Choosing To Win At This Game Of Life By Living Childfree | Childfree Women Perspective
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36 yrs old No husband or kids I enjoy my peace, my privacy, my personal space and freedom 😁
Any mention of pregnancy or seeing a heavily pregnant woman really freaks me out honestly. It’s like seeing a terminally ill person. I really enjoy being single and child free! Men literally come up to me asking to date and when I tell them that I don’t date they act so shocked, they are realizing their own uselessness. I don’t want any kind of chaos in my life, just female friends. I have completely decentralized men from my life and it is the best thing I ever did.
I have been doing the same and it brings so much peace of mind. However sometimes I miss cuddles with a guy…any advice? 😅
@@zippi771maybe a large stuff animal or male human robot, I don’t know. Wishing you the best.😊
Yep same here. I try to get female friends but they also judge me for not dating, having sex, or not having kids. So I’m good on my own 🤷🏾♀️
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What a great message!! I am 45, never married, and no children. It is so important to protect one’s peace, engage in healing, and grow to be your best self!! So proud of all you Beautiful women!! Keep doing you, and shake those haters off! 😊😊
I envy you ladies. How different my life would have been if I had remained childfree. I could write a book and fill a whole documentary about how regretful 😢 I am. Having children ruined my life, but I am at least happy to see many women making other choices. Don't be me.
Thank you for your honesty.
We appreciate you jewel for dropping the gems❤️
Oh wow at least you are honest sis
God bless you sis 🤎🤎🤎🤎
God bless the women who can be honest. So many women are determined to have company in the misery they won't admit.
Yo she’s 55….. 55!!!? I thought she was 27 y’all omg that’s what living child free looks like..? YASSSSS we won!
Man same...55!
Only childfree women look like this… it‘s less stress and more living/ traveling/ sleep
55???? oh my fucking god. she’ll live to 180.
Kids annoy the hell out of you and make you age.
Dude I swore she was like 35. Absolute goals!
The only way to win is to not play.
I’ve been weighing the fence about children but after my last dating fiasco, I can finally truly say, that i don’t want children or a husband. I don’t have the desire to cater to a man or baby. I enjoy my life and I’m on track to have 6 figure salary by next year then I plan to try to move overseas in the future.
Great decision👍🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️
I'm 27 and I knew from my early teens that I never wanted kids. I've had partners but that has only ever brought me tears and heartbreak. That aside I made SURE that protection was on point. Ain't no way I'm putting a child in this world. And boy, am I glad that I did now that I see people around me stressing with kids and marriage. I'll just stay chilling, making my bag and eating popcorn while watching from the side lines.
Same here!!! Don't do it!!! As a 56 year old HAPPILY childfree and single Black woman, I can say that living your life for yourself and your well being is the best decision that you can make for yourself!!! I'm speaking from personal experience!!!
I'm a happy, childfree, single, middle age woman. I love my life. I have a job, childfree friends, pets & lots of hobbies. After paying my rent & bills, the rest of my pay is for me to enjoy my life. I've never had a 'maternal instinct'. I have given up on dating. Men, my age, have kids/grandkids. I've been there, done that, dated single dads. Never again ! Too much drama ! I love my freedom.😊
@@alisonb5921 Same here!!! Looks like my life is similar to yours!!! I'm the exact same way!!!
@@scorpionqueen66i want to do it too. Childfree for life. Winner of the game of life
@@alisonb5921omg i can't wait to become like you. I want a child free life. I'll keep healing
I'm a mother and ex wife married for 12 yrs divorced for 12yrs...yall beautiful child free women are not missing a thing. I'm blessed with mature 24 and 20 yr old daughters they're choosing to be single without children I support. As a wife and mother you're drained and no one celebrate you. I'm surprised ppl think I'm 28 when I'm damn near 50...lol but I'm single my girls are moved out I'm living.
It’s so beautiful learning these experiences 🥹 it always brings us back to the center. We should alway center this life around are own joy❤️
@Tera Chantelle yes I'm still alive and well. It's never too late to do things on my terms my kids are grown women living their life now it's my turn...lol
@@denises3779it's your turn! Girl! No more unnecessary suffering. Live your stress free life! Go live your life freely!
Truly kind and compassionate people won't bring another person into this evil world.
