This conversation hit really hard. I'm so glad I learned from my past mistakes; no more compromising. I have now set my boundaries and will be standing by them. I love this podcast Layla, God bless.
I binged all of your content when I found your account, up to the video before this one - you and your guest-speakers (and your father) have consistently blazed through things that I was already thinking about a lot at that time, regarding topics in general, and I appreciate the fluidity; I appreciate that you all respect eachother, truly, and you also seem to pay this same respect to your prospective audience members. Palestine has been all over my brain since January this year (when I first found out about everything, honestly) and after reverting to Islam in March I have been trying hard to split my attentions between my functional lifestyle (like work, and duties, and how I move around it all) and my desired life as a good Muslim... Bismillah... I keep thinking, "It's hard," but I agree with the people who hear that and say, "No, your goals (or something) are not properly set with your faith." - I appreciate everything in this religion more than I could ever express, and I wish I was born into it.... I pray Allâh continues to keep you all in your places, so far as spreading His influences. You all articulate through everything so well! Alhamdulillah. 😇 I agree with your father about not trying to change a man.... And I agree with your response; I would like to expand a bit more on your input of the compromise to say that doing that is honestly even an insult to yourself, and a lack of self respect.... No one but Allâh should ever be 'allowed'(? Hard to find a word that applies in contrasting people to Allâh) to cause harm to us by intention; no one but Allâh is Al-Rahman.....so, why would ANY of us, man or woman, willingly accept any abuse? We should never. "Do harm to thyself, do harm to thyself, my soul; but thou wilt no longer have the opportunity of honouring thyself." - Marcus Aurelius
I could listen to you for hours! mashAllah may Allah SWT bless you girly! Also, can you please provide the source of information sometimes it's missing. Love love love your podcast! Keep it up!
I came across your account by chance while looking for podcasts to help me prepare for the TOEFL exam. I didn’t expect to like what you had to say because I usually don’t enjoy listening to women without Hajab lecture me about my religion However, I started loving your videos and now I listen to them every day.
i've said this before as well, but can you guys increase the volume of your father's mic? it'll help me in listening to these podcasts so much as i wouldn't have to adjust volume multiple times. thank you and i love your videos :)
So we actually took this into consideration when filming, and my editor came back saying my dad’s mic is much louder than mine this time 😭😂 Back to the lab it is 🤓
@@LaylaKSaleh oh so this is after the volume has already been adjusted? 😭 i mean i'll still listen anyway but if there's a way this can get better, i'd appreciate it a lot!!
Sometimes we do things for our comfort or to prevent us from being hurt, when in reality that very thing will bring us more joy For eg i had an exam i was dreading. And i didnot want to work for it because i was anxious and scared. So i gave up. But my bf came to me and said " what i am about to say may hurt you rn. It may bring you discomfort rn, it may make you say that i dont understand you. But i want you to go study, and give it your all even if youre tired." I truly didnt love him in that moment. But afterwards i realised that what he said was for my betterment. He didnt say yes go rest to make me like him He said go study because i love and like you and i know youre gonna be in so much more pain if you fail Hope this helps😊
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She is the kind of woman that men are fearful of. An intelligent one. Love this
Why would you say men are fearful of this kind of woman?
This conversation hit really hard. I'm so glad I learned from my past mistakes; no more compromising.
I have now set my boundaries and will be standing by them. I love this podcast Layla, God bless.
I binged all of your content when I found your account, up to the video before this one - you and your guest-speakers (and your father) have consistently blazed through things that I was already thinking about a lot at that time, regarding topics in general, and I appreciate the fluidity; I appreciate that you all respect eachother, truly, and you also seem to pay this same respect to your prospective audience members.
Palestine has been all over my brain since January this year (when I first found out about everything, honestly) and after reverting to Islam in March I have been trying hard to split my attentions between my functional lifestyle (like work, and duties, and how I move around it all) and my desired life as a good Muslim... Bismillah... I keep thinking, "It's hard," but I agree with the people who hear that and say, "No, your goals (or something) are not properly set with your faith." - I appreciate everything in this religion more than I could ever express, and I wish I was born into it....
I pray Allâh continues to keep you all in your places, so far as spreading His influences. You all articulate through everything so well! Alhamdulillah. 😇
I agree with your father about not trying to change a man.... And I agree with your response; I would like to expand a bit more on your input of the compromise to say that doing that is honestly even an insult to yourself, and a lack of self respect.... No one but Allâh should ever be 'allowed'(? Hard to find a word that applies in contrasting people to Allâh) to cause harm to us by intention; no one but Allâh is Al-Rahman.....so, why would ANY of us, man or woman, willingly accept any abuse? We should never.
"Do harm to thyself, do harm to thyself, my soul; but thou wilt no longer have the opportunity of honouring thyself."
- Marcus Aurelius
Layla, i absolutely love all your episodes. Please, don't stop your podcast, Alhamdullilah.
Another thought and soul provoking podcast. Thank you Layla
I would also say, your father is very wise and you should allow him to get his thoughts out more without interrupting. Great show though!
I agree ...let him complete his sentence
💜 Thank you
I could listen to you for hours! mashAllah may Allah SWT bless you girly! Also, can you please provide the source of information sometimes it's missing. Love love love your podcast! Keep it up!
We need to.preserve our very valuable energy and trust, so that we don't throw it away.
I came across your account by chance while looking for podcasts to help me prepare for the TOEFL exam. I didn’t expect to like what you had to say because I usually don’t enjoy listening to women without Hajab lecture me about my religion However, I started loving your videos and now I listen to them every day.
Girl I LOVE YOU SISTER FRIEND I JUST WAS IN AWE when u said ur statement at 27 about humbling SubhanAllah
You have something great here. Keep it up!
Be humble infront of god and he will fill love in your heart ❤️
❤❤ I'm Abdallah trust me I'm instructed about the intended ❤❤
❤❤ I'm Abdallah ❤❤
i've said this before as well, but can you guys increase the volume of your father's mic? it'll help me in listening to these podcasts so much as i wouldn't have to adjust volume multiple times. thank you and i love your videos :)
So we actually took this into consideration when filming, and my editor came back saying my dad’s mic is much louder than mine this time 😭😂
Back to the lab it is 🤓
@@LaylaKSaleh oh so this is after the volume has already been adjusted? 😭 i mean i'll still listen anyway but if there's a way this can get better, i'd appreciate it a lot!!
What did he mean in 7:33 when he said "Sometimes loving a woman means to stand the ground and protect her from her own entitlement"?
Sometimes we do things for our comfort or to prevent us from being hurt, when in reality that very thing will bring us more joy
For eg i had an exam i was dreading. And i didnot want to work for it because i was anxious and scared.
So i gave up.
But my bf came to me and said " what i am about to say may hurt you rn. It may bring you discomfort rn, it may make you say that i dont understand you. But i want you to go study, and give it your all even if youre tired."
I truly didnt love him in that moment. But afterwards i realised that what he said was for my betterment. He didnt say yes go rest to make me like him
He said go study because i love and like you and i know youre gonna be in so much more pain if you fail
Hope this helps😊
That is a lovely interpretation, thank you @@YSF-qq9ee
What is the best way to end a relationship with a gaslighter?
I'm Abdallah trust Allah jallah wallah May pr❤❤❤❤
Blevins Allah grant us understanding amoung us ameen I'm Abdallah I'm the right husband ❤️ for yourself and you are how to make sure fis❤❤.