I think your advice is the best. Thank you so much. And I am taking the f formula. I’m very happy I found you. I wish It could have been sooner. But hey, it’s never to late. Thank you Marni.
I met my future wife when we were only 17 years old and working at the same restaurant. Per health laws, she had to wear her hair tied back in a ponytail. One day I asked her, “What do you look like with your hair down?” I had not intended it to be a “come on” line, but apparently it worked. We got married at 19 and will be celebrating 50 years of marriage in July 2024. She is still beautiful to me.
I used these techniques on a girl at my college. She turned out to be a militant lesbian. My court date is scheduled for next Thursday. Thanks a lot Marnie.
I also read somewhere that men are more hesitant to approach women because they are afraid of being labeled a harasser or a stalker. I’ve experienced a bit of this as myself. But I’ve noticed that if you look a certain way. Or your a bad boy type it’s not a big deal. The crap women see on T.V and social media is hurting our society badly.
@@alphamanga3213 Like I said you have to look a certain way and have a certain charm. Danny Masterson comes to mind btw when I think about this subject. He was doing this for 20 years and had been getting away with it all that time. Just think on that people!!
I am decades out of practice and never thought in a million years I would be single again and had stopped flirting decades back.... Thankfully still young enough that I am not ancient, but still to be back in the pond again after several decades... never thought I would be glancing at these types of reminder videos.
Based on my personal experiences, if a woman is interested in you, it doesn't matter what line you use. She will respond to you favorably no what you said. On the other hand, if she's not interested in you then it doesn't matter either, because she will not reply favorably no matter what you said. Not interested means, "I don't know and I don't want to know." Another thing, "No" means "No".
Should I still be interested if she asks before we leave my house to go to the movies, "honey, do you have a plunger?" Her tailpipe was all gunked up and I ended up having a bad dream I was a muffler and woke up exhausted.
@AndresAKAdom op is onto something. Those phrases all work IF there is a level of attraction. I have guy friends who could have become romantic interests. Once we have an established friendship its not gonna happen. I don't mess around with my guy friends. Friends are too valuable in life to risk. Once we establish a platonic relationship it becomes familiar and any physical interest i might have had goes away. Despite what p0rnhub says, all women don't want to have s3x with their stepbrother. But I can only speak from my perspective
The problem for us men is that we are worried we're going to cross a line or look like a creep because of all the metoo stuff. I'm not even worried about rejection, I'm worried about a woman screaming that I'm harassing her when I give her a compliment lol
I almost got fired for approaching a woman outside of my place of work. All I said was I thought she was beautiful & asked if she wanted to get a drink sometime. She politely rejected the offer, I said ok, have a nice day & that was it. She was with a small group & one of them called my work (they saw me walk out of the building) & complained that I "sexually harassed her." Ridiculous. Follow this videos advice if you want to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
Sometime during October during the baseball playoff season our next door neighbor was over at our house, and I happened to ask her if she liked baseball. She responded in the affirmative. I then proceeded to ask her what was her favorite position, to which she replied, “on my tummy”. I took that as a major green light while my wife was less than impressed.
Eye contact.Then you'll be able to feel the vibes which are all around us daily and do most of the work. A woman who smiles at you is a pretty clear indication,or looks at you a particular way, SHE FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE/INTERESTING, flirt comes after. Or confidently express or engage in some way...trust me, it works and if you make her laugh, she'll feel beautiful for that little gift you gave her for a moment or more.
I have been married for 21 years and this channel has really helped me re-introduce romance into my relationship with my wife. Marni’s sex talk videos have also really improved my foreplay game which, for my wife, is really the key to good sex for us. Thanks, Marni!
Yea, this advice should work on your wife lol. It's terrible advice for a single guy though, following it would be a quick way to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
One huge factor is your effort and willingness to learn and try to get that spark going again. Without your effort, this would just be hot air. Hope everything is still going well for you.
I think you're wrong there.🤷♂️ Quick responses can lead to a big mistake. Listen to the Woman, and take your time explaining. Always listen without judgement. Never make fun of private disclosures, & never be forget who you are there for in that instance. P.S. ... It's not you!🤣😂🤣🤣
1) Lead with semi sexual compliments - "you know you look cute when you do that / wear that" 2) Ask semi sexual questions - "what do you find attractive in a man" (own it and don't apologise). 3) Playful misinterpretation
The frayed sweater look really works on you. Gives just a hint of that sexy, "Yes, I just had to have a passionate quickie on my lunch break" vibe. 😉 Now, what was that you were saying about questioning again?
The timing of this video is perfect, thanks. I am just starting to casually flirt with women I meet in the last few days at 35 after ending a 15 years relation, moving to my hometown and starting a new job. It is a very thick ice to break haha but I don't have any expectations and with your help, I am a bit less clueless, so the process is prety fun so far.
The lady of your dreams today can become the witch of your nightmares in the future. Lots of stories online where men have lost their career, their children OR even HALF of their entire life savings because of the woman they trusted... stay single.
Marni has a Jennifer love ❤️ Hewitt meets Lacey Chabert look and coolness about her. I have a weak spot for petit Brunettes. Always have. A girl I was desperately trying to get her attention from recently prompted to start working out again and though I came to realize that she was a lost cause it did make me marvel at how much better I look and feel so Sometimes when you think your getting kicked downstairs your really getting kicked upstairs.
marni you are absolutely true on "the leading part" as a man you must know how to lead women!!!! i had learn salsa dancing in salsa dancing males are called leads females are called followers !!!! fun thing is if a male or lead dancer knows a salsa very well he can make her dance very well even the ladies who don't know salsa!!! ive tried this experiment with ladies who dont know salsa😊😊 nice one marni keep it up!!! Reply
Marni, your confidence and delivery are very attractive. Sometimes I watch your videos just because you suck me in. You are absolutely gorgeous. ❤ Great examples, I have success dating women on my own, but I reference your videos sometimes to prevent certain missteps. Especially when dating online. Attraction is a delicate mistress, everyone has a different comfort level. Being cool, confident, and unapologetic about making moves has always been my success. No shame, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Go get 'em fellas, don't be scared.
Your guidance has helped me talk to women I like confidently and I am having success as I continue to learn from you, I can't wait to take one of your course, I am sure woman of my dream will thank you for that.
