1. Don’t become good at something you hate. 2. Go to bed and wake up at the exact same time every day. 3. Take care of your body; it’s the only one you have. 4. Stay close to people who want more for you, not from you. 5. Normalize leaving people in the reality they’ve chosen. 6. Being humble is thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. 7. You get tested the most when it’s your time to level up. 8. Improve yourself daily-make that your only addiction. 9. You teach people how to treat you. 10. Admit you’ve walked through the wrong door instead of staying in the wrong room. 11. Waiting for a sign is a sign. 12. Nothing you’ve gone through has made you weaker. 13. Everything wants you when you want nothing. 14. Be willing to be misunderstood for long periods of time to be successful. 15. When things get easy, go hard. 16. Only ask for advice from people who have been where you want to go. 17. The word “No” is a complete sentence. 18. Don’t dim your light to make others comfortable. 19. Have a primary aim for your life. 20. Stop reading books, start studying them. 21. Always assume positive intent. 22. Put your own mask on first before helping others. 23. Look for problems, don’t avoid them. 24. Your new life will cost you your old one. 25. Confidence comes from keeping commitments you make to yourself in private. 26. Dedicate a decade, not a day, to your goals. 27. Treat others the way you want to be treated. 28. Tell people about themselves; acknowledge their strengths. 29. If you keep running into bad people, you may be the problem. 30. Avoid drama and gossip at all costs. 31. Fear gives bad advice. 32. It’s never too late to change. 33. Get rid of all your vices. 34. If you’re addicted to your phone, your life isn’t interesting enough. 35. Take on as much responsibility as you can. 36. Don’t blame anyone else but yourself for your circumstances. 37. Be blissfully dissatisfied with where you’re at in life. 38. Make time for what matters to you. 39. Respect comes from admiration, not fear. 40. Life is a mirror, not a window. Make use.
#1 is stay away from narcissistic. First off do you know what the look and sound like? Research Narcissistic and save yourself a lifetime of Yo Yo interactions
I'm still thinking about beginning my investment journey, but I feel a bit overwhelmed and uncertain. Do you have any friendly tips or suggestions for people I could reach out to for guidance?
The strategies are rigorous for the regular person. In fact, they are primarily executed successfully by professionals who possess a great deal of expertise and knowledge to carry out such trades effectively.
exactly, every point he said is the truth, this is all you need in life. Have listened countless podcasts and have changed my habits from past one year and This guy said all the things I learnt in my journey. Especially about cutting of people and staying away from drama.
Success is a journey, not a destination, and it's paved with the actions you take. Building wealth isn't about luck; it's about consistent, intentional steps. One of the most powerful habits is regular saving. By setting aside money consistently, you create a foundation for solid investments.
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth, investing remains a priority. I learnt from my last year's experience, I was able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time.
Remember, bigger risks often mean bigger rewards. However, high-value investments or wealth creation often require expertise and careful planning. While anyone can dream big, it's the consistent, informed actions that lead to long-term success.
There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with “Sonya Lee Mitchell” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.
I just googled her and I'm really impressed with her credentials; I reached out to her since I need all the assistance I can get. I just scheduled a caII.
Every day that passes I'm constantly thinking of ways to increase my passive income Because I know that I don't want to work until I'm 60. So, I'm doing everything in my power early on to increase the money I make while I'm not working.
My advice for financial growth this year: invest. While saving is important, investing can significantly boost your finances. Thanks to my CFP, my portfolio is thriving, and I'm proud of the decisions I made last year.
Nice. People often underestimate the importance of financial advisors. Data spanning over 50 years reveals that those who work with advisors typically earn more than those who go it alone. I've been fortunate to work with one for six years, resulting in a $3 million portfolio.
Sharon Ann Meny, is the licensed advisor I use and i'm just putting this out here because you asked. You can Just search the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment.
Every point hit me at 100% My dad told me when I was a teen “Don’t dim your light to make others feel better about themselves “ I can’t tell you how many times I heard that in my head. Especially during times of great success for myself. The moment you feel that someone’s trying to dim your light, remove that person from your circle. No matter who they are or how bad the consequences may be Because there’s no greater consequence than losing yourself #28!!! Be kind. Always “Leaving people in their reality” THAT is my new mantra
This video just ignited me in a way I haven’t felt for in years. “When Things Get Easy Go Hard” . Paid off 20 year mortgage in 5 years. Loss drive to reach higher. 2 years later due to lack of drive bought another property. 240 month amortization down to 84 months remaining in 3 years. Just bought a Toy Hauler and gonna enjoy life more. When I’m busy I thrive. This is the video I needed to see today!!! RESPECT
It’s crazy how many things we’re taught about money that just aren’t true. Why isn’t anyone talking about the book Zyphura Money by Hunter Zypher? It really opens your eyes. A lot of successful people mention it
The entire video can be GENERALIZED by this quote ------ Confidence Comes From Keeping The Commitments You Make To Yourself !!! ..... Thanks man you are doing a good thing may GOD be with you.
I haven't prayed in a while, and i thought I would last night, took one last look at my phone before going to bed, and saw this video. It covered a lot that i thought I'd pray about. God had already heard my prayer! Thanks for sharing this video.
Im already 31 yo, but this advices you give are pure gold and completely useful. You got a new sub. Will definitely check out the rest of your content in your channel! Thanks!
Fascinating, I've never heard of this book. Living extremely frugally right now and wondering if it's worth the purchase? I'm admittedly a bit turned off by the "this book is disappearing soon!1" timer, but 782 likes isn't an insignificant number. (Btw when I say extremely frugally I mean I'm way below poverty level rn)
I'm 52, and if I could tell my 20s self anything, it would be to invest more and worry less about frivolities and what other people think. Not that I'm doing badly, but it could have been better.
I am 40, doing well financially but I have never invested. I'm always afraid I will get it wrong and come out with less than I went in with and this fear was inspired by an experience in my 20's. I want to change this now especially as I want to start planning for retirement early but I don't still know how to go about it safely.
Your fears are in order... without fully grasping what you were doing you can actually lose all. The safest ways to go about it is either by first understanding the market or using a good fin. expert... I now make close to ten grand a month from mine and this is just my second year, but it took me several months of losing money to learn this.... Goodluck....
Emerson: been considering going into this for sometime now. heard its a nice way to make some extra funds. how do you get a good expert and how budget friendly are they
You should start by looking out for those with good track records... Also make sure the person is registered... Personally, I use Marie, Kelly Matwick. She's not so popular but you might have heard of her. And they're usually way cheaper than you would expect...
@@EmersonFranklin65 It is really a small world. I used to date Kelly in high school, one of the smart ones then lol . Had to go to her page to confirm that i wasn't mistaken. Nice!
There is this book I recently finished reading, it's called Casanova: The Path To Success. It's full of secrets about making your life better and my routines started to change so much! I appreciate people like you who wants other people to feel better about themselves.
If you wanna be successful, you most take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to make you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life.
The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional like I did. If you get the facts about saving and investing and follow through with an intelligent plan, you should be able to gain financial security over the years and enjoy the benefits of managing your money.
Safe to say not everybody has the skill to pursue investing. But it's always easy to follow the advice of someone who knows how to i.e a financial advisor. You could anywhere between 10--40k with the right ones. Online businesses are a good bet too if you are savvy.
Making touch with financial advisors like “Izella Annette Anderson” who can assist you restructure your portfolio, would be a very creative option. Personal financial management will be crucial to navigating the next difficult times.
In my 50's now and am now a silent quitter, i found things and possessions dont make me happy neither does money, i wasted far too many years working hard missing out on life for what i thought were my dreams when in realty i was trying to be socially accepted, i am now at peace with a quiet life. One thing i have learnt is everyone is different just be happy with the path you choose ,one thing i am totally opposite to this guy is i dont look up to anybody we are all insignificant in this universe just be happy for the 80 odd years you are on this planet whatever you may do.
Every word of this! Live by this! It’s been 6 years since I chose me and started living by these same principles. People are now constantly asking me how I do it. It started with day one and a one mile walk in the morning, and since that day my life has been completely within my own control and the universe just flows with me! 💯❤💯
I've seen lots of videos talking about things they wish they knew in their 20s, but these are such insights that I want to watch them over and over again
Yesterday I was feeling so low , and I didn't want to lose hope, so I asked universe to give me a sign and this is the first video I saw in my feed today. Thank you for this.
So many people are dead inside and will never comprehend this. I think like this 100% of the time but I didn’t fully stop letting people into my head until my mid 40s. You start to realize other people hold you back with their own insecurities
2 things that helped me and literally changed my life 1. I started learning about Jewish Wealth 2. I read the book called 'Jewish Fifth Rule' 3. stopped using social networks
I'm loving my retirement so far! My wife and I worked hard to reach this point - we're both retired, debt-free, and fortunate to have over $3 million in net worth. We achieved this through a saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market, which now generates weekly income for us. And now, we get to enjoy the fruits of our labor! We're traveling, golfing, and spending quality time with the grandkids. We feel grateful to be living smart and frugal, making the most of our golden years.
