Is My Husband Being A Drama Queen?

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  • @kokoskokso
    @kokoskokso Год назад +237

    That's the first couple fight about the thermostat where the woman wants to keep the temperature low and the man wants to actually heat! 😂🤣😂

  • @melanieb2132
    @melanieb2132 Год назад +380

    Poor man makes six figures but can't have heat! 😂

    • @stefancoban59
      @stefancoban59 Год назад +14

      Six figures are no longer what they used to be. It is so strange for me because I'm 24 yo and this is the first time I see such a ramping inflation.

    • @deshawnyoung5228
      @deshawnyoung5228 Год назад

      @@stefancoban59 😢😢😢😢😮😮

    • @melanieb2132
      @melanieb2132 Год назад +9

      @@stefancoban59 well, that's true.. but even so, he can afford heat.

    • @stefancoban59
      @stefancoban59 Год назад +3

      @@melanieb2132 for sure they can afford. I was just pointing out that six figures is middle class nowadays.

    • @MooMoo69556
      @MooMoo69556 Год назад

      @@stefancoban59 yea it is, must be where u live 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @happyinparis
    @happyinparis Год назад +74

    This woman has a great sense of humor. She's enjoying the ribbing. You gotta love her.

    • @xsgtxbigboy1655
      @xsgtxbigboy1655 Месяц назад

      Until she tells you it’s gonna 50 in the house weather you like it or not

  • @bronxcanines1481
    @bronxcanines1481 Год назад +62

    JOHN “There is more to this” DELONEY

  • @budgiebirdy
    @budgiebirdy 3 месяца назад +13

    My dad was super controlling over the thermostat and I was always miserable in the summer, sweating and getting sick from the heat. I vowed I would NEVER be that uncomfortable in my own home once I was an adult and paying the bills. I've kept that promise to myself and no matter what, my comfort is one thing I refuse to compromise on. I'm not wearing a coat in the house during winter time and I refuse to be sweating and miserable in the summer.

    • @vickie_hearne
      @vickie_hearne 13 дней назад +2

      Me too ! As god is my witness, I'll never be cold again...

  • @Devinfrbs
    @Devinfrbs Год назад +36

    "All the man wanted was heat!" - So good.

  • @Ryan_DeWitt
    @Ryan_DeWitt Год назад +156

    I want to save money too. However I am NOT going to freeze to death in my own house in the winter or sweat like a pig and be unable to sleep in the hot summer to save some money.

    • @summerforever6736
      @summerforever6736 Год назад +1

      Correct

    • @BabyGators
      @BabyGators Год назад

      What’s more, it’s almost impossible to quantify the savings. Would take a lot of figuring to determine exactly how much fuel your furnace uses per day based on temp outside, inside, etc. Even more difficult for heat pumps.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 Год назад

      $600/mo A/C?

    • @xfhnhhgjbvcfg
      @xfhnhhgjbvcfg Год назад +1

      @@BabyGators I suppose, but it's definitely easy to see that if you use less oil you spend less money.

    • @BabyGators
      @BabyGators Год назад +1

      @@xfhnhhgjbvcfg I agree, but unless your system is incredibly inefficient, it really doesn’t take that much. Especially considering their income, it’s nothing.

  • @Saiyijon
    @Saiyijon Год назад +190

    This one made me chuckle. I commend her for her dedication though.

    • @maryfields1382
      @maryfields1382 Год назад +7

      same! And the fact that she can laugh at herself about it says a lot about her.

  • @secondhandrooms507
    @secondhandrooms507 Год назад +28

    This reminds me of the time when my BIL tried to limit my sisters toilet paper usage.
    He learned quickly that he had gone too far.

