This guy I had recently started talking to again just asked me to give him $160. Guess who's no longer talking to him anymore? Me, sis. And to be honest, had it not been for finding your girl talks last month, I probably would've given to him. Ladies know your worth and demand respect.
I agree with u on letting the man approach u or come after u!!! When they come after u it builds anticipation and excitement!!!! Something for them to look for, they ponder what date they going to take u on and so on!!!!
babe! Can you do some storytimes too? Would love to hear your experiences with disrespectful guys, fake friends etc!! Would live for that haha! Love you always! xoxo
You're advice is so efficient, every since I've been taking your advice, things have been easier. you're also gorgeous. Keep at it 💕 you're going far in this world.
It's 2023 and these advices from 5yrs ago are still relevant. That's why I love Paige.❤️ ....and I'm definitely loving the level of growth in your new videos. They help us in so many ways💕.... but today i needed this particular video.
#bellagang 😚😙😗 Chile!!! I can relate. I need to know a dude for at least 6 months. I've had dudes switch up like "who dis!!!???"😲...you gotta be careful out here And I agree #2, men know when they wanna be with you fr. They are hunters and I go by they ACTIONS and words. When they want you, they'll make double sure to voice it.
I love this video 🙌🏾 if you aren't already you should definitely consider going into the counseling field you're very relatable to all ages & your advice/wisdom is top notch
yeaa i need to get over this dude lmao. i been talking to this dude for a cool ass minute and he’s always making excuses, saying he’s busy or at practice, but could always find time for his friends. then he was joking around and being all friendly with these girls last week, but when i try to joke with my guy friends he told them to stop associating with me because, “he’s claiming me.” like what?? 💀💀
omg i needed this paige cause me and khalil been talking for FOUR months and he tells me he loves me (i don’t say it back) but he won’t give me a title edit: alright paige ik you got me so imma give it 2 more months 😂😂😂
olivia rivera he says he loves you but won’t wife you up ? ion know i’m not an expert but sum ain’t right with that, either he needs to stop saying stuff he don’t mean or give you a title. cause to me that kinda sounds like he saying it to flatter you and keep you around, but love is an action not a statement
I can relate to the whole " only bum bitches care about this and that", its sad couldn't even take me on a date or even buy flowers. It ain't about spending money, it's the thought that counts.🤦🏾♀️
I love you and your videos help me so much!! I’m going through stuff with this guy and I’m finally realizing that I need to stop putting up with his crap. If he really wants me he can come talk to me about it. ❤️❤️❤️
im a guy and in this stage. im really interested in this girl im talking to right now and want to do more with her. thank you for some clarity.. PREACH
I met a guy a week ago and I just decided Sunday to see where his head was at and I ask him “ So what’s your plan. What are u looking for this to be?” He said “ Let’s see where it goes. I’m not tryin to get in a relationship right now or put any titles on anything.” Lmao😂 Mind u we had a date planned the next day and he kept telling me how he always get curved and nobody takes him serious. I flat out told his ass “ I’m not a let’s just see what happens type of woman. Three months I won’t be having his same convo with u or asking u this question again.” Y’all I woke up the next morning to a lonnnnnng asss paragraph on how I “offended” him by making him feel like he had to prove to me how real of a guy he was and how his resume speaks for himself. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I simply replied “ Thank you” I said Thank You God for helping me dodge that bullet.
Could you also give advice on how to get into the talking stage? Kind of moreso on social media (twitter/instagram) bc idk how to b dm’ing them and get their #’s
on social media: 1. STALK ! but don’t like anything. figure out if they’re single and also if they’re the type of person you wanna talk to. 2. like a couple of their pics/tweets, interact with them a little bit, comment some heart eyes every once in a while, comment something to make them laugh, mainly so they can click on your profile and be like “oh this person cute and whatnot they funny too”. don’t ode just do it every once in a while. don’t make it seem like you’re going through their account or anything, just like recent posts when they pop up on your feed. 3. once you feel like they interacting with your page too, you can start dm’ing them memes and funny videos (only one until they reply and go back and forth wit you) and eventually a conversation will start. 4. if y’all going back and forth a lot, you can keep it going by asking them how their day was, how they’re feeling, what they did today, that could turn into what their interests are and all that. 5. at this point you can be like “you know what my ig acting up can i just get your number” or if you have an iphone “i’m mad bored you wanna play gamepigeon ?”. yes you’re probably gonna be lying about the glitch thing but you’ll probably get their number. if at any point they’re not reciprocating the enthusiasm, then it’s best to stop interacting with them for a little, see if they’ll try to continue what y’all was doing. if not then let it go and move on. this might not be the best advice but i gave it a shot, hopefully this helps ! :)
Just like a couple of post. Then he'll like yours. You'll like some back....then if he feeling you he will message you. Don't message guys. You'll look thirsty and all they will want to do is hit.
