*Advantages of Not Doing marriage* 1. SAVING EASILY 50 LAKH ON MARRIAGE 2. NO CONFLICTS 3. YOU CAN LIVE A GOOD LIFE WITH YOUR PARENTS 4. more savings, Means Better Lifestyle 5. NO DEPRESSION, MEANS NO HEART ATTACK, MEANS LONGER LIFE
I am 30 years old single man. All my life I got rejected by girls due look and status. Same groom family keep rejecting me due to look and status. I told my family I am happy to be the single. Today, I work for myself, earn for myself, spend on myself and love myself.
@@markratata Great bro, as a Doctor you can even have far better life then me, jealous. Hit the gym get great shape, wear cool cloth, eat well and enjoy the life. That's my target only currently struggling with money. So live a life.
I am 29 years old and have a govt job. Still I don't want to marry because of my medical condition. I have auto immune disorder which makes my life worse. I don't want any girl to regret after marriage 😞
Even my doctor also said something like that. But what does it mean. What is the issues we face because of it. Can you share a video describing about it. Thank you
I'm a 30 years old female n i have seen my mom facing domestic abuse from Dad during childhood and this has made me realize that it's better off being alone than with the wrong person. Same goes to the males too
Rich men don't want to marry because they don't want to loose their freedom. Poor man can't marry because most of the women will prefer to stay unmarried rather than engaging with poor men.
What you said is true. Women want husbands with salary packages very High or matching them as evident in matrimonial sites. Well women are right in having that demand. So it is tough time for boys. I am single at 36 and not sure if I would be able to get married.
As a 25M, I feel the concept of marriage nowadays to be a kind of big business deal and nothing else. You study well, graduate from a good college, make a decent salary but the moment you hear about marriage people say you don't have a house, car, you have this much loan and what not. They are simply saying WHAT YOU HAVE IS NOT ENOUGH. Of course people can earn this over a period of time, but what's the point of marrying someone who doesn't want to be on your side when you are working hard, struggling but wants the fruitful results alone? It is better not to get married than ending up with a person who judges you for your materialistic possessions.
@Harsh Patel 😔😔,, yes bro beacuse of family pressure ,, better to find groom with the help of relatives and friends network and make the girl financially independent [ goverment jobs using reservations] this would be a good move
@Harsh Patel bro bpsc ka exam ,, ssc ,,, every state has their exam like bpsc and most imp exam THE GATE exam can be given by even bsc students ,,,, pcs exam ,, lower pcs exam and many more bro ,, meri bahen bhi pcs ki tayari kar rahi hai bro
😂 I tried getting hitched and 99% of the wamen 1st question how much do you earn, not what is your name. 2nd question more of a statement 😅 they all demanded 25k onwards for makeup and for parties with their bf with occasional hotel room rent to have fun with bf 😂 after listening to all that my parents no longer tell me to get married 😂
@@sharathSizZlemen can expect dowry, beautiful girl, educated one and who knows every household work why can't girl expect a financially settled guy. What do you expect l then? Men shaming girls who are fat is it fine? Who will pay the hospital bills, groceries and school fee for the kids? Moreover respect matters when men don't respect women this is what happens. Buying bride?
I was born in Haryana, but later moved to Jharkhand. The first thing which I noticed after coming to Jharkhand was that in my class the girl population seemed more, which was indeed true. In my school in Haryana, there were 23 boys and 7 girls, while the same in Jharkhand was 25 girls and 30 boys. I remember that I once heard my mom talking on the phone that there are no girls in Haryana. 😅
To be honest. For all males and females marriage has become a mystery. Some feel it as business. Some are afraid of toxicity. Some don't understand why to get married and loose freedom. Inshort everyone is confused in the aspect of marriage 😂
@@IPSITA1000 If one is able to activate the complimentary energy within themselves, then the dependency on other gender becomes less. It can be achieved using yoga, Healing process etc. Twin flame is all about the same, to realize we are complete with in our ourselves, realize and embracing it.
Interesting. Bigoted people will say My Parents' Relation Was Perfect, bcs My Country Is Perfect ...... Interesting to read many different opinions on the topic nowadays.
A lot of men need to understand, it is better to be unmarried than to be in the wrong marriage. A wrong woman can single handedly throw your entire family in jail with fake allegations and demand massive ransom as alimony. So you are relatively better off at this moment. Focus on stabilizing yourself. Women will come if you have enough money to provide them a decent lifestyle.
@@meenapatel1648 any parent imposing their experience onto thier child to the point they leave aside an aspect of life is programming trauma. A healthy parent informs and guides the child through the experience. Both the OP and you are so afraid of a "relationship with the wrong person" that you will never accept flaws in the other person.
I 32 right now and decided not to marry. I earn, cook, clean my house, take care of my parents and everything in my own hand don’t feel I need to get marriage ever. No need to spend 5-10 lakhs in wedding which may have no return. Divorce rate is rising, women file fake rape/domestic violence cases against men/husband. Individuality is important. Regarding kids, India is overpopulated; cost of education, property, and healthcare is rising alarmingly. Don’t want to bring a child in a country which have corrupted govt. poor infrastructure, lack of resources to lead a average life. Better travel, invest money in FD, MF, stocks and create wealth and adopt kids.
As an Introvert I will never marry. It's better to remain unmarried than having an incompatible spouse. I love my single life. I can feel peace and solitude. Majority of people marry not because they love the person genuinely, but because society forced them to marry. There is no genuineness.
I am 23 preparing for job i belong from middle class family Reason i dont want to be in relationship now is because i dont have enough money I can't go on a date to any restaurant and ,I don't own bike. I have limited amount of money which i spend only on my needs. And also I approached a girl few yrs back i shared my feelings to her and got rejected it was a great life lesson. 😂 From there on i spend lot of time with my family and its an amazing experience ♥️ ❤️.
badhia h, ladkia social media dekh ke apne swapno ke mahal me ji rahi h jo ki kabhi pura nehi hoga ....jab vo budhi ho jayegi aur koi attention nehi dega unhe tab bhuktegi like in America
@@InshruTripathi i know bike,car financial condition yeh sab toh reason nhi he rejection ke,she sees me as a friend not more than that and that's ok. ♥️
One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)
Adultery was declared unconstitutional by the SC. Sec 377 can be used to give justice to male victims of rape. Yes, sec 377 was used to wrongfully hold LGBT+ youth but now it had been read down. Now only non consensual (r@pe) are held illegal. But I agree that men cannot be victim of domestic violence in India as of now (for dense people this sentence is according to Indian laws and not my personal opinion SMH 🙄)
Sahi baat bhai, 2 rishte aae shadi k and its not that they are bad looking but they are too bland aka they got no hobbies or things they like and their whole personality is based on 'mai khana bna leti hu", which is not bad but khana banane k alawa aur bhi to kaam hai.
@@MsmithjonesravenBhai, yaha ulta bhi hai... Intelligent ladkiya who can hold up on their own, ladko ko achi nhi lagti.... Mummy bolti hai, jyada smart mai Jatana khudko... Ab hai toh kya karein.... I got rejected because the guy loved momos and I like fitness .... Tumhe apni side ka pata hai, ladkiyo se pucho ladko ke kya haal hai
Let me give you an example of the same in my actual real life experience, i have a friend who works in IT he is almost 29, he is actively looking for a bride and so when he got a match with a girl, her father was a driver of some sort with monthly income of 10K , my friend said if the girl is good thats all that matters and he went to see the girl , but the father of the girl rejected him saying he doesn't earn much, the package of my friend is 15lac per annum 🤦♂️
Yes this happens quite a lot. Even non earning girls with bad family background financially wants upwards of 20 25 lpa. Thats why try having love marriage with colleague/same college. Both will earn equal.
@@abracadabra7550 i have 2 factories and 3 room for rent and big plots to give to bride and if they need gov job i will ready to prepare for it but after marriage this is my strategy 😂😂my age is now 25 years but I will need a bride somehow so that our marriage will be done happily and have a better kids in future
My uncle did an inter-cast marriage, initially his parents and family were skeptical but she turned out to be a really smart person, with good communication skills and she's really good with people, now everyone loves her. They were colleagues and then they did an love marriage.
I think sometimes love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Atleast in love marriage people care about each other and know enough about each other....
I think inter-cast marriage is a good thing. Somehow a lot of people are attracted and have more respect for other religions. Same thing happens abroad - people have respect for foreigners more than their own country people. They have successful marriages.
@@GurpreetKaur-hj9xgnot really....this is sure opposite attracts but attraction is not eternal. My sister had inter caste marriage and she complaint and advise my younger sister to marry in own culture and own community.
One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)
@@RajKumar-de9vp I am not talking about mothers and wives I am taking about the general perception created. We are made to believe that women are quintessential part of a man's success. They motivate and support us in achieving our goals but sadly it's a fallacy.
Eather u r living in joint family with brothers , or with ur friends as room mates , or u haven't reached the age of 37 at least ... It's very hard to live alone in ur own house , with all the luxuries with no one taking care.... What's ur punch ???
It seems to be a global issue. I've spent more than five years residing in Korea. I came to know that most of my Korean friends are not interested in getting married when we talk about marriage. Compared to India, Korea has a substantially larger percentage of single people. Even girls do not desire marriage. This is due to the high living standards, independent lifestyle, unstable financial situation, and many other factors. And unfortunately, it's become a common issue within several parts of India nowadays!
Reasons a guy scared to get married - 1. Unstable income 2. Unsecured future 3. Unemployed 4. Girls have high expectations from her life partner. 5. Extra marital affairs of girls 6. Harsh Alimony and maintenance 7. Unfavourable marram laws against men. 8. False matrimonial cases against men. 9. Loosing freedom, doubling responsibilities 10. Girls have social media partners, colleagues and ex-bf to support, but men haven’t.
To all the young men out there. Work smartly and pursue your goals, get rich, be disciplined, go to gym for yourself not to show-off, be the best version of yourself in terms of personality, be honest to yourself and think 10000 times before marrying because if divorce happens your wife will take away your children, half property, money and permanent monthly alimony even if the divorce is initiated by her. Take care of your parents and be strong. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
As somebody who continues to battle mental issues, I think that it would be incorrect to state that only men in Indian society don't get to talk about their mental health. In reality, nobody in Indian society gets to talk about mental health. It is still a taboo subject outside the urban upper middle class Indian society. Concepts of depression & stress are seen by an average Indian as fanciful terms used only by the elites of Lutyen's Delhi & South Bombay. Visiting a psychiatrist is considered equivalent to being certified insane in the larger society. This is mostly because of the fact that the school curriculum doesn't discusses about it unless one enters medical college & the resulting lack of interest for it in the public. All of this results in cases of schizophrenia, bipolar disorder & multiple personality disorder being tagged as ghostly/demonic possession, people silently suffering under family members with intermittent explosive disorder, children with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder being not cared properly, post-traumatic stress disorder being hushed up & a host of other societal problems.
Not only that mate, it is also very expensive and not affordable for a lot of Indians to visit a therapist or psychiatrist. Especially adult boys and men in our society since they have this responsibility to take care of their family and not appear weak despite going through all the motions .
It's impossible to approach your parents with such issues. I tried...It's not like they don't believe you it's just that they don't know how to handle it as they were always told to "suck it up" because "that's life"
@@shadymello9146 so on point mate. Also as a growing adult I feel like it's my responsibility to not burden them with my issues and instead help them get better. It's a slippery slope but we're all riding it.
there are two ways of looking at it, one is your way which is what i will refer to as the wester idea of visiting a psychiatrist, the other is the indian way, meditation. You see, historically, tension and stress have never been lower than today. while today we worry abt competition, back in those days ppl worried abt life and death. the factor that has changed is our ability to cope with that shit. ppl are getting mentally ill simply bcz their patience has decreased over the ages. thats the lowp oint of technology. instant gratifications, fast travel, consuming american cuisine while looking at our phones. in between our lifestyles, we have no breaks to simply think and observe. to contemplate abt the event of the day. to think where we could have compromised, to think where we could have won. all the time our mind has learned to be occupied so much that whenever there comes a time we are unable to occupy ourselves, all hell breaks lose, we start observing how deep we r already in the abyss. in a nation where we already have simple free solutions, even in them all we do is click photos and post to get likes. what else do you expect. our parents might not have gone through the immense competition but then they also didnt have all those mental issues so frequently. these days kids so randomly say they are depressed that it has lost all its meaning here. poor marks? depressed. lost a game?depressed. i mean wtf. not in a relationship? depressed. cmon ppl. all it takes is 15 mins in a day to sit straight close your eyes and focus on anything. no cameras no devices. just think. start there and slowly progress towards say your faith. all it takes is to not look at the phones during those bus rides and metro rides. all it takes is to have less oily food and more roti sabji. change your lifestyle, accept your reality. even a psychiatrist can only hear you. its not that effective when you really spend all that money.
