5 things I did to FINALLY get organized!
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
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Sharing the 5 ways that any secret slob can finally get organized. I have tried everything, and honestly, skip the fancy, expensive stuff and stick to the basics!
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0:00 - Intro
0:58 - Free Ticket to GOHQ
1:37 - Set up routines
2:31 - Use two calendars
3:09 - Prep ahead of time
3:54 - Self-care first
4:40 - Know when to get help
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I would LOVE to join, but I am not on Facebook. :( CAN SOME ONE PLEASE PUT A REPLAY ON RUclips!!
When I was a young mom I was friends with other young moms. I hated cleaning my house and so did my friend. We made a deal that once a week we would spend one hour cleaning my house together and then go to her house and clean for one hour. She did the tasks that she liked and I did the tasks that I liked. After a while each home got spotless and we carried on the same routine for over a year. Such a great idea born out of desperation. Asking for help is so important.
I love this, and you got to bond with your friend :) Amazing idea!
What a beautiful idea!....
with beautiful results!
Absolutely wonderful plan, and a wonderful friend!
Wow, that’s wonderful. I hope i can find a friend like that.
I miss your videos so much! You changed my life! Thank you!
I'm still a hot mess, but the giant wall planner is a MUST for our household. We are a one-car family, 3 people working multiple jobs + school stuff so we have to know where people need to be and when. This is a game changer! I love saying "put it on the calendar" so I don't have to remember things too so it eases my mental burdens.
I know I'm late to the video but still wanted to share that "trading services with a friend" was a huge game changer for me. My mom friend and I came to realize that, since our kids were in the same swim group anyways it didn't make much sense to go separately so once a week I clean her house for 2 hours and she takes my kids. The next week we switch. Not having children around is a great break and we get so much done, it's fabulous! plus coffee break after is already a set date 😊
Tips for making a routine. Don't get discouraged when you write the "perfect" routine out, because you won't be able to keep it. Instead spend a couple of weeks writing down what you usually do as you do it and you will already see a natural rhythm in your day. And also breaking down the steps of one project helps too. Like if I put "laundry" on my list that's really 3-4 steps. 1. Sort and wash. 2. Switch to the dryer or hang to dry. 3. Pull it out and stack the ones that go on the hanger and the rest in the basket. And 4. Fold and pit it away or hang it up. On a regular day "Load 1" (is always clothes) happens as soon as I walk out of my bedroom, which means put it in the wash. "Switch laundry" to the dryer happens right after breakfast because that's a natural break in our events of the day and that's that's the wash finishes. I already know that I have to hang up some and put some in the dryer, so that's what happens. After the dryer stops I'm usually doing our morning pick up so I neatly stack clothes that need to be hung on my bed. With the laundry basket of laundry next to it. And "fold laundry" I put it away during our afternoon nap time or right before bed. Either way it has to be put away before I turn in for the night. And realizing that there's steps to some daily chores helps to break it down further into manageable bites to get the job done. I used to always forget the laundry in the washer, or the dryer (and not put it on to dry😅), or kick the clothes off the bed because I didn't want to deal with it. So it's definitely a habit that needs to be formed. And give yourself grace, motherhood is tough. (And to add if I do a load 2 I start as soon as I get the first wash out, but it's usually stuff I don't have to fold or hang. Like towels or sheets that have to go back to their racks or bed. Since we only keep one set for each person).
Great tips!
These 5 things are really the secrets to overcoming a slob status. And FlyLady started it all for me, too. I think everyone else has copied her methods. Even her “Do it now!” motto, which I have taped over my computer desk since 2007! (But I still struggle with my routines.)
You go, girl! Everything you said is ABSOLUTELY TRUE. We had family over for a BBQ yesterday and we were actually sitting around waiting for them to show up. The house was already clean and tidy, we'd prepped all the food (except what needed to be grilled) the day before and we were so relaxed and everyone had a great time. Thanks to you, I have a set of routines that make everything so easy. Putting my entire weekly plan on one page, plus menus, was a game changer for me (I really tried the control journal but it was just too overwhelming for me). I look at my list each morning, realize it really isn't that much to do and then I know I have the rest of the day to do as I please with no guilt. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I love this!! You are an amazing force, and I'm cheering you on!
