Shaina this episode: I don’t want to be that person who makes judgements on what their life would look like. Shaina 3 episodes later: Their relationship is a complete farce.
@@joseph2ne real and genuine... hmmm maybe she thinks that if you get married on the show they give you a ring pop and you sign a balloon instead of a marriage license!?
I think if Shaina had been physically attracted to Kyle, things would have been different. I don’t think it ever would have worked, but I think she would have continued to be with him for the show. She did not seem physically/sexually attracted to Kyle when they saw each other.
She definitely wasn't. She kept throwing his atheism in his face, but just judging by her actions on the show, she doesn't seem like a godly woman at all in my opinion. She just looks like someone who reeeeeally wanted to be on tv.
@@hahaitsnina I totally agree. Plus, the way her family treated Kyle was awful. I'm a Christian and get super annoyed when I see other Christians on reality tv acting a fool/trashy. Though, I doubt Shaina would've been cast if she wasn't a hot mess. Plus, another pet peeve of mine is people who don't know what they want. Spend some time and figure out what your deal breakers are so you won't waste time.
Shaina going to Shayne to profess her feelings after she'd already said yes to Kyle says everything about her character, or lack thereof. She and Shayne actually do belong together because they're both on the same shaky moral ground. She's only honest with Kyle after she sees him and obviously finds him physically unappealing. "It's not ok to laugh", well actually it is, because these people have chosen to make a spectacle of themselves. Shaina said yes to Kyle to prolong her screen time but in every scene since she said yes to Kyle, she comes off looking worse and worse... and digging herself and deeper and deeper hole.
I've been really enjoying these analyses of Love is Blind, it's interesting to see a clinical perspective on these kind of dating "blind" experiments. I'm also going to add to the chatter and suggest watching Love is Blind Japan, as well as Single's Inferno. It's a Korean dating show where the cast members aren't allowed to initially tell each other their age or occupation. There's a lot of interesting cross cultural nuances involved, especially since age and profession are a lot bigger deals in Korean dating culture. It also provides more interesting perspectives on how these "blind" dating experiments can fare as a judgement to whether or not a couple will truly be compatible outside of the enclosed show environment.
I’d be very much interested if he did an analysis for single’s inferno. It’d also be interesting if he went over the psychology of the criticism Ji-a got. It was insane to me that she got completely canceled and received death threats over wearing fake designer
I think the way the show works is that Shane told the producers that he wants to propose to Natalie, so he assumed Natalie would be in the pod. But Shaina told the producers that she wants one last word in with Shane, so they thought what a troll moment we can have... sheesh
14:06 “I don’t want to look like that person that’s making judgments on what their life would look like” … interesting foreshadowing for Shaina’s behavior in subsequent episodes 👀
I don't feel bad for him. He doesn't even know why he proposed to her, as you can see when talking to her family. There was no depth there, and then when he saw her he just felt for her looks. And theeeen when she didn't want to spend the evening with him, then LEFT without saying anything, and then when seeing each other again, her body language spoke volume. You really have to be blind in order to keep pursuing someone under all those circumstances. So no, don't feel bad for him. He actually thought they are compatible? Common.. a little awareness.
I see Kyle as a bit of a delusional person.. he kept pursuing Shaina despite the glaring red flags popping out everywhere such as with religion, sexual attraction, family approval, her literally leaving him in Mexico, etc.. It was bad enough even without Shane in the picture. And now during their reunion he literally almost "proposed" to Deepti out of thin air.. Just weird!
PLEASE REACT TO JARRET! He’s soooo suspect to me after proposing to Mallory and then proposing immediately Iyanna. It seems so unfair to her and she’s constantly complaining about feeling like a second choice🥺
@@Sunfl0w33r exactly. She's so sweet and gentle, especially considering the things she's said she had to deal with. I'm really pulling for her in particular.
My question is that since Shayne seems to be so wrapped up in whether he’s receiving approval or not can he actually recognize intimate conversation, i.e conversations in which there are shared vulnerabilities, or does the fact that they are giving him attention suffice as intimacy? That is, is he so wrapped up in his anxieties he can’t see the building blocks of a lasting relationship?
*spoiler* we kind of see that Iater on with Natalie. There is a scene when they are on beach as a couple and Shayne basically breaks down over Natalie being quiet and not constantly re-affirming how good it is to be with him.
@@roryspickett9881 Yeah he keeps sniping at her for very little things. Like even the fact that she's a private person so when ppl besides their parents ask what they talked about in the pods she doesn't say gets him upset. Which doesn't make sense considering some ppl are more private than others. It's just a preference but he was trying to make her feel bad about not boasting about their relationship outside of meeting each other's parents.
