Zoey you are amazing, my father in law once said to me children will not remember what you buy them but they will remember how you loved them. And you and Ben are the most loving parents. Even with Joseph behavior you are so loving towards it. What gets done gets done don't put a lot of pressure on yourself. My prayers for you is that you and Ben find a wonderful home that fits your family.
Hi Zoe you need a dehumidifier on to keep the mould at bay especially at this time of year.. We do & what a difference it makes also helps with drying the washing which is a bonus too.. x
You are doing a remarkable job! Try not to be so hard on yourself! I want to just thank you for bringing attention to anxiety and depression because it is prevalent in our society. I have an autistic son and suffer from OCD Depression and anxiety, and I can totally relate to your day-to-day challenges, but I have to say you are a remarkable strong woman and you literally have the energy of 5 momma's! You are a beautiful soul, and I am so glad to have found your channel. Much love from Tennessee dear heart! Blessings and light. xoxoxo
Zoe, bless you, Breathe.... you have so much on your plate and making everything run smoothly for the family. You do an amazing job! Just remember to breathe pet xxxx love from Looe, Cornwall.
Your first base should be the school (ive been there !) You need the school on ur side as they are the ones who can get serious help for your family and of course ur son. Its your gateway for help. Eventually, if needs be, a diagnosis which in turn will also mean more help. You are not on ur own with this. lts a journey thousands of us go through every year. Just remember this, you have done nothing wrong and help is there babe xx
You get more done by 9 am than most of us do all day! When you talk about deep cleaning- I thought I can’t imagine that there is a speck of dirt anywhere in your house!! You are so clean and organized. I really enjoyed this video Zoe. You really are a wonderful, amazing woman!!! 💖
You have a remarkable sense of how to get things done, or, partially done and returned to to get finished. Very organized, and inspiring. It’s so easy to get overwhelmed, to get “paralyzed” with what needs to be done, and you see how to break it down, find success in it.
I feel you...every day I begin with determination to complete the tasks I've set for myself. By midday I tend to find I haven't gotten done what I intended. I truly think it's a foggy brain after-effect of the last two years.
A few yrs ago i watched a video by a very big family in the US. And i swear if i had a big family i would copy her, she designated a spare room just for clothes. No clothes in the bedrooms etc, all went in that one room, even the dirty laundry. No more struggling to put things away etc x
Yes and they were also part of an abusive religious organization. Thier homeschool was the iblp, a group that encourages physical punishment if small children. Not to mention the fathers sexual abuse scandal. But ya know the important thing is thier laundry was on point. Thank the stars the Sullivan's are a real family. I love that. America could use some real families like this instead.
Was thinking I wish I had it all together like you and keeping on top of housework, but then realised everyone is the same and we all struggle with mental health, anxiety and depression ❤ You’re doing amazing!
Hi Zoe 👋 Your days start so early and are so busy I think you do a amazing job Keeping your home clean & tidy and looking after your family. Have a lovely weekend take care Louise X Thank you for sharing I thoroughly enjoyed watching this.
Love your 'day in the life' vlogs (all the Sullivan family vlogs actually). You and Ben are so genuinely lovely people and parents. I have just made your Carrot and Lentil soup. Delicious! There's four of us so got loads to freeze, so thank you. 😀❤
I know of some families with autistic children and they all follow a diet of no sugar and no dyes in foods. it might benefit your whole family to try this diet for everyone plus then Joseph will not feel singled out. Try talking to your older children about this first and get them on board to help with the younger children to follow this. Not sure about the schools there but here in the U.S. they force medications. The families that I mentioned above their children are not on medications and just follow the diet and things go very well for them. Wish I could email you more information and encouragement. Bless you dear ones and use wisdom in decisions.
