Unfortunately, many women will pretend through all of these discussions or questions, knowing the right thing to say, and then 'revert' later to the exact opposite in tone, actions, speech and behavior. 😢😢😢
Fifty years ago my wife and I were 15 minutes into our first conversation when I asked her if she believed in God. "Yes. Do you?" "Yes." About 45 years later, a hospital nurse asked us how we managed to stay together so long. I told her "It's about keeping your word." I later apologized to my wife for sounding so . . . clinical. "Oh, no!" she said. "You told her exactly what she needed to hear." One thing is certain: "A house divided against itself cannot stand." Jesus was talking about another sphere of authority in that passage, but it applies to all others, including the home. The home is the foundational sphere of human authority on Earth, so it's not for nothing that God protects it in the Tenth Commandment. Neither are we surprised when it comes under attack, as it did in Genesis chapter three. If we keep watch and pray, our children will one day bless us for it, and we'll have done the will of God in our generation.
36... Single, in the dating market, and it is absolute ass... I know I won't live long enough to have the years of marriage you two have had at this point, IF I ever find a wife... But I am glad to see that these kinds of things still exist. Bless you both!
@@Eversaut just stop looking at the negatives ignore them, look for those focused on God and you will find a good woman. I have samson problem i like pretty women that why samson fell he liked the egyptians and philistines women who where more promiscous used make up and where banal. But as i grow older i noticed beauty it secondary i still like them but i rather have a God fearing woman than a pretty face.
@@thystaff742 sadly church has mostly become an emotional narcissist club. They want their emotional fix from their rock concert P&W music and it's all about them.
@firefalcon100 Churches got corrupted when they agreed to the tax exemption act starting in 1958. They gave up their rights to independently teach from scriptures to being dictated what they can and can't teach and practice. That's why they became another tampon club.
Thanks Mark. You just described 99% of modern women today. I rather live in the desert than be with a contentious and troublesome woman. -Proverbs 21:19
I’m going to have to agree. I can’t think of a single woman I’ve ever met that fit this bill. One came close but there were other reasons she wasn’t for me.😊
@@Anaken12 Just remember. All have come short of the glory of God. There is none righteous, not even one. We are still living in the presence of sin. Thus there are many women around that's acceptable. So choose your love and then love what you choose. I am married 35 years and after some introspection, discovered how sinful I was. God doesn't want anyone to perish but all come to repentance. ❤
I am (happily) single for exactly this reason. Today's women are out of control. They expect everything from a man and give nothing in return. Feminism has destroyed women.
And is it a wonder single men stay single.Many men are discreet Migtow . You can be a Christian man and still go your own way . The social dynamics of relationships are al long shot gamble nowadays.lm Friends with lots of women,in church and out of church.The problem for women today is the shortage of men.Men can be selective.How do you define a woman.The 5 F,s.1.She,s your Friend.2 She's Fun.3 She's Fit.4 She's feminine.5 Most importantly She's Faithful.
Its a really bitter pill to swallow when a man shows a woman where she is wrong. Sometimes women's ego are bigger and she will refuse to see her flaws and faults. I was that woman. I was that woman who didnt want to own up to her mistakes and screw ups and i blamed everyone else because of the shame. Being divorced and being currently single has taught me ALOT.
Carefully ticked off all of these. Married for 21 years. Course, she got cold after less than 10 yrs and finally left me for a lover, saying she knew I was faithful, loving, and working on the relationship but she didn't love me anymore. I reluctantly filed the divorce to get the judge I wanted, got the kids and child support. She got dumped from her 'never-faithful' lover less that a week before her birthday and not quite a year after she started cheating. THE POINT. If her character is shallow and her faith convenient, you can do it right and still have the marriage fail if you do not also fulfill her social and status fantasies.
Oh, you think the Bible advocates your male-entitlement mentality and being higher in rank. Newsflash, if you read it in its proper context and consider the example and teachings of Christ, you are not, repeat not, higher in rank than a woman. Are you man enough, strong enough to accept this?
My first wife checked off everything on the list. That's why we divorced. My second wife was a feminist, but I was super in love and she treated me with love and respect.
Ask a woman to read Genesis 3:16 to you and explain what it means. This will tell you everything you need to know! Especially the last part! Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
A curse from the Creator for women to be in subjection to men. Sounds like it wasn't a voluntary thing. Why would a woman voluntarily submit to a man who has, "dominated man to his own injury"? Ya, I'd sit quietly and listen too if that were happening. Look! The first murderer, Cain. Where was Eve? Cursed to be on Adam's side. Where was Abel? I guess no correction for Cain?
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How do you Mean thé video, it's like ignoring thé Bible exists. A 150 years ago and more, People didnt have videos and even didnt need videos to Tell them how to Be good wives and husbands.
1. Unfortunately, even at church now too many women believe that men and women are equal in every way and therefore unworthy long term partners in the marriage God intends for a happy, healthy family
Okay brother, point taken, and I like your points. Let's remember that more women attend church than men and I'm thinking tithe, so there's the cu numbered. What would we do in the preachers situation? But bro, I do agree with your points.
That's because that's how the Bible really is. Remember, every teaching of Paul must go back to a teaching of Christ, or it's just something Paul was dealing with at that time. The Ephesian verses start with 5:21, submit to one another, the wife to the husband (receiving and supporting), and the husband's headship is to love and support (carry out acts of service for) the wife as Christ loves the church. There is no hierarchy, no who is the boss or who has the final say. It's just an example of Christ's command to love one another with aspects of femininity (receiving and supporting) and masculinity (acts of service and love) thrown in. The Bible should never be used to support the worldly, sinful male-entitlement mentality that has plagued humanity for thousands and thousands of years. Strong men know this and embrace this.