All these moves make sense because there is a boy friend of mine who’s not really attractive in physical but got to sleep with a girl friend of mine who’s attractive . Thinking about it when we are in a group setting I remember him doing this things. I’ve been observing him since then because I want to learn from him but I saw your RUclips channel and I subscribed 😂😅❤
Absolutely Marni, helping a woman enter into that protective bubble is crucial. Sometimes that can be simply by passing in front of a woman's line of sight or passing by her in her direct vicinity and locking eye contact for a brief 3 seconds and smiling. If it is directed specifically at her, she will know it. If you can create a space where she forgets there is a single other person in a room or out in public, it will feel like an eternity in the blink of an eye. Thank you Wing Girl, very important point, well done.
What scottstone said, if she doesn't find you attractive then following any of this videos advice is a quick way to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
Attraction is built. And it's more about your value than your looks. But you have to actually have value, not think you have value. But I'm not a dating coach, just a good student. And not great looking but i do well in spite of that
@@danielizquierdo113 yes yes yes and yes again. So simple yet most men choose to overcomplicate, twist & flip this simple lesson- I'm referring to danieliz....comment... Please continue to share danielizquierdo113
If you compliment a woman and she gets angry, run away as fast as your feet will carry you. No matter how beautiful you think that woman is, she is NOT!
It practically never happens. Way too many guys are afraid of her "getting angry," and they spin the story into such a spiral that the next thing they say is they'll get arrested and canceled and put on the sex-offenders list. So unrealistic and so unnecessary. None of the guys who say they fear this ever say they've ever actually tried it, and none of them ever say they've ever seen it happen. It's all re-tellings of "I know a guy who knew a guy who heard it on an incel podcast."
Wow. I m - in Germany - are very impressed. Very good coaching here. It all makes sense to me very easily. Well, there came some questions up, like age gap and so. But I can say: for now on I m your fan!
Women and dating is extremely hard. After watching so many hours of content back in 2015 I realized how wrong I had been dating for 15 years and completely stopped even interacting with girls ever since. Guys you've got to do this stuff while you're young because once you get into your late 30s or early 40s, you're no longer going to be up for the challenge. I can't comprehend adding more hard into my life as life is already hard enough.
I understand where you’re coming from man. I can tell you, though, that being older doesn’t matter as much as one would think. I’ve had more success with women in my 40s than I ever did in my 20s and 30s. Just have fun, be yourself and don’t be afraid to (respectfully) approach a woman you’re interested in.
“Getting your house in order” first is important. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and am realizing how much with I need to do on myself before I look at trying to bring another person in on the deal. Just a thought 🤷♂️
Meeting and dating are hard. At 68, I decided that I needed to change to meet women. Two marriages, a number of serious connections over the years, yet his is all new to me. I know Marnie's advice is solid, having watched my older cousin do all of this naturally for decades. Good looking, great teasing, conversation. He gets phone numbers all the time. So now I'm working it. Marni has tied a lot of it together. At least I feel better at the end of an evening now.
The other day I created a safe space for a girl by buying a VIP booth. I made all the comments about how beautiful her eyes and everything were and I was being honest because she was the most wonderful and stunning creature I've ever touched. I also asked questions about her because I was genuinely interested not because I saw this video before. Sounds like I did everything right but at the end it doesn't matter because I left the gentleman's entertainment club
Have a healthy athletic body which shows muscles, wear professional stylish clothes and talk about your senior engineer job.... and as long as you're not short most women will be dry humping you for free inside and outside the club.
Agree. My co-workers and I all get rejected. But, my extra tall hot Chad friend (a true 10) gets signals of attraction from women everywhere; things I never see. They walk right into him, they flirt, they hand him their number, etc. He can say or do anything and girl will continue her pursuit. This advice is good for the shy Chad lights (with an SMV of 9).
@@bobbruce4135 I don't think looks is everything to women like it is for men, I think it's more about confidence and I have non. But looks is a big bonus, and if someone is really good looking he'll probably be aware of it and that'll affect his character and he'll be more confident, so it's like a positive feedback loop I guess, while for other men who get rejected it's a negative feedback loop.
@@bobbruce4135What you are saying is, "The better-looking a person is, the more romantic success they will receive. The less attractive a person is, the less romantic success they will get." That sounds like common sense to me.
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Today i held a door open for a woman... She said " I can open it myself!" I noticed she was coming back out so I let her open the door herself... She said "A-hole!"
ah yes , my younger sister is like that a man stands to her and she replies saying, i do not need for you to stand for me then same situation happens man does not say a word and she throws a hissy fit and a pout and tells him oh wow thanks for standing for me a hole, i do tarot during the weekends and most young women bit upset because i do not tell them they will meet the tall guy who earns 6 figures and owns a sport cars, me as a 41 year old woman i decided to focus on my personal goals first then if stick to a life style this was back in 1995 and try to make profit of what i know or on i work on
Marni ur the homegirl I never had immediately I dumped all my wing guys and realized they decreased my chances instead of increasing 😂.... Now u on the other hand really showed me how to put the pieces together lol THANx ur the best
i got numbers from women i dated lot of girls !!! i dont know where i was going wrong !!! funny thing i never knew how to flirt !!! funny thing isn't it (most men are like that) i used to talk with ladies just like i talk with my guy friends thanks marni your doing good work bless u😊
That's great and all , but with today's society as a man myself it's very difficult to tell which woman will react the way you are saying or which woman will scream sexual harassment.
I REALLY APPRECIATE THE MARNI'S. REKATIONSHIP VIDEOS.. THEY ARE PERFECTLY. PRESENTED. WITH POLITENESS,. INTELLIGENT. PRESENTATION,. AND DECENCY. I HOPE I HAVE PICKED UP. SOME. CLUES.
Happy New Year Marni!!! Great video to start the year off right! I hope your 2023 is going well so far! Looking forward to all of your videos this year! Have a great week and see you next Tuesday!!