Hey lil sis. Depending on who you talk to, marriage has out lived its usefulness. If you can't be independent, you shouldn't expect a man to hold you down. Grind it out on your own. Having your boo is ok but if not that's cool too.
K Swervo dyeing your hair isn’t gonna make it grow faster but it’ll make it less tempting to freshen up your roots. if anything it might further damage the hair. if you have self control, then you don’t need to dye it black, but if you feel like you’re gonna need to do your roots then just go back to your original color. if you have the money, go to a good salon and maybe get them to blend the blonde really well with the black so it looks like an intentional ombré, not a block of blonde. but also remember to keep your hair hydrated and do deep conditioning treatments regularly
@@julianacheriza1575 hey😊 if you don't mind i want your point of view on my story because my situation is different, i have been working on attracting my crush since more than one year , he is an attractive (and maybe a bit arrogant ) guy that i like and showed him a lot of interest on messenger, We used to chat and he has not showed a lot of interest, actually he is surrounded by many woman. one day i asked him to meet ,he rejected me saying that he is busy he doesn't have free time , since that day we never talked again for now one year and a month, but during all this time he always checks almost all of my instastories , till today, and he has even voted in the polls that i posted on instastory (3 times) And when we met by coïncidence for 2, 3 times (it was one month after the day i asked him to meet ) he stared at me in the eyes non stop, even when i look away (my friend told me that he kept staring for a long time :p ).. and since he has moved to another city during all this time ( for work ) recently i knew that he is going back in the new year , and we both are studying in similar fields , so in one months am gonna meet him during the traineeship , And am a bit nervous on how i should act with him when i see him, the times we met last year i acted as if he were a stranger ( i was really hurt and didn't want to seem needy and desperate, that's why i ignored him ) sorry i wrote lots of details but if you don't mind i want your point of view on my situation and some tips if you have 😊 And if anyone has something to tell me , please do 😊🙏
#BellaGang 💕 You’re channel is underrated. Like sis, you give us subscribers love! Thank you! You tell me more things than anyone else I could know. I’m at this point right now and it’s very awkward because I’m really feeling this guy but I don’t know if he feels me just as much.
1st thing: new subbie here & 2nd: you hit the nail on the head bc guys know what they want! I tell them to tell me up front what would you want from me or if you don't want me for me after awhile then leave me alone. 👌🏿#Okuurrr
I CAN NEVER GET PAST THE TALKING STAGE 😩 every guy that i talk to is so inconsistent or i find out they got a whole nother female 🤦🏽♀️.
I swear💯💯
Yep love is a competition you just have to keep in touch until he is yours. Take it slowwww and you will win! Never rush a relationship.
Let us know if you made it paste this
Literally...smfh
Maybe you have a type. I only say this because that was normally the case with myself. I always had a type and that type of man always broke my heart
Throw the whole dude away is my favourite phrase now lmao
JM P 😂 same
Yas!🤣
Mine too😁😁😁😂
I live for these girl talks
Me too
Can you do a “how to get the guy you want” no matter how fine he is 😂😂 #bellagang💕
Yess I’m with you on this too
omg yessss
Yess
Diamond White she has a "How to get your crush to want you" video, check it out💘
Omg yesss please ! Do this ! I need that
This guy I had recently started talking to again just asked me to give him $160. Guess who's no longer talking to him anymore? Me, sis. And to be honest, had it not been for finding your girl talks last month, I probably would've given to him. Ladies know your worth and demand respect.
Don’t ever give a man money ever
@@CindyValencia deep truth !
PLEASE MAKE A GIRL TALK ABOUT QUESTIONS TO ASK DURING THE TALKING STAGE
Ali honestly
“if you want me! COME AND GET ME, or the next man will” 😂😂u got me dead this why I love you !!
My friend and I were talking about how most guys nowadays don’t even wine and dine for their lady anymore, its the other way around.
