I would like to thank Josh Talks team that they are trying to bring the survivors on their platform and giving hope to other girls too . Let it continue. Hope somewhere someone gets the courage to raise her voice after watching this .
Hi Josh Talks I am Dr Roshan Shaikh. I m 89% disabled. Bilateral amputee. You can search myl video on youtube and google. I have faced lots of odds and challanges aftr losing my both lower limb in train accident to becoming a Doctor.. .. its a long journey... I wish Josh Talks cover my story too.. Regards ..
I salute to this lady who bought the entire incident happened to her. It's a message to all youngsters and children who faces sexual abuse in their life. No one past should ruin his or her future.
yes man you are absolutely right ....these thing only happens when our atmosphere does not good...and the child does not have proper knowledge about that
It was heinous.. I felt every affliction. I don't know how she has been so outspoken and shrewd. I am so amazed by her ideology. I am so proud of her. She is our superhero
The strongest people i’ve seen in my life are all women and you’ve added on to the list. I feel proud to see how you’ve managed to come out of this. Hats off!
The 47 dislike is the shame of humanity. The persons disliked are the bad and narrow minded peoples. We can't feel her pain from our soul but imagine its a very painful thing. I support u sister for your fight back in life. Take care
वो सहम जाया करती है, वो अक्सर थम जाया करती है, वो अक्सर डर जाया करती है, वो अक्सर चुप रहती है, दुनिया जहां के कष्ट सहती है सब कुछ सहकर मुस्कुराती है पर........... वो जानती नहीं, वो एक ज्वाला है जिसके आगे कोई टिक नहीं पाया है, वो कमजोर नहीं बल्कि एक पैना तीर है जो किसी भी ढाल को चीरने की ताकत रखती है, वो मजबूर नहीं मजबूत है, वो शांत नहीं घनघोर है, वो जीत गयी जो सब से गयी, वो रोई होगी पर अब कभी डरेगी नहीं, वो चुप नहीं रहेगी अब वो बोलेगी, वो अब सहेगी नहीं अब वो लड़ेगी, वो अब मजबूर नहीं, मजबूत है..... मजबूर नहीं, मजबूत है ।। Salute to the ultimate power of this world the #WomenPower 🙏
I was molested by my paternal and maternal uncles at age 4 and eight ... it took me 55 years to get the strength to confront them and that too indirectly... lived with all the painful emotions for all my life...you are so brave and brilliant and keep doing what you are doing!! This robs people of all their potential and gives them lifelong pain... Not your fault👏🏼👍🏼❤️🙏🏼
Till we take every challenge as a problem, it's a problem. When we start taking every problem as a challenge, there is where we find our solution. A little change of perspective changes the question into an answer. Very appreciative.
U should have told your parents ... my dear ... do u know what one fellow tried to molest my sister in her childhood and I was barely 3 years old. I saw my sister crying. I said oye Kya kar raha hai ? He told me to get out and yelled. But in the evening when my father arrived from office I informed him in my little voice that he tried to do gandi baat with my sister. My father reached his home and told his father that he will tear him apart. The story ended then and there. Today I’m a lawyer. If I had not taken a step to stop him my sister would have had a bad childhood.
It is the story of most of the girls mam..in my friend circle when I ask them to ans just yes or no.. whether they get sexually abused or not.. u can't believe it 8 out of every 10 girl face it but only fault of our parents who never taught us about that.. The person who is abusing is most the time is a family member.. koi cousin, uncle, bhaiya , mama, fufa, tau, dadu ar what not.. it can be any one.. but humko pta hi nh hota ye galat ho rha h hmre sath..
Even I save a girl she is molested by his neighbor , I beat that person brutally, Bcz I m a Martial Artist Fighter, I advise every Women plz learn self defense for martial arts plz
@@RituSharma-cq8rk Mam U r absolutely Correct, But time comes very bad u Know very well, Humanity change like an animal in 2019, 33 thousand rape cases means every minute 4 rape cases , I ashamed that I m an Indian but I trained my self everyday bcose I m responsible citizen, Just see about Nirbhya & Priyanka Reddy they both r our sisters but they brutally raped & Killed by Rapists 😭😭 MARTIAL ARTS gives me tht power I can beat any of them bcose only my training
I don't have a family with them. I also have a family, but I am the second daughter of my house. Always feel that I am at someone else's house and never felt like I want to become an IAS officer so that the whole country is my family, love me
So much respect to you and I'm just so so proud of you. .I was 13 when my School teacher assaulted me and caused abortion to me, for 1 year i had to visit psychiatrist, It made me poor in studies also . Recent years ,my ex boyfriend's friend also assaulted me in drunk state and infected me with incurable STD genital herpes .My room mate in hostel changed her room immediately and my ex friend told my warden about my medical condition .Wanted to commit suicide but my mother stopped me ,she said if I commit suicide ,she will also commit suicide with me .Lost a lot of friends and my boyfriend also cheated on me after knowing my condition. No child and women should go through this pain and god bless their soul .❤🙏
Communication is key of everything . You parents didn’t communicate and neither you did . That is the biggest lost of you and even today’s generation also . Please communicate with your parents and children openly.
