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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @debbiesmith3443
    @debbiesmith3443 2 года назад +20

    I remember the 80/20 rule, I first heard about it in a movie with Jill Scott Janet Jackson and other wonderful characters in that movie, can I just say you two are so relatable and down-to-earth much respect.🤗😉

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +3

      Aw thank you 😌♥️

    • @debbiesmith3443
      @debbiesmith3443 2 года назад +2

      @@TTandJake you're absolutely welcome.😊❤

    • @charlyeee92
      @charlyeee92 2 года назад +1

      mhm! it’s from “Why Did I Get Married?”! such a good Tyler Perry movie!

  • @leesharose03
    @leesharose03 2 года назад +6

    I first heard of the 80/20 rule from “why did I get married” movie and it made a lot of sense to me, it’s nice that you both are applying it to your relationship and you are absolutely right society likes to spotlight Toxic things I think it’s time we spotlight Positive relationships and positive things in general. I think the world would be much better off if we did that more 😊

  • @kckgirl78
    @kckgirl78 2 года назад +4

    I first heard the 80/20 rule in the Tyler Perry movie “Why Did I Get Married?”.

  • @kimberlyowens4558
    @kimberlyowens4558 Год назад +1

    80/20 rule comes from the Tyler Perry's movie with Jill Scout and Janet Jackson where long term friends/couples do their annual getaway where they love each other and are full disclosure with each other because they're actually FAMILY. I believe it's WHY DID I GET MARRIED.

  • @cegecej
    @cegecej 2 года назад +2

    Jake's dance around the 8:20 mark is funny......we know that sandwich is good! Also, what you guys discuss is extremely helpful so please don't stop

  • @gloriamkhize9586
    @gloriamkhize9586 2 года назад +6

    "Not trying to prove who is right or wrong", wow,that hit me hard.From now on,will try to apply that rule in my life.Stay blesses and keep loving ❤ each other.🥰

  • @carolsimeton1950
    @carolsimeton1950 2 года назад +2

    I just wanted to let you guys know I admire your relationship. Keep the love ❤️ going for one another. There's nothing like a healthy lifestyle loving relationship.

  • @brendawalker8280
    @brendawalker8280 2 года назад +6

    That's a great rule......I like how you guys match with each other.....Love is great when you fine the right person...God bless

  • @spring7970
    @spring7970 2 года назад +5

    Hi TT and Jake. I heard the 80/20 from why did I get married movie but the context was different in the movie. I like the approach of the 80/20 the way you described it. I think it's important to communicate with your mate.

  • @deltoriamcclendon8246
    @deltoriamcclendon8246 Год назад

    TT and Jake I love your honesty, your patience with each other and willingness to let the other have their time to chill. Your ability to talk TO and LISTEN Is essential!! I Love you two cause you keep it real👍🏾😊. By the way I tried a couple of vegetarian dishes...........not for me. 😊. TT those fries sure looked delicious, I haven't had them in over 3yrs. 🤔 maybe I will try some. 😃❤❤❤👵

  • @marvabaker961
    @marvabaker961 7 месяцев назад

    Good to see them again. I hope that they still happily together. ❤❤

  • @moe_creations
    @moe_creations 2 года назад +3

    I think more people need to know about the 80/20 rule, might be more helpful to newly married couples too. Thanks so much for sharing, have a great night!

  • @sheena.m7802
    @sheena.m7802 2 года назад +1

    Saw this notification at work and couldn't wait to get home and watch 😂

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Hope you enjoyed it! 😊

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd2289 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing the positive effect of the 80/20 rule in your relationship. I think it’s wonderful that effective communication has brought you two lovebirds even closer. I admire your desire to be of benefit to others by sharing those things that are working for you. I enjoyed l the sit down session immensely. Looking forward to the next one. Gild Bless.

  • @kckgirl78
    @kckgirl78 2 года назад +4

    Always enjoyable to listen as you guys share your thoughts and navigate your life together. Blessings! 👏🏽❤️

  • @cookingwithkj1776
    @cookingwithkj1776 4 месяца назад

    The 80/20 rule, also known as the Pareto Principle, originated with Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto in 1896 or 1897. Pareto observed that 80% of the land in Italy was owned by 20% of the population, and that 20% of the peapods in his garden contained 80% of the peas. He later observed the same phenomenon in other countries and with other things, such as wealth distribution and plant productivity.

  • @Lisa-mh3ff
    @Lisa-mh3ff 2 года назад +2

    Happy Lovings Day ❤️

  • @sandythompson5096
    @sandythompson5096 2 года назад +2

    With you TT 💯 on GSW. Now here in SE Michigan Chik-fil-a lines are as long as Jake described for Raising Cane. I also first heard of the 80/20 rule in a Tyler Perry movie. It was used to explain that relationships are never 50/50. Just as you say, one or the other partner would give/do more based on circumstances, without feeling put upon or resentful.
    I do enjoy your Mukbang videos‼️💞🥰

  • @mellowhaven
    @mellowhaven 2 года назад

    Hi TT and Jake, thanks for sharing the great communication tips. Yes TT, I am interested in hearing what life was like for y'all in your 20"s. Stay blessed.! 🤗

  • @lalathadon2540
    @lalathadon2540 2 года назад

    I’m 36, married with 3 kids and y’all really help people . My husband has horrible communication but I commend you guys. I think adding children to the mix makes it hard especially when you have a party we who doesn’t communicate. I feel 100 % of the weight mentally and emotionally most of the time so thank you.

