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- Insight on the fact that the narcissist’s discard has happened you but they realized they still need you.
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I walked out 6 years ago and never looked back,ever!! I never NEEDED IT at all,and IT WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED TO RE-ENTER! Knowledge is POWERFUL, once you DISCOVER YOUR REAL VALUE, YOUR WORTH,YOUR VOICE, SELF-ESTEEM, AND YOUR PURPOSE you are on your way!!! If I could do it YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
Thank you
Amen
@@kimsanders8262 you got this!!!!
@@tburgess25 you got this!!!!
@@Annie-ol3jx yessssss!!!! Then you look back and think WTF ughh … he needed me wayy more than I ever needed him. After I left, he went down immediately.
Forever blocked! No contact almost 2 years!! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Facts 2 years 7 months 🤸
Same here! Blocked him in every way possible in 2021.
Yessss Amen!
MY Ex Narc Discarded Me I went straight Black out on him I will never Look back at that Delusional demon ever again!!
I really believe my ex-narc knew what he was doing. He's arrogant, sadistic and manipulating. And they need to be held accountable for their actions.
BLOCKED 🚫 BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS AND POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST 🔥
Amen🙏
😂😂😂 Amen!
AMEN!!! IN JESUS NAME!!! 🩸🩸🩸🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen
This is so on point!!! When I found out my ex was having a long term affair, I immediately asked him for a divorce. I didn’t cry, yell, fall apart, or beg. I was 100% sure I was done and he felt that too. He in turn served me with divorce papers first, and put it on a public forum to act like he made the decision to get divorced. 😂 It didn’t matter to me that he filed first because he saved me the trouble and he sped up the process. Now, i can feel him in a state of panic because it will be finalized sooner than later. I think he was trying to call my bluff, but SURPRISE!!! 😂
😂😂😂😮 God is good!!!
This sounds like my current situation. My ex abandoned me suddenly and asked for separation. I didn't beg, plead, or make a fuss. I think he was shocked. I cut him off from everything, and he still kept asking me for money and my time, wanting to talk. I refused. He filed for divorce in January, and now he can't pay his attorney fees. I don't think he expected me to call his bluff. Divorce will be final in August and I can't wait.
Wow where have I seen similar behavior. You don’t even need to be in a relationship with these kinds of people. They know when their doing you wrong, and they play these dumb lil games anyways.
One year.
Amen sista 👊🏽 I applaud you & thank God he saved you the trouble & money. May God continue to bless you 🙏🏽
Expose all narcissist.
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I dont do social media so the narc will never know what goes on in my life and that suits me fine 😂
These hyenas are dangerous 🤡🤡
He would have never discarded me couldn’t afford to . He thought the “marriage “
Would keep “us”
He thought he could shelf me again and come back begging. I left never to return. Absence & totally silent off the grid - changed my number moved away .
5 yrs out 🎉🎉🎉🎉
YOU GO GIRL 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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Bravo! Keep up the good work! I'm 5 yrs out, 3 yrs no contact! Best thing I ever did! 😊
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Blickety blickety BLOCKED!!!! Never again
😅😅love it
I don't care if he still needs me or not because I don't need him. I've moved on.
They're so sad. They just want access to you but I pay them no mind(my ex and my almost narcissist). They always want who and what they can't have, it's a challenge for them because they have their at the moment supply on lock. Yet they want you too, they can't stand to be by themselves. When you walk away you struck their ego, so they see it as a chase they won't let go. I can't lie though we had an amazing connection and the xes was amazing, but he's way too toxic, manipulative, and it's all about what they can get from you as long as you're giving them what they want.
Exact same situation, I definitely miss the good in the relationship but looking back I realize he was intimidated by me, my strength & ability to stand up for myself whereas he didn’t, accept with me. He tried so hard to break me emotionally & mentally. I thank God for blessing me with the will & means to relocate to another state. Thank you Jesus 🙏🏽 couldn’t do it without him! Thank you Jesus for covering me 🙇🏽♀️
THE GREAT PREYTENDERS
Need Jesus in my life everyday
I could care less about her trying to hoover or contact. I need my money and home back I lost after twenty one years of marriage. I blocked her soon as the divorce was finalized and it’s been more than a year. She text my mother happy birthday or makes comments on my family and friends social media pages but it’s no contact period with me. I’m too grown to be playing games and going back and forth with an adult that acts like a child. Please tell her debt collectors to stop calling me looking for her. The grass was supposed to be greener on the other side. I’m more angry at myself because I married her.
