How to roleplay across gender in D&D
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"Breasting Boobily Around the Dungeon" is the title of my upcoming Bardcore album.
Damn, I should've trademarked that too 😂
@@GinnyDi Does that mean we'll be seeing you perform a song with this title on RUclips sometime soon? (I rolled an 8 on my "Hint subtly" check).
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This is what Falin does in Dungeon Meshi
@@GinnyDi It really is a great line!
“Surprise, it’s me! Ginny Di! Professional woman!”
“Wait… you guys are getting paid?”
You've seen the Etsy listings. We're all getting paid in exposure 😂
Wait... you guys ARN'T?!
You think that's bad, I am actively paying to be one
@@GinnyDi 😆
@@GinnyDi, I've never actually been able to hire a professional woman on Etsy. I just want someone to teach me how to fold a fitted sheet and pick out tasteful stationary, but apparently "adult services" means something different on the Internet.
20% being a woman
80% having memorized StardewWiki
Never felt so understood in my life
500th like
WE have never felt so understood XD
so real
As I got used to playing a sorceress as a male IRL: “She’s a witch! Burn her! … wait, I’m a witch. Bad precedent, never mind”
If you're a sorceress and not a warlock it's fine. Witch is originally a gender neutral term anyway.
lolol that is pretty funny ;P
"Women are just people, I'm not but many women are." 🤣🤣🤣
This was so good it made me snort at work
Oh hey it’s Treantmonk 🫶
This one was subtle, and I had to go back to hear it again. 😆
WTF is a person? Never been able to figure that one out
When the pixels on my screen said that, I was impressed by their awareness
The hidden third Dungeon Dude!
Pretty good audition, huh? 😂
@@GinnyDi reminds me of April Fools Day switch video
as the prophecy has foretold!
Hidden?
It’s like finding Reptile in MK1
Let’s be clear. If you meet a blacksmith in my game, it is not likely a man or a woman, but it almost always a dwarf.
The three genders:
Man
Woman
Dwarf
Ah, the three genders: man, woman, booze
that makes lore sense though
in your game are dwarves genderless? Makes me think of Discworld and how both genders have beards so there's a bit of negotiating gender before a date.
@@EricMesa well no, however in one game world i made, that is the case actually.
The reveal that Jimmy Dean was actually Ginny Di was SHOCKING to say the least. What a completely unexpected plot twist! I was utterly bewildered! I don't even know if I've recovered, I think I'm still processing it.
The greatest reveal since that guy called Clark at the office turned out to be Superman
@@GinnyDi Wait, WHAT!? I can’t believe you would spoil that for me! 😭
You should have put SPOILER in the title!
“Greetings! I’m Monty Martin!” 🧔🏻♂️
“And I’m Kelly McLaughlin-” 👨🏼🦰
“-and I’m Jimmy. Jimmy Dean” 🧔🏼♀️
“I’m Tom Ato.”
“I’m Anne Chovi.”
“And I’m Caesar Salad.”
Bob Evans is better.
is Kelly enby?
@@kalenplant2675 not sure I never seen him say so. I’m curious what made you ask in the first place. If it’s because of the emoji I just used the default man emoji here which happens to have a mustache, mostly so I could get a tanner skin tone with a lighter hair color. 🧔🏻🧔🏼🧔🏽 the more androgynous looking emoji face for beards looks like this. There’s no mustache only androgynous option
@@GramGramAnimations it was more because you placed a gender icon next to the other two. I assumed there wasn't a gender icon for NB on whatever device you're using (idek if mine has one, I don't use emojis much) and that was the reason why. Sorry for the misunderstanding
What I've learned from this video:
-all women's purchases at the hardware store are determined only by the fact that they are women
-women have typing similar to pokemon
-some women do speak for their entire gender but they have to fill out the form first
-some people in my d&d game might ALREADY BE woman (spooky)
I now know everything I need to about playing women in D&D, thanks Ginny/Jimmy!
Only *my* purchases at the hardware store are determined by being a woman.
Other women get a choice of stores 😂
Little known fact, men also have types similarly to pokemon (this is just less discussed)
The women, they’re everywhere! Ahh!
@@daniellins4114 My real question is, can people of whatever gender be dual-type? And a tangential question: are Pokémon that evolve into forms with more than one type when previously monotype...is that multiclassing?
