I really don't care if my Dr is paying women for "company" in his personal life but I do care that he gets what he wants a rips others off. I do care that he takes advantage of women in positions that usually wouldn't call the police because of how their making money. That makes him a scumy calculating creep and I don't want that as a doctor.
Story 3: YTA I'm a woman. Let me break it down for a man who thinks "this came out of nowhere." Fighting means she still wants the relationship. She's trying to be heard. It "suddenly getting better" means she realized she was never going to get what she needed from you, and disengaging from the relationship. Her asking you to pick her up and spend time was her final chance to prove you could put her first, and you blew it. Men like this will always think that it's not their fault and that it blindised them. She was begging for you to prioritize her, and you went along on your merry way, happy that she finally shut up, stopped nagging and fighting and everything was "peaceful." Well, now you can enjoy your peace and quiet. Alone. Or with the people you really love - your buddies.
What exactly did they want OP to do? Arrest the woman? Son would have to testify. The texts go public. Medical school finds out. That's assuming kid does not get arrested at least for solicitation. A good DA could get him for fraud and few other charges. Pay the woman and be glad she does not have a pimp. Otherwise he would have learned his lesson with a broken arm. At best.
Eh not really, you think wayyyyyy too highly of the underworld, like sure they’ll beat on the girl for not getting the money, but they won’t bother with the 25yo because that brings attention to themselves who are also illegal immigrants so they fear going to the police with these things A LOT of these girls will be illegal modern day slaves
Cps and the courts need physical evidence. My parents had dhs in their lives due to my ex finaces criminal background and had to be monitored for at least 6 months but parents without a criminal record can be looked over in the system no matter who reports it
Depending on the state they said escort so I assume they mean legal exports which are a thing but depending on the state they are so considered prostitution so she could just get a fine and jail time for prostitution
I think they just want OP to confront the woman with full uniform, waving her badge around and threatened her to "cease and desist" or she´ll be arrested. They think that would be enough to intimidate the woman into silence.
Your husbands grown brother and his wife needed a place to stay, you kindly allow it. They have the umpf to complain about a twin bed? Fudge em let ‘em stay in the street., that should shut em up.
I'm reminded of a quote from a lady about guests in her home, although I forgot who she was. "The first day I will serve you. The second day you serve yourself. The third day you serve me."
Story #2: NTA!! Finally a husband that chooses his wife over his own family!! Kudos to you for looking after those children!! Let them sleep in their car if they're so keen on sleeping close together!! Should be plenty of room in the back seat!!
OP and hubby are wonderful people for helping the foster children. They are NTA . The room is meant to help children. But OP and hubby were kind enough to help hubby's homeless brother & his wife. They stayed for 2 months. They truly don't have rights to complain when they are in a warm place, have electric heat food and a bed to sleep on. It is better than none. Bro and his wife should be busy looking for employment,saving money, or looking into programs and new place to live not complain about beds. if other relatives agree with bro, he & his wife can stay with them instead. I would be tired of their complaining & would want to kick them out. Truly glad hubby has a steel back and supports OP and that OP is doing. Kick them out and go back to helping the children cuz I bet they are more appreciative of your and your hubby's help than the brother & his wife. Bro & his wife should be grateful they have family and relatives who love them and try to help. It sounds like these poor foster children don't even have that. V
to The Parents: _"Oh, yes, I will certainly help out your dawg of a son, let me have those screenshots, please."_ then to The Vice Squad: _"Har! I got this luzer who won't even pay for 'escorts' he enlisted. I need your 'advice' on this... wink wink."_ "No prob... we got it."
Story 1: OP IS helping him. I am firm believer in the idea that support doesn't just mean signing off on whatever the fuck they are doing. Support means telling them when they're wrong when they are wrong and trying to hold them accountable. That's what she's doing and that's the best support in this kid and his family needs right now Also, the first comment is completely incorrect. Police officers have discretion over every case that comes in front of them.
There is zero reason to change a number (5) to “kindergarten number of kids”. I get there are ridiculous RUclips censors, but c’mon. I’ve noticed this trend recently of this channel censoring actual numbers (not ages) and since this has a real narrator and not AI (which I love!), please stop being so ridiculously cautious.
