If everbody has the same mentality humans will go extinct new era bullshit that's why god cursed eve cause ya females was he first to disobey god and break his laws facts that's why ya go through pain during birth ya still young and ignorant when you 50 and alone you will regret everything
I PRAY IF OR WHEN YOU DO GET IN A RELATIONSHIP IT'S WITH YOUR SOULMATE & IT'S THE MOST LOVING BEAUTIFUL, EQUALLY YOLKED RELATIONSHIP EVER! YOU GO GIRL!
Why aren't people MORE afraid of being in abusive and soul crushing relationships? If a person is not happy being alone, that just means they hate themselves and will tolerate anything to be "in a relationship." Give me cats, dogs, plants, single shaming, and judgment any day over being in a miserable relationship.
I get tired of some ppl acting as if being single is like having a terminal disease. It's different for different ppl. Not everyone needs or wants to be in a relationship.
They only judge single black women like this….men can be single all they life and never marry but have multiple baby mothers yet they will never be shamed and will still be praised for doing the bare minimum 🙄….A lot of ppl just wanna see black women miserable…if you’re single which most single black women are healthier, happier and look much younger than their actual ages …so many ppl hate to see it
As my Great-grandfather used to say, "You come in this world alone, and you go out alone - so you better learn how to BE alone." This advice has carried me far, and strengthened me when I need it.
Very Beautiful!!! She is speaking alot of truth, my God she had to learn alot in a very painful place, Im grateful that her and his whole family pulled together as one and continue to keep close in their Healing.I do believe it has helped her...But my prayers truly will continue always for all of his family Because i see them moving forward but i can still feel their pain..Blac Sam and Lauren are the only ones I've seen but i feel it from both...Thank you for sharing Lauren
I believe her honesty is so refreshing, I’ve been following her for a while esp when my mom passed and her going through her situation made me feel like I could understand her from a diff perspective, this grief is real but it also really gives us a perspective on things beyond our control
This is a real question because MOST people especially women feel that we need to have someone, but being alone can bring more peace and happiness than some of these relationships. Wonderful Lauren ❤️🙏🏼
@@poeticlovee not sure about that. It depends on the individual and what they have going on in their lives. Loneliness affects both men and women equally.
My problem isn't being alone because I love it. I love my space and I love being with myself. My fear is, allowing someone in my space (life) and they disrupt my peace and my flow. I usually run from it because my peace is more important than being with someone.
I used to feel this way. I enjoyed my own company/space so much that I was afraid that there was nothing better. However, it just took the RIGHT person to comfortably come into that space❤
You learn so much about yourself when not in a relationship. That's what the time in between should be used for, self discovery. You live and you learn.
I think I actually learned more about myself in a relationship ..Sometimes someone comes into your life to teach you something ,sometimes they see things about you ,you refuse to see yourself ,You dont always find yourself by yourself ,sometimes you need a mirror ,the person seeing you
🎯💯 Same reason why I divorced my narcissistic ex husband. Sis, I no longer do struggle love. Now I want a peaceful / soft life even if it means staying alone all by myself .
As a woman who has worked towards building my own happiness and peace I feel the same sentiments. I don’t have expectations of companionship other than respecting my peace and joy. I’m open to love but I’m not pressed for it, because the way I love myself is so fulfilling that it can carry me through this life time. I’m also blessed with a two parent household that supports me where needed. I see love, joy, peace and financial stability as my responsibility to myself. I don’t want to make someone feel burden to give me those things. I want a partner who can add to what I’ve given myself. Reflecting what they give themselves on to me. So I can do the same. Providing an equally mutual fulfillment. So I get her 100%.
Well im an ICU nurse of 14 years and I mostly see men dying alone than women….even if the woman isn’t married she has kids/grandchildren and or family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, spiritual people all around her in her time of transition and I have have ppl screaming and crying over women especially blk women….but the men even if they are married they wives and families tell me stories of all the BS they had to put up with. Ladies ppl just wanna see you miserable, dont fall for it!
You can say that again. I've been married on paper, for almost 20 years and my husband refuses to divorce me, I'm not being a wife, because he ruined our marriage, so his ass will probably be in hospice by himself, because I never got a husband, so I'll never be doing those wife duties. 🥴😙
That's why it's important to be single for a long time and learn to be by yourself. We are not here to stay and when your loved ones start dying around you you're going to be alone. It's hard though but very necessary. I'm happy she's coping so well.
Being by myself bothered me at first since I was an only child but now it’s the most peace I’ve ever had in my life I wish I started enjoying it sooner 😊
I've been alone about 4 years now and I felt strange to be it at first, I ain't going to lie. But now I feel like I'm taking care of my child, and without wasting anybody time. I'm my authentic self and I treat everybody around me well expecting nothing.
