I heard a pastor say “Before God let’s you find the right person, He’s making you become the right person. Don’t skip your season of winter; your season of waiting.” I held onto that so tightly in singleness and it made me feel more content and focused.
Im a 42 year old man and still single, I am still hopeful, even tho I sometimes think it’s too late, i still yearn for a God fearing wife. I think about Abraham & Sarah & think maybe I still have a chance. If not, I am content. God said in Exodus his name is I AM THAT I AM, so i try to not say negative things about myself for fear of blasphemy
I pray that the Lord graciously grants that for you. Whatever happens in your life, know the He DELIGHTS in you. The Lord knows everything you need before you know you need it.
44..and was in a loveless marriage when I was 23 to 25. Tragedy hit and we're separated...ended up raising my son alone and about he was 4 or so I filed for divorce to try and start over...context, my son's mother was and is incarcerated. Fell into hook up culture for a while but at 40 I came back to Jesus and working on myself since. Most women in our age range are, not sure how to put it nicely, damaged or way too tatted up for my taste.
Speaking from the other side of the waiting- YES AND AMEN. God is so good and I pray He gives y’all your godly man at the perfect timing! They do exist and God gives good gifts ❤
I was just listening and wasn’t going to comment I normally don’t on videos but I truly felt called to in the moment you said “god wants you to have that fairytale love” I have always been such a romantic, but have been in numerous toxic, emotionally abusive relationships. Ever since I was a little girl I’ve loved love and always watched those princess movies and dreamed of having just a beautiful relationship. With my last relationship, which was honestly one of the hardest ones I’ve gone through, he specifically told me what I want isn’t real what I want is a fairy tale and to wake up and be realistic. He would say that over and over attempting to excuse the way he would treat me, it almost starts to become something you believe. So hearing you say that truly made me feel like god was speaking to me in that moment. ❤️ I know in my heart that he made me this romantic person with this idea of love since the beginning because that’s what he’s always wanted and intended for me to have.
ally idk how to even explain this. but my ex just broke up w me last night, and we had a relationship that was thru Him and we were doing so good. but he couldn’t handle the idea of a 5 year long distance and couldn’t be sure in me to put me thru the pain of long distance. so it really hit when you said the devil was making it hard, and making him worry. bc i was so at peace in the relationship but he was not in the same place. so if he is supposed to be my husband, he has a long of growing to do. thank you for putting it into words
Wow, this one was what I needed! Currently catching up on all the episodes, but this one struck home for me. Matthew 6:34 has been in my heart since July. One of my guy friends and I were talking about the future, like what we want in house or what we’ll do after graduation and we both remember this verse. We talked about how God already has all these things planned out and we just have to be faithful and grateful that we don’t have to have it all together. I’m such a planner, like I get stressed out if I don’t have a plan, and that friend reminded me of this verse, and since that day, I’ve clung onto it like no other. Thank you, Ally. I feel like every episode is a FaceTime call and I can breathe a little easier. Very grateful for this podcast.
Thank you for this You really revealed something the devil was holding against May the Lord continue to bless you for the blessings you continue to share
This video is so insipring & relatable as a fellow Christian in Jesus Christ 😃I believe that at the right time the lord will make it happen ✝️ keep it up girl ✨
this really helped me I've been struggling with wanting to think ahead and trying to figure out what gods plan is and just not focusing on the moments I'm having rn the little blessings god is doing every day i want a bigger rv and a to be financially stable i pray to have a full time job soon but I need to be patient and take things one step at a time
Oh what great woman of God what ever you are talking is blessing us and the other thing should never be forgetten from what you said is we can never be virgin again but we can be born again live life through it by the way I m not married and I m looking for the one who is born again from above
The hardest part for me is abstinence. I’ve been doing so good this year. And for many years I would do good as well. But it’s so hard. On occasions, I feel so lonely and without value.
