Yes. Totally agree with you Tripp. My potential partner and I were laying the ingredients out for a great curry (love relationship). I thought she was a bit slow to present her ingredients. Everything was ready to make a good curry (less a few ingredients). The pot was on the stove, most of the ingredients for a great relationship, we had some gas, ......but no match! As it turned out, she had another curry cooking on the stove!
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Great video, thanks. Have self-respect and say these words. She might change her course, she might not. At least, you've shown dignity, honesty and pride.
Maybe it would be even better to say "I've got enough friends" or "I've got more than enough friends" or maybe best of all "I don't NEED any more friends"
Walk away and see if she pursues. The strongest negotiating position is standing your ground and be willing to walk away. If she values you as more than a friend even 1%, she won't let you go forever.
Arion Starks I was best friends with a girl N we Wer having sex but when she bring up other dudes tell her she should be with him and you will hook them Up. Trust me she try to get wit u
Tripp Advice can u please do a video on how to get over a girl that has said she’s not interested in you but you both stay friends because you’s are best friends I know it’s complicated and very specific but I’d just like to move on as quickly as possible from my feelings so I can stay friends with this girl because she’s important in my life but if she’s not interested I need to look elsewhere with 100% of my feelings off her Keep up the good work Tripp
do what you just said. it will be hard. it will cost you a lot of pain. but trust me wounds heal. i have been thru this. leave her alone. be gone from her life. if she likes you she will find you if not then you will find someone else eventually.
Tripp Advice maby do a video about the places to have the first (or second) dates and the advantages and disadvantages in them, like: in the park, the coffee shop, restaurant or maby see the ocean and more...
Hey Tripp, if you could do a video on what to do when she flakes on you (even though we've been hanging out the past whole week and texting each other) and how to respond during a flake it'd help alot
Very true Tripp. I spent a year trying to show a girl that I am more then just a friend to her. In the end it didn't work, got to needy for her and we just got into more arguments in the end, which turned everything sour.
I said that a long while ago “on the fly” and thought that I had blown the opportunity. Later on I realised that I said/made the right choice by saying that because it improved my confidence with other women , showing that I go for what I want in life, regardless if she liked me in that way or not...
Sometimes you have to start as friends in order to build relationship into something greater. I can see a lot of guys being frustrated and eager, mis-using this line and it cutting off their line of communication between them and the female they're hoping to cultivate a greater relationship with simply because if she feels she doesn't have the option to be friends she may feel may deterred from wanting Anything to do with you. Women don't like to be put in a box where their only value is found in romantic relationship. That line must be used smoothly and in the right timiging so as not to sound jaded or dis-interested. Just my 25cents from personal experience.
From my experience, it's only somewhat true. You have to ask her out within 2-3 months max. There is a window for most women for you to make a move. If you don't, you are screwed. Sure, you might get to know her a few times in group setting, but you have to get it to a one-on-one setting eventually or she will friendzone you and never see you as more than a friend.
Yeah no, that's why most guys end up in the friend zone. They're all like "oh I'll just take it slow and start as friends you know, get to know here better" etc. setting the tone early on is important. If you haven't set the tone within a month, then ya fucked up
radfoo72 Wrong. She either likes you from the start or she doesn’t. A man shouldn’t be falsely befriending a chick with the hopes it will grow into something more. He’ll only end up used, humiliated, depressed and angry. Keep well away from that medieval torture chamber.
@@mav1877 Truth. It short circuits everything and we're forced to end the communication if we aren't romantic. And yes to "women don't like to be put in a box where their only value is romantic". I had a guy tell me this and it ended thereafter. That's exactly how I felt. I get being in the friend zone can hurt, in that case you should end it. But the line sounds like an ultimatum and who wants to be in something based on an ultimatum? I had a guy pursue me and the effort he put in (small things like bringing me lattes) made me look at him differently. Had he given me that line I wouldn't of talked to him after that. Someone who cannot be patient enough to wait for the potential for something great shows he may not be worthy of having it. By all means get clarity, but the line itself feels like you're being put in a corner to choose.
It's tough when women aren't direct. I suppose I could take the lead and ask a woman out without using the word date, but instead say I'm not looking for friends before asking her out. When women go along with it and avoid conflict for fear of retaliation, I need to hold her accountable for being on time and approaching me rather than me looking for her at an event we had planned. Being too lenient on dates is a symptom of low self-esteem, anyway. I need to unfortunately avoid women who might try to manipulate me into flirtatious touching to lead me on into hoping more comes from a friendship and move on. If feelings of friendship and wanting more are not mutual, it's time to move on. If she doesn't make it clear a woman wants to date, I need to assume she is very carefully saying no.