I’m right there with you I never put pressure on my kids for their school grades . I had a child just like that she is now In high school so I can so so so sympathize with you. ❤❤❤❤❤
If Joseph feels bit worried as the buggy new perhaps if you put Agnes in the buggy and that Joseph will see it's fun and that he will want to have a try.That he will use the buggy and it's such a nice buggy.❤️😊❤️😊❤️😊
Zoe you do an amazing job. Just give yourself ten minutes for a coffee. I have had flu since 12th night and my 🎄is still up 🙄 I’m hoping to do it at the weekend x
Zoe have u not got a health visitor to help with Joseph I wrote about my 10 yr old grandson about how we tell him what we doing and where we going we have finally had a diagnoses for him and he is autistic. Hope u get Joseph sorted sounds like he has a sensory issue to has grandson will only wear certain materials
Zoe you are an amazing mum. My wee boy was autistic he had to have everything organised and he was fine with routine. Remember you have to take care of yourself too. You do have a lot going on but you will get there. You and Ben are wonderful parents always remember that. Give your kids all the love. Thank you so much for everything you do. Love lynn
you honestly do make me feel tired just listening to all you do.. dont know how you do it! seems never ending for you! i envy your motivation to get things just right at all times 👏👏 xx
Zoe, I have no idea how you do it all every day! I only have 3 little ones and I struggle to keep on top. I have an 8 month old baby who is going through very bad aeration anxiety and I can’t leave her sight so getting jobs on is hard right now 😢
It has been said that a womans work is never done.This is so true of you Zoe and so many of us women.I myself is alway on the tidyup side, but i started over the years to take one day at a time. Just do the work in stages little by little and i am sure you'll get it done🙏👍.
I can completely relate to everything you’ve said as a large family mum. It’s a lot with just about everything going on at the mo. I have number 7 on the way and sometimes wish I could have a couple of glasses of wine! 😅 I hope you prioritise some time to yourself… my favourite double was the Joovy becase it was really hard wearing, built like a single with a chair built in the back for big kids. It was a life saver but I don’t think they are too common. Lots of people used to ask me about it out and about. You guys are great parents and I’m crossing my fingers you move soon as that will be a stress off for you 💕
Oh Zoe,I understand you with doing one room at a time. I love listening to you. I am a grandmother 👵 caring for 3 of my grandchildren. And I find it hard . So thanks for saying that it okay if you just one task done.
Hi Zoey. Love your channel. I made the red lentil and carrot soup that you made. It was delicious. Hope you going to be doing more cooking. Then I will have some more dishes to try. Have a wonderful day.
Bless you Zoe you have a wonderful family and are doing a amazing would love to see your chilli please if you have time would be great have a wonderful weekend take care beautiful family ❤️😘 xxx
Hi Zoe another great vlog about a day in the life /The Sullivan family I feel sometimes you are too hard on yourself we are all behind you I don’t how you do it getting up at 4.30 in the morning I couldn’t do it that early your anxiety and stress levels must be through the roof sometimes especially if Joseph isn’t having a great day have you mentioned to your health visitor about him not wanting to walk and does he ever complain of his legs being sore even in bed as he may have hypertonia which is very painful my grandson’ had that all over his body occupational therapist worked on his torso to build up his upper body he didn’t complain of pain but if you let his hand go he would run away she said that was also a sign but if Joseph is having pain that maybe why he doesn’t walk my youngest daughter refused to walk and wanted carried when she was a toddler but it turned out she had hip dysplasia in both hips which no one picked up on she’s been through all the surgery up in traction for 3 weeks first operation failed had to break her femur bones in both legs even the pins and screws became imbedded she’s 28 now and has arthritis in her hips and is waiting now on hip replacements my eldest son who is on the spectrum is really funny about clothing I can buy him new clothes but he wears the same things he still lines things up like his shoes hates loud noises so doesn’t really like going to things like family events he takes everything literally it was harder as a child but it’s a bit easier as an adult but I wouldn’t change him for the world but please don’t be so hard on your self and if you think Joseph is not ready to go to school then delay him also in case you don’t know you can find about applying for Dla without a diagnosis I don’t if that something you want to do or has been mentioned to you by the health visitor as Joseph needs more help than a normal 4 year old child I know all about the meltdowns as I have mentioned about my grandson who has a chromosome 15 duplication which affects him in different areas Autistic traits Adhd traits severe learning difficulties speech and language developmental delay but I hope you have a great weekend xxx
Zoey - I have been viewing at lot of your blogs you are doing a lovely job you are a great mum but children with other problems can be very difficult and hard to deal with - have you tried to get into contact with support groups which you can contact so you can speak to other people in the same situation to help xx
I realised something as you picked up Joseph's coat. It makes a swishy noise. One of my kids cannot stand swishy sounding coats and would rather not wear one than put up with the noise. It could be that he is the same and the noise goes through him.