@@brianl9571 yes and I have no idea respectively
"Noblewoman who's an adventurer because she's not going to inherit and wants to make her own fortune" is a very solid motivation I hadn't really considered, especially considering how much of a solid standby that motivation has always been for younger sons of noble families to go adventuring for the exact same reason. There's also an added layer of complexity in that as a noblewoman, she might have a different path that she's explicitly rejecting (marrying a nobleman and making sure her children inherit her husband's wealth/lands), whereas the younger noble son is presumably adventuring because he doesn't *have* other options and needs to figure out a way to independently support himself. In history the oldest son was the heir, the next son joined the church (to keep him safe, with the understanding that the local bishop could get him out of his duties if his oldest brother died and he needed to inherit), but the remaining sons were on their own, often doing things like trying to become a knight-errant (which is basically the real-world equivalent to the adventurer).
"Always carry a sword ... for lady problems," is some of the best advice (the rest is great, too)!
I do need to learn more about ... gender theory.
As a woman, I, too, can recommend to carry a sword. For lady problems.
Swords solve a lot of problems, it turns out.
BUT HEY! THAT'S JUST A THEORY! A GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEENDEEEEEEEEER THEORY! Buena Disforia!
Finally, someone's talking about the damn electric toothbrushes
The truth is out there 👀
This is why people really get metal fillings - tinfoil hats for your teeth!
(Apologies to those who also felt horrible at the sensor ick of tin foil in your mouth - I suffered from the imagery so I thought I'd share).
@@GinnyDiThe tooth is out there!
good to finally know where my lifeforce has been draining
As a dm and a frequent cross gender player the tip I can give is not the pitch of your voice, but tone. Match the tone of the chracter. I'm often roleplaying with myself for my players and the king speaks stern and to the point and the cortier speaks intelligenly and softly. You don't need a different voice ever
Love this tip! Thanks for sharing 🥰
"problem comes in when sexy isnt just an option. Its the only option" Damn I fully agree and this is applicable to all types of media but I never heard somebody say it so clearly before
I used to be considered the "weird guy" because as a male I often played female characters because I always liked characters like Valeria or Red Sonja. I also grew up on 80's anime, so a strong heroines always appealed to me. It took a long time before my original group started to branch out.
A lot like myself. In fact, one of the main reasons I got into anime was because there were a lot more kickass female characters than in western media back in the early 90s (this was before Xena and Buffy - sure, there was Ellen Ripley and Sarah Connor, but that was only a handful of movies, and after that you had to dig through obscure and often not very good stuff)
Only tangentially on topic, waaaay back in 2nd edition D&D, gender transformations were on the wild magic surge table. My male wizard (because there were no sorcerers at this time, so Wild Mage was a flavor of wizard) got turned into a woman. This particular group was 50/50 split between men and women. Normally, it wasn't a deal, but there were times when my character was forced into social situations that required them to perform female. The female players at the table loved coaching my character in how to pull it off.
Another tangent: GURPS used to have a cloak they called "Gender Bender" (it was the late 90's) that used a unique "Change Gender" spell, with Alter Body as its main prerequisite. You couldn't swap back for an hour, and you kept your stats, skills, advantages, disadvantages, and height (though the female forms were 20% lighter). If it was destroyed, you remained in the other gender until a Remove Curse or Reversion Arrow was used. I was lucky enough to have four brothers, so I had plenty of examples to use for male characters.
Wow! I feared the anecdote would be about how awkward things got, but it's nice that this random event lead to a fun exploration of what the women at your table viewed as feminine. This reminds me of back when I played Kingdom of Loathing, an online RPG in which I was a pastamancer who specialised in sleazy magic. I once walked through a dark alley and was offered a free surgery! I agreed and my character woke up as a woman. It was meant to be a silly joke, but for some reason it made me very happy. It made me realize I didn't have to roleplay as a man, even thought that's what people expected 🙂
PS: If you're wondering what sleazy pastamancy is, my character would summon cannelloni cannons and fire bedroom novelties. Very effective against prude enemies, but not so much against the succubus, incubus and serial bus. KoL is a very silly game, yes.
Makes me remember Edwin from Baldur's Gate 2. Or _Edwina_ as she was sometimes called during a certain plot line.
@@strawberryhellcat4738 And now I can just see so many trans characters putting on the cloak before immediately destroying it with their own hands
My Hexblood Blood Hunter in a Wildemount oneshot had one of those belts in their backstory. Their mother had died YEARS ago before the character was even conceived, and their father, finding out resurrection wasn't a sure thing in that world, made a desperate bargain with Isharnai, promising anything she wanted in return for a guaranteed resurrection.
So she agreed, and said his firstborn child would be a daughter, and would be Isharnai's by right, and on her thirteenth birthday, would transform into a hag herself, Isharnai's adopted daughter, Carrion.