I am dating a beautiful Asian woman and thought she is out of my league since she is entire package. I wasn’t even looking but she can into my life of out the blues. Sine she is 15 yrs younger than me but she doesn’t mind. She likes my maturity, masculinity, kindness and attentiveness for her. Also, Asian women are results and goals oriented and she says that I checked in her box. We haven’t been physical but want to wait until she is ready. We are meeting her parents for the first time this weekend. For younger guys out there, Dating an Asian girl, just don’t yelled or be respectful her around her friends and parents young will be her world and the you get back is limitless
just making up from the years wasted. just evaluating myself. thanks for advice. I may make joking comments and check out other influencers. I think I'm immature. wish the best for the future and happy new year 2023
It's funny how all those videos about how to get women never say that. All men like women with a nice pair of breasts and a nice rear end. All women like men with beautiful cars and big bank accounts. Am I being too brutally honest?
Great video. I appreciate the advice and your channel. Could do a version of this for use at work. This needs to be dialed down for the office or guys might find themselves in an HR incident.
That gets women that are after your money. Good women that are willing and able to take care of themselves exist. I'm constantly disgusted by the "golddigger" facade. If 2 consenting adults reach an agreement regarding the nature of their relationship everyone needs to be on the same if it will be successful. I really have distain for wolves in sheep's clothing. The women who openly admit upfront that they're in a relationship for money ....more power to them. It's the dishonest ones I find nasty
I can agree that the technique of practice in front of mirror can help a lot of things as well. It did help me. I can add one thing of all the mentioned thing that you told Marni. And among them is that a man has to be a gentleman, or to behave as a gentleman. It works that as well, cause the gentlemen, they are also charismatic, and they have nice manners as well (believe it or not). Happy New year to you as well. I wish you all the health, joy, and happiness as well.
I'm not too bad looking guy.I am almost 64 but no grey hair. I have great hair, clean and shaven, I usually wear jeans and a tshirt.I have tried everything and i do get a look now and then but when i tried what you're talking about, it did not work. A guy could get in trouble doing this. Every attractive woman is married or have a boyfriend in my area. I am not giving up.
Telling a modern woman you hardly know she has beautiful eyes, a cute laugh or that she looks amazing in her dress is likely to get neagitive responses from not only the lady, but from those around her because viral negative modern thoughts spread like wildfire.
I think peer pressure is a large contributing factor. For instance, if my friend feels uncomfortable, then I’m obligated to feel like the guy is a creep even though he did not have ulterior motives. If I don’t say he’s a creep, my friend and the others will accuse me of defending the man’s “bad actions”. Personally, I have no problem receiving compliments like these. :P One thing I don’t get is that modern women love to express themselves through their clothing, so it doesn’t make sense if she gets upset over someone’s compliment. 🤷🏻♀️ But anyways, good luck! I’m sure there’s someone nice out there.
No it’s not likely to get a negative response to compliment a stranger. I mean if you know how to say it while being genuine and not creepy is the big difference. Get the negative what if thoughts out of your head tbh
You gave an example as a "semi-sexual compliment," as "you look amazing in that dress." Some women get offended at statements like that. Instead they prefer "that dress looks amazing on you," because they are so insecure they assume you meam 'they' only look "amazing," while wearing that dress.
Most woman I met last year were ladies I worked with. Fist up I will NOT date a woman I work with. One lady I liked came up and grabbed my arm while I was teasing her . I told her she should not do that as I get turned on very easily. She loved it and laughed. Then other ladies saw it and began teasing me. I think this led to problems because some ladies I would not tease and you really have know who you can tease and who you can't. But I do think they were jealous of the attention the other ladies were getting and they were enjoying it. So they made my time there miserable. But becuse it was work I kept it professional and could not get to sexual with my teasing. The best I could do was misinterpret what they said and make innuendos
In November last year I met a wonderful girl and we've been going better than I thought for these past few months, when is the right time to go official? I've been too quick too many times thus lead to a short relationship.
Marni the problem with your advice is that it only works if women are already attracted to you. If you're fat = get into shape If you're broke = get a side hustle If you're depressed = get a hobby that gets you active and passionate If you're fat, broke and in general always a downer...you got to fix yourself before you can expect anyone to flirt with you.
That is 100 percent not true. Listen if you don’t take care of yourself at all AND you have no personality no confidence and no ability to talk then it’s going to be pretty freaking tough to pull off just about anything anyone teaches. What I try to teach is how to build that core so it’s strong enough to be seen more than a little pot belly, bald head or anything else. This video is about shifting how you present yourself just enough to display the things needed to create attraction.
@@geovanilopez5459 So the difference between arrogance and confidence is proof & humility. You can't have nothing to trade ( dating is a trade in the superficial sense ) and expect everything in return. If I expect a woman at her best I should have my best to offer. Entitlement is not attractive
@@marnikinrys 100% not true but you follow up by agreeing with me. Anyone who wants an 8-10 person but is unwilling to be the 8-10 version of themselves is ridiculous.
@@geovanilopez5459 what excites women is a man focused on himself who will keep moving even if she leaves him. Women want a man with hobbies, ambitious goals and discipline. They want to earn our attention, not have it just given to them. A woman could ignore me and I wouldn't care because I have too much to do. My relationship has improved with me focusing on myself and my goals
"Thank you Marni! Since watching your tutorial about pickup lines, I've been slapped over 12 times by 14 women! I HIGHLY RECOMMEND Marni if you have a fetish to be slapped"! --John, Satisfied watcher
Wake up you fools, she is only trying to sell you stuff and get views, that is how she makes money, by telling you things you want to hear! jesus, people are so ready and willing to jump on anybodies band wagon pretty disgusting
If any bloke wants to meet chicks .Learn to dance. It worked for our grandparents .. Most dance nights are 75% chicks. Best advice i'd give to a 18yo me. A no brainer.