61 years old, always wanted to be child free and still loving it.
My focus was building a career, traveling the world and growing wealth. The past 3 years have thrown a monkey wrench into my goal of going to all 7 continents by age 60, but no pressure I'll probably start traveling again next year. I have Australia and Antarctica left to explore.
I want to explore Australia. I want to travel everywhere i want
In my experience, my friends who are parents are jealous of me. I had a friend tell me I couldn't be tired because I wasn't a parent.
The philosopher Epicurus said the most pleasant life is one where we abstain from unnecessary desires and achieve inner tranquility by being content with simple things, and by choosing the pleasure of philosophical conversation with friends over the pursuit of physical pleasures like food, drink, and sex
the greatest secret to happiness is to be as independent of external things as possible.
I agree with you. I went through this with former friends, who were parents. One of these women actually told me she "was envious of you, being childfree, you're not tied down, you're free to go where you like, do what you like". "If I knew now, what I knew then, I wouldn't have got married & had kids, since I had these boys"(twins)", my husband's hardly been home, he stays late at work a lot". I felt sorry for her, especially about her husband hardly being at home. It's like reality has set in, he's a dad now, it's causing him stress, too & he so avoids his family. My friends, who were parents, have since moved onto new friends, who have kids. I've found childfree friends now 😊 We have more in common with each other.
Whenever I go out and unless I’m eating dinner with someone at a restaurant, I wear my sunglasses everywhere inside or outside! People want to pass their burdens onto others and I get it, but I can’t carry everyone’s stuff. I go in and out! One time I was at Kroger’s about to go down an aisle and a kid fell right beside his moms cart. We made eye contact for one second and I’ve never walked away so fast😭😭😭I felt so bad, but it’s like nah I can’t do nothing for you girl I’m sorry
😂😂😂😂😭 I don’t know what the awkward moment is so funny to me.
I’ve never considered wearing shades in places where I don’t want to be bothered🤔.
,, don't hate the player-hate the game" I was always thinking people who procreate hate life by losing everything valuable-time, beauty, freedom by having kids.
37 and my husband is 38. We are childfree by choice. At one point I wanted kids. But I realized it’s best that I remain childfree in this crazy world. Also I realize i barely can take care of myself! Parenting myself is enough 😂😏 I love being able to move around when I want. I have alot reasons why I no longer want kids. Plus I work with kids. That’s enough in a nut shelf!!! That young lady said a mouth full about how people bring kids into unpleasant situations. It’s so sad to see 😢
Thank you Tera. I’m also a childfree woman and single, it’s a blessing. I’m so grateful for this life ❤️
So grateful for life🥹❤️❤️
44 and childfree love the energy that I surround myself with everyday!
I’m not having children because I cannot receive my would-be children’s consent at the “gift” of life. This comes from my upbringing; our entire family not existing would have been so much better for my siblings and myself, and honestly, they are the only ones I care about the most because they, too, didn’t ask for any of this. I saw them suffer. They saw my suffering, too, I couldn’t be the strong big sister most of the time.
I couldn’t do that to my own. It’s happened to my own, already. Not again. Break the cycle.
I'm 38 and divorced, with no children and I am SO proud of my choices. I have three nephews and the two youngest ones are energy balls, who never stop climbing the walls and driving their parents crazy, so I have seen it first hand and I'm good on kids. 😂I have also worked with teens for 13 years and trust me when I say, I'm SO GOODT! 🤣 I like my peace, traveling and sleeping in too much to mess up my life and have kids. It's a no from me........🙅🏾♀️
“What’s real love is not bringing people into chaos.” - Tera Chantelle
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I understand this video 100% even though I have a child. There’s a lot of man trying to make me “STEP MOM” No thank you. No offense I don’t want to deal or put up with other people kids especially in my peace zone, or house. I have my 1 child. It’s me and my one and ONLY!! I see what my parents was saying to me. Now I listen!! ❤
And another thang😂ain’t nobody speaking on all the black women losing they lives at the hands of “someone they “thought” loved them” with a good portion being pregnant.. we all know a baby don’t keep a man but being pregnant is not stopping these fools from diving off the deep end.. it’s too much!
Omg exactly
This is so true. Not only are black women the most abused in society, but the Healthcare system generally fails them as a rule.