The wife was brought back, and the child, Kiera, was born. The night before her thirteenth birthday, her parents gave her a magic belt they'd spent most of their worldly belongings to buy for her. The next morning, Kieran rolled out of bed as a Hexblood, finding his parents had been brutally punished for trying to outwit a hag. As they described it, "my parents didn't find a way out of the deal, just a way to delay it so I could try to find a solution of my own."
When they turned twenty-six, they finally brushed shoulders with the right adventurers, learned about the concept of being genderfluid, and realized that there was a word for what they'd been feeling.
And it was the lady playing the Bard (and a few seconds later, her character) who asked if Kieran was genderfluid. OOC I responded I honestly wasn't sure. In-character, that was the moment Kieran stared at her like a deer in the headlights, and went "Wait, there's a friggin word for this?"
"I only think about that at the hardware store" Had me spitting out my drink, lol.
same here!!! LOL
😂😂
Same. that caught me off guard
I write a fuckload of characters as I am often struck by random urges of narrative, but making a sailor storm sorcerer was the first time a character came to me as female. It was a little uncomfy at first, as I had onlt played male characters before, but once I settled into it and found her personality it was a blast! She has a voice like Ms. Frizzle and loves explosions.
Your last tip about asking players for what characters in media they like is genius. Thank you!
You’ve never seen a barbarian this unarmored 🤣 you’re fantastic Ginny, I mean Jimmy.
Sorry But until you can beat Conan in a loincloth you aren't the most unarmored. And if you can beat that check with your gm if its allowed.
@@nooctip we talking Conan the Barbarian or Conan O’Brien? Either would be a formidable adversary.
@@nooctip Warforged barbarian.
Sexy Paladin Rights is also a great band name 😂
The sexiest paladins wear full plate armor... Have you seen Dame Aylin ?
I’d go for Sexy Paladin Rites, but that’s just me
Steeled Paladin Lefts, too, ain't bad
So is Tactical High Heels
I agree, in the principle that actual historical and protective armour is infinitely cooler than anything else. Ironically enough, however, historically they did seem willing to sexualise men's armour.
who knew "old and flirtatious, the ideal combination" was the pick-me-up I needed today ❤
I love that in this TTRPG themed book series I'm reading, a big strong muscle dude book character is playing a female gnome artificer TTRPG character. I love the representation of a player role playing across gender. (And also challenging the big muscle dude stereotype, as he is very intelligent and thoughtful. Great character, I love him.)
Actually, I AM a threat to the men at my table.
As the GM to an all male table, yes, literally.
@@Thebazilly19 saying the quiet part out loud now.
Nice!
Understandable, have a nice day.
It's true! I died
Oh hey it's Monty from dungeon dudes
🙈 this is how we discover we're long lost siblings
I literally saw the female version of Monty Martin at the store yesterday, it was mind-blowing
@@moneymitch1303 Did she make you roll a d6?
@@GinnyDi D&D Fams exist wide and far.
I think this might be your best video. Every joke was a 10/10 and there were so many while still staying on message in a way that thoughtfully explored the topic.
Thanks for sharing.
I’ve been doing some reading around for an upcoming character - a Lakshu (d&d 2e spelljammer race I’m planning to adapt into a 5e variant human character) but I’m trying to make sure I find a thoughtful take rather than artlessly throwing all the warrior-woman tropes at the wall and seeing what sticks. This video helped me look back on my ideas so far in a new way.
A character I've been dying to play is a male cleric with the soldier background from being a combat medic. Fully qualified to patch you up on top of making those same holes in the first place.
You managed to create one of the most positive videos I've ever seen addressing gender stereotypes. I laughed harder than in a long time but none of the jokes were at the expense of a gender.
Omg yes it was so good
ginny trailing of describing big sweaty men and gentle loving women truly is an iconic...or Biconic if you will
Such a Bicon omg 🥰🥰🥰
The perception of the opposite wasn't too far off the mark.
Cishet guy here, and the character I'm about to play in my upcoming game is an 80 year old maternal gnomish female Artifacer-Alchemist who instead of doing elixirs will be providing her buffs via food items she has lovingly cooked up for the party.
5:32
Normalize women carrying around medieval weaponry for safety.
Badass.
7:57 "When in doubt, ignore gender" - yep, I do that every day as a member of the alphabet mafia's agender division. Cancelled my gender subscription years ago, but it's hard to stop the spam mail they send to get me to re-sub to the email listserv.
Alphabet mafia made me spit take, thank you haha
😂😂
@@garrettsweet9826 We sell vowels on the black market.
@@garrettsweet9826really? Its the """insult""" /pajorative Conservatives love using, at least in the West lol
The best part for me is that Two-Spirit, rendered as 2S, is uh...not a letter 😂
@@ViviBuchlaw oh. Oh no. I didn't know that. It just sounded like someone didn't want to type out LGBTQIA+
“Hey fellow ✨dudes✨”
"You've never seen a Barbarian this unarmoured."
