Why I Went Looking For An African Wife Overseas

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  • Опубликовано: 19 май 2024
  • Why I went looking for a wife overseas is a question I got asked often in Canada and in the comments. It's not always openly talked about amongst friends and family. Going overseas to get an african muslim wife was the best decision i ever made and this is my reasons.
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  • @miattatambah4277
    @miattatambah4277 2 месяца назад +417

    You have your born right to choose whoever you want to marry. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. May Allah bless your family.

    • @hajiabeauty400
      @hajiabeauty400 2 месяца назад +2

      Amin

    • @sayeedhoggard1782
      @sayeedhoggard1782 2 месяца назад +3

      As salaamu alaykum

    • @Sumayya538
      @Sumayya538 2 месяца назад +1

      Alhamdulilah

    • @millgoheff3577
      @millgoheff3577 2 месяца назад +1

      Aameen 🤲🏽

    • @sarahprice3070
      @sarahprice3070 2 месяца назад +4

      He can explain himself because it sucks here they don’t even give me a chance because they generalize western women.

  • @HellenAtimRemijo
    @HellenAtimRemijo 2 месяца назад +208

    I’m an Africans woman I live in America. I never act like that and I will never be like that. I will still be like I’m African woman taught by my good mother to respect husband.

    • @user-pk6ji8gs7y
      @user-pk6ji8gs7y 2 месяца назад +3

      بارك الله فيك حبيبتي

    • @khadizadaoud8540
      @khadizadaoud8540 2 месяца назад

      بارك الله فيك يا اختي❤

    • @user-iy8ud4zb4n
      @user-iy8ud4zb4n 2 месяца назад +7

      Is this guy genuine.
      Why must a woman be submissive.
      He is looking for a servant.

    • @kongoqueen5143
      @kongoqueen5143 Месяц назад

      You want to be his slave go ahead just shut up

    • @tazboy1934
      @tazboy1934 Месяц назад

      ​@@user-iy8ud4zb4nit mean is good character

  • @tagbroluqmangaming5824
    @tagbroluqmangaming5824 2 месяца назад +207

    Just a piece of advice Akhi: you don’t have to pinpoint in your videos that you have an African wife. We see it n quite frankly what is important is that its wife no matter what her ethnic group is. Just say my wife not African wife subhanaAllah.

    • @leratommutle6139
      @leratommutle6139 Месяц назад +23

      I think he is saying it because there are certain values that she was taught in Africa. I am honestly surprised because although miles apart I sort of thought that everyone understands marriage to be this type of partnership that requires the wife to be humbled.

    • @zerahshemuel5977
      @zerahshemuel5977 Месяц назад +19

      Also she wants all to know since he's proud 😊 of her heritage.

    • @hafyabubakar42
      @hafyabubakar42 Месяц назад

      walaikum ssalaam warahmatullahi wabarakaatuuh

    • @lamasmimadadelbronx
      @lamasmimadadelbronx Месяц назад +6

      @@PatrickDiabateThank you!!!! Glad you pinpointed it. I’m Puerto Rican and I’m of black descent too. A mixed of Indian Taino, Spaniard and black. ❤

    • @afrozzz5634
      @afrozzz5634 Месяц назад +9

      It gets views 😂

  • @akosuakoranteng3327
    @akosuakoranteng3327 Месяц назад +20

    Much love to you and your wife. The truth is women were not placed on earth for the sole purpose of submitting to men, cooking and cleaning for them and bearing their children. Women are human beings just like any other human being and you can work in partnership together as equals, mutually serving and respecting each other in love, not one submitting and the other being a master. All the best.

  • @BO-dt7zw
    @BO-dt7zw 2 месяца назад +131

    My Ghanaian 🇬🇭sister. I wish you all the best with ur husband. He is funny. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @aishax01
    @aishax01 2 месяца назад +138

    Her energy is so contagious 😂❤ this man will never be bored

  • @natiamoore5031
    @natiamoore5031 Месяц назад +13

    As a Christian woman, I support this & your reasonings are valid. All the best to you guys, God bless your marriage

  • @jbp5836
    @jbp5836 Месяц назад +12

    When I met my husband he didn’t have a car. He was a very talented long distance runner though. I loved his heart. Also we didn’t even go out to dinner until after we got married. I cooked everything. But that’s just who I am as a person. We got married 12 years ago. I wouldn’t trade it. He’s very successful in his career and he bought me two houses. I didn’t expect it, but when you love someone they are inspired to do their best in everything.

  • @judie360
    @judie360 2 месяца назад +159

    I am a Christian from Uganda but really i like to listen African women we never disappoint.greetings to my African Zainab.

    • @venusgodess2636
      @venusgodess2636 2 месяца назад +8

      Ahh sisi let's not lie we do disappoint. Ppl are ppl no matter the location. Good honest people are hard to come by nowadays.

