People on this platform never talk about the negatives of life abroad. They sugarcoat it. Its not the utopia people think. Ive lived 4 years abroad and I'm over it for many reasons. I rarely leave my home anymore. Thankfully, I'm leaving soon
Every country has its pros and cons and im not saying that as an ignotant fool im someone who constantlly researched crime statistics cuz im afraid of being murdered as an irational fear, anyways if i wanna live in colombia, or mexico, or japan, even the united states horror stories arent gonna stop me if im in love with said country
I always dreamed of living abroad, but I will never do it. I’ve traveled abroad for up to three weeks. I always got bored near the end of the second week. That’s how I know that I will never live abroad.
I lived abroad in Guatemala and Venezuela. Loved it! Perhaps because I’m Latina and most of you are not. Now you know how immigrants feel in this country
Wow! I didn’t know what to expect from this story, but I’m at the edge of my seat waiting for part 2. So sorry for all the tragedy and trauma your family has faced in these events. Feeling relief that at least we know you are home safe. Hope that means all 5 of you!
Dear Allison, I am deeply sorry to hear about your recent experience. I cannot begin to imagine the challenges you have faced. However, I am confident that with your strength and resilience, you will overcome these obstacles. Please know that you are not alone and that we are here to support you in any way we can. ❤❤🇸🇻🇸🇻🙏🙏💪💪🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
This is making me really think about which country my hubby and I are going to retire to. This is ONE HORRIFIC story and I'm so sorry this happened to you guys! Sending love from San Diego.
Hi Allison, my wife and I met you and your family while we were living in Nicaragua at Tree Casa. We also were thinking we were going to build a home and live there for a very long time. Then the contractor that built our home scammed us out of ALOT of money. Warning to all, do your due diligence when selecting a contractor there around SJDS. We ended up selling our unfinished home and leaving for good. Sad to see your video of your experience as well. Will watch out for Part 2.
@@allisonsjourney yes, he was recommended by our Realtor. Seemed super friendly, spoke English so that was helpful. Just charmed us into believing his lies.
@@allisonsjourney I am so tempted in putting up a video as well, because I have so much damning evidence of fraud that would land him in jail for years For now I am letting our lawyer handle it.
Having lived in Jamaica some years ago, it sounds to me that everyone saw an opportunity to extort you and were all hoping to get a piece of the bribe money. Human rights and fue process are determined on the amount of money you can come up with. People complain about corruption in the US, and yes we have it, but in other places it affects everyone on a daily basis. If you have money you will be taken advantage of, and if you're broke you will be abused.
As an American living in NIcaragua, I can tell you I feel so much safer and corruption affects me far less (but never zero) day to day in Nicaragua than in the US. If you live in an enclave (anywhere near SJDS) you are going to be a target for sure. But expats living in NIcaragua proper (not enclaves) very, very rarely have the "people are out to take advantage of us" experiences. SJDS is so bad that it's referred to as the "expat pyramid scheme" because it's more often expats, not Nicas, that are doing the taking advantage. Those that have been around a long time know who is knew and who doesn't know the ropes and who is likely to be easy to prey on. It's sad. And Nicas know it too, but the expats are far more likely to do it (and are more likely to have jurisdiction protections - many scams are multinational to make them hard to prosecute.) Nowhere is perfect. But don't forget that loads of people in both countries have anecdotes of problems. I have a friend who was human trafficked by the Canadian mounties for goodness sake! But what matters is the statistics. Nicaragua remains safer and with a more concrete criminal system than the US. The US more dangerous (violence) and has no rule of law. At this point in the story, the courts aren't even involved. For Allison (at this point in her telling) is still outside the legal system dealing with just lawyers and people claiming to be the family. You aren't seeing anything of the legal system, they are still attempting to avoid that.
This is some scary stuff. When you guys first moved to Nicaragua, I really wanted to go see it for myself, because you made it sound so good. But what you're telling, this is the reality of it. I can only imagine how this is going to go down from here. Lots of money I would say. I'm so sorry but thankful you are all home in Canada.
No idea if you did this but know your country's embassy will be very helpful if you are detained, arrested or suffer a serious life-threatening emergency overseas.
Thanks for sharing your story. I have never had the desire to leave my country but many people tout it on social media. I would never live anywhere I didn't have command of the native language. Glad you got out OK.
I agree. I think visiting is ok but to live there and not be fluent or at least be above an intermediate level is asking for trouble. People do say the best way to learn is to immerse yourself in the culture but I dont know if that applies to moving there
@@allisonsjourney I'm in part 4 now and finally hearing the whole story. All those weeks, every time I drove by the police station or your community...it was pressing on all of us that you were suffering as a family. The day he was released was very important. Love you all Allison. You are safe and can heal the trauma, God bless you.