Laughs in Unarmoured Defense.
(yes that's the joke)
I play a female wizard in the campaign of a friend, IRL I am a dude. Most of the times, the fact that my character is a woman, is completely looked over, not in a bad way I think, but rather indicating to me that I am not overdoing the female roleplay. The most significant of which is the voice I use for her, which is softer, more relaxed, and flowy than my actual beefy man voice. Sure, the pitch is slightly higher, but not the over the top version I have seen before, and despise. I have been playing this character close to 3 years now and I absolutely love her, and I still remember getting my first ideas for her. And from the start she was a woman, not because I wanted to create a female character. But rather because it naturally came from everything else I already had. She is a character which just happens to be female. Thank you for the amazing videos as always Ginny, keep rocking on.
This script is hilarious. Ginny, your videos are always funny and charming, but this is the best one yet. 😂
Thank you! I had a lot of fun writing it 😂
Agreed! I loved the humor. 😂
This one was pretty good. Shes always been entertaining but this was a TOP 3 Ginny video. Definitely audible lol'd at work.
I agree also. Definitely one of the funniest but also extremely useful!
Same! I was like what the hell it's a banger joke one after another
That man's Ginny Di costume is FLAWLESS
Yeah, love the voice too.
I know right! And he kept up the voice flawlessly for like 10 minutes straight, I'm impressed.
Probably shouldn't have kept explicitly saying he was a woman tho, bit of an amateur thing to constantly say that you are the thing you are roleplaying, breaks the realism slightly.
Having been in this hobby for upwards of thirty years, I have seen a lot of cross-gender roleplaying, and have on occasion played a character of a different gender, sometimes for years at a time. One of my earliest experiences was when I was with a very short lived group, where one male player was playing a female fighter-cleric (this was way back in 2E). The gaming group fell apart due to conflict over character alignment (half the party was chaotic evil, and they attacked the half the party that wasn't), but I still remember something that the player of the female fighter-cleric said before the massive intraparty feud, namely that he was worried about what might happen in roleplaying, and said he should probably declare the female fighter-cleric celibate to forestall anything he didn't want to happen in the game. (This was long before the introduction of RPG safety tools. Nowadays the use of safety tools would hopefully prevent anything unwanted happening in the game, but this was 1992, and gaming culture was not very enlightened then).
As a current DM and player, I try not to indulge in stereotyping, but subconscious stereotypes are hard to identify. For example, I could have made the Dwarven blacksmith who made my PCs' magic plate armor female, an older woman whose sons and daughters help her tend the forge. But I didn't think of it, probably due to a subconscious bias. This was especially the case since the blacksmith has become a recurring character, and I realize now, after watching the video, that I have been allowing subconscious biases to determine which NPCs get which gender. Its too late to do this with the Dwarven blacksmith my PCs patronize, but I going forward I will be more conscious of this.
As I mentioned, I do play characters of a different gender. In order not to sexualize a female character, I try to determine what motivates the character. A PC I have been playing for a few years now has the Courtier background from the Sword Coast Adventurer's Guide. I decided that she grew up in Baldur's Gate, to a courtier of a Patriar family. She had class divides in Baldur's Gate thrust into her face, saw how her mother was demeaned by it, and resented it. She went off to adventure in hopes of proving her worth, either by being bestowed with a noble title of her own, or becoming wealthy enough to indulge in the luxuries she saw the Patriar children got that she didn't get. She is more Sansa Stark than Katniss Everdeen, albeit from a different perspective on the "upstairs/downstairs" dynamic.
Anyway, these are just some thoughts I had after watching the video. Thanks for making it.
I was just thinking about the whole voice thing today while watching the latest episode of Fantasy High and noticing how Brennan actually pitches his voice down slightly when roleplaying many NPCs who are women and teenage girls. It's so much more effective to focus on the characteristics of the character's voice and do them from the starting point of your natural voice, rather than try to replicate how they would literally sound.
I've been playing a female character in a campaign for about 4 years now. Suki's primary character trait is that she's the last bastion of common sense in a party of chaotic, low wisdom, morally grey fucks, and is routinely a hair's breadth from snapping and killing the lot of them. It's a lot of fun.
