The Positives and Negatives of Dating a Nigerian Man.

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  • @jasminegibson5311
    @jasminegibson5311 6 лет назад +106

    Lol my Nigerian man treats me like a princess he told me “I want to treat you like an infant because you are my baby”, he’s the sweetest most caring person I’ve ever been with. He does for me without me asking or implying he just knows. He loves his family very much and I admire that.

    • @leonardorjioffor6683
      @leonardorjioffor6683 5 лет назад +3

      @Anonymous you are wrong on your submission, but let me tell you here though some people might do such a thing but there is no reason to generalised an issues like this if you will agree with me. But there is some Nigerians who are married to some Kenyan women for real. So please I wouldn't want you to just generalise this issue. Though some few people might be interested in getting a documentations from any woman but do not say that everyone one is like that for real. I am very sure that you know the size of the population of Nigeria, so do not think that Nigeria is a small country, in your Kenya that is a smaller nation to be compared with Nigeria are you telling me that everyone in Kenya is good, no of course you know that everyone in Kenya is not good.

    • @eddiejakpor6884
      @eddiejakpor6884 5 лет назад +3

      Anonymous you again? Why do you hate Nigerians like this?

    • @eddiejakpor6884
      @eddiejakpor6884 5 лет назад +3

      Nun he just been jealous hahahahaha..

    • @mendozadakota3658
      @mendozadakota3658 5 лет назад +1

      @Anonymous
      U dnt know Wat u r saying oh OK.

  • @EmmaElysee
    @EmmaElysee 6 лет назад +100

    YESSS. I love my Nigerian boyfriend, he is hands down the sweetest man I have ever been with. So patient with me through everything.

    • @wahabodusola6484
      @wahabodusola6484 6 лет назад +9

      ItsEmmaa, that's great, sis! I'm genuinely happy for you. The thing is, a lot of folks have this misconception about Nigerians. We're a nation of 180 million people. We all don't possess the same characteristics. The attitude of folks in the Northern part of Nigeria is different from folks from the Southern part of Nigeria. If I may ask, where are you from?

    • @preciselyavri7944
      @preciselyavri7944 5 лет назад +3

      Lol... maybe a dum question but how do i find a Nigerian boyfriend? im african american no african roots at all.

    • @lacenikks708
      @lacenikks708 5 лет назад

      PreciselyAvri. Call me up if u want to get to know me. I'll give u my number.

    • @chrispounds8809
      @chrispounds8809 5 лет назад

      @@preciselyavri7944 Add me up on Facebook"Chris Pounds" or Instagram "chris_pounds_" who knows we might click well together

    • @skyfaceoforson2023
      @skyfaceoforson2023 5 лет назад

      @@preciselyavri7944 skyface4rl Instagram

  • @mumadufe3354
    @mumadufe3354 6 лет назад +45

    am a kenyan married to a yoruba man blessed with 3 kids and still enjoying my marriage 10 yrs now.love ur vlogs and spirit much love from us in germany😙

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +1

      Thanks a lot girl 🙏🏾❤️

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад

      Thanks a lot girl 🙏🏾❤️

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville 5 лет назад +2

      mum Adufe great testimony.. a Nigerian here is wishing you many more blissful years!

    • @florenceadeleke9486
      @florenceadeleke9486 3 года назад +1

      Congratulations Ma , welcome to be part of us the "yorubas"

    • @gr8ofnetwork289
      @gr8ofnetwork289 2 года назад

      Thanks and God bless you. We may have our challenges like human, but we are actually genuine to be the best. May my brother continue to bring you joy and happiness

  • @CurlyCamille78
    @CurlyCamille78 6 лет назад +101

    I'm very attracted to Nigerian guys but I have never dated one. I took a DNA test and found out i am Scandinavian and Nigerian! No wonder I like them so much. #MyPeople❤❤❤

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +4

      Wow 😮 that’s good 😍

    • @Nadel60
      @Nadel60 6 лет назад +4

      Interesting! Best wishes Angela

    • @Cxded
      @Cxded 5 лет назад +4

      How is that possible? We love y'all too.

    • @tonyokechukwuanyakora7763
      @tonyokechukwuanyakora7763 5 лет назад +2

      My dear my name is anthony am from nigeria but i want to know you better than this,i base in finland ,pls reply

    • @oluakinwale4485
      @oluakinwale4485 5 лет назад +5

      Scandinavian and Nigerian! Welcome on board. Fantastic. Next thing is try and visit mother land. Link up with reputation and trusted tourist agencies in Nigeria. Link up with Nigerians but choose wisely. Start with women even on this platform. There are many good Nigerians but also bad ones. That's the world we live in; it is not peculiar to Nigerians. You can also trace your route and hopefully connect with your families back in Nigeria. Again do this with extra care. Good luck and Best wishes.

  • @muchichinjk
    @muchichinjk 6 лет назад +36

    Thank you my Africa sister, it’s bad for our fellow Africa to hate us, with people like you we still have hope. Thanks God bless.

    • @wahabodusola6484
      @wahabodusola6484 6 лет назад +5

      Peter onyeolu, very well put, brother! She's one of the few Africans that embrace us. The hatred is real. The thing is, some Africans actually believe all Nigerians are bad. It's a shame. Most folks that says Nigerians are dodgy, they're dodgy as well. There are some folks that fall into the victim of circumstances, but majority of them are criminal as well.
      May God continue to bless our husstle.