@@Himmiefan Yea sure. For 2,000 years men have always had their own way right? Like that draft notice that came in the mail, that shipped him 9,000 miles from home, so he could be butchered on some battlefield. Or spent 40 years in a coal mine, suckin black dust to put food on the table for his family. Then drop dead at 57. Then listen to a smart mouth know it all tell him every day how useless he is. Yea, that’s exactly the way men want to get their way. Stop it.
Today women are a man's competitor! Feminism teaches them they not only can do anything a man can, but they can do it better! I believe no feminist will make it to the kingdom of Heaven!!!
Scripture tells us the woman was made to be a help-meet, not a partner. To use a modern analogy they are team, meaning equal in value but different in role & responsibilities. Just like the kingdom is built on hierarchy, God the Father -> God the Son (Christ) -> man -> woman -> children (until they reach the age of accountability), likewise marriage models the divine order of - husband -> wife -> children.
@@TheWallReports I couldn’t remember the Biblical word. I wonder how Jesus would discern between the two. As much as I have sold out for Jesus, I do find the most annoying thing about fellow Christian believers is their love to argue about words. I see little point unless it is critical for belief.
@@expressoevangelism80 Sir or ma’am, words have meaning. As a supposed fellow believer I’m sure you would agree. No malice was intended w/my response. A well chosen wise word can stop a war while an ill chosen one can start one. Here is the point. I’m not sure where you are in your walk w/Christ. However in the beginning God did not create marriage as a partnership. Scripture tells us marriage was a joining of two flesh. Not a physical joining per se but a joining never-the-less. Adam described Eve as bone of his bone & flesh of his flesh. God (The Father, The Son & The Holy Spirit) said it was not good for man to be alone. Let us make someone suitable for the man - a help-meet. And Eve was created. A help-meet is not a partner. The purpose of a help-meet is to serve as helper. To assist the one being helped in meeting their purpose. Hopefully that adds some context.🕊️
@@TheWallReports As I said, I just couldn’t remember the word. Partner was the closest I could recall at the time. With regards to whatever men and women are supposed to be nowadays, as to whether they are helping each other, or acting as partners, they seem to have lost the plot as the feminist role seems to be alienating them against everyone. I don’t see your comment as an attack, but my further comment as to how so many Christians pick holes in the use of words can so easily derail a point that’s trying to be made, which then gets lost in a petty discussion, just as we are doing now. 🤣
I married a genuine, kind, virtuous woman, and she is definitely a blessing. Second best decision I ever made, and associated with the best decision I made (repentence/Christ).
Many of us did, including me. She was really pretty, but all of the points in the video applied to her. The "but she's really pretty" factor gets a lot of us.
I too, made this mistake when the love of my life and wife of 4 decades died suddenly. I ignored all the red flags in my loneliness and my marriage now is a struggle on so many levels.
I wish I had found this before I wasted 30+ years of constant fighting and bickering about being equal partners or nothing. I should have taken the later.
My ex wife is a Christian by name alone and did not practice His word. She is an anxious avoidant people pleaser that struggles with emotional availability. She broke my heart ☕️
reminds me of a nonchristian married couple. both atheists. we were talking about roles of men and women in marriage. i said the christian faith asserts the husband is the head of the household and then asked, and then asked how they handled disagreements. the husband said nothing. the wife said we talk if over until we decide. TURNS OUT THAT THE DECISION was reached when the husband capitulated to her. she micromanaged his life, treated him like a work horse. he divorced her 10 years later. no surprise.
This particular video resurfaces all the time for me, and I'm glad it does. It always helps me to figure out why I just can't pursue these certain girls. It's hard not to fall for charm... That "one girl" who is fun to talk to--very true! But when everything other than her charm is red flags, then, she's a definite no! It's hard not to get drawn into my protector type habits when a girl is being negative...I hear curse words coming from such a pretty mouth, and I know she's not the one, but it's so easy to think, "Wow, now she''s different. She's down to earth and willing to be vulnerable." Nope, just no!
Had I been taught, what you have shared with me,I might have had an easer time with my former wife.I am very grateful for your Rendition of the teachings from the "Good Book" ( Bible )...I have found, in all relationships the "Bain" of our society today is "Criticism & Judgement"....Of corse the "Good Book"does talk of being "willful "Perhaps that is what was meant in regard to "Criticism & Judgment "( of corse, Judgment is for the good lord alone )....I thank you for your insights and knowledge , God Bless you and your Family....Thank you
I take this to mean you're already married to a woman who has these traits. Here's your opportunity to be a leader! Start meeting with a professionally trained couples counselor asap, even if it's $$. The longer you wait, the worse it will get. Let your wife know that you want to hear what's bothering her as well. It will be more civil & productive with someone trained to keep the discussion on track. God Bless!
Yes and this is very good, sound advise, scripturally supported, and good to remember, keep in mind when pursuing or considering pursuing a meaningful relationship with someone of the opisot sex.
I only had time right right now to listen to the first 1 minute of this. But what you have said is EXACTLY right and is so ultimately important. Personally I believe that the single greatest cause of divorce in America, the last 20-30 years has been the teaching of FEMINISM. Many aspects of which are directly contrary to the Will of God. And therefore can only cause disharmony and disappointment for all involved with a woman deceived by such teaching. Women are so VERY special. And they are special because they are DIFFERENT than men. Thank You Lord for women, Oh YEA !!
Feminism calls for men and women to be viewed as equal in value to society. Equal does not mean same. Good, strong men, men worth having, have no issues with feminism. Weak, little men do.
I hear men say this today. Happy wife, happy life. I see it this way after two failed marriages. Happy life, no wife. I now live to please Jesus not any woman. Today's women dictate to men what's yours is mine and what is mine is mine. Do what I say and the way I want it done. Basically they are saying that they have dominion over us. This is feminism aka the Jezebel spirit. Men don't walk away from women, run!
