I have found something about the INFJ. We are the type that most sccept's that we live in so much more dimention's than what our eyes see. Our eyes see 3D and that is what most people believe in, the 3D world, but we INFJ have something that I call cosmic mind. We don't just accept the theory of relativity, we live by it and we prove it every day from the most simple, to the most complicated things. Our envirement is a constant flow of unlimited particles, energies and possibilities and our life is a proccess of taking energies and particles from the envrement and make a structure's by them. Structur's that are most likely to be thought as weird, and unacceptable by most people, but the difference is that we take our structure's from the universe, not from our 3D world's paradigmas. That's the reason why I hate conspiracy theories. Some people are taking their belief's from one paradigma and some other's are saing no you are deliberately lieing this is the truth, the piramid's are build by aliens(based on the paradigma that almost everything official is a deliberate lie and what is the true truth anyway, no one is really able to find despite both side's think they know the truth). For us possibilities are way more important than finding and touching a material truth. Well in many thing's we have to fit into the limited 3D world, but our mind's are constantley searching for possibilities rather that concrate phisical rtuth's and fact's. The tricky thing is that we are born this way and by experience we have to find that this is what we are, this is the way we think and this is the rules that are contrilling our action's and we have to embrase it. Before two years I was inspired to star my RUclips channel from what is called motovlogers, but very soon I found that I can't be like them, I have my own ways of doing thing's and from the beginning I was frustrated a bit, but lately I found that my different aproach is what make's me who I am and that is what my personal treasure for the world is.
After my husband left me 2020 I was thriving so hard. I went out, met new people (though I never was the type for that) did things I was usually too afraid of, workded and learned so much and I didn't recognize myself. It was awesome! Then the second lockdown hit and after months of staying inside and isolation it all went downhill...
Alot of people misunderstand me because I look at "everything" in a entirely different angle from "every "type of way it could be looked at. I don't just roll over on command either.
What are some setbacks that I was able to make my ultimate comeback? The biggest setback was the divorce I went through in 2006 / 2007. No matter how hard she tried to ruin me, I stood tall and recovered just fine. It took a few years, yet I was able to become a homeowner, no credit cards, no vehicle payments, financial independence, better health, a good career, a good hobby, and the list goes on. Not that I would actually want her to see me. Yet, if she could only see me now. Freedom and independence are good things to have going on my life.
This means a lot, thank you for this video Wenzes. I'm such a perfectionist, this week I have had such a hard week. Me and my boyfriend was saving for our first house, I had saved a deposit for three years on a low salary, we got a mortgage in principle three weeks ago and that same week I had lost my job. We spoke to the mortgage broker and he said it was fine to get a mortgage in principle just as long as I get another job quickly (wouldn't need to provide payslips again etc), then the other day my boyfriends manager had asked my boyfriend to go back to self employed and basically we spoke to the mortgage broker and can't get a mortgage for another year. So I have lost my job and also the mortgage which I had worked so hard for - the deposit I pretty much saved by myself as my boyfriend is an ISFP. However I believe we are going to rent for a year now as we both have been living at parents houses, I do feel really deflated though as I got bullied as a child mainly by my 'friends' and lately I have seen these people who bullied me go on and do great things, have a house and a family etc.. and I am wishing this was me and I can't understand why I have been so setback in life. I have a good work ethic and I am hardworking and I'm goal driven as I performed abroad at the age of 21, I know I will be ok but the hurting at this moment in time is so bad but this video has definitely made me realise how much willpower I have. Thank you for your help, never feel alone watching your videos (Lifechanging) xxxxxxx
I believe you Wenzes. I've had many setbacks and I'm a perfectionist, so tapping into facing setbacks can be a learning experience. It takes guts and effort but it is worthwhile in the end result.