    • @hajiabeauty400
      @hajiabeauty400 2 месяца назад +2

      Masha ALLAH

    • @user-wo3vr4sq5g
      @user-wo3vr4sq5g 2 месяца назад +3

      Ma sha allah, you did make a right decision

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo 2 месяца назад +2

      @@venusgodess2636weWe, we do value marriage and a bit more God conscious. it’s only now that we are becoming more and more negatively influenced by the media. Those remote villages are still doing ok though.

    • @AdrianahOlives
      @AdrianahOlives 2 месяца назад +2

      Your too come both of you❤❤ greetings from Uganda

  • @user-zv2cg3ij6t
    @user-zv2cg3ij6t 20 дней назад +15

    You are a lovely couple. My husband and I are black carribean catholics living in America. I enjoy cooking ank keeping my house, but it is not the only goal of my existence. My husband also takes turns doing these tasks. When it comes to making decisions for our family, we discuss it, and both learn to see things from different angles. We pray together and try to grow to grow together in wisdom with the help of God. God bless your couple.

  • @TheNiqabiDiaries
    @TheNiqabiDiaries Месяц назад +52

    Alhamdulillah Im African Caribbean from the UK. I married with an Egyptian and we live in Ghana. I love to obey my husband and be a traditional wife Alhamdulillah.

  • @user-ei1ge6gu7j
    @user-ei1ge6gu7j Месяц назад +35

    Look, I am not a Muslim. However, I think the videos you chose as examples t are to the extreme. That’s not fair. I am so happy that you both found each other. However, there are loads of American women who respect their partners and respect their spouses and have loving unions. Also, Zainab welcome to this side of the world.

  • @Sumayya538
    @Sumayya538 2 месяца назад +86

    Masha Allah Alhamdulilah, Im Muslim ☪️ American Born and Raised here in the states. Im a revert I definitely understand where you coming from. It goes both ways too. A lot of Muslim men here in America play games and want to do things before Marriage Subanallah. Some even want to have secret lovers. Alhamdulilah My Husband is from West Africa 🌍 ( Nigeria 🇳🇬) He is so loving and Caring. I pray That Allah Bless all My Sisters and Brothers with loving Spouses ❤️ Allahuma Amiin

  • @Ami-ml7gp
    @Ami-ml7gp 2 месяца назад +136

    I think that goes both ways. I am American (black) and my husband is Australian. I waited a long time to get married because I didn't want to settle or be mistreated. It seems that in Western society, women who grew up in traditional households that you described are overlooked. We are perceived as frumpy because we cover up, and old-fashioned because we know how to cook and clean. When you are respectful, feminine, living an upright lifestyle, some men are looking for a certain type (hair, nails, lashes etc). That's just my experience. I am happily married now and we live traditional gender roles.

    • @stasta8640
      @stasta8640 2 месяца назад +1

      New sub here love your content always make your family happy and live inpeace and harmony and you will see blessing from allah

    • @BreakfastatTuscanys
      @BreakfastatTuscanys 2 месяца назад +18

      With all the due respect, covering up means nothing. I used to live in chicago amongst a majority arab/muslim community qnd i’ve seen what some hijabis women (both married and single) are able to do. I was left speechless. Lots of people in Muslim communities equate covering up with being pious. You don’t have to put a scarf on to be a good woman/person. I don’t cover my hair and the majority of the married women I personally know don’t, yet they are very good wives, amazing mothers etc. this is not to say that all covered women are no good.

    • @zayamacintosh5389
      @zayamacintosh5389 2 месяца назад +12

      Couldn’t agree more. I’m the same way, I grew up in the west but I’m traditional and come from a traditional Muslim family. Been overlooked my whole life 😂. But to be fair I’m only 22, so I was overlooked in like university and stuff where guys wanted girlfriends for fun so perhaps they did me a favour lol.

    • @FoodandLifewithMeena
      @FoodandLifewithMeena 2 месяца назад +3

      Beautifully explained. May you both always be happy together

    • @JJ-qd9yl
      @JJ-qd9yl Месяц назад

      @@BreakfastatTuscanys she never said women who don’t cover are bad, don’t take it personally

  • @yasminnabukenya2995
    @yasminnabukenya2995 2 месяца назад +223

    Every where in the world materialistic women are there even in africa. Your just lucky to find zainab who appreciate and give."am an African"

    • @BelleKinte
      @BelleKinte 2 месяца назад

      YESSSSSSSSSSSS!THAT IS WHATIM SAYING! BAD MATERIALISTIC AND NOT HAVING SELF RESPECT HAVING WOMEN ARE ALL OVER THE WORLD! Not just America. Africa has Gold Diggers also! Every place does its sad! With that being said I ADORE their Love story ❤️❤️

    • @sakinadeeni4713
      @sakinadeeni4713 2 месяца назад +17

      Indeed even in Africa we have money chops, naughty and good people too
      My family is surprised how my children grow up in Western world with good manners and religion. I always say it's Allah plan Alhamdu Lillah

    • @nolwazivilakati5499
      @nolwazivilakati5499 2 месяца назад +7

      Im african and our women are appreciative and not demanding. Typically like Zainab

    • @millgoheff3577
      @millgoheff3577 2 месяца назад

      Alhamdulillah ☝🏾

    • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
      @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 2 месяца назад +2

      But its less in Africa

  • @debrahorne2462
    @debrahorne2462 14 дней назад +5

    I am an African American Woman, born and raised in the United States. I TOTALLY agree with all you have pointed out in this video.

