if either of you dated outsIde of your "Race" previously? Just wondering!!

  • @bettiesally6486
    @bettiesally6486 2 года назад

    I agree with you Jake because I'm a happy person I let that person be who they are you have to know who you are

  • @monteesworld2305
    @monteesworld2305 2 года назад +1

    Great content

  • @theonly1deidra
    @theonly1deidra 2 года назад +2

    Such a breath of fresh air you two❤️

  • @jeanmeullion6641
    @jeanmeullion6641 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for Sharing. Love y'all.💝🌹

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      We love you back!♥️

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 2 года назад +1

    Y'all are adorable! Tfs

  • @cmdrew4409
    @cmdrew4409 2 года назад +4

    Beautiful couple-

  • @LTScheming
    @LTScheming 2 года назад

    Great video!

  • @icshawnie
    @icshawnie 2 года назад +1

    I love the sofritas, brown rice, and black beans...and chips n guacamole

  • @hischosen1409
    @hischosen1409 2 года назад +2

    What part of FL?

  • @mssimplicity9072
    @mssimplicity9072 2 года назад +1

    Please do a story time about life in your 20

  • @Thatwhiteb
    @Thatwhiteb 2 года назад +1

    Best video yet!

  • @mathildap.7705
    @mathildap.7705 5 месяцев назад

    Are you guys coming back to YT? Missing you both. Loved your chemistry. ...and you are such a cute couple.😊❤

  • @marymyatt3004
    @marymyatt3004 2 года назад +1

    💖Yall God Bless Yall❤

  • @backgroundsounds8529
    @backgroundsounds8529 Год назад

    You two are fun!!!

  • @alicechilds6842
    @alicechilds6842 Год назад +1

    where are you guys

  • @jeanmeullion6641
    @jeanmeullion6641 2 года назад

    👀 Watching again. Love y'all.💕💝

  • @romapatricia37
    @romapatricia37 2 года назад

    Hi guys! May I ask a question please? When Jake had to leave for work and you guys just started dating right like one or 2 dates, when he was away, were you consantly calling and or messaging each other or did weeks pass when you know like nothing, quiet. You know. Thanks

  • @adepejuariori686
    @adepejuariori686 Год назад

    TT, pls lay very low on laury season. It’s not good for human organs especially female reproduction.😍 much love. Keep loving, learning and enjoying each other.

  • @Jazeerakiko
    @Jazeerakiko 2 года назад +3

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ellajack
    @Ellajack 2 года назад

    hey guys looking good , all tan and relaxed ... enjoy your day

  • @deltoriamcclendon8246
    @deltoriamcclendon8246 Год назад

    You got him girl 😃😃😃😃

  • @alveradavis9537
    @alveradavis9537 7 месяцев назад

    Where are you guys ??

  • @larabelguzmana
    @larabelguzmana 2 года назад +1

    🥰

  • @lastaciesmith8960
    @lastaciesmith8960 Год назад

    Where are you two??

  • @jonathanharvey4678
    @jonathanharvey4678 2 года назад +1

    ❤🔥❤= TT & Jake

  • @francellamcgregor8616
    @francellamcgregor8616 2 года назад

    trying to watch all your videos

  • @jillstreet8364
    @jillstreet8364 2 года назад +1

    💕💕💕

  • @lindawilliams3863
    @lindawilliams3863 2 года назад

    I just notice Jake has big hands.....

  • @jo-angolding7819
    @jo-angolding7819 2 года назад +1

    🤩😍

  • @robertshanks3291
    @robertshanks3291 Год назад

    My dude! Get out of there isn't going to get worse.

  • @cuttieBUNNY1
    @cuttieBUNNY1 2 года назад +1

    How do you guys able to not release on friend approval on your relationship and like lock in on how you guys feel? Most of my life I relied on friends ( great friends) to help me in dating advice because I have not dated much but even when they encourage me to do my own thing I feel like insecure about making the wrong decisions. I also am christian and they to pray ... but I guess is there ever a time you feel 100% certain of your choice? or do you take it day by day?

  • @lisamarcelle4416
    @lisamarcelle4416 2 года назад +2

    Only Americans change mukbang…..they talk during mukbang. You are suppose to JUST EAT so we can hear the sounds.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Ahhhh thanks for clarifying 🥰

    • @athleegraham8279
      @athleegraham8279 2 года назад

      You guys are so cool blessing.