Thank you coach Wenzes for all the positivity that you share with us. God bless you always. I wish i had this when i was younger when i needed it a lot- with lots of narcs around plus enablers as well- plus not knowing what i was. Thank you very much for all your guidance and words of wisdom ❤️
This is a good step-by-step, common-sense way to look at setbacks. I think it would help any personality type, but it fits us INFJs most closely. I appreciated: 1. ....your telling us that setbacks push us to make a decision. 2. .... when you said that a setback provides new information to help us to move forward. For my own part, I have been having a difficult winter this year , but it's also been rewarding from the standpoint of things I've learned from my reading and for latest experiences. I don't know if I'll going be changing anything about my work or daily routines yet, but I've been questioning them, and re-evaluating a lot of things. Believe me, this video will be good to review while I continue to do it. I thought about your earlier video about the "exponential learning curve" as I listened to this one. I think it's a good thing to remember while watching this. Perhaps our progress after setbacks can work exponentially?! Hmmm!
There's an option to clip maybe a minutes worth of the video, designed with the intent to share but you don't have to.. you can select 'copy link' and then exit out and it will save in your library.
You are absolutely right, true to yourself and helped so many like myself understand, stay focused, remain or regain confidence n belief in there selves to get where they want to be in life. Staying true to yourself and understanding n knowledge of our own minds and others is power n ability to handle correctly! You helped me through the most difficult, vulnerable, challenge, time and setback one could face in life. Thank you, so brave, so correct with everything said and way in which you present it, it's not difficult for our personalities, who we are, what we are all about, what we often sacrifice to help n care for others we tend to forget, loose or get lost ourselves when we are so often overwhelmed n challenged.......most important!.... tell n remind ourselves no matter what we're facing!!!! CAPABLE..... Step back, step away to focus on self, your path, your road that your in control of.......why?? CAPABLE! remember, remind, n focus will put what's of importance and right for all but most importantly yourself back on track or back in that great place we've created or working towards in life!!!!
I thank you for the information and the poster I find very helpful. I know some setbacks are only temporary although they feel at times permanent with the solutions only difficult. The fact is life is moving in a positive direction. You got to accent the positive and not mess with being in between. To know where you stand is important. Especially financially and healthwise. One setback has been not being able to travel and for the time being my family commitments will not allow for it. Instead, I reached a compromise and found peace. I continue to research my travel destinations by reading and watching videos and it helps to keep the dream alive. This spring and summer I will plan more doable day trips which offer some freedom and will be valuable to my journey. I left Facebook but I may return if not to share my journey and love for life again.
BALANCE In times of aching loneliness, I understood how to truly care. Through empathizing another, I learned about despair. And by embracing the chaotic world, I acquired fire in my stare. In facing my shadow, I understood how to truly love. Through daunting pain, I learned to seek above. And by embracing the order within myself, I acquired the grace to in turn be beloved. - Blake Pendale
None really yet… Dealing with a lot of big ones right now. Not gonna lie, getting really tired of life finding new and creative ways to screw me over. I fight and fight and fight, and it’s always a futile effort. It’s just like trying to swim in lake filled of liquid tar dragging me down… 😐😐😐
@@Wenzes I need something, but can’t afford anything right now. Money is one of the biggest factors kicking my a$$ right now. Lack of emotional support and genuine care and sincerity from friends and relationships seems to be getting worse as well. It seems like recently a lot of really strong connections I had have just collapsed out of nowhere. Seemed like IG disabling my old account was the catalyst that at set-off this chain of crappy events. People I talked to all the time and became friends with haven’t followed back, or even responded to messages I sent to them letting them know what happened. Like, when the account died, so did the connection, or desire to reconnect. It’s all been very very weird. 😐 I know social media isn’t real, but sadly, it’s more real than my real [lack of a] social life. And connections are connections, whether it’s online or in person. 😕 Just a lot of bad things all happening at once right now, where it feels like what little bit of a life I had is now being taken away from me by the universe, and I have no idea why? 🤦🏼
@@TroyPosey Sorry to hear that, Troy 😕 When big life crisis happens, multiple crisis seem to happen all at once. I know this is true for me. When you have people showing their true colors to you like that, it's extremely painful because you realize that you've been surrounded by people who don't seem to really care about you and who are bystanders to your pain. It may be just a reflection of a deeper wound, perhaps a parent who was not connected to you and was merely a bystander when you were in pain in your childhood, and now you are subconsciously recreating those childhood wounds. Changing your mindset as Wenzes mentions in this video is crucial to getting past these crises and actually creating a life that brings you joy. Did you know there are opportunities for making new connections that are free? Also, did you know that there is a payment plan for Wenzes bootcamp?