@@courtneyawalsh It’s beautiful. Makes you feel safe knowing that you have ppl that love and support you. Family doesn’t have to be blood..you can create your own by linking up with ppl you connect and vibe with…a “soul tribe” so to speak. Wish you the best 🤗
I’ve never been married at 34 and everything going for myself, but I just can’t seem to find Him so I’m slowly loosening my grip on believing I’m Supposed to have a Man by my side in this lifetime.
I've learned years ago that you can be ALONE and not feel LONELY.There is a difference between being alone and being lonely.You can be in a relationship with someone but feel lonely at the same time.
Wheeew! This is sooo true!! I was lonely and alone, but now….I don’t even know what loneliness is anymore. Jesus has given me peace that I never want to lose. So being single has truly grown me. ❤❤
After my last relationship I love being alone and t’s so peaceful I don’t want anybody bothering me . I run from men I love my solitude. I can focus on my business and when I need to rest I can rest. When I wanna travel I travel. If I don’t want to cook I don’t cook I order takeout. I am 42 post divorce and being alone has me feeling like my life is just beginning I am excited
I grew up with severe abandonment issues and I still have them but one thing that helped me a lot when I became an adult was being able to be on my own and not constantly have to be in a relationship or have a best friend. It helped me in so many different way and at first it was really hard for me and scary. Especially because of my mental health problems at that time. But now I don’t live day to day depending on other people to make me feel complete. You have to break the cycle for a healthier version of yourself. Even if it’s hard at first. You will be happy with what you’ve accomplished in the end.
My aunt used to say... If your scared to be alone then that means you don't like yourself...and if you don't want to be alone with you...why do you think someone else wants to be with you
What happened to her husband is a real tragedy. But the way she has transformed into an inspiration for everyone (men, women, adolescents) is amazing. Her words are touching so many lives and helping heal so many broken hearts. It’s an example of how God wants ALL things (even the negative things) to work for His good.
It's our nature to desire togetherness. But being alone will teach you self Mastery. Most times we are forced to learn this very needed lesson. Peace to all.😊🤲🏾✌🏾
Got a lot of respect for Lauren London. Death of a partner is huge, and she seems to have learnt a lot about herself and come through the other side. Wish the best for her 🙌🏾
Humans are social creatures. No matter how independent you are, or how much you claim to be a lone wolf, or if you're rolling solo, or whatever, EVERYBODY wants at least ONE person in their life to love and that loves them.
That’s true. But it doesn’t have to be in the confines of a marriage unit. That’s a societal pressure that is placed on women to want or you’re deemed inadequate. That concept literally makes people nervous that you can operate successfully alone or with just a life companion.
As long as you're socialized with people tht love and care like family friends. Relationships marriages and stuff shouldn't be a top priority. Everybody can't be in one also its not for everybody it seems trendsetting and watered down the way people be movin bout it sometimes.
Humans are NOT meant to be alone. We are here to make connections, whatever that looks like. It doesn’t have to always be in a romantic form, but loneliness will kill you. The problem is people try to make lifelong connections when it’s meant to be temporary. Continue loving and learning and growing. More importantly practice the art of letting go when it’s time ✨
What a powerful statement to society and to women. Be comfortable with SELF and the notion that it’s ok to not subscribe to the pressure of having to be Married to be considered a whole person. 💪🏽
Get this. Ppl are evn mad at you for not having children or not wanting to have any when you’re not in a healthy, stable unit. It’s ironic to me to jst how upsetting this can be for some ppl Talk about wanting to be by yourself
@@southernbellnc6241 Same here. Coming home to a clean, comfortable, quiet home that’s EXACTLY the way I left it is the best kind of peace of mind one can ask for.
The death of a spouse changes people. (Me included) I grieved for four years straight.. [All I did was cried for 4 years after my husband passed away] 😢 Here is what people fail to realize Lauren is carrying not only her grief, but the grief of 2 children. That is a very hard thing to carry, to burden.. when my husband passed away our 3 sons were 13, 11, & 6.. After you experience a pain like Lauren's and mine. It changes you. My husband has be in heaven for (15 years) he was 33 the same age as nipsey when he passed away. The hardest part is seeing your children grieve & there is nothing you can do to take their pain away. 😢 our boys are now adults. They are now fathers. It still hurts because their father would have been an AMAZING Grandfather.. praying for you lauren.Lauren.. I know what you are going through
For me, personally, I'm cool being single. If the Lord has someone for me, He'll send him when I'm ready to recieve it. I'm not moving unless the Lord says so.