  • @kelechichibuikem299
    @kelechichibuikem299 5 лет назад +5

    This is so far the best page on RUclips I have seen someone talk genuinely about Nigerian men. You really did a good job sister. As for the bad images we have of Nigerian men out there, please people let's get one thing straight, there's good and there's bad. Don't use the instinct of bad stereotype to judge a good Nigerian man when he finds you, because that will chase him away and trust me a good Nigerian man is like a gold mine that never runs out of Gold. When he says he's here to stay, he means it and he will do anything to make sure you both work out.

  • @skp6852
    @skp6852 4 года назад +6

    I'm an Indian women dating an nigerian igbo😍 he's the sweetest person I've ever met. I am falling for him, how do I know he's serious about us and not playing (though he says he loves me almost all the time and treats me like a queen since we met from day one😁😍) I wish everything works out and I'd be married to him ❤️❤️❤️

    • @rachel12127
      @rachel12127 2 года назад

      How are you and your bf?

  • @mumadufe3354
    @mumadufe3354 6 лет назад +88

    am a kenyan am happily married to a yoruba man 12 yrs now still enjoying😙love ur videos

    • @wahabodusola6484
      @wahabodusola6484 6 лет назад +12

      mum Adufe, awesome! I know my Yoruba brother is taking good care of you. May God continue to bless your marriage.

    • @oluakinwale4485
      @oluakinwale4485 5 лет назад +2

      Well done sis. If you know how to treat a Nigerian man he is yours forever. You are doing things so well that even some Nigeria women fail/refuse to do because some of them have become so westernised that a man means nothing to them. Not suprised Nigerian men are increasingly marrying women from foreign countries. Nigerian women complain that Nigerian men does for foreign women things they don't do for Nigerian women. That's rubbish! Nigerian women tend to take Nigerian men for granted. I have to say that foreign women particularly African women married to Nigerian men are increasingly following these bad Nigerian women's leading to behaviours leading to break down of relationships/marriages. Whether you are a man or a woman; learn/take advice from those who will help make your home and not those who will help to break it.

    • @afeezcodotcom9477
      @afeezcodotcom9477 5 лет назад +2

      Niceone Yoruba people are so caring and love to visit there family as usual

    • @efemzyekun900
      @efemzyekun900 5 лет назад +4

      He will remain your jewel and king, as long as you love him and his family.
      We Yoruba men are mommies boy for life and if you meet a Yoruba man who doesn't love his mother, sisters or family, just🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️....I bet you a 1000% that you will live to regret it. A Yoruba man without his family is either an outcast or a highly questionable person. Peace.

    • @oluakinwale4485
      @oluakinwale4485 5 лет назад +1

      @@efemzyekun900 love your comment. God bless.

  • @Aja-Christian
    @Aja-Christian 5 лет назад +10

    I don't mean to get off topic but. . .Sister, you are sooooo gorgeous!!! Your hair, your smile, your complexion, your accent. . .any man who has the pleasure of being in your presence for more than 30 seconds had BETTER treat you like a queen because you already look the part! Like, your beauty should have men tackling each other in the streets just to get near you and causing accidents left and right. Just radiant and lovely

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  5 лет назад

      Awwww 🥰 that’s so sweet of you ☺️ thanks a lot ♥️🙏🏾

    • @maxk5831
      @maxk5831 5 лет назад

      CXH come on!

    • @thegreatangrycat9863
      @thegreatangrycat9863 5 лет назад

      You are just being over generous with your compliments but she's cute tho😊

    • @gr8ofnetwork289
      @gr8ofnetwork289 2 года назад

      Na my people be this ooooo, but the babe just dey make me dey laugh 😂😂😂😂😂 lekwe like dummy. Maximum respect

  • @ebieyi2138
    @ebieyi2138 6 лет назад +29

    You're beautiful and very down to earth. My Nigerian brother must be very lucky to have you. What a QUEEN!!!!!!!

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +1

      Awww ☺️ thanks a lot 🙏🏾♥️

  • @osigwedaniel8849
    @osigwedaniel8849 6 лет назад +70

    am serious Nigerian man who always respect and adore women

  • @obianujuikeaka9947
    @obianujuikeaka9947 6 лет назад +34

    Nigerian men are one of a kind

    • @Bljdimples
      @Bljdimples 5 лет назад

      Obianuju Orjioke Yasss

  • @Ty-zi7rd
    @Ty-zi7rd 5 лет назад +28

    I'm an American woman who is dating a Nigerian man. It's not perfect but no relationship is especially since our cultures and backgrounds are different. He's the one and I can tell from how he treats me I'm his Queen ❤❤

    • @cpewitte27
      @cpewitte27 5 лет назад +3

      Were you ever afraid that you were being scammed or used? If so, how did you get over that fear?

    • @Ty-zi7rd
      @Ty-zi7rd 5 лет назад +1

      @@cpewitte27 hey I didnt feel like that. He was the one always wanting to spend,money on me take me out, meet his friends etc. Im not gonna lke somethings did seem a bit fishy to me. But I would mention them to him and we would talk about it. You can tell he was raised right. I'm the type to not take bullshit so I guess he also picked up on that and my independence lol if you feel lile that's happening maybe talj to him about your feelings or instead keep a closer watch of what he's doing because they really are sneaky

    • @MrJoennachi
      @MrJoennachi 5 лет назад

      @@cpewitte27 honestly with such mindset I did be first to leave you behind and find other racial groups who don't think like u

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville 5 лет назад +1

      Tynisha Stone Thats a great testimony..xoxo from a Nigerian RUclipsr 💕

  • @adewalesho8502
    @adewalesho8502 6 лет назад +38

    faith am a Nigerian so am glad to let you know that everything you have said about Nigeria is 100% correct

  • @debby1891
    @debby1891 5 лет назад +23

    👋 Hi... I'm a filipina and I have a boyfriend from immo owweri. He's one of a kind
    Even if I'm angry and at my worse character, he always make a way to make me calm and he always understands me. When I'm mad at him he always adjust even though I'm just testing him. I blocked him many times but he tried his best always to make me happy. Nigerian serious guys are adorable. One of a kind. Very loving and hardworking. And its a plus because my boyfriend is very intelligent.and responsible! He's a mechanical engineer. We've been in a relationship for almost 7 months.he make sure that I'm okay everyday checking on me. he sleeps late just to pick up my calls since were having long distance relationship. I love him and looking forward to something stable with him in the future... ❤

    • @maxk5831
      @maxk5831 5 лет назад +1

      with this self declared attitude of yours, how long do you expect to keep him for.