  • @ukpreppermuminspire-shoppingpa
    @ukpreppermuminspire-shoppingpa 2 месяца назад +128

    I am from East Africa and have been married to my North African husband for 18 years MashaAllah. Mixed marriage based on the love of Allah SWT, respect, honesty and traditional values. 4 beautiful children Alhamdulilah. Build your marriage based on Allah's principles, less social media and stay true to yourselves. Just be careful with showing too much of your selves on line. Rasool S. A. W said the evil eye is real. So many people getting problems because of the eyes. May Allah SWT protect you and bless you.

  • @LuhleDingani
    @LuhleDingani 2 месяца назад +33

    I am Christian and this was a wholesome video to watch💕.

  • @pennelopedubb1470
    @pennelopedubb1470 Месяц назад +10

    I'm a born again Christian lady from Africa and I agree with you brother in everything you said.
    Much love to you both❤❤❤❤

  • @sandraatkins2539
    @sandraatkins2539 2 месяца назад +52

    The amount of material wealth a husband can provide depends on how much wealth he has to offer. If a woman grew up with material wealth, and has acquired even more wealth due to her own efforts, it is not likely that a poor man will be an acceptable marriage partner for her. Liking nice, expensive things, in and of itself, does not necessarily make one a bad person. I am happy that he found a suitale spouse. May God grant them a long, happy, fruitful marriage.

    • @birungichrisp6944
      @birungichrisp6944 2 месяца назад

      What’s material wealth to you, how long do you think you can keep the wealth.

    • @rockerma1987
      @rockerma1987 Месяц назад

      Sorry, but it's not that they come from rich family and they ask for same lifestyle... People from worst conditions expect things like 200k car, 1.5M house and a yacht in countries like Croatia. So, it's not that you are raised as rich, you're just delusional if you ask for that as leftover woman or average at best.

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye Месяц назад

      @@rockerma1987 the language you use to describe women is very telling.

    • @rockerma1987
      @rockerma1987 Месяц назад

      @@thefeminineeye You mean, the truth?

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye Месяц назад

      sure buddy. Whatevr helps you sleep at night

  • @ashasilingi8274
    @ashasilingi8274 2 месяца назад +67

    Lots of Love for you both for Allah's sake. From Nairobi Kenya ❤

  • @lanatube6070
    @lanatube6070 2 месяца назад +112

    But cleaning is not only womens job let’s support and care and love each other

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo 2 месяца назад +37

      When your husbands works full time and provides. At least have the decency to do basic housework. If she’s not working and mainly at home, why not cook and clean and take care of hubby? Yes hubbys also help, but it’s not a competition.

    • @bellevie6523
      @bellevie6523 2 месяца назад +4

      @@ZazezooI agree
      Honestly I have a great job and make great money at my corporate job.
      My mom and dad are traditional couples and when I am married,I would rather stay home cook healthy food for my husband and kids and be a housewife.
      As an African who grew up partly in Africa and the US, still struggle to fit in the the US 😞

    • @lanatube6070
      @lanatube6070 2 месяца назад +7

      @@Zazezoo ya if she is a housewife it’s fine if she do it !just saying if both working and only the women do everything house work plus outside work but if she is a housewife agree with u

    • @saimamairaj7426
      @saimamairaj7426 2 месяца назад +5

      But the man can also say that earning and providing is not my job! Allah has made both partners equal but given different roles. Women can multitask, and has qualities and required skills for becoming good homemakers. I hear so many working women complaining about their male colleagues flirting with them, and they feel guilty for neglecting their home and kids. Isn’t it much better to let men go out and earn, which is what nature intended.

    • @DisuSoliat
      @DisuSoliat 2 месяца назад

      ​@@lanatube6070I understand you. I am married, my husband and I work. He got someone to come to our house once a week to do the major cleaning around the house including laundry. He drops me off and from work each day and when I am home I cook and clean for him, and he assists sometimes too. When I am too tired to cook, we order out or he does the cooking. Like someone said, no competition, just try to always be nice and considerate of each other.😊

  • @cooking1st
    @cooking1st 2 месяца назад +37

    By the way obey the husband doesn't mean he takes advantage of her or controls her every move. She obeys him to keep their bond strong and their family etc and where she is having all her rights fulfilled at same time.

    • @ASamaa-tx3fz
      @ASamaa-tx3fz 4 дня назад

      Yes and both have to obey Allah in the first place. Being honest, pray, try to understand each other, learn together.