  • @simonegamboa3434
    @simonegamboa3434 2 года назад +3

    Hey guys long time. Raising canes I like and the sweet tea.. and when you mentioned Ike’s I was thinking if my favorites 1. Fall’in for Ike’s and 2. Maya Angelou.. so yummy and filling. Glad to see y’all doing well! Stay blessed and have a good week 🤗.

  • @ericatoliver4175
    @ericatoliver4175 2 года назад +4

    Absolutely beautiful. I so enjoy watching the both of you. Still waiting for the exciting news you have to share. Keep making each other happy. Stay safe and happy!

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      🥰🥰🥰 it’s coming soon!

  • @kadianesson209
    @kadianesson209 2 года назад +3

    Nuff love from Jamaica

  • @NellesTube
    @NellesTube 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing guys. I love you both 🤍🤗

  • @DairiesofaDarkSkinBeauty
    @DairiesofaDarkSkinBeauty 2 года назад

    I've never heard of the 80/20 rule, but I like it & will apply. Thanks.

  • @patricejackson2583
    @patricejackson2583 2 года назад +1

    ALWAYS LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!!

  • @tylerfaith...thenguasetwin1692
    @tylerfaith...thenguasetwin1692 2 года назад +2

    I love how you apply the 80/20 rule...quite interesting!
    For me, I always thought it only applies to character/qualities in terms of strengths and weaknesses one will tolerate in a relationship etc!
    Just a quick question to both TT & Jake... If possible, I will love to see videos where you are also cooking or making your own meals😜!
    How much are you spending on take away food?

  • @almurry8943
    @almurry8943 2 года назад +2

    Hey guys! I believe they talked about the 80/20 rule in the movie “Why Did I Get Married?”

  • @sisterlinda4688
    @sisterlinda4688 2 года назад

    The 80/20 rule has come to mean different things in different areas of life - however, it is originally a business term: The 80-20 rule, also known as the Pareto Principle, is a familiar saying that asserts that 80% of outcomes (or outputs) result from 20% of all causes (or inputs) for any given event. In business, a goal of the 80-20 rule is to identify inputs that are potentially the most productive and make them the priority. ---------- in my business it means that 20% of the people are usually leadership and 80%...; in my church life it means 20% of the people do most of the work and 80% has less responsibility...

  • @charlenecoleman5519
    @charlenecoleman5519 2 года назад +1

    well,well,well okay welcome backkkkkk TT AND JAKE seems like ya"ll have been gone 4everrrrrr and we miss you guys we love ya"ll videos no matter what they are about 😏🤎🤍👍👍!

  • @sheena.m7802
    @sheena.m7802 2 года назад +1

    Love your sit down videos ❤️

  • @angelashafer8470
    @angelashafer8470 2 года назад

    Brene Brown discussed this in her Netflix special. It’s very helpful!!

  • @israelalva8391
    @israelalva8391 2 года назад

    Thanks guys for sharing the 80/20 rule and also you talking about the communication.... For sure that's a step ahead in any relationship to build a strong bond.... Sometimes work schedules and procedures at place of work can ruin your mood at work and at home... But as you have said... Work moods should be left at work and once you're back home embress the joy you do share with your family or your partner......
    Thank you ... Be blessed...
    Jah bless your relationship

  • @dianneturner7026
    @dianneturner7026 2 года назад

    TT & Jake...I Love How You Make Healthy Relationships Dope!!! I support implementing the 80/20 Rule because like you both said... It's unspoken rule which says I need a little more Help without having to say so. It"s code for "You Already Know" Because sometimes the best way we can express our feelings is simple as "Meh". You Both Love, Respect and Your Personalities & Sense of Humor Clicks!!! Shows Us That It Can & Will Work If You Work It!!!!

  • @anointedoneac8748
    @anointedoneac8748 2 года назад +2

    Thanks guys

  • @leonrenaud9935
    @leonrenaud9935 2 года назад +1

    Totally right 80/20

  • @kimmiller9614
    @kimmiller9614 2 года назад

    I so agree with everything you all are saying, I am always communicating

  • @gayemercer5088
    @gayemercer5088 2 года назад +1

    Great informative vlog 👍

  • @michellewilkesmatthews246
    @michellewilkesmatthews246 2 года назад +2

    On tyler Perry movie

  • @ThisEvilBunny
    @ThisEvilBunny 2 года назад

    The Pareto principle is also known as the 80/20 rule. It's named after the Italian economist of the same name, hope that helps.

  • @jennifergranati8096
    @jennifergranati8096 2 года назад +1

    Lovely couple ✨🌟💥❤️

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 2 года назад

    Go Warriors!!! #4 in 8!