  • @lkj0822g
    @lkj0822g Год назад +133

    Yeah, I remember that one time when the kids had the a/c running upstairs and my wife had the heat running downstairs. I'm like "why don't y'all just shoot me now and get it over with...." LOL

    • @alb7727
      @alb7727 Год назад +7

      🤣🤣🤣 that's a good one

    • @TheHoneybear11
      @TheHoneybear11 Год назад +11

      I literally LAUGHED 😅 OUT LOUD reading your comment! 😆🤣😂

    • @patrickmartin8479
      @patrickmartin8479 Год назад +6

      @@TheHoneybear11 me too 😆

    • @TheHoneybear11
      @TheHoneybear11 Год назад +6

      @@patrickmartin8479 I read it like three times and laughed. Every. Single. Time. 😆🤣😂

    • @FabioSantos-cs2cf
      @FabioSantos-cs2cf Год назад +3

      You’re hilarious 😂

  • @pmw3839
    @pmw3839 10 месяцев назад +4

    Dave’s laugh is infectious.

  • @fauxbro1983
    @fauxbro1983 Год назад +29

    Lol. Dave low key threw shade at Delony. "Are you scarred." Lol

  • @daveschreiner413
    @daveschreiner413 Год назад +13

    Married 36 years, I don't touch the thermostat. Happy wife, happy life.

  • @maryromano7508
    @maryromano7508 Год назад +21

    I hear her nervousness over the oil heat. I work for a local delivery company. I feel for our customers, but PLEASE don't blame the person answering the phone for the high prices. We have NO control over the prices.

  • @vince8520
    @vince8520 Год назад +5

    Canadian here: totally behind that guy. This basic like food and shelter

  • @angeluceta5688
    @angeluceta5688 Год назад +72

    Dave- "what's your household income?" Amy-"32 thousand". Dave- "Keep the heat off".

  • @georgewagner7787
    @georgewagner7787 Год назад +8

    My parents kept the heat low. I tried to practice piano with cold fingers and mom said to swing your arms in a circle so the blood would go out to the fingertips

  • @ashleyb1091
    @ashleyb1091 Год назад +9

    He comes home from work and he can’t turn up the temp…stupid call. Let the man be warm.

  • @stephenshelton4267
    @stephenshelton4267 Год назад +56

    OMG did Delony actually side with the husband? ""Faints**

    • @ClaxtonBay123
      @ClaxtonBay123 Год назад +15

      No he just sided with Dave

    • @Alvin-xs7db
      @Alvin-xs7db Год назад +3

      @@ClaxtonBay123 I had to think about that for a second but you're 100% right lol

    • @IgoOutlateAtnight
      @IgoOutlateAtnight Год назад +8

      He did ask "are you tired??". So check thst box

    • @willarmendariz7663
      @willarmendariz7663 Год назад +5

      Only cause dave did. Delony is a simp. He just goes along with what the leader does.

    • @truthseeker6370
      @truthseeker6370 Год назад

      Maybe seek the message vs seeking a false gender issue.

  • @karenshea7877
    @karenshea7877 Год назад +3

    Keeping the thermostat too low can destroy the house with mold and broken pipes.

  • @jomontanee
    @jomontanee Год назад +11

    2:02 “Your husband is right.” 😂😂

  • @thisoldfind7377
    @thisoldfind7377 Год назад +88

    If I hear John ask "are you tired" one more time I'm out.

  • @phangau8321
    @phangau8321 Год назад +91

    The husband wants to turn on the heat but the wife got asked:” are you scared? Are you tired?” 😂

  • @cutehumor
    @cutehumor Год назад +152

    if she wants to turn off the heat in the house, she better provide that body heat!! hahahahahaha

  • @hkellsworth3504
    @hkellsworth3504 Год назад +4

    I would be afraid of hypothermia at that temperature.

  • @2123tfl
    @2123tfl Год назад +15

    boys did a good job checkin this crazy lady

    • @ellencox8415
      @ellencox8415 Год назад

      I thought she was going to say something like 64... 52!!!! She is NUTS!

  • @jennyjenny3531
    @jennyjenny3531 Год назад +5

    I love her good-natured laugh. They're going to be just fine

  • @sackettfamily4685
    @sackettfamily4685 Год назад +9

    "free heat" tip: after cooking in the oven, and then you've turned off the oven? Leave it cracked, and the heat comes out and helps warm up the kitchen.