@@roryspickett9881 It’s interesting how their senses of humor really don’t seem to align. My SO and I roast each other a lot and it’s bonding for us, but any slightly negative joke from Natalie really seems to get under Shayne’s skin. I could not be with someone that insecure
@@abandonablesnowman I thought it was a bit much when she called him an asshole or a dick (don't remember) as a joke. That's not really my kind of humor but to each their own.
0:40 Entertaining a relationship option well past reasonable limits 2:35 Developing intimacy through talking 6:56 Not ready to marry someone 8:57 - The subconscious, uh, finds a way (to push you away from the relationship you don't want) 14:15 Watching someone else fall in love with who you love and feeling it's fake 17:05 :D 22:05 being in a relationship when the other partner is not enthusiastic about it Thank you dr Honda and Stacy
You could tell the kiss spoke volumes for her. I met my partner online, long distance and we did do a lot of FaceTime before we met in person. Loooots of talking. But you never know how it will be in person when you meet. Gosh, when we finally met, we could not stop kissing each other!!! It was like FINALLY!!!!! Haha. The second time we met, I had a cold sore and couldn’t kiss, it was New Year’s Eve. The amount of times we NEARLY kissed was hilarious. So many last minute dodges haha. So yeah, basically what I’m saying, usually, when feelings are there for BOTH people and a kiss happens, it looks a whole lot different than that kiss did!!!
I met my partner online and it took us 3 days to work up the nerve to kiss each other lol. Not at all defending Shaina here, but we're all built differently with physical intimacy!
@@codysmovingcastle that’s so true! How was it when you finally kissed though? :) Sorry if I made it sound like it’s ALWAYS amazing chemistry, I know that’s not how it is for everyone!! That’s why I put “usually” in there, but maybe it’s not even usually!
@@EmpressEllie Awkward as hell to be honest lmao🤣We've been together for nearly 10 years now, but they were some painfully awkward kisses. We hit out stride by the end of my visit!(No worries though, just wanted to point out that people can absolutely have some stunted chemistry hahah)
I met my partner online as well, back in 2018, and it took him 1.5 years for him to even send a picture of himself to me because he was so self-conscious I'd not like him anymore. 🤣 We have been together for 2 years now in a mix of online and in person since we live in different countries but we are making it work.
I don't know if you already talked about this aspect but would be interesting to hear your thoughts on how not seeing the other person's facial expressions and gestures can have a (possibly negative) effect on how they interpret these conversations I think it might explain how some people are totally off in their perception of the other person or situation (for example the way Natalie sees Shane or the way Kyle saw Shayna) I feel like, if they had seen the other person in critical moments they might have been able to make better judgement calls
I love your reaction this episode!! 😂😂 I love how you try to be so calm and collected and try not to show bias but definitely could tell you did not like Shaina being engaged and then going to the other guy, and then with the kiss laughing 😂 😂 same Dr.Kirk
"Are you willing to try?" Kyle, she DID try. It didn't work. You just don't want to see it because you love her. Forget the others. Kyle proved love is blind all on his own.
One of the proudest moments of my life being a friend was telling a friend who was considering leaving her boyfriend for a coworker, that she should try couple therapy with her bf.
You said exactly what I was thinking. Like Shaina was valid in being unsure or sure she didn’t want Kyle. But she should have said THE TRUTH TO HIMMMMM
isn't Dr Honda the cutest? how he stopped himself from laughing at that awful kiss. And for wanting these people to find true even if that ruins the show. You're the best Dr Honda!
I really admire how realistic and grounded your perspective is. you have a really calming affect on me when I watch Your videos and your ability to put yourself in other people shoes and give credit where credit is due is something we don’t see a lot of these days so I’m happy I found your channel.
I could be wrong but having watched a few more scenes with Shaina and the words and phrases she uses when talking about Natalie and Shayne it gives me “racist vibes” like she’s the one who could give him a proper *white* American family 😬(in her mind). I hope I’m wrong but that was my gut reaction.
Woahhh I didn't even think about that but you could be right. It would kind if fit in with other things we know about her; certain evangelical Christians (especially science denier types) do have a tendency towards racist/white supremacist ideas... Yikes 😬
"it's terrible to laugh...it's not okay to laugh.. i'm not laughing at them ::eyes closed:: i...think..i'm laughing with them?" HAHAHA Dr. Honda is too adorable!
That was hilarious when you rewinded the kiss!! 😂😂😂 I feel like her hesitance was 100% based on his looks. They do seem to try to be recreating the Jessica/Barnett sitch from last season
@@Travisfairman you gotta have better standards. I've had much better looking and just as "fine" as her but looks only matter so much if your trying to have a relationship. If your just trying to have a one night stand cool. But to be with someone with her personality. I'm good on that. She's an ugly person. Period. If someone's character is ugly. Thier outward appearance doesn't mean shit to me anymore.