Deb, what is a control journal? Ty kindly
I already have some of my Christmas shopping done :) Getting ready months in advance for the holidays has been my thing for many years. It helps me greatly to actually enjoy the time with family and friends. And a bonus is it spreads the cost out over several months. If Christmas is at my house, I start buying gifts and non perishable foods 3 to 4 months in advance, and keep collecting as time goes by. By Christmas, no charges on my credit card. Thanks for sharing. You look like you are back in your reno'd home? 😘💐🍂🍃✝💗🇺🇸
Steph, first of all, please don’t ever stop making videos! I , no word of lie, have past 42, planners, calendars, journals etc. I’m embarrassed to say this!!!! I keep trying all different ones with hopes, that one of them would eventually work! When I got to that number, I stopped counting because I couldn’t even believe that I had that many. I actually have past 42! I wouldn’t dare finish counting them out! But the truth is….. I don’t even make it off the first page! And I tried thinking of how I could add a spot for habits….. couldn’t think where to place it! 😂. And as for that self care thing!!!! Lol! Honey it’s way too late for that! I never thought about the word self before, honest. I had 8 children with 5 living. A little guy with Down syndrome and he was born with 3 holes in his heart, fluid on his brain, spinal cord injury and is learning to walk but will always need assistance. He’s the love of my life!!! His name is Nicholas! Back in 2013, I had a emotional, physical and mental breakdown . I ended up being diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety and was told that my Serotonin Level bottomed out. Then found out I had the breakdown , lost my homestead, found out my husband is a narcissist, my mama died, my set of twin girls-only one survived. Lost my marriage and the girl I thought was one of my closest friends and she ended up hanging with my husband and so lost my husband and marriage of I believe 30 yrs. Lost my vehicle which I couldn’t drive until I kinda had to learn parts of that over. My baby boy 6 weeks old died a week before Christmas and went through a funeral and that was traumatic. And mento pause all within a few years of each other. Wow please please forgive me… all I wanted was to know how to I guess, start over. Steph, no stop overs for you, when God calls you home honey, ur goin straight up for puttin up with this one! lol 😂.
Your weekly planner sheet has been a total lifesaver this summer. I was in a car wreck and got a nasty concussion. I wasn’t able to go to work or even remember why I walked into a room. That sheet helped me ask for help because I could plainly see what needed doing. I’m recovering nicely and still love having everything on one page. Is there a changeable version of the sheet? I want to add bathrooms to my Mondays. So far, I just draw a bubble and write it in but your font is so pretty. 💚 I love the peek into the house. Beautiful door choice.
How is your recovery coming along?
@@nataschas9552 I am so much better. Thank you for asking. It’s very kind of you. Covid has effected the speed I have healed. I had no idea that could happen!
I followed you through your version of the Flylady system and have printed off your Weekly Cleaning Schedule and Zones schedule. My husband and I love it! Routines are the key! We declutter continually, so it's getting easier to manage our stuff!! Thanks, Steph!! You are appreciated!! God bless.
Hi Steph…a great reminder video. I have been using your Weekly Cleaning Schedule for over a year and it has transformed my life. The entire house has access, knows what for dinner, knows any appointments and nothing gets forgotten. I even plan my self care and note it on the schedule. Between you, Dawn and Diane in Denmark, my life is under control and I’m having fun. Thank you.
I swear by two calendars too! One on my phone and the paper one taped to the inside cupboard door of our coffee cupboard (you know that is getting looked at every morning first thing). One of my children is medically complex and keeping track of his appointments this way is so beneficial. I've never forgotten one yet and my husband also knows what's going on!
Got my tickets. No matter how old you are you can learn something new. I have learned a lot from you so this seminar sounds great.
Hi there! So glad to see you! You have been the most help to me over the years. When I stop being on top of my game for whatever reasons, I always go back to your system and wonder why I quit. Love you! Hugs Em ❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸
I LOVE the do everything you can in advance advice!
We put our Christmas tree up Halloween weekend. This eliminates moving gifts from place to place and if we need anything stores are fully stocked.