@@allisonsjourney I’m sorry Allison what you, your husband and family are going through. I am Nica/American who knows how things in Nicaragua can go and at the same time doesn’t know everything and ALL the intricacies corruption, greed, indifference and inconsideration can make certain characters to take advantage of people in your situation. This was a “Traffic accident” that didn’t have to go this way. Yes the other party’s family is grieving because of the death of a loved one. Allison you “need” moral support as well legal, emotional and “honest” counseling. When it comes to dealing with ALL the people involved, follow your instinct even though you feel you are going blindly through it all and in addition Spanish is not your first language. It’s overwhelming to try to understand something insignificant much more a nightmare of this magnitude in another language. This can still happen to me even though I am Nicaraguan and know the language and culture very well. I truly hope all this get resolved real soon. ( I haven’t watched all the RUclips episodes yet) Like someone else posted, you are not in the legal System yet and it’s in the Nicaraguan culture that if someone died from a traffic collision the person at fault or what the authorities “perceive” is at fault, he or she is the one who pays $$ for the deceased life to their family or children. That happened to my dad in the 1950s, I wasn’t born yet but I stumbled on his legal papers when I was a teenager and read it, and understood it at best of knowledge at age 14-15. And my dad was a well connected man back then and with a “few” cordobas if you get my drift. I’m sure it was very difficult for him on his ordeal and knowing somebody passed away “regards less” who was at fault on that traffic accident. I apologized this post is getting too long. I sincerely want to make you feel better or less stressful “IF THATS EVEN POSSIBLE”! Follow your current “lawyer” advise but follow your instincts as well, keep informed your loved ones who are helping you there in nicaragua. Of course your husband too. Be aware he is gonna be very very mad, frustrated even when he gets out. I would be. Best wishes Allison.
This is a good relief from the sugarcoating travel RUclipsrs who have been colonizing Nicaragua in droves in recent years. People should know that if they cant afford to retire in a “traditional” location, and are seeking Nicaragua. It is A LOT more than a cost of living decision. If thats your only rationale, you will be very dissapointed. Nicaragua is a beautiful country. And many RUclipsrs recommend not driving at night for this very reason.
A lot of the decrease in cost of living correlates with the decrease in services offered by the government. It seems you must be verrrrry wealthy to be protected from the realities of living in a much less wealthy country. Given the utterly enormous difference between the local lifestyle in Nicaragua & the US, I would be very nervous to move somewhere with no public “safety net.” Which we only have in the US after learning the hard way, & the US has put billions into supporting right wing Latin American leaders, so I certainly don’t judge countries whose poverty has partially been crafted by the US. But when you’re thinking about where to live, keep in mind what you consider baseline necessities.
This comment raises valid points, highlighting the importance of being cautious while driving at night, not only in Nicaragua but in other places as well. It is concerning how some individuals generalize based on a single story, assuming that all of Nicaragua is unsafe. Personally, I have visited Nicaragua multiple times and have always taken necessary precautions to ensure my safety, just as I would in any other location.
This happened to US soldiers in others countries. Families would try to get hurt or apparently hurt by a soldier to legally extort money for a lifetime from the soldier. Most are told not to leave base and if you do do so in military vehicle. And this was back in the 80s! So it's been happening forever. I've traveled all over and don't need to anymore. One thing I've learned, no place is 'better' than where you are right now, so make your life happy where you are. Don't look for happiness. Make happiness.
I remember finding you ages ago when I was looking for hair topper recommendations, and then I followed you because your journey of moving to Nicaragua was so interesting and exciting to watch! I was so happy and excited for you and your family. And to see it all end this way breaks my heart for you. I am sending you so many positive thoughts and feelings.
Wow, I remember watching a few of your videos where you moved there and it excited me. I had already looked into a few places in Europe and then I found you and researched Nicaragua which eventually pushed me to Panama. So I kind of forgot about your story until I am seeing this now! I am so sorry for what has happened to you and your family and we wish you the best.
Of course the victim was related to the President... oh dear, I see how this is going. I'm so so sorry. This does sound like a movie Allison. My heart goes out to you and your family. Your mom was there to help thank goodness. How stressful. :(
Ppl need to research the places they move and travel to including the legal system, the checks and balances in place to protect citizens and immigrants and just the culture in general. Moving to a foreign country without having a very clear understanding of where you are going is dangerous. So sorry you went through such a scary situation
They get one meal a day of rice and beans if they don't have anyone to bring them food. My husband said many people didn't have anyone bringing them food. So my husband and the others who were brought food would share with the people who didn't have any.
Hardworking people barely make enough money to eat in nicaragua. Why would the government have to provide food for criminals? Inhumane, you said what about rapists , thieves , murderers what are those crimes considered to be in your opinion.
@@Isco-dq9qnso Nicaragua doesn’t have the concept of innocent before proven guilty? Because it sounds like he was in jail, not prison, which are not the same thing…
This country is under a dictatorship so you wonder, political prisoners have a even harder treatment. Funny enough they free regular inmates back to the street on a regular basis, some of them end up being police officers and some of them go back to crime, lol.
Nicargua is a very dangerous country. Its a level three advisory. "U.S. citizens arrested in Nicaragua may find themselves subject to prolonged detention without charges or respect of fair trial guarantees. The judicial process lacks transparency, especially in politically motivated arrests and property dispute cases. Political influence and pressure may influence the outcome of legal proceedings. The Department has determined the risk of wrongful detention of U.S. nationals by the Government of Nicaragua exists."
Safety is a complex issue that varies depending on the specific circumstances. It is important to consider multiple perspectives and sources of information before making generalizations about the safety of an entire country.
I am from Cuba originally. Communist/socialists countries are like this. People will do anything for money especially when you are not from there. Everything is a business, everyone recommends everyone. It is all a lie! I can only imagine where this is heading and I’m so sorry you went through this.