Seems like many young men today would do better to practice celibacy than to pursue the women in this current age. I do not believe that so many are called to celibacy, in fact it is a rare gift. I have not seen it myself but considering the options left before us, it may be helpful for men to not be anxious about marriage and strive patiently for peace as a solo act unless it becomes obvious the the Almighty has provided a way out of the single lifestyle for you. The same may be said of women! Not to take up with someone who doesn’t not honour them and won’t love them well. Both sides have seen enough of what this means and much more.
Paul warned men against marriage back in HIS day, imagine what he'd be saying now! He condemned women gossiping back in that day, NOW women gossip in front of the whole world. Posting tik tok videos shaming their husbands, literally airing out their dirty laundry, not just to the neighbors, but to EVERYONE!
It’s not horrible to be different, actually it’s quite beautiful and as is the case with the entire universe it’s meant to be about balance. People have become lost in greed seeking “the best deal”
#3. Are my mother and her mother. I had nothing to do with my maternal grandmother for the last six years of her life. I have avoided my mother for the last year or two. I have no plans of reconciliation.
As a christian husband we are asked to treat our wives like Christ does the Church, and gives himself up for her. My wife has been a Christian since she was young. She loves the Lord, obeys the word ("for the most part"), and tries to follow the Lord as best she can. When we were dating, she was light hearted, showed she was physically attracted to me, and did things for me. After the kids were born, and we went through bankruptcy in 2010 everything changed. She was no longer attracted to me, she said she no longer respects me, and didn't want to do things for me. That doesn't change what I promised her. Fortunately I recently got Peripheral Neuropathy, so I don't even think about sex that much anymore. She works all the time, so she doesn't need me to spend a lot of time with her. We both work from home, so it's peaceful and quiet.
When I returned from prodigal days to Christ, he took away drugs, alcohol and cigarettes with no detox in one day. Hallelujah. He took me through 7x of medical near to death 2x not breathing. He took away alpha galactose allergies from a tick bite.
It would help if things were explained more. Yes we know a man is a husband and maybe a father and a woman a wife and maybe a mother. But examples would be useful here. What does this look like, practically? Where are the boundaries? What falls in the specific roles and what not?
Much is taught about not being unequally yoked, as meaning stay away from someone that’s not a believer. I can’t explicitly say that my fiancé is Christian. However, the first thing God told me about her, is that she would accept me as her leader. That’s all I needed to know…… This precious girl actually refers to me as her king. It just naturally comes out of her. Try to find any American girl that will do this. Go ahead, I’ll wait…… This is not some poor girl from the Philippines. She is actually a fashion model. I’m not kidding. She’s also highly educated. I didn’t find the this girl overnight.
Amen to this i am with you in this the holy spirit dwells in us both male and female and when the holy spirit gives you wisdom and understanding to talk to people and spread his word what are you supposed to do? Stay silent 🤫 nope I don't agree I agree female should not be a preacher ie and priest head of the church, but I believe we can share the gospel to anyone which i do ,I'm proud to have Jesus as my saviour so why am I being silenced, especially when you've broken and God has redeemed you ,keep talking, and what if you've been hurt number of times by the man you've married and being treat like absolute rubbish and been made to feel worthy, then that's OK is it? Keep going woman of faith you've got this the holy spirit dwells in us and he will carry us through and situation amen 🙏
Sorry I was ment to say unworthy, that's ok is it ,when the man your married that actually is a man of God himself I state is bitter and narcissist towards you that's ok???? I handed in over to God as I can't change him only our lord Jesus Christ can do the impossible 🙏
If a woman and man both fear the Lord, live tot serve Him, seek tot do his will in everything, have a personal relation with the lord, that is a solid foundation for a marriage. If a women rejects the teaching of the bible that the man is the head of the household, the head of his wife and that she should follow his lead, submit tot her husband as scripture says, you must not marry her. Look at her life, how she treats other people, does she make sacrifices for the sake of other people, does she talk about scripture verses that spoke to her heart, that directed her, that corrected her, that encouraged her faith. If the word of God is not central in her life and speaks tot her, if you don't see these things, then she may pretend to be a dedicated christian, but she is not.
It's important to remember that some men are not very smart and could lead you down a path to financial problems, etc. Women need to remember to marry up. Never marry down. He needs to be intelligent and have leadership skills. Who wants to follow the lead of someone with very poor judgment?
I think, we have to ask ourselves, what can I do for my wife, to spiritually lead hear? As well it may be very much burdensome, having such a wife, Jesus says, come to me, his burden is light!
Yes, it’s because of the curse in the garden, and the female spirits that rule this world, Tiamat above, Tome below. Ecclesiastes 7 25 I applied mine heart to know, and to search, and to seek out wisdom, and the reason of things, and to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness: 26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.
I wish that I would have had good roll models as i was growing up. And wish that somebody would have stepped up as a man and gave me advise. But 29 years of a crappy marriage.
@@jonathanmilroy8417 careful friend as many of us have experienced suddenly it's 20-30 years of heart ague and misery and the ultimate end is still divorce. That's all that time lost. Only the faith in Jesus can control the anger and disappointment that will follow.
don't blame the entire Zodiac sign. There are good examples of representatives of Sagittarius and there are bad examples, it's Bell Curved. It's a humanistic, dualistic quality to be good or bad. Drinking is an early sign of BPD though. Don't know what your Holy Book says about drinking women, but I'm pretty sure the Bible mentions it as a red flag.
Virginity comes first. If she is not a virgin, she is not obedient to God in the first place. That means trouble *a husband* absolutely doesn't need in his life.
