I cannot thank you enough singer! my first 20 years was no clue what happened to it! I was running away from myself! Because I cannot handle myself I got married. You can just imagine what kind of marriage was.! I cannot handle my marriage. Have a baby thinking the babies gonna make everything better! And then you can just imagine what happened to my child. The first 10 years of my life was a hell. I was the most abusing. I abuse, my child like no one did before! I find you! I’m still struggling, but I struggle consciously! My life has changed for a better! Every day, a little bit later later! Thank you again! I am in the relationship that I can never dreamt of dealing with but today I enjoy it! I have tapes teenager we had a good time most of the time
It's interesting and I would love some clarity on this...earlier on Michael said if someone was walking along beside you berating you all the time you wouldn't have that person in your life anymore. Then he talks about how we should just let it go every time somebody is negative to us. I think that is ok a few times but when its repeated possibly the only interaction that you get from the person and you end up spending a lot of energy on not having fear about it happening, letting it go and it continues to happen, there must be point we must make changes on the outside - aka leave the person/workplace committed to misunderstanding you. Does anyone have a comment on this? many thanks
My thought is, if you are spending a lot of energy on not having fear about it happening and letting it go, then that means you still have a blockage. Maybe you've let some of it go, but some still remains. And that person berating you is helping you to release that blockage. The blockage wasn't created by the person berating you. It was created over years of your past experiences and how you related to them. I know this is hard to hear, but don't run away from that person. Run towards them and release the blockage completely. (imho)
He often says letting go is about things not happening. Start there. If someone is yelling at you or being an actual threat in the moment, then act. You can remain present, do what needs doing, like leaving or setting a boundary, and then once they are gone / done, move on and let it go.
Consider this perspective: People act as they choose, based on their own experiences, beliefs, and inner states. When you perceive someone as being negative toward you, it’s often because of your own interpretations and expectations. Instead of holding on to the perception that they’re behaving “negatively” or wishing they’d act differently, you can let go of that attachment and expectation. In doing so, you free yourself from the emotional weight of your assumptions. By simply observing their behavior without judgment, you create space for peace within yourself, regardless of how they choose to act. Letting go of the need to control or interpret others’ actions can be profoundly liberating.
@ thank you but what if they're actually doing harmful things like blocking important progress at work? So that their behaviour has a negative effect to others.
Sally did a good job, at the office, she should notice you, more often!!! 🤣 If I don't let go, I am just putting more garbage in there!! I find, if I just Wait...the disturbance will pass!! Don't get upset, right away!
Another brilliant piece of advice.🙏🙏🙏
Cheers to spiralling upwards ❤🎉
When it’s done outside
It is done INSIDE 🙏
That’s called letting go
EVERYTHING can go 👀!
My inner state has value!
Easy ecstasy 🙌☺️🙌
These talks are Such a BLESSING !!! 💖
What a blessing to hear and understand. ❤❤
The river of bliss flows, until I take my will back...
I just mantra, do not close
I cannot thank you enough singer! my first 20 years was no clue what happened to it! I was running away from myself! Because I cannot handle myself I got married. You can just imagine what kind of marriage was.! I cannot handle my marriage. Have a baby thinking the babies gonna make everything better! And then you can just imagine what happened to my child. The first 10 years of my life was a hell. I was the most abusing. I abuse, my child like no one did before! I find you! I’m still struggling, but I struggle consciously! My life has changed for a better! Every day, a little bit later later! Thank you again! I am in the relationship that I can never dreamt of dealing with but today I enjoy it! I have tapes teenager we had a good time most of the time
Jai Guru Dev !!
It's interesting and I would love some clarity on this...earlier on Michael said if someone was walking along beside you berating you all the time you wouldn't have that person in your life anymore. Then he talks about how we should just let it go every time somebody is negative to us. I think that is ok a few times but when its repeated possibly the only interaction that you get from the person and you end up spending a lot of energy on not having fear about it happening, letting it go and it continues to happen, there must be point we must make changes on the outside - aka leave the person/workplace committed to misunderstanding you. Does anyone have a comment on this? many thanks
My thought is, if you are spending a lot of energy on not having fear about it happening and letting it go, then that means you still have a blockage. Maybe you've let some of it go, but some still remains. And that person berating you is helping you to release that blockage. The blockage wasn't created by the person berating you. It was created over years of your past experiences and how you related to them. I know this is hard to hear, but don't run away from that person. Run towards them and release the blockage completely. (imho)
He often says letting go is about things not happening. Start there. If someone is yelling at you or being an actual threat in the moment, then act. You can remain present, do what needs doing, like leaving or setting a boundary, and then once they are gone / done, move on and let it go.
Consider this perspective: People act as they choose, based on their own experiences, beliefs, and inner states. When you perceive someone as being negative toward you, it’s often because of your own interpretations and expectations. Instead of holding on to the perception that they’re behaving “negatively” or wishing they’d act differently, you can let go of that attachment and expectation. In doing so, you free yourself from the emotional weight of your assumptions. By simply observing their behavior without judgment, you create space for peace within yourself, regardless of how they choose to act. Letting go of the need to control or interpret others’ actions can be profoundly liberating.
@ thank you but what if they're actually doing harmful things like blocking important progress at work? So that their behaviour has a negative effect to others.
And not just progress for me but progress for the people that are relying on me? Setting me up for failure by their refusal to allow progress.
Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤
Excellent 🙏
Sally did a good job, at the office, she should notice you, more often!!! 🤣 If I don't let go, I am just putting more garbage in there!! I find, if I just Wait...the disturbance will pass!! Don't get upset, right away!