  • @kathleenford9012
    @kathleenford9012 Год назад +6

    I have been widowed for over 30 years and i control my own thermostat. A perk of being single

  • @timothystevenhoward
    @timothystevenhoward Год назад +21

    My cat has the same reaction when I tell her 70 is fine

  • @DrewLeyMusic
    @DrewLeyMusic Год назад +38

    She’s taking the “gazelle intensity” too far lol

  • @kimberly8185
    @kimberly8185 Год назад +11

    I agree with him. I'm not going to be cold in my house. I'm not going to be hot in the summer either. Come on now.

  • @jhonilocran6077
    @jhonilocran6077 10 месяцев назад +4

    John is such a party pooper…this isn’t deep…the lady is just crazy 😂😂

  • @alisongoldsberry8062
    @alisongoldsberry8062 Год назад +6

    I cannot WAIT for their debt free scream?!

  • @d_all_in
    @d_all_in Год назад +7

    Reminds me of my buddy who wouldn't turn on his A/C in Vegas like yo we're dying lol

  • @Lancelot0311
    @Lancelot0311 Год назад +12

    This is the type of marriage I want in my life ❤

  • @philt6800
    @philt6800 Год назад +5

    God help that poor man, she’s something else 😂

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius Год назад +30

    We never complain about the temps in the house. If we're chilly, we put on a sweater. If I want, I put on the fireplace. If she wants, she puts on the fireplace. We are going to be comfortable in our house. Period.

  • @marcwashington673
    @marcwashington673 Год назад +3

    John and Ramsay: He’s right
    Me: YEEEEEEEEEESSSSS!!!!

  • @M8541Reaper
    @M8541Reaper Год назад +18

    lol she’s trying to live like a European while he’s trying to live as an American…

  • @A.McD.81
    @A.McD.81 Год назад +41

    Great call!! To be fair, at 52, the poor woman is probably going through menopause and constantly overheating and not cold anyway 😉

    • @emmawainwright5527
      @emmawainwright5527 Год назад +3

      At 52 I am agreeing with you.

    • @petersimpson633
      @petersimpson633 Год назад +3

      A now retired colleague denied she was menopausal, but 'merely experiencing my own personal summer'

    • @gv4878
      @gv4878 Год назад

      I thought the same thing

    • @lyndashields4185
      @lyndashields4185 Год назад

      😅😅 I had my head in the freezer a lot of the time

  • @Rockafella1861
    @Rockafella1861 Год назад +3

    Dave is the best, glad to catch this clip. Bravo.

  • @chocolateangel8743
    @chocolateangel8743 Год назад +5

    What is it with people wanting to be cold in a house? If you wanna be cold, go outside! 😊

  • @BrokeMillionaire1
    @BrokeMillionaire1 Год назад +67

    She is the one who sounds like the drama queen.

  • @front331
    @front331 Год назад +23

    2:51. John: "Are you tired?" 🤣🤣😂. His signature question.

    • @imonlyheretoarguewithidiots
      @imonlyheretoarguewithidiots Год назад

      Seriously. What a scummy hack.

    • @yourgooglemeister6745
      @yourgooglemeister6745 Год назад +4

      It's his signature as to how useless a PhD in psychology truly is. He is the poster child for that BS waste of money!

    • @NYNC88
      @NYNC88 Год назад +1

      @@yourgooglemeister6745 He does not have a PhD in psychology. His degrees are in "Counselor Education and Supervision" and "Higher Education Administration."

    • @yourgooglemeister6745
      @yourgooglemeister6745 Год назад +1

      @@NYNC88 really? OMG! That's a hundred times worse! and their Ramsey lackeys talk about not getting a useless degree! good grief!

    • @NYNC88
      @NYNC88 Год назад

      @@yourgooglemeister6745 It's true. You can look it up.

  • @kwaggs19
    @kwaggs19 Год назад +5

    Imagine being married to that. No thanks

  • @elizabethanderson6468
    @elizabethanderson6468 Год назад +54

    When I was paying off debt, I refused to put our heat on, too!!! hahaha Luckily, my husband was on board. Oh, I loved this call.