For the holidays I make out the Christmas cards for next year before I send this year’s cards out, so I save time looking for addresses, correct spelling etc.- They are easily accessible if changes are needed.
It's awesome that I came across your channel which has inspired me to declutter, organise and clean my house alongwith managing my children and husband
Love this! You have helped me so much! I just bought a new planner and will combine block planning idea I got from Jordan Page and fly lady routine i learned from you! I got teary eyed when you said ask for help-- it is hard because then I'm admitting I'm failing, but then that's just really pride isn't it. So I am going to ask for help! My sis in law is great at declutering and she loves to help out!! Thank you Steph for sharing your story and helping others!!! I will sign up for the declutter video too!
People LOVE helping!! It makes us feel wanted and needed :)
Yay, Steph I'm so happy you're going to be a speaker! I've got my tickets and can't wait to see you there! Things have been so overwhelming lately I feel behind. Bed-wetters, teething babies and homeschooling is really stressing me out. I'm hoping for some inspiration!
@Emily Ferrante You got this! Baby steps! Don't beat yourself up. We do what we can do, not striving for perfection. Twenty years from now, you'll look back and be amazed at yourself! ♡
Love this, Steph! I especially love your "Routines" tips. It really made all the difference once I got my routines in place. Great video!
Thank you Steph!! You are appreciated ♥️♥️♥️
I have my ticket and can't wait!!! I just love how you always make it sound ok if something doesn't get done! Yes that's my hardest thing is to ask for help even with my back disability and raising 3 grandsons.
LOVE, love, love the double calendar tip!
Great content! Thanks Steph!
You are the best Steph!
still struggling! you made some really good points, one of the things that has helped in our family is that "we" make a weeks worth of dinners for the coming week. It is mostly for my husband to take to work, but it there is enough I will eat some of it as well. one of the things that stuck out for me with fly lady was the swish and swipe and I do this if not everyday, then at least 3 times a week! I have 3 bathrooms to do and sometimes they all three don't get done on the same day! thanks for sharing!xoxo
I love how u are so real....your ideas ROCK...
Another amazing video Steph. You truly are an honest, true-to-self person. It has been inspiring and most important for myself, motivational. People like us need motivation. You have a simplistic and realistic system that didn’t set me up for failure. THANK YOU, i cannot wait for the conference. :)
Fantastic tips, love their are in one video. Many of these are not heard if often enough! Thank you!
Thank you for always being such an encouragement and motivation! Your positive words always make tackling any project/task seem so much more manageable. I appreciate your videos and all the hard work you put into making them. Thank you!!
Thank you so much for your videos
Thank you Steph! My organizational journey has mirrored yours in many ways. I've learned so much from you and have been inspired as well. And like you... my life has changed for the better. Thanks for all the sharing and the advice.
I'm so happy that you are one of the speakers for the summit, Steph! You've been so inspiring and I love following you on your journey! XXOO ❤️
Thank you Pat! I am excited for the sessions!
I registered today! I sure can't wait to get all of this info!!! This was such a great video, a super reminder for us all!!!!
These tips are awesome thank you for sharing them with us.
Great ideas!❤❤❤
Great tips! Thanks again 💕
Yes to these tips and struggles!
Making my bed & 24 hour dish rules are my 'if I only do ...'
Melissa Maker of Clean My Space is one of my favorites when I need to be inspired ...
looking forward to the summit!
Relaxing seaside in Albania and have greatly enjoyed your videos and podcasts with Jill!! My little piece from 🇨🇦. When I return next year and settle into my own house again I will rewatch and implement many of your routines and tips.
Already registered! Excited to check it out again this year! Last year was great 😄
Thank you, helpful ❤
Really good advice, all true. Thanks so much 🙏 💓 ☺️
Thanks for telling us about Get Organized HQ-- just snagged my ticket!
Wow this is the BEST organising video I have ever watched! Thank you so much. I am saving it to watch again each time I feel overwhelmed ❤
Wow, thank you Suzanne!