Lynn here on Hubby's phone mines playing up 😏, Hi Zoe , Well I for one really enjoyed this video and I think your a Fabulous Mum , my god , your rushed off your feet and suffering with your mental health, bless you , I know how bad mental health can be I'm 57 and I've suffered with Anxiety and depression all my life , I'd just about learned to keep it in the back ground, till my lovely mum passed four years ago , since then I've really been suffering , so how you cope with yourself and looking after the kids I don't know , but I will say this , I think if you have family it gives you something to get up for in a morning, not like me , they take your thoughts away no doubt and that's got to be a good thing right ?, Know this , you should be VERY proud of yourself , you've got a beautiful family 🤗, Take Care Love xx and try and make a little time just for you xx
Zoe you are wonder woman in my eyes, unfortunately not every day goes to plan, joesph is going to have his melt downs which you can't predict, well done for doing what you did and yes you are your worse enemy listen and take advice off yourself, if it's only one thing you get done so be it!! Your mental health is priority also, those children need a happy mommy, plus poor flo is teething so at the moment you have alot on, I also fold my washing when it's washed, what did you have with your chilli? I have mine with boiled rice, love to see you smile even though you have alot going on with 12 beautiful children. I'm the opposite to you if something needs doing I have to do it right away but I don't have a busy day with 12 children, I used to be just like you when my 7 children was younger. Never seem to be enough hours in the day, great vlog supper mommy xx
hi Sullivan another great vlog without being rude will Joseph be going to the same school as the twins and Agnes or will you have him homeschool hope you don’t mine me asking i was thinking have you seen those ride on board for pushchairs i know a few of the childminder have them when they do the school run ps please don’t feel like you have the share about the school situation just curious that’s all x
Zoe I think if you plan to do something in my case it goes all wrong so I usually think in the morning what wants doing and do a bit I can only work in fits and starts because I've copd and spondylitis that when your vertebrae strart crumbling and they trap your nerves in your spine .when I was a single parent j was always moving furniture about I'd move the living room round or change my bedroom round I couldn't with my sons it was only a small room so his bed would only go one way .imoved my bedroom round once and woke up next day thinking I was on holiday but no luck there I'd moved my bed a different place . I hope you had a warm drink when you went back home from school .you look after yourself just put the bigger girls clothes in piles forthrm to put away and noah he could do it too have you thought of getting sticker charts for for the 4 youngest going to school and give them a sticker for what ever toy they are playing with up stairs or down give them a sticker ect then it's less for you to do love to all fran xxx
hi zoe the military defence shouldnt be leaving you, ben and the kids to live in a house like that , they should be helping you move to somewhere that better for all of you , the mold can have serious health issues attached to if you are all exposed to it for a long period of time , we had the same problem with our property and our council office got us moved to a better property , please don't take this a a negative comment just thinking of your health and safety , i love watching your family's blogs xx
I'm 56 ,in my younger years I also suffered mental health ,it was and still is a struggle to live with ,I have learned how to cope a bit better as long as nothing stresses me out ,for the past 10+ years my oldest son suffers from it too ,he spends all of his life in his bedroom ,he has had loads of jobs but never last because certain things trigger it off ,he's on a very high anti-depressant etc and still lives at home he's 34 years old ,but I would rather have him here with me stress free than worry about coping on his own with bills etc ❤️
I ‘ get u’ with re mental health, i suffer bad and have had clinical depression 23 yrs- yet youll never meet someone as funny and quick witted( tears of a clown i guess) really enjoyed this real vlog zoe xx ps do you have an ebay acc? Xx
I like these days in a life videos. Also I like how zoe has been on Instagram a bit more this week on stories a little story can motivate me it worked the other day and I managed to get a job done 😃
Hi zoe you said sometimes you don't feel like you've done nothing well you feed the kids get the little ones ready for school take them to school come home sort flo and Joseph out you wash cook clean lok after the kids by taking and bringing them home again no doubt they are hungry and thirsty when they come in sort tea and cook jt well if that's not doing nothing I don't know what doing something is .your sure busy you must just flop when it's bed time I've copd and I can't clean up like I used to do I used to clean downstairs jn about an hour but now I'll hoover take a break put it away and tidy round I'll clean kichen and that's it til dinner that's when I'm feeling OK but if I'm not ill just say tidy round I think jf anyone comes and doesn't like it they know where the door is and can go back through it a house iee to be lived jt not to be so tidy your frightened to sit down love to you Ben and the kids love frsnxxxx
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Zoey you are amazing, my father in law once said to me children will not remember what you buy them but they will remember how you loved them. And you and Ben are the most loving parents. Even with Joseph behavior you are so loving towards it. What gets done gets done don't put a lot of pressure on yourself. My prayers for you is that you and Ben find a wonderful home that fits your family.
