1. Where are you from? 2. What do you do for living? 3. How long have you been doing it? 4. Do you like it? 5. The weather is nice, isn't it? 6. How was your day so far? If you ask any such questions, then you care about what people think of you. You think that you don't want to offend someone, so you're gonna say what society teaches you to play safe. It's better to say whatever the hell you want without caring about what others will think of you.
I'd been an outgoing person before, but now I seem to have a low self-esteem to keep myself being that going anymore, I can't hold conversations with my peers like others can.
When someone that i don't care to talk to comes up to talk to me and keeps asking questions i answer with minimal effort. If someone does not put effort into their reply, they don't want to talk to you.
No worries. I am personally not offended, and fully grasp the message, just would enjoy being able to share it with others that I think could benefit from it including shy teenagers. Good luck to you, and just want to let you know that Jesus loves you and thinks your amazing
But asking about them is more effective than sharing about yourself, they don't care about you, they care about themselves to talk about themselves. The more you talk about them they will think that you care about them cuz you are asking about them and they will like you. I've been doing that and so far its very effective.
I think other person is also doing the same thing they are interested in what you find interesting(in your case it is him/her) talk about yourself and they'll start showing interest in you also, so basically both are trying to impress each other to achieve there goals. If other person has no mean with you then if your strategy works then hats off.
Initiate: Like a fire🔥 keep going to drive Blurt: right thing to 🗣?? ❌ Your over filtering just SAY SUM; wa ever come to 🧠 A: asking -Q or your sharing ⬅️two things on convo Be curious BUILD THE MUSCLE S: sharing Saw sum b4 question 🤔 may 🐝 Share about ya self, even b4 asked. Helps them know ya berra Be interested not trying to be interesting
I'm so glad you liked it! Don't miss out on all the other ways to connect with me online... 1) First, stay in the loop by going here and signing up for my newsletter: socialconfidencecenter.com/products/5-steps-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence/ In the process, you’ll receive my ebook that has helped thousands of people, “5 Steps To Unleash Your Inner Confidence.” You’ll also receive a lot of helpful tips and information on a regular basis as well as access to resources only available to subscribers. 2) Subscribe to my podcast here: www.ShrinkForTheShyGuy.com If offers great information for both men and women, including interviews with other leaders in the field of confidence and social anxiety. 3) Subscribe to my RUclips channel here. (Don’t forget to click on the notification bell icon!) I release at least one new video every week! ruclips.net/user/GetMoreConfidence 4) Follow me on Facebook! facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura/ 5) Browse through my published books on specific confidence issues and how to crush them! DrAzizBooks.com 6) Check out my next live event. These weekend intensive experiences are life changing! socialconfidencecenter.com/events/ 7. Check out my flagship confidence-building program, Confidence University: www.theconfidenceuniversity.com
Be More Outgoing This will help you to become more outgoing and step outside of your head. You will push for what you want, you will become more social and free, you will just go for it without holding back or worrying. When you can put aside your shyness and become more outgoing then you will get more out of life, you will enjoy it and your social life will improve for the better.
Thanks again for another great video! Whenever I try to share something about myself my voice gets very shaky and I cut my statement short because I hate being in the spotlight. Do you have any tips for this?
The thing is many people are anti social and Dont want to be bothered. ..I am friendly but they say Im,trying too hard. .what ?by smiling.asking about people instead of talking about me..I dont get it..'My people'
I have to say I really like talking to people I think I'm really good at it its a little harder when you can't talk to people longer then 20 minutes because so meany people have so meany things they want to talk about it's never boring
first i wanna thank u n say that i liked ur video because , they are realistic. second i have a question when someone ask me about me.. mostly i hate to answer and to be an open book but i don't know how not to answer in a good way or not let him/her know who am i? cheers
But I have to know not to take things personally when they are just haters. .I am being a regular social person and the ones I was trying to be cool with were jerks..they think you only act nice if you want something
Check out a newer video of mine expanding on being less nice (more selfish): ruclips.net/video/4rPCuz2p4RQ/видео.html And, this topic is so important, I wrote an entire book dedicated to it! See it here: www.NotNiceBook.com
I don’t think you have to have a lot of friends just to have friends. There will be people that will like you and will not like you at all. I think it’s best to not engage those people that don’t like you and be around people that do like you Rather than people that don’t because those people aren’t worth it. Especially the ones that don’t like you at all Besides why would you want punks like that
The first link is broken. I think quiet people just need to get in the habit of talking more. Maybe they should start their own youtube channel. Or get a wife and kids. Then they'll have to talk all day long. They might have a more visual than verbal facility and imagination from being raised on cable tv, but spending most of their time by themselves. I wonder how writing a novel would help. Just being able to take risks isn't enough if you can't easily express yourself in words. Expression equals happiness. Yes, I'm an expert at being quiet. Vulnerability is the opposite of shame.