I have no b problem being alone. I love walking in my home after work putting my feet up eating what I want and enjoying my clean home with no stress or having to please anyone except God and I. Peace always 😌 Lauren looks lovely
I can really thank God that I can live alone now without a Man. Even though divorcing process wasn't easy at first for me, and thank God for my children. But I realize now how important it is, that I walk in my true identity of who God created me to be. Not depending on another person to function or determine my happiness!! THANK GOD I FOUND MY PEACE!!! 💜😊
I love being alone i am at Peace and love myself more. I was raised to believe that i needed to be married then i got married. Biggest mistake i ever made my ex husband was nice and all but i just wasn't happy being in a relationship/ married. Plus sex to me was a chore. Not because i didn't see enjoy it I did but i am just not a sexual person. I don't like it like that. I filed for divorce and back to being single and celibate and I love it. Not everyone is meant to be in a relationship or married.
It takes a person who has love for God and love for oneself, to not fear being alone. " If my situation didn't end in death I would still be in it, deep." She's still in love with Nip and will be until they meet again on the other side.
I have been alone for years for years and it has absolutely been my choice and I couldn't be happier I love my life that way I can do what when I want to do it I want to do it I don't have to answer anyone I only have to answer one person and that's not heavenly father in Jesus Christ I can sleep all day if I want to I can get up at 5:00 if I want to I sure don't have to cook one damn thing if I don't want to don't have to clean house I don't have to wash clothes no it's just me oh did I mention I most CD yeah. I don't understand people that say that they're afraid of being alone I just don't I can't comprehend that it's just not in my vocabulary I'm 76 years of age and to me it's just absolute peace.
Right. I am a childfree woman and love my life of freedom. I have a FWB but he does not and never will live with ME. I don't care if he becomes homeless. My home is off limits. I lived with a man once when I was young and dumb. NEVER AGAIN!!!
@@Childfree334 FWB? ...sorry, I'm asking because I'm making the letters mean everything...literally everything! Now I'm crackin up!😂😜 My pastor says that I say I'm never living with a man because I haven't met the right one. When I meet him, I won't want to be without him. 🤷🏽♀️😁
I’m married I’m living like a single mother. I feel I will get back my inner joy when I will move out that will be the day I will sleep deep and I know I know God will bless me more because he knows how much I been trying and believing.
This is mayor growth that comes from understanding this point! A relationship is beautiful however to be afraid to not be in one screams, I don’t know myself, my purpose or my God! God is all we need to exist, He gives us relationships, like He gives us singleness! Lots of people experience love ones dying and have to move on, it will be ok but hard! But let’s not live in fantasies but reality
She so beautiful and very intelligent!! I can see her pain but also her strength as we'll. It's absolutely nothing wrong with being alone I comes with acceptance!! Being good!! Confidence, faith over fear, which leave you at peace.
I lost the love of my life the same way. This is a process that requires great strength and I hope I reach her level of peace and grace about it. Shalom.
I don't agree with her at all....she is only saying this bc of what she is going through. Life is always better with some other healthy person. Be okay with wanting a companion, what she had or even better. Love 🥰🥰🥰
Life is not ALWAYS better though with some other person in ya life. She did say if it wasn't for this she would be deep in her relationship with nip. She get to experience tht other side of life bein alone if this wht it took for her to see tht , shes now expressing her self tht it's ok and she's dealing with it wholesomely.
Being alone without children, that makes sense. Being alone, purposely, when you have brought children into the world because you don't want to do the work in a relationship liiiiiiike MARRIAGE ain't wisdom.
I love Lauren London for her openness. And realizing life lessons are so hard, but seeing God in everything provides growth and teaches us to deal with pain and learning from it.
What's confusing? She said she has experienced true love in this lifetime, and she has no desire to be in relationship with anyone else. She wants to focus on God and raising her kids. She doesn't "NEED" a man to make her happy or whole.
Live for you. I have been with the same man for 22 yrs married for 14 post college and he passed on his 39th birthday. I am still devastated and heart broken. We had such a powerful love that I miss it and desire to have that again some day. I hate lonely times, it makes the loss worst for me. When you find someone who lives to make you happy it is hard to be alone! May God keep and Bless all of us struggling with the loss of pure love.