OMG ME TOO! My Drow, who joined late, silently judges the party whenever they do literally anything. She’s surrounded by a dramatic Tiefling Warlock with Mommy Issues, a racist Kobold Wizard who is slowly turning murder hobo and a Half-Orc Bardbarian who wants to adopt every friend he makes
It's amazing to see how comfortable you have become in your sense of humor over these years. I'm over here cracking up over your jokes, and those are just the cherry on top of that edicational cake xD
Been playing a female eladrin barbarian in an isekai-style DnD campaign for the past several months. In the real world, she's a musician whose band just went through a messy breakup and now her relationship with her girlfriend is on the rocks. At first I was nervous of playing a character of the opposite gender, but it's honestly been a great experience so far, and I can't wait to see where the campaign goes.
"Sometime I see people mention that they're playing a character of a different gender because it just "feels" like that character should be a different gender. But I think it's worth asking yourself-"
I admit I 100% thought you were going to say "its worth asking yourself if you're not projecting something about yourself that you've been repressing"
Your mansona bears a striking resemblance to Eminem
Will the REAL Slim Shady please stand up?
lol, you're not wrong!
Came here to say the same thing. haha
Really? I was thinking of Travis Willingham from Critical Role
@@GinnyDi i was hoping someone would make the reference.XD
How did you know I'm starting a new campaign this saturday playing a male character (me being a woman) and needed exactly this video?! WOw...
Glad I could help!! Hope you have a good start to the campaign 🥰
@@GinnyDi Jokes on me, I just finished the video and I wanna thank you for it, truthfully. I think most things you say should be common sense, but the more important they feel, hehe. And even though I am lucky enough to be in an environment where I feel like gender doesn't really matter in most occasions and where stereotypes get tumbled over left and right (in and out of game), I think this video is a great message to share :) Thank you again, Ginny
I love that idea of asking what representations they have seen in media that inspires them or they admire. As you described, it's a good way to figure out characteristics to consider and may open us up to learning about new forms of representation we have not seen before.
Playing a female blacksmith is how I figured out I'm trans 😂
Playing a female artificer, same thing
It's good voice practice, too.
Playing a female tiefling Druid for me lol
100% support starting with the character and *then* deciding the gender! As an experiment, I made a rule for my most recent novella that I would default to female for all characters. If I made a character male, there would have to be a specific reason for it.
For example, I needed a character that was going to be a good-natured, naïve noble whose kindness, while genuine, causes people to underestimate them. I ultimately decided that it would be more interesting for a male character, because the Naïve Noble Lady is a stereotype that people find annoying, and I needed this person to be sympathetic with very little screen time.
In another case, I wanted a male-female platonic power duo of one physically adept, jaded, and boots-on-the-ground person with one cool, manipulative noble. On the one hand, I hate the Cool Manipulative Older (usually Childless) Woman, whereas Jaded Combat Woman and Noble Intellectual Man both feel fresh and fun to me (and allows the reader to focus on the characters with fewer preconceived perceptions).
Bottom line is that figuring out *who* you need to fit into a slot first can help you dodge stereotypes, and get your population closer to a 50/50 population split
I (M28) played a teenage halfling girl whose soul was trapped in a 7 ft tall warforged body by an artificer lich hundreds of years before the start of the campaign, only "reactivated" by the other players upon finding the robot body.
I had my growth spurt very early as a kid (I was 6 feet tall in middle school), so it was fun playing a younger character not used to suddenly having a much larger body!
By focusing on the parts of the character I related to, even despite our gender differences, I was really effectively able to get into the role.
Me when I bring the tactical high heels to fight and fall over immediately:
As an afab person, i always had the habit of roleplaying ONLY men. For some reason it made me happier, i could connect with the character better if they were male or male presenting. Turns out, i was non binary all along! Now i identify as genderfluid and i'm not seeking to transition, so it's HARD for people to treat me like a dude. That's why roleplaying men has become almost a safe space for me, that one time of the week when i can just be a dude carefree
I can relate to that. While I'm comfortable with how I'm born and have no problems being treated that way, I don't identify as any gender (nor as agender), my game character choices tend to lean heavily across from how most people treat me IRL, because I find it easier to identify with my characters that way.
The only thing about it I'm not comfortable with is if someone tries to correct someone else when using the "wrong" pronoun. The only one allowed to correct someone's pronoun use is me, and I'm not doing it.
Long-time lurker, first-time commenter: I can't decide if this video is more helpful or more hilarious. Really well-done.
Ginny, help! I randomly rolled an NPC's gender and got a Nat 20 and now THEY have become unstoppable and are consuming everything in THEIR path. Oh god, now THEY'RE tpk-ing the party!
When you ascend beyond pangender and become THEGENDER
Enderman and Slenderman move aside. Here comes the Genderman.