@@timelessrecords2363 I don’t really see what she did that makes her have an ugly personality.. she stated it might not work because of their differences and it didn’t work and before you say she was talking to shayne at that party, she was in love with him it takes courage to not give up easily. AND she was right about them. Natalie broke up with shayne
Shayne's interview monologue was edited over in his conversation with Shaina around 13 minutes in. He didn't actual tell Shaina no and that he preferred Natalie. If he did they would have showed him saying it, but you only heard him saying it spliced over their scene.
Did you catch how her family reacted when they asked Kyle about religion? These types of people scare me because they act nice, but are SO judgemental just below the surface. I cannot trust people like that - it's so inauthentic and frankly creepy.
@@sierranyokka8435 I agree! If I were Kyle that would have been the moment I was like " yeah I don't see this working out after all" and I would have gotten the hell outta there. There's no way I'd spend my life being judged and found lacking and then having them attempting to convert me for the rest of my life. I knew immediately that they weren't compatible. Not because of the differences in faith but because she absolutely couldn't comprehend someone thinking and feeling differently than she did about God. I truly believe you can have differing beliefs but there has to be the ability to maintain respect and keep an open mind in order to do that and I didn't see that from her.
I am Catholic and wouldn't date anyone who wasn't when I was younger, but since university, I consistently only dated atheist (just happened). I respected their beliefs, and they mine and never had issues around religion. It's surprising how many couples have different faiths. My mom is jewish, and my dad is Catholic. They let us choose when we were old enough to stay home unsupervised. Meaning if they went to church, we did too, which makes sense. Lol 😆
THANK YOU! Shane is so insecure. He seems like a good person but I hate when people forget that Shane was playing them both to feed his ego/insecurities.
I think he's the kind of guy that might be fun to do activities with , but because of his extreme immaturity he's not even remotely ready for a long term commitment.
@@ashalily5 Omg yes , truth be told he reminds me of someone I know lol. This person has no sense of physical or emotional boundaries , is likable but also irritating and needs constant reassurance , in compliments , affirmation etc. Like Shayne they are not malicious just emotionally immature and self centered , and that leads them to hurt others often though inadvertently.
As much as we’re talking about Shaina can we also talk about how Kyle decided to still push forward even though she’d already questioned about the religion thing in the pods. He’s also not truly listening to the red flags.
She completely wasted his time. She irritated my soul from this point on in the show. Why accept the man’s proposal if you had so much hesitation?? She just wasn’t attracted to him and immediately wanted Shane again after she saw him. Ugh
Shaina clearly pulls back from Kyle because she is not attracted to him. She is playing a game trying to have both Shayne and Kyle on the hook. But why is she so confident Shayne is hot enough? I wish we had heard Shayne's thoughts on his religion. What does "taking a backseat" mean to her? I appreciate DKH's thoughts. It seemed to me she gambled that pulling away from Shayne would bring him back to her.
I dislike the way the show makes it seem like one person is responding to another person, but you can tell it's just been edited that way. It seemed like Shayne telling Shaina that his connection to Natalie is strong didn't happen right at that moment. They didn't show his face to when he supposedly said that to Shaina, so I wonder what he actually said.
I had the same thought, it seems like it was something he said during an interview and they added it on top. I think Shaina would have reacted to that.
@@Myrilia Exactly, it did sound like something he said during an interview! They do this a lot on this show for no reason. We could have listened to what he actually said.
I think Shane and Shaina is a much better match than Nathalie and Shane and Shaina and Kyle. Kyle and Nathalie also deserves much better than being the easy option and being lied to.
Dr Honda suggests that Shaina, Shayne, Natalie, and Kyle should all call off their engagements and meet up after the show to see how each really feels about each other, if there is compatibility. That is nice to think about, except, there is major motivation to stay on the show. The highest probability of staying on the show is to accept an engagement. Accepting an engagement even if you don't want it creates drama which the producers and writers want. Shaina 100 percent knew that Kyle proposing was her best shot at remaining in the show and milking the benefits of being a reality star. Shayne with having 2 girls liking him chose to propose to the one he knew was a slam dunk to up his chances of staying in. He probably did like Shaina more and had more compatibility with her but it was a risk that he wasn't sure to take because she never said that he was her number 1.
Gods willing, When my daughters get older Im gonna let them watch your breakdown of this so they can learn how to regulate themselves emotionally well.
The producers say they don´t interfere with the interactions among the participants but we can clearly see they were coaching Shayna into the role of the villainess of this season -- maybe she was the one who asked for a second chance with Shane? - but I think it´s more likely that the producers set them up for drama... and it worked!