Absolutely! I'm in the same boat. I just got back from a road trip across the country. It's amazing how much energy and freedom we have now. Make the most of it, because it won't last forever!
I'm a young dad and I'm really glad to hear your story - it inspires me! I'm still working, but I'm counting down the days until I can enjoy my retirement Years. Can you please share your tips? What's the key to achieving this milestone and making the most of your retirement years? Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
Building a successful retirement requires discipline and strategy. Our journey's key takeaways include starting early, living below our means, diversifying investments, creating multiple income streams, planning for taxes, prioritizing relationships, and maintaining an active and healthy lifestyle.
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< I know this FA you just mentioned. Tracy Britt Cool is a portfolio manager and investment advisor. She gained recognition as an employee of Berkshire Hattaway; a renowned investor she is. Ms Tracy has demonstrated expertise in investment strategies and has been involved in managing portfolios and providing guidance to clients.
It's refreshing to hear someone promote taking personal responsibility and focusing on bigger issues rather than getting caught up in petty grievances. Let's embrace freedom of thought and action to tackle real challenges head on. #FreedomFirst
There's a book called Mastering the AI Money Game, and it talks about how using AI methods you can take advantage of almost every business today, it's the real deal.
Thanks Dan, another great video. I needed to hear this one. The 40 Brutal Truths 00:00 - Don't become good at what you hate - Focus on what you enjoy and delegate the rest. 00:25 - Go to bed and wake up at the same time daily - Consistency in sleep creates productivity. 00:43 - Your body is your only one - Take care of it like a valuable asset. 01:06 - Stay close to people who want more for you - Surround yourself with people who push you to grow. 01:30 - Let people stay in their reality - Don’t argue; focus on improving yourself. 02:06 - Humility is thinking of yourself less, not less of yourself - Serve others but don’t diminish your worth. 02:28 - You get tested when you're ready to level up - Challenges arise right before breakthroughs. 03:02 - Self-improvement is the best addiction - Strive to be 1% better every day. 03:32 - You teach people how to treat you - Set standards and communicate them early. 04:12 - Admit mistakes early - Don’t stay in the wrong situation longer than necessary. 04:39 - If you're waiting for a sign, that's the sign - You already know what you need to do. 05:07 - Hard times don’t weaken you - Challenges make you stronger. 05:29 - Abundance comes when you need nothing - Focus on what you can control. 05:55 - Be willing to be misunderstood - Visionaries are often misunderstood until they succeed. 06:21 - When things get easy, work harder - Don’t relax when you achieve success. 06:49 - Only take advice from people who have done it - Seek guidance from those who’ve succeeded. 07:20 - No is a complete sentence - Saying no now helps you focus on your future. 07:42 - Don’t dim your light for others - Be unapologetically yourself. 07:57 - Have a primary aim in life - Know your purpose, and it will fuel you. 08:16 - Study books, don’t just read them - Apply what you learn. 08:40 - Assume positive intent - It helps you stay focused and calm. 09:07 - Put your mask on first - You can’t help others if you don’t take care of yourself. 09:33 - Look for problems to solve - The size of your problems correlates with the size of your success. 09:48 - Your new life will cost you your old one - Growth requires leaving old habits and situations behind. 10:10 - Confidence comes from keeping commitments to yourself - Build confidence by honoring your promises. 10:37 - Dedicate a decade, not a day - Success comes from long-term dedication. 11:01 - Treat others as you want to be treated - Show respect and positivity to receive it back. 11:17 - Acknowledge others - A compliment can have a profound impact. 11:42 - If you keep encountering bad people, look inward - You may be the source of the drama. 12:05 - Avoid drama and gossip - High-level individuals steer clear of negativity. 12:26 - Fear gives bad advice - Don’t let fear guide your decisions; seek outside perspectives. 12:47 - It’s never too late to change - You can always decide to improve your life. 13:05 - Get rid of all your vices - Let go of things that hold you back. 13:24 - If you're addicted to your phone, your life isn’t interesting enough - Seek out real-world experiences. 13:48 - Take on as much responsibility as you can - Overwhelm teaches you how to grow. 14:10 - Don’t blame others - Take control of your life and decisions. 14:35 - Be blissfully dissatisfied - Be grateful for what you have but strive for more. 14:59 - Make time for what matters - Prioritize the important things in your calendar. 15:20 - Respect comes from admiration, not fear - Admire those who are givers, not those who instill fear. 15:54 - Life is a mirror - The world reflects who you are, so focus on improving yourself.
I haven’t given AF for most of my life. I’m 62 and it has only gotten stronger. People ! Don’t care what people think please. Be moral, kind and do the right thing and have integrity and DONT GAF . now that’s bliss
I think this is important, too much time can be wasted worrying about the opinions of others. What someone thinks of us shouldn’t even be our concern, if we truly believe we are doing our best then that’s what matters. Always be a kind person but do not lot others invade your mind and change your mood or outlook in a negative way. If you let them in it will take a lot from you like this guy said, energy vampires, and they’re all around us.
28 hits personally. I had a homeless guy tell me i was about to end it all but you were the guy that kept saying hi to me every day anc i felt worthy from someone. Deep shit man
I'm offering a broader perspective on rule #16 "Only ask for advice from people who've been where you want to go". I agree that advice from accomplished people can be valuable, but so can the advice from people who have failed in the earnest attempt to achieve the same goals you're trying to achieve. Don't discount the wisdom of someone who tried and failed, but who can also tell you where he or she went wrong. Sometimes success is built on the lessons learned from the failures of others. In other words, don't just learn from those who can tell you how they achieved success so that you can emulate them. Also learn from those who can tell you how they failed, so as not to repeat their mistakes. There are more wrong ways to do something than there are right ways. It's helpful to know a bit of both.
Great advice! Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
Do you not others. Be yourself that’s what’s best path too happy. Narcissistic though? Impossible too ever be happy. They seek drama and are absolutely phoney happy
I love this video. At the right-old age of 46, I agree with all of these. One good advice I can share which is related to a several of these 40 truths is in regards to narcissists. Whether in friendship or in a relationship, if the other person seems fake, blows hot and cold, showers you with attention but then disappears, seems to play games, take forever to reply to messages - challenge them early on, call out their behaviour and see how they respond. If they make your challenge the problem and keep showing you the above behaviours, just run and leave them where they are. It doesn't matter how much you shower them with love and positivity, they will just take and will not return it. Spend your time and energy on people who want more for you (Truth #2)
There is a point here I realised a number of years ago, and it is super valuable. I used to get very angry in traffic, and one day thought, what if he’s just gotten a phone call to say his sun is being taken to hospital. It changed how I “do” traffic. If I don’t want to be in a rush, I must leave on time, with a buffer in case there is a problem. If I didn’t leave on time, it’s my fault, I shouldn’t get agro with anyone else in traffic. Also, if I leave early, I have extra time. If someone cuts me off, so what. Someone else needs to change lanes, I slow down, I’ve got time. Just from that one thought the one time.
I don’t watch your videos .. I study them , honestly. Every video is filled with so much of guidance , mentoring and advise that they need to be watched several times till you imbibe them fully. I am following the same principle now while reading books .. I am studying them and have started noticing changes , great work Dan as always ! Thanks !!
Every point hit me at 100% My dad told me when I was a teen “Don’t dim your light to make others feel better about themselves “ I can’t tell you how many times I heard that in my head. Especially during times of great success for myself. The moment you feel that someone’s trying to dim your light, remove that person from your circle. No matter who they are or how bad the consequences may be Because there’s no greater consequence than losing yourself #28!!! Be kind. Always
1. Dont make the mistake of becoming good at something you hate when you get good at something that you like doing you can pay somebody else to take the things that you hate doing 2. Go to bed and wake up at the exact same time everyday 3. Your body is the only one you have. Take care of it 4. Stay close to people that want more for you, not more from you. Friendventory 5. Normalize leaving people in whatever reality they have chosen. That energy is better invested surrounding myself with people that are also on that shared journey 6. Being humble isn't about thinking less of yourself. It's about thinking of yourself less. 7. You get tested the most when it's time for you to level up. 8. Improving yourself daily is the only addiction you need. 9. Teach people how to treat you 10. It's better to admit you've walked through the wrong door than spend time in the wrong room. 11. You waiting for a sign is a sign. 12. Nothing you've gone through has made you weaker. 13. Everything wants you when you want nothing. The person that has the most power, the most confidence, the most status in the room is the person that needs nothing from anybody else, when you comes as somebody needy, it feels that way this is the definition of abundance 14. Be willing to be misunderstood for long periods of time to be successful 15. When things get easy go hard 16. Only ask for advice from people who've been where you want to go. 17. The word no is a complete sentence. 18. Don't dim your light to make other people feel comfortable 19. Have a primary aim for your life 20. Stop reading books, start studying them. 21. Always assume positive intent. 22. Put your mask on before helping others. 23. Look for problems, don't avoid them. The size of your life is correlated to the size of the problems you have 24. Your new life will cost you your old one 25. Confidence comes from keeping the commitments you make to yourself 26. Dedicate a decade not a day. 27. Treat others the way you want to be treated. 28. Tell people about them. 29. If you keep running into bad people, you might be the problem. 30. Avoid drama and gossip at all costs 31. Fear gives bad advice 32. It's never too late to change 33. Get rid of all your vices. 34. If you're addicted to your phone, your life isn't interesting enough 35. Take on as much responsibility as you can. 36. Don't blame anybody else but yourself 37. Be blissfully dissatisfied with where you're at in life. You can have gratitude and at the same time realize that you were created for more 38. Make time for what matters to you 39. Respect comes from admiration not fear 40. Life is a mirror not a window.