@@TheSecretSlob Honestly I watch a lot of cleaning and decluttering videos and have made a lot of changes already. But I have a long way to go and sometimes get totally overwhelmed by it all! This video of yours just says everything in a nutshell. So it will be my go to when I feel stuck and forget the importance of just keeping on with my little changes. Thank you
Excellent points!!
I am so happy that was only 2 months ago.
So you guys are up and running
I'm trying a new routine for meal planning. Themed meals even if it's not on the same night every week, it's making the grocery list and grocery shopping super quick. Idk why I get so hung up on a minimalist grocery shopping list and the same things every week. I need a good system so it is a habit and takes a huge weight off my mind!
Meal planning is life changing! My sister just changed up her whole meal planning system and saved a ton of money :)
@@TheSecretSlob I'd love tips!!
I LOVE these. Every morning before work or before I start my weekends, I make my bed, make sure dishes are washed, clothes picked up. It is refreshing to just leave the house with a clean home. And I so agree on planning ahead.....I just ordered the Christmas address labels for my Christmas cards yesterday 🙊hey no shame in my game
You are awesome. I can only aspire. Sigh.
Great Tips 👍👏😊.
I have always done tips 1 to 3... They really do keep the overwhelm away. I'm just not good at self care and asking for help.. But I am now trying to work more on tip 4 (self care). Tip 5 will be a struggle to adapt.. But is on the list for things I would like to change in my life!
Even your video was well organized! Thanks 🤓🥰
Thank you!
High 5 to the best 5!
Hi Stef i don’t know if you speak French but if you do try to listen Guillaume Dulude ( big five). He is a psychologist from Quebec and he made a video on the big five personality traits and one of them correspond as what you called naturally organise and it’s consciensosité in French or conscience in English. It’s a continuum so you can be high on a trait and low on an other trait. Nothing wrong but différent so the routines you propose is a good way to progress on conscience traits but no more shame or guilt to be what we are just accept and move on taking ways to get better on what we want!so thank’s for the five ways to progress
You have nothing without taking care of yourself first. It is not selfish. Get up early and take care of you!❤
Thanks for sharing 👍
I've been to two of the Get Organised HQ conferences so far, so I've signed up for this one, knowing it will contain some great nuggets of information that will help me move forward. I'm so pleased that Steph will be featuring again! I don't mind the grind of housework when I feel there are such nice other people along for the ride! 🙂
I listen to your podcast when I walk in the mornings. I just wanted to say that Canadians love Starlink for internet.
I have heard that!!
For those with older kids, Instead of doing a wall calendar, I highly recommend just using a calendar that can be accessed by multiple people. I have 1 calendar that is synced between all of our phones. It takes a bit of training at first to make sure they are putting the events on that particular calendar and everyone sees it, but it isnt complicated after that. They want to make plans with friends, sorry, we have chiropractor appointments that day. What about this other day, we are free then. 9 times out of 10 the other kids have no clue and my kids wind up going back and forth with the parents. They know where other family members are and can readily tell other parents (we are a two household family) if there are plans or when they are scheduled for various appointments. We do a check in on schedule when they get home for the week to make sure everything is entered or if there are questions or needs for vehicles to be available at x point in time and such.
That sounds soo good! We live by the wall calendar (and my planner) so hopefully will be an easy transition when we get there.
Which calendar do you use and like? Digital one?
@@naomilindstedt6271 We all back up phones to google already so Google was the logical one for us. And I do set reminders so they get warnings 10 minutes before and that sort of thing. It also integrates with lots of other things..... I believe my daughter has hers syncing into her Samsung calendar that is native to her phone and that works....
For me this prep ahead of time is soo important. I'm always late bc every single day I'm running like a mad woman serching for keys. My children had to wear wet clothes so many times, (yes, I don't have dryer and they go to school where uniforms are obligatory) I'm soooo ashamed of my disorganization.
There's no shame in being disorganized. We were all there once. And if we find ourselves there again, we just jump back in to get back on track. Start with just a few things and add more once you've mastered a few. I was the same as you with keys and that's actually where I started improving. Choose a HOME for your keys today and discipline yourself to always put them there as soon as you walk in the house (and if that home doesn't work for you, choose a new one and try again). It'll take some practice but you will get there. As soon as your kids get home from school, check their uniforms and start laundry immediately if needed. Set a timer to remind you to take them from the washer and hang them to dry so they are ready for the next day. Timers and alarms really helped me as I would get distracted and forget to do things (I even name my alarms so I remember what they were set for). You can do this!