  • @nurilove1874
    @nurilove1874 2 месяца назад +9

    Alhamdulilah and may Allah bless you two with a lot of years together. I'm a revert from America and I agree with you wholeheartedly! You two make a very beautiful couple. I know it was Allah's will😊

  • @estherneggoz7345
    @estherneggoz7345 2 месяца назад +35

    Thanks for the video hope to see you soon my favorite couple.greetings from 🇺🇬we love you

  • @RuqayyahTiva-vl6wl
    @RuqayyahTiva-vl6wl 2 месяца назад +17

    Alhamdulillah I have been waiting ❤

  • @yishml1822
    @yishml1822 2 месяца назад +116

    About the cooking and cleaning, I don’t quite agree with that. Yes, a woman should know how to do housework, and a man should know how to do it as well. He should be able to help her out in the kitchen, not just expect her to do it without him doing anything.

    • @barwaqobahjacooking3263
      @barwaqobahjacooking3263 2 месяца назад

      Kkkk

    • @MaryamIdris-xi9ph
      @MaryamIdris-xi9ph 2 месяца назад

      No

    • @adamelmahdaoui4899
      @adamelmahdaoui4899 2 месяца назад +5

      Well it is not as if the husband does "nothing". He provides for her with food, housing, clothes and safety. And in turn she serves her husband, takes care of the house and the children.

    • @MaryamIdris-xi9ph
      @MaryamIdris-xi9ph 2 месяца назад

      @@adamelmahdaoui4899 inshallah

    • @HannahBrowsley
      @HannahBrowsley 2 месяца назад

      ​@@adamelmahdaoui4899but its a modern era, both women and men can work which is why women are choosing to have kids later so they can focus on their careers.

  • @narameen4578
    @narameen4578 Месяц назад +8

    My husband came to Africa to Mary me. He is an American and I am a Senegalese we have 4 kids now

  • @patsysparklingeyes9326
    @patsysparklingeyes9326 2 месяца назад +38

    Finally another video from a lovely husband and wife

  • @user-sz9yn5sq8d
    @user-sz9yn5sq8d 2 месяца назад +50

    I was soo hungry waiting and waiting for them to post their videos🎉❤ cheers to us u likes be4 watching😊

    • @claregabriel1112
      @claregabriel1112 2 месяца назад +1

      Don’t get so attached to “social media” relationships please. Wish them the best and go make sure your relationship with the CREATOR is where it should be because as you may or may not know, sometimes these relationships aren’t what they seem when the 10 minute clips are over… wishing them the best

  • @Dr.A.-we3pg
    @Dr.A.-we3pg 26 дней назад +8

    She is beautiful. No harm done in that at all. Congratulations! ♥

  • @Jesuslastborn58
    @Jesuslastborn58 2 месяца назад +6

    Be posting frequently, Much love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @hauwashafiu9907
    @hauwashafiu9907 2 месяца назад +41

    Happy to see you back on the channel. Me and my family enjoy watching your videos.

    • @MahdiandZainab
      @MahdiandZainab  2 месяца назад +4

      Awesome! Thank you!

    • @farihabachir9
      @farihabachir9 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@MahdiandZainabmy brother name Allah bless you Alhamdulillah you are happy with my sister Zainab my name is Ayelsha I am Ghanian

    • @adamaibrahim9434
      @adamaibrahim9434 2 месяца назад +3

      We just love you guys plus please take care of my African sister

    • @hajiabeauty400
      @hajiabeauty400 2 месяца назад

      Masha ALLAH

  • @hajramohammad1907
    @hajramohammad1907 2 месяца назад +14

    Thanks u r back..stay blessed

  • @kofiyesere
    @kofiyesere 2 месяца назад +8

    I’m so teary 🥲
    This is so beautiful 😍

  • @chocolateangel8743
    @chocolateangel8743 2 месяца назад +14

    I don't know what it's like in Canada, but here in the U.S., inflation is insane. It cost a lot more to live now than it did back-in-the-day -- even in smaller towns. I can agree that submission has a bad rap. However, this is mostly due to men expecting women to do everything (cook, clean, take care of the kids) -- and go 50/50 -- while the man has a crappy job and can't provide. Man fail to carry their weight. Men have an economic advantage over women and should know how to make money.

  • @Sehravlogs356
    @Sehravlogs356 2 месяца назад +88

    I respect your real Muslim man i appreciate love from India ❤

  • @mekiakedir7310
    @mekiakedir7310 2 месяца назад +19

    MashaAllah. may Allah protect you guys

  • @fatimachowdhry1654
    @fatimachowdhry1654 2 месяца назад +10

    Works both ways....Guys mistreat their wives both Muslim and non muslim so own up to it. Now women are reacting for how their mons have been mistreated. Respect works both ways man!