😔I'm married and I'm alone, all of the time. Its been like that for 11years of my marriage, so I'm okay with being alone. I'm happy 😊 because really I'm not alone God is always with me and will always be with me. So I'm not afraid 😌🙏❤🦋💞🌷💕😇💗🌹
THIS HAS ME EMOTIONAL BECAUSE I'VE ALWAYS BEEN BY MYSELF EVEN IN A SO CALLED RELATIONSHIP I'M SO GRATEFUL TO GOD THAT I'VE HAD PLENTY OF PRACTICE BEING ALONE AND I'M FINE BECAUSE GOD KEPT HIS HANDS ON ME 🙏
I been alone 3 years! Yes people can really exist without a relationship and have JOY! Happiness is temporary.... JOY is everlasting AND it comes from WITHIN! Thank you Lauren for this #message
I’m 33 I been single my whole life. We absolutely can exist by ourselves. I’m my own best friend. Gotta be.
You Inspire me!
Hell naaa fuck that lmao 🥴😂
If everbody has the same mentality humans will go extinct new era bullshit that's why god cursed eve cause ya females was he first to disobey god and break his laws facts that's why ya go through pain during birth ya still young and ignorant when you 50 and alone you will regret everything
I PRAY IF OR WHEN YOU DO GET IN A RELATIONSHIP IT'S WITH YOUR SOULMATE & IT'S THE MOST LOVING BEAUTIFUL, EQUALLY YOLKED RELATIONSHIP EVER! YOU GO GIRL!
@@julirai679 lol right
Why aren't people MORE afraid of being in abusive and soul crushing relationships? If a person is not happy being alone, that just means they hate themselves and will tolerate anything to be "in a relationship." Give me cats, dogs, plants, single shaming, and judgment any day over being in a miserable relationship.
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Very well said
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!
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SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 👏 👏
I get tired of some ppl acting as if being single is like having a terminal disease. It's different for different ppl. Not everyone needs or wants to be in a relationship.
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They only judge single black women like this….men can be single all they life and never marry but have multiple baby mothers yet they will never be shamed and will still be praised for doing the bare minimum 🙄….A lot of ppl just wanna see black women miserable…if you’re single which most single black women are healthier, happier and look much younger than their actual ages …so many ppl hate to see it
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Not terminal disease 😂🤣☠️
So true, sometimes you need the time to be single. Get to know your self better and enjoy you
I love being alone. At an early age I realized that it was ok to be my everything and be fulfilled.
Same🌹💕
Yes I learned at 11 to love my solitude and to be comfortable in silence. Some ppl can’t deal but I pray they do
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Alone > people lol idc who feels some type of way about it
I swear I love it I’m 23
As my Great-grandfather used to say, "You come in this world alone, and you go out alone - so you better learn how to BE alone." This advice has carried me far, and strengthened me when I need it.
Not really because you can die with anyone if there was an accident
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Love this😊
Truth.
Wise man
You have to REALLY love yourself, to be alone. More people should try it. ❤
Her strength and fortitude....amazing!!XOXO❤️
So beautiful 🥰
Very Beautiful!!! She is speaking alot of truth, my God she had to learn alot in a very painful place, Im grateful that her and his whole family pulled together as one and continue to keep close in their Healing.I do believe it has helped her...But my prayers truly will continue always for all of his family Because i see them moving forward but i can still feel their pain..Blac Sam and Lauren are the only ones I've seen but i feel it from both...Thank you for sharing Lauren
YES exactly i notice that
I believe her honesty is so refreshing, I’ve been following her for a while esp when my mom passed and her going through her situation made me feel like I could understand her from a diff perspective, this grief is real but it also really gives us a perspective on things beyond our control
This is a real question because MOST people especially women feel that we need to have someone, but being alone can bring more peace and happiness than some of these relationships. Wonderful Lauren ❤️🙏🏼
It’s powerful focusing on yourself. Never get it twisted✨❤️
Men hate being alone more than women do.
@@poeticlovee not sure about that. It depends on the individual and what they have going on in their lives. Loneliness affects both men and women equally.
My problem isn't being alone because I love it. I love my space and I love being with myself. My fear is, allowing someone in my space (life) and they disrupt my peace and my flow. I usually run from it because my peace is more important than being with someone.
If the person is good it’ll be a addition to the flow ! He’ll add and not subtract .
I used to feel this way. I enjoyed my own company/space so much that I was afraid that there was nothing better. However, it just took the RIGHT person to comfortably come into that space❤
Exactly
The right person will enhance your life and not disrupt your peace.
Her dimples are so deep ❤️ I love em
You learn so much about yourself when not in a relationship.
That's what the time in between should be used for, self discovery. You live and you learn.
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Amen.
I think I actually learned more about myself in a relationship ..Sometimes someone comes into your life to teach you something ,sometimes they see things about you ,you refuse to see yourself ,You dont always find yourself by yourself ,sometimes you need a mirror ,the person seeing you
My fear of being alone quickly subsided as soon as there was physical abuse.