It is very inspiring that you don't feel that it was your fault . Yes , you are right , it was never your fault and It is never any girl's fault . I want you not to feel traumatized , bad , sad depressed anymore. You are empowering other girls as well. More power to you , powerful girl !
My daughter is also 10 years old and i cant even imagine of letting her alone for a second except her school..i am ashamed of that especially mothers who left her daughters alone for doing work. Its better to eat less its better to live like poor instead of letting a daughter into hell..i just cant believe how just 10 year old girl left alone
That means girls cannot be safe without somebody to protect them ...we want to make society safe if we are alone too.not talking about middle class or rich but think of poor who have survival issue they cannot act as CCTV of their girl child its not about surveillance its about being safe without suvelliance and self dependent independecy..
Well said that whoever is listening is going through something like this... Similarly I... But yes this is the period when I daily wake up myself with a pledge to me that I ll not let my past decide my future.... I can't change the past... But definitely I ll change my future... And that future will be more bright and full of life...
Happened with me as well continuously for 6 to 8 months when I was 9 or 8 I was in class 3 and he was my brother's friend use to call my mom chachi Went through that shit daily. I am turning 28 this may still scared to death when I think about sex . Child sex abuse has huge mental and emotional impact more than physical effect.Overcoming it everyday 🙂
manisha tripathi don't be scared. Today if you are, those people will suppress you. You stand up and then you show them who you are. The problem is girls have been so suppressed that even if they keep their point of view they are questioned. My only request to you is stand up for yourself. The day you stand up against injustice the opposite gender will know how strong you are. You know what these cheap desperate wanna be men target weak women of society. These guys don't realise karma is a thing that pays back well. One day when Devi ma comes in her roop she will destroy these men to suffering. Just stand for yourself. Today you stand tomorrow others will stand beside you. Don't fear anyone. Remember one thing in life. God helps those who help themselves . Believe in Devi MA she is the mother of you. And you do your part and she will protect you. Your the daughter of Devi. Girls are considered more supreme then men.Its just that you have not given rise to your potential power within you . And if I could be of any help genuinely speaking cause I support women empowerment and stand up for women in society. Do let me know. God bless you. Devi ma ki kripa bani rahe. Namah Shivay.
I am 15 year old girl and I am speechless after hearing this such a monster people all over the world wo suppose to do something like this dont know what to say but it's not done just a horrible thing and proud of you
I do not have any words to describe how I'm feeling after watching this. I'm just so so proud of her. I resonate with everything she said in the end. The key is in our hands. We must use it our way.
Supporting u from Afghanistan . I am really what has happened to you but relly Proud of young lady, u have bright future ahead, no child deserves to be the victim of sexual abuse, stay strong and motivate other victims like you❤️🙏🏻
I always thought it was something in my body, whether signs of maturity or whatever attracted my predator to ruin the best moments of my childhood. I resonate your feelings and I know how difficult it is to get through it because it keeps coming back. But we are all healing and we won't let a person who destroyed our past destroy our future as well.
@@bodybuilder4790 death penalty hi sahi hoga ,just because someone married a person doesn’t give a right to have sex without consent,it can be painful to the woman ,she is not a sex machine.
Do not forget to teach every possible thing to your child.. especially about good touch- bad touch.. Teach them to not play with person's feelings too .. Show them every bad and good side of this world ..
I was very much moved by ur past experience salute for ur inspiration.Actually I was also abused at 7th class I know the pain . In point view of that perverted old man I think he also faced trauma by not having good sexual relationship or her wife Lost or lustful mindset.(so my frndly suggestion to teens beconscious from divorsed people and singles wheather male or female I don't say all bt most of them.)in all these sad stories uncontrolable emotions are the main underlying cause.only thing human being Mind must be changed towards fear of God& hell. if I say no God and hell beastly desires thrusts out .all humans Are sinners from birth ,what can change our Mind is word of God and the power(holy spirit) of God."over come flesh by spirit( spiritual things..ie showing unconditional real Love.") Actually I don't post comments frequently, the video compelled me to do so...tq josh & sist. samal.
@@shyamlirana7878 Buddy Don't get afraid , Even I saved a girl molesting by his own neighbor , I brutally beat that fucking person, Bcose I m a Martial artist Fighter self defense xpert ,I Suggest U learn Fight never quit , all the best
Thankyou for coming out so bravely. Your strength is contagious. More love and power to you. Each girl standing up for herself inspires many and creates the ripples of change. Stay beautiful stay blessed😊
सफलता के लिए पागलपन सबसे बड़ी योग्यता है। बिना पागलपन के आप साधारण व्यक्ति ही रह जाएंगे। जितने लोगों ने बड़ी सफलता पाई है उनको लोग पागल ही कहते थे और अब भाग्यशाली कहते हैं।
Dear I just wanna salute your sprit.. Brave women like you will definitely win the world. I understand your pain .. I can feel every single word .. A big Salute too you.. 💯
When she cry I really wanna hug her tightly and say loudly "you are not supposed to be sad and upset because it's not your fault" and although this is all past and past is for learning things you are great influencer to show this to world and I respect you bottom of my heart
ABSOLUTELY REMARKABLE. BUT u have to keep in mind this thing , DON'T LET THE PAST RUIN UR LIFE. WHERE EVER U R B ALL THERE. So this is present BE ALL IN PRESENT AND BE POSITIVE 😊😊😊
popular motivation and inspiration Erm PTSD doesn’t always allow that. You have to heal the past before you can be free and move on. This can take a lifetime if at all
I am so proud of you, and I know many of us here are. You might already know. We humans don't have to have perfect stories. If this looks flawed, be it. Confrontation is bliss in disguise.