To all the young men out there I want to tell you that focus on your aim and become something big in which you're really passionate about and think that as a kid when you used to take stress and all the responsibilities were upon you and no one was there to give you emotional support much but still you battled it and won so why not now remember guys we're self dependent people without relying on someone else we can live our lives fighting
@@lionheartJustin786 being an avg joe is way better than running around courts and paying alimony for life to a wife that just married to extract money frm u
Today, female donot want to get married.. it's true. I'm 27 year old female and i also don't want to get married.. bcoz in every marriage around me except for my parents, i have seen mental and emotional abuses, sometimes physical also.. crying girls with no option.. so, many people think that it's better to remain single and unmarried than abusive relationship and divorce. Ask any married couple around you, almost 99% will say that marriage is like a trap. Also in Indian society, parents donot want their children to do love marriage, and instead they try to find girl or boy by themselves in their caste.
Very good bro I appreciate but I am belong poor family and I have one sister if you don't choose poor girl for marriage so this is also not good I suggest you should decided marige with good girl and low income family that my opinion and also I agree many good looking girl rejected me and also I have one sister they want married but know one want poor family background
Guys, it was nothing but a prank, I just wanted to know how people would react. And i am somewhat sad to see that most of you are completely against the concept of marriage.😕 I don't know about you all but I just can't wait to get married and have kids of my own.✌️
Bhai i m 26 and I work in Amazon bangalore and I m experiencing similar freedom and have decided not to marry. Unmarried life is best and more importantly it's better to stay unmarried when we analyse biased marriage laws against men. 0 laws to safeguard men against false dowry, false domestic violence case and now new law is about to be passed i.e marital rape ,just on the basis of wife's claim the entire husband's clan can land up in jail without any evidence and it's on the husband to prove himself and his family as innocent.
Tbh, it's a win. Peeps are choosing to not settle for less(both girls AND guys), which might be seen as acting selfish but y not fulfil ur own dreams before taking responsibility of fulfilling those of ur coming generation :) Edit: also Many people hv realised that there's much more to life than just furthering ur generation
@@jainsushree bramhacharya is for 2 kind of people Those who want to completely devote their life to God and want to take sanyas And other is Those who want to have family. Different rules of bramhacharya for different kind of people. It's not like brahmachari people can't marry.
You didn't mention one important factor!!!!! Girl with 5L package wants boys with 50L package. I have seen couple of cases near me that boys are so fed up of rejection due to their salary that they now gave up on marriage and don't wanna get married.
some get cheated so deeply they just get drowned and couldnt get rise. and life inside them dies eventually, with all desires gets dead. We shouldn't break trust, life becomes punishment after getting cheated for long time
Completely agree with you. Girls are having so much expectations as they have more options even if she is not earning much or looking good. But if you don't have good looks then your good salary also not gonna help
Indians are crazy about government jobs, don't know why 🤷♂. I am working in IT sector and I am earning more than most government officers. And yet I was rejected by girl's family twice in arranged marriage setup. They say that private job is not secure. But if one has enough skills, he/she can find another job easily.
Recession, the constant struggle to upscale and staying relevant to the industry standards is not a headache for us. Meanwhile we government employees were chill even during covid. The child of even a peon is secured with top class education if one is employed in the central government.
@@anishashaji4133 Corporate sector does take care of the employees nowadays and I am not against any private job. But when in a government job one feels like, "my basic security needs have been satisfied, now I can find time for other stuff to do"
Benefits of not getting married: 1) More Saving 2) High standard of living 3) Away from Depression(girls) and pressure 4) Enjoy with multiple women rather than getting bounded with single 5) You will have more freedom
I don't think we should make fun of Salman Khan for not marrying anyone. It's his life his choice. Even though he is a celebrity, he is still human and we shouldn't comment on his personal life.
dude is living the life, he doesnt pay alimony and probably hooks up regularly. If any one tries to falsely accuse him or frame him in any manner, he will show them what happens at night, when she walks on a foothpath.
I genuinely believe that romantic love between two people is an illusion, the idea of love of two people cannot simply be at same page and as love is an emotion like anger it's actually not constant but momentary. And that's why remaining single for life makes sense to me.
@@maishayartonahi everyone's experiences vary na...but I've so many examples right in front of my eyes and hum bhi aaj ke zamaane se he hai .. it's probably just hasn't happened to you yet. I've changed from being the hook-up guy that I used to be to a loyal husband in the past 6 years. It happens when it's bound to happen. Peace ✌️
We need to talk about educating these depressed men about happy life without marriage. Marriage is not a key to happiness. There are many males and females choosing to stay unmarried and are living a very happy life.
After reading so many comments like this, I think I'll not get married by my choice in future and also the girl I'm looking for is kinda rare to find these days😅
I am employed and belongs to a prosperous family, but i decided to remain lifelong single since class 9, as after the school, I found being in a relationship was no more fun but was a responsibility and I found it tough to be bound by that life long responsibility.
@@shekharkapoor9208 me 40 ka hu...have gf from NE, we don't need social approval for our relationship, we r happy to be together without any courts and government intervention
Marriage is becoming a deadly trap for Indian men these days due to absurdity of Indian laws. Imagine working hard, earning and saving your entire life then you get married and if you have divorce then everything you have worked for is taken away from you. You loose the house, you loose half of your salary, you loose the kids, plus getting heckled in the courts is common. Imagine paying money to your ex wife who will now use that money to fund her lifestyle with another man. Who'd want that life? Lol. Better to be in a live in relationship. Less issues like these. I mean, there's issue of fake rape cases nd all but if the girl is good it's fine mostly!
You can sign a Prenuptial agreement before marrying. That way you won't loose anything after divorce. (No legal value, but it has persuasive value. Means you can show it in court if it's a 100% original Prenup. Your chances of paying alimony might decrease 🤷♀️)
@@cherrylle PRENUPs not enforceable in courts of law. Any contract that supersede existing law is not enforceable. Matrimonial laws are biased, if gender neutral the implementation is biased resulting in Indian men suffering after false cases, unjust alimony and maintenance.
I have also decided to stay unmarried in my life and it's my firm and final decision. What I believe is that marriage must be optional and not be enforced upon by family/society. And I am happy that my family is educated and agrees with my decision. Our Constitution grants us right to live our life our way.
Yep marriage is a just an overrated ceremony, and after getting married I have seen things go horribly wrong for some people better be safe than sorry.
I m glad in tribal communities girls r in good ratio with respect to men.....even more than men.....but to change the situation in country level it will take time and innocent men will suffer because of mistake made by our parents 😭
@@manthanpatel6295 because there condition is not good, once there condition will improve they will also start demanding dowry, and conducting very expansive marriages.
@@manthanpatel6295 we don't have dowry but things r changing now for bad.....i have few cases where girls after marriage is taunted for things she brought as gifts......and few families take Pride in expensive gifts they received. Ppl here r getting influenced by other communities in terms of dowry which is bad. We need to take care of this.
Actually i think it is our educational problem With education we can solve 1) sex ratio problem 2) career problem 3) early age marriage 4) problem of lack of sex education 5) gender equality
*Meanwhile how two of my friend’s family view marriage -* Friend 1’s family - You won’t bring any girl to home, we will! Friend 2’s family - You will find your bride, we won’t! Meanwhile me - I would prefer not getting married. 😅
@@jioboy2676 That's not my concern, but such girl should not be allowed to enter inside my house is my only concern...warna poore kul ke izzat jayege bhatte me
Inter-caste marriages are very rare and sometimes parents stop and emotionally torture their children. But I think if someone is educated and good, it does not matter from which caste they belong and I think these things makes our society more mature.
I am a child of inter caste marriage and in inter caste marriage myself. Many relatives of mine are in inter caste marriage.I never had bad experience, rather only good because of government schemes to help children of inter caste marriages. Only excepton was when my parents were looking for an alliance, both castes (my father and mother's side) were not interested because I am a mixed caste.
@@ajsuraj No that's not correct.. I have seen people coming from progressive societies and educated too are more likely to accept inter caste marriages.
@@codetocompetectc1810 That's an exception not the norm. However such initiatives should be welcomed & celebrated. The families should be garlanded so that they promote it & break the social stigma.
Men who are even considering marriage should visit the divorce courts and see how men are being rammed by the women and judges; how unfair is the system; how tragic is it for men and their families.
I was rejected because the woman was a teacher and I don’t have a job and told her I will do business. Business or running a store is seen as a work done by less educated people.
@@ashimmahato7328 koi nahi nahi chahiye. Mar jayege magar apne purvajon ki shiksha nahin chodege kabhi sadi ke liye nahi tadpe ge chahe hum khatam hojaye na jukege sanse mout hogi humari the end of vaishnav bramhan ❤❤❤❤. Mujhe garv hai mere caste ke ladko ke upar woh sare jiban single marege unhe unke purvajon ka itihaas batao kyun humare purvaj sanyas ko married life seh jaida saman dete the brother love form west Bengal😄
You came in this world alone, you live alone, you die alone. Never marry ✅ Chase your goals Live your life your way Bother none except your parents. Stay away from - 1. Drugs, alcohol, cigarette etc 2. social media like FB, Instagram etc 3. Marriage For guys - Don't chase women, there are none worthy of it
Sir please make a video on boys mantel issues and solutions specialy for parents. To show them what they are facing. Many young generation facing this problem because of family pressure. I think this will be a turning point for every indian parents. Thanks 🙏
Remember guys no one will make you happy in your life , if you think after marriage your life will be good then you are living in dreams , enjoy what you have , have gratitude in your life , see positive perspective of single life
@@Raoatharva happiness is not related to marriage , you can be happy without that also , you just have to accept yourself , no one is right for you apart from yourself , we have to look for partner who will be just part of your life not your life
@@gautamyadav10 no one want commitment brother whether you are guy or girl , in past time marriage was need for both men and women , women needs protection and men need it for obvious reason , now women are no longer require mens protection so they will also won't prefer marriage but it is not acceptable in our society so still it's happening but time is changing rapidly
Many of my married friends are either unhappy or struggling with mental health issues 😢 I'm 33 with good 7 figure Income and living great life, Single life is a great life.
I am 27 Haryanvi. I am not marrying because i want to remain free. I do not want to live same life which crores of other north Indians are living. Hamri zindagi ka ek hi maqsad hai- Mukti/Moksh/Nirvana. Reading UPnishads and Geeta under guidance of Acharya Prashant has opened a nnew perspective towards life. No need to spend life with just one person. Humans are polyamourous , not monoamourous.
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In today's society, there is immense pressure to live up to certain expectations when it comes to financial stability and material possessions. While I may be able to provide for my own basic needs, I worry that I may not be able to meet the high standards that are often expected in a marriage.
Most guys of our generation are struggling with career. Even in 30s we don't know if we will be well settled or not. There is no point getting married.
@@debanikgoswami4834 actually. I'm a girl and I know ki ladki ni bhi kamati to usko still respect aur acceptance milega. Bahut ladke shaadi krne ko ready honge. But what about men? Unko to koi dekhega bhi ni. Society is very unfair for men and this is why I tell all my male frnds to just focus on your career and not run behind girls... Survival bhut mushkil hai ladko ke liye.
Financial security is one of major reason urban youth not getting married I know girls and guys who don't want to marry yet just because they are not self independent or not saved enough money or insecurity that they want to enjoy their life at best before getting married after marriage "ghar ki zimadariyio meh hi jeewan chale jayega"
I agree with everything you mentioned, The only reason men hesitate to get married is that some women abuse Indian law. These types of women lack ambition for their careers as well. One of my friends studied engineering but decided to become a housewife because she told me that her bakra (she said those words for her husband) earns more than she expected, so she does not wish to work nor does she wishes to contribute at all, given that these properties are hers. She can obtain them through any means she chooses. After hearing her reasons, I stopped talking to her. Hence, I urge every single man and woman out there to stop thinking that just because you aren't getting married does not mean your life is over. The marriage system has become a wholesome trap to ruin either one of the partners mentally and emotionally and also, waste their hard-earned money. hence It's more important to maintain self-respect rather than get humiliated.
@@hunnybunny8179 I wish I could, but what if he still take his wife side, popat mera ho jaayega, and some men do not understand the consequences till they see themselves, so let it be😞
Two can play this game. Even more so with girls. They want a handsome man who is above 5'9. Earns in lahks and also has a house or atleast his own apartment. They ask a man not to be superficial yet judge him on his appearance and bank balance. They want equal contribution in house work while not earning or earning not even half. They don't want kids and aren't able to maintain harmony with in-laws. They Want to have independence yet still want a man's money. Want freedom yet don't want to work. They want someone to be there emotionally yet themselves become unavailable when needed. I'm not generalizing 95% of women are very good like in my family and some of my friends yet these 5% of feminazis ruin the reputation of their fellow ladies and willingness of men and their respect.