@@debbiep7419 thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your answer is so motivational. I cried while reading it bc it is so hard to be better, to be more organized but you gave me Hope. I belive I can do this. God bless you Debbie. Lots of love from Poland 🇵🇱
I keep my keys attached to my purse with a carabiner, works great!
My daughters school gives one white skirt with 2 t shirts and 2 colored uniforms. Thing is she has wear white skirt on mon and wed. And volored on 3 other days, so I was always scrambling to wash the white skirt on tyesday night, drying overnight and ironing it in th morning rush time. So next yr, I paid extra for one extra white uniform skirt and one more colored uniform set. Now I do school uniform plus docks etc once a week. And that's all. No scrambling in middle of the week to wash dry and iron.
My daughter has missed school because the uniform was not ready. 😣. So I know the pain. Do your best. 🫂
Currently watching with my head under the cover & feel attacked 😂
Love your content .. everything you say and do resonates with us all ! Thanks for doing what you are doing, even with all the renovation work going on in your life!
🤣 I tell my friends "If we make plans and don't put it on my calendar you better remind me."
Same!!
Steph, I also use the Flylady system and it has made keeping my home clean an tidy soooo simple. I have often thought it could help me with getting my eating on track. Would you have a recommendation on how to adding healthy eating habits into the system?
Hi Mary, I think it could too, adding in meal planning and meal prep helps me to avoid ordering pizza all the time, if that counts!
@@TheSecretSlob Love that. I can see where I could add those into my plan day and meal prep on Sunday in order to have healthy options available during the week to choose from. Thanks so much for your help as always. I got started a few years back on Flylady after seeing one of your videos, so thank you for that too!!!!!
@@marysusa6985 One thing I'd suggest is to figure out which days you'll already finding it easiest to cook, and adding some extra meal prep there. This could mean doubling the recipe to make a whole extra meal for dinner later in the week (yes, people really can eat the same thing a couple of days later- and if they complain, they can be invited to take over the cooking 😉). Or cook one extra element of the meal to use in a different way later - brown a lot of ground beef to use for chili tonight, and save a couple of portions to freeze for later use in spaghetti sauce, lasagna or chili again. Baked chicken breast on salad tonight, but served again after soccer practice with rice and some kind of canned / jarred sauce. Or you could even make two meals at the same time - throw the ingredients for split pea or some other minimal ingredient soup into the crock pot to simmer, while you make tonight's meal. By the time you've eaten and go to clean up the kitchen, the soup is ready to be served into containers for take to work lunch, and the pot is ready to wash up with everything else. Or make a quick quiche (frozen pie crust or no crust) and throw it in the oven while you prep tonight's more elaborate meal, knowing that all you need is a bagged salad or some frozen veg to turn it into tomorrow's dinner.
Number 4 is where I am stuck. I have fatigue and can't get to much in housekeeping.
This one is so huge! If i focus on that, everything else is so much easier!
So looking forward to your topic, Steph! See you then!
Thanks
Thank you so much!
I just got my free ticket. I can't wait!! I want to take control of my house and my life. Having 2 small kids and juggling a house is chaotic some days.
Yay! I will be there for every session, so many amazing speakers this year!
I've always been organized but I'm also lazy. One thing that really helped me is to add a new behavior to a habit I already have.
I did number 4 today 😅 I was just tired of work
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I signed up for Get ORGANIZED.
woohoo! I cant wait!
Fridge Calendar: everyone is literally on the same page!
With the help if my fiance I just decluttered ALL of my papers that I had collected over the past 10 years. 3 bags of trash! From old bank statements to insurance papers. Although I felt good initially, I ended up having two panic attacks and a night without any sleep because my mother has always told me to "collect everything official". I think it will be a great decision in the long run but I didn't expect it to scare me to an extend where I get panic attacks on possibly throwing something important away...