Number 36 is so wrong. Victims of perpetrators are not to blame; it's the perpetrators. That's like saying "she shouldn't have been wearing that skirt." People can ruin other people's lives, and it's not the victims' faults.
@@JohnSmith-ns6dpThats really nit picking the rule lol. Obviously the guy probably didnt mean grape or assault scenerio. He just saying analyze what you could’ve controlled in a situation where something bad had happened to you like lost a job, gained weight, losing a gf/bf. Hes saying in moments of loss focus on what YOU can control by analyzing your actiongs. The point blew over your head
@@xxrubberduckyxx4949 Listen to what he said again in the video about not blaming anyone but yourself. "I'm talking anybody. I'm talking all circumstances." All circumstances include being a victim of a crime. There are countless scenarios where others have total power over your life, and none of it is your fault. It's a ridiculous point.
@@JohnSmith-ns6dpridiculous. Victim mentality is the worst mentality you can have. Doesn't matter what life throws at you. Not having a victim mentality is key to success.
That last statement hits hard, especially when people you’re surrounded with carries that mentality of comparing themselves to others. Thus, it rubs off on you eventually. I’ll remind myself of this from now on. Thank you.
Just shared this with my 20 and 17 yr old sons. First post that came on my feed never heard of you and felt you came at just the right time. Much gratitude 🙏🏻
22 is a great age to make change. I'm 25 and I was on a roll but after I got a job at 22 I feel like I've lost that drive to improve everyday and got complacent. I'm still trying to salvage it!
#5 really hits home for me. I'm 40, I still have a lot of expectations of the people around me and get frustrated when those expectations aren't met. I'm learning how to let go of the anger, any tactics you used to reach that point would be awesome if you're willing to share. Great video!
It's important to realize that we can't control others, only ourselves. Letting go of anger and expectations leads to personal freedom. Understanding that we can't force others to meet our standards is key to inner peace and growth.
God bless you. I needed all of this advice. As a 31 year old business owner, father and husband. I find it so hard but you’ve made me realise where I am lacking
‘Improving yourself daily is the only addiction you need’ is such a powerful statement. Discipline and self-refinement truly pave the way to lasting success
Your videos have been truly impressive! As one of your regular viewers, I've been following your content closely for a while now. I'm very interested in making an investment, but I’m still having trouble identifying the right opportunity to fully commit to. I would greatly appreciate any guidance or suggestions you might have in this area.>>
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10:13 #25 This one is real, if you not keeping the promise you made to yourself or often procrastinate what u need to do, you can slowly feel your confidence fading away ~ reminder for myself too
One of the best videos I have ever watched! In my late 60s. Worked for a Fortune 5 company and managed hundreds of people in my career and helped a large number of them with their careers. If I had access to this video when I was working I would have asked each employee (especially the young professionals) to watch it several weeks before a career discussion. Also, my wife and I raised three really smart, great children (an MD, a JD, and a Chem E). . I am sending the link to this video to all of my family, cousins too. As an aside, I started writing a book a few years ago on leading and managing people. I was really good at it but got so busy with other things after I retired I let it drop. You have motivated me to re-start the project. Will it be successful? I do want to help people but if others don't find it of interest or help, then so be it. I am going to do it anyway. Thanks again for this video!!! I wish I could get everyone to watch it. Even other old geezers like me. :) You done good!
I started my first job in 1985 and a few years later, I set the goal to have $1 million saved by the time I retired. I'm 3 years from retirement and hit that goal last year, but I now know I should have moved that goal post further out to $1.5 million or more. I remember as a kid thinking millionaires were these people who lived like demi-gods among all us serfs. Now I am one and still don't feel any different from a serf.
@@SehunEscobarSteady progress! A solid strategy is crucial for growth and minimizing taxes. After six months of getting affiliated with Stephanie Janis Stiefel , l'm averaging 35k a week . It's not huge, but it eases financial stress. Best of luck on your journey!
@@ColoGamerpro Oh! I know this FA, Stephanie Janis Stiefel but only by her reputation at Neuberger Berman ; even though she's now involved in managing portfolios and providing investmnt guidance to clients. I have been trying to get in contact since l watched her interview on WSJ last month.
You get used to it. lam a net worth seven figure guy for 6 years now. Actually had seven figures in all retirement accounts as of 2020. Had seven figures in just one account this year. I still drive the same car I bought 23 years ago. Everyone who sees me thinks I'm the poorest of the poor because I don't even wear a watch or "dress to impress" now.
@@SehunEscobarGreat share! Out of curiosity, I searched Stephanie Janis Stiefel online, found her consulting page ranked at the top, and scheduled a call session. I've read many reviews about advisors, but none seem as impressive as hers.
Great video, Dan, so many insights here for any youngsters out there. I found #1 to be insanely important … don’t get good at something you don’t even like!
All of them!! I will go for #14 "Be willing to be misunderstood for long periods of time to be successful" as right now, I'm persuading my dream of becoming a 3D animator and fully dedicating my time to my studies and attending to Tony Robbins events when most people around me don't understand. Thank you for your wisdom Dan and for your clarity to transform everyone around you.
Unfortunately, I have never had any guidance in life, I went out on my own at 19 and learnt many lessons but at this point in my life, 33, I am rebuilding myself. I realised a long time ago that everything is in my hands and now investing in my own self development the change I feel is profound. Thank you for this video, I've set a small goal to listen to this every day for 365 days! I can't wait to reflect on where I am now to who I will be then ❤
This is such a powerful and wide-ranging list of lessons-it’s like a masterclass on personal growth in one sitting. The emphasis on self-awareness and intentionality really stands out. For example, the point about not dimming your light for others (lesson 18) resonates deeply. So many people hold back to avoid making others uncomfortable, but staying authentic is a form of leadership that inspires others to level up too. The advice about treating your body like a thoroughbred horse (lesson 3) is a game changer. It’s easy to forget that health is the foundation for everything else we want to achieve. The comparison to how sick people only have one goal-getting healthy-puts things into perspective. The idea of being "blissfully dissatisfied" (lesson 37) strikes such a nice balance. Gratitude for where you are combined with hunger for more feels like the key to staying motivated without falling into burnout or complacency. That mindset is something I want to cultivate more intentionally. Lastly, the point about life being a mirror (lesson 40) is such a profound way to shift focus inward. Instead of blaming external circumstances, seeing everything as a reflection of your own actions and mindset gives you back control. It’s humbling but empowering at the same time.
Appreciate this wisdom and realness so much. As you know, many of us do not have father figures that were in our life or father figures that had access to information and communities that could have liberated them to venture down a road that didn't consist of working the same low paid job for 30 years +. May many blessings come to you and your family for the support that you have given to me and others that want to make a difference but were lacking the insights from individuals like yourself who could relate to our struggles.
Every single point you made is intertwined all together. This video is an absolute masterpiece. So much wisdom and insight in such a short clip. Thank you SO much! 5 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I just subscribed and now downloaded this one. Spot on!
Always see you on DDE and liked your vibe. So watching a video of yours when it popped up was a no brainer. I’m going through it with a girl. We’re not in the position to be together at the moment, but I’d be lying if I said there wasn’t strong tension. I’m in a very tough spot and shes been distant which makes sense given the circumstances on her end. I overthink a lot, and so point 21 really helps. I’m just convincing myself to think positive intent with everything. She’s the sweetest person I know, but recently I’ve been subconsciously convincing myself that she’s just bad and it’s ruining my image of her. I’m constantly assuming ill intent. It’s a bad spot to be in because now I’m in an internal conflict.
The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich " . These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.
It is remarkable how much long term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent.
The wisest thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on government paycheck, especially with the current economic crisis around the world.
Even with the right technique and assets some investors would still make more than others. As an investor, you should've known that by now that nothing beats experience and that's final. Personally I had to reach out to a stock expert for guidance which is how I was able to grow my account close to $35k, withdraw my profit right before the correction and now I'm buying again.