Really enjoy your videos, just wish you could cut out the profanity. I know your a grown up and have the right to talk any way you want, but I feel I could share it with others without having to worry they would be offended by it.
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People say that they don't have anything to say because they care what others think about what they are saying.
yeah..absolutely he missed this important point
i care too much of disapproval..donno why..
working on that..
1. Where are you from?
2. What do you do for living?
3. How long have you been doing it?
4. Do you like it?
5. The weather is nice, isn't it?
6. How was your day so far?
If you ask any such questions, then you care about what people think of you. You think that you don't want to offend someone, so you're gonna say what society teaches you to play safe. It's better to say whatever the hell you want without caring about what others will think of you.
+voodooros You might be right.
Where are you from isn't that bad. It's a good way to spark a conversation as the question opens up a big topic that you could talk about
keep putting out great vids, you are impacting so many peoples lives
Started applying your steps around 2 months ago. Has changed so many things for the positive. Thanks for these videos. Really appreciate them.
That's so awesome to hear, congratulations!
I'd been an outgoing person before, but now I seem to have a low self-esteem to keep myself being that going anymore, I can't hold conversations with my peers like others can.
@@三小跨-b5g same
@@三小跨-b5g did you ever figure out
i have always used asking method when i wanted to have a conversation with someone and it perfectly works.
Awesome!
When someone that i don't care to talk to comes up to talk to me and keeps asking questions i answer with minimal effort. If someone does not put effort into their reply, they don't want to talk to you.
I literally have no friends.. Heh. *shows why I'm watching this.* (°ー°〃)
Same💯
How are things going for you now?
No worries. I am personally not offended, and fully grasp the message, just would enjoy being able to share it with others that I think could benefit from it including shy teenagers. Good luck to you, and just want to let you know that Jesus loves you and thinks your amazing
But asking about them is more effective than sharing about yourself, they don't care about you, they care about themselves to talk about themselves. The more you talk about them they will think that you care about them cuz you are asking about them and they will like you. I've been doing that and so far its very effective.
I think other person is also doing the same thing they are interested in what you find interesting(in your case it is him/her) talk about yourself and they'll start showing interest in you also, so basically both are trying to impress each other to achieve there goals. If other person has no mean with you then if your strategy works then hats off.
Jesson..pareho tayo ng ginagawa pero parang may kulang padin
I don’t know why but someone saying “you with me” is a major throw back to school lol
Ah, the good ol' days of school!
Your videos are helping me leave behind my toxic family,I really thank you for putting in the time to do these it's actually saving lives
So happy to hear of your progress!
Initiate: Like a fire🔥 keep going to drive
Blurt: right thing to 🗣?? ❌
Your over filtering just SAY SUM; wa ever come to 🧠
A: asking
-Q or your sharing ⬅️two things on convo
Be curious
BUILD THE MUSCLE
S: sharing
Saw sum b4 question 🤔 may 🐝
Share about ya self, even b4 asked. Helps them know ya berra
Be interested not trying to be interesting
Thank you for sharing!
I have liked the video ... simple steps or tips for being a outgoing person... worth watching ..thank a lot .. keep continue making such videos...👏👍
I'm so glad you liked it! Don't miss out on all the other ways to connect with me online...
1) First, stay in the loop by going here and signing up for my newsletter:
socialconfidencecenter.com/products/5-steps-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence/
In the process, you’ll receive my ebook that has helped thousands of people, “5 Steps To Unleash Your Inner Confidence.”
You’ll also receive a lot of helpful tips and information on a regular basis as well as access to resources only available to subscribers.
2) Subscribe to my podcast here: www.ShrinkForTheShyGuy.com
If offers great information for both men and women, including interviews with other leaders in the field of confidence and social anxiety.
3) Subscribe to my RUclips channel here. (Don’t forget to click on the notification bell icon!) I release at least one new video every week!
ruclips.net/user/GetMoreConfidence
4) Follow me on Facebook! facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura/
5) Browse through my published books on specific confidence issues and how to crush them!