Story #4: How much you want to bet that he'll wake up one day and Social Services will be knocking on his door? I'd call the police and tell them that CPS isn't doing anything to help the other kids! It's freaking amazing that they came after his sister when they reported her missing but did nothing for the other kids!
And I’m with the other commenters that this likely wasn’t the first time OP prioritized drinking with buddies over his partner. Is this guy Peter Griffin?
Speaking as a retired payroll clerk, the government will garnish up to 90% of a person's paycheck for things like this and back taxes. They will leave him the net equivalent of what a part time worker earns pre-tax. It's up to him to learn how to budget, as well as look for a second job.
Story 3: OP is a pretty damn huge idiot. You don't go drinking when you're supposed to go driving later or at least limit yourself to a very low amount.
"How can you be so selfish? You KNOW I don't love any of my children, you included. So why aren't you with us to do our job for us and give us money? What's wrong with you?" I know that everybody thinks they are the main hero of their own story but rarely I see a real life Zapp Brannigan.
Personally, I've got no issues with people (even doctors) arranging to meet "escorts" [quotes intentional] for sex. But the "escort" in question isn't committing extortion; she's merely requesting payment for services arranged. "They had kindergartner kids in seven years" - FFS, I know the narrator isn't AI, and really should know when it's necessary [never IMHO] to obfuscate children's ages and when the number isn't an age at all. They had FIVE kids.
Last Story - Well, OP said she wasn't from the States, so maybe things are different wherever she lives, but if Grandpa is paying the child support and is current, why would CPS deduct from his paycheck. Something is missing from the story.
11:03 call CPS on your parents now. With those parents they actually are in serious dängêr. Ik it’s äwfùl but maybe they will take it seriously now bc there’s no one there taking care of them.
I understand punishing somebody for not paying child support however how is it productive to take away somebody's driver's license, the way they get to work, or even jailing them because of back child support? how do you pay back child support if you can't work because you don't have a license or you're in jail?
OP YTA. Even though it wasn't confirmed whether ot not you needed to pick her up., you should have been ready to do so. It makes no sense to have gone to a bar when you know you need to be sober to drive. You decided drinking was more important to you than her. I would have broken up with you too.
"I hadn't anticipated getting drunk"... WTF? Drunk isn't something that happens to you like getting the flu or being struck by lightning. "She would let me know if she was feeling better". That's not something in your control like getting drunk was. YTA, moron. She dodged a bullet.
Last story: I was about to say what that one commenter said. In practically all of the civilized world there are caps on how much of someone's wages can be deducted by any official means, to prevent people being left with no money at all to spend on necessities. That man is telling lies and if she gives him back even a cent it'll harm her and the kids in the long term. He can ask his family to give him that money, if he desperately needs it. But I doubt that. Although there was one scandal back in the 70's in Sweden where a children's book author had to pay 102% of her income as taxes, due to her technically needing to pay as both an individual AND as an employer since she was self-employed. She wrote a satirical story about it and has that published in a tabloid.
Last story: Actually, no, $200 is NOTHING for gas and lunch a grand maximum for a couple days. If they garnish to the point he can't put gas into the car and he can't get to work and loses the job how is that going to help ANYONE? They might have a limit of how much they can garnish but that doesn't mean they're allowing him enough to live off of given the government's current idea of what minimum (aka 'living') wage is. Which is not sufficient to live on.
Story 1: YTA for protecting him from a crime. My uncle is a police officer and said if I ever end up doing a crime like drugs or this or etc, he would personally be the one to kick in my door and drag me to jail. (assuming my mom doesn't kill me first)
@@klemenhudobreznik3421because even if he pays the person, it's still illegal in 50 states to buy sex and she will just look the other way if he pays.
She’s actually committing a crime herself, she’s extorting him. She’s threatening to arrest him and destroy his career and reputation unless he pays this woman, who by the way is a criminal.
If he's likely to be arrested for solicitation, then she can be arrested, too. As an officer, that's the route OP should have taken. Now we all know she's similar to other crooked cops.