Cathy Marie deadasss it’s the other way around
wait im confused how is it the other way around
@@Private.Jetson rt
Well that's when u don't give him no cookie bet he will wine n dine then
Blame Beyonce.."when he f*** me good I take his a** to red lobster 🎶"
If I had a big sister like you omgggg you just spit fact after fact
I was so worried when it said that it was deleted 😭 I was like noooo I need this video to work!!!!💀💯 love your channel ❤️❤️
I agree with u on letting the man approach u or come after u!!! When they come after u it builds anticipation and excitement!!!! Something for them to look for, they ponder what date they going to take u on and so on!!!!
babe! Can you do some storytimes too? Would love to hear your experiences with disrespectful guys, fake friends etc!! Would live for that haha! Love you always! xoxo
yesss !
Great idea 👍🏾
Not sure why I’m watching this I can’t even get into the talking stage 😂
Hahaha. I'm shy AF. Same here
Same, but I got into one recently
You're advice is so efficient, every since I've been taking your advice, things have been easier. you're also gorgeous. Keep at it 💕 you're going far in this world.
It's 2023 and these advices from 5yrs ago are still relevant. That's why I love Paige.❤️ ....and I'm definitely loving the level of growth in your new videos. They help us in so many ways💕.... but today i needed this particular video.
Girl I swear everytime I’m goin through sumthin your videos be on point but yesss sis straight facts!! 💯❤️🙌💪
Mesha Anthony she really does come on time😩
you need a podcast oml
Side chick number 1 side chick number 2 I got a baby on you😂😂😂 Yasss Facts luv her girl talks oh N throw the whole dude away😂😂😂
Yesss stop expecting his phone calls stop calling him txtn him CURVE yourself if he inconsistent he don’t want u fall back.!
You're so pretty and I love ya videos girl, ya humor , logic, and realness is so refreshing 😍😍😍
#bellagang 😚😙😗 Chile!!! I can relate. I need to know a dude for at least 6 months. I've had dudes switch up like "who dis!!!???"😲...you gotta be careful out here
And I agree #2, men know when they wanna be with you fr. They are hunters and I go by they ACTIONS and words. When they want you, they'll make double sure to voice it.
True
I love this video 🙌🏾 if you aren't already you should definitely consider going into the counseling field you're very relatable to all ages & your advice/wisdom is top notch
yeaa i need to get over this dude lmao. i been talking to this dude for a cool ass minute and he’s always making excuses, saying he’s busy or at practice, but could always find time for his friends. then he was joking around and being all friendly with these girls last week, but when i try to joke with my guy friends he told them to stop associating with me because, “he’s claiming me.” like what?? 💀💀
throw the hole ass nigga away😭
Sis, what happened? Update?
"throw the whole dude away" lol
You always keep it real sis and give good advice. Love to watch your girl talk!!! Keep them coming sis..
I love when you say that: “Take a trash bag and throw the whole dude away.”
micki minaj face nd cardi b voice
*nicki
Hennessy ( Cardi's sis too) but she's her own person.
Maybe Nicki not cardi
Blac chyna and nicki minaj. A mix lol
I’m here binge watching your videos. Where have you been all my life? 🤣
I know it’s 2019!!! But I needed this, thanks Sis! 🙏🏾😘
I’m so into all these talks 😭💖 your Like a big sis / friend girlll
omg i needed this paige cause me and khalil been talking for FOUR months and he tells me he loves me (i don’t say it back) but he won’t give me a title edit: alright paige ik you got me so imma give it 2 more months 😂😂😂
olivia rivera he says he loves you but won’t wife you up ? ion know i’m not an expert but sum ain’t right with that, either he needs to stop saying stuff he don’t mean or give you a title. cause to me that kinda sounds like he saying it to flatter you and keep you around, but love is an action not a statement
Yah IG pimpzaddy.cee
Girl you are gold 😩👌🏽💣
I can relate to the whole " only bum bitches care about this and that", its sad couldn't even take me on a date or even buy flowers. It ain't about spending money, it's the thought that counts.🤦🏾♀️
Yes, do for ME what I do for me or more ( hypergamy) I buy myself flowers sometimes weekly.
I LOVE YOUR PINEAPPLE TOP!
I love you and your videos help me so much!! I’m going through stuff with this guy and I’m finally realizing that I need to stop putting up with his crap. If he really wants me he can come talk to me about it. ❤️❤️❤️
Your girl talks are everything to meh ❤️ .
“Two kids on the side” I’m sooo deadd sis😂😂😂😂
I never comment but I love ALL your girl talk videos keep doing em boo♥
Yes! Everything you said is 100% facts!
im a guy and in this stage. im really interested in this girl im talking to right now and want to do more with her. thank you for some clarity.. PREACH
Hey, super dope you watch these videos? What happened?