DrAzizBooks.com
6) Check out my next live event. These weekend intensive experiences are life changing!
socialconfidencecenter.com/events/
7. Check out my flagship confidence-building program, Confidence University: www.theconfidenceuniversity.com
Be More Outgoing
This will help you to become more outgoing and step outside of your head. You will push for what you want, you will become more social and free, you will just go for it without holding back or worrying. When you can put aside your shyness and become more outgoing then you will get more out of life, you will enjoy it and your social life will improve for the better.
I have friends I'm just depressed kinda
What do you think is causing that?
great advice! thank you, I will start right away.
Thanks again for another great video! Whenever I try to share something about myself my voice gets very shaky and I cut my statement short because I hate being in the spotlight. Do you have any tips for this?
Try this daily exercise and increase the difficulty as time goes on: ruclips.net/video/0xUUEWW1baY/видео.html
@@GetMoreConfidence thank you! I’ll take a look right now 😊
This video is BOMB! Wow..
Awesome!
I dont talk to people usually because im quite and people are always saying "sorry" basically to say what I said again!
I'm not sure I understand what you mean. Can you elaborate?
@@GetMoreConfidence I speak very quitely because im shy and people always ask me to repeat what I said
Great Video Dr Aziz- Thank you
great advice thanks
The thing is many people are anti social and Dont want to be bothered. ..I am friendly but they say Im,trying too hard. .what ?by smiling.asking about people instead of talking about me..I dont get it..'My people'
Sounds like you need better "people'. :)
You always give good advice!...Thanks
I have to say I really like talking to people I think I'm really good at it its a little harder when you can't talk to people longer then 20 minutes because so meany people have so meany things they want to talk about
it's never boring
I like being outgoing to feel them the enchanting techniques
First of all I wanna be popular at school so I'm trying this but I'm already kinda popular but I'm too shy and don't talk so I wanna fix that
Take bold action Mixel! You will succeed!
Man I love you
Right back at you!
Ok i don't usually comment but I'm gonna blurt what I thought.
You look a lot cooler with your beard.
I definitely have the issue with too inhibition.
LOL thanks!
That was awesome man!
great video!!
Thank you!
first i wanna thank u n say that i liked ur video because , they are realistic. second i have a question when someone ask me about me.. mostly i hate to answer and to be an open book but i don't know how not to answer in a good way or not let him/her know who am i? cheers
Thanks
But I have to know not to take things personally when they are just haters. .I am being a regular social person and the ones I was trying to be cool with were jerks..they think you only act nice if you want something
Check out a newer video of mine expanding on being less nice (more selfish): ruclips.net/video/4rPCuz2p4RQ/видео.html And, this topic is so important, I wrote an entire book dedicated to it! See it here: www.NotNiceBook.com
Thank you so much for your advice :)
You're very welcome!
thank you sir!!!!!!!
You're very welcome!
Thank god for the playback speed button. Good content but damn...
:)
nice video Dr Aziz, very good and excellent information,
thanks for the work that you are doing.
(first to comment on this video)
I don’t think you have to have a lot of friends just to have friends. There will be people that will like you and will not like you at all. I think it’s best to not engage those people that don’t like you and be around people that do like you Rather than people that don’t because those people aren’t worth it. Especially the ones that don’t like you at all Besides why would you want punks like that
True dat!
The first link is broken. I think quiet people just need to get in the habit of talking more. Maybe they should start their own youtube channel. Or get a wife and kids. Then they'll have to talk all day long. They might have a more visual than verbal facility and imagination from being raised on cable tv, but spending most of their time by themselves. I wonder how writing a novel would help. Just being able to take risks isn't enough if you can't easily express yourself in words. Expression equals happiness. Yes, I'm an expert at being quiet. Vulnerability is the opposite of shame.
Thank you for sharing!
lol wow this guy talks alot of sense
I love 808s bruh
Really enjoy your videos, just wish you could cut out the profanity. I know your a grown up and have the right to talk any way you want, but I feel I could share it with others without having to worry they would be offended by it.
+Day Traders Daily If you're worrying about offending others, then you haven't grasped the message in the video at all.
Dr. Aziz is Jesus reincarnated! He is here to lead the lost people to the correct path. God bless him!
i'm watching you while i'm drunk not only because of the kind of videos you produce, but because you are so cute too :P
Where is your purse dr. Aziz. Lmao
LOL
" I.B.A.S." Nice
Yes!
Its Friday Am just going to blurt all day.
Awesome exercise! Let me know your findings. :)