Drunk at 40: OP and everyone else keep commenting on how MUCH he drank, but my thought is, why drink AT ALL if you're supposed drive someone later??? That's what would bug me most if I were her, that he was taking chances with his life and mine when I was depending on him.
If the son can be arrested for solicitation then the "escort" can be arrested for prostitution.. If it isn't legal for him to get an escort that it's not legal to be an escort there..
Twin beds NTI. Would they perfer the couch and floor? When you are a guest you sleep in the accommodations that are available, and here they actually get their own beds. Why are they whinning? They should be thanking OP and husband profusely.
1st - YTA. A crime is being committed, one which exposes the criminal to serious and possible fatal diseases, which the criminal can pass onto innocent people in the course of him pursuing a medical degree. It is the OP’s sworn duty to protect people and this does include preventing a vector access to innocent victims. STD’s are transmitted by physical contact and medical students will shadow doctors, treating patients, and could spread the diseases as they come in contact with patients. Friends’ son is a whiny, crybaby, entitled brat running to mommy and daddy because he was called out for committing fraud. He was raised an entitled thief and liar and should never receive anything that puts this criminal into any profession requiring trust.
So, corrupt for a good reason is still corrupt. I have worked in and around law enforcement for a long time now, the appropriate action was to have taken the evidence and testimony about the phone call to OP's immediate superior immediately. From there it goes to the prosecutor's office. Period. And the man's parents are idiots for calling a cop with evidence of their son's crimes if they wanted those crimes to go unpunished.
Did they just realize they committed a crime right is David Lee went to this dude and said hey we know you're a police commissioner Chief and we want you to commit this very serious crime that could get you arrested and our son arrested as well I would look them in the eye and say if you do this again I'm going to arrest all of you you're lucky I'm not doing it now and if anyone says oh well she should have helped him
Here's a thought instead of working so hard to control the bodies of women that don't want kids ..lets try taking a look at the adults that pop kids out like a damn game while knowing full well they cant / won't care for them smfh.
I hope that the lady in the first story gets arrested for misusing her power. I hate corrupt cops like her who even have the gall to ask a question like that to the general public like as if she was asking if a sweater makes her look fat if she wore it in a certain light? I swear some of the people on Reddit have no shame. I listen to reddit honestly because it makes me feel better about my crappy life decisions compared to a lot of people who are out there in these reddit stories. But luckily there are some good people on Reddit who tell people that they are the idiot or they are the a-hole, etc. That's the best part of reddit to me.
But take a drug dealers drugs without paying, there is going to be consequences greater than what it would cost. Pay people whose goods and services you use or don't use them, you can't decide it's morally wrong after then refuse to pay that is way worse.
I don't know where they are, but we are talking about an escort here, not a streetcorner girl, so they might work through legal means and that is why she is not afraid of exposing him.
I see a bunch of these "Woe is me" posts about the future being uncertain. I was that way also, but I did something about it. I got my GED and then joined the Army. After discharge, used the GI Bill to go to Uni. That was 50 odd years ago and I've had a very good life. Have a house paid for years ago, a brand new car, paid for. Have $750,000 in retirement funds but live mostly on my $2300 SSI. Go where I want, do what I want, whenever I want. Raised several kids successfully (all girls) who have carved out successful lives. The only thing that I really want would be to get in a hot tub with Uma Thurman.. Uma, if you're reading this, drop me a line!
@richridegold610 Probably because OP mentioned keeping her mouth shut to a lot of stuff before this. OP is an officer of the law; the power she holds is to be used for the betterment of society. It is NOT to be used to do favors for friends.
@@richrosegold610probably because OP is breaking the law (what she’s doing is actual extortion) and covering for a prostitute in order to get one over on her friends kid, who she seems to genuinely loath for some odd reason
the drinking story nta, he texted her mid flight that he was drunk and she told him not to pick her up, was she at the airport waiting for ages no, she was literally still the in the sky and she even said she wasnt sure he should pick her up
Definitely YTA. Why is he out drinking with his buddies when he knew it was a strong possibility he would have to pick up his girlfriend? This is a 40yr man and he knew that picking up his girlfriend should have been his priority and not drinking with his boys.