    • @piusray7353
      @piusray7353 5 лет назад +2

      Max K good question
      Many filipinas are too childish which is bad that is why many of them are single mum

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville 5 лет назад +1

      Aww darling, i wish you two bliss! I am a RUclipsr from Imo state too

    • @jeremiasmachava750
      @jeremiasmachava750 5 лет назад

      That is combining of capacity of both psychological.

    • @rishun13
      @rishun13 2 месяца назад

      The worst trait of Filipinas : Testing the limits of their partner and screwing men's mentality but is very PROUD of it.Don't worry I was also like that, but people need to realize especially with Africans, testing their limits/patience is a horrible idea to test how much they love you.

  • @queengem85
    @queengem85 5 лет назад +4

    Thank you so much for making this video! I am a black American and just started dating a Nigerian man and was quite nervous to do so. This has eased my reservations a bit. He seems genuine. We'll see!

    • @wurldreddem
      @wurldreddem 4 года назад

      hello cedrina how are you babe am a Nigerian proudly igbo,can we chat on emails

  • @Everlycece
    @Everlycece 6 лет назад +13

    I actually have to say you’ve done a great job analyzing most Nigerian men.Of course not everything is stereotypical to all of them but u sure did a good job.

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад

      Chinyere Osuafor thanks girl 😍 checked your channel and love it 😊 I subbed 😉

  • @verauzukwu7590
    @verauzukwu7590 6 лет назад +65

    Nigerians are Socialist themselves with others. That's the difference.
    They are soooooo Lovely and caring. I was married to an igbo man for 18years with three kids.
    He cheated on me. And I vow not to be with any Nigeria man in my Life again. Unfortunately I fell into their hands again. And now my new Partner is a Yoruba man. He is such a lovely and caring man to be with. I have never come across such a lovely man in my entire life.
    He is a God send to weap my tears away. And I love him soooooo much.

    • @wahabodusola6484
      @wahabodusola6484 6 лет назад +6

      Vera Uzukwu, I'm glad you found a good Nigerian that makes you happy.

    • @demkostar1284
      @demkostar1284 6 лет назад +2

      Vera Uzukwu - Help me solve this: either you're keeping your first husband's name, or u'r born Igbo yourself. _Uzukwu_ is definitely Igbo, not Yoruba... 😕

    • @asanwa3126
      @asanwa3126 6 лет назад

      So only igbo/Nigerian men cheat? Mtschewww

    • @lisacampbell3432
      @lisacampbell3432 6 лет назад

      How do I know if my Nigerian boyfriend online is playing me we've been together for 2 years

    • @kuldoxy5637
      @kuldoxy5637 5 лет назад +1

      @@demkostar1284 Exactly what I was saying, lmfao!

  • @keishagarner9716
    @keishagarner9716 6 лет назад +9

    I’m from America and I just met a Nigerian man. He is very sweet but some men are sweet at first. He says I’m the one he felt it when he first seen me. We pray for each other and put god first. I’m so afraid because I’ve been hurt numerous of times. I live in United States and he lives in Nigeria for now. We just met but I feel like this is the first man I truly believe other than god. I don’t know what to do, only time will tell right

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +1

      Keisha Garner praying his the one girl 🤞🏾🙏🏾♥️

    • @mslittle9157
      @mslittle9157 6 лет назад +2

      I say pray over it, and go for it, God will show you if it's right. I met my Nigerian fiance online as well, but he's in the States too, and we are getting married in February. We pray with and for each other, that's what I admire the most. Best wishes to you!

    • @goddiamond593
      @goddiamond593 5 лет назад +2

      Sounds like my story now for a few days now...I have trust issues but don't want to miss what God has for me...I'm praying God reveal

    • @ndamieza2190
      @ndamieza2190 5 лет назад

      Pray!

    • @avigrett6106
      @avigrett6106 5 лет назад +4

      Try him by letting him come to USA with his own money. He should book himself into a hotel. Study each other before you make the leap. I just don't want anyone to sweet talk you into falling into another gully. I wish you the best.

  • @tonyekwere142
    @tonyekwere142 5 лет назад +6

    You even knows us more than we know ourselves, am happy u find a Nigerian worthy to be your boo.

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville 5 лет назад

      Tony Ekwere all her points were truly on point! Proudly Nigerian too!

  • @tonycannig5746
    @tonycannig5746 5 лет назад +26

    Sounds to me like an Igbo man don scatter ur head !!

  • @maximumraph3254
    @maximumraph3254 6 лет назад +24

    Faith nice video and to the Nigeria sweet talker who stolen ur hrt is one hell of a lucky man because you so beautiful intelligent and smart...I'm a Nigeria guy I wish I can have a beautiful Kenya lady like you.....well done girl

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +3

      Maximum Raph thanks 😉

    • @ezclean7022
      @ezclean7022 6 лет назад

      Maximum Raph what a sweet comment

    • @MrJoennachi
      @MrJoennachi 5 лет назад

      @@ezclean7022 is this hw you lot chat yourselves up here?