Well the US & Russia (USSR then) took a proxy war to Central America, the simple fact is that even if Nicaragua had the best, most ethical leaders all the time, the mess we left is going to take a very long time to set right. And that proxy war was unleashed upon much poorer countries all over the world. There’s no way that ANY group is going to be successful when they were merely pawns in a war that was really simply over the perception of power.
Darn girl, your husband accidentally kills a man, you get bit by a scorpion, the man who was killed was related to the president of the country, not having a very good couple of days. Sorry for your misfortune. Thank you for sharing.
I am a sceptic, but sometimes the person has not passed away and they just say this. I do think he passed away but maybe he didn't. Unless someone knew him, you can't prove it. I know this is extreme but I lived in other countries and in another language things go quickly in a foreign language.
I just stated watching. I can’t imagine the terror of this. Imagine if your husband had been living there by himself. I think of all these solo travelers. They have no idea. It sad, but I’ve heard of stories like this in other parts of Mexico and South America.
My neighbors husband was in jail in Mexico for like ever, like a year. He died there. His so was a cop here in Texas as well. He didn't have his medicine. He was coming across the border and HIS medicine with his name was taken. In prison he went. He was old.
11:48 WTF? That’s insane - how do people make sure their family members have food? What if they have no family? Also, how crazy someone could possibly cook drugs into the food,etc.
Allison I am so sorry you went through this. I don't know how else to reach you, at 17:20 you state your lawyers name. I doubt it really matters but just FYI.
I goto a place for lunch near me where everyone, staff and customers speak Spanish. I do understand it. Lots of male painters and hime construction go in and they drink alcohol with lunch, then they drive off as if it is no big deal. I see it after work as well, with them in actual work trucks. They drove home after drinking.
Now we know why when people from Central America, when they come here, to the US, flee from vehicle accidents, because it like punching someone, a civil offense.
Also, there's a travel advisory (US) - a level 3 out of 4 to reconsider travel to Nicaragua for arbitrary enforcement of laws, the risk of unlawful detention and limited healthcare availability!
It sounds like the Nicaraguan justice system is a shakedown. I doubt anyone was related to the President of Nicaragua. It sounds like part of the scam. I lived in latin america and found that, unless you are running in wealthy elite circles of associates in nice parts of town, try to appear like a poor hippy if you can. Driving in Latin America is rarely worth the risk. If you are able to, maintain a very low profile. Once word is out that a foreigner is nearby, people become interested in whether you are wealthy, poor, etc.
Increíble experience to survive. There is a perspective that is often unseen by foreigners that come to poor countries and live large lives in gated communities,and never make a connection with the Pueblo. In Latin America it is all about community. There are no social services here it’s the extended community that creates this network of sustainability for the Pueblo. Foreigners that create these gated communities have separated themselves from the Pueblo. This need to exceed a reasonable lifestyle in a struggling country is what creates theft,resentment, insufficiency so many reactions that these people have never experienced before. The wealthy Nicaraguan is what sustains the Pueblo. You do not realize this unless you are connected to the Pueblo. They are the private loan system the food banks in there communities they hold such a high position in the Pueblo they are protected by their Grace. Excess should take full responsibility for their actions and outcomes. Irresponsible investments that change the soul of Nicaragua must end. Go deeper into the circumstance for your true lessons ❤
Sick thinking. Pure envy on the part of anyone wanting what others have or even the insinuation that it’s their fault for having. How dare you excuse thieves. 🤮
@@msegura6372 talk to God about cause and effect. You speak volumes about your emotional maturity with your emoji and your choice of words. The problem for you is your inability to understand the process humanity is in right now in relation to accumulated wealth and how it stops the river of abundance. I think you could come up with a better argument for whatever you’re trying to express to me. Explain to me why you believe people are just thieves by choice. You need to truly understand the circumstances their experiences that created the thief.
@@msegura6372 pure envy is an incredible perspective of distortion. Envy the never enough people the pleasure seekers the me first people. No that is what you tell yourself to excuse yourself! That argument Sounds self centered
@@msegura6372 Grace for everyone if you were born that attorney you would be exactly the same as the thief he has become. If he were born into your life he would be you. We are all souls here living out an experience. We are all being asked at this time to understand ourselves on a much deeper level. We are being asked to return to our true nature of unconditional love. When you step into that Love there is no concept of taking it is all about giving.
My hubby and son are on a few prescriptions im hoping this wont be an issue when they get there going thru security. Theyre going to a private yoga retreat called still salty. Im thinking maybe to call a travel agent to get feedback. Its thru a yoga instructor at our yoga studio we go to.
Make sure to carry your prescriptions in the original bottles and clearly marked-don’t put them in pill containers. If any of the prescriptions are for controlled substances-Adderall, Vyvanse, Xanax, Ativan, Ambien, and any narcotics pain meds-and others-make sure those meds are LEGAL in that country. My daughter takes Vyvanse and was doing a mission trip in Nigeria and in Nigeria Vyanse is illegal-period. If you have it on you and are caught, you will be arrested. Most regular prescriptions, though, are fine.
I'm shocked that you moved to Nicaragua. My family is from Nicaragua ( they came to USA in late 1940s) but nobody in our friend and family group has gone down there since 2018 due to political situation! Did the USA government warn you about going down there? I'm so sorry what happened to you but not surprised due to the political situation down there. People are desperate down there.