That's what happened to my ex husband, he got obsessed with one of his friends, blew up our marriage and then found himself alone and confused. He didn't even pursue a relationship with this other woman. I'm fine now, remarried and happy, but my ex husband is still sad and has tried to get back together with me. I told him I've moved on and I hope he does too. Dr. Honda please give some advice to someone like him :)
I think seeing him to know if she wanted to stay implied having physical chemistry and whether or not they would click in person, which they don’t seem to do. Their personalities just don’t align and sometimes you can’t see that until you’re physically together
I absolutely LOVE these videos. All of them including the 90 Day Fiance onces. Thank you for dedicating so much time and effort to them for our benefit! Also - scroll down if you consent to a compliment about your appearance ..... ..... Pink looks amazing on you! Great choice!
i always assumed that there is like a name tag for what pod you're supposed to go into and who would be on the other side but i guess there isn't a "who you are talking to" sign
Dr. Honda laughing at the kiss was everything!!
Yes!!! I couldn't help but laugh along with him. Still smiling. Thank you, Dr. Honda!
I like to think the edit at 18:00 was Dr. Honda laughing for 5 minutes and then coming back to compose himself lol
"I'm not laughing at them"
Why not? We certainly are! We all already know how this turns out and it won't be good!
Could not agree more, Miranda. I have actually tears from laughing at him laugh. right now. He had to play it again, too.
I DIED OF LAUGHTER
😂 I’m dead at you rewinding the kiss…it was ridiculously awkward. She was not into him at all 😆
I was like "NO!! Don't rewind it xD" so cringe and funny 😂
@@Myrilia hahaha I said "Please, don't." to the screen
Shaina- She wanted Mexico and benefits of show-attention etc. She couldn’t pull off the necessary acting.
@@SoulSpa6835 yep
She went on a show call "Love is blind" and nobody called her out for this. Shake got what he deserved but Shayna literally got kid glove treatment
Shaina this episode: I don’t want to be that person who makes judgements on what their life would look like.
Shaina 3 episodes later: Their relationship is a complete farce.
She is a hypocrite and entitled 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Yeah, she wants to be a wife to him in like a real and genuine way…😂 what does that even mean
@@joseph2ne real and genuine... hmmm maybe she thinks that if you get married on the show they give you a ring pop and you sign a balloon instead of a marriage license!?
I think if Shaina had been physically attracted to Kyle, things would have been different. I don’t think it ever would have worked, but I think she would have continued to be with him for the show. She did not seem physically/sexually attracted to Kyle when they saw each other.
She definitely wasn't. She kept throwing his atheism in his face, but just judging by her actions on the show, she doesn't seem like a godly woman at all in my opinion. She just looks like someone who reeeeeally wanted to be on tv.
@@hahaitsnina I totally agree. Plus, the way her family treated Kyle was awful. I'm a Christian and get super annoyed when I see other Christians on reality tv acting a fool/trashy. Though, I doubt Shaina would've been cast if she wasn't a hot mess. Plus, another pet peeve of mine is people who don't know what they want. Spend some time and figure out what your deal breakers are so you won't waste time.
Absolutely, so now she using religion to back out of it🙄
Bing bong!
Shaina is now pregnant by Shayne but he's still with Natalie
Kyle: we bonded over everything
Did I miss something? They literally had nothing in common.
They both had blue collar interests but yeah Kyle was infatuated by her physical attractiveness
Shaina going to Shayne to profess her feelings after she'd already said yes to Kyle says everything about her character, or lack thereof. She and Shayne actually do belong together because they're both on the same shaky moral ground. She's only honest with Kyle after she sees him and obviously finds him physically unappealing. "It's not ok to laugh", well actually it is, because these people have chosen to make a spectacle of themselves. Shaina said yes to Kyle to prolong her screen time but in every scene since she said yes to Kyle, she comes off looking worse and worse... and digging herself and deeper and deeper hole.
Dr Honda’s “terrible” giggling at that cringey kiss gives me so much life Lollllllll What a perfect summary of this couple’s vibe
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The way Dr. Honda cracked up and immediately regretted it 🤣
Dr Honda's laugh brightens my day
17:40
Seeing Dr Honda laugh and feel genuinely bad about it is literally hilarious
I've been really enjoying these analyses of Love is Blind, it's interesting to see a clinical perspective on these kind of dating "blind" experiments. I'm also going to add to the chatter and suggest watching Love is Blind Japan, as well as Single's Inferno. It's a Korean dating show where the cast members aren't allowed to initially tell each other their age or occupation. There's a lot of interesting cross cultural nuances involved, especially since age and profession are a lot bigger deals in Korean dating culture. It also provides more interesting perspectives on how these "blind" dating experiments can fare as a judgement to whether or not a couple will truly be compatible outside of the enclosed show environment.