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 Год назад +2

      Don’t sacrifice the very basic comforts and necessities just to be out of debt. It’s not supposed to be a painful process. Please.

    • @fireseeker4him
      @fireseeker4him Год назад +4

      I use electric heaters but then I live by myself so I only need to heat one room at a time.

    • @jimhandler1129
      @jimhandler1129 Год назад

      We had "Heat Night" 😂😂

    • @Trdrstv
      @Trdrstv Год назад +1

      When we were broke and literally floating payment checks we went by "If you're cold throw on a sweatshirt... if you're still cold, turn up the heat." It took a while before we could afford to replace several windows and such that were leaking heat constantly, but we got there.

    • @susan5429
      @susan5429 Год назад

      I can totally relate to the situation!!! Same here, you need support from the family when you're trying to save!!!! 😅

  • @Mr_Fairdale
    @Mr_Fairdale Год назад +5

    I see how far I can push back when I turn on the heat in my condo and sometimes I don’t turn it on at all in winter but… I’m in Las Vegas. It gets chilly here but not cold like Boston! Turn the freaking heat on!

  • @chrisestes2383
    @chrisestes2383 Год назад +1

    We installed a wood stove... It paid for itself in one month.

  • @getinthespace7715
    @getinthespace7715 Год назад +1

    You have to be friggin careful about turning the heat off in some climates.
    If it gets cold enough your pipes can freeze and break causing 10's of thousands in damages all to save a couple hundred on a heating bill.

  • @vickieclark5931
    @vickieclark5931 Год назад +23

    LOL. Your making a 6-figure income. Let the boy turn the heat on. It's November in MA, it's kind of cold there. It's one thing to sacrifice eating out, netflix, or buying new clothes, but you don't want to freeze in your home no matter what you financial situation is. But in this case, they are doing great. Hardly any debt left and making gobs of money. 100 dollars extra a month isn't going to hurt them one bit.

  • @MichaelHasebroock
    @MichaelHasebroock Год назад +9

    I'm like the wife on this call but I've had to ask myself- how much would this actually save us? Even if it was $500 through the winter, it wouldn't make a huge dent in their debt. Heat the house.

  • @jacoblynch9862
    @jacoblynch9862 Год назад +47

    No, she's a drama queen. The husband sees the finish line knows they will get there with the progress that they have made congratulations by the way, but he now sees the finish line and says I am not freezing in my own dag I'm home she's being the drama queen here, not him.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +2

      Ok colonel obvious

    • @anniealexander3402
      @anniealexander3402 Год назад +2

      It's extreme but keep in mind, she has taken on the leadership role. Too many men letting women lead and then complaining.

  • @Pookie._.bear._.1
    @Pookie._.bear._.1 Год назад +2

    I did this too one winter freezing in my house and then the next season I turned up the heat and the bill is about $10 more a month.

  • @abdulrabawadh8153
    @abdulrabawadh8153 Год назад +2

    "Are you tired" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @spencerloch6449
    @spencerloch6449 Год назад +2

    Never showing this video to my wife haha!

  • @stevegolacks8731
    @stevegolacks8731 Год назад +2

    Baby Step #8....Move to a moderate temperature state, possibly in the middle/southeast of the country. Not only do you get to escape the frozen tundra of the midwest or northeast, saving you heating bills, but you also get a 10% raise just getting out of those high tax states!

  • @CJ2023Incognito
    @CJ2023Incognito Год назад +1

    52 is COLD!! Lol 🥶😅😂

  • @luismurillo9547
    @luismurillo9547 Год назад +1

    Her laugh is contagious! 😂

  • @NoName-jm4ev
    @NoName-jm4ev Год назад +1

    I agree with him , I understand being frugal and cautious but to sacrifice to this extent. You will not take a single penny with when you go six feet under. Enjoy your live while you can

  • @joycewright5386
    @joycewright5386 Год назад +3

    Compromise and just turn the heat down a few degrees. You will still save money.