I feel the same, married her and was with her for 20 years. She was a whole child and completely had me fooled. I let her keep the house and the equity in the home, I just wanted peace. It's been 10 months since the divorce and I'm still healing.
No thank you for forever … they refuse to go away. Infinite insanity they are. Thank God he saved my life… ❤
HAVE A BLESSED, HAPPY,AND SAFE 4TH OF JULY FAMILY.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉.
He walked out again for the second time 4.5 years ago when I was in need of surgery! I blocked him on everything social media, changed my phone number too. I thank God he left, and this time I'm divorcing him online, and don't even need his signature! I'm healed, whole and now I'm doing very well financially, but he will never know it. I praise God for your channel, and others like it, who teach us how to heal, and you hold our hand while we do it. I rocks with my girl "The Tea on NPD!"
I feel your pain. Online divorce is best know all about it. I dont know where your located but Ephraim law is great!!. I wish you peace of mind, heart and many blessings❤❤❤❤
My ex narc friend says he has other supplies, i said thats good. Im glad I am not on any social media, and it's been over a year now no contact.
It's almost like you're speaking to me, in real time 😮
Good morning QUEEN. There aren't words to describe GOD'S PEACE.. I THANK GOD I'M OUT OF ALL THAT CRAZINESS UNNECESSARY STRESS. YRS, THEY'RE WANTING TO COME BACK. WNEN I'M DONE,I'M DONE. I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR THE OTHER SUPPLY . THEY ARE AWARE OF ME. THOSE TWO BIRDS CAN LIVE MISERABLY EVER AFTER
They definitely tell you that you need them and that you are using them like you just couldn't make it without them. And when you leave them you do the best you ever did in life
Good morning QUEEN. No ma'am. I will not be contacting with that bird. When I'm done, I'm done. I have my peace of mind back. There aren't words to describe GOD'S BLESSINGHIS PEACE WHEN YOU LET GO OF THOSE COWARDS.
The narcissist I was with, she told me I was her breath, the breath in her lungs
Oohhh scary!!!!
Wow! That's a new line I've never heard before! They are slick though - know what to say & when! Master manipulators!
He’ll naw BYE FOREVER
Tealshal, I always watch your videos 😮 here on RUclips, and on Tik-Tok, it all resonates with my previous experience about Narcissists friends
I discarded him, then I looked back and checked then I got discarded 🤣🤣🤣
Good morning Ms. Telsha. Good to see you this morning. After dealing with narcissistics, I know I can surely appreciate the good in people. Thank you for sharing good to see you. I will miss you this Thursday. I wish I could give you a hug this morning 🤗❤🙌💯👑💎
This video is plain & simple! The saga of a narcissist... absolutely correct.... he was pissed when I blocked him...
Oh God, this is me. She discarded me, we have two kids, I was confused about the way she did it because she was laughing at me when I was in pain, the next day she had someone else. I went and talked to her family but they all seemed to know she had a problem. They just thanked me for looking after her for 18 years and she has never done an hour of paid work. They were shocked also. But they didn't tell me she was a narc. It's her young sister who told me she might be a narc, had not even heard of the word. She went telling them bad things about me they told her to move on with her life and stop mud-sliding me. She had told me she was going to move out. Up to now, she refused. I have learnt a lot about how they treat kids so am keeping the house to look after the kids. Her family ate telling her to move in with her new supply she refused. I went grey rocks don't react and now when am sleeping she bangs doors, I feel so alive. No going around in circles when I ask a question. Hv fewer things to do only do kids for my kids. She has now started shouting at the kids and am recording everything and comforting the kids. She has turned into something shocking. Am afraid of leaving Mr kids with her so I walk with them when am going out. I work from home.
God blesss, and thank u… perfect timing….
That’s the truth
So true. Me and my daughter moved out and a month later he no longer loved me and had someone else. He’s getting married to the new supply in the same year he met her. He wanted to block my number and when I said I wanted to change my number and communicate via a parenting app he weren’t too sure.
I don’t know if he will come back, but I’m so over his shit.
Going to court to sort the parenting arrangements out and setting boundaries - he doesn’t know this version of me. Him and his brain dead new wife can do one :)
It's amazing how dumb, inconsiderate and nefarious these people are we deserve so much better❤
Thanks!