Honestly, as much as it sucks being in the Friendzone. Having that girl as a friend isn't a bad thing either. Having women around you in general that respect you is attractive to other women. It's also possible she could introduce you to her other female friends who could potentially be better partners for you, and it's likely, since you are friends, she would vouche for you. But of course if it's too painful to be around her as 'just friends' then it's best to let go of her entirely. But if you can get over it (which it's better if you do) then it can play out in your favour. Sometimes you have to play the cards you are given, and they often don't always play out the way you expect them.
Robert Powell having women around you is seen as attractive by other women? Fallacy. Once they find out she’s a female friend, she’ll think, ‘Sucker getting used and strung along. No thanks’. And even worse if it’s her female friends because they already know you’ve been friendzoned. Her and her friends laugh at you for being her pathetic man servant.
From my experience, it's better and best to let it go (or just as a stranger if in office), girls are gossip spreader, her entire circle will know that you like her, and she rejects you, keeping her as a friends will hurt more the man's social value, also if you still keeping her as a friends hoping you will catch another girl in her circle is useless, she's KNOW it even you don't know it, probably said something embarassing about the relationship and making fun of it in gossip in her circle i can guarantee it 90%. i have done this so many times, and trust me the girl that i had relationship now is also making fun of her rejected guys in a light convo sometimes, and i sometimes feel pity about them too, because i've been there so many times
It's good to have female friends a generation older than you, who want to try and help you. Also having a sister helps. But women friends who are in your dating age range, not so sure.
The only way to avoid this situation is to keep them guessing. Be friendly to girl you like but at the same time be distant, that way she would be the one to come to you. She gets to be the one to confess.
I keep on watching your videos. I hope it helps me get this one special girl. And I KNOW that she's special because I am very good at flirting and literally had 66 wonderful and beautiful girls in high school who I would regularly flirt with. And even with that, she STILL stood out when I compared her to the group of the most awesome girls I had ever met! If I ever get her, then I will never be able to thank you enough!
The only way to avoid this situation is to keep them guessing. Be friendly to the girl you like but at the same time be distant, that way she would be the one to come to you. She gets to be the one to confess.
What if you meet this girl you were really liking and it seemed to be mutual but she started seeing someone shortly after. I know... Move on... but something REALLY draws me to this girl like every bone in my body. Haha
Holden Knutson don't chase her. Was in a similar situation. She told me I was acting aloof n distance (which I was, because I'm busy with my purpose, my number was changed also). So she told me she was in a relationship, I told her. Idc, and I knew.. And she said she like and respect me, so she hope it doesn't change things. I told her I don't keep female friends, if you really like or respect me, we gotta fuck and don't ever bring up shit about a relationship again. She said can I get the new number, I gave her, she immediately texted me back. I set up a date. But she will not hear from me until next week. Punish her by being silent. And tell her you don't want friend.
Simple as that, make your intentions clear from the beginning, that's why you end up as friends. When a woman sees that you're not bold enough to make the move, she will lose interest and put in the friend zone. Make your intentions clear from the beginning
That is true, but at the same time i have doughts, i seen some people be friends first for a couple of months, and even hang out as friends for a year, and then they became lovers and love each other, so how does that work?
That’s true but sometimes people don’t see someone as a potential lover at first until they really get to know a person so like they might friendzone themselves at first because they never knew they’d like that person later on
kc270352 like everyone else, I tend not to know if I love someone until after I have known them for a while... so I am in this muddle. Is it possible for me to escape this using Tripp’s technique?
Thanks! +Parkour. The Legend of the Ages. I am friends with this girl that I have known. We met in college, and we were able to start hanging out several times last semester, but she graduated soon after, and works in another city. I try to talk with her enough so that we can stay in touch, and she seems to be interested in staying in touch, and is also enthusiastic to hang out when I visited. But when I text her, she does not always respond, and leaves me hanging. She has hinted that her job has been keeping her busy, and I have accordingly avoided sending her too many messages so that I will not appear needy. But could those be the only reasons? I feel I am in the friend's zone, but I also feel she sorta likes me. I want to move forward with her in any way I can but I don't know how since it is really difficult (1. long-distance, 2. Hard to get in contact nowadays to maintain attraction or start it)
Christian Molina women only do that if the guy they are pursuing ignores them for too long, then she gives the "friend" a chance, until that guy (me) comes back around. Loll. Too easy
Lol, I tried getting into that zone because I thought 'oh popular girl little miss Valedictoria is just pitty friending the dark, lonely kid' yeah no, apparently she clung to me because I didn't treat her like a queen. Here's a tip, to get the popukar girl, act like you're more important and ignore her. She won't be used to getting no attention from 1 guy
Maybe I am not using the term Friend the same way you are but my longest-term closest friends are women who I began to date but we just did not have the same attraction at the same time. Most of my closest friends are women, I was attracted to them because of qualities that indicated they were really good people. If they date someone I do not think are right for them, I will speak up but not due to envy or jealousy but because I care about them. They are not shy about warning me about my latest infatuation and they are almost always right in the medium term. Being a friend is another type of relationship and it can be very satisfying. I think the problem that men or women have with friends after a non-starter romance is one of the people has expectations that are an illusion or they have conned themselves. Maybe the women or man in such a situation of one of them being infatuated and the other not, is that the one infatuated has a fantasy image of the other that is clouding their perception. Who wants to pine over someone that is not into them? There are reasons they are not into the one who is infatuated when there really is no mutual attraction just a projected one or wish for one.