I wish these videos were simple and straight to the point. Some of them have too much filler. Three great lines which works on just about anyone male or female that can lead to making out or deeper sexual connection. 1. I am sorry I am staring at your lips, they are just so attractive. (this one is blatant and obvious but will work if they are attracted to you. if it doesn't work, the seed is planted) 2. I love looking into your eyes, they sparkle and make me smile. 3. ask them what their favorite food is , and then ask them to make a sound that they would make if they were eating it right now. Then say something like "that sound you make is pleasurable to my ears"
I have ADD and I can follow Marni's videos. It's. Called. CONTEXT. If you want short, try getting dating advice from Tictoc. Good luck with that, though 🦃
Generally the most effective way to get attracted and become attractive is when your wallet is full of penny.. it doesn't matter whether you're old or not looking guy..as long you have bulky of money then everything will going smooth and fine..😉
No words needed. Girls choose to approach a guy before he ever utters a word. It’s how he holds himself and presents himself that a woman decides if he’s personally suitable for her to pounce. The days of women being attracted to a fit handsome clean-cut gentleman are long gone. I personally know. They now prefer rude uneducated dirtbags. The things women choose in a guy that attracts them these days blows my ever loving mind.
I work part-time at Kroger; retired from a previous career so i do not take this position overly serious (rule 1) do not be overly serious. Carry a "Mathew McConaughy semi silly" demeanor. (rule 2) keep your shoes/boots spotless! And tied!! (Rule 3) nice , no more than two sprays of Spicebomb or YSL, cologne. (Rule 4) dress to impress. Shirts/slacks dry cleaned; one day of the week a ridiculous funny t shirt. Mine is a Spicegirls t-shirt!! (Rule 5) spend the extra $80 on dental office sold only white strips! That's the bare minimum guys! The rest is up to you, your smile, proper grammar, and posture. I learned this way late in life, high 50's, and yes even the part-time "young ones" are VERY flirty with me. It's just fun bantering for the most part however been there seven months and got three phone numbers from woman aged 39 to 57! Once you take care of the basics, and yes, i have significant hair loss and 47lbs over weight including only being 6'1", pay attention. Be sure your situational awareness is off the charts. Always observe thise gals truly looking for "help". I've been stopped but never rejected....and it's no big deal.
Before our 2nd date before we left my house to go to the movies my girl Zelda said these 5 words: Do you have a plunger? Here tailpipe was all gunked up and then it made me have a bad dream I was a muffler and woke up exhausted.
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Marni - Thank you so much for great advice. Marni Look Gorgeous.
Has Anyone noticed how much similar Marni looks to Helena Nista ?
So much so, they almost look like twins !
Anyone ?
We collaborate together
When can we talk , ( not text)?
I think your advice is the best. Thank you so much. And I am taking the f formula. I’m very happy I found you. I wish It could have been sooner. But hey, it’s never to late. Thank you Marni.
I met my future wife when we were only 17 years old and working at the same restaurant. Per health laws, she had to wear her hair tied back in a ponytail. One day I asked her, “What do you look like with your hair down?” I had not intended it to be a “come on” line, but apparently it worked. We got married at 19 and will be celebrating 50 years of marriage in July 2024. She is still beautiful to me.
That is awesome!
Why are you watching these videos?
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I used these techniques on a girl at my college. She turned out to be a militant lesbian. My court date is scheduled for next Thursday. Thanks a lot Marnie.
HA HA HA !!!!!!!
Just tell her that you Identify as a Lesbian in a man's body and that will get you back in her good graces..
Gotcha covered Compadre! 😂
@@shanecreamer6889 LOL!!!
I'm just pawn, in game of life.@@shanecreamer6889
That's why you don't take advice from women.
I also read somewhere that men are more hesitant to approach women because they are afraid of being labeled a harasser or a stalker. I’ve experienced a bit of this as myself. But I’ve noticed that if you look a certain way. Or your a bad boy type it’s not a big deal. The crap women see on T.V and social media is hurting our society badly.
You are so , so right .
Labelled a sex pest.
I dont want to be creepy and repel women
exactly... how do we do this and still keep our jobs if you like someone at work? haha
@@alphamanga3213 Like I said you have to look a certain way and have a certain charm. Danny Masterson comes to mind btw when I think about this subject. He was doing this for 20 years and had been getting away with it all that time. Just think on that people!!
I am decades out of practice and never thought in a million years I would be single again and had stopped flirting decades back.... Thankfully still young enough that I am not ancient, but still to be back in the pond again after several decades... never thought I would be glancing at these types of reminder videos.
Based on my personal experiences, if a woman is interested in you, it doesn't matter what line you use. She will respond to you favorably no what you said. On the other hand, if she's not interested in you then it doesn't matter either, because she will not reply favorably no matter what you said. Not interested means, "I don't know and I don't want to know." Another thing, "No" means "No".
Should I still be interested if she asks before we leave my house to go to the movies, "honey, do you have a plunger?" Her tailpipe was all gunked up and I ended up having a bad dream I was a muffler and woke up exhausted.
true.
Based on my intellect you don't know what your talking about, which is why you watched this vid like the rest of us😂
100% 👏
@AndresAKAdom op is onto something. Those phrases all work IF there is a level of attraction. I have guy friends who could have become romantic interests. Once we have an established friendship its not gonna happen. I don't mess around with my guy friends. Friends are too valuable in life to risk. Once we establish a platonic relationship it becomes familiar and any physical interest i might have had goes away. Despite what p0rnhub says, all women don't want to have s3x with their stepbrother. But I can only speak from my perspective
The problem for us men is that we are worried we're going to cross a line or look like a creep because of all the metoo stuff. I'm not even worried about rejection, I'm worried about a woman screaming that I'm harassing her when I give her a compliment lol
especially this
@@buuzilla Fuck it we ball
Yup. Basically it's now impossible to meet anyone at work. If you're a man, you're risking your career if you take a shot and guess wrong.
@mrog5481 very true, it literally just happened to my boss lmao he got a 1 month suspension
I almost got fired for approaching a woman outside of my place of work. All I said was I thought she was beautiful & asked if she wanted to get a drink sometime. She politely rejected the offer, I said ok, have a nice day & that was it. She was with a small group & one of them called my work (they saw me walk out of the building) & complained that I "sexually harassed her." Ridiculous. Follow this videos advice if you want to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
Sometime during October during the baseball playoff season our next door neighbor was over at our house, and I happened to ask her if she liked baseball. She responded in the affirmative. I then proceeded to ask her what was her favorite position, to which she replied, “on my tummy”. I took that as a major green light while my wife was less than impressed.
We won't ask how many days you spent in the dog house.
@@riverbankfisher 😂😂😂
@@riverbankfisherweird my wife would have said show us while we started to get undressed.
She been back?