If you want to be successful and do things that you’ve never done before you have to become a person that you’ve never been before. You can start today. You can start right now you can start tomorrow, but you don’t have to be the same person ever again.
In 2019 I went into $1M in debt to buy a business. Then I immediately had a stroke. Then Covid hit and changed everything. Where am I now? At my desk, working. These events seemed like the end of everything, but turned out to be my greatest blessing. I got through it. I have zero debt. I am healthy again. I am actually proud of myself. It's a crazy feeling, I recommend it.
Hi, I am Madhav from India. I am 20 and I don't have any friends that I can trust on. I have always found people trying to push themselves into my life for sometime and then suddenly they just disappear. I hate myself thinking that I made some mistakes which resulted in them leaving. I am lonely and always have been most of my life. I have a very loving family though. They don't care what am I, they just love me unconditionally. Guide me please.
1. Don't make the mistake of becoming good at something you hate. 2. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. 3. Your body is the only one you have, take care of it. 4. Stay close to people that want more for you not from you.
This guy is like the final boss of self motivation! 😎💪🔥 I turned 30 and my life is worse than when I was 25. heck even 24! I'll watch this video every night before going to bed until I grasp and apply all the principles in my life, good wisdom! 🌌
I am 22 years old and lost my dad about half a year ago and I am going to receive some money soon. Would it be smart to grow my money in stocks for a few years while I am in college and then invest in rental properties afterwards, or should I go for real estate investing first?
The investments I like to deal with are the ones that have a high ROI, these truly help me feel like I'm getting the best from my investment. Perhaps you should discuss with a financial advisor, that helps too.
I agree, the role of the advisors can only be overlooked, but not denied. I'm 60 and newly retired with about $650k in retirement funds, quite a little amount compared to my investment portfolio. You just have to do due diligence in picking the right advisor.
this is awesome! I am looking to achieve an optimal portfolio and probably diversify, would like to know the benefit of a financial advisor, mind sharing info of yours please?
Katherine Nance Dietz is the licensed advisor I use. Just google the name and you'd find basic info. To be honest, I almost didn't buy the idea of letting someone handle growing my finance, but so glad I did.
excellent share, curiously copied and pasted Katherine Nance Dietz on the web, spotted her consulting page ranked top and was able to schedule a call session. Ive seen commentaries about advisors but not one looks this phenomenal
I'm currently 21 years old listening to this. I've been following some of these tips already but there are a lot more of these that I can take on that'll improve my life. Thanks heaps Dan!
I'm 16, and aware of the potential that I hold, but I let a lot of things subconsciously get in the way. Thank you for making this video, even though I already knew most of these things, it truly changed my perspective on life. Thank you again, you're amazing!
I love how this man talks about God. Most sales guys, entrepreneurs, and life coaches only talk about having influence, status, and money, but God is absent from their content and their lives. Very good stuff.
lvl up rly has some merit. I had quit my ok job after landing a great one and decided to go on holiday before starting it. While on holiday i broke my leg started smoking weed and when i got back i had lost friends and continued smoking weed to cope with stuff and didn't perform well losing my job, friends and health. Went from lvling up to lvling down.
Hi! I’m excited to be here in your channel and I’m interested in learning more about investing and saving up for my retirement but am a little confused about the whole process. Any advice or tips to get me started up would be greatly appreciated.
Retirement is now more difficult than it was in the past. I've been saving for a long time instead of investing, and right now I only have about $400K. considering all the inflation, i'm thinking of investing in stocks, i dont just have idea on market strategies.
The increasing prices have impacted my plan to retire at 62, work part-time, and save for the future. I'm concerned about whether those who navigated the 2008 financial crisis had an easier time than I am currently experiencing. The combination of stock market volatility and a decrease in income is causing anxiety about whether I'll have sufficient funds for retirement.
This is precisely why I like having a portfolio coach guide my day-to-day market decisions: with their extensive knowledge of going long and short at the same time, using risk for its asymmetrical upside and laying it off as a hedge against the inevitable downward turns, their skillset makes it nearly impossible for them to underperform. I've been utilizing a portfolio coach for more than two years, and I've made over $800k
I started watching the video because of the title, I couldn't stop watching it, wow, it is inspiring, now I'm going to watch it again to take notes, thank you very much, greetings from Mexico
Damn brother , this is theee best straight forward no b.s. video I have ever watched. It’s exactly what I needed to hear, and you pointed out everything I kind of knew but couldn’t put finger on it. Thanks
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That's what I wish I knew in my 20s!
Let me know your biggest takeaway in the comments below:)
Love your stuff Dan. Side note: you are the king of the double is. "the thing is is" Lol
What an amazing video again Dan, you trully inspire greatness
This video provided me with a great value you keep it up 🎉
18,24 .! Most of them really helpful. Thank you:)
Addiction to the expansion of my being so profound 💯
1. Don’t become good at something you hate.
2. Go to bed and wake up at the exact same time every day.
3. Take care of your body; it’s the only one you have.
4. Stay close to people who want more for you, not from you.
5. Normalize leaving people in the reality they’ve chosen.
6. Being humble is thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself.
7. You get tested the most when it’s your time to level up.
8. Improve yourself daily-make that your only addiction.
9. You teach people how to treat you.
10. Admit you’ve walked through the wrong door instead of staying in the wrong room.
11. Waiting for a sign is a sign.
12. Nothing you’ve gone through has made you weaker.
13. Everything wants you when you want nothing.
14. Be willing to be misunderstood for long periods of time to be successful.
15. When things get easy, go hard.
16. Only ask for advice from people who have been where you want to go.
17. The word “No” is a complete sentence.
18. Don’t dim your light to make others comfortable.
19. Have a primary aim for your life.
20. Stop reading books, start studying them.
21. Always assume positive intent.
22. Put your own mask on first before helping others.
23. Look for problems, don’t avoid them.
24. Your new life will cost you your old one.
25. Confidence comes from keeping commitments you make to yourself in private.
26. Dedicate a decade, not a day, to your goals.
27. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
28. Tell people about themselves; acknowledge their strengths.
29. If you keep running into bad people, you may be the problem.
30. Avoid drama and gossip at all costs.
31. Fear gives bad advice.
32. It’s never too late to change.
33. Get rid of all your vices.
34. If you’re addicted to your phone, your life isn’t interesting enough.
35. Take on as much responsibility as you can.
36. Don’t blame anyone else but yourself for your circumstances.
37. Be blissfully dissatisfied with where you’re at in life.
38. Make time for what matters to you.
39. Respect comes from admiration, not fear.
40. Life is a mirror, not a window.
Make use.
Omg thank you this really saves time
You are very generous to write this out something positive will come to you.... here is the first one, I think you're awesome!
@@pierrehanna1567 it's just ai my friend. SO I can't really claim the credit. I hope it was helpful overall.
Are you scared to mention that he said he "turned to God"?
#1 is stay away from narcissistic. First off do you know what the look and sound like? Research Narcissistic and save yourself a lifetime of Yo Yo interactions
This channel delivered what private channels/groups failed to give, and all for free.
Dan Martell is my favorite YT channel alongside Mark Tilbury
I share your sentiments; after a month of watching this channel, I've learned a tremendous amount. Effective guidance is critical for success.
I'm still thinking about beginning my investment journey, but I feel a bit overwhelmed and uncertain. Do you have any friendly tips or suggestions for people I could reach out to for guidance?
The strategies are rigorous for the regular person. In fact, they are primarily executed successfully by professionals who possess a great deal of expertise and knowledge to carry out such trades effectively.
It’s a smart decision to seek advice and guidance from financial experts like Kathryn Denise Isernhagen on how to adjust your investments
It’s a smart decision to seek advice and guidance from financial experts like Kathryn Denise Isernhagen on how to adjust your investments
34-year-old entrepreneur here and I will tell anyone in their 20s, pay attention because this video is 100% straight truth bomb after truth bomb.
Yes
Yup and then one day we die and all of it wont matter at all.
did you even hit mythic once?🤣🤣🤣
exactly, every point he said is the truth, this is all you need in life. Have listened countless podcasts and have changed my habits from past one year and This guy said all the things I learnt in my journey. Especially about cutting of people and staying away from drama.
Lucky you let us all know you’re an “entrepreneur” 😂 can’t you just say you agree with the video?
Success is a journey, not a destination, and it's paved with the actions you take. Building wealth isn't about luck; it's about consistent, intentional steps. One of the most powerful habits is regular saving. By setting aside money consistently, you create a foundation for solid investments.
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth, investing remains a priority. I learnt from my last year's experience, I was able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time.
Remember, bigger risks often mean bigger rewards. However, high-value investments or wealth creation often require expertise and careful planning. While anyone can dream big, it's the consistent, informed actions that lead to long-term success.
What steps can I take to engage in this opportunity? I genuinely aim to secure my financial future as i age and i'm enthusiastic about taking part.
There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with “Sonya Lee Mitchell” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.
I just googled her and I'm really impressed with her credentials; I reached out to her since I need all the assistance I can get. I just scheduled a caII.