@@aprilsmithswety i screenshot what you said and i think we will go thru a travel agent to ask? Its a private yoga instructor who planned the trip but weve not learned much about it as far as the logistics of what to expect and need.
@@allisonsjourneysorry to hear this tragic event happened to your family and the other while you were just trying to live the dream. Its a shame the locals took financial advantage if you the way it took place. The reality is you probably would not have gotten out if this mess any easier in another country due to the traffic infraction committed.
@allisonsjourneyWow 6 figures holy crap. I was thinking maybe 30-40 k. But ouch. Sorry for what happened to you there and appreciate the vids warning others
Does that happen in your country? It does not happen in the US. In FACT, sir, people from anywhere in Central America drink and drive, with higher accident STATISTICS OF DRUNK DRIVING. SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS, I CANT FIGURE OUT TO TAKE IT OFF 😅
Because if he’s speeding he might have been there when he looked to turn had he been going the speed limit he probably would’ve been seen on time. I’ve looked in my rear view mirror and side mirrors and started to lane change and suddenly there’s a crotch rocket there out of nowhere because they are hauling ass.
@@allisonsjourney Thank you for this reply. As a rider of many years I hate to see the accidents caused by the cars taking left turns and not seeing the bike, blaming it on the rider for going fast or reckless. No doubt that is the reason in some but not most.
I feel sorry for what happened to you guys, but with all honesty, instead of complaining about corruption, I believe you should be glad this happened in a third-world corrupted country, where you can buy your way out. Not too long ago, an american killed two people, cold blooded, and bought his way out of the country. If this happens in any developed country, you lose everything on lawyers that legally rob you. They will take advantage of your situation and charge you a fortune. I don't see how this is any different. The truth is that you got yourself into this situation, and it's not fair that your video is scaring future tourists.
I watching part 1 on my laptop. And I'm getting pissed off at you because you won't name names. You won't give exact figures of how much the lawyers ripped you off. And before you say it's personal information. You are the one putting this story out there . Either tell the whole thing. Or stfu. Looking forward to part 2. Maybe it gets better...?
@Mbeepyd She's just annoying. I want to feel sympathy for her, butt when she's doesn't give names, she's doing a disservice to the next person that might come into contact with 'Mark.' She's in Canada now. What's the big deal? Are they going to send hitmen here? And instead of 3 or more parts. Just tell the story in one damn video. Which makes me believe she's full of 💩. Trying to monetize off some over- exaggerated story. I don't find her credible.
People on this platform never talk about the negatives of life abroad. They sugarcoat it. Its not the utopia people think. Ive lived 4 years abroad and I'm over it for many reasons. I rarely leave my home anymore. Thankfully, I'm leaving soon
Every country has its pros and cons and im not saying that as an ignotant fool im someone who constantlly researched crime statistics cuz im afraid of being murdered as an irational fear, anyways if i wanna live in colombia, or mexico, or japan, even the united states horror stories arent gonna stop me if im in love with said country
I always dreamed of living abroad, but I will never do it. I’ve traveled abroad for up to three weeks. I always got bored near the end of the second week. That’s how I know that I will never live abroad.
@@lizh6578 i might try spain
I lived abroad in Guatemala and Venezuela. Loved it! Perhaps because I’m Latina and most of you are not. Now you know how immigrants feel in this country
@@michellealvarez8160 I agree everyone should experience it.
You’re so strong. Thank God it’s now a story of the past. I just came across your channel, heading to part 2!
Thank you for telling your story Allison. People need to be made aware of how differently things work in some foreign countries.
Thankyou for sharing. A dose of reality for all expats. I hope 🙏 that everything works out
Wow! I didn’t know what to expect from this story, but I’m at the edge of my seat waiting for part 2. So sorry for all the tragedy and trauma your family has faced in these events. Feeling relief that at least we know you are home safe. Hope that means all 5 of you!
Dear Allison,
I am deeply sorry to hear about your recent experience. I cannot begin to imagine the challenges you have faced. However, I am confident that with your strength and resilience, you will overcome these obstacles. Please know that you are not alone and that we are here to support you in any way we can.
❤❤🇸🇻🇸🇻🙏🙏💪💪🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
This is making me really think about which country my hubby and I are going to retire to. This is ONE HORRIFIC story and I'm so sorry this happened to you guys! Sending love from San Diego.
Thank you. This is why I felt it was important to share.
@@allisonsjourney thank you! We want to know everything with datails please
Highly recommend El Salvador.
We just retired to Thailand. Check it out
Hi Allison, my wife and I met you and your family while we were living in Nicaragua at Tree Casa. We also were thinking we were going to build a home and live there for a very long time. Then the contractor that built our home scammed us out of ALOT of money. Warning to all, do your due diligence when selecting a contractor there around SJDS. We ended up selling our unfinished home and leaving for good. Sad to see your video of your experience as well. Will watch out for Part 2.
Oh my goodness I'm so sorry to hear that! I agree, it's very difficult to find people you can trust. I'm sorry you went through that.
@@allisonsjourney yes, he was recommended by our Realtor. Seemed super friendly, spoke English so that was helpful. Just charmed us into believing his lies.
@@allisonsjourney I am so tempted in putting up a video as well, because I have so much damning evidence of fraud that would land him in jail for years For now I am letting our lawyer handle it.