Going to a basketball game on a date. Gonna use this. Lol.
Eye contact.Then you'll be able to feel the vibes which are all around us daily and do most of the work. A woman who smiles at you is a pretty clear indication,or looks at you a particular way, SHE FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE/INTERESTING, flirt comes after. Or confidently express or engage in some way...trust me, it works and if you make her laugh, she'll feel beautiful for that little gift you gave her for a moment or more.
I have been married for 21 years and this channel has really helped me re-introduce romance into my relationship with my wife. Marni’s sex talk videos have also really improved my foreplay game which, for my wife, is really the key to good sex for us. Thanks, Marni!
That's absoutely the key, for all the women I know .....
Yea, this advice should work on your wife lol. It's terrible advice for a single guy though, following it would be a quick way to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
One huge factor is your effort and willingness to learn and try to get that spark going again. Without your effort, this would just be hot air. Hope everything is still going well for you.
Relationship takes constant work. I hope to be working on my marriage 21 years from today.
@PerformanceAddict The best relationship advice I've ever received was "don't take relationship advice from women."
This works great, on everyone I DON'T want it to, and no one I DO.
flirting is mostly about being able to think quickly and be funny
Too true and especially if you can steer the jokes down a left of centre alley if you know what I mean? It shows your creativity.
Women don't care how funny you are when it comes to sex.
And many of us haven't the ability to grasp verbal ball play sadly
I think you're wrong there.🤷♂️ Quick responses can lead to a big mistake. Listen to the Woman, and take your time explaining. Always listen without judgement. Never make fun of private disclosures, & never be forget who you are there for in that instance. P.S. ... It's not you!🤣😂🤣🤣
It’s essential. Sometimes it’s there and sometimes not. Especially helpful when taking the safe and usually successful “make her laugh” approach.
1) Lead with semi sexual compliments - "you know you look cute when you do that / wear that"
2) Ask semi sexual questions - "what do you find attractive in a man" (own it and don't apologise).
3) Playful misinterpretation
Good job!
Fuck I find that attractive and I'm gay
Just don't do it at work- fired.....
@@Mike-jv4rz Yep that’s so true unless it’s a woman doing it!!
@@Slyguy96 Smdh!
This is so convoluted.
The frayed sweater look really works on you. Gives just a hint of that sexy, "Yes, I just had to have a passionate quickie on my lunch break" vibe. 😉 Now, what was that you were saying about questioning again?
Absolutely wanted to comment how much that and the hair work- she’s definitely a stunner on top of having great content.
The timing of this video is perfect, thanks. I am just starting to casually flirt with women I meet in the last few days at 35 after ending a 15 years relation, moving to my hometown and starting a new job. It is a very thick ice to break haha but I don't have any expectations and with your help, I am a bit less clueless, so the process is prety fun so far.
Updates bro
Don't do it! It ain't worth it. Keep your money. HEAD GAMES!!!! F ALL THAT!
@@doctorkayakWhat do you mean?
The lady of your dreams today can become the witch of your nightmares in the future.
Lots of stories online where men have lost their career, their children OR even HALF of their entire life savings because of the woman they trusted... stay single.
@@wisefoolman Don't be a simp bro. You are opening yourself up to a world of legal and financial liabilities. Stay unattached! Be a man!
That outfit looks great on you Marni and nice hairstyle!
Marni has a Jennifer love ❤️ Hewitt meets Lacey Chabert look and coolness about her. I have a weak spot for petit Brunettes. Always have. A girl I was desperately trying to get her attention from recently prompted to start working out again and though I came to realize that she was a lost cause it did make me marvel at how much better I look and feel so
Sometimes when you think your getting kicked downstairs your really getting kicked upstairs.
Marnis flirty comeback examples will put you straight in creepsville word for word but in the right direction.
marni you are absolutely true on "the leading part" as a man you must know how to lead women!!!! i had learn salsa dancing in salsa dancing males are called leads females are called followers !!!! fun thing is if a male or lead dancer knows a salsa very well he can make her dance very well even the ladies who don't know salsa!!! ive tried this experiment with ladies who dont know salsa😊😊 nice one marni keep it up!!!
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The “You’re already trying to get me out of my T-shirt?“ line is hysterical, but I don’t know if I’d be genius enough to think of that on the spot.
Marni, your confidence and delivery are very attractive. Sometimes I watch your videos just because you suck me in. You are absolutely gorgeous. ❤ Great examples, I have success dating women on my own, but I reference your videos sometimes to prevent certain missteps. Especially when dating online. Attraction is a delicate mistress, everyone has a different comfort level. Being cool, confident, and unapologetic about making moves has always been my success. No shame, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Go get 'em fellas, don't be scared.
I like you Marni.
You have confirmed that all instincts have always been spot on.
Thanks.
Your guidance has helped me talk to women I like confidently and I am having success as I continue to learn from you, I can't wait to take one of your course, I am sure woman of my dream will thank you for that.
All these moves make sense because there is a boy friend of mine who’s not really attractive in physical but got to sleep with a girl friend of mine who’s attractive . Thinking about it when we are in a group setting I remember him doing this things. I’ve been observing him since then because I want to learn from him but I saw your RUclips channel and I subscribed 😂😅❤
Absolutely Marni, helping a woman enter into that protective bubble is crucial. Sometimes that can be simply by passing in front of a woman's line of sight or passing by her in her direct vicinity and locking eye contact for a brief 3 seconds and smiling. If it is directed specifically at her, she will know it. If you can create a space where she forgets there is a single other person in a room or out in public, it will feel like an eternity in the blink of an eye. Thank you Wing Girl, very important point, well done.
Only if she thinks your attractive...if she doesn't. Doesn't matter what you do
What scottstone said, if she doesn't find you attractive then following any of this videos advice is a quick way to get fired and or sued for sexual harassment.
Attraction is built. And it's more about your value than your looks. But you have to actually have value, not think you have value. But I'm not a dating coach, just a good student. And not great looking but i do well in spite of that
@@danielizquierdo113 yes yes yes and yes again. So simple yet most men choose to overcomplicate, twist & flip this simple lesson- I'm referring to danieliz....comment... Please continue to share danielizquierdo113
Exactly. Boys moaning about money and looks usually dont have spark..@@danielizquierdo113
Your content is on point ,opened my mind to the reality of man to woman dialogue,now it's super easy,THANK you Lovely Lady!