There's nothing wrong with having women friends, but I think most would say the effort it takes to maintain a friendship is better spent on developing a romantic relationship ideally with the goal of marriage. But if simple friendships make you happy that's fine.
It's so hard to escape from that friend zone. And the reason why is because i'm in a group of 4 people (my roommate, his gf, me and that girl), out of this group there's no one. I don't really know how to escape from this situation...I'm screwed
This girl was very interested in me. Kiss, hold hands but we didn't have sex. Long story short, I wasn't assertive enough and didn't give her that much attention. She said friends only and nothing more. I said no to that. She blocked me off instagram and Snapchat. Haven't talked in 5 months.
Everyone's got a different view, just like with anything else. Another dating video suggests that if she just wants to be friends, to friend her back, or tell her you're willing to be just friends if that's all she wants. Then again, I can see using that to move on.
Guys need to evoke deep feelings of emotions, lust, fantasies, imagination, roller coaster emotions, bantering, teasing... get her in her senses very early on in the dating process. If you do this successfully she will never put you in the friend zone - ever! Never use *logic* to get a girl romantically and sexually attracted to you. Telling her "you don't need any new friends" will fail nine times out of ten. The only way is to get the girl deeply emotional and tie this deep feeling to you - and do it much faster than you think. Tease her, tell her emotional stories, push-pull, look her in her eyes, smile, make her feel she is the only lovely woman on the planet... *Get into her emotions!* Don't wait.
I said this to my wife of 5 years and 2 kids later she still left me for a convicted murderer serving life in prison!! I was clear about my intentions I have enough friends what I crave is a lover a girlfriend a wife , someone who wants me as much as I want them someone I can share my life with...we just didnt work out it's been 10 months now
I'm knee deep in the friendzone with a woman who rejected me a few months ago. We still hang out a lot and have good conversations and I care for her (and I believe she cares for me, too). She doesn't have a lot of friends and so do I so we comfort each other in a way. Right now I can handle this situation and my feelings for her are not that strong for her anymore but Lord knows what happens when she starts dating another man...
hope this works, this is my sort of hail mary. I'm just about to finish my freshman year of college and theres this girl who I've been friends with since kindergarten, so almost 14 years now. She friend zoned me a few years ago and we remained friends. She goes to a different school in a different city now, so I havent seen her since january, and before that since august, but I'll probably see her some over the summer. Thats when I'm gonna try again, and this time I will get her.
Tripp I used to follow your ways of being direct and honest then recently i found people like jason c and many others saying strongly that being direct with girls fucks up your chances so i started following the psychological whit and the complex teasing /pushing pulling /switching the power and validating women stuff like that and they absolutely got me better results but i hate all that shit cuz my real self just feels better if i just tell the girl what i really feel like even tho it scares me af cuz got higher chances of rejection or landing in the friend zone...so any ideas???plus I'm not that courageous with girls
I stayed in the "friend zone" to later find out she's banging a player type guy who of course pumped and dumped. I agree with Trip you need to cut it off if your in the friend zone move on find a new girl it's not worth it.
I’ve been hanging out with this woman that I dated in the past. 2 years we were together. We were kids. Recently things have brought us back together and she is saying she doesn’t have those feelings. But all of the other physical signs of her being attracted are there. The touching and flirting snuggling and so on. Ive told her how I felt, I’m trying to be there for her. However I don’t want to end up as the comfort and not the interest. What do ? Lol
Told her my feelings and she said she cant get over her ex and she cant fall in love. But, from time to time I invite her out and then distance myself. Hopefully that kinda keeps her guessing. That's just a summary but, it's a bit long story. She said I see you as a friend right now and I was pressuring her and that made her just leave more.
What to do when you meet a woman (same social circles) and are interested but not ready to ask her out. Still focusing on personal improvement but want to avoid the FZ for the next 2 months or so. Constant low key flirting?
My question is this. How is telling a girl that you are interested different from telling her that you are in love with her. I have heard some people say that telling a girl you like her could make her feel uncomfortable or feel like she is in a difficult position. Some have even discouraged me from eating my opinion in that way. Does anyone have any further advice for me on this? Anything can help. Thank you.
One old chestnut that I find is good for hardening resolve is "women do not make particularly good friends" (which is the reason they're so keen to friendzone guys instead of befriending other women who tend to be bitchier and higher maintenance). Important to know because you're gonna trash your friendship with the lady either way.