PROUD OF THIS GIRL. GREATNESS IS SUCH THAT WE FAIL AND THEN WE WAKE UP FROM THE ASHES LIKE PHOENIX .THEN WE INSPIRE AND BECOME THE HOPE FOR MILLIONS. AND THIS IS THE PROBLEM OF EVERY WOMAN.AND IT IS SAD THAT SOMEBODY HAVE TO BE GUILTY FOR THE THINGS THAT THEY ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE.
Thanku so much to sharing this story.... Aapki wajha se kitne girl ko confidence aayega......na sirf girl balki un sab logo ko Jo past ko lekar rotey rahatey hai....
I can feel your pain. But yes u r well now and took initiative to talk about this. I pray peace and more courage for you and all of us who are going through this
दूसरों से ज्यादा खुद को पसंद करो। खुद की इज्ज़त करो। खुद को रोल मॉडल समझो। खुद को वो बना डालो जो आप दूसरों में ढूढ़ते हो। आप दूसरों के लिए एक रोल मॉडल बन जाओगे।
So damn proud of this woman. Such strength and conviction she holds. My head bows with respect for this lady. That ass hole makes us men ashamed. There are good men who feed their big family, take care of their mother, father, wife and children. And there are ass holes who abuses women. They deserve some good beating from both the society and the police and strict legal punishment. They need to pay high compensation as well for mental and physical harm. They are nth but embarrassment for us good men all around the world.
Smiliar incident also happened with me .. It was my age 6 years nd one 65 + men was cojoile to me and had played with me .. nd he had done these all kind of things nd I could not to spoke my parents bcoz I don't know what's exactly wrong with me ... in this world parents thoughts that strangers are unsafe but point is that our aquientence also unsafe.!! So sexual education should be given earlier !!
Something like this happened to a very dear friend of mine. I'm glad she found me suitable to share her story with me. Kudos to you that you overcame all these. Keep going ahead!
I have two daughters of same age… After listening to you makes my heart cry .. can’t imagine wat pain and agony I have been through.. more power to you for coming out much stronger ♥️♥️
Painful story.. your each word is true..so many children faced sexual abuse and leading their entire life with guilt.. because of society or other reasons.. thank you for sharing your life incident
I had molested many times in my chilhood..that incidents totaly destroyed my childhood.i also carry the bitterness in my preasent life.this story is helpfull for me to overcome my problem.thank u so much.i change myself.i will do that.
Tears come in the Eyes after listening the Story. U R Really a brave Mam. May Almighty keep Safe People like U wherever U R. May Almighty keep U EVERGREEN 🍀, HAPPY, HEALTHY, ENERGETIC & SUCCESSFUL Forever.
The one of the most important advice i wanna give u all the girls here... Think more and more when u first realize these kinds of things happening with u.. If u raise ur voice on first time.. You can escape ur life as well as other girl's life.. Evil minded people are everywhere.. may be at ur home, ur neibhour, ur relative even ur boyfriend.. Be aware everytime...don't allow anyone to touch ur body..its time to raise ur voice👍
You are beautiful.... Believe me... You are pure...may God. Bless. You.... Sorry I don't have words to tell you how. Courageous you are...... Truly love you with all my heart ❤
Your story really made me cry...I just want every girls out there to not be fearful about sharing such sexual violence with your parents ...as you guys knows it very well..our society has never short demons ...they are living like the normal person and you know you can't even judge what's actually going inside his mind ....girls protecting your life is merely your responsibility not somebody else out there ....keep avoiding yourself from such demons ..be protective and let yourself live freely in society...thanks....
I don't know wht to say bcz being a man i too got very scared by even thinking of ur story wht u said and wht u have suffered..😢 But Aayushmita one thing i would say dat u r a very brave girl💪and u showed a very courageous side of a girl,nd I hope which helps many other girls or women to get motivated by this👍Hats off🙏👍
@@Shraddha2134 brother nobody either a boy or a girl if something like abuse ever happened to him or her is very painful....if she can tell someone why not u ,yaar there r many peoples who will definitely understand ur problem but u hv to choose d correct one to tell👍
@@Shraddha2134 brother if u dont mind we could talk abt dis in private bcz I feel through comments its not easy to understand one another's thought and specially fr u plz 😊👍🙏
Very smart and brave. Very honestly described your story. But at the age of 10 you continued to suffer for 3 continuous years. You have a loving and supporting family. How you could not get the confidence to expose that fellow with your parents. This weakness must not be the part of anyone's life.
sex education should be a part of the curriculum, I also abused many times from neighbour uncle who runs a shop, but that time I don t know what he is doing... I felt it wrong but I am scared to talk to anyone. Later another girl abused by him, she is elder enough to understand so she told to her mother and everyone realised it. But they stop us from going to the shop. No one asks him. He is still there...