Thank you Liz 🥰
Hi Zoe you need a dehumidifier on to keep the mould at bay especially at this time of year.. We do & what a difference it makes also helps with drying the washing which is a bonus too.. x
You are doing a remarkable job! Try not to be so hard on yourself! I want to just thank you for bringing attention to anxiety and depression because it is prevalent in our society. I have an autistic son and suffer from OCD Depression and anxiety, and I can totally relate to your day-to-day challenges, but I have to say you are a remarkable strong woman and you literally have the energy of 5 momma's! You are a beautiful soul, and I am so glad to have found your channel. Much love from Tennessee dear heart! Blessings and light. xoxoxo
Zoe, bless you, Breathe.... you have so much on your plate and making everything run smoothly for the family. You do an amazing job! Just remember to breathe pet xxxx love from Looe, Cornwall.
Thanks Margaret 🥰
Your first base should be the school (ive been there !) You need the school on ur side as they are the ones who can get serious help for your family and of course ur son. Its your gateway for help. Eventually, if needs be, a diagnosis which in turn will also mean more help. You are not on ur own with this. lts a journey thousands of us go through every year. Just remember this, you have done nothing wrong and help is there babe xx
You get more done by 9 am than most of us do all day! When you talk about deep cleaning- I thought I can’t imagine that there is a speck of dirt anywhere in your house!! You are so clean and organized. I really enjoyed this video Zoe. You really are a wonderful, amazing woman!!! 💖
You have a remarkable sense of how to get things done, or, partially done and returned to to get finished. Very organized, and inspiring. It’s so easy to get overwhelmed, to get “paralyzed” with what needs to be done, and you see how to break it down, find success in it.
Zoe you are amazing ,You are so organised and a wonderful Mum.
Your family are amazing polite sharing respectful and a joy to watch .
I feel you...every day I begin with determination to complete the tasks I've set for myself. By midday I tend to find I haven't gotten done what I intended. I truly think it's a foggy brain after-effect of the last two years.
Zoe you do more than enough so don’t give yourself a hard time
A few yrs ago i watched a video by a very big family in the US. And i swear if i had a big family i would copy her, she designated a spare room just for clothes. No clothes in the bedrooms etc, all went in that one room, even the dirty laundry. No more struggling to put things away etc x
The Bates family I watched all those and she home schooled them too ❤
Yes and they were also part of an abusive religious organization. Thier homeschool was the iblp, a group that encourages physical punishment if small children. Not to mention the fathers sexual abuse scandal. But ya know the important thing is thier laundry was on point. Thank the stars the Sullivan's are a real family. I love that. America could use some real families like this instead.
@@knighted428 that happens in "real" families too, not just the religious ones unfortunately.
Was thinking I wish I had it all together like you and keeping on top of housework, but then realised everyone is the same and we all struggle with mental health, anxiety and depression ❤ You’re doing amazing!
Thanks Rebecca 🥰
Hi Zoe 👋
Your days start so early and are so busy I think you do a amazing job Keeping your home clean & tidy and looking after your family. Have a lovely weekend take care Louise X
Thank you for sharing I thoroughly enjoyed watching this.
You’re welcome Louise 🥰
Thank-you for sharing your day Zoe, you do an amazing job xx
Absolutely love your family 👪 ❤️
Zoe you are amazing.i am going to do what you said just do bits each day starting from tomorrow.lovely see you doing a chilli.love video as always.💕💕
Amazing mummy zoe take no notice of idiots your doing an amazing job . Hope new buggy helps xxx
Love your videos like this. I can really relate to you.