This is a great summary of how to get your life together - - well done. On a personal note, you look terrific, really relaxed, and that colour is perfect for you. Hey, maybe you should live outside all the time. 😂
Thanks Margaret! I think I have the most tan skin of my life right now!
Hi Steph 👋
I already asked my niece about a paw patrol gift for our youngest nephew for xmas. Just have to order it from Amazon unless toys r us has it
Thanks I need this!!!
I buy gifts ahead of time... and then I forget about them and where I hid them
I had a particularly hard time with sleep last night. Took for ever to fall asleep and then I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't get back to sleep for hours😵💫. I kept trying to tell myself sleep was more important then any of the things on my to do list and I couldn't do anything in the middle of the night anyway, but it didn't work... my cogs just...kept ... spinning.....
You are living in a tiny camper and you still look amazing!
Thank you!! 😊 lol! I think i have only put on makeup 4 times, to make videos lol
What digital calendar do you?
I just use google :)
Asking for help. Have not been able to accept help and I truly need it. Cannot let friends see the mess I have become since my husband passed away.
Jill, I am so sorry about your husband, that kind of loss is unimaginable. Your friends want to help you, I know it, they love you for you and they don't care about your messes
I'm so sorry Jill. I promise your real friends understand and don't care. Ask for little help
Hi Jill. I have both been the friend who helps, and the friend who needs the help. I still struggle at times with letting people see the reality of how I live, but whenever I've reached the point of reaching out, I've never regretted it. And I've never judged the friends who have asked me.
One idea I have seen someone else suggest elsewhere is the idea of trading off with a friend. Setting aside a day and time to spend one hour at your place cleaning together, and then another hour at their place. Each person takes care of the chores they prefer to do, and you not only have company and encouragement, you also have an instant accountability buddy! You could try looking into the idea of "body doubling" for more info about why this works. There are even websites like Focusmate that pair you up with a virtual body double, like on a Zoom call, where you each quietly work on your own tasks, but have a check in at beginning and end of session to help keep you accountable. (Free for up to 3 sessions a week - you can get a lot done in 3 hours over the course of a week!)
Hi there sweetie pie hope you are well just take one day at time routines are great I do the Fly System is great she shows ideas how your renovations are going well love from Eugenie your friend xxx 🏡🌹🌞
Steph, are you in your house?? Like, parts of it are getting to that point? So excited to see your big reveal!
Also, has everyone seen the hilarious Tru Earth commercial (here on YT)? Why doesn't YT play it before or after your videos, LOL? Guess their algorithms are sleeping.
So soon!! I just made an update video last night!
Where can I get this calendar? Please share Steph!
I put a link in the description, so far I can only find it in Canada though...
I've found mine at Staples and at Walmart before. But at year end. I also moved to another one that's slightly smaller but tonnes of room to write in still.
I cannot seem to manage to do routines. I’ve tried flylady routines, I’ve tried atomic habits, but none of these work at all for me.
Start small with the really big stuff. Make your bed in the morning and do the dishes before you go to sleep at night, just those two things will change your life!
She looks like jewel the 90s pop singer
I pulled everything out of my closets in my master bedroom, & there it sits; one HOT MESS. Things get WORSE before we can get it better. I feel overwhelmed. Placing like things with like things right now (broken leg hopping along) I feel so frustrated.
I have a calam
New coffee much inspirational saying, "Put on your own oxygen mask first!"
OHHHMYGOD this is me LOL. I am a "butterfly". :(
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Sorry, I have a calendar like yours on my fridge, if I didn’t, I would be a mess.
My comment was deleted........how do I get to her site?
without getting the spammy one???
👋🏾;)😘😘😘😘😘🇫🇷
Broken Beddy’s link
I’m like you . I was not raise to be organized . So it’s not natural for me to put thing at their place .
Sad that they spelled your first name wrong: "Step" instead of "Steph"...😕 (first thing you see when you click on the link...)
Oh really? It says Steph when I click it, oh well :)
@@TheSecretSlob haha, weird! It probably just doesn't like me, but I snagged my free ticket anyway because I like you, your channel, and your methods 😅💕 Clean on!
It's Step for me too
Yes ☹️
ARE you VERY NiCE.