@@theflightoficarus Oh wow. I'm so sorry to hear that. Feel free to email me if you want to share more.
@@allisonsjourney thank you, I will. Give you a Cliff Note version of the mess.
Having lived in Jamaica some years ago, it sounds to me that everyone saw an opportunity to extort you and were all hoping to get a piece of the bribe money. Human rights and fue process are determined on the amount of money you can come up with. People complain about corruption in the US, and yes we have it, but in other places it affects everyone on a daily basis. If you have money you will be taken advantage of, and if you're broke you will be abused.
As an American living in NIcaragua, I can tell you I feel so much safer and corruption affects me far less (but never zero) day to day in Nicaragua than in the US. If you live in an enclave (anywhere near SJDS) you are going to be a target for sure. But expats living in NIcaragua proper (not enclaves) very, very rarely have the "people are out to take advantage of us" experiences. SJDS is so bad that it's referred to as the "expat pyramid scheme" because it's more often expats, not Nicas, that are doing the taking advantage. Those that have been around a long time know who is knew and who doesn't know the ropes and who is likely to be easy to prey on. It's sad. And Nicas know it too, but the expats are far more likely to do it (and are more likely to have jurisdiction protections - many scams are multinational to make them hard to prosecute.)
Nowhere is perfect. But don't forget that loads of people in both countries have anecdotes of problems. I have a friend who was human trafficked by the Canadian mounties for goodness sake! But what matters is the statistics. Nicaragua remains safer and with a more concrete criminal system than the US. The US more dangerous (violence) and has no rule of law.
At this point in the story, the courts aren't even involved. For Allison (at this point in her telling) is still outside the legal system dealing with just lawyers and people claiming to be the family. You aren't seeing anything of the legal system, they are still attempting to avoid that.
Allison, thank you for sharing your Family's story. very tragic and unfortunate all around. I look forward to hearing the rest of the story.
This is some scary stuff. When you guys first moved to Nicaragua, I really wanted to go see it for myself, because you made it sound so good. But what you're telling, this is the reality of it. I can only imagine how this is going to go down from here. Lots of money I would say. I'm so sorry but thankful you are all home in Canada.
Wow, I'm so sorry that you guys went through this tragic event 🙏
No idea if you did this but know your country's embassy will be very helpful if you are detained, arrested or suffer a serious life-threatening emergency overseas.
Thanks for sharing your story. I have never had the desire to leave my country but many people tout it on social media. I would never live anywhere I didn't have command of the native language. Glad you got out OK.
I agree. I think visiting is ok but to live there and not be fluent or at least be above an intermediate level is asking for trouble. People do say the best way to learn is to immerse yourself in the culture but I dont know if that applies to moving there
Thank you for sharing, its quite scary and I hope all of you are together now safely.
I'm going to watch the series Allison. I miss you and think of you and your family. Love, Usha
Thank you Usha. I miss you too
@@allisonsjourney I'm in part 4 now and finally hearing the whole story. All those weeks, every time I drove by the police station or your community...it was pressing on all of us that you were suffering as a family. The day he was released was very important. Love you all Allison. You are safe and can heal the trauma, God bless you.
@@allisonsjourney I’m sorry Allison what you, your husband and family are going through.
I am Nica/American who knows how things in Nicaragua can go and at the same time doesn’t know everything and ALL the intricacies corruption, greed, indifference and inconsideration can make certain characters to take advantage of people in your situation.
This was a “Traffic accident” that didn’t have to go this way. Yes the other party’s family is grieving because of the death of a loved one.
Allison you “need” moral support as well legal, emotional and “honest” counseling.
When it comes to dealing with ALL the people involved, follow your instinct even though you feel you are going blindly through it all and in addition Spanish is not your first language.
It’s overwhelming to try to understand something insignificant much more a nightmare of this magnitude in another language.
This can still happen to me even though I am Nicaraguan and know the language and culture very well.
I truly hope all this get resolved real soon. ( I haven’t watched all the RUclips episodes yet)
Like someone else posted, you are not in the legal
System yet and it’s in the Nicaraguan culture that if someone died from a traffic collision the person at fault or what the authorities “perceive” is at fault, he or she is the one who pays $$ for the deceased life to their family or children.
That happened to my dad in the 1950s, I wasn’t born yet but I stumbled on his legal papers when I was a teenager and read it, and understood it at best of knowledge at age 14-15.
And my dad was a well connected man back then and with a “few” cordobas if you get my drift.
I’m sure it was very difficult for him on his ordeal and knowing somebody passed away “regards less” who was at fault on that traffic accident.
I apologized this post is getting too long. I sincerely want to make you feel better or less stressful “IF THATS EVEN POSSIBLE”!
Follow your current “lawyer” advise but follow your instincts as well, keep informed your loved ones who are helping you there in nicaragua. Of course your husband too. Be aware he is gonna be very very mad, frustrated even when he gets out. I would be.
Best wishes Allison.
This is a good relief from the sugarcoating travel RUclipsrs who have been colonizing Nicaragua in droves in recent years. People should know that if they cant afford to retire in a “traditional” location, and are seeking Nicaragua. It is A LOT more than a cost of living decision. If thats your only rationale, you will be very dissapointed.
Nicaragua is a beautiful country. And many RUclipsrs recommend not driving at night for this very reason.