If you compliment a woman and she gets angry, run away as fast as your feet will carry you. No matter how beautiful you think that woman is, she is NOT!
It practically never happens. Way too many guys are afraid of her "getting angry," and they spin the story into such a spiral that the next thing they say is they'll get arrested and canceled and put on the sex-offenders list. So unrealistic and so unnecessary. None of the guys who say they fear this ever say they've ever actually tried it, and none of them ever say they've ever seen it happen. It's all re-tellings of "I know a guy who knew a guy who heard it on an incel podcast."
Wow. I m - in Germany - are very impressed. Very good coaching here. It all makes sense to me very easily. Well, there came some questions up, like age gap and so. But I can say: for now on I m your fan!
Women and dating is extremely hard. After watching so many hours of content back in 2015 I realized how wrong I had been dating for 15 years and completely stopped even interacting with girls ever since. Guys you've got to do this stuff while you're young because once you get into your late 30s or early 40s, you're no longer going to be up for the challenge. I can't comprehend adding more hard into my life as life is already hard enough.
I understand where you’re coming from man. I can tell you, though, that being older doesn’t matter as much as one would think. I’ve had more success with women in my 40s than I ever did in my 20s and 30s. Just have fun, be yourself and don’t be afraid to (respectfully) approach a woman you’re interested in.
None of this will work. Women only date rich guys. Also they hate nice guys. You have to be creep to get a hot woman.
@@Nigel__ and how and where are you meeting these women? What's your technique on approaching them?
“Getting your house in order” first is important. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and am realizing how much with I need to do on myself before I look at trying to bring another person in on the deal. Just a thought 🤷♂️
Meeting and dating are hard. At 68, I decided that I needed to change to meet women. Two marriages, a number of serious connections over the years, yet his is all new to me. I know Marnie's advice is solid, having watched my older cousin do all of this naturally for decades. Good looking, great teasing, conversation. He gets phone numbers all the time. So now I'm working it. Marni has tied a lot of it together. At least I feel better at the end of an evening now.
I love your advice sooo much it’s definitely helpful 🤗😘
The other day I created a safe space for a girl by buying a VIP booth. I made all the comments about how beautiful her eyes and everything were and I was being honest because she was the most wonderful and stunning creature I've ever touched. I also asked questions about her because I was genuinely interested not because I saw this video before. Sounds like I did everything right but at the end it doesn't matter because I left the gentleman's entertainment club
I did, too, but we did ended up going out. It didn't happen the first time i tried, but it did work.😅
@@adamc3467 I did not get a second chance because I was on a work trip and had to leave the state :D
Have a healthy athletic body which shows muscles, wear professional stylish clothes and talk about your senior engineer job.... and as long as you're not short most women will be dry humping you for free inside and outside the club.
She probably wasn’t interested. Sometimes it be like that. I get it. There’s more fish in the sea!
These two ^ obviously didn't get the joke.
Your sweater reminds me of Woodstock , in my younger days. I really like it. you look great, love it.
Sounds great. No way I could say these sentences to a girl without getting pepper-sprayed though.
Agree. My co-workers and I all get rejected. But, my extra tall hot Chad friend (a true 10) gets signals of attraction from women everywhere; things I never see. They walk right into him, they flirt, they hand him their number, etc. He can say or do anything and girl will continue her pursuit. This advice is good for the shy Chad lights (with an SMV of 9).
@@bobbruce4135 I don't think looks is everything to women like it is for men, I think it's more about confidence and I have non. But looks is a big bonus, and if someone is really good looking he'll probably be aware of it and that'll affect his character and he'll be more confident, so it's like a positive feedback loop I guess, while for other men who get rejected it's a negative feedback loop.
Try one and see!
@@bobbruce4135What you are saying is, "The better-looking a person is, the more romantic success they will receive. The less attractive a person is, the less romantic success they will get." That sounds like common sense to me.
Tbf
Base on self personal experience yesterday self remind friend about this adventure before this ad appear.cloth other nice adventure too shop & hangout.
Great video Marni! Happy New year to you!
Like the info...stayed for your vibe!
Flirting with class , I like it , great tip
wow your a good hearted women for sharing this
The best way to seduce women is to ignore them - works every time.
Sad but true. It definitely kept me on my toes for 2 years… and counting.
I tried this for 60 years - it did not work - but I got loads money all to myself so there are benefits folks lol!
Today i held a door open for a woman...
She said " I can open it myself!"
I noticed she was coming back out so I let her open the door herself...
She said "A-hole!"
ah yes , my younger sister is like that a man stands to her and she replies saying, i do not need for you to stand for me then same situation happens man does not say a word and she throws a hissy fit and a pout and tells him oh wow thanks for standing for me a hole, i do tarot during the weekends and most young women bit upset because i do not tell them they will meet the tall guy who earns 6 figures and owns a sport cars, me as a 41 year old woman i decided to focus on my personal goals first then if stick to a life style this was back in 1995 and try to make profit of what i know or on i work on
After she said : " I can open it myself!" I would have replied: Ok Karen.
@@ArtemisaobscuraNow I think you’re a strong woman! I aspire to be like that.
She's not the one. 😂
Marni ur the homegirl I never had immediately I dumped all my wing guys and realized they decreased my chances instead of increasing 😂.... Now u on the other hand really showed me how to put the pieces together lol THANx ur the best
Instructions unclear, I just received my restraining order in the mail
Lmao
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You’re exaggerating
i got numbers from women i dated lot of girls !!! i dont know where i was going wrong !!! funny thing i never knew how to flirt !!! funny thing isn't it (most men are like that) i used to talk with ladies just like i talk with my guy friends thanks marni your doing good work bless u😊
That's great and all , but with today's society as a man myself it's very difficult to tell which woman will react the way you are saying or which woman will scream sexual harassment.
I REALLY APPRECIATE THE MARNI'S. REKATIONSHIP
VIDEOS.. THEY ARE PERFECTLY. PRESENTED. WITH
POLITENESS,. INTELLIGENT. PRESENTATION,. AND
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I HOPE I HAVE PICKED UP. SOME. CLUES.