Is there a good time frame to do this? Only known her for about 2 months. If no response gonna try it screw it. I'll let you know if i fail and she laughs her ass off.
Hey Tripp, I've been friends with this girl for 3 months and we've been hanging out for the last 3 weeks. We talk about anything. We have the same taste of music. She gave me a birthday present. She told me she likes me and i told her i like her too. Now she just broke up with her bf 2 weeks ago. What should i do? Should i wait for her to get over her ex first? Or do you have any other suggestions? I do not wanna be the rebound guy. Please help. Please reply. Thanks.
Hey! Don't rush things too fast but also don't chill the next 6 months! Maybe in a week or two ask her out to something! Have a fun day, make her laugh and ask her if she finds you attractive! But on a scale of 1-10! Then here you go! If it is under 7 you know you are totally friendzoned and don't have any chance but 7 and above means she really likes you and then you ask is it worth to kiss me because I am that attractive? Well that's my plan good luck!
I like this girl and at the start she really liked me like a lot but I haven’t actually met her and we’ve been texting for 50 days and she says she thinks we’re better off as friends how would I go about getting with her romantically and sexually
Is there something I can do so I can let her know I like to get out of the friend zone because I work with her, were forex traders and work together with a team to succeed
I told a girl after I asked her out that I dont want be friends with her. After 1 month she invite me to a party and i was like wtf is that and asked her why she invites me and she like "yeah it was just a friendly invite " what is up with that shit lol
Hey there I need some help.. I have been texting girl for about 3 weeks and in the beginning she seemed totally interested in me. But after 2 weeks she started to text with less effort if you know what I mean. What did I do wrong? I think I have been maybe too "into her". How can I fix it because I really want her. PLEASE HELP SOMEONE🙏
What if shes in a relationship, but its a bad one where the male is cheating all the way on the other side of the U.S, cheating. Ive had three of my sisters who are stuck in bad relationshios and i don't want her to be like this😅.
I do agree heavily she Chose a freaking convicted murderer over their own children's father so I cut her off as much as it kills me its not safe or healthy for me
You are very generic on your comment. What is presented in the video is a recommendation to how to deal with the girl wanted to put the guy in friend zone. It doesn't offer any resolution that in your case is what you need. If your friend has not shown any sign of interest by now he is not into you. If you have been following these kind of videos we men tend not to repress our feelings when we are really interested in a girl romantically.
I wouldn't say "I don't want anymore friends" I'd say something like "Im not going to be just friends with you" and you should be creating sexual tension for her to feel that kind of emotion instead of trying to logic your way to her feelings
Don't even bring up wanting be her boyfriend, especially without any kind of touching, kissing, sex, dating happening first. Don't act like your more emotionally invested than her, just be cool while keeping her turned on.
Yes. Totally agree with you Tripp. My potential partner and I were laying the ingredients out for a great curry (love relationship). I thought she was a bit slow to present her ingredients. Everything was ready to make a good curry (less a few ingredients). The pot was on the stove, most of the ingredients for a great relationship, we had some gas, ......but no match!
As it turned out, she had another curry cooking on the stove!
lol i like that explanation
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Great video, thanks. Have self-respect and say these words. She might change her course, she might not. At least, you've shown dignity, honesty and pride.
Maybe it would be even better to say "I've got enough friends" or "I've got more than enough friends" or maybe best of all "I don't NEED any more friends"
Instructions were unclear..... she’s now saying we’re best friends
Walk away and see if she pursues. The strongest negotiating position is standing your ground and be willing to walk away. If she values you as more than a friend even 1%, she won't let you go forever.
mav1877 Nah bro it’s just a meme😂
Arion Starks I was best friends with a girl
N we Wer having sex but when she bring up other dudes tell her she should be with him and you will hook them
Up. Trust me she try to get wit u
I said i dont want any more best frds and she said then mega bestfriend lol
Best friends with benefits???
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Tripp Advice can u please do a video on how to get over a girl that has said she’s not interested in you but you both stay friends because you’s are best friends
I know it’s complicated and very specific but I’d just like to move on as quickly as possible from my feelings so I can stay friends with this girl because she’s important in my life but if she’s not interested I need to look elsewhere with 100% of my feelings off her
Keep up the good work Tripp
do what you just said. it will be hard. it will cost you a lot of pain. but trust me wounds heal. i have been thru this. leave her alone. be gone from her life. if she likes you she will find you if not then you will find someone else eventually.
Tripp Advice maby do a video about the places to have the first (or second) dates and the advantages and
disadvantages in them, like: in the park, the coffee shop, restaurant or maby see the ocean and more...
Hey Tripp, if you could do a video on what to do when she flakes on you (even though we've been hanging out the past whole week and texting each other) and how to respond during a flake it'd help alot
Tripp Advice I did send her right now. Lets see how things work out
Very true Tripp. I spent a year trying to show a girl that I am more then just a friend to her. In the end it didn't work, got to needy for her and we just got into more arguments in the end, which turned everything sour.