This 💯💯
I‘m so glad i‘m childfree- i‘m actually living/ thriving!🎉
YAASSS! Amen sister! I LOVE being childfree. My husband and I are free to go on vacation whenever and wherever we like, can go see a movie at the drop of a hat, sit and enjoy a quiet dinner together. This is the best way!
Amen! I pray that God will grant me the blissful marriage without children. Childfree all the way. I'm the winner of the game of life
I can relate to having to go outside just to run errands and do simple things in public. As an energy sensitive I am picking up on folk's moods, thoughts, balance and imbalance; also the energy of a room or place. The same way dogs can pick up on a scent of a person hours after they leave behind, so can some of us energy sensitives on folk's energy. The vibe/vybe (vibration) of people, places and things is real. I can literally see the imbalance, feel the imbalance and even feel like my brain is slowing down when I hear some people talk. It takes a lot of energy/prana/Chi just to stay sane, keep your vibration high, do protective prayers and mantra just to navigate society; however there are a lot of tools that can help thankfully so we can focus on other things.
The vibes you feel in others is called STRESS. High cortisol.
You said this perfectly
Fellow sensitive here ✋🏽
People that don't have kids usually look 10x younger than parents.
School and social media will definitely ruin a child’s life.
I'm 39 and I'm childfree by choice. I chose to be childfree because kids are a big expense and kids are alot of hard work and alot of responsibility to take care of them and to raise them.
It’s the path of least resistance fa me! They really do be mad cuz we have options meanwhile the gag is they had options too & just chose different 💯what she say don’t hate the playa hate the game📣heard ju‼️It’s giving every bit of rich auntie that travel mind my business & do what I want when I want how I want🥰I love it here❣️🤩💃🏾🏆
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Thanks! This is what a Sunday Sermon is all about.
Wow I appreciate you🥹❤️❤️
9 months is not short. Not to mention the sacrifice from beginning to end. Mad respect to women who are mom's, whew!
You’re actually pregnant for 10 months, post symptoms can last up to 2 years.
I respect any person standing in their truth and taking accountability for their decisions. I do not respect a woman just because she gave birth because we find often women that birth kids but cannot be bothered with attentively raising them. Being a mom is a thankless job but it is for the CHILD. having a well adjusted independent child is the reward but a lot of times people that have kids do not think that far ahead. just waiting for the little rascals to turn 18.
@@nativenation11 Yeah, that's why I said it's a huge sacrifice from beginning to end not just pregnancy or birthing, or 18 or whatever. It's a lifelong commitment.
I never in my teenage years taught that one day I'll sacrifice my body by ripping it open.no amount of talk could tell me that's self love.its a sacrifice yes .for other people.but against me.and I'm not a people pleaser.id rather die.than violate my body like that.thats just how it is
Love all the glowing in this video between you and the woman featured at the beginning. I've been getting my glow back too. I enjoy seeing women without the burden of a "traditional" lifestyle. They don't call it domestic for nothing.
😂😂💯 it’s so many way to live this life!! Never settle 🙏🏽
I have two adult children. I remember the early years and it was a long and hard grind. I went back to work and that ended up as years of being exhausted and worn out from trying to make money to support the family and juggle two full time jobs, the one at work and the one at home. I had very little time for myself.
What about your husband, the father? Why wasn’t he providing financially?
I am childfree, financially independent and happily travelling the world while doing my philanthropy work. Am soooo glad I listened to my 18yr old self that didn't want to have kids 😅
I love how you are so open about being childfree. I am a childfree man and I don’t want want children for all the same reasons. I am a very overprotective father to my nonexistent/unborn children, so I am not bringing them in this world. I have a huge plethora of reasons as to why I don’t want children. 🤔🤔🤔
I have a 1 year old, and prior to having her, I felt like I was not going to have kids because earth was wayy too 'ghetto'. Unfortunately, I wasn't being wise and should have been practicing celibacy. I found out I was pregnant and didn't think I could live with the guilt of having an abortion. I still have no regrets because I can't imagine my life without my child, but I do have periods of extreme sadness because being a single mom is hard!! Now, I warn others, especially my clients, not to have babies if they don't have extremely supportive partners or if they don't want them, but their partners do. Raising a child isn't meant to be done in 1 parent household, and with the wrong partner or other parent, it could make something that's already hard, even harder. I am now abstaining, and I don't know if I will ever have another child. This experience with my daughter has been enough to traumatize me. I plan to homeschool my kid since I'm an entrepreneur, and I will try my best to keep her safe in this world, but I know I can only do so much. I don't get mad at women who don't want kids because it should be something you really want. Also, if some women were more truthful, they'd admit they wanted it but after having the child it was nothing how they imagined it to be. I think women should do what's best for them since men walk away from their children ALL the time, leaving many women to fend for themselves. But I also believe women need to be more careful who they lay down with as just aborting kids when you purposefully had sex with someone you knew you would never want to procreate with or knowing you don't want to procreate at all is irresponsible, imo ( and I'm not passing judgment because I remind myself that I was being dumb all the time). However, to each their own.