@Kushagra Shut up. As if men don't judge women?? She should be skinny, waist should be this much, She should be well educated BUT ALSO a good housewife, She should have a good degree but we won't let her work, She should have fair skin, She should bear children as per he wish of husbands family etc etc Some even expect bride to play lakhs crores in dowry and the bride has to take the whole wedding expense. Both men and women are victims of toxic Societal standards, so don't blame only women
A very important point raised by you in this video: Men have negligible outlets for their emotions and discuss their mental health which is due to the way they are conditioned in their growing years. This needs to change . I would request you to create a video on this crucial issue.
I think one of the major reasons is that true love is mostly gone nowadays. If one person still has it, the person they like doesn't. This leads to lesser amount of happy relationships, which in turn reduces love marriages. And many people don't want to do arranged marriages for many reasons out of which some may be debatable.
Yes...True Love is *rare* now a days...most girls r now looking for Lust. And now many girls have past...where as for many boys...having even a gf is difficult thing. Why enjoy with someone else and then marry another one and even try to control the guy for rest of life?? All these needs to change....
@@nmo3148 Some have an obsession with romanticizing the past. I have seen couples (arranged marriage) who gave each other good companionship... But times have changed, and let's try to shape things in a positive way. Including seeing a woman as a full person, no less than a person...
25 sal ke bad love kuchh nahin hota hai bhai.. tab future Ko dekhkar shaadi ki jaati hai love ke chhapede mein padoge To tumhen dhung ki ladki Milne wali he nahi..
Same for me bro, have seen the pros and cons and the cons outnumber the pros by a huge number. Marriage is just a business contract and is massively overrated , never fall for the trap bro live the life the way you want.
I decided four years ago that i would stay single for the rest of my life. I don't have the mental strength, nor can I love someone fully. My parents ruined what a relationship actually meant. Now i just want to be free from this burden of being in a relationship or marriage. It's better to not ruin another person's life for my own selfish self.
One of my friends relative made their daughter marry a guy of having government job with 20000 rupees but not her bf who was earning more than 5 lakhs from his business monthly 💀💀💀💀💀🤡🤡 Update- the 5 lakh guy bought a GTR just today and has a new gf already and they are getting married And 20000 has a splender only
@@mogleesh-22 yahh he already has and are marrying The incident i mentioned was 3 years ago, though during COVID his business suffered but he had enough money in his pocket already so his Business survived COVID and he is earning more now he also bought a freaking GTR 💀💀💀 where as my friends relatives daughter's family has just a splender on which he carries his whole family 💀💀
Thank you Mohak. You forgot to mention very important reasons for Indian men staying away from marriage, which are The fake cases, Alimony, Maintenance and the law being unfair and biased towards women. These are some of the reasons which makes many Indian men scared of getting married as it adds a risk of losing their wealth.
Yeah thats an issue. Women often take men for an atm. But now with guys moving away from this trend its gonna push women to see why gaining independence and earning is important.
Agreed. There are many such cases where a good earning boy under family and relatives pressure was married to such a girl whose brother or sister was Spendthrift. Many a time such boys have to carry-on with such unwanted responsibilities even when the boy side never demanded a single dowry. I remember a suicide cases where a husband committed suicide just because all his bank balance was spend in care taking of his in-laws and because of it he was unable to get a good treatment of his ailing father. As a result his father died and in depression and regret the guy committed suicide. Not all boys are bad and not all girls are good. The above cases shall never come to lime light because boys are meant to escape goats for all evils of society.
To be honest Indian men need to be a little stronger and stop craving for marriage! You won’t die if you can’t find a partner ! Men need to raise their heads high and focus on their lives and become UNSHAKABLE individuals of high values ! Don’t be so anxious to find a partner ! Being An individual you are the most powerful being ! IF LIFE CONSIDERS YOU WORTHY YOU WILL GET YOUR WOMAN BUT IF NOT ITS NOT THE END OF THE ROAD! You can do other greater things in life ! It’s a shame that men are getting depressed not finding a bride ! Live life with pride and dignity for yourself !
It's easy to say But difficult to do I am not saying its impossible but it's difficult You are right Men need to Stay Strong But when these Men growing up most of them haven't choosen there Passion as a Career & most of them don't have hobby or try to find or enjoy it regularly because of Education System + While growing up they watched Romantic Bully weed movies in which Men is mostly running behind Women even if Women is not responding or kicking him out from Life So they are trained like this & Its basic need of Most Person's to get a Life Partner because of Emotional, Sexual, Financial, Societal needs If these men grown up in Jungle & didn't have experienced, trained by shitty people for shitty things in shitty way most of them haven't be like this
There may be many reason...but some reasons I think is- 1. Boys getting jobs in late or Not getting jobs which pays good salary...I mean 40k+/ month 2. Girls Expecting boys to have high income and own Home 3. In the name of Freedom, girls have become *Lustful* ..so Loyalty is very rare now a days. 4. By not marrying, we can have a better Peaceful life, no conflicts...a chilled Life.
Imagine what if this was said by a girl. You all would have termed her feminist and man hater... Why this hypocrisy... When a man say he doesn't want to get married he is termed as overpowered but if the same is said by a woman she is termed as 'Man hater'... Wah bsss""dkk wah!!!!
If divorce laws are like this and there is no laws for men what do you expect. Who want to marry when the wife is talking your kids and property and she is being rewarded with alimony for this.
Mangal, U missed a VERY IMPORTANT POINT!! Since your video revolves around unmarried Indian men, the main reason for this situation is the high bargaining power from the prospective bride and her parents. On any day, if U go through a 'Wanted Grooms' section of any Indian matrimonial website or regional newspapers, U will easily find those criteria, not commonly matched by major population of Indian single men. For example, IIT/IIM (Both) Graduate, 7-8 digit Salary, NRI, Government job, Height above 6ft, etc. Whereas, in 'Wanted Brides' section, Maximum criteria that U will find from the men's parents side 'Wanted homely, qualified, beautiful girl for....'. U see the difference of wants here?? This has come to a level where every Indian knows at least one person, Man or Woman, who remained unmarried, just because either their criteria from their prospective partners were NOT fulfilled (mostly Indian women), or their demographics could NOT match the criteria of their prospective partners (mostly Indian men).
Exactly.....It is difficult to digest that how could a women or girls parent bargain or argue....aren't they a cattle or something to get shift in truck from one place to another....n how dare she is educated or ugly or want to work,this is just not acceptable...she is a girl she have to be dependent and obey order.... I m a man this my patriarchal system....don't u dare girls expect something from me,it's me who is expecting your independence ,chuck of your dad's money to get married
I am 33 years old and earning near 6 figures but still I having very hard time in getting a descent girl. Most girl's parents have unrealistic dreams for their papa ki pari princesses who are mostly 30 and jobless.
Anti male laws is also known reasons . And all media , goverment officer , political parties , judiciary and celebraties never recognise anti male laws and harrasment against mens. I know many NGO's who worked for that types of mens.
I'm from Kerala, here we are discussing ' How to become self-reliant and start to live our own life '. Nobody has to get married under the pressure of family , relatives and society. Marriage is not to fulfill men's sexual needs or other needs, it is for getting a partner to support each other. If unmarried guys (which is shown in the video) can lead struggle to politicians and collector, they can also try to change the way which their society treating girls and women. Girls are not born to just become someone's bride! In this video , The mother from farmers family is concerned about her daughter marriage, why should they give more importance making her daughter 'Self-reliant '. Parents should only have to focus and help their children to become self-reliant. Starting a career is better than starting living depends on our life partner. You are adding valuable information to our life. Loves your work ❤❤❤❤❤
Marriage comes with risk and the risk outweighs the benefits. There's a risk that comes with marriage that essentially only benefits a woman. When a man marries a woman, all he can do is hope that one day she won't wake up and say"I feel like I don't love you anymore and I want to go, but you can't do anything about
You could have done anything about it before that point came.... But I am sure introspection is not an Indian man's game.... Better you guys remain single
@@gal_targareayn6721so your introspection didn't include the fact that communication could be the key? Or introspection is only on men's part? Heart to heart conversation could've also solved that issue. But no the men has to introspect. Then again what could go wrong, win win for women and lose lose for us men. 30% of man's worth easy cash because daddy's Lil monster "doesn't feel it anymore"
@@TheTanmoy16 you should be scared of daddy's little monsters.... Atleast the fear will make you vigil and sensitive of other people's emotions with whom you live and give you ability to be better listeners... Talking about heart to heart 🤣🤣🤣🤣 with the inability of actually listening and then taking action over it
Yes I find that actually marriage system is 80-20 benifits for women and men respectively even she is beautiful and he is ugly. It's a huge Indian trap if you want to get out from that you loose your 50% assets and money lol 😂
Am from bihar of age 23..... people here r dying for a govmnt job.. In seen many boys in my family. ...who wasted their entire 20s for study in a single room....man this is horrible .... the same happening to me...i don't want to waste. ...i just want to leave bihar ..that's it...hope one day
Reason 3: One of the reasons people, especially 90s, did not get married was their financial independence. Gurgaon, Haryana, where I currently reside, is well-known for being an IT hub. According to 99acers, a bechular's monthly living expenses in Gurgaon range from 30,000 to 70,000. Twenty lakhs are often spent getting married, and a lot will happen afterward. Hospital bills for pregnancies (insurance claims are specifically limited), school costs (CBSE private school fees of $2 lakh (admission fees) plus monthly and yearly fees), and no one wants to enrol their child in government schools (you know all the reasons) are some of the reasons they don’t get married because salaries are not as per their expenses. There are numerous imbalances. One of the reasons young people settle down in Canada and Australia is because salaries are often high-if you believe it or not, salaries are higher than in India.
I doubt this. In video it is clearly shown that they want to get married but are not getting women for same. It's mostly due to unavailability of women. I mean as a women who TF would want to stay in Haryana
Being single and perhaps getting bored sometimes is far far better than getting married to wrong person and live in toxic environment. In todays time most of us are better off being single because kids have no patience and expect instant gratification.
Thank goodness!! My parents don’t pressure me to marry. I’m a girl and really fortunate. I think marriage should not be such a stigma. Live and let live. Take the power in your hand. Focus into getting financial independence. Irrespective of gender, age!
@@tula__हा पता है पर मा बाप के घर मै रेहना एक जवान लडके के लिये बिना कमाये और बिना शादी करे लड़कियो के लिये ज्यादा तर मा बाप के लिये बोझ के समान है. (10% मा बाप ऐसे नहीं नहीं होते )
I'm from a land owning caste from the South of India. It is said that 90℅ of those from my caste own atleast an acre of land. We had the problem of finding brides until 5 to 8 years ago due to the problem of skewed sex ratio within the caste. During late 80s and 90s our fellow caste mates had access to scanning and gender determination, thru which, female fetesus were aborted, resulting in skewed sex ratio. Therefore the boys born during late 80s and early 90 had a hard time finding girls within the community. The girls available had a far superior bargaining power. A bcom graduated, stay at home girl was able to get a husband who worked in Microsoft or Google. The less well off boys had to go to Kerala to find girls or marry someone from an immediate lower caste. However, by 2015 the sex ratio had largely been fixed as the abortion of female fetuses stopped by late 90s. The gender ratio has now reached 1:1 in our community.. However, it is still difficult for guys to find girls for marriage, the reason now being, a lot of girls (to some extent guys as well) see married life as a restrictive and compromised lifestyle. Many families are ready to keep their girls single rather than go in for a compromised marriage. As a result, in the region I come from, there are about 5 females and 10 males who are unmarried in every single village. We can already see the side effects of it. Less marriage, less children and a lesser labor force. We do not have even the basic labor force to maintain our farms. The little labor available is expensive. Currently we depend heavily on immigrants from UP, Bihar, Orissa, Jharkhand and WB.. Not sure when their supply will run out..
Yeah i agree, people are thinking not marrying will make them happy but it's a disguised curse for the future generations which we can't see now because of less examples here but if we see western countries and highly developed countries like Korea and Japan they are into bigger problem of drastically decreasing population and depressed youths. People are changing the laws.. but for whom ? When there will be no future generations what will be the need of such things, really short-sighted thinking.