Every day that passes I'm constantly thinking of ways to increase my passive income Because I know that I don't want to work until I'm 60. So, I'm doing everything in my power early on to increase the money I make while I'm not working.
My advice for financial growth this year: invest. While saving is important, investing can significantly boost your finances. Thanks to my CFP, my portfolio is thriving, and I'm proud of the decisions I made last year.
Nice. People often underestimate the importance of financial advisors. Data spanning over 50 years reveals that those who work with advisors typically earn more than those who go it alone. I've been fortunate to work with one for six years, resulting in a $3 million portfolio.
@@SeanTalkoff Who is this person guiding you and how can i reach them?
Sharon Ann Meny, is the licensed advisor I use and i'm just putting this out here because you asked. You can Just search the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment.
I searched for her name online and found her page. I emailed her and scheduled an appointment. Thanks for the tip.
You get tested the most when it's your time to level up: This is the possible game changer for most of our problems.
You know it!
Everything he said is true, but this one really resonated with me.
Indeed
Always happens to me. I get problems when I seem like I'm about to breakthrough. I have had 2 accidents when I'm about to land a fatty job.
Yeah, I thought that one was incredible and relatable. Just thinking about past experiences and how to push hard through.
Every point hit me at 100%
My dad told me when I was a teen “Don’t dim your light to make others feel better about themselves “
I can’t tell you how many times I heard that in my head. Especially during times of great success for myself.
The moment you feel that someone’s trying to dim your light, remove that person from your circle.
No matter who they are or how bad the consequences may be
Because there’s no greater consequence than losing yourself
#28!!! Be kind. Always
“Leaving people in their reality”
THAT is my new mantra
nothing special, classic "self help" advices
This video just ignited me in a way I haven’t felt for in years. “When Things Get Easy Go Hard” . Paid off 20 year mortgage in 5 years. Loss drive to reach higher. 2 years later due to lack of drive bought another property. 240 month amortization down to 84 months remaining in 3 years. Just bought a Toy Hauler and gonna enjoy life more. When I’m busy I thrive. This is the video I needed to see today!!! RESPECT
It’s crazy how many things we’re taught about money that just aren’t true. Why isn’t anyone talking about the book Zyphura Money by Hunter Zypher? It really opens your eyes. A lot of successful people mention it
Does it even exist?
Hey nice, a random scam.
The entire video can be GENERALIZED by this quote ------ Confidence Comes From Keeping The Commitments You Make To Yourself !!! ..... Thanks man you are doing a good thing may GOD be with you.
I haven't prayed in a while, and i thought I would last night, took one last look at my phone before going to bed, and saw this video. It covered a lot that i thought I'd pray about. God had already heard my prayer! Thanks for sharing this video.
"Everything wants you when you want nothing.." Thank you for this call - great video
Im already 31 yo, but this advices you give are pure gold and completely useful. You got a new sub.
Will definitely check out the rest of your content in your channel! Thanks!
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Success Secrets Of The Elite speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
Fascinating, I've never heard of this book. Living extremely frugally right now and wondering if it's worth the purchase? I'm admittedly a bit turned off by the "this book is disappearing soon!1" timer, but 782 likes isn't an insignificant number. (Btw when I say extremely frugally I mean I'm way below poverty level rn)
@@Ruifulify I read the book and I can says it good
I'm 52, and if I could tell my 20s self anything, it would be to invest more and worry less about frivolities and what other people think. Not that I'm doing badly, but it could have been better.
I am 40, doing well financially but I have never invested. I'm always afraid I will get it wrong and come out with less than I went in with and this fear was inspired by an experience in my 20's. I want to change this now especially as I want to start planning for retirement early but I don't still know how to go about it safely.
Your fears are in order... without fully grasping what you were doing you can actually lose all. The safest ways to go about it is either by first understanding the market or using a good fin. expert... I now make close to ten grand a month from mine and this is just my second year, but it took me several months of losing money to learn this.... Goodluck....
Emerson: been considering going into this for sometime now. heard its a nice way to make some extra funds. how do you get a good expert and how budget friendly are they
You should start by looking out for those with good track records... Also make sure the person is registered... Personally, I use Marie, Kelly Matwick. She's not so popular but you might have heard of her. And they're usually way cheaper than you would expect...
@@EmersonFranklin65 It is really a small world. I used to date Kelly in high school, one of the smart ones then lol . Had to go to her page to confirm that i wasn't mistaken. Nice!
There is this book I recently finished reading, it's called Casanova: The Path To Success. It's full of secrets about making your life better and my routines started to change so much! I appreciate people like you who wants other people to feel better about themselves.
What author?
just watch this video for free
ain't nobody got time to read a book
@@uuuultra nobody has time? 😂 you are seriously delusional
@@9ZxkrisxZ5 Author is David N, and you can find books on Casanovareads
@@uuuultra Ok, bro
If you wanna be successful, you most take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to make you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life.
The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional like I did. If you get the facts about saving and investing and follow through with an intelligent plan, you should be able to gain financial security over the years and enjoy the benefits of managing your money.
Safe to say not everybody has the skill to pursue investing. But it's always easy to follow the advice of someone who knows how to i.e a financial advisor. You could anywhere between 10--40k with the right ones. Online businesses are a good bet too if you are savvy.
@@mariaguerrero08Impressive can you share more info?
Making touch with financial advisors like “Izella Annette Anderson” who can assist you restructure your portfolio, would be a very creative option. Personal financial management will be crucial to navigating the next difficult times.
I just looked her up on the web and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing. I will write her an email shortly.
In my 50's now and am now a silent quitter, i found things and possessions dont make me happy neither does money, i wasted far too many years working hard missing out on life for what i thought were my dreams when in realty i was trying to be socially accepted, i am now at peace with a quiet life. One thing i have learnt is everyone is different just be happy with the path you choose ,one thing i am totally opposite to this guy is i dont look up to anybody we are all insignificant in this universe just be happy for the 80 odd years you are on this planet whatever you may do.
Every word of this! Live by this! It’s been 6 years since I chose me and started living by these same principles. People are now constantly asking me how I do it. It started with day one and a one mile walk in the morning, and since that day my life has been completely within my own control and the universe just flows with me! 💯❤💯
I've seen lots of videos talking about things they wish they knew in their 20s, but these are such insights that I want to watch them over and over again
Yesterday I was feeling so low , and I didn't want to lose hope, so I asked universe to give me a sign and this is the first video I saw in my feed today. Thank you for this.
(((HUGS))💕
The leaving someone in their reality - WITHOUT EMOTION! And you’ll be tested. Go forward anyway. So good.
Sometimes I feel like I’ll never get anywhere, but then I hear your words, and it gives me just enough reason to keep pushing.
So many people are dead inside and will never comprehend this. I think like this 100% of the time but I didn’t fully stop letting people into my head until my mid 40s. You start to realize other people hold you back with their own insecurities
2 things that helped me and literally changed my life
1. I started learning about Jewish Wealth
2. I read the book called 'Jewish Fifth Rule'
3. stopped using social networks
never thought a book could help me this much. highly recommend
Sorry, don’t make this about jews.
Audio book?
that's 3
Seeing how much people have praised this book recently, I'm hopeful it will help me with my intentions
I'm loving my retirement so far! My wife and I worked hard to reach this point - we're both retired, debt-free, and fortunate to have over $3 million in net worth. We achieved this through a saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market, which now generates weekly income for us. And now, we get to enjoy the fruits of our labor! We're traveling, golfing, and spending quality time with the grandkids. We feel grateful to be living smart and frugal, making the most of our golden years.
Absolutely! I'm in the same boat. I just got back from a road trip across the country. It's amazing how much energy and freedom we have now. Make the most of it, because it won't last forever!
I'm a young dad and I'm really glad to hear your story - it inspires me! I'm still working, but I'm counting down the days until I can enjoy my retirement Years. Can you please share your tips? What's the key to achieving this milestone and making the most of your retirement years? Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
Building a successful retirement requires discipline and strategy. Our journey's key takeaways include starting early, living below our means, diversifying investments, creating multiple income streams, planning for taxes, prioritizing relationships, and maintaining an active and healthy lifestyle.
Additionally consult with a fiduciary advisor, who can help grow your funds, Create a personalized plan and better prepare you for a successful retirement. we are with Tracy Britt Cool Consulting a US-based fiduciary. Check online if she meets your requirements.
< I know this FA you just mentioned. Tracy Britt Cool is a portfolio manager and investment advisor. She gained recognition as an employee of Berkshire Hattaway; a renowned investor she is. Ms Tracy has demonstrated expertise in investment strategies and has been involved in managing portfolios and providing guidance to clients.
the fact that nobody talks about the book called The Hidden Truths Of Wealth by oliver mercer speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
how can i get it?