The Prophet Jeremiah announced for the last days that women shall surround and dominate men for good. Probably as a preparation for the Day of the Lord, when there won't be married nomore as all are married with the Spirit of God, when it won't matter whether you're a man or a woman - as long as you resurrect in the Spirit of God. 🍷📜🗿⏳
There is only one god don’t worship women sex out side marriage is a sin ,don’t make sex a god . better to be single and love every one the same .watch what is on your mind all the time and watch what is in your heart gods love is the most important thing 😀
Takes more than. They are especially adept at tearing out pages of the Bible as best suits them or jumping through all kinds of logical hoops to get the Bible to say the opposite of what it does.
If you like her beauty.. charming... that's on the man. (A very shallow standard). A mature man w/ a mature woman. Why would she be mouthy? Unless she's a Jezabel. Am I suppose to think I cannot be descieved when "the heart is desperately wicked and deceitful." Jer 17. 9 Am I suppose to pick when Abraham sent his servant who prayed for a sign. 1Sam16.7, man looks at the appearance and YHVH looks at the heart. Big clue And Gideon asked for an external sigh, twice. It's simple "don't be unequally yoked." I put to practice Abraham's, Samuel & Gideons examples. It worked! 30 yrs ago.
So like a solid 90% of American women. Young and old. Good luck to a smart Man actually finding a suitable wife in these times. In the book of Jeremiah God also tells him to not take a wife in the land because they are all wicked. Sigh...in the meantime all us Men can do is strive to live a righteous lonely life in Jesus 🙏
IT CAN BE UNLESS YOU ASK GOD/ JESUS // GIVE IT ALL TO HIM LET HIM PICK THE RIGHT GIRL FOR YOU // IT WORKS I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FO 30 YEARS // DOESSHE THINK DIFFERENT THAN ME YES // DO I FORGIVE HER YES / DOES SHE FORGIVE ME YES
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Unfortunately, many women will pretend through all of these discussions or questions, knowing the right thing to say, and then 'revert' later to the exact opposite in tone, actions, speech and behavior. 😢😢😢
You got to keep looking some of us are very good.
100%
Yup, sadly I found out too late that’s the way my ex wife was.
@@tory198511 Some are masters at it, who can pretend for very long periods of time, until they get what they want.
@@tory198511 I'm not doubting that. But curious to know, what makes you "very good"?
Fifty years ago my wife and I were 15 minutes into our first conversation when I asked her if she believed in God.
"Yes. Do you?"
"Yes."
About 45 years later, a hospital nurse asked us how we managed to stay together so long. I told her "It's about keeping your word."
I later apologized to my wife for sounding so . . . clinical.
"Oh, no!" she said. "You told her exactly what she needed to hear."
One thing is certain: "A house divided against itself cannot stand." Jesus was talking about another sphere of authority in that passage, but it applies to all others, including the home.
The home is the foundational sphere of human authority on Earth, so it's not for nothing that God protects it in the Tenth Commandment. Neither are we surprised when it comes under attack, as it did in Genesis chapter three.
If we keep watch and pray, our children will one day bless us for it, and we'll have done the will of God in our generation.
"It's about keeping your word." AMEN.
36... Single, in the dating market, and it is absolute ass... I know I won't live long enough to have the years of marriage you two have had at this point, IF I ever find a wife... But I am glad to see that these kinds of things still exist. Bless you both!
@@Eversaut just stop looking at the negatives ignore them, look for those focused on God and you will find a good woman.
I have samson problem i like pretty women that why samson fell he liked the egyptians and philistines women who where more promiscous used make up and where banal.
But as i grow older i noticed beauty it secondary i still like them but i rather have a God fearing woman than a pretty face.
@@Eversaut Get your passport and leave America - there are no wifes here
Amen
This disqualified the vast majority of Western women.
Many of them attend church too.
As Dustin Hoffman said the movie Hook, “strike, true.”
@@thystaff742 sadly church has mostly become an emotional narcissist club. They want their emotional fix from their rock concert P&W music and it's all about them.
@@firefalcon100exactly just my Sunday attendance has appeased God. I don’t think that’s the way this works..
@firefalcon100 Churches got corrupted when they agreed to the tax exemption act starting in 1958. They gave up their rights to independently teach from scriptures to being dictated what they can and can't teach and practice. That's why they became another tampon club.
Thanks Mark. You just described 99% of modern women today.
I rather live in the desert than be with a contentious and troublesome woman. -Proverbs 21:19
The way I say it is this: I'd rather be alone with Christ for the right reasons than with a woman for the wrong ones
Totally Agree. Wise words indeed. I just made a 3 month trip to Europe. It’s so much better over there in that regard.
@@Ezekiel336-16 that sounds wise and powerful
I’m going to have to agree. I can’t think of a single woman I’ve ever met that fit this bill. One came close but there were other reasons she wasn’t for me.😊
@@Anaken12 Just remember. All have come short of the glory of God. There is none righteous, not even one. We are still living in the presence of sin.
Thus there are many women around that's acceptable. So choose your love and then love what you choose. I am married 35 years and after some introspection, discovered how sinful I was. God doesn't want anyone to perish but all come to repentance. ❤
I am (happily) single for exactly this reason. Today's women are out of control. They expect everything from a man and give nothing in return. Feminism has destroyed women.
NOT THE BIBLE AND GOD'S WORD !...
And is it a wonder single men stay single.Many men are discreet Migtow . You can be a Christian man and still go your own way . The social dynamics of relationships are al long shot gamble nowadays.lm Friends with lots of women,in church and out of church.The problem for women today is the shortage of men.Men can be selective.How do you define a woman.The 5 F,s.1.She,s your Friend.2 She's Fun.3 She's Fit.4 She's feminine.5 Most importantly She's Faithful.
We thank you for staying single.
Yeah. You’re celibate “by choice”! 😆😂🤣
@@Frankie5Angels150 Don't be a dick.