A lot of the decrease in cost of living correlates with the decrease in services offered by the government. It seems you must be verrrrry wealthy to be protected from the realities of living in a much less wealthy country. Given the utterly enormous difference between the local lifestyle in Nicaragua & the US, I would be very nervous to move somewhere with no public “safety net.” Which we only have in the US after learning the hard way, & the US has put billions into supporting right wing Latin American leaders, so I certainly don’t judge countries whose poverty has partially been crafted by the US. But when you’re thinking about where to live, keep in mind what you consider baseline necessities.
This comment raises valid points, highlighting the importance of being cautious while driving at night, not only in Nicaragua but in other places as well. It is concerning how some individuals generalize based on a single story, assuming that all of Nicaragua is unsafe. Personally, I have visited Nicaragua multiple times and have always taken necessary precautions to ensure my safety, just as I would in any other location.
This happened to US soldiers in others countries. Families would try to get hurt or apparently hurt by a soldier to legally extort money for a lifetime from the soldier. Most are told not to leave base and if you do do so in military vehicle. And this was back in the 80s! So it's been happening forever. I've traveled all over and don't need to anymore. One thing I've learned, no place is 'better' than where you are right now, so make your life happy where you are. Don't look for happiness. Make happiness.
I was a soldier in Honduras. When we travelled, it was unmarked vehicle with tint.
I remember finding you ages ago when I was looking for hair topper recommendations, and then I followed you because your journey of moving to Nicaragua was so interesting and exciting to watch! I was so happy and excited for you and your family. And to see it all end this way breaks my heart for you. I am sending you so many positive thoughts and feelings.
Wow, I remember watching a few of your videos where you moved there and it excited me. I had already looked into a few places in Europe and then I found you and researched Nicaragua which eventually pushed me to Panama. So I kind of forgot about your story until I am seeing this now! I am so sorry for what has happened to you and your family and we wish you the best.
I love the show Locked Up Abroad!
Thank God your parents were with you!!!!!!!
Of course the victim was related to the President... oh dear, I see how this is going. I'm so so sorry. This does sound like a movie Allison. My heart goes out to you and your family. Your mom was there to help thank goodness. How stressful. :(
Calling him a victim is a streatch i have no sympathy for drunk drivers and im ashamed to see my latina reps in nicuragura be this corrupt
Oh Allison i just finished watching and i just feel sick over what you and your family have been thru. Im so very sorry ❤ I hope all is better now 🤗
When you choose to ride a motorcycle without a helmet, you roll the dice with your life.
Exactlly
Holy cow I can't believe they don't feed the inmates. That's nuts. This whole story is nuts! Thanks for sharing❤
Rice and Beans every day, it's a prison, criminals will learn, that being jail, is no picnic in the bush!!
The same in Mexico.
@@EvralTatum-Mcfield-ov2miNot every crime is on the same level of others though.
Ppl need to research the places they move and travel to including the legal system, the checks and balances in place to protect citizens and immigrants and just the culture in general. Moving to a foreign country without having a very clear understanding of where you are going is dangerous. So sorry you went through such a scary situation
Oh my goodness! This is so tragic! I am so sorry for your family! I hope you find someone to talk to because this sounds like PTSD! ❤❤
I just started this story, but I’ve been trained to immediately ask to speak to the embassy.
Gosh this gave me chills praying for you guys glad you are safe now this all sounds scary & sad *Hugs*
all of this is so wild but I couldn’t imagine not feeding inmates. like if someone doesn’t have anyone to bring them food do they just starve??
They get one meal a day of rice and beans if they don't have anyone to bring them food. My husband said many people didn't have anyone bringing them food. So my husband and the others who were brought food would share with the people who didn't have any.
@@allisonsjourneyThat is absolutely insane to me-so wrong to withhold food.
Hardworking people barely make enough money to eat in nicaragua. Why would the government have to provide food for criminals? Inhumane, you said what about rapists , thieves , murderers what are those crimes considered to be in your opinion.
@@Isco-dq9qnso Nicaragua doesn’t have the concept of innocent before proven guilty? Because it sounds like he was in jail, not prison, which are not the same thing…
This country is under a dictatorship so you wonder, political prisoners have a even harder treatment. Funny enough they free regular inmates back to the street on a regular basis, some of them end up being police officers and some of them go back to crime, lol.
What a nightmare! Oh my gosh. I can't even imagine. This is so awful Allison. 😢
Oh my!😮
I’m so sorry this accident happened.😢
Nicargua is a very dangerous country. Its a level three advisory.
"U.S. citizens arrested in Nicaragua may find themselves subject to prolonged detention without charges or respect of fair trial guarantees. The judicial process lacks transparency, especially in politically motivated arrests and property dispute cases. Political influence and pressure may influence the outcome of legal proceedings.
The Department has determined the risk of wrongful detention of U.S. nationals by the Government of Nicaragua exists."
Safety is a complex issue that varies depending on the specific circumstances. It is important to consider multiple perspectives and sources of information before making generalizations about the safety of an entire country.
I am from Cuba originally. Communist/socialists countries are like this. People will do anything for money especially when you are not from there. Everything is a business, everyone recommends everyone. It is all a lie! I can only imagine where this is heading and I’m so sorry you went through this.
What a nightmare! I would stay in Canada from now on 🩷
Wow, like a nightmare or movie.