@Ayushmita - Meditate! It will help you to erase the scars. Suggestion : stop talking about it henceforth, you don't have to relive those moments again and again by revisiting them. This is absolutely vital for your future relationships & happy normal life that you are completely free of painful memories. It's time to move ahead in life. Sending love to you ❣️
Anahata Official stop you lies at once. Stop sugar coating it. And She didn’t relive it. She shared with us what happened to help others which also helps her heal. Ignoring her past does NOT ignore how those crimes effected her then and effect her now . PTSD is a bitch. She needs a good psychologist-the earliest from the crime the better.
@@k8lynmae :) your reaction shows nothing but ignorance! For everything that happens to us, we search the remedies outside of us rather than inside! Science has proved it now that mere a thought of any painful incident alerts the amygdala & hypothalamus which in turn releases the chemicals cortisol & adrenaline in the blood exactly the same way it was released during the incident. Can't you see how hard she's trying to control her tears even after 15-20 years of the incident! Therapies do help but only to an extent, ultimately she has to do the inner work to take it out completely. 🌸
I can understand your emotions...you are brave enough..In the process of showing your brave face you are not only going beyond your emotions but also transforming yourself into something very very crystal strong... Respect...
I must say ....u are a very confident girl ...no girl have such guts to tell all these things in front of everyone ...but u are sharing these incident of your life ..this provides us alot of motivation apart from it u are awaring all the people who don't have sex education ...so hard of to you
I am really sorry on behalf of those who don't know how to handle such crises .. I know my apology will not give you more courage but I still if it could I will be pleased.. You are a girl of courage .. hatsoff ...
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I would like to thank Josh Talks team that they are trying to bring the survivors on their platform and giving hope to other girls too . Let it continue. Hope somewhere someone gets the courage to raise her voice after watching this .
@@rmkhan3701 are you serious ? I mean how can you say something like that ? Do you have any idea what have you commented ?
plzz invite physics wallah (alakh pandey sir)
people will learn a lot from him
Josh talks se vinti hai ki ek video ko hindi or English dono me banaye kare sab videos ko please sir ya fir niche hindi me type kar diya kare please
Hi Josh Talks
I am Dr Roshan Shaikh.
I m 89% disabled. Bilateral amputee.
You can search myl video on youtube and google.
I have faced lots of odds and challanges aftr losing my both lower limb in train accident to becoming a Doctor.. .. its a long journey... I wish Josh Talks cover my story too..
Regards ..
I salute to this lady who bought the entire incident happened to her. It's a message to all youngsters and children who faces sexual abuse in their life. No one past should ruin his or her future.
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death punishment dena sahi hoga ya nehin ??
Your story doesn't define you , it defines "us" , the society
Yes mam
Exactly
True 👍
Shame on society
@@sushmakangotra7364 sir*
This is why sexual education should be given earlier to kids to avoid predators to take advantage of the innocence of a child.
yes man you are absolutely right ....these thing only happens when our atmosphere does not good...and the child does not have proper knowledge about that
What if parents does this to there own child 😞
Ya thats true
@@pravalikapabba if parents do that then they have no rights to call them parents
Exactly, but this is given in India when children are already 16 years old
It was heinous.. I felt every affliction. I don't know how she has been so outspoken and shrewd. I am so amazed by her ideology. I am so proud of her. She is our superhero
As a man I feel ashamed for all the inhumanities he forced upon you...
I am Sorry.....
And You Are A Stalwart!!! GOD BLESS YOU!
The strongest people i’ve seen in my life are all women and you’ve added on to the list.
I feel proud to see how you’ve managed to come out of this. Hats off!
The 47 dislike is the shame of humanity. The persons disliked are the bad and narrow minded peoples. We can't feel her pain from our soul but imagine its a very painful thing. I support u sister for your fight back in life. Take care
वो सहम जाया करती है,
वो अक्सर थम जाया करती है,
वो अक्सर डर जाया करती है,
वो अक्सर चुप रहती है,
दुनिया जहां के कष्ट सहती है
सब कुछ सहकर मुस्कुराती है
पर...........
वो जानती नहीं,
वो एक ज्वाला है जिसके आगे कोई टिक नहीं पाया है,
वो कमजोर नहीं बल्कि एक पैना तीर है जो किसी भी ढाल को चीरने की ताकत रखती है,
वो मजबूर नहीं मजबूत है,
वो शांत नहीं घनघोर है,
वो जीत गयी जो सब से गयी,
वो रोई होगी पर अब कभी डरेगी नहीं,
वो चुप नहीं रहेगी अब वो बोलेगी,
वो अब सहेगी नहीं अब वो लड़ेगी,
वो अब मजबूर नहीं, मजबूत है.....
मजबूर नहीं, मजबूत है ।।
Salute to the ultimate power of this world the #WomenPower 🙏
❤
Waoo bro
@@Brilliantvibesfromyou Thanks
Wow such beautiful thoughts u have
@@monikamoni7446 Thanks
I was molested by my paternal and maternal uncles at age 4 and eight ... it took me 55 years to get the strength to confront them and that too indirectly... lived with all the painful emotions for all my life...you are so brave and brilliant and keep doing what you are doing!! This robs people of all their potential and gives them lifelong pain... Not your fault👏🏼👍🏼❤️🙏🏼
Hope you are doing good now ♥️lots of love
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?