I said that a long while ago “on the fly” and thought that I had blown the opportunity. Later on I realised that I said/made the right choice by saying that because it improved my confidence with other women , showing that I go for what I want in life, regardless if she liked me in that way or not...
Sometimes you have to start as friends in order to build relationship into something greater. I can see a lot of guys being frustrated and eager, mis-using this line and it cutting off their line of communication between them and the female they're hoping to cultivate a greater relationship with simply because if she feels she doesn't have the option to be friends she may feel may deterred from wanting Anything to do with you. Women don't like to be put in a box where their only value is found in romantic relationship. That line must be used smoothly and in the right timiging so as not to sound jaded or dis-interested. Just my 25cents from personal experience.
From my experience, it's only somewhat true. You have to ask her out within 2-3 months max. There is a window for most women for you to make a move. If you don't, you are screwed. Sure, you might get to know her a few times in group setting, but you have to get it to a one-on-one setting eventually or she will friendzone you and never see you as more than a friend.
radfoo72 bullshit, lol,
Yeah no, that's why most guys end up in the friend zone. They're all like "oh I'll just take it slow and start as friends you know, get to know here better" etc. setting the tone early on is important. If you haven't set the tone within a month, then ya fucked up
radfoo72 Wrong. She either likes you from the start or she doesn’t. A man shouldn’t be falsely befriending a chick with the hopes it will grow into something more. He’ll only end up used, humiliated, depressed and angry. Keep well away from that medieval torture chamber.
@@mav1877 Truth. It short circuits everything and we're forced to end the communication if we aren't romantic. And yes to "women don't like to be put in a box where their only value is romantic". I had a guy tell me this and it ended thereafter. That's exactly how I felt. I get being in the friend zone can hurt, in that case you should end it. But the line sounds like an ultimatum and who wants to be in something based on an ultimatum? I had a guy pursue me and the effort he put in (small things like bringing me lattes) made me look at him differently. Had he given me that line I wouldn't of talked to him after that. Someone who cannot be patient enough to wait for the potential for something great shows he may not be worthy of having it. By all means get clarity, but the line itself feels like you're being put in a corner to choose.
It's tough when women aren't direct. I suppose I could take the lead and ask a woman out without using the word date, but instead say I'm not looking for friends before asking her out. When women go along with it and avoid conflict for fear of retaliation, I need to hold her accountable for being on time and approaching me rather than me looking for her at an event we had planned. Being too lenient on dates is a symptom of low self-esteem, anyway. I need to unfortunately avoid women who might try to manipulate me into flirtatious touching to lead me on into hoping more comes from a friendship and move on. If feelings of friendship and wanting more are not mutual, it's time to move on. If she doesn't make it clear a woman wants to date, I need to assume she is very carefully saying no.
Her : hey!
Me : I don't want to be friends.
Her : oh what
Honestly, as much as it sucks being in the Friendzone. Having that girl as a friend isn't a bad thing either. Having women around you in general that respect you is attractive to other women. It's also possible she could introduce you to her other female friends who could potentially be better partners for you, and it's likely, since you are friends, she would vouche for you. But of course if it's too painful to be around her as 'just friends' then it's best to let go of her entirely. But if you can get over it (which it's better if you do) then it can play out in your favour.
Sometimes you have to play the cards you are given, and they often don't always play out the way you expect them.
Robert Powell having women around you is seen as attractive by other women? Fallacy. Once they find out she’s a female friend, she’ll think, ‘Sucker getting used and strung along. No thanks’. And even worse if it’s her female friends because they already know you’ve been friendzoned. Her and her friends laugh at you for being her pathetic man servant.
Xenon that’s if you allow it to be. There’s no rule against not having friends who are girls lol.
From my experience, it's better and best to let it go (or just as a stranger if in office), girls are gossip spreader, her entire circle will know that you like her, and she rejects you, keeping her as a friends will hurt more the man's social value, also if you still keeping her as a friends hoping you will catch another girl in her circle is useless, she's KNOW it even you don't know it, probably said something embarassing about the relationship and making fun of it in gossip in her circle i can guarantee it 90%. i have done this so many times, and trust me the girl that i had relationship now is also making fun of her rejected guys in a light convo sometimes, and i sometimes feel pity about them too, because i've been there so many times
It's good to have female friends a generation older than you, who want to try and help you. Also having a sister helps. But women friends who are in your dating age range, not so sure.
The only way to avoid this situation is to keep them guessing. Be friendly to girl you like but at the same time be distant, that way she would be the one to come to you. She gets to be the one to confess.
Great Video.
I don't want anymore friends..
I can't be friends with someone I rather do things on a sexual level. One
I keep on watching your videos.
I hope it helps me get this one special girl.