I think it's not hard to be single, we make it hard. It's a beautiful season, it's a beautiful gift that we refuse to enjoy just because of our expectations that we put on marriage. I was praying for my future husband a lot and I still do it sometimes but I got to the point where I'm feeling really content in this season cause How I am supossed to marry a Man of God if I'm not a Woman of God?. Also, How can I supossed to have a relationship with a person if I have not a relationship with God. Those questions are so mind blowing to me. It's not weird being in our 20's and being single, it's so beautiful and we have to learn how to embrace this season because it's a gift from the Lord. ❤❤ I think Society and Social Media are putting that pressure on us but it doesn't have to be like that. As you mentioned, our cup needs to be filled in order to enjoy this seaoson cause of course there's many temptations. May God fill our cups ❤
God doesn't want us to be obsessed in love 😅 The bible doesn't say that. God wants us to be in a healthy relationship, feeling healthy emotions. Feeling Butterflies is so silly, But feeling healthy emotions is a blessing cause we're not living a fairy tale, we are living something real, something unperfect created by a perfect God so that's better than living a fairy tale. ❤❤❤
I think you're single because you put regular ice cubes in your iced coffee rather than making ice cubes out of coffee in order to put coffee ice cubes in your iced coffee.🤔😉 Kidding aside, thanks for this video. Coming from a 37y/o male with a professional degree who strongly desires to be in a committed, godly relationship but has a physical disability, the way the trials and suffering bring us closer to the Lord is deeply special yet deeply trying. Too many men are settling nowadays, probably women as well. For men, part of the problem is that because guys are so visually oriented and desire a physical connection through marriage the ability to be content and emotionally satisfied in Jesus alone is really difficult at times. But that makes contentment and emotional satisfaction in Jesus all the more necessary! Spend time with God and you will get closer to Him. Psalm 37:3-5 "Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. *Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act*."
Ummm maybe go look at the stats. 22% of married couples are swinging or in an open relationship and 33% of men and women are cheating not in an open or swinging relationship. So just because you’re married, it doesn’t make it better.
Unpopular opinion but what if it’s Gods will for some of us not to marry just like it was for the prophet Jeremiah, Jesus or Paul? Maybe the reason you’re single is not because you need to work on yourself more or because u have unrepented sin etc. what if it’s just because The bible doesn’t promise marriage to everyone who wants it, the Lord promises that he is enough and even if we don’t get what we want or thin we need in this life (new house, the best job, a husband) we should be content knowing that he is in control and HE is enough 🙏🏽🤍
Single because of this, this channel. The kind of guy you are wanting, that higher tier man... he does not want someone who puts their life out there and is in the public eye. Let me know when you find out that I am right ;)
I'm not saying anything is wrong with her. I'm being honest, it is insight that she probably isn't getting from the female audience, that will help her if she choses to not be single.@@scratchknudsen1
i stopped watching after ur first episode. you didn’t open ur bible once this episode. I wish you would do more studies over passages instead of preach /: i loved the episode going over the matthew parable … will you do more like that style or are you wanting to go into a preaching style?
I heard a pastor say “Before God let’s you find the right person, He’s making you become the right person. Don’t skip your season of winter; your season of waiting.”
I held onto that so tightly in singleness and it made me feel more content and focused.
Im a 42 year old man and still single, I am still hopeful, even tho I sometimes think it’s too late, i still yearn for a God fearing wife. I think about Abraham & Sarah & think maybe I still have a chance. If not, I am content. God said in Exodus his name is I AM THAT I AM, so i try to not say negative things about myself for fear of blasphemy
I pray that the Lord graciously grants that for you. Whatever happens in your life, know the He DELIGHTS in you. The Lord knows everything you need before you know you need it.
44..and was in a loveless marriage when I was 23 to 25. Tragedy hit and we're separated...ended up raising my son alone and about he was 4 or so I filed for divorce to try and start over...context, my son's mother was and is incarcerated.
Fell into hook up culture for a while but at 40 I came back to Jesus and working on myself since. Most women in our age range are, not sure how to put it nicely, damaged or way too tatted up for my taste.