@@bodybuilder4790 koi larka shadi hi nahi karega😂
Why you don't say to your parents immediately
@@bodybuilder4790 Talk to him only ...
And b courageous to fight for urself ..
By leasing this kind of true stories we get the opportunity to know the world, not only from our the dreams but also in the reality.
Suvojit Pal plij
Till we take every challenge as a problem, it's a problem. When we start taking every problem as a challenge, there is where we find our solution. A little change of perspective changes the question into an answer. Very appreciative.
This story made me cry. She is an epitome of courage. Respect from my side. I think everyone who would listen her will feel her pain. God bless you 🙏🏻
Shame on such people, such demons. Respect for your courage mam to share your story.
One of the most courageous story I have ever hear.. salute to lady from bottom of my heart.. she is an inspiration for the youth
U should have told your parents ... my dear ... do u know what one fellow tried to molest my sister in her childhood and I was barely 3 years old. I saw my sister crying. I said oye Kya kar raha hai ? He told me to get out and yelled. But in the evening when my father arrived from office I informed him in my little voice that he tried to do gandi baat with my sister. My father reached his home and told his father that he will tear him apart. The story ended then and there. Today I’m a lawyer. If I had not taken a step to stop him my sister would have had a bad childhood.
👏🏽
Yes I too felt same..she should have told her parents
Dear,,she was scared.She might needed a fellow like dear comrade.Any ways she is a strong lady.Salute to her.Stay blessed..
Jayashree PK not everyone is as lucky as your sister is ...at that particular age when you don’t know about bad touch....
@@bloomingbudslearningresour3850 munna sab jantha hei
It is the story of most of the girls mam..in my friend circle when I ask them to ans just yes or no.. whether they get sexually abused or not.. u can't believe it 8 out of every 10 girl face it but only fault of our parents who never taught us about that..
The person who is abusing is most the time is a family member.. koi cousin, uncle, bhaiya , mama, fufa, tau, dadu ar what not.. it can be any one.. but humko pta hi nh hota ye galat ho rha h hmre sath..
I am agree with you 👍
Very sad that you was suffering from
Even I save a girl she is molested by his neighbor , I beat that person brutally, Bcz I m a Martial Artist Fighter, I advise every Women plz learn self defense for martial arts plz
@@Urban_monster6278 at the time educate them..
Even in some private school they start teaching students what is bad touch and what is good touch
@@RituSharma-cq8rk Mam U r absolutely Correct, But time comes very bad u Know very well, Humanity change like an animal in 2019, 33 thousand rape cases means every minute 4 rape cases , I ashamed that I m an Indian but I trained my self everyday bcose I m responsible citizen, Just see about Nirbhya & Priyanka Reddy they both r our sisters but they brutally raped & Killed by Rapists 😭😭 MARTIAL ARTS gives me tht power I can beat any of them bcose only my training
I don't have a family with them. I also have a family, but I am the second daughter of my house.
Always feel that I am at someone else's house and never felt like I want to become an IAS officer so that the whole country is my family, love me
Best of luck 👍😎
All the very best
Same with me... Best of luck
@@jyotijoshi419 milte h 4 ko 😎🔥
So much respect to you and I'm just so so proud of you.
.I was 13 when my School teacher assaulted me and caused abortion to me, for 1 year i had to visit psychiatrist, It made me poor in studies also . Recent years ,my ex boyfriend's friend also assaulted me in drunk state and infected me with incurable STD genital herpes .My room mate in hostel changed her room immediately and my ex friend told my warden about my medical condition .Wanted to commit suicide but my mother stopped me ,she said if I commit suicide ,she will also commit suicide with me .Lost a lot of friends and my boyfriend also cheated on me after knowing my condition.
No child and women should go through this pain and god bless their soul .❤🙏
I pray for you , lets show the world that we are winners and winners never give up right? 🤗❤
Jhoooth mat bolo phaltu ka. 🤬😡
more power to you girl, you are brave!!
❤️❤️❤️❣️
♥ MORE POWER TO YOU BE BRAVE ♥♥♥
Communication is key of everything . You parents didn’t communicate and neither you did . That is the biggest lost of you and even today’s generation also . Please communicate with your parents and children openly.
Right
Absolutely right
Mental health is important as physical...people are in intense pain and agony..and who go through knows that is 1000 times worse than physical pain
It is very inspiring that you don't feel that it was your fault . Yes , you are right , it was never your fault and It is never any girl's fault . I want you not to feel traumatized , bad , sad depressed anymore. You are empowering other girls as well. More power to you , powerful girl !
"Wabi Sabi" ..... very resilient words. Anyone who has gone through what you have gone through will find support and strength with this video..
My daughter is also 10 years old and i cant even imagine of letting her alone for a second except her school..i am ashamed of that especially mothers who left her daughters alone for doing work.
Its better to eat less its better to live like poor instead of letting a daughter into hell..i just cant believe how just 10 year old girl left alone
Nowadays School is also not safe Sir it's better to be friendly with your daughter so that she can talk to you about everything openly
That means girls cannot be safe without somebody to protect them ...we want to make society safe if we are alone too.not talking about middle class or rich but think of poor who have survival issue they cannot act as CCTV of their girl child its not about surveillance its about being safe without suvelliance and self dependent independecy..