Its a really bitter pill to swallow when a man shows a woman where she is wrong. Sometimes women's ego are bigger and she will refuse to see her flaws and faults. I was that woman. I was that woman who didnt want to own up to her mistakes and screw ups and i blamed everyone else because of the shame. Being divorced and being currently single has taught me ALOT.
Carefully ticked off all of these. Married for 21 years. Course, she got cold after less than 10 yrs and finally left me for a lover, saying she knew I was faithful, loving, and working on the relationship but she didn't love me anymore. I reluctantly filed the divorce to get the judge I wanted, got the kids and child support. She got dumped from her 'never-faithful' lover less that a week before her birthday and not quite a year after she started cheating.
THE POINT. If her character is shallow and her faith convenient, you can do it right and still have the marriage fail if you do not also fulfill her social and status fantasies.
That last line . Very true.
Same happened to me after 22 years. Only she filed for the divorce.
@@josephpellegrino2441 Eighty percent of divorces are filed by females.
Eccl 7:28:
Which I am still seeking… one upright man among a thousand I have found, but an upright woman among all those I have not found.
Yes before i was for total gender equality.
But now.... The bible is right.
A ho must submit, shut her hole🤐 and know her role.
Oh, you think the Bible advocates your male-entitlement mentality and being higher in rank. Newsflash, if you read it in its proper context and consider the example and teachings of Christ, you are not, repeat not, higher in rank than a woman. Are you man enough, strong enough to accept this?
My ex wife was three out of four when I met her. She divorced me once she got to four out of four. Wish I’d known what you point out here decades ago.
My first wife checked off everything on the list. That's why we divorced. My second wife was a feminist, but I was super in love and she treated me with love and respect.
Excellent teaching brother. Too many folks marry the wrong spouse. Too many pastors fail to teach this in church.
I get a bit triggered when I hear pastors tiptoeing around women during marriage messages.
Yea it husbands love ur wife but what of the opposite
Afraid of hurting some ones fealings , wanting to please everyone, dont want to step on someones toes, and all of these are definitely WRONG
Right?! Too many women marry bad men. I'm glad you agree.
Churches became extensions of feminism back in the 90s. If a church agrees with the tax exemption act, they're not a house of God.
This truth cuts like a red hot knife though my soul
Ask a woman to read Genesis 3:16 to you and explain what it means. This will tell you everything you need to know! Especially the last part!
Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
A curse from the Creator for women to be in subjection to men.
Sounds like it wasn't a voluntary thing.
Why would a woman voluntarily submit to a man who has, "dominated man to his own injury"?
Ya, I'd sit quietly and listen too if that were happening.
Look! The first murderer, Cain.
Where was Eve? Cursed to be on Adam's side.
Where was Abel?
I guess no correction for Cain?
You, sir, have just outed yourself as someone who is not datable nor marriage material.
4 Biblical Marks that Mean a Man will be a Curse rather than a Blessing to You
8 Minutes 55 Seconds
Very Interesting...✝️
ruclips.net/video/Fw_25r-OQdQ/видео.htmlsi=5PnAxmu-JPbDRU7M
4 Biblical Marks that Mean a Man will be a Curse rather than a Blessing to You
8 Minutes 55 Seconds
Very Interesting...✝️
ruclips.net/video/Fw_25r-OQdQ/видео.htmlsi=5PnAxmu-JPbDRU7M
If only i had this video 9 years ago.
30 years for me
I needed the other one he made for women regarding men 20 years ago. 😕
54 yrs for me!
@@Nellieroo6203 Can you link the other one or give the name of video?
How do you Mean thé video, it's like ignoring thé Bible exists. A 150 years ago and more, People didnt have videos and even didnt need videos to Tell them how to Be good wives and husbands.
1. Unfortunately, even at church now too many women believe that men and women are equal in every way and therefore unworthy long term partners in the marriage God intends for a happy, healthy family
They play a game called Churchianity very well but don't adhere to scriptural teachings.
Okay brother, point taken, and I like your points. Let's remember that more women attend church than men and I'm thinking tithe, so there's the cu numbered. What would we do in the preachers situation? But bro, I do agree with your points.
@cadillac1smith485 wonder why less men go to church....well many churches poop on men, I've seen it nyself
That's because that's how the Bible really is. Remember, every teaching of Paul must go back to a teaching of Christ, or it's just something Paul was dealing with at that time. The Ephesian verses start with 5:21, submit to one another, the wife to the husband (receiving and supporting), and the husband's headship is to love and support (carry out acts of service for) the wife as Christ loves the church. There is no hierarchy, no who is the boss or who has the final say. It's just an example of Christ's command to love one another with aspects of femininity (receiving and supporting) and masculinity (acts of service and love) thrown in. The Bible should never be used to support the worldly, sinful male-entitlement mentality that has plagued humanity for thousands and thousands of years. Strong men know this and embrace this.
@@Himmiefan or female entitlement. Look at women hitting men or using themselves to gain stuff like money for sex
Praise to the Lord for your ministry Mark! Matthew 18:3-4, take heart and continue faithfully teaching!
A woman’s tongue is always her undoing. And a woman’s tears, are an indicator she’s not getting her own way……
Bam!
And a man's fist is his indicator that he thinks he should have his own way, when he's not misquoting the Bible, of course.
@@Himmiefan Yea sure. For 2,000 years men have always had their own way right? Like that draft notice that came in the mail, that shipped him 9,000 miles from home, so he could be butchered on some battlefield.
Or spent 40 years in a coal mine, suckin black dust to put food on the table for his family. Then drop dead at 57.
Then listen to a smart mouth know it all tell him every day how useless he is.
Yea, that’s exactly the way men want to get their way. Stop it.
