A bar on walking street working for 3 months! Don't pay for a divorce, leave for 2 years and divorce on grounds of abandonment, no need to get her to sign
It ;s actuallly scary how we as men take leave of our senses in situations like this. I think we need the input of male friends. Did this guy never discuss the situation he was going through with a mate?
This is a tricky situation for male relationships. If you mate is head over heals over a women it is a hard sell to get him to see things your way. There also is a strong chance that resentment will form from your criticism. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Men should talk about female nature with each other.
Met a girl at 2 weeks, pay a bar fee... bought her out of bar.... a dowry is ok. But lol not a single mom. Slow your life down. 1 year to yourself in a new country. No dating. Find a good girl. They will come in your life.
Ouch. This guy clearly is still reeling, and I'm not going to kick a guy when he's down. You learned a tough lesson, Jason, but take some comfort and strength that you _did_ learn it. Some guys don't until they are financially ruined, or worse. Don't beat yourself up over her or the money you lost. She's not worth it, and you should just write the money off as a bad debt. What's done is done and your path out is to let go of both.
It appears the wealthier these guys are, the dumber they get. perhaps it's me being a general untrusting person, but how did he blow off all those red flags!
So many red flags that this man ignore to his own detriment. But when he found out that she lied about having a child, he should of walked away. If a woman conceals of having children, she's hiding more skeletons. Normally I sympathise with men who got their heart broken by ruthless women, but this guy participated in his own heartache.
People must understand that you, the man, is never gonna be more important than your money. The girl that has been doing that line of work will never change. They'll always have the ex Thai husband or boyfriend, they will have their children back in Isan, let alone their mothers who all demand them send them money. It's a bit of a vicious circle for these girls. Anyone who expects an unconditional love and support from a girl like these must be living in some Lalaland. Understand that you are only a "temporary" solution for these girls. Love and devotion as many imagine don't exist among these girls.
At this point, in 2025, it should be clear that these girls, who have been making money by fleecing all those gullible dudes, do this job because they have to feed their children, their mothers and their existing or ex Thai partners. There aren't many exceptions. Money is the absolute number one and no matter how handsome, how kind and how helpful you are, they'll always have others on the side, especially when your funds start draining. Any girl that is willing to immediately go to the room with you and accept to accompany you to travel around is nothing but a hardworking prostitute.
well great story to listen too .unfortunately I agree with Jon summing up where he went rong .all the red flags were there from the off. She played him ruthlessly. even though married she had greed for more money. Only one person to blame and that's Jason. she was very experienced against a novice love struck farang so basically she bled him for everything.
@talksofthailand .they say if u have never been scammed u have never lived so common .but Jon he was well and truly taken to the cleaners bye a very deceitful thai bar girl. HE basically gave her too much rope and she took advantage with lying scamms .great story bye the way ,my take as well love is blind especially with a younger good looking girl wrapping her fingers around him
A bar on walking street working for 3 months! Don't pay for a divorce, leave for 2 years and divorce on grounds of abandonment, no need to get her to sign
@@clivebaxter6354 👍
It ;s actuallly scary how we as men take leave of our senses in situations like this. I think we need the input of male friends. Did this guy never discuss the situation he was going through with a mate?
This is a tricky situation for male relationships. If you mate is head over heals over a women it is a hard sell to get him to see things your way. There also is a strong chance that resentment will form from your criticism. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Men should talk about female nature with each other.
@@reigninblood123 yep its a difficult one, would he have listened to mates giving him warnings, probably not
When a novel starts with ( Once a upon a BAR GIRL,..... ) 🥺🥺🥺 Well!!!
Yea simply never pay a bar, or donate any money for family problems within a year.
Met a girl at 2 weeks, pay a bar fee... bought her out of bar.... a dowry is ok. But lol not a single mom.
Slow your life down. 1 year to yourself in a new country. No dating. Find a good girl. They will come in your life.
Ouch. This guy clearly is still reeling, and I'm not going to kick a guy when he's down. You learned a tough lesson, Jason, but take some comfort and strength that you _did_ learn it. Some guys don't until they are financially ruined, or worse.
Don't beat yourself up over her or the money you lost. She's not worth it, and you should just write the money off as a bad debt. What's done is done and your path out is to let go of both.
It appears the wealthier these guys are, the dumber they get. perhaps it's me being a general untrusting person, but how did he blow off all those red flags!
@@Fred-e7x love is blind it seems!
You want to see very wealthy men and very stupid men go to Hua Hin
I think, if it’s only a village marriage without paperwork, u don’t owe anything for divorce.
@@wakerider1318 yep but Jason said he got married in the district office as well….
The big question is, what do they do with all this money they get? Probably blow it
I got to say, it’s not just Thai women who put on a front when you first meet them. That’s everyone around the world…men and women.
So many red flags that this man ignore to his own detriment. But when he found out that she lied about having a child, he should of walked away. If a woman conceals of having children, she's hiding more skeletons. Normally I sympathise with men who got their heart broken by ruthless women, but this guy participated in his own heartache.
Old men using young girls for what they want are shocked to find out poor young girl was using them to better their life
People must understand that you, the man, is never gonna be more important than your money. The girl that has been doing that line of work will never change. They'll always have the ex Thai husband or boyfriend, they will have their children back in Isan, let alone their mothers who all demand them send them money. It's a bit of a vicious circle for these girls.
Anyone who expects an unconditional love and support from a girl like these must be living in some Lalaland.
Understand that you are only a "temporary" solution for these girls. Love and devotion as many imagine don't exist among these girls.
20000 bat a months is a good price he is lucky
Good that he learned a lesson about women and hopefully won't repeat it
Who is shocked ? 😂😂😂
It really feels like these stories are written by the same person or AI, as the structure and wording is always the same.
Good way to find out scroll there socials photos see who likes them or comments follow the trail
Thespians without ethic's are a tough lot. Lessons learned. Better now than later. 🙏
@@robertbennett1287 definitely a lesson learned
😂😂😂😂😂. Wow!! This dude is dense.
Love is blind.
When you love someone you don't see red flags.
So this bloke did what every other man around the world does.
Fall for a wrong woman.
At this point, in 2025, it should be clear that these girls, who have been making money by fleecing all those gullible dudes, do this job because they have to feed their children, their mothers and their existing or ex Thai partners. There aren't many exceptions. Money is the absolute number one and no matter how handsome, how kind and how helpful you are, they'll always have others on the side, especially when your funds start draining. Any girl that is willing to immediately go to the room with you and accept to accompany you to travel around is nothing but a hardworking prostitute.
One born every minute.
Next time you will learn about how to meet the girl in Thailand, you should be careful not to believe everything what they tell you. Good luck.🙏🇬🇧👍
Think to get a divorce I was told you just need to turn up at the office but think you both have too much
Who still actually marry a SE Asian girl?
Fuck no, everyone a scammer, as they all find out one day.
well great story to listen too .unfortunately I agree with Jon summing up where he went rong .all the red flags were there from the off. She played him ruthlessly. even though married she had greed for more money. Only one person to blame and that's Jason. she was very experienced against a novice love struck farang so basically she bled him for everything.
@@allangreenley9901 yep, I found this one quite sad tbh
@talksofthailand .they say if u have never been scammed u have never lived so common .but Jon he was well and truly taken to the cleaners bye a very deceitful thai bar girl. HE basically gave her too much rope and she took advantage with lying scamms .great story bye the way ,my take as well love is blind especially with a younger good looking girl wrapping her fingers around him
Wow😮
Bbbbut my girl is .... different.
Ridiculous story. one born every day