  • @tonychidubem6986
    @tonychidubem6986 5 лет назад +9

    Igbo man is in control here, please enjoy yourself my sister, don't allow him to go home without you

    • @tonychidubem6986
      @tonychidubem6986 5 лет назад +1

      Please I need a Kenyan wife, because there are good and intelligent people

  • @cjaycjay1616
    @cjaycjay1616 5 лет назад +7

    As a Nigerian guy, u are so on point in everything u said.

  • @alexopara439
    @alexopara439 6 лет назад +6

    You 've just said it all, am a Nigerian and an igbo and that's just the major features in our men.

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville 5 лет назад +2

      Alex Opara im Igbo too!
      Great 👍

  • @yayaadama6357
    @yayaadama6357 5 лет назад +2

    Lol this is too accurate, just subscribed. Just started our own RUclips channel. My boyfriend is Nigerian and we hope to bring light to some of these things that you just mentioned. Nigerian’s are really nice people but the have such a bad reputation. Hope our viewers can stay intrigued like u did to us your viewers. ❤️

  • @Gregofoma
    @Gregofoma 5 лет назад +8

    Hello Faith, you're almost accurate if considered generally. Thank you for the video.
    But one thing to help you, men generally dont define love as women. To a woman, she can boldly say one loves her based on care - how he buys her things, tskes her out, spends on her, not necessarily expensive things but MUST buy things for her. To them, it only shows the man has her in his mind always to have remembered to buy her even if it is a candy. So women definition of love is usually along this line.
    Buy men definition of love isn't in what the woman offers. If you like, buy him a house, change all his wardrobe, give him best sex, give him, give him, give him..... He would always appreciate your gifts as a good person but that doesn't fully convince him you love him. Generally, a man defines love from a lady through RESPECT LINE, especially an Igbo man! If he tells you something to do & you agree to do that, he sees it that you ABSOLUTELY TRUSTS HIS LEADERSHIP & WISDOM. This makes him go mad about you. Why? This is mostly bcos of their culture & the Christian teaching which commands man to love & woman to respect. They re 99% Christians & religious (I didnt say godly - that's arguement for another day)
    And I think it is absolutley correct! You can make Igbo man look like a puppet in your hands if you respect him. He can give you all his world!
    In all, thank you for the video

  • @GabrielA-bl4ox
    @GabrielA-bl4ox 2 года назад +1

    Don't disrespect to a Nigeria man, because if he find another girl that is respect him more than you, his going to leave you. And it doesn't matter how long you are in that relationship with him. A Nigeria man leave you at home because you don't respect him, and he doesn't want you to embarrass him in public. That's why he leave you at home and go out without you.

  • @oniah779
    @oniah779 5 лет назад +11

    Im dating a Nigerian guy,i tell you,im like his princess,i dont lack anything,im working he drops me at morning nd picks me up later,dispute the stress of traffic nd all that,he never get tired,ever since i dated him i never complain of anything,good part of it i have a Son with a South Afrucan guy he takes good care of my son like hes own.....

  • @victorokafor7173
    @victorokafor7173 6 лет назад +9

    nice video. u did a good job based on ur personal experiences and they are true as well.
    People always see nigerians as bad, they generalise it.
    Trust me there are bad people in every continent of dis world, not just Nigerians or Africans.

  • @Onechalk
    @Onechalk 5 лет назад +13

    You are 100% right. If you date a Nigerian man, don't ever think of having male friends, unless you want to receive slaps on your cheek. He will take good care of you,but just don't try to compete with him

  • @beeojeiks6516
    @beeojeiks6516 5 лет назад +1

    Young lady, its not just Nigerian man that requires respect; to express your opinion you have to do it respectfully and if he is hot or angry that is not the time to express your opinion. If you want peace, you will keep quiet and address it at a later time- this is maturity, it does not make you soft or stupid.
    Also, Faith your best friend should be your husband, although until you are married , you are a girlfriend. If engaged, when are you getting married, 9 years is a long time. Good luck in your relationship. Thank you for sharing your video about Nigerian Men.

  • @Life4Funches
    @Life4Funches 4 года назад +1

    Who ever you are, the lady that made this video. You sure know how do describe us Nigerians. Mostly, explained is the ways we explore and endure Nationalism world wide our and the way we treat women. This lady is amazing to a Nigerian any of us Nigerian. Thank you, for letting us know how we are appreciated in other countries in the motherland. Sometimes we just don't understand for ourselves, we're just raised that way. We appreciate you. I will be greatful to tell this story when I get home Nigeria.

    • @gr8ofnetwork289
      @gr8ofnetwork289 2 года назад

      You are right. She deserve Ambassadorial award and peace rep. God bless you. Yes, we get problem, but we dey try globally.

  • @Nadel60
    @Nadel60 6 лет назад +10

    You're a complete package: I love your intelligence , class and feminine grace. I've been with a Kenyan lady for 7 years, and married for 5 years. I wish you the very best. I'm a Nigerian.

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +4

      Awww 😍 thank you so much 🙏🏾

  • @tabitha448
    @tabitha448 6 лет назад +27

    I am also engage to Nigerian man,too.

  • @pujasur-legallifestyle4905
    @pujasur-legallifestyle4905 5 лет назад +6

    I am dating this beautiful igbo man for 7 months now . Thanks for the video really helpful.