Thank you again for a great vlog
You should put name labels for each coat hanger so they know whos is whos n they know where there coats are,just a idea for you zoe xxx
Love your 'day in the life' vlogs (all the Sullivan family vlogs actually). You and Ben are so genuinely lovely people and parents. I have just made your Carrot and Lentil soup. Delicious! There's four of us so got loads to freeze, so thank you. 😀❤
You’re welcome 🥰
Double buggy looks fab, could u get some spider man material make a little pad for jo jos side make him feel special? Xx
Love your hair in this video Zoe ❤❤
I know of some families with autistic children and they all follow a diet of no sugar and no dyes in foods. it might benefit your whole family to try this diet for everyone plus then Joseph will not feel singled out. Try talking to your older children about this first and get them on board to help with the younger children to follow this. Not sure about the schools there but here in the U.S. they force medications. The families that I mentioned above their children are not on medications and just follow the diet and things go very well for them. Wish I could email you more information and encouragement. Bless you dear ones and use wisdom in decisions.
I’m right there with you I never put pressure on my kids for their school grades . I had a child just like that she is now In high school so I can so so so sympathize with you. ❤❤❤❤❤
If Joseph feels bit worried as the buggy new perhaps if you put Agnes in the buggy and that Joseph will see it's fun and that he will want to have a try.That he will use the buggy and it's such a nice buggy.❤️😊❤️😊❤️😊
Really enjoyed the video. Nice to see "a day in the life" of Zoe...I'm tired just watching it lol. Great job!
Zoe you do an amazing job. Just give yourself ten minutes for a coffee. I have had flu since 12th night and my 🎄is still up 🙄 I’m hoping to do it at the weekend x
Oh no 🤦🏻 get well soon 🥰
The chilly was great I like watching a lot of the things you do for the children and I think they are good enjoy your day
Great video Zoe you are literally mum goals!
A hand held shower head might help since he can control where it goes.
Love the day in the life videos . I don’t no how you do it all . Such a great we team .
Zoe have u not got a health visitor to help with Joseph I wrote about my 10 yr old grandson about how we tell him what we doing and where we going we have finally had a diagnoses for him and he is autistic. Hope u get Joseph sorted sounds like he has a sensory issue to has grandson will only wear certain materials
Zoe you are Wonder Woman !! You are amazing! Xx
Zoe you are an amazing mum. My wee boy was autistic he had to have everything organised and he was fine with routine. Remember you have to take care of yourself too. You do have a lot going on but you will get there. You and Ben are wonderful parents always remember that. Give your kids all the love. Thank you so much for everything you do. Love lynn
Thank you Lynn 🥰
Lovely vlog. Thank you for sharing your day.
you honestly do make me feel tired just listening to all you do.. dont know how you do it! seems never ending for you! i envy your motivation to get things just right at all times 👏👏 xx
Aww thanks Prinnie 🥰
Zoe, I have no idea how you do it all every day! I only have 3 little ones and I struggle to keep on top. I have an 8 month old baby who is going through very bad aeration anxiety and I can’t leave her sight so getting jobs on is hard right now 😢
It has been said that a womans work is never done.This is so true of you Zoe and so many of us women.I myself is alway on the tidyup side, but i started over the years to take one day at a time. Just do the work in stages little by little and i am sure you'll get it done🙏👍.
Great vlog Zoe you really are amazing xx
Your amazing love your blogs I'm been ill but watching your blogs lighten up my day you have a wonderful weekend
I can completely relate to everything you’ve said as a large family mum. It’s a lot with just about everything going on at the mo. I have number 7 on the way and sometimes wish I could have a couple of glasses of wine! 😅 I hope you prioritise some time to yourself… my favourite double was the Joovy becase it was really hard wearing, built like a single with a chair built in the back for big kids. It was a life saver but I don’t think they are too common. Lots of people used to ask me about it out and about. You guys are great parents and I’m crossing my fingers you move soon as that will be a stress off for you 💕
Thanks Aimee 🥰
Oh Zoe,I understand you with doing one room at a time. I love listening to you. I am a grandmother 👵 caring for 3 of my grandchildren. And I find it hard . So thanks for saying that it okay if you just one task done.