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Mam it's happen with her by outsiders bt wht abt those family member who do that same nd v can't talk abt them
Hope you noticed that she said that, that incident happened when her parents were in home inside kitchen and bedroom.
Well said that whoever is listening is going through something like this... Similarly I... But yes this is the period when I daily wake up myself with a pledge to me that I ll not let my past decide my future.... I can't change the past... But definitely I ll change my future... And that future will be more bright and full of life...
There is so much pain In her eyes but she has great will power.respect for her courage she is a real fighter
Happened with me as well continuously for 6 to 8 months when I was 9 or 8 I was in class 3 and he was my brother's friend use to call my mom chachi Went through that shit daily. I am turning 28 this may still scared to death when I think about sex . Child sex abuse has huge mental and emotional impact more than physical effect.Overcoming it everyday 🙂
manisha tripathi don't be scared.
Today if you are, those people will suppress you.
You stand up and then you show them who you are.
The problem is girls have been so suppressed that even if they keep their point of view they are questioned.
My only request to you is stand up for yourself. The day you stand up against injustice the opposite gender will know how strong you are.
You know what these cheap desperate wanna be men target weak women of society. These guys don't realise karma is a thing that pays back well. One day when Devi ma comes in her roop she will destroy these men to suffering.
Just stand for yourself.
Today you stand tomorrow others will stand beside you. Don't fear anyone.
Remember one thing in life. God helps those who help themselves . Believe in Devi MA she is the mother of you. And you do your part and she will protect you. Your the daughter of Devi. Girls are considered more supreme then men.Its just that you have not given rise to your potential power within you .
And if I could be of any help genuinely speaking cause I support women empowerment and stand up for women in society. Do let me know.
God bless you. Devi ma ki kripa bani rahe. Namah Shivay.
आप अपने पास्ट को भूल जाइए... कि जितना याद करेंगे उतना ही परेशान hongi...
Reveal his Identities to his wife.....tell this to his children.
I am 15 year old girl and I am speechless after hearing this such a monster people all over the world wo suppose to do something like this dont know what to say but it's not done just a horrible thing and proud of you
You decided to fight...
You won!!
Bhala lagila bhauni tomo bisore janiki.
Huge respect🤗
anish patnaik won west ?! Her abuser is free and most likely abusing more
Appreciate your courage..and feel bad for what you have been through...
This brought me tears😭.. hats off to ur courage
It's not easy to come on camera and say what you feel.proud of you mam.
Your talk gives me strength to face adversities of life...thank you so much..
You are a strong woman.....You will continue to inspire many!!
I do not have any words to describe how I'm feeling after watching this. I'm just so so proud of her.
I resonate with everything she said in the end. The key is in our hands. We must use it our way.
Supporting u from Afghanistan . I am really what has happened to you but relly Proud of young lady, u have bright future ahead, no child deserves to be the victim of sexual abuse, stay strong and motivate other victims like you❤️🙏🏻
I always thought it was something in my body, whether signs of maturity or whatever attracted my predator to ruin the best moments of my childhood. I resonate your feelings and I know how difficult it is to get through it because it keeps coming back. But we are all healing and we won't let a person who destroyed our past destroy our future as well.
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?
@@bodybuilder4790 death penalty hi sahi hoga ,just because someone married a person doesn’t give a right to have sex without consent,it can be painful to the woman ,she is not a sex machine.
@@NEET-vs6ot
Are you a man or woman ?
Do not forget to teach every possible thing to your child.. especially about good touch- bad touch..
Teach them to not play with person's feelings too ..
Show them every bad and good side of this world ..
I was very much moved by ur past experience salute for ur inspiration.Actually I was also abused at 7th class I know the pain .
In point view of that perverted old man I think he also faced trauma by not having good sexual relationship or her wife Lost or lustful mindset.(so my frndly suggestion to teens beconscious from divorsed people and singles wheather male or female I don't say all bt most of them.)in all these sad stories uncontrolable emotions are the main underlying cause.only thing human being Mind must be changed towards fear of God& hell. if I say no God and hell beastly desires thrusts out .all humans Are sinners from birth ,what can change our Mind is word of God and the power(holy spirit) of God."over come flesh by spirit( spiritual things..ie showing unconditional real Love.") Actually I don't post comments frequently, the video compelled me to do so...tq josh & sist. samal.
I am so sorry for your early age, at the same time I am proud of you as you could gather courage to speak all these in the social networks.
It's so true that in every girls child this situation is faced by her.....
Similar incidents also happened with me when I was child , world is full of such a people , women, children have to take care of each that devil face
@SOptimus Neo thanks
Society needs to feel for that but u can be strength to the girls around u if anything happens
@@jeevankrishna5519 yes🙌
@@shyamlirana7878 Buddy Don't get afraid , Even I saved a girl molesting by his own neighbor , I brutally beat that fucking person, Bcose I m a Martial artist Fighter self defense xpert ,I Suggest U learn Fight never quit , all the best
@@Urban_monster6278 you did nice job... May God bless you .and thank you so much
Thankyou for coming out so bravely. Your strength is contagious. More love and power to you. Each girl standing up for herself inspires many and creates the ripples of change.
Stay beautiful stay blessed😊
U r so brave and evry girls must learn from u heads off to u , u r inspiration for many girls
Your courage is really amazing.. an angel who transformed.. wish you a contended and happy life
Don't ever ever give up. Because
You have to be the best.