@@FelicityUwU the genderthem
Awesome scripting/performance, love the little comedy asides like "only think that in the hardware store" etc. You play those quick-snap snarks so well! I had to pause the vid a couple times it was so funny. Also love the interrupting side characters that show up out of order/context sometimes. It's so Python. I know that's a lot of work/planning/editing to do, but it really adds to the show! Stock characters from the supporting feature invading the main film (a la "The Meaning of Life" and "Flying Circus") is a labor, but it's soooo effective at resetting the audience/theatrical mindset just when you want to, or in a similar way that ventroliquist puppets can get away with saying stuff that a straight public speaker never could.
"Nina Conti Standup : Talk to the Hand Full Show" on Anna channel. Monkey and others can be who she can never be, at least for brief moments (and only for those moments, hence my other comment against inflicting cross-gender characters on ttrpgs) but in a few minutes video like you do, it is GOLDEN.
BTW: Congratulations on hitting 666k subscribers! It's the ominous milestone for anyone who can laugh at superstition.
1:20 Oh boy it sure is nice that Gary "lawful good war crimes" Gygax got familiarized with the internet before passing and got to immortalize a lot of his D&D takes. Makes me wonder how his Twitter would look like if he was still around.
Jimmy Dean, Sausage King!
I am a guy who started playing in 2021 and my first character was Lyra, half-elf fighter! She was awesome! I played online voice sessions in a campaign for about a year. I didn't put on a "female voice" to roleplay for her, but I did describe her actions and her dialogue, kind of like an author writing about a book character's actions in the story.
The reveal at 0:27 blew my mind!!!
I should've put a jump scare warning!
Very well put together. Some of the best characters I, as a man who is also male and masculine, have played have been female, and they run the gamut from tomboy to girly girl, from calculating to nurturing, and everything in between, and they've been a blast to play.
I really appreciate both the grace and wit in which you handled what could have been considered a touchy subject. Very well done video, Kudos!
I normally laugh a little during your videos but this made me laugh a lot. Excellent script well delivered! Thanks for the mid day smile, needed that.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I played the twin sister of one of female players in our campaign. Every so often we would start up faux arguments over who borrowed who's favorited mail hauberk or some such sibling rivalry issues My "sister "was a druid and my character was a ranger.
“Showing up at the water gym with only fire type women” 😂
This is possibly the funniest video Ginni has made. Yes the content is good but the sense of humor had me in such a good mood the whole way through. A great way to handle this topic.
Hero forge, the amazing solution to a lack of unique female character designs
As long as your character isn't too thin or too beefy. The editor simply can't make the first kind and butchers the second. Seriously, anything with max Build looks like the over the top gigachad variants
Yeah... hero forge has its benefits but tbh it's way too expensive for most people, I'm pretty much done with them at this point since the last one I bought from there was $40 and arrived broken.
Titancraft would be better priced, especially if custom 3d print is the end goal
@@nickgotvyak5890 I second Titancraft. It's not perfect (I'm looking at you female dragonborn with breasts) but the sliders and customizations are really nice.
I mainly use HeroForge as a way to make character art for my group. If I need to come up with a particular design, I use their site and take screenshots when I’m done. Then I can share them with the particular player, and further tweak the design. Eventually, the finished character art gets shared with the group, and we’ve got references for each PC and important NPC. I only order a mini if the player wants one and will pay for it.
Strong bi energy from this one
Yes, I came to see if anyone had already commented this! The “gender theory” moments really activated my bi/omni panic.
that's my secret, cap... I always have strong bi energy 🩷💜💙
@@bouncingbeansame, lol
I have learned that women are indeed real and are in fact not mythical creatures. Thank you Ginny for informing me.
Ginny, you're the only RUclips channel whose in-video ads I actually watch because I want to see how creative you get with them. Keep up the excellent work. (And, you know, with the non-ad stuff, too. :)
I love roleplaying female characters in my games. My favourite PCs that I’ve played have been women. My favourite is my Thri-kreen who was disguised as a female elf, her name was Elytra and I based her personality and design on Dominique Jackson’s character Elektra from the Tv show POSE. I feel as though I played her very respectfully, and the other players and DM enjoyed my portrayal of her. This is a great video, thank you 😊
It's okay to rp as anyone you want ♡
Edit - also you weirdly suit a beard I love it ❤❤
I'm considering making it a thing for special occasions 🤔
@@GinnyDi one shot as a bro dude ;)
But also definitely make it a thing ♡
Who knows your next pc could be a fem dwarf with a glorious beard ;)
I will defo be keeping an eye out for the beard tho Haha I love it
I was comfortable in my sexuality when I clicked on this video.... now I'm not so sure.