Women can do whatever they want. They can have ten abortions if they want. Mind your womb and ur life.
Of course women should never give access to their body and to their womb and reproductive functions to men who are not ready to be their husbands and fathers to the kids that can always be conceived during sex. Even using protections and hormonal birth control there is no 100% secure method of not conceiving kids so the man the woman is giving her body has to be a husband and a good potential father and he has to be onboard with raising the kid that statistically can be conceived by having sex even with different methods of birth control
I'm a 56 year old HAPPILY childfree and single Black woman, and I'm glad that I chose myself and I made the choice NOT to have children or get married at the age of 15, and I don't regret my PERSONAL choices in the slightest bit!!! I've had the chance to travel, I enjoy my solitude and my peace, which is not up for discussion!!! If I had any children or gotten married, I know that I would be totally unhappy and miserable, and I don't need that kind of BS in my life!!! I'm confident that I made the RIGHT choice for MY life and on MY terms!!! The world can kick rocks and GO TO HELL!!!
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Wow I'm inspired. I need to be like you. Happily childfree. Travel everywhere i want.. Live a simple life. I believe i was meant to live a life of greatness!
If God decides to make me meet the one that he made for me I'm open for marriage but for kids, no!
My peace freedom power and solitude are non negotiable. It's not for discussion. I will block anyone who interfere or not in alignment with it
The key is mindfulness. There are so many people who have children for the wrong reasons (out of spite, for tax benefits, because of social norms, etc). Each individual has to truly sit and think about what they want to do. Having a child means dedicating a major part of your life completely to another. It's purpose should be to create a generation better than your own. A lot of people aren't up to that task because of personal shortcomings or reasons out of their control. You have to have something about you worth passing down. Lots of people who shouldn't be having kids are gonna do just that and make up the major chunk of the next generation. I understand that and am up to the challenge of creating strong, moral future leaders to help at least some of the lost. My lineage shouldn't die with me because there is still so much I can give to the world and I want to do just that. Be mindful of your options, abilities, and desires and try to make the best choices for you :).
As a new mom, I wouldn’t say I envy child-free women because I love the conscious decision of deciding children are not for you … “envy” isn’t even the word I’d use, I’ll use “miss”… I miss having more moments to myself that before-child-me had . It’s not other child free women I look at , it’s the old me I look to … but I also enjoy motherhood as well and tell women if motherhood isn’t for you , that’s ok because as a mom , I can understand why people decide to say “no” . While I have my moments , I’m glad I said “yes” . Same as those women consciously chose no children , I chose my child and they’re both valid lifestyles … I will say I’m one and done baby 🤣
You sound like a great mom and great person overall. Other moms just straight out bash childfree women. Attack our decisions and core of existence. It’s very insensitive to attack other peoples choices.
@@swiitdoll Awww thank you !! I just like looking from all perspectives and just realizing we all walking life the way that works for us and if that mean child free , so be it . Even w my lil one , if she choose to not have kids , that’s ok too
@Shelby Spellman I think it's great you enjoy being a mother because it is a decision that YOU came to for yourself. You did not have a kid because that is what society says you should do as a woman no matter what. Therein lies the difference between you and the miserable moms. I also think it's great that you know your limits. I know many other women who also stopped at one. God Bless you and the little one. 🙏🏾
Wonderful comment! Thank you!