  • @ffatimah7390
    @ffatimah7390 2 месяца назад +13

    Love from Singapore ❤
    MAY ALLAH SWT BLESS BOTH OF YOU WITH A VERY LONG,HEALTHY AND HARMONIOUS LIFE, AMEEN

  • @sumaiyazakariya3540
    @sumaiyazakariya3540 2 месяца назад +11

    Maa Shaa Allah ❤😊More Baraka in your marriage Mahdi and Zainah❤❤

  • @francesada8488
    @francesada8488 2 месяца назад +20

    I enjoyed watching this. Truth is a lot of family values have been lost in the modern era and it's actually refreshing to see those who uphold them! Christianity also advocates for wives to be submissive to their own husbands. It's pretty sad that some interpret it the way they want and not the way God said. All in all, the best marriages out there are between people with shared values of love and respect 🙏 ❤

  • @SH-nu1zn
    @SH-nu1zn 2 месяца назад +7

    Exactly In the point period brother. May Allah bless you both!❤

  • @peguysagebourdette6662
    @peguysagebourdette6662 5 дней назад +2

    My brother, quite frankly, you thought very carefully about marrying an African woman. You made a very good analysis.

  • @akhilashaikh9382
    @akhilashaikh9382 2 месяца назад +16

    Was waiting for your new blog with Zainab. Lots of love from India 🇮🇳. May ALLAH SWT bless you both with lots of happiness

  • @ritayalley2945
    @ritayalley2945 2 месяца назад +3

    Welcome back guys waiting for more vedios

  • @muslimah.summer
    @muslimah.summer Месяц назад +2

    Brother your point is so accurate and the decision you made is great. May Allah the most gracious protect you from evil eyes.May he grant you and your family goodnesses in this life and the hereafter.ameen.

  • @JohannaWayne-es1el
    @JohannaWayne-es1el 28 дней назад +2

    Dude, look like you're from the mountains! You did the right. God bless you and your family and house!

  • @Isaiah6022-m4r
    @Isaiah6022-m4r 2 месяца назад +6

    I love there calmness ❤❤ once a notification pops just watch your video Right away ..love this couple❤

  • @Sm-367
    @Sm-367 2 месяца назад +12

    I totally agree with you brother,much love ❤️

  • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
    @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 2 месяца назад +63

    Its very sickening & i am Carribbean. I agree with you completely. My mom & dad was married 61 years...Its so dam shameful......Its why my grandsons will be exposed to African & Carribbean culture. The West is out of control.....

    • @benitabettard9664
      @benitabettard9664 2 месяца назад +9

      My dear there are a lot of horrible things in both Carribbean and African culture. Some men also can’t be faithful so it’s no
      Panacea.

    • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
      @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 2 месяца назад +6

      @@benitabettard9664Yes that's true, but we're not demanding $50,000.00 rings and cars and all this foolishness... Yes it's imperfect, but it's much better.

    • @IsraelYoungLion
      @IsraelYoungLion 2 месяца назад

      You do realize that Caribbean “culture” is part of the west?

    • @originaleverythingelseisca5977
      @originaleverythingelseisca5977 2 месяца назад +2

      I sooooo agree!!!

    • @PrimordialChaos07
      @PrimordialChaos07 Месяц назад

      I doubt it was a good marriage

  • @venastoute-findley3013
    @venastoute-findley3013 Месяц назад +3

    I am a Christian from the RepublicofTrinidad and Tobago.and l truly am happy for you and your wife The two shall be one God has heard your prayerandgiven you both the desire of your heart may God continue to bless your union andkeep you both Until death do you part.

  • @user-yu3pi8op7k
    @user-yu3pi8op7k 2 месяца назад +28

    My favorite couple greeting from France 🇫🇷 we love you

  • @KerryMogeni-xl8bk
    @KerryMogeni-xl8bk 2 месяца назад +10

    May God bless ur marriage ,lets pray to get humble men like mahid...

  • @millicent385
    @millicent385 2 месяца назад +2

    Hi i missed you guys
    I always smile when I see your posts…
    Can’t wait to see more of these😊❤

  • @Simpli7cated
    @Simpli7cated 9 дней назад +3

    This is wholesome. Please do a How You Met Video. Thank you.

  • @AbdulSamad-vl7kx
    @AbdulSamad-vl7kx 2 месяца назад +48

    You just got two subscribers, my wife’s and mine. 😊

  • @HawaFofana-bt5tv
    @HawaFofana-bt5tv 2 месяца назад +35

    I clicked so fast, may Allah SWT protect you guys ❤

  • @user-tx8qy4ni1i
    @user-tx8qy4ni1i 2 месяца назад +13

    Even here in Nigeria we have wicked and ungrateful Husbands, which they don't appreciate their wives. A wife will do and over do domestic work. Cook, wash his underwears. All in vain the outcome is negative. Is only God that can reward. Happy married life to u Mahdi and Zainab ❤

    • @nkemsells3714
      @nkemsells3714 2 месяца назад +1

      Sis there are two sides to every story. Yes, he shows the "hijabis" who appear materialistic in the western world but the men are also not very different in that they are not faithful. I am not Muslim (but studying) but my husband is. I am in a FB group of Muslim women from all over the world. They have their own set of challenges with Muslim men, that when I read their posts, it makes me want to cry. They take alot without much reward, recognition or appreciation from their husbands. The husbands take second and third wives #secretly; they beat their wives; they withdraw intimacy from their wives while indulging in pornography or much infidelity - so Muslim men are not so perfect either. When a hijabi sees this, what would make her want to marry? BUT, al hamdullah, I am so happy for this couple. I thank Allah for their YT success and pray that they continue to grow and prosper in their marriage and their channel. It's something very special about this couple that Allah allows their videos to have many positive eyes. Don't forget to like and subscribe to their channel.