You’re welcome Susan 🥰
You are superwoman zoe you never stop and a brilliant mum love your channel x x
Thank you 🥰
You do a terrific job with your family x💐
Ragbag 😂😂😂that made me laugh Zoe . Haven’t heard that saying for years 😂xx
Mountain Warehouse puffer coats are fantastic. My 2 sons who have autism both wear them.
Take your day an hour at a time, if some days feel overwhelming you are better off waiting until the next day, best wishes xxx
Lovely wheres your coat hanger from x
Hi Zoey. Love your channel. I made the red lentil and carrot soup that you made. It was delicious. Hope you going to be doing more cooking. Then I will have some more dishes to try. Have a wonderful day.
Thank you 🥰
Joseph sounds like my 6yr old daughter.i found that if I turn the drain off and let it fill while showering its ok.
Great vlog Zoe. I don't know how u do it all ❤️ x
Nice family ❤❤❤❤❤
You video lovely ☺️😍,🏴
Bless you Zoe you have a wonderful family and are doing a amazing would love to see your chilli please if you have time would be great have a wonderful weekend take care beautiful family ❤️😘 xxx
Thank you 🥰
@@TheSullivanFamilyScotland 💖😘
Material of items can be a big deal with autistic children 💙
Such a lovely a d clean house,just love it❤❤
The fabulousa is a dupe of snow fairy xx
I like your Life Rules by the coat rack.
Busy mom!
Hi Zoe another great vlog about a day in the life /The Sullivan family I feel sometimes you are too hard on yourself we are all behind you I don’t how you do it getting up at 4.30 in the morning I couldn’t do it that early your anxiety and stress levels must be through the roof sometimes especially if Joseph isn’t having a great day have you mentioned to your health visitor about him not wanting to walk and does he ever complain of his legs being sore even in bed as he may have hypertonia which is very painful my grandson’ had that all over his body occupational therapist worked on his torso to build up his upper body he didn’t complain of pain but if you let his hand go he would run away she said that was also a sign but if Joseph is having pain that maybe why he doesn’t walk my youngest daughter refused to walk and wanted carried when she was a toddler but it turned out she had hip dysplasia in both hips which no one picked up on she’s been through all the surgery up in traction for 3 weeks first operation failed had to break her femur bones in both legs even the pins and screws became imbedded she’s 28 now and has arthritis in her hips and is waiting now on hip replacements my eldest son who is on the spectrum is really funny about clothing I can buy him new clothes but he wears the same things he still lines things up like his shoes hates loud noises so doesn’t really like going to things like family events he takes everything literally it was harder as a child but it’s a bit easier as an adult but I wouldn’t change him for the world but please don’t be so hard on your self and if you think Joseph is not ready to go to school then delay him also in case you don’t know you can find about applying for Dla without a diagnosis I don’t if that something you want to do or has been mentioned to you by the health visitor as Joseph needs more help than a normal 4 year old child I know all about the meltdowns as I have mentioned about my grandson who has a chromosome 15 duplication which affects him in different areas Autistic traits Adhd traits severe learning difficulties speech and language developmental delay but I hope you have a great weekend xxx
Thank you Carolanne 🥰
You are so talented.
Zoey - I have been viewing at lot of your blogs you are doing a lovely job you are a great mum but children with other problems can be very difficult and hard to deal with - have you tried to get into contact with support groups which you can contact so you can speak to other people in the same situation to help xx
I realised something as you picked up Joseph's coat. It makes a swishy noise. One of my kids cannot stand swishy sounding coats and would rather not wear one than put up with the noise. It could be that he is the same and the noise goes through him.