I second that.....I have to borrow this..... This is good right here....👌
Misogynist comment. Plenty of wicked men out there. Too many.
Thank you for this important information. I pray that many men will wisdom.
Mark,
Thanks for today's blessing!
My players! All glory to God!
This is CLEARLY for the younger generation (that still has a chance).
I'm 41. 👀 I'll see myself out...
Cowardice or what? Why are you writing yourself off at only 41?
This is very good advise!
this format really suits me
The Bible tells us that a woman is to be our partner. As to whether we choose the right partner, that takes a certain amount of wisdom.
Today women are a man's competitor! Feminism teaches them they not only can do anything a man can, but they can do it better! I believe no feminist will make it to the kingdom of Heaven!!!
Scripture tells us the woman was made to be a help-meet, not a partner. To use a modern analogy they are team, meaning equal in value but different in role & responsibilities. Just like the kingdom is built on hierarchy, God the Father -> God the Son (Christ) -> man -> woman -> children (until they reach the age of accountability), likewise marriage models the divine order of - husband -> wife -> children.
@@TheWallReports I couldn’t remember the Biblical word.
I wonder how Jesus would discern between the two.
As much as I have sold out for Jesus, I do find the most annoying thing about fellow Christian believers is their love to argue about words.
I see little point unless it is critical for belief.
@@expressoevangelism80 Sir or ma’am, words have meaning. As a supposed fellow believer I’m sure you would agree. No malice was intended w/my response. A well chosen wise word can stop a war while an ill chosen one can start one. Here is the point. I’m not sure where you are in your walk w/Christ. However in the beginning God did not create marriage as a partnership. Scripture tells us marriage was a joining of two flesh. Not a physical joining per se but a joining never-the-less. Adam described Eve as bone of his bone & flesh of his flesh. God (The Father, The Son & The Holy Spirit) said it was not good for man to be alone. Let us make someone suitable for the man - a help-meet. And Eve was created. A help-meet is not a partner. The purpose of a help-meet is to serve as helper. To assist the one being helped in meeting their purpose. Hopefully that adds some context.🕊️
@@TheWallReports As I said, I just couldn’t remember the word. Partner was the closest I could recall at the time.
With regards to whatever men and women are supposed to be nowadays, as to whether they are helping each other, or acting as partners, they seem to have lost the plot as the feminist role seems to be alienating them against everyone.
I don’t see your comment as an attack, but my further comment as to how so many Christians pick holes in the use of words can so easily derail a point that’s trying to be made, which then gets lost in a petty discussion, just as we are doing now. 🤣
I married a genuine, kind, virtuous woman, and she is definitely a blessing.
Second best decision I ever made, and associated with the best decision I made (repentence/Christ).
The signs were all there and I chose to ignore them.
Many of us did, including me. She was really pretty, but all of the points in the video applied to her. The "but she's really pretty" factor gets a lot of us.
@@CT-if2tt Amen, brother
I too, made this mistake when the love of my life and wife of 4 decades died suddenly. I ignored all the red flags in my loneliness and my marriage now is a struggle on so many levels.
Yo, I just love that you used a ginger for the thumbnail on a video about someone beimg a curse 😂😂
I wish I had found this before I wasted 30+ years of constant fighting and bickering about being equal partners or nothing. I should have taken the later.
My ex wife is a Christian by name alone and did not practice His word. She is an anxious avoidant people pleaser that struggles with emotional availability. She broke my heart ☕️
These women that are kind and caring are unicorns
Sooner or later….
You’re gonna have to talk to her.
reminds me of a nonchristian married couple. both atheists. we were talking about roles of men and women in marriage. i said the christian faith asserts the husband is the head of the household and then asked, and then asked how they handled disagreements. the husband said nothing. the wife said we talk if over until we decide. TURNS OUT THAT THE DECISION was reached when the husband capitulated to her. she micromanaged his life, treated him like a work horse. he divorced her 10 years later. no surprise.
really liked this video
This particular video resurfaces all the time for me, and I'm glad it does. It always helps me to figure out why I just can't pursue these certain girls. It's hard not to fall for charm... That "one girl" who is fun to talk to--very true! But when everything other than her charm is red flags, then, she's a definite no! It's hard not to get drawn into my protector type habits when a girl is being negative...I hear curse words coming from such a pretty mouth, and I know she's not the one, but it's so easy to think, "Wow, now she''s different. She's down to earth and willing to be vulnerable." Nope, just no!
I win, I win, my wife was all that!
Don't worry, cuz I'll be standing strong and stoic on my ground
Okay
Had I been taught, what you have shared with me,I might have had an easer time with my former wife.I am very grateful for your Rendition of the teachings from the "Good Book" ( Bible )...I have found, in all relationships the "Bain" of our society today is "Criticism & Judgement"....Of corse the "Good Book"does talk of being "willful "Perhaps that is what was meant in regard to "Criticism & Judgment "( of corse, Judgment is for the good lord alone )....I thank you for your insights and knowledge , God Bless you and your Family....Thank you
Stay Strong Brothers, reject simping and beta ways🎉 your are the Man 🎉
In order to have everlasting life you absolutely must trust in the person and finished work of Christ alone for salvation 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕.
Great points!👍
I kind of wish I didn’t watch this, have mercy on me lord.
why?
@@SamuelQuaye-zs4uc it’s personal
@@peterharpas5877 ok. sure
I take this to mean you're already married to a woman who has these traits.
Here's your opportunity to be a leader! Start meeting with a professionally trained couples counselor asap, even if it's $$. The longer you wait, the worse it will get. Let your wife know that you want to hear what's bothering her as well. It will be more civil & productive with someone trained to keep the discussion on track. God Bless!
Yes and this is very good, sound advise, scripturally supported, and good to remember, keep in mind when pursuing or considering pursuing a meaningful relationship with someone of the opisot sex.