Huh here population is already rising & will continue to till 2050, even after that it MAY get equal/enough I don't see why you'd worry about labour force when we have so much population. If you're being choosy that is then it's a different topic
@@kdjoshi726 well, the problem is, we are all to some extent scared of the cultural shift bro. For now, we have enough labor to maintain the farm. The issue is, we are in a dubious phase. For generations, we have used local labor, accustomed to our language and culture. All of a sudden, their supply ran out or came at prices Unaffordable. As a result, we currently use immigrants from other states to work on our farms, who speak a different language, it's like every landowner is nervous, yet has no option but to employ them...
Boys'don't talk about some issues to our family or friends because some issues only understand by a female partner like a female friend, girlfriend or wife ... Shiva need Shakti , Ram need Sita and Krishna need Radha 🙏🏻
I m 28 years old female and dont want to get married because i feel very less amount of women get freedom in actual sense after marriage. I dont want to loose my freedom. Freedom what i want to do not what people expect me do for the sake of relationship. I have also confusion regarding my sexuality though i feel i am asexual but not sure so this is also one of the reason.
@PrinceVa-hj4xg haa, yeh aap unse poocho na jo, apni life already kharaab karwa chuke hai relationship ki wajah se 😂😂 Relation na ho gaya, bawaal ho gaya hai, har kisi ko bas ladki chahiye 😂😅
Mohak is an intellectual; Dhruv is a youtuber I used to like, but nowadays Dhruv is too much into luxury... and into all sorts of prejudice / stereotypes...
That's because we are alpha males ..we don't need anyone to look after us. We are on top of the food chain😎🦁🦁🤴👑 Ok guys now i have to go. Kapde dhone hai kal Monday office Jane ke liye 🥲🥲🥲
I am a girl and I am career oriented I don't have problem in marrying..... I don't like the fact that whole financial burden falls only on the guy that's why I want to work after marriage too......but the problem with Indian society is the prime duty of a DIL is to serve her husband amd in-laws and be dependent on her husband for every small things she wants.....they won't allow you to work for managing your expenses and then if the wife demands something she will be labelled as materialistic and non comprising All these things are stopping me from getting married
@@rob4614 Why doesn't it apply on the dad? Is the child only the mom's? A mom is expected to sacrifice her wishes for the child but the father is absolutely free to go and have fun with his friends and all They don't even want to invest time in their child's education......sirf paise Dena sab kuch nahi hota......this is why in India children are more biased towards their mothers.....they are not comfortable in sharing their problems with their dads
@@futureteacher7986 i agree , but most women marry guys who are well settled rich men who want to be a girl should be a puppet 😂 , marry a guy who is equal earn as much as you
Not marrying by choice is not always due to financial insecurity. Some people value their freedom and don't want to spend the rest of their lives looking after children.
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Bro please add captions , you got viewers not only from North ,some are from south also... kindly think about it
Bhai data sudharo apna
Ratio me ab 1020 girls hai 1000 boys pe
video on divorce??
@@aruneshsingh5582 that's not a census data wo national family health survey ka hai
Love your vids. Kindly consider adding subs. Though I can understand a bit, having subs will truly provide full understanding.
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Car, footpath aur harin. Aur kya chahiye zindagi mein
@@dipanjanghosal1662 *hiran
Modi ji and yogi ji also 😏
*Ratan Tata*
@@dipanjanghosal1662 neelkhaant
*Advantages of Not Doing marriage*
1. SAVING EASILY 50 LAKH ON MARRIAGE
2. NO CONFLICTS
3. YOU CAN LIVE A GOOD LIFE WITH YOUR PARENTS
4. more savings, Means Better Lifestyle
5. NO DEPRESSION, MEANS NO HEART ATTACK, MEANS LONGER LIFE
Yes👍 but we need artificial baby making facility🤓
What about sexual desires?
Agar Sadi kar le to jindegi bhar wife tang karte rahenge😭
@@AkshayShukla. 🤣🤣🤣
@@vinayrao1087 artificial intelligence can make you happy 😊 they will treat like a human😁
I am 30 years old single man. All my life I got rejected by girls due look and status. Same groom family keep rejecting me due to look and status. I told my family I am happy to be the single. Today, I work for myself, earn for myself, spend on myself and love myself.
Try approaching not so beutiful poor girl.
@@niteku6448 Nothing work, so called poor girl daddy want status quo.
@@markratata Great bro, as a Doctor you can even have far better life then me, jealous. Hit the gym get great shape, wear cool cloth, eat well and enjoy the life. That's my target only currently struggling with money. So live a life.
@@markratata well, my life is pretty much same as yours.
It's OK to live alone, if someone ever show interest in us than we can think about marriage.
Yeah bruh earn money 💰 should be main focus.
Your look doesn't matter when you have money
I am 29 years old and have a govt job. Still I don't want to marry because of my medical condition. I have auto immune disorder which makes my life worse. I don't want any girl to regret after marriage 😞
Sorry to hear this.
God bless you and bring you lucky times
Even my doctor also said something like that. But what does it mean. What is the issues we face because of it.
Can you share a video describing about it.
Thank you
enjoy life as much as u can bro.. have trips.. eelax meditare
Enjoy your life
I'm a 30 years old female n i have seen my mom facing domestic abuse from Dad during childhood and this has made me realize that it's better off being alone than with the wrong person. Same goes to the males too
Ha , isi vajah se hame independent hona chahiye specially financially
(in the west, or in India?)
she chose bad partner
@@hermionegranger8629 india me domestic voilence zyada hai
First of all heal yourself with philosophy and spirituality . Go exterior discover the world and reboot yourself and then retook decision
Rich men don't want to marry because they don't want to loose their freedom.
Poor man can't marry because most of the women will prefer to stay unmarried rather than engaging with poor men.
Truth. Girls have become outright materialistic.
What you said is true. Women want husbands with salary packages very High or matching them as evident in matrimonial sites. Well women are right in having that demand. So it is tough time for boys. I am single at 36 and not sure if I would be able to get married.
@@puguwash same with me 33-year-old
@@puguwash How are women demanding a very high income husband right? Financial growth can happen even after marriage.
@@puguwash Lol why women are right in having that demand?
As a 25M, I feel the concept of marriage nowadays to be a kind of big business deal and nothing else. You study well, graduate from a good college, make a decent salary but the moment you hear about marriage people say you don't have a house, car, you have this much loan and what not. They are simply saying WHAT YOU HAVE IS NOT ENOUGH. Of course people can earn this over a period of time, but what's the point of marrying someone who doesn't want to be on your side when you are working hard, struggling but wants the fruitful results alone? It is better not to get married than ending up with a person who judges you for your materialistic possessions.
U have said the same thing i am thinking all Day
@Harsh Patel nah that's not at all true . Your source - Just Trust me bro
@Harsh Patel never ,, you have seen wrong mens ,,, average looking hardworing ....>>>>>>> beautiful
@Harsh Patel 😔😔,, yes bro beacuse of family pressure ,, better to find groom with the help of relatives and friends network and make the girl financially independent [ goverment jobs using reservations] this would be a good move
@Harsh Patel bro bpsc ka exam ,, ssc ,,, every state has their exam like bpsc and most imp exam THE GATE exam can be given by even bsc students ,,,, pcs exam ,, lower pcs exam and many more bro ,, meri bahen bhi pcs ki tayari kar rahi hai bro
No marraige
No drama
No divorce
No alimony
Stay safe stay strong, peace🤙
no dowry too
Only marriage with your hand
😂 I tried getting hitched and 99% of the wamen 1st question how much do you earn, not what is your name.
2nd question more of a statement 😅 they all demanded 25k onwards for makeup and for parties with their bf with occasional hotel room rent to have fun with bf 😂 after listening to all that my parents no longer tell me to get married 😂
@@sharathSizZlemen can expect dowry, beautiful girl, educated one and who knows every household work why can't girl expect a financially settled guy.
What do you expect l then? Men shaming girls who are fat is it fine? Who will pay the hospital bills, groceries and school fee for the kids? Moreover respect matters when men don't respect women this is what happens.
Buying bride?
@@archangelmichael8209Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal and women especially feminists support alimony but men in general dont
"Being in a relationship is about solving problems together....Problems you wouldn't have if you were single." 🤣🤣
😂😂
Bohoot bard hai tere bato mai
(What's so negative about solving problems together, just the two of you?)...
@@hermionegranger8629 those problems won't even exist if there is no relationship.
lmao
I was born in Haryana, but later moved to Jharkhand.
The first thing which I noticed after coming to Jharkhand was that in my class the girl population seemed more, which was indeed true. In my school in Haryana, there were 23 boys and 7 girls, while the same in Jharkhand was 25 girls and 30 boys.
I remember that I once heard my mom talking on the phone that there are no girls in Haryana. 😅
I recommend you to go Kerala 😅
@@fakeidi
Wait, is the case opposite there?
It's true
@@fakeidi Kerala is totally different.
Different Culture and language.
@@fakeidi kerala was great but the boy child disease is catching up , child sex ratio has declined to females
As a guy i think its better not to be married than marrying a wrong person. Goes for both male and female
Considering the lol population... Avoid
True
Yea lol
A right person today may become wrong person after marriage. Marriage is 100% risk.
100%✓✓✓
To be honest. For all males and females marriage has become a mystery. Some feel it as business. Some are afraid of toxicity. Some don't understand why to get married and loose freedom. Inshort everyone is confused in the aspect of marriage 😂
I married with One boy tamil origin but after10 year we divorcied he look for Money and go abroad
@@silviatevini5815But why you both gave divorce?
That's why soul searching taking time for yourself to know yourself deeply is very important first
@@IPSITA1000 If one is able to activate the complimentary energy within themselves, then the dependency on other gender becomes less. It can be achieved using yoga, Healing process etc. Twin flame is all about the same, to realize we are complete with in our ourselves, realize and embracing it.
@@silviatevini5815 sad to hear dear, Hope you grow more powerful ❣️ . It's all part & parcel of life
Love is blind but marriage is eye opener. I'd rather be single and miserable than married and miserable. And my wallet said we can die together. 😇 💫
Sigma comment 🔥
Jai Guru Gaur Gopal Das ji ki.. 👍😄🤗.
Marriage cannot work in tandem with ego
Mate you'll soon change that view
@mommydeath then why are you telling us that shouldn't you he busy mourning her loss?
the main reason is many of us had seen toxic marriage of our parents , and don't want the same thing in our life
Interesting. Bigoted people will say My Parents' Relation Was Perfect, bcs My Country Is Perfect ...... Interesting to read many different opinions on the topic nowadays.
@@hermionegranger8629 what who are these bigoted, any person who has seen mom or dad suffering won’t lie. But there are functional marriages too.
Exactly same with me
Actually, this is the reason for majority.
True 😢😢😢
A lot of men need to understand, it is better to be unmarried than to be in the wrong marriage. A wrong woman can single handedly throw your entire family in jail with fake allegations and demand massive ransom as alimony. So you are relatively better off at this moment. Focus on stabilizing yourself. Women will come if you have enough money to provide them a decent lifestyle.
I can say the same for the reversed genders
My mother always taught me this ☺️💗
@@meenapatel1648 that is literally programming trauma into the next generation. Ask her to stop
@@rutvikrs so it is wrong for a woman to stay single then to get married with a wrong man?
Lol what
Don't entertain unnecessary people be it men or women
@@meenapatel1648 any parent imposing their experience onto thier child to the point they leave aside an aspect of life is programming trauma. A healthy parent informs and guides the child through the experience. Both the OP and you are so afraid of a "relationship with the wrong person" that you will never accept flaws in the other person.
I 32 right now and decided not to marry. I earn, cook, clean my house, take care of my parents and everything in my own hand don’t feel I need to get marriage ever. No need to spend 5-10 lakhs in wedding which may have no return. Divorce rate is rising, women file fake rape/domestic violence cases against men/husband. Individuality is important. Regarding kids, India is overpopulated; cost of education, property, and healthcare is rising alarmingly. Don’t want to bring a child in a country which have corrupted govt. poor infrastructure, lack of resources to lead a average life. Better travel, invest money in FD, MF, stocks and create wealth and adopt kids.
I am 18+ matured person and independent individual. Why would I need to convince my parents ? @KunalBahuguna-gp7hu
@KunalBahuguna-gp7hu your life why convincing parets is a big deal
Bro I also don't want marry.good thinking ,where r u from.want u talk more.....
How do you convince your parents bro?
Bhai,if you are only child,aapke baad aapki property ka kya hoga?reply plz.
As an Introvert I will never marry. It's better to remain unmarried than having an incompatible spouse. I love my single life. I can feel peace and solitude. Majority of people marry not because they love the person genuinely, but because society forced them to marry. There is no genuineness.
🙂
Don't use social media too much!