Speaking from the other side of the waiting- YES AND AMEN. God is so good and I pray He gives y’all your godly man at the perfect timing! They do exist and God gives good gifts ❤
I really love when she said i want the only way my husband to reach me be through God ,so beautiful ❤
I was just listening and wasn’t going to comment I normally don’t on videos but I truly felt called to in the moment you said “god wants you to have that fairytale love” I have always been such a romantic, but have been in numerous toxic, emotionally abusive relationships. Ever since I was a little girl I’ve loved love and always watched those princess movies and dreamed of having just a beautiful relationship. With my last relationship, which was honestly one of the hardest ones I’ve gone through, he specifically told me what I want isn’t real what I want is a fairy tale and to wake up and be realistic. He would say that over and over attempting to excuse the way he would treat me, it almost starts to become something you believe. So hearing you say that truly made me feel like god was speaking to me in that moment. ❤️ I know in my heart that he made me this romantic person with this idea of love since the beginning because that’s what he’s always wanted and intended for me to have.
I pray that one day God gives you the fairytale love that you deserve. Keep staying faithful and you will be blessed!
preachhhh gurl my single era has been truly truly amazing; God can take all the time he needs I be chilllin and growinn loll
The Lord needs some of us, like the apostle Paul, to remain single so He can literally send us anywhere He needs us to go.
Love this comment ❤
As a 15 year old watching this I can say... I have learnt a lot!! And I've been humbled 😂😂❤️❤️❤️
ally idk how to even explain this. but my ex just broke up w me last night, and we had a relationship that was thru Him and we were doing so good. but he couldn’t handle the idea of a 5 year long distance and couldn’t be sure in me to put me thru the pain of long distance. so it really hit when you said the devil was making it hard, and making him worry. bc i was so at peace in the relationship but he was not in the same place. so if he is supposed to be my husband, he has a long of growing to do. thank you for putting it into words
I've recently started my faithful work with Jesus and you really inspire me I pray God blesses you for being a blessing and inspiration to me amen 🙏🏾
Wow, this one was what I needed! Currently catching up on all the episodes, but this one struck home for me. Matthew 6:34 has been in my heart since July. One of my guy friends and I were talking about the future, like what we want in house or what we’ll do after graduation and we both remember this verse. We talked about how God already has all these things planned out and we just have to be faithful and grateful that we don’t have to have it all together. I’m such a planner, like I get stressed out if I don’t have a plan, and that friend reminded me of this verse, and since that day, I’ve clung onto it like no other. Thank you, Ally. I feel like every episode is a FaceTime call and I can breathe a little easier. Very grateful for this podcast.
words can’t describe how much this means to so many girls, this was sooo good thank you so much!
Defiantly encouraging in my walk with Christ during my waiting season and singleness season. Thank you for sharing
Thank you for this
You really revealed something the devil was holding against
May the Lord continue to bless you for the blessings you continue to share
Amen ally your definitely speaking to me I was telling God your really eating me up he’s speaking through this episode🦋
This video is so insipring & relatable as a fellow Christian in Jesus Christ 😃I believe that at the right time the lord will make it happen ✝️ keep it up girl ✨
Embracing the season of singleness. Thank you God for your wisdom, really enjoyed this podcast. God bless 🤍
Thanks for sharing 🥰 just started my faith journey , by his grace we will all do well🙏
I found this podcast at the perfect time!!! Everything you talk about is what I’m going through! I really needed this message
Thanks for such an encouraging message. Good bless you
God bless you Ally!! i needed this 💛💛
Fridays are now my favorite days 🩵☕️
Amen I definitely needed this🥹🦋
Every word you said spoke to my heart 💕 God bless you abundantly ✨
this really helped me I've been struggling with wanting to think ahead and trying to figure out what gods plan is and just not focusing on the moments I'm having rn the little blessings god is doing every day i want a bigger rv and a to be financially stable i pray to have a full time job soon but I need to be patient and take things one step at a time
I listen on Spotify! Can we plz get the video there as well? I loved that!
You have a lot of wisdom, that's good
I hope you will find your person :)
I’m a single mommy, and God is just so good
Oh what great woman of God what ever you are talking is blessing us and the other thing should never be forgetten from what you said is we can never be virgin again but we can be born again live life through it by the way I m not married and I m looking for the one who is born again from above
Thank you so much for this ❤
The hardest part for me is abstinence. I’ve been doing so good this year. And for many years I would do good as well. But it’s so hard. On occasions, I feel so lonely and without value.