And I KNOW that she's special because I am very good at flirting and literally had 66 wonderful and beautiful girls in high school who I would regularly flirt with.
And even with that, she STILL stood out when I compared her to the group of the most awesome girls I had ever met!
If I ever get her, then I will never be able to thank you enough!
Great vid structure Trip
Short, practical advice at beginning and lovely scenery at the end
The only way to avoid this situation is to keep them guessing. Be friendly to the girl you like but at the same time be distant, that way she would be the one to come to you. She gets to be the one to confess.
What if you meet this girl you were really liking and it seemed to be mutual but she started seeing someone shortly after. I know... Move on... but something REALLY draws me to this girl like every bone in my body. Haha
Holden Knutson don't chase her. Was in a similar situation. She told me I was acting aloof n distance (which I was, because I'm busy with my purpose, my number was changed also). So she told me she was in a relationship, I told her. Idc, and I knew.. And she said she like and respect me, so she hope it doesn't change things. I told her I don't keep female friends, if you really like or respect me, we gotta fuck and don't ever bring up shit about a relationship again. She said can I get the new number, I gave her, she immediately texted me back. I set up a date. But she will not hear from me until next week. Punish her by being silent. And tell her you don't want friend.
@@KevsUploads are u watching alpha male dude
Simple as that, make your intentions clear from the beginning, that's why you end up as friends. When a woman sees that you're not bold enough to make the move, she will lose interest and put in the friend zone. Make your intentions clear from the beginning
That is true, but at the same time i have doughts, i seen some people be friends first for a couple of months, and even hang out as friends for a year, and then they became lovers and love each other, so how does that work?
That’s true but sometimes people don’t see someone as a potential lover at first until they really get to know a person so like they might friendzone themselves at first because they never knew they’d like that person later on
kc270352 like everyone else, I tend not to know if I love someone until after I have known them for a while... so I am in this muddle. Is it possible for me to escape this using Tripp’s technique?
Thanks! +Parkour. The Legend of the Ages.
I am friends with this girl that I have known. We met in college, and we were able to start hanging out several times last semester, but she graduated soon after, and works in another city. I try to talk with her enough so that we can stay in touch, and she seems to be interested in staying in touch, and is also enthusiastic to hang out when I visited. But when I text her, she does not always respond, and leaves me hanging. She has hinted that her job has been keeping her busy, and I have accordingly avoided sending her too many messages so that I will not appear needy. But could those be the only reasons? I feel I am in the friend's zone, but I also feel she sorta likes me. I want to move forward with her in any way I can but I don't know how since it is really difficult (1. long-distance, 2. Hard to get in contact nowadays to maintain attraction or start it)
Christian Molina women only do that if the guy they are pursuing ignores them for too long, then she gives the "friend" a chance, until that guy (me) comes back around. Loll. Too easy
"I can be your lover or your worst nightmare"
Sandbar? I didn't see a single bartender or barmaid at all. Let alone a married one.
You both look amazing and made for each other,May God bless you two ☺️
Who both
What about just: " I don't HAVE any friends".....?
John M no, I don't want, or I don't keep female friends.
If you're aren't careful, you could end up in the @$$hole zone...
Aw, I thought girls like assholes... What a catch 22
That's better than the friend zone
Lol, I tried getting into that zone because I thought 'oh popular girl little miss Valedictoria is just pitty friending the dark, lonely kid' yeah no, apparently she clung to me because I didn't treat her like a queen. Here's a tip, to get the popukar girl, act like you're more important and ignore her. She won't be used to getting no attention from 1 guy
Better there than the friend zone.
Hhhha!
The "evil friendzone". Hit that on the mark. 👍
Family zone has entered the chat
Living life* you deserve it Tripp thanks for everything
Maybe I am not using the term Friend the same way you are but my longest-term closest friends are women who I began to date but we just did not have the same attraction at the same time. Most of my closest friends are women, I was attracted to them because of qualities that indicated they were really good people. If they date someone I do not think are right for them, I will speak up but not due to envy or jealousy but because I care about them. They are not shy about warning me about my latest infatuation and they are almost always right in the medium term. Being a friend is another type of relationship and it can be very satisfying.
I think the problem that men or women have with friends after a non-starter romance is one of the people has expectations that are an illusion or they have conned themselves. Maybe the women or man in such a situation of one of them being infatuated and the other not, is that the one infatuated has a fantasy image of the other that is clouding their perception. Who wants to pine over someone that is not into them? There are reasons they are not into the one who is infatuated when there really is no mutual attraction just a projected one or wish for one.
There's nothing wrong with having women friends, but I think most would say the effort it takes to maintain a friendship is better spent on developing a romantic relationship ideally with the goal of marriage. But if simple friendships make you happy that's fine.
love the location you are in tripp! looks amazing. nice hair btw lol :p
It's so hard to escape from that friend zone. And the reason why is because i'm in a group of 4 people (my roommate, his gf, me and that girl), out of this group there's no one. I don't really know how to escape from this situation...I'm screwed
This girl was very interested in me. Kiss, hold hands but we didn't have sex. Long story short, I wasn't assertive enough and didn't give her that much attention. She said friends only and nothing more. I said no to that. She blocked me off instagram and Snapchat. Haven't talked in 5 months.