Your parents won't agree though
Beta jab tum 35 ke upar ki age ke hojaoge tab pata chalega
Agar tab bhi nahi pata chala to budhape bada pachtaoge
I am 23 preparing for job i belong from middle class family
Reason i dont want to be in relationship now is because i dont have enough money
I can't go on a date to any restaurant and ,I don't own bike.
I have limited amount of money which i spend only on my needs.
And also I approached a girl few yrs back i shared my feelings to her and got rejected it was a great life lesson. 😂
From there on i spend lot of time with my family and its an amazing experience ♥️ ❤️.
badhia h, ladkia social media dekh ke apne swapno ke mahal me ji rahi h jo ki kabhi pura nehi hoga ....jab vo budhi ho jayegi aur koi attention nehi dega unhe tab bhuktegi like in America
All the best for your future ❤
👑
@@InshruTripathi i know bike,car financial condition yeh sab toh reason nhi he rejection ke,she sees me as a friend not more than that and that's ok. ♥️
@@Sasuke-d8l ha be 😂
One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)
This is the exact reason for many men to be afraid of marriage.
After being false accused you lose all sorts of things in life that you built with struggle
Ipc 497 has been struck down by Supreme Court. It can only be grounds for divorce and isn't a crime anymore.
Adultery was declared unconstitutional by the SC.
Sec 377 can be used to give justice to male victims of rape. Yes, sec 377 was used to wrongfully hold LGBT+ youth but now it had been read down. Now only non consensual (r@pe) are held illegal.
But I agree that men cannot be victim of domestic violence in India as of now (for dense people this sentence is according to Indian laws and not my personal opinion SMH 🙄)
Yes mairrage is becoming curse..
Problem ye nhi h ki ladki nhi h
Problem ye h ki dhang ki ladki nhi h
Sahi baat bhai, 2 rishte aae shadi k and its not that they are bad looking but they are too bland aka they got no hobbies or things they like and their whole personality is based on 'mai khana bna leti hu", which is not bad but khana banane k alawa aur bhi to kaam hai.
@@Msmithjonesraven bhoto ko khana banane me bhi problem h
@@MsmithjonesravenBhai, yaha ulta bhi hai... Intelligent ladkiya who can hold up on their own, ladko ko achi nhi lagti.... Mummy bolti hai, jyada smart mai Jatana khudko... Ab hai toh kya karein.... I got rejected because the guy loved momos and I like fitness .... Tumhe apni side ka pata hai, ladkiyo se pucho ladko ke kya haal hai
Let me give you an example of the same in my actual real life experience, i have a friend who works in IT he is almost 29, he is actively looking for a bride and so when he got a match with a girl, her father was a driver of some sort with monthly income of 10K , my friend said if the girl is good thats all that matters and he went to see the girl , but the father of the girl rejected him saying he doesn't earn much, the package of my friend is 15lac per annum 🤦♂️
He couldn't count the zeros properly
Let them reject ....sooner or later they will realize and will come to realty.
Yes this happens quite a lot. Even non earning girls with bad family background financially wants upwards of 20 25 lpa.
Thats why try having love marriage with colleague/same college. Both will earn equal.
@@abracadabra7550 i have 2 factories and 3 room for rent and big plots to give to bride and if they need gov job i will ready to prepare for it but after marriage this is my strategy 😂😂my age is now 25 years but I will need a bride somehow so that our marriage will be done happily and have a better kids in future
@@tanishthajaiswal8928 haha
My uncle did an inter-cast marriage, initially his parents and family were skeptical but she turned out to be a really smart person, with good communication skills and she's really good with people, now everyone loves her. They were colleagues and then they did an love marriage.
I think sometimes love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Atleast in love marriage people care about each other and know enough about each other....
Kash mere sath aisa hota
I think inter-cast marriage is a good thing. Somehow a lot of people are attracted and have more respect for other religions. Same thing happens abroad - people have respect for foreigners more than their own country people. They have successful marriages.
@@GurpreetKaur-hj9xgnot really....this is sure opposite attracts but attraction is not eternal.
My sister had inter caste marriage and she complaint and advise my younger sister to marry in own culture and own community.
@@rajeevmishra8932arrange marriage me kaun sa love eternity hota hai bhai
To all men out there. Focus on your life, serve your Nation, and always keep your Father and Mother happy.
Abeyy chup
Focus on success bitches will come running
One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)
Serve your nation and in exchange get rampant corruption, pollution, inflation and taxes in almost everything.
Ladkiya onlyFans and insta pe naachkar bhi paisa kama sakti hao , so boys focus on career and money only.
During childhood : there's always a women behind a successful man
When adult : women always persue successful men .. 😂😂
Dude the first one is mother
And
The second one is wife, cuz women need a safe place, because you also know the importance of money and she do too
@@RajKumar-de9vp I am not talking about mothers and wives I am taking about the general perception created.
We are made to believe that women are quintessential part of a man's success. They motivate and support us in achieving our goals but sadly it's a fallacy.
Finally someone’s talking about single men’s mental health. Kudos to you Mangal 👏🏻👏🏻
I think overall men’s mental health needs to be addressed.
No depression
No Drama
Single life is best 😊👍
Pakistani are not allowed to watch Indian video
Angoor na mile toh khatte hai😂😂
Eather u r living in joint family with brothers , or with ur friends as room mates , or u haven't reached the age of 37 at least ...
It's very hard to live alone in ur own house , with all the luxuries with no one taking care....
What's ur punch ???
Mene to bol diya hey ghar pe shadi nahi karu ga,
chahe BMW bhi dede petrol to hume
hi bharna hey,😎🤣
@@max-cs9ko Exactly 💯
It seems to be a global issue. I've spent more than five years residing in Korea. I came to know that most of my Korean friends are not interested in getting married when we talk about marriage. Compared to India, Korea has a substantially larger percentage of single people. Even girls do not desire marriage. This is due to the high living standards, independent lifestyle, unstable financial situation, and many other factors. And unfortunately, it's become a common issue within several parts of India nowadays!
Korea is going to face population crisis soon.
Korean population is rapidly declining
@@peterparker9954 Because of high living standards. Education & rent are high af there
@@peterparker99540.8 birth rate will do that
@K & D joshi that's not good for a county like Korea
Reasons a guy scared to get married -
1. Unstable income
2. Unsecured future
3. Unemployed
4. Girls have high expectations from her life partner.
5. Extra marital affairs of girls
6. Harsh Alimony and maintenance
7. Unfavourable marram laws against men.
8. False matrimonial cases against men.
9. Loosing freedom, doubling responsibilities
10. Girls have social media partners, colleagues and ex-bf to support, but men haven’t.
Facts brother.
Good. If guys stop marrying it'll be like a heaven for Indian women
@@Aaradhya24 Not only for women but also will be a heaven for men too.
@@ss0498 YES. And men should support it whole heartedly
@@Aaradhya24 Yes some of us are already doing that and more are following in.
To all the young men out there. Work smartly and pursue your goals, get rich, be disciplined, go to gym for yourself not to show-off, be the best version of yourself in terms of personality, be honest to yourself and think 10000 times before marrying because if divorce happens your wife will take away your children, half property, money and permanent monthly alimony even if the divorce is initiated by her.
Take care of your parents and be strong.
😊😊😊😊😊😊
prenup is a must even if that means you'll need to marry without proper rituals
bitter medicine but it will benefit in long term
@@gamingwithpankajagarwal6773 what us prenup
@@shekharkapoor9208 which medicine
@@RaviVerma-my4gp Jo uppar described hai 🙃
As somebody who continues to battle mental issues, I think that it would be incorrect to state that only men in Indian society don't get to talk about their mental health. In reality, nobody in Indian society gets to talk about mental health. It is still a taboo subject outside the urban upper middle class Indian society. Concepts of depression & stress are seen by an average Indian as fanciful terms used only by the elites of Lutyen's Delhi & South Bombay. Visiting a psychiatrist is considered equivalent to being certified insane in the larger society. This is mostly because of the fact that the school curriculum doesn't discusses about it unless one enters medical college & the resulting lack of interest for it in the public. All of this results in cases of schizophrenia, bipolar disorder & multiple personality disorder being tagged as ghostly/demonic possession, people silently suffering under family members with intermittent explosive disorder, children with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder being not cared properly, post-traumatic stress disorder being hushed up & a host of other societal problems.
Not only that mate, it is also very expensive and not affordable for a lot of Indians to visit a therapist or psychiatrist. Especially adult boys and men in our society since they have this responsibility to take care of their family and not appear weak despite going through all the motions .
Shut up , depression is imaginary all mental
It's impossible to approach your parents with such issues.
I tried...It's not like they don't believe you it's just that they don't know how to handle it as they were always told to "suck it up" because "that's life"
@@shadymello9146 so on point mate. Also as a growing adult I feel like it's my responsibility to not burden them with my issues and instead help them get better. It's a slippery slope but we're all riding it.
there are two ways of looking at it, one is your way which is what i will refer to as the wester idea of visiting a psychiatrist, the other is the indian way, meditation. You see, historically, tension and stress have never been lower than today. while today we worry abt competition, back in those days ppl worried abt life and death. the factor that has changed is our ability to cope with that shit. ppl are getting mentally ill simply bcz their patience has decreased over the ages. thats the lowp oint of technology. instant gratifications, fast travel, consuming american cuisine while looking at our phones. in between our lifestyles, we have no breaks to simply think and observe. to contemplate abt the event of the day. to think where we could have compromised, to think where we could have won. all the time our mind has learned to be occupied so much that whenever there comes a time we are unable to occupy ourselves, all hell breaks lose, we start observing how deep we r already in the abyss. in a nation where we already have simple free solutions, even in them all we do is click photos and post to get likes. what else do you expect. our parents might not have gone through the immense competition but then they also didnt have all those mental issues so frequently. these days kids so randomly say they are depressed that it has lost all its meaning here. poor marks? depressed. lost a game?depressed. i mean wtf. not in a relationship? depressed. cmon ppl. all it takes is 15 mins in a day to sit straight close your eyes and focus on anything. no cameras no devices. just think. start there and slowly progress towards say your faith. all it takes is to not look at the phones during those bus rides and metro rides. all it takes is to have less oily food and more roti sabji. change your lifestyle, accept your reality. even a psychiatrist can only hear you. its not that effective when you really spend all that money.
"Remember brothers marriage is a distraction stay strong until you achieve your goals "
🗿
And what about those who have achieved their goals??
Yea.... Those goals won't even be valid if earth's population drops low
@@fivecardan lmao yes.. ye alag hi prajati nirman Hui he.. Sigma Chad 🤣
@@fivecardan 😂😂 why girls are so worried about world problems ? This is bs
Jinhone shadi ki unhone konsa Olympic me medal jeet liya 😂
Baat sahi hai but phir Modi jee bolenge Hindu ki sankhya kam ho rhi 😂
To all the young men out there I want to tell you that focus on your aim and become something big in which you're really passionate about and think that as a kid when you used to take stress and all the responsibilities were upon you and no one was there to give you emotional support much but still you battled it and won so why not now remember guys we're self dependent people without relying on someone else we can live our lives fighting
Ok Eren bhai
@@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416 😂. Eren was right
The thing is whatever we do we will still remain average Joe in this world.
@@balaji7233 I will follow whatever eren Yeager bhai says. Eren bhai zindabad
@@lionheartJustin786 being an avg joe is way better than running around courts and paying alimony for life to a wife that just married to extract money frm u
Biggest reason is our culture. The same societal rules that make male -female interaction so hard in our society also cause these problems.
absolutely agree
@ISLAMOPHOBIC BOT No need of a BOT, focus on video.
What did you learn from this video?
@@spam403 you call this stability?
Upgrade your culture
@@Kukhyaati True
It's 100% better to remain single than getting married. No responsibility, no tension, hassle free life and healthy wallet.
💯
But I fell lonely 😢
@@tdmking1329 That seems like a you problem.
Then don't marry... I hope you keep up with your words...
@@sureshpeshawaria347 sure .
Today, female donot want to get married.. it's true. I'm 27 year old female and i also don't want to get married.. bcoz in every marriage around me except for my parents, i have seen mental and emotional abuses, sometimes physical also.. crying girls with no option.. so, many people think that it's better to remain single and unmarried than abusive relationship and divorce. Ask any married couple around you, almost 99% will say that marriage is like a trap.
Also in Indian society, parents donot want their children to do love marriage, and instead they try to find girl or boy by themselves in their caste.
correct
Very good bro I appreciate but I am belong poor family and I have one sister if you don't choose poor girl for marriage so this is also not good
I suggest you should decided marige with good girl and low income family that my opinion and also I agree many good looking girl rejected me and also I have one sister they want married but know one want poor family background
You are a female,but your name is Amit Bhadana 😅
Stay single and deprressed
@@Apexedits056 woh girl spy in boy name 😅
Guys, it was nothing but a prank, I just wanted to know how people would react.