    • @okparaemmanuel4751
      @okparaemmanuel4751 4 года назад

      @AFRICANS TO THE WORLD Guy u dey mumu ooooohhhh.
      Just dey worry people, no be so u go take move.

    • @okparaemmanuel4751
      @okparaemmanuel4751 4 года назад

      @AFRICANS TO THE WORLD
      I no dey insult you, I just dey let you know say they way you take they put your matter no go well.

    • @okparaemmanuel4751
      @okparaemmanuel4751 4 года назад

      You just dey talk like that give every body u are for real......e no dey work like that.
      Calm down settle for one person.

  • @suleshomade9306
    @suleshomade9306 6 лет назад +7

    Nice video and I am happy you are enjoying your marriage with a Nigerian man.

  • @diamanta_lht2106
    @diamanta_lht2106 6 лет назад +7

    I meant to say I love your accent, it's really cute! Great video!😉

  • @decoloniz_afro
    @decoloniz_afro 6 лет назад +31

    MY YORUBA MAN IS THE BEST EVER...........SORRY KENYA MEN I DIDNT MEAN TO PUT YOU DOWN BUT SORRY YOU NEED TO IMPROVE....................

    • @nandilove2053
      @nandilove2053 5 лет назад +4

      🤦‍♀️ women!!!..One think I dislike from some female is, when you find love with someone out of your own Territory, please don’t come out here to talk down on your own country men’s, not all men’s in Kenya need improvement as well as Nigerian men’s. just enjoy your relationship out there in peace until the day of your betrayal with their own has come smh

    • @ericalembi2247
      @ericalembi2247 5 лет назад

      Sorry 4what? I feel sorry for u,we have electricity full time in Kenya water ,u going where there is no electricity, they just want to use and get Kenyan passport for fraud,by the time u know he will damp u like shit,even by the way have u notice Kenyan men we don't like to date or Kenyans girls we date Ethiopia and Russians, am the one feeling sorry 4u,shame on u,mavi ya kuku

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  5 лет назад

      Did you watch the whole video? Smth 😏🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  5 лет назад

      Mavi ya kuku it’s you ok!

    • @Cxded
      @Cxded 5 лет назад

      Oya take!

  • @iaintknow213
    @iaintknow213 4 года назад +2

    I'm dating a Nigerian man. He's so sweet. Thanks for thevadvice

  • @ejima-jnr
    @ejima-jnr 5 лет назад +8

    Proudly Igbo Nigerian. Baby Oku - means hot babe... i live here in Los Angeles California U.S. though. Nice video 😎👍

    • @keleighstarr3151
      @keleighstarr3151 4 года назад

      Sam AGBASIMELO Los Angeles welcomes you! Enjoy our palm trees lol

  • @v.d.freegate694
    @v.d.freegate694 6 лет назад +3

    You have a point on the relationship being 100:100. Put in all your best, but I hope you apply it on around not just selective.

  • @wilsonailen5015
    @wilsonailen5015 Год назад +1

    The love language of a man is RESPECT. Please, if you want a longlasting relationship, respect your naija man oooo.

  • @DinizEngland
    @DinizEngland 5 лет назад +1

    Girl, you are absolutely correct. Nigerians are the most open hearted and carefree people All are accepted.

  • @bamahjseloho9144
    @bamahjseloho9144 5 лет назад +1

    Can't believe I was smiling all thru this video.
    I saw myself in almost all you said.
    Iam a Liberian and married with kids to a Nigerian from Delta State. He is awesome❤❤❤

    • @nigerdeltamirrortv9311
      @nigerdeltamirrortv9311 5 лет назад +1

      Bamah J S Eloho Your husband must be Urhobo from the name....you're our wife then. Take good care of our brother o!

  • @newafrica9238
    @newafrica9238 6 лет назад +5

    Very good analysis of Nigerian men in relationships.

  • @lionsimba723
    @lionsimba723 4 года назад +2

    Nigerians are true Pan Africanists. In the diaspora they help other Africans regardless of your nationality. That’s my view as a Zambian lady

  • @user-kpkxgtj
    @user-kpkxgtj 5 лет назад +16

    I'm ready for my Nigerian bae now. 😍😔

    • @tuoyoajuyah7162
      @tuoyoajuyah7162 3 года назад

      Are you still searching?

    • @user-kpkxgtj
      @user-kpkxgtj 3 года назад

      @@tuoyoajuyah7162 I put it on pause for now.

    • @tuoyoajuyah7162
      @tuoyoajuyah7162 3 года назад

      @@user-kpkxgtj pass me the remote... Lemme fast forward

    • @santanasage00
      @santanasage00 3 года назад

      @@tuoyoajuyah7162 😂🤣🤣

  • @dirtysouthtalkn3060
    @dirtysouthtalkn3060 5 лет назад +4

    Excellent video sister. Thank you for the lesson. I love my nigerian boyfriend. He is the best boyfriend ever. He does treat me like a Queen. I wish all men were like them. Keep up the good work Queen

  • @mrsranciz
    @mrsranciz 5 лет назад +5

    Nigerian men are cool.. I’m going to do a similar video soon. Thanks for sharing

    • @anthonyonwura007
      @anthonyonwura007 5 лет назад

      Mabel’s Channel are you dating a Nigerian guy

  • @marciaheadley9933
    @marciaheadley9933 5 лет назад +4

    Together for nine years and not married! Wow! Two years decides if we make it two years and one day! Blessings

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 4 года назад

      Marcia Headley , that surprised me. I agree, 2 years is enough to make a decision. I'm in Canada European upbringing.