Mike Williams same here except last part
Dude, move on, don't waste another minute on her. She isn't worth your time and effort.
Everyone's got a different view, just like with anything else. Another dating video suggests that if she just wants to be friends, to friend her back, or tell her you're willing to be just friends if that's all she wants. Then again, I can see using that to move on.
Guys need to evoke deep feelings of emotions, lust, fantasies, imagination, roller coaster emotions, bantering, teasing... get her in her senses very early on in the dating process. If you do this successfully she will never put you in the friend zone - ever! Never use *logic* to get a girl romantically and sexually attracted to you. Telling her "you don't need any new friends" will fail nine times out of ten. The only way is to get the girl deeply emotional and tie this deep feeling to you - and do it much faster than you think. Tease her, tell her emotional stories, push-pull, look her in her eyes, smile, make her feel she is the only lovely woman on the planet... *Get into her emotions!* Don't wait.
I fought for her and our family as long and as hard as I could it wasnt enough
I said this to my wife of 5 years and 2 kids later she still left me for a convicted murderer serving life in prison!! I was clear about my intentions I have enough friends what I crave is a lover a girlfriend a wife , someone who wants me as much as I want them someone I can share my life with...we just didnt work out it's been 10 months now
I'm knee deep in the friendzone with a woman who rejected me a few months ago. We still hang out a lot and have good conversations and I care for her (and I believe she cares for me, too). She doesn't have a lot of friends and so do I so we comfort each other in a way. Right now I can handle this situation and my feelings for her are not that strong for her anymore but Lord knows what happens when she starts dating another man...
BTVS666 I know the feels man. Same here.
Holy shit de ja vu
What happened? Update...
hope this works, this is my sort of hail mary. I'm just about to finish my freshman year of college and theres this girl who I've been friends with since kindergarten, so almost 14 years now. She friend zoned me a few years ago and we remained friends. She goes to a different school in a different city now, so I havent seen her since january, and before that since august, but I'll probably see her some over the summer. Thats when I'm gonna try again, and this time I will get her.
now this what i call a tip.. short, simple, but effective. but yet she often say (or indicate), "you better be my brother than my bf.."
Love all the stuff you did on this trip, but thinking this is one of your finest pieces of work...Btw, whatever happended to Potter...?
Tripp I used to follow your ways of being direct and honest then recently i found people like jason c and many others saying strongly that being direct with girls fucks up your chances so i started following the psychological whit and the complex teasing /pushing pulling /switching the power and validating women stuff like that and they absolutely got me better results but i hate all that shit cuz my real self just feels better if i just tell the girl what i really feel like even tho it scares me af cuz got higher chances of rejection or landing in the friend zone...so any ideas???plus I'm not that courageous with girls
I stayed in the "friend zone" to later find out she's banging a player type guy who of course pumped and dumped. I agree with Trip you need to cut it off if your in the friend zone move on find a new girl it's not worth it.
If you do it wrong you could end up in the harassment zone. Be careful my friends
Friend zone ... walk away don't look back . If she changes her mind she will have to go find you . If trust her enough to answer the door.
I’ve been hanging out with this woman that I dated in the past. 2 years we were together. We were kids. Recently things have brought us back together and she is saying she doesn’t have those feelings. But all of the other physical signs of her being attracted are there. The touching and flirting snuggling and so on. Ive told her how I felt, I’m trying to be there for her. However I don’t want to end up as the comfort and not the interest. What do ? Lol
Told her my feelings and she said she cant get over her ex and she cant fall in love. But, from time to time I invite her out and then distance myself. Hopefully that kinda keeps her guessing. That's just a summary but, it's a bit long story. She said I see you as a friend right now and I was pressuring her and that made her just leave more.
You are wasting time here
Let her deal with her ex feelings or whatever
Move on to someone else
great vid, definitely don't fuck with that kidz bob shit in the back tho. stay wavy tripp.
I Totally Agree With You Trip!
What to do when you meet a woman (same social circles) and are interested but not ready to ask her out. Still focusing on personal improvement but want to avoid the FZ for the next 2 months or so. Constant low key flirting?
My question is this. How is telling a girl that you are interested different from telling her that you are in love with her. I have heard some people say that telling a girl you like her could make her feel uncomfortable or feel like she is in a difficult position. Some have even discouraged me from eating my opinion in that way. Does anyone have any further advice for me on this? Anything can help. Thank you.
One old chestnut that I find is good for hardening resolve is "women do not make particularly good friends" (which is the reason they're so keen to friendzone guys instead of befriending other women who tend to be bitchier and higher maintenance). Important to know because you're gonna trash your friendship with the lady either way.