Japan : Shuntaro’s house !!!!❤️
I’d be very much interested if he did an analysis for single’s inferno. It’d also be interesting if he went over the psychology of the criticism Ji-a got. It was insane to me that she got completely canceled and received death threats over wearing fake designer
Yessssssssssss
Single’s inferno sounds really interesting, where do you watch it
@@helena5442 It's on Netflix
I think the way the show works is that Shane told the producers that he wants to propose to Natalie, so he assumed Natalie would be in the pod. But Shaina told the producers that she wants one last word in with Shane, so they thought what a troll moment we can have... sheesh
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Your laugh was so on point, these two are Jessicas and Mark 2.0
14:06 “I don’t want to look like that person that’s making judgments on what their life would look like” … interesting foreshadowing for Shaina’s behavior in subsequent episodes 👀
i love that you get straight into the video and waste no time. thumbs up from me!! love ur content
“Let’s rewind that kiss” - Me dying/ cringing inside!! Noooo
Same 😂😂😂
I really feel bad for Kyle. He seems like a genuinely nice guy who is a bit naïve.
Totally. He’s not picking up what Shaina is putting down. Kinda cringy to watch him beg her
Imo Sal is the only nice guy this season
I don't feel bad for him. He doesn't even know why he proposed to her, as you can see when talking to her family. There was no depth there, and then when he saw her he just felt for her looks. And theeeen when she didn't want to spend the evening with him, then LEFT without saying anything, and then when seeing each other again, her body language spoke volume. You really have to be blind in order to keep pursuing someone under all those circumstances. So no, don't feel bad for him. He actually thought they are compatible? Common.. a little awareness.
I see Kyle as a bit of a delusional person.. he kept pursuing Shaina despite the glaring red flags popping out everywhere such as with religion, sexual attraction, family approval, her literally leaving him in Mexico, etc.. It was bad enough even without Shane in the picture.
And now during their reunion he literally almost "proposed" to Deepti out of thin air.. Just weird!
PLEASE REACT TO JARRET! He’s soooo suspect to me after proposing to Mallory and then proposing immediately Iyanna. It seems so unfair to her and she’s constantly complaining about feeling like a second choice🥺
Iyanna! I love her and I want her to be happy forever.
@@princesstelevision67 thank you!! Lol I do too and she’s seems so sincere and genuine! She deserves someone that truly desires to be with her!
@@Sunfl0w33r exactly. She's so sweet and gentle, especially considering the things she's said she had to deal with. I'm really pulling for her in particular.
All but one of these dudes are shady
*Mallory
My question is that since Shayne seems to be so wrapped up in whether he’s receiving approval or not can he actually recognize intimate conversation, i.e conversations in which there are shared vulnerabilities, or does the fact that they are giving him attention suffice as intimacy? That is, is he so wrapped up in his anxieties he can’t see the building blocks of a lasting relationship?
*spoiler* we kind of see that Iater on with Natalie. There is a scene when they are on beach as a couple and Shayne basically breaks down over Natalie being quiet and not constantly re-affirming how good it is to be with him.
@@roryspickett9881 Yeah he keeps sniping at her for very little things. Like even the fact that she's a private person so when ppl besides their parents ask what they talked about in the pods she doesn't say gets him upset. Which doesn't make sense considering some ppl are more private than others. It's just a preference but he was trying to make her feel bad about not boasting about their relationship outside of meeting each other's parents.
@@roryspickett9881 It’s interesting how their senses of humor really don’t seem to align. My SO and I roast each other a lot and it’s bonding for us, but any slightly negative joke from Natalie really seems to get under Shayne’s skin. I could not be with someone that insecure
@@abandonablesnowman thank goodness, i was shouting at the screen saying that! No one else on the show seemed to understand that
@@abandonablesnowman I thought it was a bit much when she called him an asshole or a dick (don't remember) as a joke. That's not really my kind of humor but to each their own.
0:40 Entertaining a relationship option well past reasonable limits
2:35 Developing intimacy through talking
6:56 Not ready to marry someone
8:57 - The subconscious, uh, finds a way (to push you away from the relationship you don't want)
14:15 Watching someone else fall in love with who you love and feeling it's fake
17:05 :D
22:05 being in a relationship when the other partner is not enthusiastic about it
Thank you dr Honda and Stacy
You rock!
Dr. Honda laughing at the kiss and rewind it has to be one of my favorite moments from him, at least top three!
I just watched this entire series because you’re reacting/analyzing it.
This is a gold mine of a couple show.
You could tell the kiss spoke volumes for her.
I met my partner online, long distance and we did do a lot of FaceTime before we met in person. Loooots of talking. But you never know how it will be in person when you meet. Gosh, when we finally met, we could not stop kissing each other!!! It was like FINALLY!!!!! Haha. The second time we met, I had a cold sore and couldn’t kiss, it was New Year’s Eve. The amount of times we NEARLY kissed was hilarious. So many last minute dodges haha.
So yeah, basically what I’m saying, usually, when feelings are there for BOTH people and a kiss happens, it looks a whole lot different than that kiss did!!!