Spam bots
@@mementomori29231 its fake ?🙄
i flood in money and never openned a book since freshman highschool ... youre wrong
@@Kimbionyupp
The greatest thing to quote that I've heard in a long time: "go look for bigger problems." Thanks for the words in this video
It's refreshing to hear someone promote taking personal responsibility and focusing on bigger issues rather than getting caught up in petty grievances. Let's embrace freedom of thought and action to tackle real challenges head on. #FreedomFirst
There's a book called Mastering the AI Money Game, and it talks about how using AI methods you can take advantage of almost every business today, it's the real deal.
AI trend is totally taking over I agree
I will check that out right now and give you my thoughts
I heard about it before, its banned discord server right?
I think its getting kinda too popular right now....
Do u have the pdf?
Thanks Dan, another great video. I needed to hear this one.
The 40 Brutal Truths
00:00 - Don't become good at what you hate - Focus on what you enjoy and delegate the rest.
00:25 - Go to bed and wake up at the same time daily - Consistency in sleep creates productivity.
00:43 - Your body is your only one - Take care of it like a valuable asset.
01:06 - Stay close to people who want more for you - Surround yourself with people who push you to grow.
01:30 - Let people stay in their reality - Don’t argue; focus on improving yourself.
02:06 - Humility is thinking of yourself less, not less of yourself - Serve others but don’t diminish your worth.
02:28 - You get tested when you're ready to level up - Challenges arise right before breakthroughs.
03:02 - Self-improvement is the best addiction - Strive to be 1% better every day.
03:32 - You teach people how to treat you - Set standards and communicate them early.
04:12 - Admit mistakes early - Don’t stay in the wrong situation longer than necessary.
04:39 - If you're waiting for a sign, that's the sign - You already know what you need to do.
05:07 - Hard times don’t weaken you - Challenges make you stronger.
05:29 - Abundance comes when you need nothing - Focus on what you can control.
05:55 - Be willing to be misunderstood - Visionaries are often misunderstood until they succeed.
06:21 - When things get easy, work harder - Don’t relax when you achieve success.
06:49 - Only take advice from people who have done it - Seek guidance from those who’ve succeeded.
07:20 - No is a complete sentence - Saying no now helps you focus on your future.
07:42 - Don’t dim your light for others - Be unapologetically yourself.
07:57 - Have a primary aim in life - Know your purpose, and it will fuel you.
08:16 - Study books, don’t just read them - Apply what you learn.
08:40 - Assume positive intent - It helps you stay focused and calm.
09:07 - Put your mask on first - You can’t help others if you don’t take care of yourself.
09:33 - Look for problems to solve - The size of your problems correlates with the size of your success.
09:48 - Your new life will cost you your old one - Growth requires leaving old habits and situations behind.
10:10 - Confidence comes from keeping commitments to yourself - Build confidence by honoring your promises.
10:37 - Dedicate a decade, not a day - Success comes from long-term dedication.
11:01 - Treat others as you want to be treated - Show respect and positivity to receive it back.
11:17 - Acknowledge others - A compliment can have a profound impact.
11:42 - If you keep encountering bad people, look inward - You may be the source of the drama.
12:05 - Avoid drama and gossip - High-level individuals steer clear of negativity.
12:26 - Fear gives bad advice - Don’t let fear guide your decisions; seek outside perspectives.
12:47 - It’s never too late to change - You can always decide to improve your life.
13:05 - Get rid of all your vices - Let go of things that hold you back.
13:24 - If you're addicted to your phone, your life isn’t interesting enough - Seek out real-world experiences.
13:48 - Take on as much responsibility as you can - Overwhelm teaches you how to grow.
14:10 - Don’t blame others - Take control of your life and decisions.
14:35 - Be blissfully dissatisfied - Be grateful for what you have but strive for more.
14:59 - Make time for what matters - Prioritize the important things in your calendar.
15:20 - Respect comes from admiration, not fear - Admire those who are givers, not those who instill fear.
15:54 - Life is a mirror - The world reflects who you are, so focus on improving yourself.
25 years old here, a software engineer trying to be better everyday and feeling overwhelmed, thank you a lot for such an amazing video
I haven’t given AF for most of my life. I’m 62 and it has only gotten stronger. People ! Don’t care what people think please. Be moral, kind and do the right thing and have integrity and DONT GAF . now that’s bliss
I think this is important, too much time can be wasted worrying about the opinions of others. What someone thinks of us shouldn’t even be our concern, if we truly believe we are doing our best then that’s what matters. Always be a kind person but do not lot others invade your mind and change your mood or outlook in a negative way. If you let them in it will take a lot from you like this guy said, energy vampires, and they’re all around us.
28 hits personally. I had a homeless guy tell me i was about to end it all but you were the guy that kept saying hi to me every day anc i felt worthy from someone. Deep shit man
This was refreshingly impressive. It’s 40 rules of emotional maturity, essentially. Kudos, keep spreading messages that will benefit mental health.
I'm 64, in Malaysia where I've lived my whole life. Have to say that this is a very useful video not just for those in their 20s but EVERYONE.
I'm offering a broader perspective on rule #16 "Only ask for advice from people who've been where you want to go".
I agree that advice from accomplished people can be valuable, but so can the advice from people who have failed in the earnest attempt to achieve the same goals you're trying to achieve. Don't discount the wisdom of someone who tried and failed, but who can also tell you where he or she went wrong. Sometimes success is built on the lessons learned from the failures of others.
In other words, don't just learn from those who can tell you how they achieved success so that you can emulate them. Also learn from those who can tell you how they failed, so as not to repeat their mistakes. There are more wrong ways to do something than there are right ways. It's helpful to know a bit of both.
Amazing , I agree with you
Yeah I agree. Plus what happens if you don’t know anybody successful or the only successful person you know doesn’t have time for you?
Great advice! Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!
Just checked your channel garageman brutal training keep it up grandpa 🔥
Whoever told you, you were to old can go get stuffed.
You just inspired me! Thank you 😅
Just subbed to you for this comment!!😊
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
Do you not others. Be yourself that’s what’s best path too happy. Narcissistic though? Impossible too ever be happy. They seek drama and are absolutely phoney happy
just watch this video for free
nobody got time to read books 😂
Didn't that moron receive over 400 million dollars from an inheritance and then go bankrupt 6 times
@@Richard-l7z who?
I love this video. At the right-old age of 46, I agree with all of these. One good advice I can share which is related to a several of these 40 truths is in regards to narcissists. Whether in friendship or in a relationship, if the other person seems fake, blows hot and cold, showers you with attention but then disappears, seems to play games, take forever to reply to messages - challenge them early on, call out their behaviour and see how they respond. If they make your challenge the problem and keep showing you the above behaviours, just run and leave them where they are. It doesn't matter how much you shower them with love and positivity, they will just take and will not return it. Spend your time and energy on people who want more for you (Truth #2)
There is a point here I realised a number of years ago, and it is super valuable.
I used to get very angry in traffic, and one day thought, what if he’s just gotten a phone call to say his sun is being taken to hospital.
It changed how I “do” traffic.
If I don’t want to be in a rush, I must leave on time, with a buffer in case there is a problem.
If I didn’t leave on time, it’s my fault, I shouldn’t get agro with anyone else in traffic.
Also, if I leave early, I have extra time. If someone cuts me off, so what. Someone else needs to change lanes, I slow down, I’ve got time.
Just from that one thought the one time.
I don’t watch your videos .. I study them , honestly. Every video is filled with so much of guidance , mentoring and advise that they need to be watched several times till you imbibe them fully. I am following the same principle now while reading books .. I am studying them and have started noticing changes , great work Dan as always !
Thanks !!
Wow. Thanks 🙏
Yes! And all for free. Well, it’ll cost you your old life.
Every point hit me at 100%
My dad told me when I was a teen “Don’t dim your light to make others feel better about themselves “
I can’t tell you how many times I heard that in my head. Especially during times of great success for myself.
The moment you feel that someone’s trying to dim your light, remove that person from your circle.