Hey Tripp!! Do still do any game/ pick up. Or is that your wifey?
well said, well said.
Tripp your the Man !! Thanks a lot.
Is there a good time frame to do this? Only known her for about 2 months. If no response gonna try it screw it. I'll let you know if i fail and she laughs her ass off.
Hey Tripp, I've been friends with this girl for 3 months and we've been hanging out for the last 3 weeks. We talk about anything. We have the same taste of music. She gave me a birthday present. She told me she likes me and i told her i like her too. Now she just broke up with her bf 2 weeks ago. What should i do? Should i wait for her to get over her ex first? Or do you have any other suggestions? I do not wanna be the rebound guy. Please help. Please reply. Thanks.
Hey! Don't rush things too fast but also don't chill the next 6 months! Maybe in a week or two ask her out to something! Have a fun day, make her laugh and ask her if she finds you attractive! But on a scale of 1-10! Then here you go! If it is under 7 you know you are totally friendzoned and don't have any chance but 7 and above means she really likes you and then you ask is it worth to kiss me because I am that attractive? Well that's my plan good luck!
Off topic but what beach is this? Anyone please
_Maldives_ in the Indian Ocean. Expensive as h-ll...
what if I already got zoned and I didn’t respond to that for so long?
Totally agree with you
Thanks Tripp.
Great video I agree with you %100
I like this girl and at the start she really liked me like a lot but I haven’t actually met her and we’ve been texting for 50 days and she says she thinks we’re better off as friends how would I go about getting with her romantically and sexually
Tripp I'm curious- before you and Brittany were official, did u both start as friends or were your intentions known from the start?
Right from the start
Is there something I can do so I can let her know I like to get out of the friend zone because I work with her, were forex traders and work together with a team to succeed
I told a girl after I asked her out that I dont want be friends with her. After 1 month she invite me to a party and i was like wtf is that and asked her why she invites me and she like "yeah it was just a friendly invite " what is up with that shit lol
Hey there I need some help.. I have been texting girl for about 3 weeks and in the beginning she seemed totally interested in me. But after 2 weeks she started to text with less effort if you know what I mean. What did I do wrong? I think I have been maybe too "into her". How can I fix it because I really want her. PLEASE HELP SOMEONE🙏
Hexalion !
That’s cuz you didn’t meet her up yet
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What remix of the Zedd- the middle is playing in the beggining
What if shes in a relationship, but its a bad one where the male is cheating all the way on the other side of the U.S, cheating. Ive had three of my sisters who are stuck in bad relationshios and i don't want her to be like this😅.
I will try it
what track did you use for this video?
what about if she doesnt want anymore more than friends and i dont want to lose her she is my best female friend
Tripp have done advice on dating coworkers?
What if she is older than you like she 10years older than you how are you going to do
When the trip advice movie comes out, who should play trip?
What if you live with her and you both have kids
I agree.
I agree with you what you say
Thanks Brother ☝️❤️
What camera do u use?
Look at his glasses make education guess lol.
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Yes I don’t want friend zone
All you gotta do is play mind games and play with their emotions...very easy
I just moved on
Thank u
Yes!
Wow fushi... I bet its great
I do agree heavily she Chose a freaking convicted murderer over their own children's father so I cut her off as much as it kills me its not safe or healthy for me
And if she say you're like a little brother to her tell her "BITCH we ain't related!" and walk off
what does this guy do to where he is always traveling?
Can’t you guess by the types of videos I put out?
Name of the first song ?
Zedd & Grey ft. Maren Morris - Middle
Zedd & Grey ft. Maren Morris - The middle(Rich James remix)
Thanks guys .
friends with benefits isn't so bad...
If it was me I would just tell I release you and you're disqualified !!
Hey
Gorgeous video! 🍹☀🌺🌇✨🌴🌴
I’m a woman who fell in love with my best guy friend and room mate. Felt this way for at least 6 months. Wonder if this will work for me too lol
You are very generic on your comment. What is presented in the video is a recommendation to how to deal with the girl wanted to put the guy in friend zone. It doesn't offer any resolution that in your case is what you need. If your friend has not shown any sign of interest by now he is not into you. If you have been following these kind of videos we men tend not to repress our feelings when we are really interested in a girl romantically.
it is an awful place
I wouldn't say "I don't want anymore friends" I'd say something like "Im not going to be just friends with you" and you should be creating sexual tension for her to feel that kind of emotion instead of trying to logic your way to her feelings
Don't even bring up wanting be her boyfriend, especially without any kind of touching, kissing, sex, dating happening first. Don't act like your more emotionally invested than her, just be cool while keeping her turned on.
Damm at first he looked like "The Dictator" movie guy. 😃😃 hit like who got this.
You are the guy from the dictator
Wow fushi... I bet its great