I wish I Hurd this or was Taught this as a boy, Notice an old man who's gone through a wreck 😢 God bless you and this chenille
I only had time right right now to listen to the first 1 minute of this. But what you have said is EXACTLY right and is so ultimately important. Personally I believe that the single greatest cause of divorce in America, the last 20-30 years has been the teaching of FEMINISM. Many aspects of which are directly contrary to the Will of God. And therefore can only cause disharmony and disappointment for all involved with a woman deceived by such teaching. Women are so VERY special. And they are special because they are DIFFERENT than men. Thank You Lord for women, Oh YEA !!
You didn't have time to watch the full message, but you had the time to voice your beliefs?
Feminism calls for men and women to be viewed as equal in value to society. Equal does not mean same. Good, strong men, men worth having, have no issues with feminism. Weak, little men do.
If a woman thinks she’s my equal, she can find a wife of her own.
I must say all of us fall short of a perfect Christ like character.
I hear men say this today. Happy wife, happy life. I see it this way after two failed marriages. Happy life, no wife. I now live to please Jesus not any woman. Today's women dictate to men what's yours is mine and what is mine is mine. Do what I say and the way I want it done. Basically they are saying that they have dominion over us. This is feminism aka the Jezebel spirit. Men don't walk away from women, run!
faith ~ hope ~ love
Only God Almighty🎉 -
Could EVER present the😊proper wife someday.
Seems like many young men today would do better to practice celibacy than to pursue the women in this current age. I do not believe that so many are called to celibacy, in fact it is a rare gift. I have not seen it myself but considering the options left before us, it may be helpful for men to not be anxious about marriage and strive patiently for peace as a solo act unless it becomes obvious the the Almighty has provided a way out of the single lifestyle for you. The same may be said of women! Not to take up with someone who doesn’t not honour them and won’t love them well. Both sides have seen enough of what this means and much more.
We’re not meant to be alone.
Seek out Orthodox Christianity - It does not teach Feminism or the worship of Women - Only God's word
Paul warned men against marriage back in HIS day, imagine what he'd be saying now!
He condemned women gossiping back in that day, NOW women gossip in front of the whole world. Posting tik tok videos shaming their husbands, literally airing out their dirty laundry, not just to the neighbors, but to EVERYONE!
Soooooo have you done a video for women too on when to run from a man ??
Yes! The link is pinned at the top, and it's really really good!!
It’s not horrible to be different, actually it’s quite beautiful and as is the case with the entire universe it’s meant to be about balance. People have become lost in greed seeking “the best deal”
Timestamps:
1) 0:06
2) 1:30
3) 2:27
4) 3:46
Thank you
I Will put Enmity Between Her Seed and The Seed of The Serpent...
#3. Are my mother and her mother. I had nothing to do with my maternal grandmother for the last six years of her life. I have avoided my mother for the last year or two. I have no plans of reconciliation.
As a christian husband we are asked to treat our wives like Christ does the Church, and gives himself up for her. My wife has been a Christian since she was young. She loves the Lord, obeys the word ("for the most part"), and tries to follow the Lord as best she can. When we were dating, she was light hearted, showed she was physically attracted to me, and did things for me. After the kids were born, and we went through bankruptcy in 2010 everything changed. She was no longer attracted to me, she said she no longer respects me, and didn't want to do things for me. That doesn't change what I promised her. Fortunately I recently got Peripheral Neuropathy, so I don't even think about sex that much anymore. She works all the time, so she doesn't need me to spend a lot of time with her. We both work from home, so it's peaceful and quiet.
When I returned from prodigal days to Christ, he took away drugs, alcohol and cigarettes with no detox in one day. Hallelujah. He took me through 7x of medical near to death 2x not breathing. He took away alpha galactose allergies from a tick bite.
It would help if things were explained more. Yes we know a man is a husband and maybe a father and a woman a wife and maybe a mother. But examples would be useful here. What does this look like, practically? Where are the boundaries? What falls in the specific roles and what not?
awesome
I’ve accepted that I’ll die alone.
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
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Who is they?
Much is taught about not being unequally yoked, as meaning stay away from someone that’s not a believer.
I can’t explicitly say that my fiancé is Christian.
However, the first thing God told me about her, is that she would accept me as her leader.
That’s all I needed to know……
This precious girl actually refers to me as her king. It just naturally comes out of her.
Try to find any American girl that will do this.
Go ahead, I’ll wait……
This is not some poor girl from the Philippines. She is actually a fashion model. I’m not kidding. She’s also highly educated. I didn’t find the this girl overnight.
My brother, I’m going to be brutally honest, is a set up and you’re walking into it. I pray that I’m wrong.
Amen to this i am with you in this the holy spirit dwells in us both male and female and when the holy spirit gives you wisdom and understanding to talk to people and spread his word what are you supposed to do? Stay silent 🤫 nope I don't agree I agree female should not be a preacher ie and priest head of the church, but I believe we can share the gospel to anyone which i do ,I'm proud to have Jesus as my saviour so why am I being silenced, especially when you've broken and God has redeemed you ,keep talking, and what if you've been hurt number of times by the man you've married and being treat like absolute rubbish and been made to feel worthy, then that's OK is it? Keep going woman of faith you've got this the holy spirit dwells in us and he will carry us through and situation amen 🙏
Sorry I was ment to say unworthy, that's ok is it ,when the man your married that actually is a man of God himself I state is bitter and narcissist towards you that's ok???? I handed in over to God as I can't change him only our lord Jesus Christ can do the impossible 🙏
If a woman and man both fear the Lord, live tot serve Him, seek tot do his will in everything, have a personal relation with the lord, that is a solid foundation for a marriage.