सफलता के लिए पागलपन सबसे बड़ी योग्यता है। बिना पागलपन के आप साधारण व्यक्ति ही रह जाएंगे।
जितने लोगों ने बड़ी सफलता पाई है उनको लोग पागल ही कहते थे और अब भाग्यशाली कहते हैं।
Correct Sanjay sir
#CaMukeshRajput
Sach mein
Bhaag yahan se chutiya
Ye chutiya har jagah Gyan dene lgta hai...isko samajh me nhi aata kaha Kya bolna chahiye
Dear I just wanna salute your sprit.. Brave women like you will definitely win the world. I understand your pain .. I can feel every single word .. A big Salute too you.. 💯
When she cry I really wanna hug her tightly and say loudly "you are not supposed to be sad and upset because it's not your fault" and although this is all past and past is for learning things you are great influencer to show this to world and I respect you bottom of my heart
The thing is harrasement in early age .....is something like u do not even know what they are doing to u......😟😖
Is it happened to you
ABSOLUTELY REMARKABLE.
BUT u have to keep in mind this thing , DON'T LET THE PAST RUIN UR LIFE.
WHERE EVER U R B ALL THERE.
So this is present BE ALL IN PRESENT AND BE POSITIVE 😊😊😊
popular motivation and inspiration Erm PTSD doesn’t always allow that. You have to heal the past before you can be free and move on. This can take a lifetime if at all
I am so proud of you, and I know many of us here are. You might already know.
We humans don't have to have perfect stories. If this looks flawed, be it.
Confrontation is bliss in disguise.
PROUD OF THIS GIRL. GREATNESS IS SUCH THAT WE FAIL AND THEN WE WAKE UP FROM THE ASHES LIKE PHOENIX .THEN WE INSPIRE AND BECOME THE HOPE FOR MILLIONS. AND THIS IS THE PROBLEM OF EVERY WOMAN.AND IT IS SAD THAT SOMEBODY HAVE TO BE GUILTY FOR THE THINGS THAT THEY ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE.
Nice message need to be positive everyone and learn the lesson... If everyone know positive and negative things then no more thing happened like this
Right
Thanku so much to sharing this story.... Aapki wajha se kitne girl ko confidence aayega......na sirf girl balki un sab logo ko Jo past ko lekar rotey rahatey hai....
Any girl reading these please talk to your parents if you ever come across such thing in life no matter what. At least tell your mother
What if ur parent do this kind of thing with u?
@@shalu6761 Then God Bless her
@@shalu6761 police.
I can feel your pain. But yes u r well now and took initiative to talk about this. I pray peace and more courage for you and all of us who are going through this
I know it's tought to share such a nightmare story but you are a figter ma'am .
# Respect 🙏
Every bad things happened in life is good for the success.
दूसरों से ज्यादा खुद को पसंद करो। खुद की इज्ज़त करो। खुद को रोल मॉडल समझो। खुद को वो बना डालो जो आप दूसरों में ढूढ़ते हो।
आप दूसरों के लिए एक रोल मॉडल बन जाओगे।
Kahi bhi kabhi bhi tapak jate ho bhaiya ji😂
Noobra
This video gave me more power to live in this world
So damn proud of this woman. Such strength and conviction she holds. My head bows with respect for this lady. That ass hole makes us men ashamed. There are good men who feed their big family, take care of their mother, father, wife and children. And there are ass holes who abuses women. They deserve some good beating from both the society and the police and strict legal punishment. They need to pay high compensation as well for mental and physical harm. They are nth but embarrassment for us good men all around the world.
Hearing your story, I feel very sad and salute your feelings.
Huge respect to this brave girl !
Thank u madam for giving me the chance to raise the voice
आप बहुत साहसी है।
आप बहुत लोगो को हिम्मत दे रही है।
God bless you.
Smiliar incident also happened with me .. It was my age 6 years nd one 65 + men was cojoile to me and had played with me .. nd he had done these all kind of things nd I could not to spoke my parents bcoz I don't know what's exactly wrong with me ... in this world parents thoughts that strangers are unsafe but point is that our aquientence also unsafe.!! So sexual education should be given earlier !!
Salute you. I really respect woman's life.. How they sacrifice..
Something like this happened to a very dear friend of mine. I'm glad she found me suitable to share her story with me. Kudos to you that you overcame all these. Keep going ahead!
I proud of you and applaud your courage.
I have two daughters of same age…
After listening to you makes my heart cry .. can’t imagine wat pain and agony I have been through.. more power to you for coming out much stronger ♥️♥️
Painful story.. your each word is true..so many children faced sexual abuse and leading their entire life with guilt.. because of society or other reasons.. thank you for sharing your life incident
Wow salute to your courage
You are voice for voiceless
What u gave conclusion in the last 30 seconds....fantastic
Hats off..!! Loads of Love and Respect ❤️🙏
Hats Off To Ayushmita For The Great Courage To Reveal The Truth.......The World Needs Such Brave Ladies.......
There should be guts to open up and speak out in public . Huge respect to your words n you..🙏
Amazing guts to say all thz which is occuring to most of women...very daring lady....superb..keep motivating...gents listen pls
I had molested many times in my chilhood..that incidents totaly destroyed my childhood.i also carry the bitterness in my preasent life.this story is helpfull for me to overcome my problem.thank u so much.i change myself.i will do that.