I'll use what I learn here today this weekend and report my results Monday 👍🏻🤞🏻💪🏻🤣
How did it go 😂
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Maybe he got beaten up, or locked up...
@@jayayyyyy yeah sounds realistic
bet the dude got arrested for sexual harrasment after complimenting a girls eyes
Happy New years 2023 keep doing your thing blessings lestat
Happy New Year Marni!!! Great video to start the year off right! I hope your 2023 is going well so far! Looking forward to all of your videos this year! Have a great week and see you next Tuesday!!
❤advice hugs kisses ❤😂 thanks todd
Would love to try this with my therapist 🤣
You are really good I've been listening to you for a while but I'm a master my name is lestat but you are really good I'm impressed
I am dating a beautiful Asian woman and thought she is out of my league since she is entire package. I wasn’t even looking but she can into my life of out the blues. Sine she is 15 yrs younger than me but she doesn’t mind. She likes my maturity, masculinity, kindness and attentiveness for her. Also, Asian women are results and goals oriented and she says that I checked in her box. We haven’t been physical but want to wait until she is ready. We are meeting her parents for the first time this weekend. For younger guys out there,
Dating an Asian girl, just don’t yelled or be respectful her around her friends and parents young will be her world and the you get back is limitless
Thanks, Marni.
Thanks Marni going to try that with my teacher tomorrow 😊
Teacher? In school? Better not.
@@EHonda-ds6ve If it's college professor and two consenting adults, then go for the target!
@@EHonda-ds6ve driving teacher 😊
@@machinesofgod driving teacher in England
@@BALHAM69 Just don't get yourself or your driving teacher in any trouble. Best of luck!
just making up from the years wasted. just evaluating myself. thanks for advice. I may make joking comments and check out other influencers. I think I'm immature. wish the best for the future and happy new year 2023
Only line you need “I am a millionaire” and so long as you are in shape and at least 6ft tall you’ll win
It's funny how all those videos about how to get women never say that. All men like women with a nice pair of breasts and a nice rear end. All women like men with beautiful cars and big bank accounts. Am I being too brutally honest?
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 no you’re not and that’s why I said my comment but you did leave one detail out which was slim waistline
Unless you are a milionaire already, this is just a limiting belief@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855Don’t forget a pretty face and a past as clear as crystal.
THAT SAD
Wow, you're amazing, i'll watch all the videos!
Great video. I appreciate the advice and your channel. Could do a version of this for use at work. This needs to be dialed down for the office or guys might find themselves in an HR incident.
Women want a guy who does a man's job, they like to keep guys in the friend zone at work
“No prenuptial agreement “ gets them every time.
That gets women that are after your money. Good women that are willing and able to take care of themselves exist. I'm constantly disgusted by the "golddigger" facade. If 2 consenting adults reach an agreement regarding the nature of their relationship everyone needs to be on the same if it will be successful. I really have distain for wolves in sheep's clothing. The women who openly admit upfront that they're in a relationship for money ....more power to them. It's the dishonest ones I find nasty
@@elizabethcheeves Not if it's an outright lie.
@@elizabethcheeves there is also a difference between compensation for harm and injury vs straight up asking for handouts.
That is a lovely sweater Marni and you wear in very well....
I can agree that the technique of practice in front of mirror can help a lot of things as well. It did help me. I can add one thing of all the mentioned thing that you told Marni. And among them is that a man has to be a gentleman, or to behave as a gentleman. It works that as well, cause the gentlemen, they are also charismatic, and they have nice manners as well (believe it or not).
Happy New year to you as well. I wish you all the health, joy, and happiness as well.
I'm not too bad looking guy.I am almost 64 but no grey hair. I have great hair, clean and shaven, I usually wear jeans and a tshirt.I have tried everything and i do get a look now and then but when i tried what you're talking about, it did not work. A guy could get in trouble doing this. Every attractive woman is married or have a boyfriend in my area. I am not giving up.
Telling a modern woman you hardly know she has beautiful eyes, a cute laugh or that she looks amazing in her dress is likely to get neagitive responses from not only the lady, but from those around her because viral negative modern thoughts spread like wildfire.
And if she works in your office she could and will get you the sack if she doesn't like you.
I think peer pressure is a large contributing factor. For instance, if my friend feels uncomfortable, then I’m obligated to feel like the guy is a creep even though he did not have ulterior motives. If I don’t say he’s a creep, my friend and the others will accuse me of defending the man’s “bad actions”.
Personally, I have no problem receiving compliments like these. :P
One thing I don’t get is that modern women love to express themselves through their clothing, so it doesn’t make sense if she gets upset over someone’s compliment. 🤷🏻♀️
But anyways, good luck! I’m sure there’s someone nice out there.
No it’s not likely to get a negative response to compliment a stranger. I mean if you know how to say it while being genuine and not creepy is the big difference. Get the negative what if thoughts out of your head tbh
I appreciate the information Marni. Thanks
You gave an example as a "semi-sexual compliment," as "you look amazing in that dress." Some women get offended at statements like that. Instead they prefer "that dress looks amazing on you," because they are so insecure they assume you meam 'they' only look "amazing," while wearing that dress.
Good tip. I'm gonna remember that.
I personally love receiving compliments like that; it makes me so confident! Though I guess everyone’s got boundaries to some extent. 😜
This is my kind of topic
Bloody hell! The biggest fan of yours beautiful young lady!
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Always enjoy learning things from you - you mean like that?
Most woman I met last year were ladies I worked with. Fist up I will NOT date a woman I work with. One lady I liked came up and grabbed my arm while I was teasing her . I told her she should not do that as I get turned on very easily. She loved it and laughed. Then other ladies saw it and began teasing me. I think this led to problems because some ladies I would not tease and you really have know who you can tease and who you can't. But I do think they were jealous of the attention the other ladies were getting and they were enjoying it. So they made my time there miserable. But becuse it was work I kept it professional and could not get to sexual with my teasing. The best I could do was misinterpret what they said and make innuendos
I am rich (haven’t watched the video, but those 3 words are all that’s needed).
In November last year I met a wonderful girl and we've been going better than I thought for these past few months, when is the right time to go official? I've been too quick too many times thus lead to a short relationship.