@@MrJpaynebb because hes allowed to socialse with friends? he texted her mid flight and she told him not to pick her up but then still wants him to pick her up? and its a 40yr old women aswell, so he cant socialise anymore with other people he knows? na she was looking for any excuse to drop him but didnt use her big girl pants to communicate anything even though shes 40
Story 1: “My friends helped me and my family a lot with very serious things. When their son tried to stiff a hooker, she blackmailed him into giving her the money or she’d destroy his reputation. They asked me to help him, so I pretended I was going to help in order to collect evidence against this turd (who I seem to loathe for unspecified reasons). Once I had enough evidence, I upgraded the blackmail to actual extortion by threatening of arresting him on to of destroying his reputation.” Jesus Christ, what a god awful person. If you don’t want to help them just tell them no. I don’t expect her to break the law for her friends kid, but instead she decided to break the law and extort her friends kid. OP sounds like a genuinely bad person, I hope her “friends” realize this and leave her
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There a big difference from helping to get back on your feet and asking you someone to do a crime
And would they help OP get back on her feet once she loses her job helping them? Doubt it
I really don't care if my Dr is paying women for "company" in his personal life but I do care that he gets what he wants a rips others off. I do care that he takes advantage of women in positions that usually wouldn't call the police because of how their making money. That makes him a scumy calculating creep and I don't want that as a doctor.
Fully agreed. What you do on your time is your choice and business. How you treat people, on the other hand, is everyone's business.
25yo creep should never have a medical license.
You have a wonderful husband. Family stayed for free.
Yup. You knew she was going to be in town, one way or another. Show what is important to you.
Don't change that room, you're providing a safe place for children who need safety and comfort. Good on you!!
And if they have a problem with the beds then why not look elsewhere to stay? I’m so glad OPs spouse has her back
Story 1. There was absolutely an expectation of repayment. They were buying a "connection".
Story 3: YTA
I'm a woman. Let me break it down for a man who thinks "this came out of nowhere."
Fighting means she still wants the relationship. She's trying to be heard. It "suddenly getting better" means she realized she was never going to get what she needed from you, and disengaging from the relationship.
Her asking you to pick her up and spend time was her final chance to prove you could put her first, and you blew it.
Men like this will always think that it's not their fault and that it blindised them.
She was begging for you to prioritize her, and you went along on your merry way, happy that she finally shut up, stopped nagging and fighting and everything was "peaceful."
Well, now you can enjoy your peace and quiet. Alone.
Or with the people you really love - your buddies.
What exactly did they want OP to do? Arrest the woman? Son would have to testify. The texts go public. Medical school finds out. That's assuming kid does not get arrested at least for solicitation. A good DA could get him for fraud and few other charges. Pay the woman and be glad she does not have a pimp. Otherwise he would have learned his lesson with a broken arm. At best.
Eh not really, you think wayyyyyy too highly of the underworld, like sure they’ll beat on the girl for not getting the money, but they won’t bother with the 25yo because that brings attention to themselves who are also illegal immigrants so they fear going to the police with these things
A LOT of these girls will be illegal modern day slaves
Cps and the courts need physical evidence. My parents had dhs in their lives due to my ex finaces criminal background and had to be monitored for at least 6 months but parents without a criminal record can be looked over in the system no matter who reports it
Depending on the state they said escort so I assume they mean legal exports which are a thing but depending on the state they are so considered prostitution so she could just get a fine and jail time for prostitution
@@TOMMY716 seeing as how he could be arrested for solicitation, I am going to have to go with one where it is illegal.
I think they just want OP to confront the woman with full uniform, waving her badge around and threatened her to "cease and desist" or she´ll be arrested.
They think that would be enough to intimidate the woman into silence.
Child support: they can only take a maximum of 25% of his check between ALL garbishments
OMG, I LOVE this OP!!!!!!! THANK you for seeing the nuances of life and pursuing true justice.