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What are some setbacks that you were able to make your ultimate comeback?
I have found something about the INFJ. We are the type that most sccept's that we live in so much more dimention's than what our eyes see. Our eyes see 3D and that is what most people believe in, the 3D world, but we INFJ have something that I call cosmic mind. We don't just accept the theory of relativity, we live by it and we prove it every day from the most simple, to the most complicated things. Our envirement is a constant flow of unlimited particles, energies and possibilities and our life is a proccess of taking energies and particles from the envrement and make a structure's by them. Structur's that are most likely to be thought as weird, and unacceptable by most people, but the difference is that we take our structure's from the universe, not from our 3D world's paradigmas. That's the reason why I hate conspiracy theories. Some people are taking their belief's from one paradigma and some other's are saing no you are deliberately lieing this is the truth, the piramid's are build by aliens(based on the paradigma that almost everything official is a deliberate lie and what is the true truth anyway, no one is really able to find despite both side's think they know the truth). For us possibilities are way more important than finding and touching a material truth. Well in many thing's we have to fit into the limited 3D world, but our mind's are constantley searching for possibilities rather that concrate phisical rtuth's and fact's. The tricky thing is that we are born this way and by experience we have to find that this is what we are, this is the way we think and this is the rules that are contrilling our action's and we have to embrase it. Before two years I was inspired to star my RUclips channel from what is called motovlogers, but very soon I found that I can't be like them, I have my own ways of doing thing's and from the beginning I was frustrated a bit, but lately I found that my different aproach is what make's me who I am and that is what my personal treasure for the world is.
I feel like you're watching me, but in a good way .. being a genuine guide
After my husband left me 2020 I was thriving so hard. I went out, met new people (though I never was the type for that) did things I was usually too afraid of, workded and learned so much and I didn't recognize myself. It was awesome! Then the second lockdown hit and after months of staying inside and isolation it all went downhill...
I have experienced too many setbacks to even list. But one thing I have learned, there are no failures. You either succeed or you learn!
@Raeifier I admire you for your strength of finishing your book .
More power to you! Best of luck 👍
This mental resilience is precisely why no one believed me when I was stuck in an abusive/love bombing relationship for 2 years
This ladder of externally observable facts has helped me to transform my setbacks to comeback.
Alot of people misunderstand me because I look at "everything" in a entirely different angle from "every "type of way it could be looked at. I don't just roll over on command either.
What are some setbacks that I was able to make my ultimate comeback? The biggest setback was the divorce I went through in 2006 / 2007. No matter how hard she tried to ruin me, I stood tall and recovered just fine. It took a few years, yet I was able to become a homeowner, no credit cards, no vehicle payments, financial independence, better health, a good career, a good hobby, and the list goes on. Not that I would actually want her to see me. Yet, if she could only see me now. Freedom and independence are good things to have going on my life.
Great....looks like I need to follow this path....