  • @1safespace828
    @1safespace828 2 года назад

    TT & JAKE MY PBJ 💞🌸 Yall are super cute🌺

  • @ocedkin9147
    @ocedkin9147 2 года назад +1

    The 80/20 Rule is workable.

  • @catrinagoins324
    @catrinagoins324 2 года назад

    It’s called the Pareto Principle and initially referred to the growth of pea pods, but has since been Realized that it can cover many aspects of human life

  • @patriciamorgan3171
    @patriciamorgan3171 11 месяцев назад

    Food looks inviting. Both your sandwiches looks scrumptious😋

  • @diannadawson4429
    @diannadawson4429 2 года назад

    I’m very familiar with this; however I gave 98 and he gave 2, so that’s some jacked up math that gets exhausting. Now with my sons, this worked pretty well most of the time. And now that they’re grown we have wonderful adult relationships, which I love!

  • @theonly1deidra
    @theonly1deidra 2 года назад +2

    Pareto’s 80/20 Rule

  • @calimomof20824
    @calimomof20824 2 года назад +5

    Is it just me or does Jake look a lot like Joel Kinnaman?
    On another note their relationship seems so strong and I love the respect they share for each other.

  • @jillstreet8364
    @jillstreet8364 2 года назад +1

    My babes😀💕💕

  • @angelashafer8470
    @angelashafer8470 2 года назад

    Go Warriors!!

  • @belindalindsey607
    @belindalindsey607 2 года назад

    Bishop Jakes preached about it in a sermon and it was incorporated into the movie, Why Did I Get Married?

  • @jeannetteduette6704
    @jeannetteduette6704 2 года назад +1

    Suggestion
    I would like to see you two spend a few days I. New Orlean for a
    food tasting experience where you can eat some GOOD FOOD.
    You both enjoy the dinning experience and New Orleans would be
    the perfect food venue for y'all.
    Hope you consider dining in NO.

  • @theonly1deidra
    @theonly1deidra 2 года назад +1

    You know how i feel ❤️❤️❤️ you ‼️

  • @chantecampbell2207
    @chantecampbell2207 2 года назад +1

    I think I heard it fro Brenè Brown.

  • @tsimmonds55
    @tsimmonds55 2 года назад

    So I haven't heard of the 80 20 rule in this context. I've only heard of it in healthy eating terms where you eat 80% healthy foods and 20% junk cause sometimes you just need that piece of cake or a cookie but having 80 20 in terms of a relationship is great. I will use it in my next relationship.

  • @savannahstoudmire8660
    @savannahstoudmire8660 2 года назад +2

    Something I realized, neither of you are affectionate towards each other. There's never any hugs, kisses or touching between the 2 of you.

    • @wilmaflinstone7650
      @wilmaflinstone7650 2 года назад

      How you know that? Are you living with them? If not how would u know that they aren't affectionate with each other. They don't have to show or prove their love to people on RUclips.

    • @savannahstoudmire8660
      @savannahstoudmire8660 2 года назад

      @@wilmaflinstone7650 See here's the problem with trying to interact with social media, I think I was trying to communicate with the owners of this social media site and not a passerby. By the way Tt and Jake thank you for the holding hands on your newest video, loved it and it made me smile.❤️ It also lets us know you're reading our comments. Love you guys 💓

  • @J.Ren09
    @J.Ren09 2 года назад

    Pause 6:25. Completely off topic, but I got side track by how big that chicken sandwich looked. 😂The Chick- fil- A in VA where I live make those sandwiches small. I feel robbed😂.

  • @johnbeck34
    @johnbeck34 2 года назад +1

    Why did i get married movie

  • @jesswilliams1025
    @jesswilliams1025 2 года назад

    It was mention in the Tyler Perry movie, why did I get marry.

  • @ZuriDsWellness
    @ZuriDsWellness 2 года назад +2

    You 2 r 2 Cute. 👍🏽🦋😘

  • @dianeglazier1673
    @dianeglazier1673 2 года назад +2

    Does Jeffrey The Giraffe Use The 80/20 Rule❓😂

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      😂😂 he loves to sneak in the video whenever he can!

  • @mikem957
    @mikem957 2 года назад +2

    All I could do is stare at that delicious chicken sandwich. 😋

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Hahaha

    • @mikem957
      @mikem957 2 года назад

      @@TTandJake 😂😂

    • @christinearceneaux4791
      @christinearceneaux4791 2 года назад +1

      It looks like it’s chick fila

    • @mikem957
      @mikem957 2 года назад

      @@christinearceneaux4791 Thanks Captain Obvious.😂😉

  • @yvonnemorales4936
    @yvonnemorales4936 2 года назад

    I'm old school and the rule is 100 100 each person should put 100% in the relationship. You give all of yourself not part of yourselves.

  • @samuelgatling4635
    @samuelgatling4635 2 года назад +1

    Just a reference point of info: I think you guys are supportive of the LGBTQIA community. If you are, you will NEVER eat from Chick fil la again! They are terrible to our community. Just saying! Of course you can eat from wherever you want, BUT you Guys seem SO chill and kul I thought I would share this info! I still luv ya' As always greetings from The Chi!!! Keep doin you!!!