  • @mpayne8206
    @mpayne8206 Год назад +3

    What a fun lady!! Her laugh is great!

    • @TheEllaTB
      @TheEllaTB Год назад +1

      I know, I love the fact that she can laugh at herself and accept instruction

  • @kevinquinn7645
    @kevinquinn7645 6 дней назад

    There has been shown to be a correlation between the warmth of your home and clinical depression. If you can afford it, keep the thermostat turned up to a reasonable level.

  • @kiki90887
    @kiki90887 Год назад +3

    Hahaah my Partner and I also have this debate regularly! Good news it could mean we are on the right track haha

  • @jimmymcgill6778
    @jimmymcgill6778 Год назад +14

    The husband is right.
    Why keep the heat off when it's cold?
    She's being the drama queen.

    • @jimhandler1129
      @jimhandler1129 Год назад +1

      Cause she is doing everything to get out of debt. I'm surprised Dave sided with the husband on this one.

  • @jaimeavakarianvillamonte744
    @jaimeavakarianvillamonte744 Год назад +3

    My neighbor keeps his house 85 in winter and 65 in summer. Pretty crazy.

    • @americafirst9144
      @americafirst9144 Год назад

      A lot of older people can't keep warm or cool themselves well.

  • @renelopez3333
    @renelopez3333 Год назад +5

    I know no one cares, but I'm gonna stop watching highlights where John's involved.

    • @OSRSGuides
      @OSRSGuides Год назад +1

      john is an "educated" beta male

  • @AssumeGenders
    @AssumeGenders Год назад +2

    Love this lady!😂

  • @MarieZ17833
    @MarieZ17833 Год назад +1

    I lived without heat for about three weeks due to bad planning by a landlord. Heat is an absolute necessity.

  • @billb945
    @billb945 Год назад +3

    We've had a few cold nights here in Ma recently. I like it cold when I'm sleeping, but 63/64ºF during the day is about my limit for cold.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Год назад +2

      I grew up that way, in a stupid all-electric house. I have gas heat and I have a/c and I refuse to be too warm or too cold ever again.

    • @gr8macaw1
      @gr8macaw1 Год назад

      Bill I agree with you. Chilly in the bedroom; use the duvet. In the daytime we keep it at 74 degrees.

  • @sblijheid
    @sblijheid Год назад +3

    My favorite temperature is 65 degrees. I only where a T shirt in that. At 62 degrees, I wear a lightweight jacket, but I understand that not everyone likes it.

  • @jackiem9460
    @jackiem9460 Год назад

    I'm guilty of freezing my husband out too lol

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 Год назад +1

    I actually was going to sleep in a sleeping bag for the winter at home to save on the bill. Nevermind. But I do use a window unit instead of the central a/c.

  • @mariacorretge6615
    @mariacorretge6615 Год назад

    Briliant. What a great fun wee call.

  • @Chele-nm4qx
    @Chele-nm4qx Год назад +19

    Again, John has to over psycho analyze everyone. There has to be some deep seeded reason for everything- why John- why??? 🤦🏽‍♀

    • @And1one757
      @And1one757 Год назад +5

      Lol everytime 🤣

    • @Aitchfactor
      @Aitchfactor Год назад +2

      I thought I was the only one who saw that.

    • @Chele-nm4qx
      @Chele-nm4qx Год назад

      @@Aitchfactor 😂

    • @Chele-nm4qx
      @Chele-nm4qx Год назад

      @@And1one757 😂

    • @NYNC88
      @NYNC88 Год назад +4

      He's trying to sound like more than he is. John's degrees are in "Counselor Education and Supervision" and "Higher Education Administration."

  • @meganchristensen4771
    @meganchristensen4771 Год назад

    Literally the struggle rn

  • @m.l.2483
    @m.l.2483 Год назад +4

    I don't play with heat, food, diesel or good shoes. Whatever financial goal I have must include these things. Life is for living.