@@Insertfunnycomment calm down
@@Insertfunnycommentdon't worry, it's healthy to question your sexuality every few years
Another great ad bit :D Also, omg they have a service owlbear! I hecking love that. Gonna have to check that kickstarter out.
As soon as minis came up I thought of Lyla's video, its so cool to see her get a shout out, she does amazing and grounded mini painting videos with such a visually interesting style
I roleplayed a sentient telepathic floating crystal, raging female goblin girl (and a Warhammer dwarf slayer), a cyborg that was literally Motoko Kusanagi, a freed NPC quest giver and an old cat obsessed crone before, never an experienced woman tho. Your vid made me aware why I was subconsciously avoiding it.
Thank you.
If you weren’t a professional RUclipsr that was a pretty great Slim Shady cosplay
Slim shady cosplay? That's the real Slim Shady, all the other Slim Shadys are just imitating so better stand up.
I played my first female D&D character in the early 90s, nearly 30 years before I came out as gender fluid trans femme. My DM had me play the NPC that my main character was married to, and a couple of years later played the daughter of those original two characters. More recently, when I was drawing one of my female characters, a Tiefling Sorceress named Helena Morgana, I was going to draw her in the stereotypical slim with big boobs style with a cloak to hide her horns and it was almost like she was telling me, "No, I don't look like that, I'm fat and curvy, and I don't hide my horns with a cloak." That might have been the moment that finally cracked my egg.
When it comes to D&D minis. My late wife almost exclusively played dwarves and she went with the Tolkien idea that dwarven women all had beards, so when she got male dwarf minis when she bought minis of her characters even though she was playing female characters.
The first part about guys being worried about this was so real for me, 80% of my characters have been female and I still haven't stopped worrying about if I'm doing something wrong
I made a female character cuz I was playing with all guys who were playing male characters. Good to have a nice mix. It's a role playing game. Don't take it too seriously.
Heroforge is a really good option for miniatures. There’s even a colored 3D Print option if you’re not keen on painting.
Yeah, in an ideal world we'd have a wider variety of archetypes and body types represented in premade minis, and we absolutely should strive for that, but until then, making your own representation is always a solid option.
I vouch for Hero Forge too as someone who has bought 4 colored minis.. They are expensive though.. $50 a pop.
A character concept I playing with is a former priestess of Lloth (now a hexblade warlock) on a quest for redemption. Gender roles do play into that character, but they are Drow gender roles.
Damn; you ab-so-LUTELY knocked it out of the park with this one. I don't think I've enjoyed one of your videos THIS much for a while!
Keep it up; you're awesome.
D&D was how I discovered I was Agendered. I was talking with my therapist about character creation in D&D and how gender is one of the last choices I make "because it doesn't matter" when making my characters goals, passions, fears, and history. And he was like, "Gender doesn't matter?" And that started a whole spiral. Lol
Wait I need further deets about this conversation with your therapist??? Does gender matter strongly to them? What does that mean?
I’ve had conversations with both binary trans folks and cis folks where they indicate that they strongly “feel” a gender and I’m always like “???? What does that mean???” And I feel like I’ve never gotten to the bottom of that.
@@amypatterson7395 I've got news for you buddy lol
@@amypatterson7395 From my experience being non binary and in many trans spaces it's can be different for different people so for me when I dress masculine or feminine it feels more like a cosplay than what I really am, I like wearing elf ears but I know I'm not an elf. But it would suck to have to be in cosplay all the time without being able to dress as yourself which is what it might feel like for someone presenting as a different gender as their own.
Infodumping your therapist is peak therapy lol.
I’m not agender, but I would call myself gender apathetic. I’m often called a he on the internet, because it’s the internet, and it never bothers me and I never feel a need to correct them. When making characters I would say gender does matter to me because of sexism and gender roles, and I like exploring many topics in my characters.
Heir to the sausage fortune 😂 You are a champion, Ginny. Keep being you ❤
I have seen a little bit of Ginny Di's content before and thought it was amusing but this is exceptionally entertaining, thought provoking and well executed. In my opinion a top piece of RUclips content. Very well done.
I mostly play characters where gender didn't have mutch influence on their story. Gender is usualy decided by typing 2-3 words that describe the character into google translate, translate to kurdish and decide if it sound more masculine or feminine or bits of both then.
12:36 “Old AND flirtatious? The ideal combination.” GINNY, NOOOO!!! 🤣🤣🤣
The Na'Krasha/Elliwyn relationship lives on I see. :D
The miniatures issue reminds me of The Hawkeye Initiative from a few years ago in comics. Also, it really stood out when contrasted with your in-vid commercial for the Kickstarter of D&D characters with what we would traditionally call disabilities. It made me realize a few things all at once. First of all, maybe there should be some plus-side minis of both (and none?) genders. Dwarves are usually plus-sized, but if you happen to be into running or swimming you quickly realize that at the non-elite level there's no real distinction between size and ability. The other thing I realized was that in a world with magic, dragons, etc - with some creative DMing and player cooperation there's no reason that being blind or deaf should keep you from adventuring. Once again, one of your vids has opened my eyes to more creative TTRPGing. Thanks, G.D.