    • @childrentoys4537
      @childrentoys4537 2 месяца назад +2

      Wow. It seems we live in different world. I am Nigerian but I have a very good experience of our men. Just try to get a responsible Nigerian man to marry as it is applicable around the world, dont go for the pookies amongst us. Also, don't ignore the red flags during your dating period.

    • @MaryamIdris-xi9ph
      @MaryamIdris-xi9ph 2 месяца назад

      yes.relry..

    • @nkemsells3714
      @nkemsells3714 2 месяца назад

      Don’t delete comments

    • @MaryamIdris-xi9ph
      @MaryamIdris-xi9ph 2 месяца назад

      @@childrentoys4537 . happy.broed.and..sister.zainad..

  • @EmpressAkhet
    @EmpressAkhet 2 дня назад +1

    I am an African-American woman. I took my Shahada July 3rd 2024 and my 9-year-old son took his Shahada July 6th. My parents were not Muslim, but they grew up in the 70s with the Black panther party. So I know my culture before we were slaves we were Kings, Queens and rulers. A lot of us African-American Muslim women do not act like those videos posted for examples. America is HUGE! You have not met all of us. Those type of women disgust me! Those type of women are brainwashed and they will never wake up. Allah has brought you a beautiful wife and to your wife your voice is amazing when you sing🎉 as an African-American Muslim woman, my mom has traditional values and is a very feminine, loving, caring, submissive and clean woman. She taught me everything I needed to know to be a good wife. I knew Islam was for me and there are so many corrupt Muslim men here no matter if they were born in Islam or not. So yes, my teacher teaches us the Quran and what a good Muslim man is so we won't be led astray. I love you too together and I see pure love. Alhumdulillah

  • @TanyaMuridzo
    @TanyaMuridzo 2 месяца назад +12

    May allah protect you and i wish you happy marriage ❤❤❤ am happy to see you guys 🎉🎉🎉 watching you frm Zimbabwe🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼

  • @user-eg9lx5gn6y
    @user-eg9lx5gn6y 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow we have been craving for your next video but alhamdulila we don't have regrets this is so far the best you have given us the best reason as to why you went all the way to Africa to find your wife I know Zainab will comfort , love,cherish and above all obey you cause this is what she was tought.May Allah bless your marriage insha'Allah.

  • @kulprasad1
    @kulprasad1 Месяц назад +1

    I tolally agree in your words, more importantly you raised a stage of Mt. Everest, that is the place I belong to. Stay happy and with strong bond with your wife always!

  • @ItsLinaofficial_
    @ItsLinaofficial_ 2 месяца назад

    I love how you backed each of your points with a piece of evidence 🙏 I wish you guys the best of luck in your marriage 💑 much love from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @b.fatimazahraa
    @b.fatimazahraa 2 месяца назад +4

    you're my fav couple tbh and I really enjoy watching your videos.. don't take too long to post, please :)
    May allah bless both of you

    • @MahdiandZainab
      @MahdiandZainab  2 месяца назад +2

      alright ill try to do more videos sooner Thanks Ameen

  • @albyaj7936
    @albyaj7936 2 месяца назад +6

    Nice content really love it

  • @benitabettard9664
    @benitabettard9664 2 месяца назад +8

    You are looking at only the extreme of American society. You are wrong for blaming American women for the divorce rate. If you truly look in American society you can find traditional women. Your problem is you don’t get deep enough into the society to know. You are only looking at TV.

    • @hajiabeauty400
      @hajiabeauty400 2 месяца назад

      He didn't blame the whole American woman and he even didn't talk to offend anyone

  • @millyapopo4457
    @millyapopo4457 4 дня назад +1

    I had missed you my people. Love from Kenya. Asalam Aleikum ❤❤❤

  • @remynaka6600
    @remynaka6600 2 месяца назад +5

    Mashallah, May Allah protect you guys 😍😍

  • @estheragyin9593
    @estheragyin9593 2 месяца назад +10

    I love what you said its true in the bible.If you are a woman and dont know how to humble your self you have a long way to go

    • @hajiabeauty400
      @hajiabeauty400 2 месяца назад

      ​@anonymousanonymous870 that's a different context

  • @ememakpan8639
    @ememakpan8639 2 месяца назад +1

    Good to hear this from you Bruh, She is a wife material, take good care of her.God bless your family and keep you safe

  • @roselinemoshi5008
    @roselinemoshi5008 2 месяца назад +1

    I love Zaina the way she speaks and presents herself!