I met my partner online and it took us 3 days to work up the nerve to kiss each other lol. Not at all defending Shaina here, but we're all built differently with physical intimacy!
@@codysmovingcastle that’s so true! How was it when you finally kissed though? :)
Sorry if I made it sound like it’s ALWAYS amazing chemistry, I know that’s not how it is for everyone!! That’s why I put “usually” in there, but maybe it’s not even usually!
@@EmpressEllie Awkward as hell to be honest lmao🤣We've been together for nearly 10 years now, but they were some painfully awkward kisses. We hit out stride by the end of my visit!(No worries though, just wanted to point out that people can absolutely have some stunted chemistry hahah)
I met my partner online as well, back in 2018, and it took him 1.5 years for him to even send a picture of himself to me because he was so self-conscious I'd not like him anymore. 🤣 We have been together for 2 years now in a mix of online and in person since we live in different countries but we are making it work.
@@Nomnom29075 wow!! That must have been a suspenseful 1.5 years!!! Glad it worked out!!
Dr. Honda, you turned red at that kiss 😂 I did the same-the secondhand embarrassment was real strong!
I don't know if you already talked about this aspect but would be interesting to hear your thoughts on how not seeing the other person's facial expressions and gestures can have a (possibly negative) effect on how they interpret these conversations
I think it might explain how some people are totally off in their perception of the other person or situation (for example the way Natalie sees Shane or the way Kyle saw Shayna)
I feel like, if they had seen the other person in critical moments they might have been able to make better judgement calls
Totally agree.
I've been wondering this the whole time and I haven't seen anyone with expertise talk about it 😭
I love your reaction this episode!! 😂😂 I love how you try to be so calm and collected and try not to show bias but definitely could tell you did not like Shaina being engaged and then going to the other guy, and then with the kiss laughing 😂 😂 same Dr.Kirk
"Are you willing to try?"
Kyle, she DID try. It didn't work. You just don't want to see it because you love her.
Forget the others. Kyle proved love is blind all on his own.
One of the proudest moments of my life being a friend was telling a friend who was considering leaving her boyfriend for a coworker, that she should try couple therapy with her bf.
Good on you! She’s lucky to have a friend like you
Him talking about how she's a supermodel and how it's a bonus is really sweet and sad
He is out of her league as a human being!
@@Anne-qy4ku yet she was single and went on this show
You said exactly what I was thinking. Like Shaina was valid in being unsure or sure she didn’t want Kyle. But she should have said THE TRUTH TO HIMMMMM
His laugh when they kissed 😂 loved it
isn't Dr Honda the cutest? how he stopped himself from laughing at that awful kiss. And for wanting these people to find true even if that ruins the show. You're the best Dr Honda!
Kyle has such a great smile that when he was talking so happily about Shaina I couldn’t stop smiling but my heart was just breaking for him😭
I was delighted to see you CRACK UP at that RETRACTION of that kiss 🤣
I’m not a Shayna fan but she did leave him in Mexico.Why he met up again requires a lot of therapy for this guy.
Everything he needed to know about their relationship was in that kiss-no further conversation required.
I really admire how realistic and grounded your perspective is. you have a really calming affect on me when I watch Your videos and your ability to put yourself in other people shoes and give credit where credit is due is something we don’t see a lot of these days so I’m happy I found your channel.
I wish Dr.Kirk was my therapist
I could be wrong but having watched a few more scenes with Shaina and the words and phrases she uses when talking about Natalie and Shayne it gives me “racist vibes” like she’s the one who could give him a proper *white* American family 😬(in her mind). I hope I’m wrong but that was my gut reaction.
White? I don't get it.
Have only seen these clips -
I sensed that too, I did it not like it :/
Felt the same.
Woahhh I didn't even think about that but you could be right. It would kind if fit in with other things we know about her; certain evangelical Christians (especially science denier types) do have a tendency towards racist/white supremacist ideas... Yikes 😬
@@maggiedk She follows all the Trumps on IG, her family wants to know if Kyle 'loves being American', they're giving big time insurrectionist vibes.
Dr Honda's giggle fit! Love it 🤣🤣🤣
Love is Blind season 1 analysis is how I discovered you! So happy to hear your thoughts on the current season.
I love it when Dr Honda says "but who knows maybe they'll live happily every after" 🤣 cause we all know what's going on.
"it's terrible to laugh...it's not okay to laugh.. i'm not laughing at them ::eyes closed:: i...think..i'm laughing with them?" HAHAHA Dr. Honda is too adorable!
I love how his intro is so quick and we jump right into it 🤣 wish other youtubers could be like this.
True!
Yaaaay!!!! Thank you Dr. K and Stacy!