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🎯💯 Same reason why I divorced my narcissistic ex husband. Sis, I no longer do struggle love. Now I want a peaceful / soft life even if it means staying alone all by myself .
Amen
@@maguiedossantos2925 A soft life, I like that.❤️❤️
Yeah or long term abuse. I'm good you can call me boring all you want. If bored equal peace then I'll be alone and peacefully boring.
As a woman who has worked towards building my own happiness and peace I feel the same sentiments. I don’t have expectations of companionship other than respecting my peace and joy. I’m open to love but I’m not pressed for it, because the way I love myself is so fulfilling that it can carry me through this life time. I’m also blessed with a two parent household that supports me where needed. I see love, joy, peace and financial stability as my responsibility to myself. I don’t want to make someone feel burden to give me those things. I want a partner who can add to what I’ve given myself. Reflecting what they give themselves on to me. So I can do the same. Providing an equally mutual fulfillment. So I get her 100%.
This is so beautiful Queen 🥹🫶🏽
Only blk women saying this. While all the other women have there men.
@@blacklabeld4769 You need to open your eyes and stop being so small minded
@@ashantiscoot Time will open yours.
@@blacklabeld4769 I don't need time. It's happening now
Well im an ICU nurse of 14 years and I mostly see men dying alone than women….even if the woman isn’t married she has kids/grandchildren and or family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, spiritual people all around her in her time of transition and I have have ppl screaming and crying over women especially blk women….but the men even if they are married they wives and families tell me stories of all the BS they had to put up with. Ladies ppl just wanna see you miserable, dont fall for it!
My friend has said something similar. She does home healthcare and hospice.
Facts!
Men are always wrong
Women are always right
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You can say that again.
I've been married on paper, for almost 20 years and my husband refuses to divorce me, I'm not being a wife, because he ruined our marriage, so his ass will probably be in hospice by himself, because I never got a husband, so I'll never be doing those wife duties. 🥴😙
But everyone in marriages and relationships are not miserable theres happy stories and happy ending contrary to popular beliefs
That's why it's important to be single for a long time and learn to be by yourself. We are not here to stay and when your loved ones start dying around you you're going to be alone. It's hard though but very necessary.
I'm happy she's coping so well.
Being by myself bothered me at first since I was an only child but now it’s the most peace I’ve ever had in my life I wish I started enjoying it sooner 😊
Preach x
Yes I’m use to be the same way.
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God is revealing himself, which is wonferful chose you!
I've been alone about 4 years now and I felt strange to be it at first, I ain't going to lie. But now I feel like I'm taking care of my child, and without wasting anybody time. I'm my authentic self and I treat everybody around me well expecting nothing.
I've been my happiest & healthiest alone. Yes family is nice when you're working together instead of against each other.
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Ain’t that the truth
I have never experienced family working together. What’s that like?
@@courtneyawalsh It’s beautiful. Makes you feel safe knowing that you have ppl that love and support you. Family doesn’t have to be blood..you can create your own by linking up with ppl you connect and vibe with…a “soul tribe” so to speak. Wish you the best 🤗
I do amazing by my self been married twice and now alone for 2 years im better now then I ever have been
This is your time!❤️✨
Congratulations to you , I enjoy my times alone also
Same girl. Same. Everything's gonna be ok. We're gonna make it.
AMEN too that
I’ve never been married at 34 and everything going for myself, but I just can’t seem to find Him so I’m slowly loosening my grip on believing I’m Supposed to have a Man by my side in this lifetime.
I've learned years ago that you can be ALONE and not feel LONELY.There is a difference between being alone and being lonely.You can be in a relationship with someone but feel lonely at the same time.
Facts beens told 👍💯
Precisely!
Yasss
Wheeew! This is sooo true!! I was lonely and alone, but now….I don’t even know what loneliness is anymore. Jesus has given me peace that I never want to lose. So being single has truly grown me. ❤❤
After my last relationship I love being alone and t’s so peaceful I don’t want anybody bothering me . I run from men I love my solitude. I can focus on my business and when I need to rest I can rest. When I wanna travel I travel.
If I don’t want to cook I don’t cook I order takeout. I am 42 post divorce and being alone has me feeling like my life is just beginning I am excited
Yes to all this part
I love solitude always have since I was a little girl I love being alone ....all alone.
Big mood💃🏽
Many introverts understand this. Solitude is peace and replenishment.
I often love my own company. During those times, I don't have to share my energy with anyone and I think that is a good thing. 🙏🏾
It’s how introverts recharge.
This woman is so deep it’s uncomfortable in a good way. Love London!
When you're happy with self you don't need need a partner
Lmao.
1000% agree....
