I was tangled up with a narcissist for about a year. Every time he tried something to get a rise out of me, i rem a ined calm, cool and collected, not speaking a word. He thought i was stupid but I was making mental note of all his ,what he thought would be, controlling maneuvers. I quietly waited for him to finally back himself into a corner he couldnt get out of. Then with one very short sentence I exited his life. I'll bet he had never come up against a stoic, sigma female before in his life. He did try about a month later to hoover me back in but, again, he got another very short, to the point, sentence. He should never have thought he could pull that off in public, but maybe he thought being in a crowd meant I would be too nice to turn down his request. Wrong, he's the one that had to walk away that time. Now I have a PhD in narcissists. Quite educational!
No one can make me feel weak.I live knowing my value.I have never lived concerned about other peoples perceptions.We live and die according to our own perceptions and values. " Why am I afraid to tell you who I am? I am Me and there is no one I would rather be.I live with intention and and control myself in thought word deed.Be kind always.😊😊😊😊
Surely I would question someone's standing up, eye contact, full engagement even time his water glass was refilled. Standing up is simply weird, though eye contact and engagement are appropriate.
About extending your hand to someone seated, don't crowd them to the point where they can't stand up without planting their face into your hand. Give them space enough to stand up to gracefully shake hands. For those seated, you can detect eye contact as the person approaches you and begin standing before they get to you. I have found that Hispanics are far more in tune with this as greeting everybody is culturally mandatory. Not so much in white America.
I'm head of a group. A few are collectively intentionally undermining me in front of the group. How do I handle when its in front of the entire body? When to directly address or when to move on?
When someone deliberately tries to undermine you in front of the group, stay calm and composed. If their comments are inaccurate, respond briefly, clearly, and factually to protect your dignity without being defensive or emotional. If the issue is serious, address it privately to set boundaries.
That happened to me once in a Q&A session on mlm. I asked a question about something and the speaker interrupted me. I was completely cool, stood up and said loudly enough for 200 people to hear me,and said, " you interrupted me and then asked my question again. You could have gears a pin drop. No one talks over me.
Silence, absence from uncomfortable environment provide the inner peace ✌️
I was tangled up with a narcissist for about a year. Every time he tried something to get a rise out of me, i rem a ined calm, cool and collected, not speaking a word. He thought i was stupid but I was making mental note of all his ,what he thought would be, controlling maneuvers. I quietly waited for him to finally back himself into a corner he couldnt get out of. Then with one very short sentence I exited his life. I'll bet he had never come up against a stoic, sigma female before in his life. He did try about a month later to hoover me back in but, again, he got another very short, to the point, sentence. He should never have thought he could pull that off in public, but maybe he thought being in a crowd meant I would be too nice to turn down his request. Wrong, he's the one that had to walk away that time. Now I have a PhD in narcissists. Quite educational!
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Thank you, my friend ! ❤
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No one can make me feel weak.I live knowing my value.I have never lived concerned about other peoples perceptions.We live and die according to our own perceptions and values. " Why am I afraid to tell you who I am? I am Me and there is no one I would rather be.I live with intention and and control myself in thought word deed.Be kind always.😊😊😊😊
Thank you, God bless you, my friend ! ❤
@@StoicTraining God Bless you always also.Your words of wisdom are beyond wise..
They reflect you my friend.Thank you.Lorenzo.
Surely I would question someone's standing up, eye contact, full engagement even time his water glass was refilled. Standing up is simply weird, though eye contact and engagement are appropriate.
About extending your hand to someone seated, don't crowd them to the point where they can't stand up without planting their face into your hand. Give them space enough to stand up to gracefully shake hands. For those seated, you can detect eye contact as the person approaches you and begin standing before they get to you. I have found that Hispanics are far more in tune with this as greeting everybody is culturally mandatory. Not so much in white America.
I’m going to do it. Haven’t done it yet.. ❤
Thank you so much, I believe you will be a much better version in the future. ❤
Go for it. You'll never look back! Seriously it's amazing and makes you feel reborn
Someone who mocks another seeking to humilate them is not a true friend.😊😊😊
Thank you so much, I am so happy that this video brings value to you. Wish you best! ❤
I can do it
Thank you
Thank you, God bless you, my friend ! ❤
I'm head of a group. A few are collectively intentionally undermining me in front of the group. How do I handle when its in front of the entire body? When to directly address or when to move on?
When someone deliberately tries to undermine you in front of the group, stay calm and composed. If their comments are inaccurate, respond briefly, clearly, and factually to protect your dignity without being defensive or emotional. If the issue is serious, address it privately to set boundaries.
@StoicTraining thank you very much
That happened to me once in a Q&A session on mlm. I asked a question about something and the speaker interrupted me. I was completely cool, stood up and said loudly enough for 200 people to hear me,and said, " you interrupted me and then asked my question again.
You could have gears a pin drop.
No one talks over me.
I can do it✔️
Yes you can!!!!
Thank you for this great advice
I can do it
For me, you are a winner, my friend! ❤
Thank you very much!🙏 😇
But, please, can you tell me the name of the beautiful song that can be heard in the background?🤔 🙏😍
Thank you, my friend ! ❤. it's a spanish song, and i don't know the name.
@ Oh...so sorry!.. 😢
But I will survive, thank you anyway!😄🙏 😇
@@mihaelaaioanei643 Thank you so much ❤
background music sucks
Can you tell me what is bad about it?
I can do it
For me, you are a winner, my friend! ❤
I can do it