  • @lorenawilson949
    @lorenawilson949 5 лет назад +44

    I love my Nigerian husband 💖💖💖💘🌹

  • @pinkorganichorse
    @pinkorganichorse 5 лет назад +2

    You are not married. Dating for 9 YEARS is not serious. You are just good friends.

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  5 лет назад

      Wtf!! What do you know about us 🤷🏾‍♀️ I guess you have never loved or been loved or even come across people who have dated for years have kids form a family and not necessarily get married 🤦🏾‍♀️ smth!!

    • @pinkorganichorse
      @pinkorganichorse 5 лет назад +3

      @@FaithKitama of course I have. Just you keep referring to your boyfriend as your husband. It takes away from the sanctity of marriage if you consider yourself married when you are just boyfriend and girlfriend. It's not the same. Marriage is so much deeper. I am actually married to a Nigerian. He is great. They generally are taught to value marriage.

    • @HoodEvanglist
      @HoodEvanglist 5 лет назад +1

      I agree. 9 yrs is too long

    • @tozzchuq7949
      @tozzchuq7949 4 года назад

      @@FaithKitama don't mind them take ur time dear..

  • @theakajansie8009
    @theakajansie8009 5 лет назад +5

    Chaiii when my boo say omalicha m..... My heart melt.... Oiiiii..

  • @AliciaMully
    @AliciaMully 6 лет назад +4

    Thank you so much for this wise and honest analysis of your experiences!

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад

      Thank you 😍

    • @wurldreddem
      @wurldreddem 4 года назад

      hi alicia molly how are you doing,am a Nigerian proudly igbo,would love to chat with you

  • @henryimazeehi9918
    @henryimazeehi9918 5 лет назад +1

    As a Nigerian, you are welcome to our Country. You are beautiful both inside and outside. Your man loves you. Ignore the rants from some Kenyan men who are jealous. I just subcribed to your video.

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  5 лет назад

      Thank you so much 🙏🏾 welcome to the family 😊

  • @midefajobi7042
    @midefajobi7042 5 лет назад +1

    Mind you my dear, blind arguments creates heart wrenching conversations which is also a good contrast to spicing up a relationship. Too good is not very good

  • @dibieemmanuel6716
    @dibieemmanuel6716 5 лет назад +3

    Faith kitama you definitely did a good job Nigerians we love you!! God bless Nigeria!!!

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  5 лет назад

      Thanks for watching the video to the end 🙏🏾

    • @dibieemmanuel6716
      @dibieemmanuel6716 5 лет назад

      Faith Kitama thank you too for your videos!!

  • @Bhemfranco1
    @Bhemfranco1 4 года назад +2

    I love black people 😍😍. Much love from philippines 🇵🇭 🇵🇭 🇵🇭

  • @bmechannel
    @bmechannel 5 лет назад +2

    You're definitely glued to an Igbo Man. I just dont know whats with Igbos and East Africans. I'm still in love with Shanice Mwansa Nkatha. She just doesn't know yet. Probably because she's in Tz and am in Lagos.
    And you're beautiful too. I must say.

    • @ewm4266
      @ewm4266 2 года назад

      Nkatha is Kenyan

    • @bmechannel
      @bmechannel 2 года назад

      @@ewm4266 Wow. Yeah! But is the Nkatha Swahilian? Like she told me the name Mwansa is from her mother's side in Zambia?

  • @simplykoko9033
    @simplykoko9033 6 лет назад +17

    You seem to be talking about Igbo men. I’ve dated a Yoruba and never ever again. I’m now engaged to an Igbo- chai Igbo men oo. Well done. I’m Liberian btw. Igbo men are the bomb

    • @simplykoko9033
      @simplykoko9033 5 лет назад +1

      goldy blood stay away from Liberian men. I don’t even recommend one. Sorry for your experience

  • @PiroskyTV
    @PiroskyTV 5 лет назад +1

    Nigerian men are cultured, hardworking and responsible. Many women in the society would consider marrying Nigerian men because they are responsible men who work hard in order to live well in the society. They are financially buoyant and not selfish Nigerian men are thoughtful. They have high regards for the women they married to. They make good family. They are well exposed.

  • @franhidalgo
    @franhidalgo 7 лет назад +6

    I love your english accent 😉 Good video!!

  • @Cxded
    @Cxded 5 лет назад +11

    We're still the giant of Africa, no be lie.

    • @efemzyekun900
      @efemzyekun900 5 лет назад +1

      I agree with you boss. Even in our bad ways, we dey lead with a gap🤣🤣 and in our uncountable good ways too, we no get equal. Just that small bad fart, smells more horribly than even a nice Georgio Armani perfume 🤣🤣🤣😱

    • @whreinerakinyi7613
      @whreinerakinyi7613 3 года назад

      Aaaaaaaaaaaa, Really

  • @jjeme1092
    @jjeme1092 5 лет назад +7

    U 've being together for over 8 to 9yrs, wht 're u waiting to tie the knot, biko time is going

  • @mikeorewa8328
    @mikeorewa8328 3 года назад +1

    Men don't need love, they need respect.

  • @garymiller372
    @garymiller372 5 лет назад +8

    40 angry Kenya men disliked this video LMAO!