That was hilarious when you rewinded the kiss!! 😂😂😂 I feel like her hesitance was 100% based on his looks.
They do seem to try to be recreating the Jessica/Barnett sitch from last season
I'm dying at how pink you got laughing and holding it in hahahaha I feel that slight cringe hahaaa
Love when Dr. Honda had a good laugh. I also appreciated him rwd so I didn't have to. Perfect video to end my work day.
Dr. Honda laughing was the cherry to my day lol!
IM DYING AT YOU REWINDING THE KISS
Shane is an immature boy, we can’t expect any better, same goes for Shayna…they do belong together
Better to dilute the assholery.
Nobody deserves Shaina. 🤣
@@timelessrecords2363 I want her lol she’s fine as hell
@@Travisfairman you gotta have better standards. I've had much better looking and just as "fine" as her but looks only matter so much if your trying to have a relationship. If your just trying to have a one night stand cool. But to be with someone with her personality. I'm good on that. She's an ugly person. Period. If someone's character is ugly. Thier outward appearance doesn't mean shit to me anymore.
@@timelessrecords2363 I don’t really see what she did that makes her have an ugly personality.. she stated it might not work because of their differences and it didn’t work and before you say she was talking to shayne at that party, she was in love with him it takes courage to not give up easily. AND she was right about them. Natalie broke up with shayne
Shayne's interview monologue was edited over in his conversation with Shaina around 13 minutes in. He didn't actual tell Shaina no and that he preferred Natalie. If he did they would have showed him saying it, but you only heard him saying it spliced over their scene.
Shane is so danger extra. I did also wonder if production was trolling him with sending Natalie and Shaina in so he couldn’t tell which was which lol
It gets worse!!! It gets worse!! She does some pretty messed up things
But but but she’s a devout Christian
(Sarcasm)
@@sunnyboknow I had that exact same thought! Nice girl right (insert sarcasm lol)
Did you catch how her family reacted when they asked Kyle about religion? These types of people scare me because they act nice, but are SO judgemental just below the surface. I cannot trust people like that - it's so inauthentic and frankly creepy.
@@sierranyokka8435 I agree! If I were Kyle that would have been the moment I was like " yeah I don't see this working out after all" and I would have gotten the hell outta there. There's no way I'd spend my life being judged and found lacking and then having them attempting to convert me for the rest of my life. I knew immediately that they weren't compatible. Not because of the differences in faith but because she absolutely couldn't comprehend someone thinking and feeling differently than she did about God. I truly believe you can have differing beliefs but there has to be the ability to maintain respect and keep an open mind in order to do that and I didn't see that from her.
17:10 As soon as I watched that "kiss" on Netflix I've been dying to see your reaction XD Keep up the great work!
i’ve never seen Dr Honda laugh so much 😂
“You could’ve said it earlier” 😂
I am Catholic and wouldn't date anyone who wasn't when I was younger, but since university, I consistently only dated atheist (just happened). I respected their beliefs, and they mine and never had issues around religion. It's surprising how many couples have different faiths. My mom is jewish, and my dad is Catholic. They let us choose when we were old enough to stay home unsupervised. Meaning if they went to church, we did too, which makes sense. Lol 😆
I love Kyle. He seems like a genuinely good guy.
THANK YOU! Shane is so insecure. He seems like a good person but I hate when people forget that Shane was playing them both to feed his ego/insecurities.
I think he's the kind of guy that might be fun to do activities with , but because of his extreme immaturity he's not even remotely ready for a long term commitment.
@@phan643 Agreed. I could probably be an good aquantance with him but I wouldn't call him a true friend because he would irritate me.
@@ashalily5 Omg yes , truth be told he reminds me of someone I know lol.
This person has no sense of physical or emotional boundaries , is likable but also irritating and needs constant reassurance , in compliments , affirmation etc.
Like Shayne they are not malicious just emotionally immature and self centered , and that leads them to hurt others often though inadvertently.
As much as we’re talking about Shaina can we also talk about how Kyle decided to still push forward even though she’d already questioned about the religion thing in the pods. He’s also not truly listening to the red flags.
When you’re in love, you don’t see any flags!
Watching you watch and psychoanalyze the show is better than watching the show itself. Love hearing your theories.
"I have deep feelings for you"
"What... why!?"
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This is always a valid question.
She completely wasted his time. She irritated my soul from this point on in the show. Why accept the man’s proposal if you had so much hesitation?? She just wasn’t attracted to him and immediately wanted Shane again after she saw him. Ugh
Such good insight!! I was wondering why hes so obsessed with positive comments and feedback.
Lol doctor laughing at that kiss or with that kiss was hilarious I giggled first time I saw it too don’t feel bad Dr H!
