A Father Hits On His Son's Girlfriend. The Boyfriend Tells Her She Should Be Flattered.

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
  • A young lady goes to her boyfriend's parent's home for a long weekend to meet them. Once she arrives she is greeted by the mother. However, within moments of her arrival, her boyfriend's father starts to say inappropriate things. After several instances of this, she speaks to her boyfriend who says, "she should be flattered."
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  • @DrofJustice
    @DrofJustice 6 месяцев назад +14

    WTH. Yeah, it would be a HARD NO for me on this relationship. Ben is his dad’s mini me. Girl, you deserve a MAN who cherishes you and respects all women.

  • @Joy4Light9
    @Joy4Light9 6 месяцев назад +12

    James you're doing a good job pivoting to new content. I'm so glad you are doing more than just the 90 Day stuff. I really enjoy your take and appreciate you ❤ I miss the SW community though, but understand why you stopped

  • @cathywithac
    @cathywithac 6 месяцев назад +12

    She learned a lot about her boyfriend that weekend. Get home safely then leave him. That's a deal breaker.

  • @kimapel1528
    @kimapel1528 6 месяцев назад +8

    Girl...run RUN, don't walk, RUN from this relationship ASAP!!

    • @Vixen743
      @Vixen743 6 месяцев назад

      Amen ASAP as I am sure, James would say, and my daddy who took on four at once(sorry I’m not trying to go out here. I’m just saying there’s certain people that do the job and there’s certain people that don’t fit the bill and looking at this guy he doesn’t fit the bill. I’ve seen at least three, THREE men three men. THAT FIT THE BILL AND THAT DOESN’T INCLUDE MY HUSBAND… my father, and my two Inlaw brothers

  • @mamakat1072
    @mamakat1072 6 месяцев назад +7

    How about Ben talks to his Dad about making his girlfriend feel uncomfortable? If he won't do it now, he likely won't do it in the future.

    • @Vixen743
      @Vixen743 6 месяцев назад

      Nor would he possibly stand up for her😮

  • @colleen1219
    @colleen1219 6 месяцев назад +10

    Run girl run

    • @Vixen743
      @Vixen743 6 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely amen sister run! How to do it out of there and don’t give it a second thought

  • @erykaton170
    @erykaton170 6 месяцев назад +7

    Men who make suggestive comments say them because they want to do the things they are saying.

  • @cherylcrozier-garcia8862
    @cherylcrozier-garcia8862 6 месяцев назад +4

    Friend, run. You don't need a hysterical break up, and you don't need to say anything other than, "this won't work for me". And leave. But when you leave, do it cleanly. No more contact with your ex. Out is out. Defend your boundaries. Don't allow additional contact after you've left.

  • @consuellalloyd5971
    @consuellalloyd5971 6 месяцев назад +4

    @James sounds like this is normal behavior for Dad & son. Hence the Dad helping the girlfriend with their luggage instead of the son giving them alone time. He knows his Dad she doesn't which sounds like he has done this before. Since I am unaware of whether the wife knows about her husband's devious actions I would purposely not allow myself to be alone with the Dad especially since the boyfriend didn't have my back. Try my best to hold my tongue if not get the 1st thing smoking out of there. Me personally I never stay anywhere that I'm made to feel uncomfortable. Hearing the son's response this is BUSINESS AS USUAL.

  • @mommav0107
    @mommav0107 6 месяцев назад +5

    Sounds like daddy and Ben are two birds of a feather. Wonder what Ben gets up to when she’s NOT around. Hmmmm

    • @Vixen743
      @Vixen743 6 месяцев назад +2

      MammaV that’s the pop quiz question what does he do while she’s gone?🤔🤔🤔 more importantly who is he with- like father, like son.. like mother, like daughter or unless your daddy’s girl ( like me hhmmm

  • @Wishywashytoo
    @Wishywashytoo 6 месяцев назад +4

    Morning James!

  • @tyseemahbishop6123
    @tyseemahbishop6123 6 месяцев назад +4

    She needs to leave Ben alone after she gets home.

  • @valadia4715
    @valadia4715 6 месяцев назад +4

    Good morning James, I agree. This dad is weird and Ben doesn't respect her feelings or their relationships. It's time to go!

  • @GreenBean3141
    @GreenBean3141 6 месяцев назад +2

    Maybe ask yourself, do you want to be uncomfortable for the rest of the relationship.

  • @tiesharperry
    @tiesharperry 6 месяцев назад +2

    Run girl and don't even look back. Don't feel bad about it either!!!

  • @florenceumpherville8560
    @florenceumpherville8560 6 месяцев назад +2

    Nope, talk to me like that and I’m causing a scene and you’re taking me home or my 6 ft 6 firefighter brother is picking me up after he has a chat with the men in question

  • @bernadine4236
    @bernadine4236 6 месяцев назад +2

    I married in to family and since divorced....the family was so superficial that that my husband and his mother agreed it was ok for HIS SISTER/HER DAUGHTER deserved to be cheated on by her husband because she "gained some weight." Get out girl! You're fine on your own!

    • @seameology
      @seameology 6 месяцев назад +2

      After I divorced my ex, he would bring women to his parent's house. For some odd reason, he didn't marry again for twenty years.
      I talked to a lady who broke up with him. Apparently, my ex MIL spent hours running me down. One of my biggest offenses was, I had the same curtains for fiveyears that my grandmother gave me.
      So, apparenty, his family chased women away.
      I talked to him ten years later. He said his family kept teling him how aweful I was but he thought I was great. But his family won out and he treated me like crap. Allright then. Glad we were divorced then.

  • @Vixen743
    @Vixen743 6 месяцев назад +3

    Morning James 💜PREACH! The dad seems like a Pervo what do you think James? Or is it just me?

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  6 месяцев назад +1

      He's definitely in that lane. This is not ok.

    • @Vixen743
      @Vixen743 6 месяцев назад

      Agreed!! I’m a daddy’s girl an my daddy would raise hell with anyone who came close to doing that in a potential father-in-law or anything like what he did- all I have to say, these type of men, like that be afraid be very afraid!!

  • @Bildgesmythe
    @Bildgesmythe 6 месяцев назад +1

    So unacceptable! RUN

  • @bernadine4236
    @bernadine4236 6 месяцев назад +1

    Red flags!

  • @kathighley2173
    @kathighley2173 5 месяцев назад

    Mother super nice hmm she knows the dog she’s married. The second time hmm I’d have a hard time not going off on him like for starters “what the hell is wrong with you?” But I’m old and blunt and always have been so I wouldn’t go along with what son said either. There is no leopard that can change his spots. I also think it’s time part ways hopefully the easy way and not having to file a NCO

  • @jazzy19001
    @jazzy19001 5 месяцев назад

    ughh.. creepy all round

  • @auntiesasa_wednesday
    @auntiesasa_wednesday 6 месяцев назад +1

    Afternoon from scotland x hope ur all well 😊