Need? No. Want? Yup.
I grew up with severe abandonment issues and I still have them but one thing that helped me a lot when I became an adult was being able to be on my own and not constantly have to be in a relationship or have a best friend. It helped me in so many different way and at first it was really hard for me and scary. Especially because of my mental health problems at that time. But now I don’t live day to day depending on other people to make me feel complete. You have to break the cycle for a healthier version of yourself. Even if it’s hard at first. You will be happy with what you’ve accomplished in the end.
I feel so bad for her every time I look at her face I can see her pain
Yes me too 💙
She looks happy!!!
Drug habit still fucking around and stealing Nipsey's money.
Same here
Me too
I love being alone. I enjoy the peace I have. And believe me, others will grativate towards you because of that.
My aunt used to say... If your scared to be alone then that means you don't like yourself...and if you don't want to be alone with you...why do you think someone else wants to be with you
What happened to her husband is a real tragedy. But the way she has transformed into an inspiration for everyone (men, women, adolescents) is amazing. Her words are touching so many lives and helping heal so many broken hearts. It’s an example of how God wants ALL things (even the negative things) to work for His good.
I'M SO CONTENT AND HAPPY I WILL NEVER SETTLE AND I'M PROTECTING MY PEACE LIFE AND SPACE YOU GOT TO GO THREW GOD TO GET TO ME PERIOD !!🙏😒
Drops 🎤 ‼️‼️‼️
Ain't nothing wrong with being alone it's a good thing. This was a very enlightening interview love it. ❤️
It's our nature to desire togetherness. But being alone will teach you self Mastery. Most times we are forced to learn this very needed lesson. Peace to all.😊🤲🏾✌🏾
Got a lot of respect for Lauren London. Death of a partner is huge, and she seems to have learnt a lot about herself and come through the other side. Wish the best for her 🙌🏾
I value peace and time and I will not compromise that .
Humans are social creatures. No matter how independent you are, or how much you claim to be a lone wolf, or if you're rolling solo, or whatever, EVERYBODY wants at least ONE person in their life to love and that loves them.
That’s true. But it doesn’t have to be in the confines of a marriage unit. That’s a societal pressure that is placed on women to want or you’re deemed inadequate. That concept literally makes people nervous that you can operate successfully alone or with just a life companion.
@@angeliquemiller4671 marriages were fine before the government got involved.
Not everybody
Want and need are 2 different things
As long as you're socialized with people tht love and care like family friends. Relationships marriages and stuff shouldn't be a top priority. Everybody can't be in one also its not for everybody it seems trendsetting and watered down the way people be movin bout it sometimes.
Humans are NOT meant to be alone. We are here to make connections, whatever that looks like. It doesn’t have to always be in a romantic form, but loneliness will kill you.
The problem is people try to make lifelong connections when it’s meant to be temporary. Continue loving and learning and growing. More importantly practice the art of letting go when it’s time ✨
What a powerful statement to society and to women. Be comfortable with SELF and the notion that it’s ok to not subscribe to the pressure of having to be Married to be considered a whole person. 💪🏽
Wholeness is the KEY💎🙏🏽
It is so refreshing when you find a friendship with self🧘🏾♀️
Get this. Ppl are evn mad at you for not having children or not wanting to have any when you’re not in a healthy, stable unit. It’s ironic to me to jst how upsetting this can be for some ppl
Talk about wanting to be by yourself
This! 💯
Yes ppl say all kinds of shit to me bc I dnt want kids. I dnt even want to be married. I love coming home to doing nothing but relax.
@@southernbellnc6241 same here 30 no kids
@@soulsistah5738 just peaceful
@@southernbellnc6241 Same here. Coming home to a clean, comfortable, quiet home that’s EXACTLY the way I left it is the best kind of peace of mind one can ask for.
We can be “alone” and very happy doing it, there are so many relationships to have outside of a “mate”, do whatever works for you. 🥰
Lauren London has been touched by spirit. Just an incredible force of nature. Crazy about her.
I get lonely SOMETIMES but I love being alone. Being alone is OK.....On another note, She was sooooo perfect for Nip. Both are Beautiful in &out💙
The fear of being alone left my body after dealing with back to back abusive lovers and abusive friendships
I love being alone. Love ur own company ❤️
Im at peace when I'm ALONE ✌️ ☮️ 🕊
The death of a spouse changes people. (Me included) I grieved for four years straight.. [All I did was cried for 4 years after my husband passed away] 😢
Here is what people fail to realize Lauren is carrying not only her grief, but the grief of 2 children. That is a very hard thing to carry, to burden.. when my husband passed away our 3 sons were 13, 11, & 6.. After you experience a pain like Lauren's and mine. It changes you. My husband has be in heaven for (15 years) he was 33 the same age as nipsey when he passed away. The hardest part is seeing your children grieve & there is nothing you can do to take their pain away. 😢 our boys are now adults. They are now fathers. It still hurts because their father would have been an AMAZING Grandfather.. praying for you lauren.Lauren.. I know what you are going through
Sweetheart he is watching you and miss you dearly. He knows you have to move on in life....