Shaina clearly pulls back from Kyle because she is not attracted to him. She is playing a game trying to have both Shayne and Kyle on the hook. But why is she so confident Shayne is hot enough? I wish we had heard Shayne's thoughts on his religion. What does "taking a backseat" mean to her? I appreciate DKH's thoughts. It seemed to me she gambled that pulling away from Shayne would bring him back to her.
I dislike the way the show makes it seem like one person is responding to another person, but you can tell it's just been edited that way. It seemed like Shayne telling Shaina that his connection to Natalie is strong didn't happen right at that moment. They didn't show his face to when he supposedly said that to Shaina, so I wonder what he actually said.
I had the same thought, it seems like it was something he said during an interview and they added it on top. I think Shaina would have reacted to that.
@@Myrilia Exactly, it did sound like something he said during an interview! They do this a lot on this show for no reason. We could have listened to what he actually said.
Noooooo don't rewind that kiss noooo
I think Shane and Shaina is a much better match than Nathalie and Shane and Shaina and Kyle. Kyle and Nathalie also deserves much better than being the easy option and being lied to.
Love seeing this side of you Dr. Honda!😅
Your reaction to the kiss is cracking me up 😂
The Jessica mark vibe is absolutely on point I got the same vibe and it seems a lot of other people did too
The entire time I was watching the show I kept calling Shaina - Jessica and Kyle - Mark 😂😂😂
Dr. Kirk can see into the future! When he said “sounds like she’s saying their relationship is fake” 🙈😅
Dr. Honda is soooo good! Shaina literally called their relationship fake a few episodes later.
The freeze frame on the awkward kiss 😂😂
The liars can bond and be together then lie to each other. Match made in hell 😜
17:20 was that a "time out" hand gesture 😂😂
Aww that's so sweet what you said about your wife.
Dr Honda suggests that Shaina, Shayne, Natalie, and Kyle should all call off their engagements and meet up after the show to see how each really feels about each other, if there is compatibility. That is nice to think about, except, there is major motivation to stay on the show. The highest probability of staying on the show is to accept an engagement. Accepting an engagement even if you don't want it creates drama which the producers and writers want. Shaina 100 percent knew that Kyle proposing was her best shot at remaining in the show and milking the benefits of being a reality star. Shayne with having 2 girls liking him chose to propose to the one he knew was a slam dunk to up his chances of staying in. He probably did like Shaina more and had more compatibility with her but it was a risk that he wasn't sure to take because she never said that he was her number 1.
Gods willing, When my daughters get older Im gonna let them watch your breakdown of this so they can learn how to regulate themselves emotionally well.
It's okay to laugh , I don't feel bad for laughing at that kiss 🤣. Thanks for the rewind 😂
The producers say they don´t interfere with the interactions among the participants but we can clearly see they were coaching Shayna into the role of the villainess of this season -- maybe she was the one who asked for a second chance with Shane? - but I think it´s more likely that the producers set them up for drama... and it worked!
I knew she was seeing what he looked like first 😆
Nooooo, don't rewind that kiss, please. 🙈🙈🙈
I'm laughing at Dr. Honda laughing 😛
That's what happened to my ex husband, he got obsessed with one of his friends, blew up our marriage and then found himself alone and confused. He didn't even pursue a relationship with this other woman. I'm fine now, remarried and happy, but my ex husband is still sad and has tried to get back together with me. I told him I've moved on and I hope he does too. Dr. Honda please give some advice to someone like him :)
Lol that's usually how it goes
Just like Mark, Kyle is super pushy, but he covers it up with a smile.
and just like Mark, Kyle compares his potential romantic partners to his mom lol
Oh no you're right! I hope he doesn't turn as bad as Mark though 😂
YES! 🚩 🚩🚩
I think seeing him to know if she wanted to stay implied having physical chemistry and whether or not they would click in person, which they don’t seem to do. Their personalities just don’t align and sometimes you can’t see that until you’re physically together
the kiss… Dr. Honda… laughing “WITH” them… the rewind… more laughing
😂 😂😂 I’m deceased
That’s one of the funniest things I’ve ever seen 😭😁
On one of the reddit threads a member of production says the average length of the dates are 7 minutes.
I absolutely LOVE these videos. All of them including the 90 Day Fiance onces. Thank you for dedicating so much time and effort to them for our benefit!
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Pink looks amazing on you! Great choice!
Dr Honda laughing has me roaring
Forget all these Love is Blind folks, I wanna get engaged with the therapist here! He's mad handsome!
can you talk about when shaina and shane talk during the little reunion in chicago
I thought Shane thought it was Natalie in the room……again……no?
I think the editing was done this way to make us believe that, but Shane didn't have a weird face when she started talking
Thank you for pausing on that kiss 😂😂😂
Dr Honda, I love your reactions ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
i always assumed that there is like a name tag for what pod you're supposed to go into and who would be on the other side but i guess there isn't a "who you are talking to" sign