“Jimmy”
The very next video in my queue was a Better Call Saul clip that literally opens with the line “I’m Jimmy”
Here's my business card:
Ginny Di: Professional Woman
I had a similar experience to this, I initially started making my characters based on what gender fit them, but over time found myself making almost all my characters female, eventually I realised the reason I kept making female characters was because I'm trans, weirdly after accepting that though I found myself able to make male characters again (also trying to do a female voice for dnd REALLY helped with my vocal training once I started it!)
I appreciate your story! My daughter, and several other teens I know who are trans or nb (I’m a volunteer coordinator for a teen d&d club), explored their identity by playing various genders of d&d characters, before transitioning publicly. I always try to make sure the club is a supportive space for all.
I went through a very similar experience, though in my case I'm gender-fluid.
I had a kinda similar thing too! And the moment that completely shattered my egg beyond repair is how happy it made me when a female friend at the table told me that I am, quote, "frighteningly good at playing a woman"
I found out I was bisexual after making one of my characters bi and listening to lezzy music to try and get into character 😅
it me!
I've learned that this is actually a pretty common journey of self-discovery among trans gamers, and one I went through last year (well, I'm bigender and still figuring stuff out, but you know what I mean....)
“Pitching your voice to sound like the other gender is usually a loosing battle”
Someone understands my PAIN
3:07 - I never thought I needed to hear Ginny say, "breasting boobily around the dungeon" but I'm nearly rolling. XD
roleplaying across gender is how i realized i was a trans woman lmfao
I love how ttrpgs and cosplay can be such an amazing way to explore your gender identity! 🥰
same. I just had the revelation, but I'm pretty sure i'm genderfuild. I just wanna be pretty
the jokes and puns poped off in this video! not that I think every other video isn't funny but I picked up on them more this time!!!
Dude your quips and jokes in this one were fire😂
I think your advice is 100% right on. Also, the amount of thought and work you put into your in-video ads always floors me. I wish you'd been in my group projects when I was in school.
Disclaimer, still about to watch the video, so sorry if I'm putting stuff here you are about to discuss :) I'll aknowledge this in an edit.
My favourite story of a female character played by a dude is the Kobold Paladin Tatli of my (13 months) younger brother. Because god may be my witness, he absolutely *nailed* the character archetype of "likeable, short-tempered, weak looking but powerful character". Really played with a lot of heart and nuance, and surprisingly seriously, because my brother just *loves* characters like that, especially well executed ones, and really put a lot of thought into her.
Also, the new players at our tables confused Kobolds and Goblins and accidentally addressed her as a Giblin a few times, and that was staying a running gag with the NPCs in my world, because, why would a mere peasent understand the difference? Very funny and yet did feel like real worldbuilding, emerging from player interaction.
Also, another of my players who happens to be non-binary, plays really great male characters, with tons of nuance to them. Which I think is the key here: Nuance. Once a character becomes a stereotype for any reason (Edit: Yep, as I thought you mentioned this. Great advice! :) ), it's hard to take them serious, and that can be a challenge for some people to present another gender as nuanced as their own, because they are unable to draw from actual personal experience.
But it is definitely far from impossible or even unlikely, and I can really recommend to try it! :)
Edit 2: Your advice with randomising my NPCs genders (I'm the DM) is great and something I should really start doing - it can be surprisingly hard to not pick a characters gender for the wrong motivation, either because it's "fitting" (which more often then not, as you have pointed out, ends in a stereotype), or in order to "stand out" (which kinda implies that those roles aren't normal for the gender, which just doesn't make sense in most DnD settings). I think, mindset matters a lot, and by making the gender the last thing decided and being randomised, you can navigate a lot of the pitfalls around the issue. Thanks for the advice!
Confirmed... Ginny (Jimmy) is actually a changeling.
As a male that plays mostly women characters, I try my best to do character studies and a blend of my unique personality depending on class and playable race.
It's as Ginny states, avoid the trap tropes of sexy battle babe, and make them as human feeling as possible. I think I have great gender diversity in my world with my npcs and have lgbtq coded npcs that are done with respect and care.
Much like cosplay, Don't limit yourself adventurers and you can be anyone you desire.
"If the men find out we can shapeshift, they're going to tell The Church!"