I have never saw a brave girl like you before..Hats off to you
Tears come in the Eyes after listening the Story. U R Really a brave Mam. May Almighty keep Safe People like U wherever U R. May Almighty keep U EVERGREEN 🍀, HAPPY, HEALTHY, ENERGETIC & SUCCESSFUL Forever.
The one of the most important advice i wanna give u all the girls here... Think more and more when u first realize these kinds of things happening with u.. If u raise ur voice on first time.. You can escape ur life as well as other girl's life.. Evil minded people are everywhere.. may be at ur home, ur neibhour, ur relative even ur boyfriend.. Be aware everytime...don't allow anyone to touch ur body..its time to raise ur voice👍
Omg 😲 kuch bolne ke liye power hona zarrori hai....I salute 👏 3 years so painful 😢..... courageous..... really salute mam
Mam it's take so much courage to talk in public ,glad that u did that ..
I hope every parents must talk to their boys how to respect girls atleast ...
Salute to the girl she is the real heroine . Such a courage which she have to tell her story what she gone through . Salute to her .
You are beautiful.... Believe me... You are pure...may God. Bless. You.... Sorry I don't have words to tell you how. Courageous you are......
Truly love you with all my heart ❤
Your story really made me cry...I just want every girls out there to not be fearful about sharing such sexual violence with your parents ...as you guys knows it very well..our society has never short demons ...they are living like the normal person and you know you can't even judge what's actually going inside his mind ....girls protecting your life is merely your responsibility not somebody else out there ....keep avoiding yourself from such demons ..be protective and let yourself live freely in society...thanks....
I don't know wht to say bcz being a man i too got very scared by even thinking of ur story wht u said and wht u have suffered..😢 But Aayushmita one thing i would say dat u r a very brave girl💪and u showed a very courageous side of a girl,nd I hope which helps many other girls or women to get motivated by this👍Hats off🙏👍
The girl in the video has gone through very less as compared to me but she can tell someone but I can’t tell anyone because I’m a boy 😕
@@Shraddha2134 brother nobody either a boy or a girl if something like abuse ever happened to him or her is very painful....if she can tell someone why not u ,yaar there r many peoples who will definitely understand ur problem but u hv to choose d correct one to tell👍
@@siddharthjakhmola4689 I’m just 16 it will be awkward to tell but nothing can change if i tell my parents so what’s the point revealing it,,🫤
@@Shraddha2134 brother if u dont mind we could talk abt dis in private bcz I feel through comments its not easy to understand one another's thought and specially fr u plz 😊👍🙏
Salute to you mam.....Each word makes so much sense....Truly touching.....inspiring....God
Please save humanity from such disgrace.
Your face expression is very good
So teach about everyone
Always stay happy.. God bless you.
This is Bravery..... Thanks for the message.
i am with you, Ayushmita Krishna Samal. also with all of those (Girl & Boys) facing this stupidity . proud you
Very smart and brave.
Very honestly described your story.
But at the age of 10 you continued to suffer for 3 continuous years.
You have a loving and supporting family.
How you could not get the confidence to expose that fellow with your parents.
This weakness must not be the part of anyone's life.
sex education should be a part of the curriculum, I also abused many times from neighbour uncle who runs a shop, but that time I don t know what he is doing... I felt it wrong but I am scared to talk to anyone. Later another girl abused by him, she is elder enough to understand so she told to her mother and everyone realised it. But they stop us from going to the shop. No one asks him. He is still there...
@Ayushmita - Meditate! It will help you to erase the scars. Suggestion : stop talking about it henceforth, you don't have to relive those moments again and again by revisiting them. This is absolutely vital for your future relationships & happy normal life that you are completely free of painful memories. It's time to move ahead in life. Sending love to you ❣️
Anahata Official stop you lies at once. Stop sugar coating it. And She didn’t relive it. She shared with us what happened to help others which also helps her heal. Ignoring her past does NOT ignore how those crimes effected her then and effect her now . PTSD is a bitch. She needs a good psychologist-the earliest from the crime the better.
@@k8lynmae :) your reaction shows nothing but ignorance! For everything that happens to us, we search the remedies outside of us rather than inside! Science has proved it now that mere a thought of any painful incident alerts the amygdala & hypothalamus which in turn releases the chemicals cortisol & adrenaline in the blood exactly the same way it was released during the incident. Can't you see how hard she's trying to control her tears even after 15-20 years of the incident! Therapies do help but only to an extent, ultimately she has to do the inner work to take it out completely. 🌸
I can understand your emotions...you are brave enough..In the process of showing your brave face you are not only going beyond your emotions but also transforming yourself into something very very crystal strong... Respect...
I must say ....u are a very confident girl ...no girl have such guts to tell all these things in front of everyone ...but u are sharing these incident of your life ..this provides us alot of motivation apart from it u are awaring all the people who don't have sex education ...so hard of to you
More power to you girl❤️.. You are soo strong!!
I am really sorry on behalf of those who don't know how to handle such crises ..
I know my apology will not give you more courage but I still if it could I will be pleased..
You are a girl of courage .. hatsoff ...