Reducing stress in life, living peacefully, slowing down, minimalistic, no drama ❤❤❤ #dreamlife #childfree
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Ase ase ase. I am antinatalist. I will never bring forth children in this world. My children are 100% safe & chilling in my ovaries, will never have as much as a cold. 😊
Hi ❤ thank you for your video! I’m 32 and I’ve never wanted kids in my life. I live happy life and I can’t imagine how much stressful it is to have a kid.
this was gold im saving this for the future haha
Ayeee 💯😂
Yes, it was.
I completely understand this video in its entirety even tho I am a mother of TWO! And I can say that I am happier with my kids . Before having them I felt I had no purpose , I made dumb decisions , hung with the wrong type of people and could’ve ended up in a much more difficult situation . My support system is strong , and everyday I work on gaining more knowledge to pass down to them. I do miss the single life where I was more free , but I can still live my life with my children . Not as much but I’m not unhappy depressed, or stressed out . Have a few businesses I’m working on and my skin is for sure glowing 😊 I love the child free women crew tho keep preaching self love to the younger ones so they too can choose their own path the right way ❤
Why do people with kids do this crap? It’s narcissistic and weird. Commenting on childfree videos about how u love ur kids. Why are y’all even here? Weirdos
I’ve got two daughters, they’ve made my life complete and absolutely wonderful. But having children is not for everyone, we should live the life we want 😊❤️😊
Like you say it is the representation for me!!!! Love it. 💕💕💕💕💕 Confirmation. She looks well in her 50's. Love it. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for sharing. We do need more ChildFree women representation. Thank you. ChildFree is the way to be.
I appreciate how you are able to recognize the things you’ve been through such as the online bullying. You acknowledge it and give it its moment but you don’t let it consume you , which is a skill that only comes with time and grace. You really are fulfilling gods destiny for you and it’s a beautiful sight to see.
Sis! This means everything 🥹🥹 thank you so much❤️
"Be a glitch in the Matrix" - love this! Feel'n your energy right through the screen 🙌✨
Yes loves this message I am 27 and childfree and I absolutely love it every day I am lit and happy. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
New subscribers man you hit the nail right on the head..Minimalist all the way..im on the path to be a glitch in the matrix
She looks 30 not 50!❤
Yeeeeeeeeeees sis !!!!! Procreation is reincarnation & Celibacy is liberation !
Childfree Senior-AND Loving it!
I love ❤️ this lady. She is completely and utterly happy.
I almost never comment on you tube videos but I love the community on this channel. What a bunch of lovely, thoughtful, mindful, tolerant people you are. You should form a government :)) I am a single childless 48 year old and never even thought for a moment about having children. I teach in a secondary school in the UK and quite often parents cry in front of me because of their kids, out of disappointment, helplessness, anger and probably love, because they want the best for their kids...
I struggle with my mentally sick father. He lost his mind. And partially, his sickness was transferred to him from his father. Being a parent is a lot of responsibilities - now I, a granddaughter, have to struggle because of this sickness that transfers from one generation into next one.
GURL BYE I KNOW THATS RIGHT. LOVIN' UR PERSPECTIVE ABOUT LIFE.
U BE BLESSED! 💖
55 where!?!?
Literally 😂😂
I watch this at least twice a month
I'm the winner of the game of life! Childfree all the way
Thank you so much ❤ what an interesting video this should be the video of the decade!!!! Everyday I am grateful and I realize more and more why I’ve been single and celibate for the last 5-6 years I actually lost count and I stay far away from masculine chaos as possible no dating for me, I’m all good on my own, career centered and focused on my dream, my vision & my service to the world 🌍
I love ALL YOU LADIES ❤ LETS PUT THE SON OF GOD TO THROW SIDE AND BRING BACK MOTHER MARY THE VIRGIN AND THE CELIBATE LIFESTYLE FOR THE FUTURE GENERATION OF YOUNG INNOCENT GIRLS THAT DONT KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO HAVE TRUE FREEDOM BEING A VIRTUOUS WOMAN AND CHILDFREE 😊😮😅
Ha! The term "matrix" is such a layered term, especially when you hear the sister "Sophia Stewart", whose work the Matrix movies and animation is based on breaks it down. My personal phrase for it is the "conditional social oppressive Matrix".