Just before having sex, sex in itself should make a relationship official and it's important for you both to understand that
@@theglobalswede760we don't reach 18 yet so not gonna happen.
@@Aatteanwilliams5034 That changes it yeah. Where are you from? In Sweden you can have sex when you're 15 for some reason 😂😂
Your awesome 👌 👏 pls make more videos like this
Marni the problem with your advice is that it only works if women are already attracted to you.
If you're fat = get into shape
If you're broke = get a side hustle
If you're depressed = get a hobby that gets you active and passionate
If you're fat, broke and in general always a downer...you got to fix yourself before you can expect anyone to flirt with you.
That is 100 percent not true. Listen if you don’t take care of yourself at all AND you have no personality no confidence and no ability to talk then it’s going to be pretty freaking tough to pull off just about anything anyone teaches.
What I try to teach is how to build that core so it’s strong enough to be seen more than a little pot belly, bald head or anything else.
This video is about shifting how you present yourself just enough to display the things needed to create attraction.
And I do agree with your last sentence. You gotta be in a good place for someone else to be open to you
@@geovanilopez5459 So the difference between arrogance and confidence is proof & humility. You can't have nothing to trade ( dating is a trade in the superficial sense ) and expect everything in return.
If I expect a woman at her best I should have my best to offer. Entitlement is not attractive
@@marnikinrys 100% not true but you follow up by agreeing with me.
Anyone who wants an 8-10 person but is unwilling to be the 8-10 version of themselves is ridiculous.
@@geovanilopez5459 what excites women is a man focused on himself who will keep moving even if she leaves him. Women want a man with hobbies, ambitious goals and discipline. They want to earn our attention, not have it just given to them. A woman could ignore me and I wouldn't care because I have too much to do. My relationship has improved with me focusing on myself and my goals
Morning Marni
"Thank you Marni! Since watching your tutorial about pickup lines, I've been slapped over 12 times by 14 women! I HIGHLY RECOMMEND Marni if you have a fetish to be slapped"!
--John, Satisfied watcher
Wake up you fools, she is only trying to sell you stuff and get views, that is how she makes money, by telling you things you want to hear! jesus, people are so ready and willing to jump on anybodies band wagon pretty disgusting
Wait! 12 times...by 14 women? Hows that possible?
@@1twistedcpl6575 i think he meant only two out of the fourteen DIDNT slap him lol
Nice threads😊
Men are staying single for the rest of the eternity hahaha
That will change when people wake up (which is already starting to happen).
That mentality is what gonna keep you single forever
Very helpful, social educational, and informative speeches
Thanks
If any bloke wants to meet chicks .Learn to dance. It worked for our grandparents .. Most dance nights are 75% chicks. Best advice i'd give to a 18yo me. A no brainer.
I love dancing!
Marni....one of my fav names!
I wish these videos were simple and straight to the point. Some of them have too much filler. Three great lines which works on just about anyone male or female that can lead to making out or deeper sexual connection. 1. I am sorry I am staring at your lips, they are just so attractive. (this one is blatant and obvious but will work if they are attracted to you. if it doesn't work, the seed is planted) 2. I love looking into your eyes, they sparkle and make me smile. 3. ask them what their favorite food is , and then ask them to make a sound that they would make if they were eating it right now. Then say something like "that sound you make is pleasurable to my ears"
I have ADD and I can follow Marni's videos. It's. Called. CONTEXT. If you want short, try getting dating advice from Tictoc. Good luck with that, though 🦃
Great content and I will give it a try.... My problem was that I had always been apologetic but should own what I say....
Western women today are a complete waste of time
So Western woman are waste of time... what about african or Asian men? Are they the same waste of time, or is it Just Western women ?
Ty for video, Marni!
Men don’t want to know about women’s past sexual experiences with other men
I have to say, your the most attractive average looking woman on RUclips. You just have that certain something I can't put my finger on.
Generally the most effective way to get attracted and become attractive is when your wallet is full of penny.. it doesn't matter whether you're old or not looking guy..as long you have bulky of money then everything will going smooth and fine..😉
Money talks bs walks
Marni you look amazing in that purple sweater ! Thanks for the great advice 😁
Damn Marny you must be new to life.
Marni
Thank you very much again for information that could even work or be helpful with my wife of the last 36 years to help us have fun together.
No words needed. Girls choose to approach a guy before he ever utters a word. It’s how he holds himself and presents himself that a woman decides if he’s personally suitable for her to pounce. The days of women being attracted to a fit handsome clean-cut gentleman are long gone. I personally know. They now prefer rude uneducated dirtbags. The things women choose in a guy that attracts them these days blows my ever loving mind.
It's all about looks
I’m 799th like
She's pushin' 1M subscribers, too! 😉👍
That was a great topic!
I work part-time at Kroger; retired from a previous career so i do not take this position overly serious (rule 1) do not be overly serious. Carry a "Mathew McConaughy semi silly" demeanor. (rule 2) keep your shoes/boots spotless! And tied!! (Rule 3) nice , no more than two sprays of Spicebomb or YSL, cologne. (Rule 4) dress to impress. Shirts/slacks dry cleaned; one day of the week a ridiculous funny t shirt. Mine is a Spicegirls t-shirt!! (Rule 5) spend the extra $80 on dental office sold only white strips! That's the bare minimum guys! The rest is up to you, your smile, proper grammar, and posture. I learned this way late in life, high 50's, and yes even the part-time "young ones" are VERY flirty with me. It's just fun bantering for the most part however been there seven months and got three phone numbers from woman aged 39 to 57! Once you take care of the basics, and yes, i have significant hair loss and 47lbs over weight including only being 6'1", pay attention. Be sure your situational awareness is off the charts. Always observe thise gals truly looking for "help". I've been stopped but never rejected....and it's no big deal.
Easy just be yourself..... Lol
Thanks. Good info here.
Before our 2nd date before we left my house to go to the movies my girl Zelda said these 5 words:
Do you have a plunger?
Here tailpipe was all gunked up and then it made me have a bad dream I was a muffler and woke up exhausted.
Thanks for getting me 10s and 11s Marni! You beautiful lovely soul!! 😚
Flirting and being creepy is almost the same thing these days.