  • @Bestfriend-650
    @Bestfriend-650 Год назад

    I also haven’t turned on heat yet. I bought two room heaters and just use those. Have solar installed and bill is just 20-30 bucks a month.

  • @rezco7190
    @rezco7190 Год назад

    My third time listening to this. It’s hilarious. 😂😂

  • @1timothydillon
    @1timothydillon Год назад +7

    I'm almost with her on this one. I'm an ice in my veins New Englander too, but even I turned the heat up in early October. Usually the weather gradually changes, this year it's just been up and down, up and down, and there was no time to acclimate.

  • @lindsayclark4009
    @lindsayclark4009 Год назад

    My favorite call 😅

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius Год назад +2

    Our thermostat is at 72. I let it get down to 64 in the house before I turned the heat on.

  • @marshapitts5
    @marshapitts5 Год назад +15

    I love her laugh!!

  • @LM-ch8rh
    @LM-ch8rh Год назад +1

    i love her laugh!

  • @edb484
    @edb484 Год назад

    Lol I’m the same way, I can live without the heat. But I need the AC during the summer.
    You can make yourself hot but can’t make yourself cold. I can only take off so much off

  • @listerinr
    @listerinr Год назад +19

    Is the only tool in Dr Baloney's toolbox "Are you tired?"? Jeez

    • @NYNC88
      @NYNC88 Год назад

      John's degrees are in "Counselor Education and Supervision" and "Higher Education Administration."

  • @jimhandler1129
    @jimhandler1129 Год назад +1

    We have "Heat Night" in our house. 💰💰😄

  • @DEBTFREEMIKE769
    @DEBTFREEMIKE769 Год назад +2

    I have pulled over and sh’t in the woods many times.

  • @johnnycashlives316
    @johnnycashlives316 Год назад

    The longest phone call ever!!!

  • @robertbell525
    @robertbell525 Год назад +1

    If you turn your heat down too low you will not save money if you are setting it low and cranking it back up daily. Everything in the house to the drywall gets to that cold temp and it takes a ton of energy to warm that up. Set it back a few degrees only. If you're going to be gone for week that's different. But daily? No, it doesn't help and may make it worse. If you have a heat pump definitely do not let it get too cold.

  • @RichTalk_nikRich
    @RichTalk_nikRich Год назад +1

    😂😂 when Dave agrees

  • @hvaball150
    @hvaball150 Год назад +2

    I'm tired.... aren't you!

  • @sweetfayce18
    @sweetfayce18 Год назад +2

    Glad to know my marriage is healthy since we argue about the thermostat. The bill is $330 every month. That’s stressful

  • @Whoiskevinjones
    @Whoiskevinjones Год назад +3

    She is the drama queen.

  • @sangriabiscus2856
    @sangriabiscus2856 Год назад

    The difference between 68 degrees and 70 degrees makes a big deal. At 70 degrees, your fingers and toes don't feel cold.

  • @autumnjerene
    @autumnjerene Год назад +2

    I thought he was being whiny till she said the temperature. I keep it at 68 during the day in the winter, 63 at night. My family complains about it, but I hate having to do a wardrobe change every time I go in or out of the house. If I'm wearing a sweater outside, I don't want to change into shorts and a t-shirt when I come inside. Same thing in the summer. I want to wear shorts outside and not have to switch into sweats when I come inside.

    • @sagrammyfour
      @sagrammyfour Год назад

      You sound very selfish. I wouldn't put up with your nonsense for one minute.

  • @janise01
    @janise01 18 часов назад

    If this is during the winter she's out of her mind. I've seen photos (sent by relatives living in Boston) of rows of cars literally encased in thick blocks of ice in Boston. Not the normal ice on the windshield during the winter, it literally looked like someone took a massive block of ice and put cars inside it. It was nuts.

  • @MattyLight30
    @MattyLight30 Год назад +5

    I remember hearing this one on air and laughing along.
    Lolz.

  • @LocaW8ta
    @LocaW8ta Год назад +2

    I can’t deal with Deloney.

  • @lyndaslocs
    @lyndaslocs Год назад +1

    "What's your household income?"