  • @SharonC
    @SharonC 4 года назад +1

    You said it all dear and thanks for sharing

  • @demkostar1284
    @demkostar1284 6 лет назад +23

    😂😂😂 I laughed all the way.
    *Asa nwa, Baby oku m*
    With those words, I bet your man is Igbo.
    In case he hasn't explained to you (which would be a big surprise 😉), in Igbo "asa nwa" means *v-e-r-y* beautiful babe.
    "My _baby oku"_ or "Baby oku m" means "my hot chick".
    As for colours, generally women are more colour-sensitive than men.
    Your guy is certainly holding on to traditional ways of doing things: expected deference of the woman to the husband, restraint in relationship with opposite sex, especially for a married woman. Understandably that might be an issue if you were raised in a more emancipated environment, but may have nothing to do with country of origin.
    _O girl, chaï, your pidgin English na jejee. You be full fledged Nigerian sef, and I throw 'way my hat for you~o. You be real baby oku._
    Your love for your man is very obvious (and no doubt he loves you in equal measure), so much that his nigerian accent has robbed off on you! I'm looking forward to your wedding announcement, which shall solve your "confusion" on whether you're dating, married, dating, engaged ... (trust me, your entire family will love it😁).

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад

      * African * thank you so much for your kind words God bless you ❤️🙏🏾😁

    • @maxk5831
      @maxk5831 5 лет назад

      @@FaithKitama you've been together for this many years and are not married? Granted you say you are very compatible then why have you not regularised your relationship? You couldn't even settle for a description of your relationship at the beginning of your video. More than 7 years of "dating"?

  • @virginiafloyd3271
    @virginiafloyd3271 6 лет назад +5

    Ur pigin is good and you're right about the positive and negative about nigeria

  • @zawadizuberi1108
    @zawadizuberi1108 6 лет назад +7

    Wait girl i really can understand you cz i also from est africa (Burundi) and am dating nigerian too

  • @kenny9871
    @kenny9871 5 лет назад +5

    I am crazy about Nigerians

  • @KAYKAY4B
    @KAYKAY4B 5 лет назад +1

    I said must comment on this video because you are really baby oku which means African Princess with exceptional beauty. Keep enlighten other Africans especially other African men

  • @Marie-tm9uq
    @Marie-tm9uq 5 лет назад +2

    I’m dating a Nigerian/ Yoruba.
    This is so true Lol!

  • @jayemoni9473
    @jayemoni9473 6 лет назад +1

    Really enjoyed this video. I think you got a really good naija man because my experiences have been very different😂. Love the video and Ur naija accent ✔️✅✔️

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +1

      Thanks siz 😍 I think I did 🙏🏾 Love no go die 🎧 ♥️♥️

  • @esejames1992
    @esejames1992 5 лет назад +2

    You're such a beautiful black woman. Great video queen.

  • @belledamebebe
    @belledamebebe 3 года назад +1

    I’m Haitian and the Naija men from Igbo are sweet but I’m not falling for the sweet talk.

  • @Babylove1985
    @Babylove1985 5 лет назад +1

    Yes that is the truth my husband is Yoruba and he is an amazing husband and I live with him in Lagos Nigeria buy back n fourth to America

  • @joeomonghibo943
    @joeomonghibo943 6 лет назад +3

    Thank you beautiful Kenya queen. I am Nigerian having passion of marrying Kenya

    • @ThePreciouso3
      @ThePreciouso3 6 лет назад +1

      everybody want to marry a kenya nigerians hummm

  • @emekaabazie6183
    @emekaabazie6183 4 года назад

    it was a beautiful commentary and the part about respect is truly on point..... And that 'baby-oku-- part too? on point

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 6 лет назад +11

    Not sure if you're married? 9 years? No ring? Not judging but careful he may not marry you. Many Nigerian men love Kenyan women and are nice overall but many marry their own after using women from other countries.

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +5

      Thanks sweetie but am engaged and the one who is not ready to make it official it’s me because have always had my plans before God when and what time of year I’ll like to get married but not to worry soon it will happen and not all Nigerians are the same 😊 he is a very kind quiet hardworking man and am the opposite of it all 😉

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo 6 лет назад +5

      Okay just looking out for my sister! I dated a Nigerian when I was young once and he was great but very traditional. Had to listen to his mother and decided to go collect a wife from home. He now regrets and looks for me all over but I am married now to another West African man who did not have to consult his mother to decide on me! Wish you the best and a happy marriage!

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад

      Thanks girl 😍🙏🏾

    • @ThePreciouso3
      @ThePreciouso3 6 лет назад

      tell her shine ur eyes

    • @NwaforAustine
      @NwaforAustine 6 лет назад

      Faith Kitama I like your reply but girl. It's nice and safe to hasten up. I'm a Nigerian and like other men Nigerian men do get tempted too but when they are committed they are OFFICIALLY committed

  • @rubyestrella9772
    @rubyestrella9772 4 года назад

    I enjoyed your video sis! I have a nigerian bf, a loving and sweet nigerian man. I had so much fun with ur vid, and i dont see any prob with what you said. I like your vibe. ❤️

  • @nuel7759
    @nuel7759 6 лет назад

    No one is perfect,thanks for bringing this issue out. I give you 60/40

  • @rasputin7323
    @rasputin7323 4 года назад +1

    Your man is a good ambassador for Nigerian men but don't generalize.Your man is just a good man he might well could have been from ghanna,Zimbabwe,Kenya,Ethiopia he would still be him.

  • @edleeab
    @edleeab 4 года назад

    You’re so beautiful girl! I had to watch this video!! Thanks for the tips!!

  • @jonathanogbone9925
    @jonathanogbone9925 6 лет назад +5

    tell them girl, naija for life

  • @austinlee8173
    @austinlee8173 6 лет назад +1

    Every country have a good people and a bad people. It's depend who you meet. Nobody ever born good.. We learn how to be good to each other., Love one another

  • @mikkercrownstar4476
    @mikkercrownstar4476 2 года назад

    You got it right Nigeria is the most brilliant country in the African

  • @idma8672
    @idma8672 5 лет назад +1

    Said it exactly as it is... That's s Nigerian man.

