Navigating Step-Parenting
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Navigating Step- Parenting
Creating your own lane amidst the challenges of step-parenting is essential. It's not about replicating what others do but forging a unique path tailored to your relationship with the kids. Understanding their perspective and the complexities of family dynamics is key. It's not just about responsibility; it's about empathy and connection. #StepParentingJourney #UnderstandingPerspective
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I’ve been there with my son/kids. It can make a parent feel torn between the two. The kids can be down right disrespectful. The step parent have to just keep showing love and realize they’re the grown up. The mother needs to have a discussion with the children and fiancé and let them know how they’re making her feel. If the guy really have her best interest at heart, it will work itself out. It will turn out to be beautiful. My son acted a fool with my husband so bad and now he’s closer to him than any of my children. My husband never missed a beat when it came to their games/school function.
They haven't the idea to be appreciative because they are only 7 and 9. He needs to give them time so they can grow to see his acts as a man. It is on the responsibility of the the mother to teach them and for him to show them.
The kids want to show loyalty to their biological father. Kids that small think their parents will get back together one day. This potential new man represents the end of that dream. If the new man tried to meet the biological father and build a cordial relationship with him, the step kids will see this and feel like it's ok to be friendly with the new man, and Dad is ok with it. Those kids are small (7-yrs & 9-yrs).
I think you did the children’s approval especially at that age mine were 14 1618 you respect him I love him and you heard what he said and that’s it and they end up adoring him
Children or children they do not dictate your life
Maybe the mother needs to teach the children to respect him and that he only wants to be their friend he does not want to be their dad and boys that are not trying to be their dad just a good friend that’s what my husband said and my children were against him but at no point did I let them disrespect him
Love what you said lady! ❤
I didn’t like how the guy was behaving for most of the video but he came in towards the end with some composure. His voice was a little rough to hear in the mic for a while but I like his perspective in ways! Y’all both added valuable insight.
Lady you were so right, it’s up to him to create his own lane with the kiddos and can’t be giving up! but instead try from a creative approach and try something different. Not let his wounds take charge and throw his hands up. The children need therapy and some talking to, some questions asked to them by momma such as “ I can see you’re hesitant to accept my boyfriend, are you afraid he will take dads place?”. And some moments of compassion given after answered. “He won’t ever take dads place, but what place would you be alright with him having in your life given that him and I are working on creating a life together?- because mom needs to be in a happy relationship too…” they need reassurance, and direction. Loving and friendly reminders of how to show appreciation, after he does something she then comes in and says “thank you…” for them to copy so her part in teaching manners isn’t foregone. Some seeds of appreciation given “ did you notice he did xyz?” That man is still an influence. Yeah it’s gonna take time and he’s gonna need to be resilient and not throw his hands up just bc he’s not seeing the results immediately. It’s a mom and bf on the same page, same goals in mind approach and a systematic approach almost, DAILY, to lovingly train and show these children that they’re safe to accept him and teach them how to operate with kindness, respect, and appreciation for those in their lives.
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