  • @Nat-zh3eo
    @Nat-zh3eo 2 месяца назад +7

    Thanks Mahdi for sharing your intentions to marry from abroad. I wish you and Zainab a very happy marriage. You have very good reasons as a moslem man to make this decision because in that way you're sure you have what you want in a woman. With that said, not all African women are like Zainab.
    This is the beginning of your journey, just as in every marriage, there are going to be challenges ahead. In sha Allah when babies start arriving, it will become practically impossible for Zainab to provide you with the same amount of care, one of the reasons why you married her in the first place. In fact, she may need support no matter how small to keep up with all her responsibilities.
    Even at this stage, many men still demand the same amount of care from their wives, making such women extremely exhausted.
    When, that time comes, I think it would be nice to waive some of your rights because caring for kids, taking care of the house are exhausting in addition to completely satisfying a man"s rights can be overwhelming when she gets no help from other family members

  • @anne-liseteissedre3559
    @anne-liseteissedre3559 2 месяца назад +10

    You want a submissive wife, but what do you do to sustain your marriage? You can work together as a team, instead of having a master and a slave, in a marriage. I wish you a peaceful and happy marriage. I do not believe in being submissive to a husband. I only believe in being submissive to elders. But that is probably because i do not belong to any religion. Imagine you obey a husband who is not right all the time, because perfection only belongs to God.

    • @kessiofkerah
      @kessiofkerah 2 месяца назад +6

      Here lies the problem. The fact that you see submission as what it isn't. It isn't a master/slave relationship. When you submit to elders, is it a master/slave kind of submission? I bet it is done out of respect, so then why is it a problem to give that respect to your husband as the head of the family.

    • @hajiabeauty400
      @hajiabeauty400 2 месяца назад

      ​exactly@@kessiofkerah

    • @hajiabeauty400
      @hajiabeauty400 2 месяца назад

      ​@anonymousanonymous870 men have a lot of needs , so if you don't want him to marry another person, then you have to make sure you fulfill his needs by the way,marry the right person

    • @nkemsells3714
      @nkemsells3714 2 месяца назад

      @@hajiabeauty400 respectfully, you "sound" so enslaved and brainwashed. What needs do men have that women do not have that makes them so unique???? We all have the need for food, water, shelter, clothing, financial security, health security, love and belonging, community, recognition, self-esteem, personal growth and fulfillment, personal security. Those are universal needs. Now please kindly explain to teach me (all of us) what are these "lots of needs" that he needs that is so different from the women that he would need to marry another. I know in Islam, men are allowed to marry another...and another...and another; however, what needs are so unique to him. Thank you in advance.

    • @LullabyHub-qn4qn
      @LullabyHub-qn4qn 2 месяца назад +1

      FR some do it to easily manipulate them.

  • @user-pz8kj2tq3c
    @user-pz8kj2tq3c 2 месяца назад +1

    I am from ethiopia iam following you ,you are happy may Allah protect you ‏‪ 🎉🎉 ‏‪ ‏‪

  • @user-kb8ur3de6y
    @user-kb8ur3de6y 2 месяца назад +1

    i have been waiting your video seriously ❤️❤️

  • @nousinzebazahid4758
    @nousinzebazahid4758 2 месяца назад +5

    Happy to see you both masha allah ❤..! Loads of love and best wishes 🌹

  • @TiaHeart-3gm
    @TiaHeart-3gm 2 месяца назад +56

    But please try to love and also respect your wife as well I beg

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo 2 месяца назад +3

      Of course he does
      It’s a two way thing…

    • @cakporji
      @cakporji 2 месяца назад +7

      That’s actually a concern of mine - that he does love, honor and respect his wife much as he expects the same from her.

    • @nafisaahmed9190
      @nafisaahmed9190 2 месяца назад +7

      Why does he say every time an African wife why he can't say, my wife or something else?

    • @user-rs1rz7hh7w
      @user-rs1rz7hh7w 2 месяца назад

      ​@@nafisaahmed9190you don't have to be worried about that.she is OK with it.

    • @myqueen3303
      @myqueen3303 2 месяца назад

      Yh❤❤❤

  • @deislandgirl1
    @deislandgirl1 Месяц назад +2

    This is beautiful! Inshallah all will be open minded enough to listen! I am a Catholic woman and traditional from the Caribbean. I take great pride in obeying, loving and caring and cooking for my husband.
    Islam is a beautiful and blessed practice. In my country we celebrate Christianity, Hinduism and Islam 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Hafsat_mb
    @Hafsat_mb 23 дня назад +1

    This is the best video I’ve ever watched on RUclips ❤️ I love how you are honest about the real word, I’m glad you’re happy with your wife, please ignore all negative comments 🥰🥰