If a women rejects the teaching of the bible that the man is the head of the household, the head of his wife and that she should follow his lead, submit tot her husband as scripture says, you must not marry her. Look at her life, how she treats other people, does she make sacrifices for the sake of other people, does she talk about scripture verses that spoke to her heart, that directed her, that corrected her, that encouraged her faith. If the word of God is not central in her life and speaks tot her, if you don't see these things, then she may pretend to be a dedicated christian, but she is not.
It's important to remember that some men are not very smart and could lead you down a path to financial problems, etc. Women need to remember to marry up. Never marry down. He needs to be intelligent and have leadership skills. Who wants to follow the lead of someone with very poor judgment?
First of all in order to be successful in a marriage we all have to have wisdom and this issue comes only from the Lord since we all are sinners
1:30 A beautiful woman without discretion, is like a fine gold ring in the snout of a pig.
I think, we have to ask ourselves, what can I do for my wife, to spiritually lead hear? As well it may be very much burdensome, having such a wife, Jesus says, come to me, his burden is light!
You just described every modern woman to a T, I don't know any woman who is not as you described.
Thank you god for giving me the perfect wife
I don't believe that it's always been this way, it seems like women that were born before 1960 seem to be more committed and loyal, just my opinion 🤔
Are the 4 markers: 1. She’s a flight Attendant, 2. She’s a Nurse, 3. She’s a Hair Dresser, or 4. She’s a Lawyer?
I’ll watch now and find out.
Yes, it’s because of the curse in the garden, and the female spirits that rule this world, Tiamat above, Tome below. Ecclesiastes 7
25 I applied mine heart to know, and to search, and to seek out wisdom, and the reason of things, and to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness:
26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.
I wish that I would have had good roll models as i was growing up. And wish that somebody would have stepped up as a man and gave me advise. But 29 years of a crappy marriage.
Revelation 12 and 13 in Conjunction...
All True
But once you marry one - do you divorce her if she's a curse or do you persist through it?
You persist. That's what Scripture teaches
@@Zoe_Langa Thanks. That's what I thought it said. I will then.
@@jonathanmilroy8417 don't let her wear the pantalones man hahaha
@@jonathanmilroy8417 careful friend as many of us have experienced suddenly it's 20-30 years of heart ague and misery and the ultimate end is still divorce. That's all that time lost. Only the faith in Jesus can control the anger and disappointment that will follow.
YES IF THEY WANT TO TURN YOU AEWASY FROM GOD'S TEACHINGS ! SAME WITH MEN THAT DO THE SAME AS THE BAD WOMAN !...
At this particular juncture it's fair to say that you have a 60/40 chance ending up with this kind of woman if you get married.
Amen!
She is a Sagittarius and she drinks that's two of them
don't blame the entire Zodiac sign. There are good examples of representatives of Sagittarius and there are bad examples, it's Bell Curved. It's a humanistic, dualistic quality to be good or bad.
Drinking is an early sign of BPD though. Don't know what your Holy Book says about drinking women, but I'm pretty sure the Bible mentions it as a red flag.
Red head?
Virginity comes first. If she is not a virgin, she is not obedient to God in the first place. That means trouble *a husband* absolutely doesn't need in his life.
I’m not feeling this comment section.
The Prophet Jeremiah announced for the last days that women shall surround and dominate men for good. Probably as a preparation for the Day of the Lord, when there won't be married nomore as all are married with the Spirit of God, when it won't matter whether you're a man or a woman - as long as you resurrect in the Spirit of God. 🍷📜🗿⏳
I don't hate women.
I live as a hermit.
I believe it's better To be lonely, then suffer from a broken heart. I just don't have It in me, I'm done.
best!!!
So. A pro-Homosexual men or battered women video. Great job.
Life is hard.
It's even harder when you're stupid.
I'm convinced that pease who actually follows these precepts don't exist anymore, especially the women.
I am the king of my house.
Are there really guys that don’t know these things?
You’d be surprised, especially those with dads who weren’t there.
There are some good women but they are so very few and far between in America.
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There is only one god don’t worship women sex out side marriage is a sin ,don’t make sex a god . better to be single and love every one the same .watch what is on your mind all the time and watch what is in your heart gods love is the most important thing 😀
If you find a woman that actually reads the scriptures you've already won the lottery
Takes more than. They are especially adept at tearing out pages of the Bible as best suits them or jumping through all kinds of logical hoops to get the Bible to say the opposite of what it does.
If you like her beauty.. charming... that's on the man. (A very shallow standard).
A mature man w/ a mature woman.
Why would she be mouthy? Unless she's a Jezabel.
Am I suppose to think I cannot be descieved when "the heart is desperately wicked and deceitful." Jer 17. 9
Am I suppose to pick when Abraham sent his servant who prayed for a sign.
1Sam16.7, man looks at the appearance and YHVH looks at the heart.
Big clue
And Gideon asked for an external sigh, twice.
It's simple "don't be unequally yoked."
I put to practice Abraham's, Samuel & Gideons examples. It worked!
30 yrs ago.
Kiehn Mall
So like a solid 90% of American women. Young and old. Good luck to a smart Man actually finding a suitable wife in these times. In the book of Jeremiah God also tells him to not take a wife in the land because they are all wicked. Sigh...in the meantime all us Men can do is strive to live a righteous lonely life in Jesus 🙏
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#1 if she is alive and breathing
# 2 see #1
Juuuuust kidding🤣🤣🤣🤣
IT CAN BE UNLESS YOU ASK GOD/ JESUS // GIVE IT ALL TO HIM LET HIM PICK THE RIGHT GIRL FOR YOU // IT WORKS I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FO 30 YEARS // DOESSHE THINK DIFFERENT THAN ME YES // DO I FORGIVE HER YES / DOES SHE FORGIVE ME YES