No matter who they are or how bad the consequences may be
Because there’s no greater consequence than losing yourself
#28!!! Be kind. Always
1. Dont make the mistake of becoming good at something you hate
when you get good at something that you like doing you can pay somebody else to take the things that you hate doing
2. Go to bed and wake up at the exact same time everyday
3. Your body is the only one you have. Take care of it
4. Stay close to people that want more for you, not more from you.
Friendventory
5. Normalize leaving people in whatever reality they have chosen.
That energy is better invested surrounding myself with people that are also on that shared journey
6. Being humble isn't about thinking less of yourself. It's about thinking of yourself less.
7. You get tested the most when it's time for you to level up.
8. Improving yourself daily is the only addiction you need.
9. Teach people how to treat you
10. It's better to admit you've walked through the wrong door than spend time in the wrong room.
11. You waiting for a sign is a sign.
12. Nothing you've gone through has made you weaker.
13. Everything wants you when you want nothing.
The person that has the most power, the most confidence, the most status in the room is the person that needs nothing from anybody else, when you comes as somebody needy, it feels that way
this is the definition of abundance
14. Be willing to be misunderstood for long periods of time to be successful
15. When things get easy go hard
16. Only ask for advice from people who've been where you want to go.
17. The word no is a complete sentence.
18. Don't dim your light to make other people feel comfortable
19. Have a primary aim for your life
20. Stop reading books, start studying them.
21. Always assume positive intent.
22. Put your mask on before helping others.
23. Look for problems, don't avoid them.
The size of your life is correlated to the size of the problems you have
24. Your new life will cost you your old one
25. Confidence comes from keeping the commitments you make to yourself
26. Dedicate a decade not a day.
27. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
28. Tell people about them.
29. If you keep running into bad people, you might be the problem.
30. Avoid drama and gossip at all costs
31. Fear gives bad advice
32. It's never too late to change
33. Get rid of all your vices.
34. If you're addicted to your phone, your life isn't interesting enough
35. Take on as much responsibility as you can.
36. Don't blame anybody else but yourself
37. Be blissfully dissatisfied with where you're at in life.
You can have gratitude and at the same time realize that you were created for more
38. Make time for what matters to you
39. Respect comes from admiration not fear
40. Life is a mirror not a window.
Number 36 is so wrong. Victims of perpetrators are not to blame; it's the perpetrators. That's like saying "she shouldn't have been wearing that skirt." People can ruin other people's lives, and it's not the victims' faults.
@@JohnSmith-ns6dpThats really nit picking the rule lol. Obviously the guy probably didnt mean grape or assault
scenerio. He just saying analyze what you could’ve controlled in a situation where something bad had happened to you like lost a job, gained weight, losing a gf/bf. Hes saying in moments of loss focus on what YOU can control by analyzing your actiongs. The point blew over your head
@@xxrubberduckyxx4949 Listen to what he said again in the video about not blaming anyone but yourself. "I'm talking anybody. I'm talking all circumstances." All circumstances include being a victim of a crime. There are countless scenarios where others have total power over your life, and none of it is your fault. It's a ridiculous point.
@@JohnSmith-ns6dpridiculous. Victim mentality is the worst mentality you can have. Doesn't matter what life throws at you. Not having a victim mentality is key to success.
41. Stop Watching RUclips Videos.
That last statement hits hard, especially when people you’re surrounded with carries that mentality of comparing themselves to others. Thus, it rubs off on you eventually. I’ll remind myself of this from now on. Thank you.
Just shared this with my 20 and 17 yr old sons. First post that came on my feed never heard of you and felt you came at just the right time. Much gratitude 🙏🏻
“21. Always assume positive intent.” Man, this one is a very useful tool to minimise stress and keep your sanity :)
22. Hawk tua
"You teach people how to treat you."
^ Is the best advice I've heard this year.
Don't let folks overstep your boundaries just to please others.
❤
I’m a 22 yr old and after watching this video you woke me up I really wanna say thanks I’m going to change my life not for me but for my kids🙇🏾♂️
Dude you're so young you can do things too
22 is a great age to make change.
I'm 25 and I was on a roll but after I got a job at 22 I feel like I've lost that drive to improve everyday and got complacent.
I'm still trying to salvage it!
#5 really hits home for me. I'm 40, I still have a lot of expectations of the people around me and get frustrated when those expectations aren't met.
I'm learning how to let go of the anger, any tactics you used to reach that point would be awesome if you're willing to share.
Great video!
It's important to realize that we can't control others, only ourselves. Letting go of anger and expectations leads to personal freedom. Understanding that we can't force others to meet our standards is key to inner peace and growth.
@ClovisStarNews i appreciate your response and will certainly take it to heart!
God bless you. I needed all of this advice. As a 31 year old business owner, father and husband. I find it so hard but you’ve made me realise where I am lacking
‘Improving yourself daily is the only addiction you need’ is such a powerful statement. Discipline and self-refinement truly pave the way to lasting success
Your videos have been truly impressive! As one of your regular viewers, I've been following your content closely for a while now. I'm very interested in making an investment, but I’m still having trouble identifying the right opportunity to fully commit to. I would greatly appreciate any guidance or suggestions you might have in this area.>>
As a beginner investor, having a mentor to hold you accountable is crucial. Personally, I’m guided by Gregory Leo Cattel, a well-known crypto consultant. While I can't share much about him, I recommend searching his name online to find the details you need to schedule an appointment.
I started working with Coach Gregory Leo Cattel back in August, and my financial goals have never been clearer. It’s like having a strategic partner for my money with a solid track record.
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I just Googled his name and his website came up right away. It looks interesting so far. I sent him an email and i hope he responds soon.
10:13 #25 This one is real, if you not keeping the promise you made to yourself or often procrastinate what u need to do, you can slowly feel your confidence fading away ~ reminder for myself too
So true. And that thing happens so fast, you can really notice and feel it.
One of the best videos I have ever watched! In my late 60s. Worked for a Fortune 5 company and managed hundreds of people in my career and helped a large number of them with their careers. If I had access to this video when I was working I would have asked each employee (especially the young professionals) to watch it several weeks before a career discussion. Also, my wife and I raised three really smart, great children (an MD, a JD, and a Chem E). . I am sending the link to this video to all of my family, cousins too.
As an aside, I started writing a book a few years ago on leading and managing people. I was really good at it but got so busy with other things after I retired I let it drop. You have motivated me to re-start the project. Will it be successful? I do want to help people but if others don't find it of interest or help, then so be it. I am going to do it anyway. Thanks again for this video!!! I wish I could get everyone to watch it. Even other old geezers like me. :) You done good!
I turned 20 yesterday.... I needed to see this. This is setting the tone for the decade to come. Thank you
I started my first job in 1985 and a few years later, I set the goal to have $1 million saved by the time I retired. I'm 3 years from retirement and hit that goal last year, but I now know I should have moved that goal post further out to $1.5 million or more.
I remember as a kid thinking millionaires were these people who lived like demi-gods among all us serfs. Now I am one and still don't feel any different from a serf.
I would really love to know how much work you did to put in to get this stage
@@SehunEscobarSteady progress! A solid strategy is crucial for growth and minimizing taxes. After six months of getting affiliated with Stephanie Janis Stiefel , l'm averaging 35k a week . It's not huge, but it eases financial stress. Best of luck on your journey!
@@ColoGamerpro Oh! I know this FA, Stephanie Janis Stiefel but only by her reputation at Neuberger Berman
; even though she's now involved in managing portfolios and providing investmnt guidance to clients. I have been trying to get in contact since l watched her interview on WSJ last month.
You get used to it. lam a net worth seven figure guy for 6 years now. Actually had seven figures in all retirement accounts as of 2020. Had seven figures in just one account this year. I still drive the same car I bought 23 years ago. Everyone who sees me thinks I'm the poorest of the poor because I don't even wear a watch or
"dress to impress" now.
@@SehunEscobarGreat share! Out of curiosity, I searched Stephanie Janis Stiefel online, found her consulting page ranked at the top, and scheduled a call session. I've read many reviews about advisors, but none seem as impressive as hers.
Great video, Dan, so many insights here for any youngsters out there. I found #1 to be insanely important … don’t get good at something you don’t even like!
Yup!
All of them!!
I will go for #14 "Be willing to be misunderstood for long periods of time to be successful" as right now, I'm persuading my dream of becoming a 3D animator and fully dedicating my time to my studies and attending to Tony Robbins events when most people around me don't understand.
Thank you for your wisdom Dan and for your clarity to transform everyone around you.
You have the power in you. Don't need to attend Tony Robbins events. Wish you success in 3D animation!
Unfortunately, I have never had any guidance in life, I went out on my own at 19 and learnt many lessons but at this point in my life, 33, I am rebuilding myself. I realised a long time ago that everything is in my hands and now investing in my own self development the change I feel is profound.
Thank you for this video, I've set a small goal to listen to this every day for 365 days!
I can't wait to reflect on where I am now to who I will be then ❤
This is such a powerful and wide-ranging list of lessons-it’s like a masterclass on personal growth in one sitting. The emphasis on self-awareness and intentionality really stands out. For example, the point about not dimming your light for others (lesson 18) resonates deeply. So many people hold back to avoid making others uncomfortable, but staying authentic is a form of leadership that inspires others to level up too.
The advice about treating your body like a thoroughbred horse (lesson 3) is a game changer. It’s easy to forget that health is the foundation for everything else we want to achieve. The comparison to how sick people only have one goal-getting healthy-puts things into perspective.
The idea of being "blissfully dissatisfied" (lesson 37) strikes such a nice balance. Gratitude for where you are combined with hunger for more feels like the key to staying motivated without falling into burnout or complacency. That mindset is something I want to cultivate more intentionally.
Lastly, the point about life being a mirror (lesson 40) is such a profound way to shift focus inward. Instead of blaming external circumstances, seeing everything as a reflection of your own actions and mindset gives you back control. It’s humbling but empowering at the same time.
