Wow.... this is the first time I've heard a description of what the complex is that makes complete sense and isn't vague. It makes working to heal the complex far more possible. When I hear Marie Louise Von-Franz talk about a complex and the only way to deal with it is to stay away from the person/ experience touching it, feels much more confusing and overwhelming. Thank you so much!! 🙏
This is something I hope will be received as constructive criticism by Dr. Lu, toward helping him become a better speaker: In a nutshell, he should delete the word "right?" from his vocabulary, unless he's describing a physical direction (left, right, etc.). As a matter of gaining insight, he should listen to this recording, and create a tick-mark tally of how many times he says, "right?". Most likely, he'll be surprised... I have the feeling that in his manner of use of the word "right?", he's checking in with the listener, to make sure what he's just said has been understood - but, the problem with this, is that he never waits for a response to his inquiry. Once he's said "right?", he just plunges ahead in his dialogue. If it was a sincere, respectful inquiry, he'd wait for a response. But as it is, the inquiry occurs in an o/c manner, almost like a nervous tic in a facial muscle; e.g., the mouth. It's my opinion that if he can knock the word "right?" out of his vocabulary, his quality as a public speaker will immensely improve.
Wow.... this is the first time I've heard a description of what the complex is that makes complete sense and isn't vague.
It makes working to heal the complex far more possible. When I hear Marie Louise Von-Franz talk about a complex and the only way to deal with it is to stay away from the person/ experience touching it, feels much more confusing and overwhelming. Thank you so much!! 🙏
24:10 complexes
thank you 💜
Really helpful video. Thanks for uploading.
Ah man. I love this guy!
This is great! Thanks for putting it together
Thank you for sharing this lecture. Synchronization and unconscious /consciousness of personal and collective, east and west.
🙏🏼 thank you
This is something I hope will be received as constructive criticism by Dr. Lu, toward helping him become a better speaker: In a nutshell, he should delete the word "right?" from his vocabulary, unless he's describing a physical direction (left, right, etc.). As a matter of gaining insight, he should listen to this recording, and create a tick-mark tally of how many times he says, "right?". Most likely, he'll be surprised... I have the feeling that in his manner of use of the word "right?", he's checking in with the listener, to make sure what he's just said has been understood - but, the problem with this, is that he never waits for a response to his inquiry. Once he's said "right?", he just plunges ahead in his dialogue. If it was a sincere, respectful inquiry, he'd wait for a response. But as it is, the inquiry occurs in an o/c manner, almost like a nervous tic in a facial muscle; e.g., the mouth. It's my opinion that if he can knock the word "right?" out of his vocabulary, his quality as a public speaker will immensely improve.
you just expressed my thoughts
Way too many ads…. Come on!
Right?!?!? Dr lu. It's so distracting. And slightly condescending? I'll see if your later talks fixed this but I just... Can't take it.