👀👀👀
Absolutely Marriage is the ultimate.
@ 7:48 mins in i heard a rap tune hahaha "side chick number 1, side chick number 2, got a baby on u"
Heard that too 😅
Wow You So Honest💯💯💯& What You Saying Is So True💯💯
I met a guy a week ago and I just decided Sunday to see where his head was at and I ask him “ So what’s your plan. What are u looking for this to be?” He said “ Let’s see where it goes. I’m not tryin to get in a relationship right now or put any titles on anything.” Lmao😂 Mind u we had a date planned the next day and he kept telling me how he always get curved and nobody takes him serious. I flat out told his ass “ I’m not a let’s just see what happens type of woman. Three months I won’t be having his same convo with u or asking u this question again.” Y’all I woke up the next morning to a lonnnnnng asss paragraph on how I “offended” him by making him feel like he had to prove to me how real of a guy he was and how his resume speaks for himself. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I simply replied “ Thank you” I said Thank You God for helping me dodge that bullet.
Bella: get to know him for 3 months Me: * laughs in 11 months *
Wow I love how your vibs are relatable to what happen in my life. Thanks bella!!!
I love her growth 😍
I know you usually don't do this type of video, but can you please do a tutorial on you hair and makeup? You look flawless
Social Networks I wish 😂😂 . I loveee you so much you always help me .💗🤩✨
Could you also give advice on how to get into the talking stage? Kind of moreso on social media (twitter/instagram) bc idk how to b dm’ing them and get their #’s
And texting tips
on social media:
1. STALK ! but don’t like anything. figure out if they’re single and also if they’re the type of person you wanna talk to.
2. like a couple of their pics/tweets, interact with them a little bit, comment some heart eyes every once in a while, comment something to make them laugh, mainly so they can click on your profile and be like “oh this person cute and whatnot they funny too”. don’t ode just do it every once in a while. don’t make it seem like you’re going through their account or anything, just like recent posts when they pop up on your feed.
3. once you feel like they interacting with your page too, you can start dm’ing them memes and funny videos (only one until they reply and go back and forth wit you) and eventually a conversation will start.
4. if y’all going back and forth a lot, you can keep it going by asking them how their day was, how they’re feeling, what they did today, that could turn into what their interests are and all that.
5. at this point you can be like “you know what my ig acting up can i just get your number” or if you have an iphone “i’m mad bored you wanna play gamepigeon ?”. yes you’re probably gonna be lying about the glitch thing but you’ll probably get their number.
if at any point they’re not reciprocating the enthusiasm, then it’s best to stop interacting with them for a little, see if they’ll try to continue what y’all was doing. if not then let it go and move on.
this might not be the best advice but i gave it a shot, hopefully this helps ! :)
ro.dailyy thanks so much !!
Just like a couple of post. Then he'll like yours. You'll like some back....then if he feeling you he will message you. Don't message guys. You'll look thirsty and all they will want to do is hit.
@@kalcun7914 😊
I just subscribed thanks for this. This made me feel better about myself especially me being a single mom.
#Newbiebellagang😍😍😍
killing it with that top sis!
I swear you give the best girl talks why I'm a nice subbie 💗 I wish we were friends in real life 😂 love from London xx
Everything you said is true. Preach!
thank you so much al your advice helps me al lot, hope with this new advice me and my boy finally become offical
My personal rule is no sex outside of a stable relationship. I'm not gonna tell him that but it is what it is.
Bella...you really want the best for your bella gang...keep posting...
i been in the talking stage for almost year next month ❗️by the way love your advices ❤️
I felt alllll these tips. Literally resonated w allem. Thank you so much.
Speaking some sense into me sis YAASSSS!! LOL
Girllll, can you make a video on questions to ask during the talking stage/things you should know about your potential bae?
Love your vibe SIS 💓
Proud to be part of the Bella Gang 😎
@@paulrevere1479 I'm not single. 🙂
And there's no shame in being single, that's what society made us think!!!
Hey lil sis. Depending on who you talk to, marriage has out lived its usefulness. If you can't be independent, you shouldn't expect a man to hold you down. Grind it out on your own. Having your boo is ok but if not that's cool too.
Miss Amy are you married now or single?
Can you do another hair video on hair growth ... do i need to go back black for hair growth/healthy hair or just let my blonde grow out?