And i am somewhat sad to see that most of you are completely against the concept of marriage.😕
I don't know about you all but I just can't wait to get married and have kids of my own.✌️
@@Rishabh-Dev u want my retirement age to increase by 15-20 years 😭
More power to you... I have similar plans about orphanage..
I am also 27 but I can only make maggi rarely , i need life partner to do all work. 😉
I recommend you to watch up in the air, this might answer your question
Bhai i m 26 and I work in Amazon bangalore and I m experiencing similar freedom and have decided not to marry. Unmarried life is best and more importantly it's better to stay unmarried when we analyse biased marriage laws against men. 0 laws to safeguard men against false dowry, false domestic violence case and now new law is about to be passed i.e marital rape ,just on the basis of wife's claim the entire husband's clan can land up in jail without any evidence and it's on the husband to prove himself and his family as innocent.
Tbh, it's a win. Peeps are choosing to not settle for less(both girls AND guys), which might be seen as acting selfish but y not fulfil ur own dreams before taking responsibility of fulfilling those of ur coming generation :)
Edit: also Many people hv realised that there's much more to life than just furthering ur generation
Why not just call it a bramhacharya?
May coz of social media influencing a lot by showing better life style
@@GaneshAher1729 well u can still date so not exactly brahmacharya 😅
@@jainsushree bramhacharya is for 2 kind of people
Those who want to completely devote their life to God and want to take sanyas
And other is
Those who want to have family.
Different rules of bramhacharya for different kind of people. It's not like brahmachari people can't marry.
@@GaneshAher1729 ooh didn't know that..well now I do :)
Please do not ever get married. Be free and be happy.
Agar Tera papa ye soch rakhta to Aaj tu yha nhi hota
@@SrsRajan1wo time kuch or tha.... Aj survive krna bhut mushkil hai family ke sath...
@@vishalbatra9496aur insaan main maturity hi na ho to puri life barbaad...
You didn't mention one important factor!!!!!
Girl with 5L package wants boys with 50L package. I have seen couple of cases near me that boys are so fed up of rejection due to their salary that they now gave up on marriage and don't wanna get married.
Exactly
Why the hell they need such gold digger person in their life? Why such desperation? Only for s*x?😒🤦 Stay bachelor and enjoy life na.
I see a girl who is unemployed and want a nri boy
some get cheated so deeply they just get drowned and couldnt get rise. and life inside them dies eventually, with all desires gets dead. We shouldn't break trust, life becomes punishment after getting cheated for long time
Completely agree with you. Girls are having so much expectations as they have more options even if she is not earning much or looking good. But if you don't have good looks then your good salary also not gonna help
Indians are crazy about government jobs, don't know why 🤷♂. I am working in IT sector and I am earning more than most government officers. And yet I was rejected by girl's family twice in arranged marriage setup. They say that private job is not secure. But if one has enough skills, he/she can find another job easily.
Exactly 👍
Bhai aapko sidha sidhi ladki ki family ko bolna chaiye ki Jab Life ki security nahi hai toh Job ki security le kar kya karenge
Recession, the constant struggle to upscale and staying relevant to the industry standards is not a headache for us. Meanwhile we government employees were chill even during covid.
The child of even a peon is secured with top class education if one is employed in the central government.
@@ashishjoseph3522 exactly even if we try to live a simple lifestyle, inflation is pulling down savings
@@anishashaji4133 Corporate sector does take care of the employees nowadays and I am not against any private job. But when in a government job one feels like, "my basic security needs have been satisfied, now I can find time for other stuff to do"
Benefits of not getting married:
1) More Saving
2) High standard of living
3) Away from Depression(girls) and pressure
4) Enjoy with multiple women rather than getting bounded with single
5) You will have more freedom
Kash yah baat tere baap soch leta
@@hariommanjhuindia627 mere papa ki bhi shadi unki marzi ke bina hui thi
By your logic, multiple women = multiple depression
@Sigma Male thanks for support bro... People like you can only understand what I am trying to say
I dont know why bit I took screenshot of this thank you for posting.
I don't think we should make fun of Salman Khan for not marrying anyone. It's his life his choice. Even though he is a celebrity, he is still human and we shouldn't comment on his personal life.
dude is living the life, he doesnt pay alimony and probably hooks up regularly. If any one tries to falsely accuse him or frame him in any manner, he will show them what happens at night, when she walks on a foothpath.
@@amitjose3739 Bhai Salman khan itni ladkio se saath soya hoga na, isne apni puri zindagi mei kisi se baat nhi nahi ki hogi.
Men opting out of marriage is not a problem. It's a solution. The word Marriage gives me free dipression and anxiety.
Rahul Gandhi
Yogi Adityanath
Salman khan
Apj abdul kalam
Atal bihari wajpayi
TATA
Narendra Modi
I genuinely believe that romantic love between two people is an illusion, the idea of love of two people cannot simply be at same page and as love is an emotion like anger it's actually not constant but momentary. And that's why remaining single for life makes sense to me.
no buddy nothing as such . Hopefuly you'll find someone u love
💯
@@AakashKale27 so love is permanent? Aaj ke zamane me to ni hai atleast 😂
@@maishayartonahi everyone's experiences vary na...but I've so many examples right in front of my eyes and hum bhi aaj ke zamaane se he hai .. it's probably just hasn't happened to you yet. I've changed from being the hook-up guy that I used to be to a loyal husband in the past 6 years. It happens when it's bound to happen. Peace ✌️
@@AakashKale27 cool. Best of luck ☺️
We need to talk about educating these depressed men about happy life without marriage. Marriage is not a key to happiness. There are many males and females choosing to stay unmarried and are living a very happy life.
Happiness within oneself is important. If our happiness is based on other person then our happiness can be destroyed immediately.
These days men need women who earns wells and pays the bills equally
Yes, correct.
After reading so many comments like this, I think I'll not get married by my choice in future and also the girl I'm looking for is kinda rare to find these days😅
...failure of many marriages in society is also a reason why it is a challenge to commit to another person in a less tolerant environment.
I am employed and belongs to a prosperous family, but i decided to remain lifelong single since class 9, as after the school, I found being in a relationship was no more fun but was a responsibility and I found it tough to be bound by that life long responsibility.
mere saath bhi aisa hi hua hai till 33 year old single
What's ur age ?
@@shekharkapoor9208 me 40 ka hu...have gf from NE, we don't need social approval for our relationship, we r happy to be together without any courts and government intervention
@@ayeshakawakil845 full form of NE?
@@alextiru4778 NE means North East...She is from Nagaland
Marriage is becoming a deadly trap for Indian men these days due to absurdity of Indian laws. Imagine working hard, earning and saving your entire life then you get married and if you have divorce then everything you have worked for is taken away from you. You loose the house, you loose half of your salary, you loose the kids, plus getting heckled in the courts is common. Imagine paying money to your ex wife who will now use that money to fund her lifestyle with another man. Who'd want that life? Lol. Better to be in a live in relationship. Less issues like these. I mean, there's issue of fake rape cases nd all but if the girl is good it's fine mostly!
You can sign a Prenuptial agreement before marrying. That way you won't loose anything after divorce.
(No legal value, but it has persuasive value. Means you can show it in court if it's a 100% original Prenup. Your chances of paying alimony might decrease 🤷♀️)
@@cherrylle not legal in india
Hinduism is the reason behind such poor sex ratio, boycott Hinduism
@@cherrylle PRENUPs not enforceable in courts of law. Any contract that supersede existing law is not enforceable. Matrimonial laws are biased, if gender neutral the implementation is biased resulting in Indian men suffering after false cases, unjust alimony and maintenance.
11months plus liven in is considered as married & have full rights of wife.
I have also decided to stay unmarried in my life and it's my firm and final decision. What I believe is that marriage must be optional and not be enforced upon by family/society. And I am happy that my family is educated and agrees with my decision. Our Constitution grants us right to live our life our way.
Yep marriage is a just an overrated ceremony, and after getting married I have seen things go horribly wrong for some people better be safe than sorry.
I love you bro you took the right decision. Look at Salman khan. No wife, no children, no burden nothing. Full bindaas life.
I m glad in tribal communities girls r in good ratio with respect to men.....even more than men.....but to change the situation in country level it will take time and innocent men will suffer because of mistake made by our parents 😭
And sc st don't have dowry pratha
@@manthanpatel6295 they do
@@manthanpatel6295 because there condition is not good, once there condition will improve they will also start demanding dowry, and conducting very expansive marriages.
@@saitama2508 right only poor and backward st SC don't demand dowry,
@@manthanpatel6295 we don't have dowry but things r changing now for bad.....i have few cases where girls after marriage is taunted for things she brought as gifts......and few families take Pride in expensive gifts they received. Ppl here r getting influenced by other communities in terms of dowry which is bad. We need to take care of this.
Actually i think it is our educational problem
With education we can solve
1) sex ratio problem
2) career problem
3) early age marriage
4) problem of lack of sex education
5) gender equality
What???Sameer bro kuch bhi..tune sirf aise hee 4 5 social problems bata diye joh iss topic se related bhi nahi hai..
😂😂
Nope, girls (not girls actually, the girls' family) should stop their unrealistic demands. Not everyone can get government job or 6 figure salary.
bhai tujhe jha per sirf unpad hi milenge education naam ki kuj chij nhi hoti😂
@@_Virender jaisa ki video me bola h ....log private jobs ko insecure maante hain. Bhle hi bnda crores me kmaa rha ho.. ye lack of education hi h...
*Meanwhile how two of my friend’s family view marriage -*
Friend 1’s family - You won’t bring any girl to home, we will!
Friend 2’s family - You will find your bride, we won’t!
Meanwhile me - I would prefer not getting married. 😅
U r very chalak bro...
"Meanwhile how two of my friends' families view marriage -" sounds better.
I gave challenge to my parents to find bride and they were unable to do it as every girl has some past relationship which we found out later
@@ayeshakawakil845 Why girls r becoming so Tharki now a days and who are those boys who enjoy them??😡😂😂😁
@@jioboy2676 That's not my concern, but such girl should not be allowed to enter inside my house is my only concern...warna poore kul ke izzat jayege bhatte me
Marriage ❎ women retirement plan ✅
Inter-caste marriages are very rare and sometimes parents stop and emotionally torture their children. But I think if someone is educated and good, it does not matter from which caste they belong and I think these things makes our society more mature.
In fact educated people are more likely to maintain cas in marriageste. For instance Bamans.
I am a child of inter caste marriage and in inter caste marriage myself. Many relatives of mine are in inter caste marriage.I never had bad experience, rather only good because of government schemes to help children of inter caste marriages. Only excepton was when my parents were looking for an alliance, both castes (my father and mother's side) were not interested because I am a mixed caste.
@@ajsuraj No that's not correct.. I have seen people coming from progressive societies and educated too are more likely to accept inter caste marriages.
@@usnasi4439 Love to hear..More power and love to your parents❣️
@@codetocompetectc1810
That's an exception not the norm.
However such initiatives should be welcomed & celebrated. The families should be garlanded so that they promote it & break the social stigma.
Men who are even considering marriage should visit the divorce courts and see how men are being rammed by the women and judges; how unfair is the system; how tragic is it for men and their families.
very true
And see how courts deny women for wanting to break marriages for domestic violence
True ✅💯
I thought Indian law system was better than US in treating men?? No??
@@suhasvigneshwar678 Not really. In both systems women face no consequences to making false accusations - at least in divorce courts.
I was rejected because the woman was a teacher and I don’t have a job and told her I will do business. Business or running a store is seen as a work done by less educated people.
Girl's caste?
@Prashant Gusain where are you from bro 🤜? Myself. I am from west Bengal 😄😄
@@aniruddhyagoswami1975 bhai goswamiyo mai bhi toh ajkal ledkiya nehi mil rha hai..mera yha sare ke sare kuware beitha hai
@@ashimmahato7328 koi nahi nahi chahiye. Mar jayege magar apne purvajon ki shiksha nahin chodege kabhi sadi ke liye nahi tadpe ge chahe hum khatam hojaye na jukege sanse mout hogi humari the end of vaishnav bramhan ❤❤❤❤. Mujhe garv hai mere caste ke ladko ke upar woh sare jiban single marege unhe unke purvajon ka itihaas batao kyun humare purvaj sanyas ko married life seh jaida saman dete the brother love form west Bengal😄
You don't have a business yet and you want to Marry? Why?
You came in this world alone, you live alone, you die alone.
Never marry ✅
Chase your goals
Live your life your way
Bother none except your parents.