This is actually happening to me now. Was knocked down but I am getting myself back up because negative energy can’t stop us ❤️
This means a lot, thank you for this video Wenzes. I'm such a perfectionist, this week I have had such a hard week. Me and my boyfriend was saving for our first house, I had saved a deposit for three years on a low salary, we got a mortgage in principle three weeks ago and that same week I had lost my job. We spoke to the mortgage broker and he said it was fine to get a mortgage in principle just as long as I get another job quickly (wouldn't need to provide payslips again etc), then the other day my boyfriends manager had asked my boyfriend to go back to self employed and basically we spoke to the mortgage broker and can't get a mortgage for another year. So I have lost my job and also the mortgage which I had worked so hard for - the deposit I pretty much saved by myself as my boyfriend is an ISFP. However I believe we are going to rent for a year now as we both have been living at parents houses, I do feel really deflated though as I got bullied as a child mainly by my 'friends' and lately I have seen these people who bullied me go on and do great things, have a house and a family etc.. and I am wishing this was me and I can't understand why I have been so setback in life. I have a good work ethic and I am hardworking and I'm goal driven as I performed abroad at the age of 21, I know I will be ok but the hurting at this moment in time is so bad but this video has definitely made me realise how much willpower I have. Thank you for your help, never feel alone watching your videos (Lifechanging) xxxxxxx
I believe you Wenzes. I've had many setbacks and I'm a perfectionist, so tapping into facing setbacks can be a learning experience. It takes guts and effort but it is worthwhile in the end result.
I do not think I am an infj. However, your videos are helpful, and well they inspire me to become a better person. Thank you for all you do!!
Couldn't have put this video out on a better day for me. Thank you! Was just a great reminder of what I'm doing right now.
We will never give up, never back down, and never settle for anything less than what we deserve! 🐅
V I C T O R Y ❤️
It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness. Stay safe and be well. Love from Canada. ♥
Thank You Wenzes for being so positive. I've had many setbacks over the years. I feel better now after watching you're video.
Thank you coach Wenzes for all the positivity that you share with us. God bless you always. I wish i had this when i was younger when i needed it a lot- with lots of narcs around plus enablers as well- plus not knowing what i was. Thank you very much for all your guidance and words of wisdom ❤️
Indeed! Thank you for sharing! Blessed be and don't forget to take care of yourself!❤️
Thanks Wenzes, I really needed to hear this. I was feeling sorry for myself like whyyyyyyy is my life so hard. Got a well-needed perspective shift.
This is a good step-by-step, common-sense way to look at setbacks. I think it would help any personality type, but it fits us INFJs most closely.
I appreciated:
1. ....your telling us that setbacks push us to make a decision.
2. .... when you said that a setback provides new information to help us to move forward.
For my own part, I have been having a difficult winter this year , but it's also been rewarding from the standpoint of things I've learned from my reading and for latest experiences. I don't know if I'll going be changing anything about my work or daily routines yet, but I've been questioning them, and re-evaluating a lot of things. Believe me, this video will be good to review while I continue to do it.
I thought about your earlier video about the "exponential learning curve" as I listened to this one. I think it's a good thing to remember while watching this. Perhaps our progress after setbacks can work exponentially?! Hmmm!
There's an option to clip maybe a minutes worth of the video, designed with the intent to share but you don't have to.. you can select 'copy link' and then exit out and it will save in your library.
You are absolutely right, true to yourself and helped so many like myself understand, stay focused, remain or regain confidence n belief in there selves to get where they want to be in life. Staying true to yourself and understanding n knowledge of our own minds and others is power n ability to handle correctly! You helped me through the most difficult, vulnerable, challenge, time and setback one could face in life. Thank you, so brave, so correct with everything said and way in which you present it, it's not difficult for our personalities, who we are, what we are all about, what we often sacrifice to help n care for others we tend to forget, loose or get lost ourselves when we are so often overwhelmed n challenged.......most important!.... tell n remind ourselves no matter what we're facing!!!! CAPABLE..... Step back, step away to focus on self, your path, your road that your in control of.......why?? CAPABLE! remember, remind, n focus will put what's of importance and right for all but most importantly yourself back on track or back in that great place we've created or working towards in life!!!!
I always feel better and more motivated after watching your videos! :)
And dimming our light is wrong. It spins me in the niti loop.