Sounds like what happens in Cuba. No thank you. I’ll stick to my USA!
I used to be a fervent supporter of Nicaragua, a Sandinista. My support has cooled somewhat.
Well the US & Russia (USSR then) took a proxy war to Central America, the simple fact is that even if Nicaragua had the best, most ethical leaders all the time, the mess we left is going to take a very long time to set right. And that proxy war was unleashed upon much poorer countries all over the world. There’s no way that ANY group is going to be successful when they were merely pawns in a war that was really simply over the perception of power.
idk about the law but it seems so fucked that the deceased party was drunk and speeding, yet your husband was found at fault.
Exactlly i have no sympahy for drunk drivers
Darn girl, your husband accidentally kills a man, you get bit by a scorpion, the man who was killed was related to the president of the country, not having a very good couple of days. Sorry for your misfortune. Thank you for sharing.
I am a sceptic, but sometimes the person has not passed away and they just say this. I do think he passed away but maybe he didn't. Unless someone knew him, you can't prove it. I know this is extreme but I lived in other countries and in another language things go quickly in a foreign language.
I just stated watching. I can’t imagine the terror of this. Imagine if your husband had been living there by himself. I think of all these solo travelers. They have no idea. It sad, but I’ve heard of stories like this in other parts of Mexico and South America.
I want to go traveling abroad but stories like this terrify me!
My neighbors husband was in jail in Mexico for like ever, like a year. He died there. His so was a cop here in Texas as well. He didn't have his medicine. He was coming across the border and HIS medicine with his name was taken. In prison he went. He was old.
Happy weekend❣
11:48 WTF? That’s insane - how do people make sure their family members have food? What if they have no family? Also, how crazy someone could possibly cook drugs into the food,etc.
They are provided one meal a day of beans and rice if no one can bring them food.
Everyone inside get a big plate of rice and beans, no meat nor gravy, so they feel it!
Allison I am so sorry you went through this. I don't know how else to reach you, at 17:20 you state your lawyers name. I doubt it really matters but just FYI.
Thank you
I goto a place for lunch near me where everyone, staff and customers speak Spanish. I do understand it. Lots of male painters and hime construction go in and they drink alcohol with lunch, then they drive off as if it is no big deal. I see it after work as well, with them in actual work trucks. They drove home after drinking.
Allison did you have vehicle insurance there?
Yes. Insurance works very differently there. I go into it in future videos.
Lo siento mucho
When they recreated the accident, one thing they assumed though was what happened. Since they have no cameras, they truly don't know.
I bealive every embassy must have their own lawyers to work with in this kind of situations
Now we know why when people from Central America, when they come here, to the US, flee from vehicle accidents, because it like punching someone, a civil offense.
Um… is it Mark or Nicholas ? At 5:25 you may have accidentally slipped his name
Thank you
Can’t believe you and your family went through this. Been subscribed for over a decade. So sorry.
The story starts at 1:32
Why would you live there?
Omg Allison im going to watch . Hubby and my son are going there in nov. I hope its safe. Im so sorry ❤
I for sure wouldn't be driving *anywhere* while there.
No they will take taxis@@tinman47-t3m
Costa Rica might be a better alternative
Also, there's a travel advisory (US) - a level 3 out of 4 to reconsider travel to Nicaragua for arbitrary enforcement of laws, the risk of unlawful detention and limited healthcare availability!
@@tinman47-t3m I would concur
It sounds like the Nicaraguan justice system is a shakedown. I doubt anyone was related to the President of Nicaragua. It sounds like part of the scam.
I lived in latin america and found that, unless you are running in wealthy elite circles of associates in nice parts of town, try to appear like a poor hippy if you can. Driving in Latin America is rarely worth the risk. If you are able to, maintain a very low profile. Once word is out that a foreigner is nearby, people become interested in whether you are wealthy, poor, etc.
Yes, me too, I was like yeah no, they are trying to scare him into thinking he was worth a lot of money. And to pay for the funeral, etc.
Increíble experience to survive. There is a perspective that is often unseen by foreigners that come to poor countries and live large lives in gated communities,and never make a connection with the Pueblo. In Latin America it is all about community. There are no social services here it’s the extended community that creates this network of sustainability for the Pueblo. Foreigners that create these gated communities have separated themselves from the Pueblo. This need to exceed a reasonable lifestyle in a struggling country is what creates theft,resentment, insufficiency so many reactions that these people have never experienced before. The wealthy Nicaraguan is what sustains the Pueblo. You do not realize this unless you are connected to the Pueblo. They are the private loan system the food banks in there communities they hold such a high position in the Pueblo they are protected by their Grace. Excess should take full responsibility for their actions and outcomes. Irresponsible investments that change the soul of Nicaragua must end. Go deeper into the circumstance for your true lessons ❤
Sick thinking. Pure envy on the part of anyone wanting what others have or even the insinuation that it’s their fault for having. How dare you excuse thieves. 🤮
@@msegura6372 talk to God about cause and effect. You speak volumes about your emotional maturity with your emoji and your choice of words. The problem for you is your inability to understand the process humanity is in right now in relation to accumulated wealth and how it stops the river of abundance. I think you could come up with a better argument for whatever you’re trying to express to me. Explain to me why you believe people are just thieves by choice. You need to truly understand the circumstances their experiences that created the thief.