Stay away from -
1. Drugs, alcohol, cigarette etc
2. social media like FB, Instagram etc
3. Marriage
For guys - Don't chase women, there are none worthy of it
💯
Absolutely true sir
himalaya chale jao ise acha 😂 aisi zindagi se behtar to maut hai
@@priyankarai6501 maze karna sahi hai, chakkar me phasna galat hai. Consensual maze karo, no problem.
@@priyankarai6501Kya aap shaadi ke liye ladka dhoond rahi hain?
They want women but
Not daughter
Simple and dark
and women want money.
Simple and dark.
@@_Virender and men want beautiful wife
@@_Virender True
@@vaibhavigaur1842 and women also want beautiful husband but they don't get 😂
@@vaibhavigaur1842 so why should I marry someone to whom I'm not attracted? It will be unfair for her that her husband is not attracted to her.
Sir please make a video on boys mantel issues and solutions specialy for parents. To show them what they are facing. Many young generation facing this problem because of family pressure. I think this will be a turning point for every indian parents. Thanks 🙏
Remember guys no one will make you happy in your life , if you think after marriage your life will be good then you are living in dreams , enjoy what you have , have gratitude in your life , see positive perspective of single life
That's why you need to find the right person & have to 'Live-In' because of Indian Laws !
@@Raoatharva happiness is not related to marriage , you can be happy without that also , you just have to accept yourself , no one is right for you apart from yourself , we have to look for partner who will be just part of your life not your life
If men's do not have sxual desire, The never want to get married.
@@gautamyadav10 no one want commitment brother whether you are guy or girl , in past time marriage was need for both men and women , women needs protection and men need it for obvious reason , now women are no longer require mens protection so they will also won't prefer marriage but it is not acceptable in our society so still it's happening but time is changing rapidly
Many of my married friends are either unhappy or struggling with mental health issues 😢
I'm 33 with good 7 figure Income and living great life, Single life is a great life.
At what age will you marry?reply plz.
@shubhamrao2991 maybe after 36 or 38
So happy to see these types of videos being made to make people aware of the unanswered problems in our society
I am 27 Haryanvi. I am not marrying because i want to remain free. I do not want to live same life which crores of other north Indians are living. Hamri zindagi ka ek hi maqsad hai- Mukti/Moksh/Nirvana. Reading UPnishads and Geeta under guidance of Acharya Prashant has opened a nnew perspective towards life. No need to spend life with just one person. Humans are polyamourous , not monoamourous.
That's true..
True
Monogamy isn't possible
Go through swami nischalanand sarswati ji from govardhan math if you want to study vast about sanatan dharm.
@@revolt3566 sanatan dharm is so vast that reading a single person won't suffice. I am reading multiple books with multiple interpretations.
That's good...
You always upload energetic, well researched and meaningful videos. Hats off.
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Please leftist mat banna always be Neutral 🙏🤔
Its not well researched. Latest sex ratio of india there are more women.
@@abracadabra7550 your source???
@@RichaFi source: trust me bro
You illiterate people check this link.. economic survey india 2022. 1020 females per 1000 males.
In today's society, there is immense pressure to live up to certain expectations when it comes to financial stability and material possessions. While I may be able to provide for my own basic needs, I worry that I may not be able to meet the high standards that are often expected in a marriage.
Most guys of our generation are struggling with career. Even in 30s we don't know if we will be well settled or not. There is no point getting married.
@@debanikgoswami4834 actually. I'm a girl and I know ki ladki ni bhi kamati to usko still respect aur acceptance milega. Bahut ladke shaadi krne ko ready honge. But what about men? Unko to koi dekhega bhi ni. Society is very unfair for men and this is why I tell all my male frnds to just focus on your career and not run behind girls... Survival bhut mushkil hai ladko ke liye.
@@maishayartonahi Kya frk pdta hai ladke hai 🙏
Financial security is one of major reason urban youth not getting married I know girls and guys who don't want to marry yet just because they are not self independent or not saved enough money or insecurity that they want to enjoy their life at best before getting married after marriage "ghar ki zimadariyio meh hi jeewan chale jayega"
yeh sach hai aadmi apne liye waqt nahi nikal pata
Very true
Le me:- living in W.B , afraids to get married, rejected 4 girls, enjoying bachelor life!😎🙏😎
Ki junne bhai
@@ayanmondal772 simple hisab:
"Why u going to share ur favourite pizza!,
If u could enjoy it whole alone!"😋😋
@@amritangshudas6768 wah kya bat hi bhaisab
I see Smart man. 🙏
I agree with everything you mentioned,
The only reason men hesitate to get married is that some women abuse Indian law.
These types of women lack ambition for their careers as well. One of my friends studied engineering but decided to become a housewife because she told me that her bakra (she said those words for her husband) earns more than she expected, so she does not wish to work nor does she wishes to contribute at all, given that these properties are hers. She can obtain them through any means she chooses.
After hearing her reasons, I stopped talking to her.
Hence, I urge every single man and woman out there to stop thinking that just because you aren't getting married does not mean your life is over. The marriage system has become a wholesome trap to ruin either one of the partners mentally and emotionally and also, waste their hard-earned money.
hence It's more important to maintain self-respect rather than get humiliated.
😵oh teri aysi bhi ladkia hoti h🥴soch raha tha Arrange marriage thik h, ab too bilkul nehi karuga,
Saddening. I feel, institution of marriage is dead now. No point of marrying.
that's why i'm thinking to travel russia for russian girl
if possible...kindly give a small hint to that Bakra plzzz...as stealthily as u may do but plzzz
@@hunnybunny8179 I wish I could, but what if he still take his wife side, popat mera ho jaayega, and some men do not understand the consequences till they see themselves, so let it be😞
"Jo hame chahiye use ham nahi chahiye, aur jinhe ham chahiye vo kise chahiye "
Two can play this game. Even more so with girls. They want a handsome man who is above 5'9. Earns in lahks and also has a house or atleast his own apartment. They ask a man not to be superficial yet judge him on his appearance and bank balance.
They want equal contribution in house work while not earning or earning not even half. They don't want kids and aren't able to maintain harmony with in-laws.
They Want to have independence yet still want a man's money. Want freedom yet don't want to work. They want someone to be there emotionally yet themselves become unavailable when needed.
I'm not generalizing 95% of women are very good like in my family and some of my friends yet these 5% of feminazis ruin the reputation of their fellow ladies and willingness of men and their respect.
Jinhe ham chahiye voh hai hi nahi 😂
@@romenpal-m6f haa bhai 🤣👍
@Kushagra Shut up. As if men don't judge women?? She should be skinny, waist should be this much, She should be well educated BUT ALSO a good housewife, She should have a good degree but we won't let her work, She should have fair skin, She should bear children as per he wish of husbands family etc etc
Some even expect bride to play lakhs crores in dowry and the bride has to take the whole wedding expense.
Both men and women are victims of toxic Societal standards, so don't blame only women
_"I wouldn't want to belong to any club that would have me as a member"_
_-Woody Allen_
A very important point raised by you in this video: Men have negligible outlets for their emotions and discuss their mental health which is due to the way they are conditioned in their growing years. This needs to change .
I would request you to create a video on this crucial issue.
Hinduism is the reason behind such poor sex ratio, boycott Hinduism
What outlets women have?
I think one of the major reasons is that true love is mostly gone nowadays. If one person still has it, the person they like doesn't. This leads to lesser amount of happy relationships, which in turn reduces love marriages. And many people don't want to do arranged marriages for many reasons out of which some may be debatable.
Yes...True Love is *rare* now a days...most girls r now looking for Lust.
And now many girls have past...where as for many boys...having even a gf is difficult thing. Why enjoy with someone else and then marry another one and even try to control the guy for rest of life?? All these needs to change....
where was there love earlier? there was duty.
@@nmo3148 Some have an obsession with romanticizing the past. I have seen couples (arranged marriage) who gave each other good companionship... But times have changed, and let's try to shape things in a positive way. Including seeing a woman as a full person, no less than a person...
25 sal ke bad love kuchh nahin hota hai bhai.. tab future Ko dekhkar shaadi ki jaati hai love ke chhapede mein padoge To tumhen dhung ki ladki Milne wali he nahi..
Exactly my thoughts...
I also decided not to marry...when i say these things to my mother she gets weardly disheartened and tries to convince me by its benefits 😂😂😂
Same for me bro, have seen the pros and cons and the cons outnumber the pros by a huge number. Marriage is just a business contract and is massively overrated , never fall for the trap bro live the life the way you want.
@@ss0498 i will try and I'm stick to my decision
I decided four years ago that i would stay single for the rest of my life. I don't have the mental strength, nor can I love someone fully. My parents ruined what a relationship actually meant.
Now i just want to be free from this burden of being in a relationship or marriage. It's better to not ruin another person's life for my own selfish self.
One of my friends relative made their daughter marry a guy of having government job with 20000 rupees but not her bf who was earning more than 5 lakhs from his business monthly 💀💀💀💀💀🤡🤡
Update- the 5 lakh guy bought a GTR just today and has a new gf already and they are getting married
And 20000 has a splender only
💀💀bro giving nightmares
Bride's family cared for the govt. job guy. Awe lovely. 🥰
Now 5lakh guy has new gf. 😂🤣
@@mogleesh-22 yahh he already has and are marrying
The incident i mentioned was 3 years ago, though during COVID his business suffered but he had enough money in his pocket already so his Business survived COVID and he is earning more now he also bought a freaking GTR 💀💀💀 where as my friends relatives daughter's family has just a splender on which he carries his whole family 💀💀
Good for him 🎉
Thank you Mohak. You forgot to mention very important reasons for Indian men staying away from marriage, which are The fake cases, Alimony, Maintenance and the law being unfair and biased towards women. These are some of the reasons which makes many Indian men scared of getting married as it adds a risk of losing their wealth.
Losing wealth and health, because many girls don’t divorce but keep emotionally torturing the boy and his parents
Yeah thats an issue. Women often take men for an atm. But now with guys moving away from this trend its gonna push women to see why gaining independence and earning is important.
Agreed. There are many such cases where a good earning boy under family and relatives pressure was married to such a girl whose brother or sister was Spendthrift. Many a time such boys have to carry-on with such unwanted responsibilities even when the boy side never demanded a single dowry.
I remember a suicide cases where a husband committed suicide just because all his bank balance was spend in care taking of his in-laws and because of it he was unable to get a good treatment of his ailing father. As a result his father died and in depression and regret the guy committed suicide.
Not all boys are bad and not all girls are good. The above cases shall never come to lime light because boys are meant to escape goats for all evils of society.
Agree
He won't mention because he is woke emasculated leftist
To be honest Indian men need to be a little stronger and stop craving for marriage! You won’t die if you can’t find a partner !
Men need to raise their heads high and focus on their lives and become UNSHAKABLE individuals of high values ! Don’t be so anxious to find a partner ! Being An individual you are the most powerful being ! IF LIFE CONSIDERS YOU WORTHY YOU WILL GET YOUR WOMAN BUT IF NOT ITS NOT THE END OF THE ROAD! You can do other greater things in life !
It’s a shame that men are getting depressed not finding a bride !
Live life with pride and dignity for yourself !
It's easy to say
But difficult to do
I am not saying its impossible but it's difficult
You are right Men need to Stay Strong
But when these Men growing up most of them haven't choosen there Passion as a Career & most of them don't have hobby or try to find or enjoy it regularly because of Education System
+ While growing up they watched Romantic Bully weed movies in which Men is mostly running behind Women even if Women is not responding or kicking him out from Life
So they are trained like this
& Its basic need of Most Person's to get a Life Partner because of Emotional, Sexual, Financial, Societal needs
If these men grown up in Jungle & didn't have experienced, trained by shitty people for shitty things in shitty way most of them haven't be like this
There may be many reason...but some reasons I think is-
1. Boys getting jobs in late or Not getting jobs which pays good salary...I mean 40k+/ month
2. Girls Expecting boys to have high income and own Home
3. In the name of Freedom, girls have become *Lustful* ..so Loyalty is very rare now a days.
4. By not marrying, we can have a better Peaceful life, no conflicts...a chilled Life.
Women are still dependent on men
intelligent answer and peaceful if understand thoroughly and if loyalty found always cherished and appreciated
Imagine what if this was said by a girl. You all would have termed her feminist and man hater...
Why this hypocrisy...
When a man say he doesn't want to get married he is termed as overpowered but if the same is said by a woman she is termed as 'Man hater'...
Wah bsss""dkk wah!!!!
Awesome answer. True.💯.
@@borngentleman6733 true.
If divorce laws are like this and there is no laws for men what do you expect. Who want to marry when the wife is talking your kids and property and she is being rewarded with alimony for this.