Absolutely love this episode! Love from South Africa ❤
I needed this so so much ❤️
This is so GOOD!
You’re so blessed ❤️❤️
I think it's not hard to be single, we make it hard. It's a beautiful season, it's a beautiful gift that we refuse to enjoy just because of our expectations that we put on marriage.
I was praying for my future husband a lot and I still do it sometimes but I got to the point where I'm feeling really content in this season cause How I am supossed to marry a Man of God if I'm not a Woman of God?. Also, How can I supossed to have a relationship with a person if I have not a relationship with God. Those questions are so mind blowing to me.
It's not weird being in our 20's and being single, it's so beautiful and we have to learn how to embrace this season because it's a gift from the Lord. ❤❤
I think Society and Social Media are putting that pressure on us but it doesn't have to be like that. As you mentioned, our cup needs to be filled in order to enjoy this seaoson cause of course there's many temptations. May God fill our cups ❤
God doesn't want us to be obsessed in love 😅 The bible doesn't say that. God wants us to be in a healthy relationship, feeling healthy emotions. Feeling Butterflies is so silly, But feeling healthy emotions is a blessing cause we're not living a fairy tale, we are living something real, something unperfect created by a perfect God so that's better than living a fairy tale. ❤❤❤
I think you're single because you put regular ice cubes in your iced coffee rather than making ice cubes out of coffee in order to put coffee ice cubes in your iced coffee.🤔😉
Kidding aside, thanks for this video. Coming from a 37y/o male with a professional degree who strongly desires to be in a committed, godly relationship but has a physical disability, the way the trials and suffering bring us closer to the Lord is deeply special yet deeply trying. Too many men are settling nowadays, probably women as well. For men, part of the problem is that because guys are so visually oriented and desire a physical connection through marriage the ability to be content and emotionally satisfied in Jesus alone is really difficult at times. But that makes contentment and emotional satisfaction in Jesus all the more necessary! Spend time with God and you will get closer to Him.
Psalm 37:3-5 "Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. *Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act*."
Because that verse was written to the exiles
This podcast has onestly been a huge blessing for me and a gift from God. Just thank you Ally!✨️🤍
0:38 or whether it’s a season you’ve been in 20 years 😅
I love your podcast
Ummm maybe go look at the stats. 22% of married couples are swinging or in an open relationship and 33% of men and women are cheating not in an open or swinging relationship. So just because you’re married, it doesn’t make it better.
Unpopular opinion but what if it’s Gods will for some of us not to marry just like it was for the prophet Jeremiah, Jesus or Paul? Maybe the reason you’re single is not because you need to work on yourself more or because u have unrepented sin etc. what if it’s just because The bible doesn’t promise marriage to everyone who wants it, the Lord promises that he is enough and even if we don’t get what we want or thin we need in this life (new house, the best job, a husband) we should be content knowing that he is in control and HE is enough 🙏🏽🤍
I think so
Which microphone are you using?
Shure SM7b
Single because of this, this channel. The kind of guy you are wanting, that higher tier man... he does not want someone who puts their life out there and is in the public eye. Let me know when you find out that I am right ;)
You're not right and you are apparently not very nice.
I'm not saying anything is wrong with her. I'm being honest, it is insight that she probably isn't getting from the female audience, that will help her if she choses to not be single.@@scratchknudsen1
You sound insecure and controlling…you sound like the kind of guy girls don’t need to be with.
be fr
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lol this made me feel way worse and very discouraged
Jeremiah 29:11 that verse has nothing to do with you unless you're 2600 years old
i stopped watching after ur first episode. you didn’t open ur bible once this episode. I wish you would do more studies over passages instead of preach /: i loved the episode going over the matthew parable … will you do more like that style or are you wanting to go into a preaching style?
I'd like to answer this, but I'll most likely be shouted down as a red pilled putz.
I am not single just here to support✝️🤍