@@msegura6372 pure envy is an incredible perspective of distortion. Envy the never enough people the pleasure seekers the me first people. No that is what you tell yourself to excuse yourself! That argument Sounds self centered
@@msegura6372 Grace for everyone if you were born that attorney you would be exactly the same as the thief he has become. If he were born into your life he would be you. We are all souls here living out an experience. We are all being asked at this time to understand ourselves on a much deeper level. We are being asked to return to our true nature of unconditional love. When you step into that Love there is no concept of taking it is all about giving.
I still don't understand the urge some people have to move to a communist country.
This is what happens in underdeveloped countries. Be smart, people.
Is colombia under developed?
Does surprise me that Nicaragua is this backwards.
My hubby and son are on a few prescriptions im hoping this wont be an issue when they get there going thru security. Theyre going to a private yoga retreat called still salty. Im thinking maybe to call a travel agent to get feedback. Its thru a yoga instructor at our yoga studio we go to.
I think you should be ok, because we travelled with prescriptions. But it wouldn't hurt to ask.
Make sure to carry your prescriptions in the original bottles and clearly marked-don’t put them in pill containers. If any of the prescriptions are for controlled substances-Adderall, Vyvanse, Xanax, Ativan, Ambien, and any narcotics pain meds-and others-make sure those meds are LEGAL in that country. My daughter takes Vyvanse and was doing a mission trip in Nigeria and in Nigeria Vyanse is illegal-period. If you have it on you and are caught, you will be arrested. Most regular prescriptions, though, are fine.
I'm shocked that you moved to Nicaragua. My family is from Nicaragua ( they came to USA in late 1940s) but nobody in our friend and family group has gone down there since 2018 due to political situation! Did the USA government warn you about going down there? I'm so sorry what happened to you but not surprised due to the political situation down there. People are desperate down there.
Ty we will look into it❤@@allisonsjourney
@@aprilsmithswety i screenshot what you said and i think we will go thru a travel agent to ask? Its a private yoga instructor who planned the trip but weve not learned much about it as far as the logistics of what to expect and need.
The momey is pretty relevant are we talkikg like 500 or 10000
The total for everything that occurred during those 2 months was well into the six figures. I don't feel comfortable sharing how much went where.
@@allisonsjourneysorry to hear this tragic event happened to your family and the other while you were just trying to live the dream. Its a shame the locals took financial advantage if you the way it took place. The reality is you probably would not have gotten out if this mess any easier in another country due to the traffic infraction committed.
@allisonsjourneyWow 6 figures holy crap. I was thinking maybe 30-40 k. But ouch. Sorry for what happened to you there and appreciate the vids warning others
We should treat them in the US, the way they treat foreigner s down there and extort them.
I’m so sorry
What kind of a bass awards barbarian country is Nicaragua then?
So your husband is at fault for a massive auto accident, and you are shocked that he went to prison? Reality check...
Does that happen in your country? It does not happen in the US. In FACT, sir, people from anywhere in Central America drink and drive, with higher accident STATISTICS OF DRUNK DRIVING. SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS, I CANT FIGURE OUT TO TAKE IT OFF 😅
Im sorry but this is why i dont advice people to live in 3rd world countries
Are 2nd world ok?
Why blame the motorcycle rider because he was intoxicated when your husband pulled out in front of him?
Because if he’s speeding he might have been there when he looked to turn had he been going the speed limit he probably would’ve been seen on time. I’ve looked in my rear view mirror and side mirrors and started to lane change and suddenly there’s a crotch rocket there out of nowhere because they are hauling ass.
I didn't blame him. I provided details about the accident. My husband was turning left therefore he was at fault.
@@allisonsjourneyleft hand turners (cars) are the biggest reason for fatal motorcycle accidents
@@allisonsjourney Thank you for this reply. As a rider of many years I hate to see the accidents caused by the cars taking left turns and not seeing the bike, blaming it on the rider for going fast or reckless. No doubt that is the reason in some but not most.
I feel sorry for what happened to you guys, but with all honesty, instead of complaining about corruption, I believe you should be glad this happened in a third-world corrupted country, where you can buy your way out. Not too long ago, an american killed two people, cold blooded, and bought his way out of the country. If this happens in any developed country, you lose everything on lawyers that legally rob you. They will take advantage of your situation and charge you a fortune. I don't see how this is any different.
The truth is that you got yourself into this situation, and it's not fair that your video is scaring future tourists.
Why would you move to a third world country where you don't speak the language well?!
I watching part 1 on my laptop. And I'm getting pissed off at you because you won't name names. You won't give exact figures of how much the lawyers ripped you off. And before you say it's personal information. You are the one putting this story out there . Either tell the whole thing. Or stfu. Looking forward to part 2. Maybe it gets better...?
This anger isn't normal, why are we entitled to those details?
Sounds like you have some anger issues that need counseling.
@Mbeepyd She's just annoying. I want to feel sympathy for her, butt when she's doesn't give names, she's doing a disservice to the next person that might come into contact with 'Mark.' She's in Canada now. What's the big deal? Are they going to send hitmen here? And instead of 3 or more parts. Just tell the story in one damn video. Which makes me believe she's full of 💩. Trying to monetize off some over- exaggerated story. I don't find her credible.
You’re lucky enough to see this video at all. If you’re going to watch it anyway, either stfu or go cry elsewhere.
Get a life