Although I do also 100% love the comment that pointed out an alternative way to handle this with more integrity.
Story 3: The fact that this guy cant see that hes obviously the AH makes him twice the AH.
Your husbands grown brother and his wife needed a place to stay, you kindly allow it. They have the umpf to complain about a twin bed? Fudge em let ‘em stay in the street., that should shut em up.
Story 2. Nta. The biggest mistake you can make with a guest is making them too comfortable
Which OP commented about so these people may have a history of overstaying their welcome
I'm reminded of a quote from a lady about guests in her home, although I forgot who she was. "The first day I will serve you. The second day you serve yourself. The third day you serve me."
@@Eppon6 i like that one. 😂
Story #2: NTA!! Finally a husband that chooses his wife over his own family!! Kudos to you for looking after those children!! Let them sleep in their car if they're so keen on sleeping close together!! Should be plenty of room in the back seat!!
Last Story: Tell his lying ass to go back to court and work it out with them!!
Choosing beggars are the worst. Do not make them more comfortable than the basics.
OP and hubby are wonderful people for helping the foster children. They are NTA . The room is meant to help children. But OP and hubby were kind enough to help hubby's homeless brother & his wife. They stayed for 2 months. They truly don't have rights to complain when they are in a warm place, have electric heat food and a bed to sleep on. It is better than none. Bro and his wife should be busy looking for employment,saving money, or looking into programs and new place to live not complain about beds. if other relatives agree with bro, he & his wife can stay with them instead. I would be tired of their complaining & would want to kick them out. Truly glad hubby has a steel back and supports OP and that OP is doing. Kick them out and go back to helping the children cuz I bet they are more appreciative of your and your hubby's help than the brother & his wife.
Bro & his wife should be grateful they have family and relatives who love them and try to help. It sounds like these poor foster children don't even have that. V
to The Parents: _"Oh, yes, I will certainly help out your dawg of a son, let me have those screenshots, please."_
then to The Vice Squad: _"Har! I got this luzer who won't even pay for 'escorts' he enlisted. I need your 'advice' on this... wink wink."_
"No prob... we got it."
Story 3. Yeah i really cant understand how he's made it to 40 and still single.
He seems like such a catch. 🙄
😂
Story 2: Ahh beggars thinking they could be choosers. Husband was right to tell them to stfu or gtfo. Bet we know why they lost their jobs.
Story 1: OP IS helping him. I am firm believer in the idea that support doesn't just mean signing off on whatever the fuck they are doing. Support means telling them when they're wrong when they are wrong and trying to hold them accountable. That's what she's doing and that's the best support in this kid and his family needs right now
Also, the first comment is completely incorrect. Police officers have discretion over every case that comes in front of them.
There is zero reason to change a number (5) to “kindergarten number of kids”. I get there are ridiculous RUclips censors, but c’mon. I’ve noticed this trend recently of this channel censoring actual numbers (not ages) and since this has a real narrator and not AI (which I love!), please stop being so ridiculously cautious.
This channel has been doing this for years. If you don’t like it, go watch a different one.
Troll @@kaycee7109
“He’s just a young man.” 🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣
Agree every 18 year old should understand that breaking the laws has consequences
Arrest the man for "theft of services."
Technically that’s fraud, it’s illegal.
I was disappointed there wasn’t a garage, I’d have told them to put the queen air mattress in that garage!
You did not anticipate getting intoxicated? Was someone forcing the drinks down your throat?
That bottle of beer jumped off the table and into his mouth!
Yeah, is he in a room with an atomizer filled with booze? Talk about low responsibility.
Story #4: How much you want to bet that he'll wake up one day and Social Services will be knocking on his door? I'd call the police and tell them that CPS isn't doing anything to help the other kids! It's freaking amazing that they came after his sister when they reported her missing but did nothing for the other kids!
Problem is that the police would just refer him back to CPS
The parents were mad they lost their Nanny. That's all they cared about
Story 3 YTA he allowed her to make a choice and didn't bother to stay ready to pick her up if she wanted him to
And I’m with the other commenters that this likely wasn’t the first time OP prioritized drinking with buddies over his partner. Is this guy Peter Griffin?