K Swervo dyeing your hair isn’t gonna make it grow faster but it’ll make it less tempting to freshen up your roots. if anything it might further damage the hair. if you have self control, then you don’t need to dye it black, but if you feel like you’re gonna need to do your roots then just go back to your original color. if you have the money, go to a good salon and maybe get them to blend the blonde really well with the black so it looks like an intentional ombré, not a block of blonde. but also remember to keep your hair hydrated and do deep conditioning treatments regularly
I always give people everyone friendship or not a whole year because everyone always showed themselves after a year 😂😩 during that time it's red flags
@@julianacheriza1575 hey😊 if you don't mind i want your point of view on my story because my situation is different, i have been working on attracting my crush since more than one year ,
he is an attractive (and maybe a bit arrogant ) guy that i like and showed him a lot of interest on messenger, We used to chat and he has not showed a lot of interest, actually he is surrounded by many woman. one day i asked him to meet ,he rejected me saying that he is busy he doesn't have free time , since that day we never talked again for now one year and a month, but during all this time he always checks almost all of my instastories , till today, and he has even voted in the polls that i posted on instastory (3 times) And when we met by coïncidence for 2, 3 times (it was one month after the day i asked him to meet ) he stared at me in the eyes non stop, even when i look away (my friend told me that he kept staring for a long time :p ).. and since he has moved to another city during all this time ( for work ) recently i knew that he is going back in the new year , and we both are studying in similar fields , so in one months am gonna meet him during the traineeship , And am a bit nervous on how i should act with him when i see him, the times we met last year i acted as if he were a stranger ( i was really hurt and didn't want to seem needy and desperate, that's why i ignored him ) sorry i wrote lots of details but if you don't mind i want your point of view on my situation and some tips if you have 😊
And if anyone has something to tell me , please do 😊🙏
Oooh girl, I love you so much sis. Just keep pushin and be the baddest in the club #bellagang❤️❤️❤️
Ur advice is duh best!..i live by it sisss!
It’s like you know everything thing I’m going through
Yesss Queen!! I just came across your channel and hinestly you chat so much sense! Thankyou for sharing your content!
Love you and your videos so much. They help me through so muchhhh!! #bellagang for life ! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Bella_Bars! I’ll remember this advice when I’m in that position. I’m not settling for peanuts, I want my juicy steak. 😆
GIRL COMING FROM THE D DETROIT, MI. YOU THE BOMB A FREE QUEEN. UPS TO SUCCESS FOR YOU FROM A FAN
Hey SIS! Can you do a video on how to get with a guy that's shy? Please?!
Clicked so fast , i love you 💛 and your shirt !!!!
You be talking real shit 👍👍
NOTIFICATIONS ONNN BABEEE UU SLAYED THAT WIG DAMN
#BellaGang 💕 You’re channel is underrated. Like sis, you give us subscribers love! Thank you! You tell me more things than anyone else I could know. I’m at this point right now and it’s very awkward because I’m really feeling this guy but I don’t know if he feels me just as much.
Good talk baby u always inspired me with ur words😆👏❤💯
You’re so pretty omg 😍 Thanks for the advice in this video 👏🏾🙌🏾
Your the best! thank you for sharing your advice and positive energy
This video is so uplifting. Keep doing you! I have subscribed!
1st thing: new subbie here & 2nd: you hit the nail on the head bc guys know what they want! I tell them to tell me up front what would you want from me or if you don't want me for me after awhile then leave me alone. 👌🏿#Okuurrr
Your videos are EVERYTHING! Thank u ❤
🙌 your advise helps me a lot, thanks sis!!! 😘😘
Omg love that shirt, poppin hair too Bella babe 😮😍😍😍
Ight sis do a makeup tutorial please 👏🏽 like the basic foundation and concealer how to blend it pleaseeeeeeee
Loving the island vibes with the pink blouse. Ayee.
GIRL YOU ALWAYS COME OUT WITH THE GOOD STUFF I LOVE YOUUUU #BELLAGANG
sis please do A VIDEO FORRRRR frontal maintenance in the heat!!
I needed this I’m talking to someone rn 🖤
You post these at the best time
Love this channel
Exactly what I needed. Thanks love 💕💕💕
I love this. Just sucks my crush isnt out yet
First I love you and your advice stay blessed and stay humbled
Sis I'm single and I love being single 😎❤❤
I’m talking to this dude and he told me he liked me but didn’t ask me out what should I do?
Leave him alone
Chloe P Throw the whole dude away he clearly ain’t shit 😂💯👋🏾
When your videos pop up I be hype😭♥️
Amen! Great advice. 💕