  • @jenyenkomone5852
    @jenyenkomone5852 6 лет назад +5

    I'm black Germany get married to a kenyan girl end i love her they are very serious people

  • @Destiny_recovery
    @Destiny_recovery 5 лет назад +2

    Im tempted not to believe you are from Kenya
    You speak every inch like a nigerian
    You look every inch a Nigerian girl
    I love your gesticulations and how u explain things as well
    You are just amazing,wish I can meet you someday
    You are so right a lot of misconception about Nigeria
    Most of the things people hear around or watch in d movies are overblown it's true stuff happens in some places but not as it's portrayed
    All the things you said are damn true you seem to know so much about us?
    Keep it up,Remain blessed baby

  • @tshepisomaduwana4611
    @tshepisomaduwana4611 6 лет назад +5

    Don't be stubborn😂😂😂
    Now you are being stubborn...I get this a lot from my boyfriend. Nigerians...
    My sister what you said is true.

  • @AmyNoorrani
    @AmyNoorrani 5 лет назад +3

    Sooo accurate

  • @theduke6174
    @theduke6174 6 лет назад +5

    I think I’m gonna end up with a Kenyan girl.
    Cuz Once you go Kenyan ....

  • @cameronfranklin1864
    @cameronfranklin1864 6 лет назад +5

    I like your video.at one time i loved nigerian men but due to something personal i decided not to deal with them anymore but it is hard i love my nigerian friends .i love some of their foods .i guess i am scared because of marriage scam. I happy u found someone that,loves u and u love him.

    • @AliciaMully
      @AliciaMully 6 лет назад +3

      cameron franklin I'm in that position now but I'm trying to be cautious and wise...but I believe in him as of now. I pray to God that all good men and women find their true love soon, in God's name. AMEN.

    • @janniellajames5451
      @janniellajames5451 6 лет назад +2

      cameron franklin I’m dating one hope it doesn’t lead to that

  • @daveglo70
    @daveglo70 5 лет назад

    You are so on point, that's naija for you. But we are great people. Greeting to you and yours.

  • @Veda681
    @Veda681 6 лет назад +6

    Great promotion for you Kenyan lady to be dating/ married to a Nigerian guy.
    That is serious promotion for you .
    Nigerians consider it a high promotion for any African to be dating or married to a Nigerian man or lady.
    However it is only Nigerian men who go for anything in skirts.
    How many Nigerian girls have you seen dating or married to other Africans? Very few of them.
    You get my gist?
    From some comments here , it is as if Nigerians are BEGGING to be loved by other Africans.
    No they are not!
    The fact is Nigerians DO NOT need other Africans for love, marriage or for anything; but other Africans need Nigerians.
    They cant keep away from Nigerians and they actively seek to be associated with Nigerians either through marriage or business.
    Yeah. Foreigners don't have anything good to say about Nigerians but they LOVE to get their share of Nigerians' money.

    • @louislamey7168
      @louislamey7168 6 лет назад +5

      Veda681 you comment make you sound just like the one to avoid,

    • @Destiny_recovery
      @Destiny_recovery 5 лет назад

      I'm Nigerian Ibo and I can boldly say that You are not making

  • @fanszone8133
    @fanszone8133 5 лет назад

    KATIMA UR FAITH HAVE MADE U WELL, one love from niaja, keep loving u are on the right track ok.

    • @InPursuitofProgressPod
      @InPursuitofProgressPod 5 лет назад

      Fans Zone are u from Nigeria?

    • @fanszone8133
      @fanszone8133 5 лет назад

      @@InPursuitofProgressPod yes .

    • @fanszone8133
      @fanszone8133 5 лет назад

      @@InPursuitofProgressPod yes I am from niaja but live in Europe, I have just done you one favour now, I just subcrib to ur channel, because I love what you are doing 👏👏👏👍👍👍❤❤❤

  • @motherofallnationssoblesse4856
    @motherofallnationssoblesse4856 6 лет назад +3

    You are a very beautiful young woman.
    I am pleased you are happy with your Nigerian man.
    I just have one question.
    Why after 9 years why haven't you and your man that you love married?

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад +1

      I get this question all the time 😂😂 because I was still in school and felt it wasn’t the time then but now it is. Soon it will happen that now am more mature and am sure I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Thanks a lot for your beautiful remarks 😍😘

    • @motherofallnationssoblesse4856
      @motherofallnationssoblesse4856 6 лет назад +2

      Faith Kitama
      Congratulations Sweetie ❤️
      God Bless You

    • @FaithKitama
      @FaithKitama  6 лет назад

      Thanks. Same dear ♥️🙏🏾

    • @motherofallnationssoblesse4856
      @motherofallnationssoblesse4856 6 лет назад

      Faith Kitama
      You are welcome ❤️🙏

  • @zweeterion
    @zweeterion 6 лет назад +2

    I have noticed that true love actually flourish between Nigerians of either gender with Caucasians. It is always a sorry disastrous relationship when Nigerians of whatever gender date blacks in diaspora. I have advised my own little brother and he was recently shot by his black american girlfriend after so many months of quarrels and drama. He managed to call 911 and was taken to hospital before he passed out. Luckily, the bullet was just in his intestines and was successfully removed. Now he knows better about dating certain types of women.

    • @jessicachansler9336
      @jessicachansler9336 6 лет назад

      Free Occupied Biafra im an American woman and all African Americans are not the same.

    • @jobiej7416
      @jobiej7416 5 лет назад

      Im glad his ok.