@@lorilancaster5917 that was probly what the fighting was about, she was tired of picking up his intoxicated butt from the bar.
Deadbeat Dad: Your ex has done practically nothing for his children, so he should have plenty of money to spend😒
I keep saying that some of these men never wanted children to begin with 😂😂😂😂
He wants his children to live on 82 dollars???
Speaking as a retired payroll clerk, the government will garnish up to 90% of a person's paycheck for things like this and back taxes. They will leave him the net equivalent of what a part time worker earns pre-tax. It's up to him to learn how to budget, as well as look for a second job.
Story 3: OP is a pretty damn huge idiot. You don't go drinking when you're supposed to go driving later or at least limit yourself to a very low amount.
They're homeless. Luckily, they offered them a place to sleep temporarily.
"How can you be so selfish? You KNOW I don't love any of my children, you included. So why aren't you with us to do our job for us and give us money? What's wrong with you?" I know that everybody thinks they are the main hero of their own story but rarely I see a real life Zapp Brannigan.
Personally, I've got no issues with people (even doctors) arranging to meet "escorts" [quotes intentional] for sex. But the "escort" in question isn't committing extortion; she's merely requesting payment for services arranged.
"They had kindergartner kids in seven years" - FFS, I know the narrator isn't AI, and really should know when it's necessary [never IMHO] to obfuscate children's ages and when the number isn't an age at all. They had FIVE kids.
Story four was just: 🤯🤯🤯
Like SERIOUSLY!? "You know we won't" holy hell
Last Story - Well, OP said she wasn't from the States, so maybe things are different wherever she lives, but if Grandpa is paying the child support and is current, why would CPS deduct from his paycheck. Something is missing from the story.
11:03 call CPS on your parents now. With those parents they actually are in serious dängêr. Ik it’s äwfùl but maybe they will take it seriously now bc there’s no one there taking care of them.
100%
Story 1: LOOOOL “we gave our 25 year old son a stern talking to about not paying prostitutes” is the funniest thing i have ever read😂😂
He's in med school but has time to focus on wasting the time of other ppl?
He shouldn't be a doctor he obviously has a bias against women.
Story 1: NTA. They're demanding you commit misconduct because they raised a POS. You may owe them something, but not this.
Agree them helping Op in the past isn’t (in this case literally) get out of jail card
I understand punishing somebody for not paying child support however how is it productive to take away somebody's driver's license, the way they get to work, or even jailing them because of back child support? how do you pay back child support if you can't work because you don't have a license or you're in jail?
Abolish child support
OP YTA. Even though it wasn't confirmed whether ot not you needed to pick her up., you should have been ready to do so. It makes no sense to have gone to a bar when you know you need to be sober to drive. You decided drinking was more important to you than her. I would have broken up with you too.
Totally off-topic but that cat had Swagger
Those in-laws should be grateful for a place to stay. I'd tell them it is what it is; take it and be grateful or go somewhere else.
Kid Beds: "They made us sleep in kid beds!"
Well, see, the room was not intended for grown relatives, it was intended for KIDS. Thus, kid beds.
Looks like OP has a new girlfriend, and that’s Mrs. alcohol.
No, no, no. It should be read: "They had kindergartener kids in grade-school years." Please get it correct! [Actually, 5 kids in 7 years]
S1: 100% OP needs to arrest everyone. She's clearly aiding in this by not doing her job
"I hadn't anticipated getting drunk"... WTF? Drunk isn't something that happens to you like getting the flu or being struck by lightning. "She would let me know if she was feeling better". That's not something in your control like getting drunk was. YTA, moron. She dodged a bullet.
Last story: I was about to say what that one commenter said. In practically all of the civilized world there are caps on how much of someone's wages can be deducted by any official means, to prevent people being left with no money at all to spend on necessities. That man is telling lies and if she gives him back even a cent it'll harm her and the kids in the long term. He can ask his family to give him that money, if he desperately needs it. But I doubt that.