For me, personally, I'm cool being single. If the Lord has someone for me, He'll send him when I'm ready to recieve it. I'm not moving unless the Lord says so.
I have no b problem being alone. I love walking in my home after work putting my feet up eating what I want and enjoying my clean home with no stress or having to please anyone except God and I. Peace always 😌 Lauren looks lovely
I can really thank God that I can live alone now without a Man. Even though divorcing process wasn't easy at first for me, and thank God for my children. But I realize now how important it is, that I walk in my true identity of who God created me to be. Not depending on another person to function or determine my happiness!! THANK GOD I FOUND MY PEACE!!! 💜😊
I’m so cool with me but I would like a life partner to travel through life with ♥️
There is greater coming in her life. Watch!❤️❤️❤️🌹
I'm more proud of her personal growth than anything she's ever done theatrically. Such wisdom. I see why Nip loved her so. Amazing woman. :)
Bring back Nipsey 😢 😢 😭! He was too good for this world and this wicked industry. God got his soul b4 they could. 🙏🏽
I'm personally not impressed with the men I meet or see when I'm out and about. I'd rather be single than be with a lame. I prefer being single
I'm okay being alone but at the same time.. u want a real love union
Keyword: Real! No one wants to be in a one sided relationship. I want a happy, heal and whole partner. 🙌🏾
Everybody talking about they happy being alone yall just afraid to be in love and it's nothing wrong with feeling that way. Just keep it 💯
I love hearing her speak! To ensure what she endured and still grace love for the world after what it took from her is a lesson in itself.
I love being alone i am at Peace and love myself more. I was raised to believe that i needed to be married then i got married. Biggest mistake i ever made my ex husband was nice and all but i just wasn't happy being in a relationship/ married. Plus sex to me was a chore. Not because i didn't see enjoy it I did but i am just not a sexual person. I don't like it like that. I filed for divorce and back to being single and celibate and I love it. Not everyone is meant to be in a relationship or married.
It takes a person who has love for God and love for oneself, to not fear being alone. " If my situation didn't end in death I would still be in it, deep." She's still in love with Nip and will be until they meet again on the other side.
There is so much sadness in her eyes💔
I just love Boog. RIP Nipsey 🙏 🕊
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I have been alone for years for years and it has absolutely been my choice and I couldn't be happier I love my life that way I can do what when I want to do it I want to do it I don't have to answer anyone I only have to answer one person and that's not heavenly father in Jesus Christ I can sleep all day if I want to I can get up at 5:00 if I want to I sure don't have to cook one damn thing if I don't want to don't have to clean house I don't have to wash clothes no it's just me oh did I mention I most CD yeah. I don't understand people that say that they're afraid of being alone I just don't I can't comprehend that it's just not in my vocabulary I'm 76 years of age and to me it's just absolute peace.
Right. I am a childfree woman and love my life of freedom. I have a FWB but he does not and never will live with ME. I don't care if he becomes homeless. My home is off limits. I lived with a man once when I was young and dumb. NEVER AGAIN!!!
Amen!! Me too!!
@@Childfree334 FWB? ...sorry, I'm asking because I'm making the letters mean everything...literally everything! Now I'm crackin up!😂😜
My pastor says that I say I'm never living with a man because I haven't met the right one. When I meet him, I won't want to be without him. 🤷🏽♀️😁
I know that's right! Thanks for sharing😃
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I’m married I’m living like a single mother. I feel I will get back my inner joy when I will move out that will be the day I will sleep deep and I know I know God will bless me more because he knows how much I been trying and believing.
This is mayor growth that comes from understanding this point! A relationship is beautiful however to be afraid to not be in one screams, I don’t know myself, my purpose or my God! God is all we need to exist, He gives us relationships, like He gives us singleness! Lots of people experience love ones dying and have to move on, it will be ok but hard! But let’s not live in fantasies but reality
She so beautiful and very intelligent!! I can see her pain but also her strength as we'll. It's absolutely nothing wrong with being alone I comes with acceptance!! Being good!! Confidence, faith over fear, which leave you at peace.
This is powerful. What podcast is this please?