Ahhh thanks 🥰
Lynn here on Hubby's phone mines playing up 😏, Hi Zoe , Well I for one really enjoyed this video and I think your a Fabulous Mum , my god , your rushed off your feet and suffering with your mental health, bless you , I know how bad mental health can be I'm 57 and I've suffered with Anxiety and depression all my life , I'd just about learned to keep it in the back ground, till my lovely mum passed four years ago , since then I've really been suffering , so how you cope with yourself and looking after the kids I don't know , but I will say this , I think if you have family it gives you something to get up for in a morning, not like me , they take your thoughts away no doubt and that's got to be a good thing right ?, Know this , you should be VERY proud of yourself , you've got a beautiful family 🤗, Take Care Love xx and try and make a little time just for you xx
Thank you Lynn 🥰
You not give her arsons and parsons a gave my 2 that there really good 😊❤
Zoe you are wonder woman in my eyes, unfortunately not every day goes to plan, joesph is going to have his melt downs which you can't predict, well done for doing what you did and yes you are your worse enemy listen and take advice off yourself, if it's only one thing you get done so be it!! Your mental health is priority also, those children need a happy mommy, plus poor flo is teething so at the moment you have alot on, I also fold my washing when it's washed, what did you have with your chilli? I have mine with boiled rice, love to see you smile even though you have alot going on with 12 beautiful children. I'm the opposite to you if something needs doing I have to do it right away but I don't have a busy day with 12 children, I used to be just like you when my 7 children was younger. Never seem to be enough hours in the day, great vlog supper mommy xx
Thank you 🥰
O.m.g you poor thing you have so much to do I'd be dead if I had to do all that I know I wouldn't be able for it fear play to you xxxx
Hi
hi Sullivan another great vlog without being rude will Joseph be going to the same school as the twins and Agnes or will you have him homeschool hope you don’t mine me asking i was thinking have you seen those ride on board for pushchairs i know a few of the childminder have them when they do the school run ps please don’t feel like you have the share about the school situation just curious that’s all x
We hope so 🥰
that’s good then he will love it with all his siblings their x
Zoe I think if you plan to do something in my case it goes all wrong so I usually think in the morning what wants doing and do a bit I can only work in fits and starts because I've copd and spondylitis that when your vertebrae strart crumbling and they trap your nerves in your spine .when I was a single parent j was always moving furniture about I'd move the living room round or change my bedroom round I couldn't with my sons it was only a small room so his bed would only go one way .imoved my bedroom round once and woke up next day thinking I was on holiday but no luck there I'd moved my bed a different place . I hope you had a warm drink when you went back home from school .you look after yourself just put the bigger girls clothes in piles forthrm to put away and noah he could do it too have you thought of getting sticker charts for for the 4 youngest going to school and give them a sticker for what ever toy they are playing with up stairs or down give them a sticker ect then it's less for you to do love to all fran xxx
hi zoe the military defence shouldnt be leaving you, ben and the kids to live in a house like that , they should be helping you move to somewhere that better for all of you , the mold can have serious health issues attached to if you are all exposed to it for a long period of time , we had the same problem with our property and our council office got us moved to a better property , please don't take this a a negative comment just thinking of your health and safety , i love watching your family's blogs xx
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I'm 56 ,in my younger years I also suffered mental health ,it was and still is a struggle to live with ,I have learned how to cope a bit better as long as nothing stresses me out ,for the past 10+ years my oldest son suffers from it too ,he spends all of his life in his bedroom ,he has had loads of jobs but never last because certain things trigger it off ,he's on a very high anti-depressant etc and still lives at home he's 34 years old ,but I would rather have him here with me stress free than worry about coping on his own with bills etc ❤️
I ‘ get u’ with re mental health, i suffer bad and have had clinical depression 23 yrs- yet youll never meet someone as funny and quick witted( tears of a clown i guess) really enjoyed this real vlog zoe xx ps do you have an ebay acc? Xx
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You would have been a good handmade in the handmaids tail
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I like these days in a life videos. Also I like how zoe has been on Instagram a bit more this week on stories a little story can motivate me it worked the other day and I managed to get a job done 😃
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Hi zoe you said sometimes you don't feel like you've done nothing well you feed the kids get the little ones ready for school take them to school come home sort flo and Joseph out you wash cook clean lok after the kids by taking and bringing them home again no doubt they are hungry and thirsty when they come in sort tea and cook jt well if that's not doing nothing I don't know what doing something is .your sure busy you must just flop when it's bed time I've copd and I can't clean up like I used to do I used to clean downstairs jn about an hour but now I'll hoover take a break put it away and tidy round I'll clean kichen and that's it til dinner that's when I'm feeling OK but if I'm not ill just say tidy round I think jf anyone comes and doesn't like it they know where the door is and can go back through it a house iee to be lived jt not to be so tidy your frightened to sit down love to you Ben and the kids love frsnxxxx
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it's ok. Relax you deserve 10 maids so just calm down And know YOU ARE WORTH IT.GIVE YOUSELF THAT 1 THING OR 0 THING A DAY.