Although there was one scandal back in the 70's in Sweden where a children's book author had to pay 102% of her income as taxes, due to her technically needing to pay as both an individual AND as an employer since she was self-employed. She wrote a satirical story about it and has that published in a tabloid.
Selfish people wanting the room changed for them over desperate kids. Yikes!!!
St 1: NTA. He can’t arrest the son as he dosnt have proof. The son NEEDS to pay the woman.
Last story: Actually, no, $200 is NOTHING for gas and lunch a grand maximum for a couple days. If they garnish to the point he can't put gas into the car and he can't get to work and loses the job how is that going to help ANYONE? They might have a limit of how much they can garnish but that doesn't mean they're allowing him enough to live off of given the government's current idea of what minimum (aka 'living') wage is. Which is not sufficient to live on.
Story 1: YTA for protecting him from a crime.
My uncle is a police officer and said if I ever end up doing a crime like drugs or this or etc, he would personally be the one to kick in my door and drag me to jail. (assuming my mom doesn't kill me first)
HOW IS SHE PROTECTING HIM FROM CRIME WHEN EITHER HE PAYS UP OR GOES TO JAIL!
HE GETTING PUNISHED EITHER WAY!
@@klemenhudobreznik3421because even if he pays the person, it's still illegal in 50 states to buy sex and she will just look the other way if he pays.
She’s actually committing a crime herself, she’s extorting him. She’s threatening to arrest him and destroy his career and reputation unless he pays this woman, who by the way is a criminal.
If he's likely to be arrested for solicitation, then she can be arrested, too. As an officer, that's the route OP should have taken.
Now we all know she's similar to other crooked cops.
There’s crimes that hurt others, and there’s crimes that don’t.
Everyone knows that.
Everyone also knows that crimes are still criminal acts.
Drunk at 40: OP and everyone else keep commenting on how MUCH he drank, but my thought is, why drink AT ALL if you're supposed drive someone later??? That's what would bug me most if I were her, that he was taking chances with his life and mine when I was depending on him.
Does everyone assume that escort work is illegal? In my country it isnt. Is it still illegal in the USA?
In most states it is illegal. Nevada is the only one that is, and even that is by county. Calif and Maine have a partial decriminalization.
If the son can be arrested for solicitation then the "escort" can be arrested for prostitution..
If it isn't legal for him to get an escort that it's not legal to be an escort there..
Twin beds
NTI. Would they perfer the couch and floor? When you are a guest you sleep in the accommodations that are available, and here they actually get their own beds. Why are they whinning? They should be thanking OP and husband profusely.
1st - YTA. A crime is being committed, one which exposes the criminal to serious and possible fatal diseases, which the criminal can pass onto innocent people in the course of him pursuing a medical degree. It is the OP’s sworn duty to protect people and this does include preventing a vector access to innocent victims. STD’s are transmitted by physical contact and medical students will shadow doctors, treating patients, and could spread the diseases as they come in contact with patients. Friends’ son is a whiny, crybaby, entitled brat running to mommy and daddy because he was called out for committing fraud. He was raised an entitled thief and liar and should never receive anything that puts this criminal into any profession requiring trust.
So, corrupt for a good reason is still corrupt. I have worked in and around law enforcement for a long time now, the appropriate action was to have taken the evidence and testimony about the phone call to OP's immediate superior immediately. From there it goes to the prosecutor's office. Period. And the man's parents are idiots for calling a cop with evidence of their son's crimes if they wanted those crimes to go unpunished.
EITHER WAY SHE WILL GET THE DESIRED RESULT!
STOP WHINING ABOUT IT!
@klemenhudobreznik3421 She put her career on the line and has absolutely buried her integrity by not doing the above. Start using your brain.
Spies during WW2
@vincentlucario5450 Spies aren't expected to be ethical.
5:06 choosey beggars!
Did they just realize they committed a crime right is David Lee went to this dude and said hey we know you're a police commissioner Chief and we want you to commit this very serious crime that could get you arrested and our son arrested as well I would look them in the eye and say if you do this again I'm going to arrest all of you you're lucky I'm not doing it now and if anyone says oh well she should have helped him
6:08 queen air mattress very different than an actual bed
Here's a thought instead of working so hard to control the bodies of women that don't want kids ..lets try taking a look at the adults that pop kids out like a damn game while knowing full well they cant / won't care for them smfh.