I thank you for the information and the poster I find very helpful. I know some setbacks are only temporary although they feel at times permanent with the solutions only difficult. The fact is life is moving in a positive direction. You got to accent the positive and not mess with being in between. To know where you stand is important. Especially financially and healthwise.
One setback has been not being able to travel and for the time being my family commitments will not allow for it. Instead, I reached a compromise and found peace. I continue to research my travel destinations by reading and watching videos and it helps to keep the dream alive. This spring and summer I will plan more doable day trips which offer some freedom and will be valuable to my journey. I left Facebook but I may return if not to share my journey and love for life again.
Being told no 99 times for one yes is the most uncomfortable. But I guess we have to get used to playing the slots 🎰 of life 💛✨
I love your work and every video is so relatable!! 🙏🏻😁
Thank you, a very helpful reminder for where I am at right now
This is one of your best videos. Profound truth
Yeah This Is Pretty Relatable
Thank you again and again
Crazy how right you are 👏
Thanks for what you do
Thanks!
Thank you for the message love!
Thank You.
Great video, Wenzes 👍 Thank you
Thanks - lots of hardship in my life right now. Needed this ❤️
Thank you!
Alright lass, lets go tell me all about it
Mental toughness sounds so spine-chilling... How about a cursive, facile mental states that quick-fix everything in effortless mode?!!!! 😬🥶
Eye of the Tiger 😍
Survivor
BALANCE
In times of aching loneliness, I understood how to truly care.
Through empathizing another, I learned about despair.
And by embracing the chaotic world, I acquired fire in my stare.
In facing my shadow, I understood how to truly love.
Through daunting pain, I learned to seek above.
And by embracing the order within myself, I acquired the grace to in turn be beloved.
- Blake Pendale
You are so beautiful Wenzes, you eyes are like wells to infinity.
None really yet… Dealing with a lot of big ones right now. Not gonna lie, getting really tired of life finding new and creative ways to screw me over. I fight and fight and fight, and it’s always a futile effort. It’s just like trying to swim in lake filled of liquid tar dragging me down… 😐😐😐
You need a big shift…sounds like you are using your strength to survive, not to thrive! Maybe the next bootcamp could be a turning point for you
@@Wenzes I need something, but can’t afford anything right now. Money is one of the biggest factors kicking my a$$ right now. Lack of emotional support and genuine care and sincerity from friends and relationships seems to be getting worse as well. It seems like recently a lot of really strong connections I had have just collapsed out of nowhere. Seemed like IG disabling my old account was the catalyst that at set-off this chain of crappy events. People I talked to all the time and became friends with haven’t followed back, or even responded to messages I sent to them letting them know what happened. Like, when the account died, so did the connection, or desire to reconnect. It’s all been very very weird. 😐
I know social media isn’t real, but sadly, it’s more real than my real [lack of a] social life. And connections are connections, whether it’s online or in person. 😕
Just a lot of bad things all happening at once right now, where it feels like what little bit of a life I had is now being taken away from me by the universe, and I have no idea why? 🤦🏼
@@TroyPosey Sorry to hear that, Troy 😕 When big life crisis happens, multiple crisis seem to happen all at once. I know this is true for me. When you have people showing their true colors to you like that, it's extremely painful because you realize that you've been surrounded by people who don't seem to really care about you and who are bystanders to your pain. It may be just a reflection of a deeper wound, perhaps a parent who was not connected to you and was merely a bystander when you were in pain in your childhood, and now you are subconsciously recreating those childhood wounds. Changing your mindset as Wenzes mentions in this video is crucial to getting past these crises and actually creating a life that brings you joy. Did you know there are opportunities for making new connections that are free? Also, did you know that there is a payment plan for Wenzes bootcamp?
Setback to comeback isn't it for everyone not just an "INFJ"?
If you can't look her in the eye and tell her she's amazing - look her in the eyebrow.
wow im early xD
Your voice sounds weird... I hope it heals soon... 😇