Appreciate this wisdom and realness so much. As you know, many of us do not have father figures that were in our life or father figures that had access to information and communities that could have liberated them to venture down a road that didn't consist of working the same low paid job for 30 years +. May many blessings come to you and your family for the support that you have given to me and others that want to make a difference but were lacking the insights from individuals like yourself who could relate to our struggles.
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
piss of bot
Any idea where to find it?
@@dansonthunderbolt3503in the trash
It's Not Real. It's A Scam
2:39 this is so real I just started doing a workout and I got sick and fell from my skateboard so now I’m taking a break but asap I’ll start again
Being humble isnt about thinking less of yourself its thinking of yourslelf less....that is deep
Every single point you made is intertwined all together. This video is an absolute masterpiece. So much wisdom and insight in such a short clip.
Thank you SO much!
5 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I just subscribed and now downloaded this one. Spot on!
Always see you on DDE and liked your vibe. So watching a video of yours when it popped up was a no brainer. I’m going through it with a girl. We’re not in the position to be together at the moment, but I’d be lying if I said there wasn’t strong tension. I’m in a very tough spot and shes been distant which makes sense given the circumstances on her end. I overthink a lot, and so point 21 really helps. I’m just convincing myself to think positive intent with everything. She’s the sweetest person I know, but recently I’ve been subconsciously convincing myself that she’s just bad and it’s ruining my image of her. I’m constantly assuming ill intent. It’s a bad spot to be in because now I’m in an internal conflict.
I'm in Exactly the same Situation 😮
The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich " . These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.
Money invested is far better than money saved , when you invest it gives you the opportunity to increase your financial worth.
It is remarkable how much long term
advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid,
instead of trying to be very intelligent.
The wisest thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on government paycheck, especially with the current economic crisis around the world.
Many individuals report success in investing in stocks,fx, yet I continue to struggle.Can somebody help me out or advise me on what to do?
Even with the right technique and assets some investors would still make more than others. As an investor, you should've known that by now that nothing beats experience and that's final. Personally I had to reach out to a stock expert for guidance which is how I was able to grow my account close to $35k, withdraw my profit right before the correction and now I'm buying again.
My biggest takeaway is that I need to listen to this every day until it's seared into my spirit !!!!
“When things get easy go hard” yea i definitely needed to hear that
You’re NOT addicted to developing yourself! You’re passionate about it. Addiction requires the presence of severe adverse consequences
Thank you, I’m 20, I needed this , very great advice!
If you want to be successful and do things that you’ve never done before you have to become a person that you’ve never been before.
You can start today. You can start right now you can start tomorrow, but you don’t have to be the same person ever again.
In 2019 I went into $1M in debt to buy a business. Then I immediately had a stroke. Then Covid hit and changed everything. Where am I now? At my desk, working. These events seemed like the end of everything, but turned out to be my greatest blessing. I got through it. I have zero debt. I am healthy again. I am actually proud of myself. It's a crazy feeling, I recommend it.
Hi, I am Madhav from India. I am 20 and I don't have any friends that I can trust on. I have always found people trying to push themselves into my life for sometime and then suddenly they just disappear. I hate myself thinking that I made some mistakes which resulted in them leaving. I am lonely and always have been most of my life. I have a very loving family though. They don't care what am I, they just love me unconditionally. Guide me please.
You have become my addiction😀 Love your advices❤
Appreciate you!
1. Don't make the mistake of becoming good at something you hate.
2. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day.
3. Your body is the only one you have, take care of it.
4. Stay close to people that want more for you not from you.
This guy is like the final boss of self motivation! 😎💪🔥
I turned 30 and my life is worse than when I was 25. heck even 24!
I'll watch this video every night before going to bed until I grasp and apply all the principles in my life, good wisdom! 🌌
Godly Man. Godly Wisdom. Practicing Excellence every day. ❤
Oh I wish I'd heard this one I was not retired...
Such great advice
It's never too late to get back in the game
I am 22 years old and lost my dad about half a year ago and I am going to receive some money soon. Would it be smart to grow my money in stocks for a few years while I am in college and then invest in rental properties afterwards, or should I go for real estate investing first?
The investments I like to deal with are the ones that have a high ROI, these truly help me feel like I'm getting the best from my investment. Perhaps you should discuss with a financial advisor, that helps too.
I agree, the role of the advisors can only be overlooked, but not denied. I'm 60 and newly retired with about $650k in retirement funds, quite a little amount compared to my investment portfolio. You just have to do due diligence in picking the right advisor.
this is awesome! I am looking to achieve an optimal portfolio and probably diversify, would like to know the benefit of a financial advisor, mind sharing info of yours please?
Katherine Nance Dietz is the licensed advisor I use. Just google the name and you'd find basic info. To be honest, I almost didn't buy the idea of letting someone handle growing my finance, but so glad I did.
excellent share, curiously copied and pasted Katherine Nance Dietz on the web, spotted her consulting page ranked top and was able to schedule a call session. Ive seen commentaries about advisors but not one looks this phenomenal
I'm currently 21 years old listening to this. I've been following some of these tips already but there are a lot more of these that I can take on that'll improve my life. Thanks heaps Dan!
I'm 16, and aware of the potential that I hold, but I let a lot of things subconsciously get in the way. Thank you for making this video, even though I already knew most of these things, it truly changed my perspective on life. Thank you again, you're amazing!
You're so welcome!
I love how this man talks about God. Most sales guys, entrepreneurs, and life coaches only talk about having influence, status, and money, but God is absent from their content and their lives. Very good stuff.
Yes, I haven't even watched the content yet but I can see the light in his eyes! Most content creators have an empty look.
Inform yourself about the bible and god and how ridiculous and pathetic that concept is.
Fax first video like this seen talk about God but most of them talk bout biblical principles
Rule 1 - keep thy religion to thyself!
He's not a real Christian.
These motivational youtubers never tell us what they actually do.
I noticed that too they also never explains how to get rich either.
@@winnb4968 Cause there is not one way to become rich, becoming rich is a dedication
@@winnb4968 he’s literally giving u steps
Take steroids and grind at night
That is because there is no blueprint that apply to everyone.
Just like rule #1 dont get good at something you dont like doing
The 1st brutal truth: Stop listening to randos on the internet and do your own thing
Yss everyones reality is different
I am in that road, a change on my life and only myself can do it and no-one else. Keep doing Dan.
lvl up rly has some merit. I had quit my ok job after landing a great one and decided to go on holiday before starting it. While on holiday i broke my leg started smoking weed and when i got back i had lost friends and continued smoking weed to cope with stuff and didn't perform well losing my job, friends and health. Went from lvling up to lvling down.
Hi! I’m excited to be here in your channel and I’m interested in learning more about investing and saving up for my retirement but am a little confused about the whole process. Any advice or tips to get me started up would be greatly appreciated.
Retirement is now more difficult than it was in the past. I've been saving for a long time instead of investing, and right now I only have about $400K. considering all the inflation, i'm thinking of investing in stocks, i dont just have idea on market strategies.
The increasing prices have impacted my plan to retire at 62, work part-time, and save for the future. I'm concerned about whether those who navigated the 2008 financial crisis had an easier time than I am currently experiencing. The combination of stock market volatility and a decrease in income is causing anxiety about whether I'll have sufficient funds for retirement.
This is precisely why I like having a portfolio coach guide my day-to-day market decisions: with their extensive knowledge of going long and short at the same time, using risk for its asymmetrical upside and laying it off as a hedge against the inevitable downward turns, their skillset makes it nearly impossible for them to underperform. I've been utilizing a portfolio coach for more than two years, and I've made over $800k
Mind if I ask you to recommend this particular coach you using their service?
Her name is Patricia Strain. Just research the name. You'd find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
I dont need to be a millionaire, I just need to stop being taxed so goddamn much that 30/hr isn't a livable wage anymore.
THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING THANK YOU!
I started watching the video because of the title, I couldn't stop watching it, wow, it is inspiring, now I'm going to watch it again to take notes, thank you very much, greetings from Mexico
Damn brother , this is theee best straight forward no b.s. video I have ever watched. It’s exactly what I needed to hear, and you pointed out everything I kind of knew but couldn’t put finger on it. Thanks
i love your content bro
Appreciate ya!
The fact that nobody talks about forbidden book called Hidden Laws Of The Game is crazyy
@@JucezThe fact that he is a scammer bot 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
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ben said that
3k likes no wonder will always be poor😂
How come nobody talks about the book🤔. How come you are able to advertise the book 😂. I smile conspiracy 😉
10:51 a decade of drinking 🍻
I usually skip mid video but I listen to this video start to finish with no interruption. Great video!
Wow. In just 16 minutes a true blueprint for a fulfilled, successful and happy life. Thank you Dan!
This was inspiring as a 26-year old
3:55 - sometimes people do it very intentionally!
walk away from such people..