I think relationship is a normalcy nobody is independent completely of no one
Speak for yourself. Relationships are NOT mandatory, they are an option. People have human interactions everyday outside intimate relationships .
No one said you are completely independent. Of course she has family and friends she depends on. She is clearly talking about being single and ok.
I lost the love of my life the same way. This is a process that requires great strength and I hope I reach her level of peace and grace about it. Shalom.
That made me cry ... True words of wisdom 🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🥰💯
Majority born by self
Facts💁🏽♀️
Exactly! Unless you are twins or triplets but even then you just shared the same womb. You still had to come out by yourself.
I Ypi should realize that before a relationship... you'll get caught up in whatever if you don't believe you can be alone.
Yes, to a degree we can be by ourselves but we need people so it's best to stay in touch with someone.
Beautiful and strong. Keep praying 🙏. Your not alone
What a dumb question...of course you can live alone.
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Especially when you rich 🤑
Some ppl can’t lol
You’ve learned this lesson well then. Others have not, be patient lmao.
@@breefree1013 No lesson learned....it is a fact!
I don't agree with her at all....she is only saying this bc of what she is going through.
Life is always better with some other healthy person.
Be okay with wanting a companion, what she had or even better.
Love 🥰🥰🥰
exactly! She even said the same thing herself.
@@Chimiri88 🥰🥰
Matter of opinion. Some people are much happier and at peace by themselves. Only codependent people would have a problem understanding.
Life is not ALWAYS better though with some other person in ya life. She did say if it wasn't for this she would be deep in her relationship with nip. She get to experience tht other side of life bein alone if this wht it took for her to see tht , shes now expressing her self tht it's ok and she's dealing with it wholesomely.
@@ashantiscoot it's OK to just state your opinion, like u said. 🤗
She’s healing 🫶🏽🙏🏽
She is anointed and blessed beyond measures and nip is definitely with her every step of the way 🕊💯🙏💙
Being alone without children, that makes sense. Being alone, purposely, when you have brought children into the world because you don't want to do the work in a relationship liiiiiiike MARRIAGE ain't wisdom.
I thought of you as I watched the interview…
Can I get the link to the full interview please
I love Lauren London for her openness. And realizing life lessons are so hard, but seeing God in everything provides growth and teaches us to deal with pain and learning from it.
We’re never truly alone when we have God in our hearts🙌🏽❤️
She sounds confusing
What's confusing? She said she has experienced true love in this lifetime, and she has no desire to be in relationship with anyone else. She wants to focus on God and raising her kids. She doesn't "NEED" a man to make her happy or whole.
🤨 shout out to the ppl that know nothing but being alone
Your never alone. God is always with you. Jesus loves us all. Spending this time to get closer to Our heavenly father 🙏❤
Love her! Truly beautiful inside and out!
Can't help but think... she had... something to do with ......... u know what never mind
You people are sick
@@perfect1035 took the words right out of my mouth
I love her strength Nipsey proud of you beautiful❤️😔
She has gotten so spiritually deep. Love her.
spiritual awakening
Being alone is such a beautiful blessing! If you know you know its a very fulfilling and peaceful life.
I'd rather be Alone, than Unhappily In "LOVE"💯
God bless You! Stay strong! You will see him again! His spirit lives on! God bless you and his family 😥!
I see the wisdom and strength of the blessing of what they shared and still share in her growth after physical loss!♥️🙏🏽
God with me ty Jesus
Live for you. I have been with the same man for 22 yrs married for 14 post college and he passed on his 39th birthday. I am still devastated and heart broken. We had such a powerful love that I miss it and desire to have that again some day. I hate lonely times, it makes the loss worst for me. When you find someone who lives to make you happy it is hard to be alone! May God keep and Bless all of us struggling with the loss of pure love.
😔I'm married and I'm alone, all of the time. Its been like that for 11years of my marriage, so I'm okay with being alone. I'm happy 😊 because really I'm not alone God is always with me and will always be with me. So I'm not afraid 😌🙏❤🦋💞🌷💕😇💗🌹
THIS HAS ME EMOTIONAL BECAUSE I'VE ALWAYS BEEN BY MYSELF EVEN IN A SO CALLED RELATIONSHIP I'M SO GRATEFUL TO GOD THAT I'VE HAD PLENTY OF PRACTICE BEING ALONE AND I'M FINE BECAUSE GOD KEPT HIS HANDS ON ME 🙏
ah, this life is about lessons. Learn them as fast as you can & pour into self.
I been alone 3 years! Yes people can really exist without a relationship and have JOY! Happiness is temporary.... JOY is everlasting AND it comes from WITHIN! Thank you Lauren for this #message
True JOY🥂
@@TeraChantelle what is the background music?