Another excellent video. I'm also a childfree minimalist. I new from about the age of 4 or 5 that I never wanted children. I recently retired from a long career at a stressful corporate job, so my last life stressor has been eliminated. I couldn't be happier.
Wow look good for 55
So true! Thank you! Us child-free peeps look younger than our ages compared to people with kids
I never intended having children then suddenly wham I wanted to be a mother, at 36 I had my first son, at 40 I had my second and at 42 I had my third, to be honest, I thought I was pushing my luck at that age but I now wish I’d started earlier so I could have had six kids. My friend has no children she has a very free life she’s also married and they holiday so many times a year, I’m glad for her but I wouldn’t want to swap. Have a great time with your lives people however you choose to live them ❤
Retired at 39!? How???
Military
Great video. Your Childfree videos are honestly like therapy to me. I enjoy watching them!!!
I'm single and happily child free and I'm jealous of her!!!! 55??? Girlllllllllll..........
Much love to you every thing spoken correctly and on point I'm go say it again much love
The first 30 seconds. YES! same! ;)
this needs to blow up. be the glitch in the matrix.
YASSS🥹❤️
on point
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Ur so pretty
This is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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Its only because of what I know now as a Mother of 3 (ages 24, 19 and 5) but I have been saying for the past 7 yrs or more that if I had to plan a pregnancy, I wouldn't have.
As well as child free some people might be better of partner free
Yes, I agree.
Me being a mother yes I have one child . But people is telling me I’m going to regret on not giving her a sibling …. I’m like no she is fine . Yes she also get bullied at school unfortunately 😢 she is fighting back . Yes I’m worried about her future
GIRL. Thank you!!!!
August 1 Happy CHILDFREE Day
@@biobelewilliam-west1310 happy day❤️
I love this message I am so excited that I choose to be childfree. That is the best decision that I have made and I tell you it's the best life🎉🎉🎉🎉
That’s why I only had one child, it’s too hard and too hard expensive. My son is older and now I can finally sleep, as long as he’s in for the night. This woman actually asked me what if something happens to him? As if I would say well I have an spare left. She’s just jealous because she’s stuck and yes I mean stuck with a bunch of children.
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asexual and childfree here never thought i'd meet another, crazy...hopefully i age at least half as good as you though omg.
You look incredible for your age at 55. Woo hoo!!
Thanks 💅🏽
YOURE 55?! Damn I thought you were like 30 👏🏽👏🏽
Having the baby is the cute part, taking them to stuff, feedings and Laundry is what I’m afraid of.
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Hey Tera, appreciate your videos so much ❤️
What are your thoughts on kissing?
I’m on the celibacy journey as well as and I regard kissing as sexual activity too.
I’m just curious to hear your thoughts on it.
amen
I want to look like her at 55 years old 😮
Same at our Walmart😂
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What is the name & @ of the woman who is 55???!!!
We need some serious podcasts where moms and child free ladies honestly talk about this.
I'm tired of bw constantly talking about bm and seeing them with children having problems.
This!!! We also need more media attention to childfree, single, and non-sexually active women.
From music, movies, podcasts, etc!
Now, I am quite curious as to how she knew as young as 7 she didn’t want children. What in the world happened at that age that made a child even think about that. lol
Anywho, I am 110% in the same boat about the adoption bit. I knew in my teens that would NEVER bare a child (for many reasons- one of the main is that I do not want to be stuck to a man for the rest of my life. You will always be bonded if you have a man’s child, even if he’s a deadbeat, lol).
But I always said if I did come into motherhood, it would be via adoption. I am 33 now. And I was more receptive to the prospect of adoption about a decade ago. But now that my money is right and career on point, I don’t want all that hard work and resource being spent on a kid, lol.
I don't feel and speaking specifically to the black and brown community,, I just don't feel sistas need to bring forth children with these Brothas there's alot of damage amongst us historically and moving forward to 2023 still dealing with things in addition to again the historical framework. It's better to heal with your Kingman there's alot of that that needs to be done than producing in such a hard society
Yep too many cycles of broken ppl creating more broken ppl
Your face is gorgeous....not careworn at all.
Shes 55?!!!.. shes 55?!!!!!!!
SHE RETIRED AT THE AGE OF 38?!??!?!?! I'M TRYNA BE LIKE THAT!!!!
Very cute woman
Thank u❤️