Your definitely right about not blocking them I know for a fact he done made a million fake pages watching me then when he text me all I say is I’m done and I’m happier without him cause I’m with someone new knowing I’m not
Only through the grace of God and really surrendering to Christ we truly leave and move on through Christ we realize how much we need our Lord
Your balance of compassion with humor highlighting that it’s not easy and we can make mistakes is refreshing. Thank you. Subscribed!
I'm not religious, but I really love your message. It rings true universally. You are clearly a wonderful person. So pleased I broke up with him when he didnt expect it. I accidentally (still partially under the spell) told him he wasn't fighting for us. Oh well... You're correct: No information, always. Thankyou for helping us all. xx
This is alll soooooo true! They are constantly looking… even hacking into your devices 😏
This was a whole word!
Thanks to folks like YOU .. NOW I can see that he was never the person I thought he was so it became much much easier to move on..I thought it was ME..now I know it was never ME..I’m ok inside.thank you for your work💜💜💜💯💯💯😏😏
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I am scared to block him bc he'll increase his smear campaign. It's really dangerous
The smear campaign will end and then everyone will eventually see the truth, you will have to walk through it and out if it…. Just keep living no matter what.❤
He was most likely running you down in the ground behind your back while you were still with him. They eat you up to your face, and talk about you like a dog behind your back while they are pretending to be in a "relationship" with you. It started way before the discard happened.
Block & NO CONTACT IF THEY KNOW U THEY KNOW U REAL TALK
@@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd that's exactly what was happening
@@anitaaustralia Block that devil. He's gonna run a smear campaign on you either way you go. Let him run his pie hole.... God knows the truth! And, that's all that matters.
I don’t think she even cares! 🤷🏾♂️
I don't but I have a 3 y.o. son that we are going to have joint conservators over him! That's good content thank you!
Wise words. Staying blocked on everything 💯
After she divorced/discarded me 10 months ago, I immediately blocked her everywhere but she kept calling from strange numbers and having her flying monkeys call. So I had to change my number now my peace is complete.
No this never has happened to me with the one I was with he just went right on with no watching no monkeys no stalking nothing period
You’re fantastic. Going through this now and it’s a great help listening to u❤
Love you miss T❤❤❤
I just wish I had been educated on this enough back in the day so I could show my mama she didn’t need him..(step dad)😔😔😔😔
Do you think it would be wrong to answer,just to reject them to their face.
Naa, Don't get caught up with revenge fantasies, it's just a trauma response that gives you a false illusion of closure, and control over your life , it puts you right back in the ring of emotional control in the narcissist games , living well healthy and happy is the best revenge..✌️🫶🦾
Let that go. It's not worth it. YOUR PEACE AND SANITY IS MORE IMPORTANT. ALL YOU'LL BE DOING IS GIVING HIM SUPPLY
Nope no response, I couldn't figure out why this Narc was still clinging to me. I'm still allowing him in my personal space smh. He told me he is never gonna stop trying to get me back. I discarded him. I'm glad I watched this video!!!!
I have a business relationship with the narc. Once I figured out that he was a narcissist, I completely changed my relationship with him. I’m still involved in a business relationship with him but without giving him my emotional support. It’s all business and no emotions whatsoever. I keep it moving. I set boundaries, tell him like it is and keep it short and sweet.
Ghost 👻 😂
No Contact, No Social Media 😂 New Phone. New Me 🤲🏽😇🤲🏽 Couldn’t tell you what’s going on with him and the New Wife 😂number 4😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Bye,Bye Bum ‼️👌🏽
This is deep deep deep....
YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL 😻… I THINK I LOVE YOU 🤭
Ong she is so beautiful ❤
She blocked me on social media but uses different outlets to Hoover and she has that phone app and uses different numbers to Hoover and try to gas light and her flying monkey is a horrible person and talks bad about her when we were together but she only says I’m lying and they talk about me it was an awful situation and I hate to say it but she so horrible I believe somebody will do something terrible to her
He did that and more to me but I don't care I'm so done with that demon
@@1010QUEEN7 you are strong I want to reach your level of not giving a 🤬 one day 💪🏾👍🏾
Worst thing I ever seen
The greatest deception is to be self deceived. These kind of people cannot be helped and they don’t perceive that there is something wrong or believe they have done anything wrong.# walk away and take your power back then be indifferent.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅💎💎💎💎💎
Best advice
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I'm sorry, how is this helpful jr beneficial to a survivor. If They're mentally ill, we should pray for them and keep it moving. Give these wolves in sheep clothing over to God. Are we in the book of Revelation.