I hope that the lady in the first story gets arrested for misusing her power. I hate corrupt cops like her who even have the gall to ask a question like that to the general public like as if she was asking if a sweater makes her look fat if she wore it in a certain light? I swear some of the people on Reddit have no shame. I listen to reddit honestly because it makes me feel better about my crappy life decisions compared to a lot of people who are out there in these reddit stories. But luckily there are some good people on Reddit who tell people that they are the idiot or they are the a-hole, etc. That's the best part of reddit to me.
story 1-ESH.
So you want them to do something illegal and pay the woman?
Its like paying a dealer for drugs...its wrong
But take a drug dealers drugs without paying, there is going to be consequences greater than what it would cost. Pay people whose goods and services you use or don't use them, you can't decide it's morally wrong after then refuse to pay that is way worse.
I don't know where they are, but we are talking about an escort here, not a streetcorner girl, so they might work through legal means and that is why she is not afraid of exposing him.
@@velvety2006 if it was legal she would take him to small claim courts.
And if it was legal he couldn't get arrested for solicitation..
I see a bunch of these "Woe is me" posts about the future being uncertain. I was that way also, but I did something about it. I got my GED and then joined the Army. After discharge, used the GI Bill to go to Uni. That was 50 odd years ago and I've had a very good life. Have a house paid for years ago, a brand new car, paid for. Have $750,000 in retirement funds but live mostly on my $2300 SSI. Go where I want, do what I want, whenever I want. Raised several kids successfully (all girls) who have carved out successful lives. The only thing that I really want would be to get in a hot tub with Uma Thurman.. Uma, if you're reading this, drop me a line!
Story one ESH
SAY POS FORGETING POLICE NEED TO DO THEIR JOB AT LEAST THAT WAY ON BASIC LEVEL!
SECOND SHE TEACHING THAT BRAT A LESSON MORALLY SPEAKING!
HOW? 🙄
@richridegold610 Probably because OP mentioned keeping her mouth shut to a lot of stuff before this. OP is an officer of the law; the power she holds is to be used for the betterment of society. It is NOT to be used to do favors for friends.
@@richrosegold610probably because OP is breaking the law (what she’s doing is actual extortion) and covering for a prostitute in order to get one over on her friends kid, who she seems to genuinely loath for some odd reason
Except the escort who just wants to be paid.
Story 1: NTA and op isn’t in the wrong .
Story 2: NTA
Story 3 : what a grouch of a gf
Ah, hello troll! We meet again
@@vincentlucario5450I wish XO would just ban him already.
the drinking story nta, he texted her mid flight that he was drunk and she told him not to pick her up, was she at the airport waiting for ages no, she was literally still the in the sky and she even said she wasnt sure he should pick her up
Definitely YTA. Why is he out drinking with his buddies when he knew it was a strong possibility he would have to pick up his girlfriend? This is a 40yr man and he knew that picking up his girlfriend should have been his priority and not drinking with his boys.
@@MrJpaynebb because hes allowed to socialse with friends? he texted her mid flight and she told him not to pick her up but then still wants him to pick her up? and its a 40yr old women aswell, so he cant socialise anymore with other people he knows? na she was looking for any excuse to drop him but didnt use her big girl pants to communicate anything even though shes 40
Story 1: “My friends helped me and my family a lot with very serious things. When their son tried to stiff a hooker, she blackmailed him into giving her the money or she’d destroy his reputation. They asked me to help him, so I pretended I was going to help in order to collect evidence against this turd (who I seem to loathe for unspecified reasons). Once I had enough evidence, I upgraded the blackmail to actual extortion by threatening of arresting him on to of destroying his reputation.”
Jesus Christ, what a god awful person. If you don’t want to help them just tell them no. I don’t expect her to break the law for her friends kid, but instead she decided to break the law and extort her friends kid. OP sounds like a genuinely bad person, I hope her “friends” realize this and leave her