Bro casteism ka the end karo sab theek ho jayega . I am bramhan boy. But ab caste khatam honi jarurat hai
@@aniruddhyagoswami1975 Feminisim khatam karne ki jarurat hai is case me
@@Thefeministslayer bro feminism tika hua hai hu isliye kyunki hum ek dusre ka support nahi kar te
@@aniruddhyagoswami1975 agree
Mangal, U missed a VERY IMPORTANT POINT!!
Since your video revolves around unmarried Indian men, the main reason for this situation is the high bargaining power from the prospective bride and her parents.
On any day, if U go through a 'Wanted Grooms' section of any Indian matrimonial website or regional newspapers, U will easily find those criteria, not commonly matched by major population of Indian single men. For example, IIT/IIM (Both) Graduate, 7-8 digit Salary, NRI, Government job, Height above 6ft, etc. Whereas, in 'Wanted Brides' section, Maximum criteria that U will find from the men's parents side 'Wanted homely, qualified, beautiful girl for....'. U see the difference of wants here??
This has come to a level where every Indian knows at least one person, Man or Woman, who remained unmarried, just because
either their criteria from their prospective partners were NOT fulfilled (mostly Indian women), or
their demographics could NOT match the criteria of their prospective partners (mostly Indian men).
Exactly.....It is difficult to digest that how could a women or girls parent bargain or argue....aren't they a cattle or something to get shift in truck from one place to another....n how dare she is educated or ugly or want to work,this is just not acceptable...she is a girl she have to be dependent and obey order....
I m a man this my patriarchal system....don't u dare girls expect something from me,it's me who is expecting your independence ,chuck of your dad's money to get married
OMG! This should've been pinned. Best in the comment section
Hypergamy is universal.
Qualified but homely? This breaks me. 😑😑
🥲 now a days cracking jee advanced becomes easier then finding a bride
Bro being single is the best thing , no one will stop you, you will live with your own rules...
I am 33 years old and earning near 6 figures but still I having very hard time in getting a descent girl. Most girl's parents have unrealistic dreams for their papa ki pari princesses who are mostly 30 and jobless.
Mtlb galti ladki ki h
you are the same age as I am just focus on yourself must create value for yourself rest will follow
@ZEPHY007 aur agar janab ko biological chahiye to surrogacy bhi option hai.
@white race is curse to other race 3090 ti
@@Atheism712 nhi bhoot ki aree women ☕
Anti male laws is also known reasons . And all media , goverment officer , political parties , judiciary and celebraties never recognise anti male laws and harrasment against mens. I know many NGO's who worked for that types of mens.
I'm from Kerala, here we are discussing ' How to become self-reliant and start to live our own life '. Nobody has to get married under the pressure of family , relatives and society. Marriage is not to fulfill men's sexual needs or other needs, it is for getting a partner to support each other. If unmarried guys (which is shown in the video) can lead struggle to politicians and collector, they can also try to change the way which their society treating girls and women. Girls are not born to just become someone's bride!
In this video , The mother from farmers family is concerned about her daughter marriage, why should they give more importance making her daughter 'Self-reliant '.
Parents should only have to focus and help their children to become self-reliant. Starting a career is better than starting living depends on our life partner.
You are adding valuable information to our life. Loves your work ❤❤❤❤❤
You cannot change a person mindset no matter how much you try btw
I completely agree with your views
@@ashutoshaditya1564 If that was the case then this so called Social Media 'Influencers' wouldn't exist.
I agree 👍👍
@@ashutoshaditya1564 🤡
Marriage comes with risk and the risk outweighs the benefits. There's a risk that comes with marriage that essentially only benefits a woman. When a man marries a woman, all he can do is hope that one day she won't wake up and say"I feel like I don't love you anymore and I want to go, but you can't do anything about
You could have done anything about it before that point came.... But I am sure introspection is not an Indian man's game.... Better you guys remain single
@@gal_targareayn6721so your introspection didn't include the fact that communication could be the key? Or introspection is only on men's part? Heart to heart conversation could've also solved that issue. But no the men has to introspect. Then again what could go wrong, win win for women and lose lose for us men. 30% of man's worth easy cash because daddy's Lil monster "doesn't feel it anymore"
@@TheTanmoy16 cope harder....
@@TheTanmoy16 you should be scared of daddy's little monsters.... Atleast the fear will make you vigil and sensitive of other people's emotions with whom you live and give you ability to be better listeners... Talking about heart to heart 🤣🤣🤣🤣 with the inability of actually listening and then taking action over it
Yes I find that actually marriage system is 80-20 benifits for women and men respectively even she is beautiful and he is ugly.
It's a huge Indian trap if you want to get out from that you loose your 50% assets and money lol 😂
Am from bihar of age 23..... people here r dying for a govmnt job.. In seen many boys in my family. ...who wasted their entire 20s for study in a single room....man this is horrible .... the same happening to me...i don't want to waste. ...i just want to leave bihar ..that's it...hope one day
Bro leave it
Reason 3: One of the reasons people, especially 90s, did not get married was their financial independence. Gurgaon, Haryana, where I currently reside, is well-known for being an IT hub. According to 99acers, a bechular's monthly living expenses in Gurgaon range from 30,000 to 70,000. Twenty lakhs are often spent getting married, and a lot will happen afterward. Hospital bills for pregnancies (insurance claims are specifically limited), school costs (CBSE private school fees of $2 lakh (admission fees) plus monthly and yearly fees), and no one wants to enrol their child in government schools (you know all the reasons) are some of the reasons they don’t get married because salaries are not as per their expenses. There are numerous imbalances. One of the reasons young people settle down in Canada and Australia is because salaries are often high-if you believe it or not, salaries are higher than in India.
I doubt this. In video it is clearly shown that they want to get married but are not getting women for same.
It's mostly due to unavailability of women. I mean as a women who TF would want to stay in Haryana
@@spellcheck5393 if you see video they clearly mentioned 3 reasons, I just explained the 3rd reason.
🙏💯💯
Being single and perhaps getting bored sometimes is far far better than getting married to wrong person and live in toxic environment.
In todays time most of us are better off being single because kids have no patience and expect instant gratification.
Thank goodness!! My parents don’t pressure me to marry. I’m a girl and really fortunate. I think marriage should not be such a stigma. Live and let live. Take the power in your hand. Focus into getting financial independence. Irrespective of gender, age!
Pl अपने मा बाप के लिये बोझ मत बन जाना.
@@MySonu17 financial independence का मतलब पता है ??
If he has understood that he wouldn't have said that. Do what makes you happy and never give in to pressure from relatives.
@@tula__हा पता है पर मा बाप के घर मै रेहना एक जवान लडके के लिये बिना कमाये और बिना शादी करे लड़कियो के लिये ज्यादा तर मा बाप के लिये बोझ के समान है. (10% मा बाप ऐसे नहीं नहीं होते )
Friends with benefits is the best option
I'm from a land owning caste from the South of India. It is said that 90℅ of those from my caste own atleast an acre of land. We had the problem of finding brides until 5 to 8 years ago due to the problem of skewed sex ratio within the caste. During late 80s and 90s our fellow caste mates had access to scanning and gender determination, thru which, female fetesus were aborted, resulting in skewed sex ratio. Therefore the boys born during late 80s and early 90 had a hard time finding girls within the community. The girls available had a far superior bargaining power. A bcom graduated, stay at home girl was able to get a husband who worked in Microsoft or Google. The less well off boys had to go to Kerala to find girls or marry someone from an immediate lower caste. However, by 2015 the sex ratio had largely been fixed as the abortion of female fetuses stopped by late 90s. The gender ratio has now reached 1:1 in our community.. However, it is still difficult for guys to find girls for marriage, the reason now being, a lot of girls (to some extent guys as well) see married life as a restrictive and compromised lifestyle. Many families are ready to keep their girls single rather than go in for a compromised marriage. As a result, in the region I come from, there are about 5 females and 10 males who are unmarried in every single village. We can already see the side effects of it. Less marriage, less children and a lesser labor force. We do not have even the basic labor force to maintain our farms. The little labor available is expensive. Currently we depend heavily on immigrants from UP, Bihar, Orissa, Jharkhand and WB.. Not sure when their supply will run out..
Yeah i agree, people are thinking not marrying will make them happy but it's a disguised curse for the future generations which we can't see now because of less examples here but if we see western countries and highly developed countries like Korea and Japan they are into bigger problem of drastically decreasing population and depressed youths. People are changing the laws.. but for whom ? When there will be no future generations what will be the need of such things, really short-sighted thinking.
Huh here population is already rising & will continue to till 2050, even after that it MAY get equal/enough I don't see why you'd worry about labour force when we have so much population. If you're being choosy that is then it's a different topic
@@kdjoshi726 well, the problem is, we are all to some extent scared of the cultural shift bro. For now, we have enough labor to maintain the farm. The issue is, we are in a dubious phase. For generations, we have used local labor, accustomed to our language and culture. All of a sudden, their supply ran out or came at prices Unaffordable. As a result, we currently use immigrants from other states to work on our farms, who speak a different language, it's like every landowner is nervous, yet has no option but to employ them...
Kongu region ah.
@@adghat7819 correct ah solliteenga!!
Boys'don't talk about some issues to our family or friends because some issues only understand by a female partner like a female friend, girlfriend or wife ... Shiva need Shakti , Ram need Sita and Krishna need Radha 🙏🏻
we both are complementary each other
AAJI GHANTA
@@human2312 😄 also ghanta need ghanti
I don't agree if you have close good friend you can tell them everything
You guys are still lucky... Think about LGBTQ people :(
Indian men be like : mere hath hi kafi hain 😂😂
I m 28 years old female and dont want to get married because i feel very less amount of women get freedom in actual sense after marriage. I dont want to loose my freedom. Freedom what i want to do not what people expect me do for the sake of relationship. I have also confusion regarding my sexuality though i feel i am asexual but not sure so this is also one of the reason.
Good thinking 👍
@PrinceVa-hj4xg haa, yeh aap unse poocho na jo, apni life already kharaab karwa chuke hai relationship ki wajah se 😂😂
Relation na ho gaya, bawaal ho gaya hai, har kisi ko bas ladki chahiye 😂😅
@PrinceVa-hj4xgSwami Vivekananda, Tesla, Newton laughing in their graves.
Thank you atleast one sensible person🎉
Good girl 👍
Me who is single:
Atleast I am not alone😂
What about when your parents die ? Won't you feel lonely?
मैं हु 🏳️
That's why Dhruv Rathee went to Germany 🇩🇪🇩🇪, Padhai to ek bahana tha.
Usey toh Germany mai jakrr hilaana tha!
Mohak is an intellectual; Dhruv is a youtuber I used to like, but nowadays Dhruv is too much into luxury... and into all sorts of prejudice / stereotypes...
Kudos to him, he went to a different country, fell in love and got married. He's winning
@@chandrakant9085 Haryanvis are born-winners. Check Loveleen Vats also. Married to an Australian wife
That's because we are alpha males ..we don't need anyone to look after us. We are on top of the food chain😎🦁🦁🤴👑
Ok guys now i have to go. Kapde dhone hai kal Monday office Jane ke liye 🥲🥲🥲
😂😂😂.
Good
Yeh Chudap chodh de bhai vrna life esi ks k leti sara alpha beta nikal deti h
King 👑
Alpha men roughly translates to virgin men devoid of any female interaction.
I am a girl and I am career oriented
I don't have problem in marrying..... I don't like the fact that whole financial burden falls only on the guy that's why I want to work after marriage too......but the problem with Indian society is the prime duty of a DIL is to serve her husband amd in-laws and be dependent on her husband for every small things she wants.....they won't allow you to work for managing your expenses and then if the wife demands something she will be labelled as materialistic and non comprising
All these things are stopping me from getting married
Obviously they wont allow u to work as when u have a child that child is dependent on you so you must sacrifice ur happiness for the child
@@rob4614 Why doesn't it apply on the dad? Is the child only the mom's? A mom is expected to sacrifice her wishes for the child but the father is absolutely free to go and have fun with his friends and all
They don't even want to invest time in their child's education......sirf paise Dena sab kuch nahi hota......this is why in India children are more biased towards their mothers.....they are not comfortable in sharing their problems with their dads
@@futureteacher7986 i agree , but most women marry guys who are well settled rich men who want to be a girl should be a puppet 😂 , marry a guy who is equal earn as much as you
@@mahesh619ra I don't have any problem with that
@@sagars861 Pehle government job lag Jaye meri phir de dungi
Not marrying by choice is not always due to financial insecurity.
Some people value their freedom and don't want to spend the rest of their lives looking after children.
Yaaa, many women don’t want children too, but marital rape is still not counted as a criminal activity.