  • @taniad9950
    @taniad9950 2 месяца назад +3

    Continued blessings on your marriage today and always Inshallah. I truly enjoyed. You don't have to explain to anyone. What matters is your love for God, your love for each other, the love of and for your families and respecting each other. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @hawasuso3719
    @hawasuso3719 2 месяца назад +11

    Masallah brother u choose well ❤❤❤

  • @sashadalla5003
    @sashadalla5003 Месяц назад +1

    Allahumma barik u made the best decision, u make such a great couple Ma Shaa Allah, plus i like the tone of your voice very calm

  • @VanessaOtoo-cs5dl
    @VanessaOtoo-cs5dl 2 месяца назад +2

    My family ❤ I love watching your videos keep on loving each other

  • @KhadijaSarr87
    @KhadijaSarr87 2 месяца назад +4

    I’m an American Muslim and I had not good experiences with American men. I’m a traditional woman but I felt it’s not much traditional men or men that hold their religious close. I decided to look outside of America and I’m now married to an African Muslim.

  • @ZainabKhalifa-cw9fi
    @ZainabKhalifa-cw9fi 2 месяца назад +3

    Much love from Nigeria!

  • @pauloferreira2834
    @pauloferreira2834 Месяц назад +1

    You are 100% right, best of luck to you and your wife. ✌🙂🙂

  • @pattiepattie6739
    @pattiepattie6739 2 месяца назад +1

    i wish you well in your marriage. God bless you both for sticking to the original family values

  • @millyapopo4457
    @millyapopo4457 2 месяца назад +14

    Alhamdullllah. May Allah grant you peace ❤❤❤

  • @tankoiman4090
    @tankoiman4090 2 месяца назад +2

    May Allah bless your home and your union. Also from Ghana 😊🇬🇭

  • @safinashaikh5464
    @safinashaikh5464 2 месяца назад +1

    You wont belive how much eagerly i was waiting for your vlog..really enjoy watching ur vlog..may allah bless you both forever❤

  • @amablogreactions
    @amablogreactions Месяц назад +3

    My black sis,may God protect you and your family....

  • @zaynab692
    @zaynab692 Месяц назад +4

    Hi I’m Zainab, I moved to Morocco because I was in a horrible relationship with a rich narcissist for 7 years . I didn’t know any better. I wanted a real man . I reverted to Islam & I got married to a Moroccan man but it did work out due to cultural differences , age difference and I had some flaws and he wasn’t perfect. Plus his family was nasty to me. We agreed to move on alhamdulilah. Now I’m back here in the states I have 2 children and I try my best to be a good Muslim mother ❤️ Inshallah I have the real Muslim righteous man will find me. ✨
    P.s new subscriber

    • @amaleltaib792
      @amaleltaib792 Месяц назад

      In shaa Allah sister, may Allah SWT bless u with a pious man who will respect u and appreciate u.

  • @sheillamandidi7034
    @sheillamandidi7034 2 месяца назад +1

    Love and happy for you guys ❤❤

  • @aestheticmoods4257
    @aestheticmoods4257 3 дня назад +1

    Yeah, brother, I agree with you 💯. I'm an American citizen, and now, as of July 2024, I'm in morocco 🇲🇦 to get married a Moroccan woman 👩.

  • @alimatoubajo6576
    @alimatoubajo6576 2 месяца назад +5

    Mar shaa Allah, they are beautiful together, I love them. Zainab you are beautiful inside and out and very humble. May Allah bless your marriage and grant you jannah you and your husband ❤️❤️❤️

  • @FS-hr7qm
    @FS-hr7qm 2 месяца назад +35

    I m senegalese girl🇸🇳 mashallah So proud of you

    • @MaryamIdris-xi9ph
      @MaryamIdris-xi9ph 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you.

    • @BBgirl0
      @BBgirl0 2 месяца назад

      Me too

    • @fatimakane3052
      @fatimakane3052 2 месяца назад

      Senegal in the house! We are so proud of both of you. Keep it up! May Allah bless your marriage and reward you with goodness in both worlds. amen. Stay strong and blessed!

    • @MaryamIdris-xi9ph
      @MaryamIdris-xi9ph 2 месяца назад

      @@fatimakane3052 yes😆

    • @MaryamIdris-xi9ph
      @MaryamIdris-xi9ph 2 месяца назад

      @@fatimakane3052 really

  • @captainr8413
    @captainr8413 2 месяца назад +1

    Masha-Allah u choose the right path my brother.... May Allah bless your marriage Amin.

  • @user-lv4rr9qr1k
    @user-lv4rr9qr1k 2 месяца назад +1

    Im a Ugandan married to a Turkey husband .and l really love you guys. And thanks for respect loving caring husband thanks so much. Much love from Uganda

  • @user-dc2ox8ij1y
    @user-dc2ox8ij1y 2 месяца назад +4

    Assalam aleikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh ladies... Masha'Allah brother am also here searching for a Muslim guy.. Am from Uganda.. May Almighty bless your marriage