The US is based on gold-diggers since the Gold fiver times😮😮😮! Nothing has changed since then accept they are moore greedy😮 and sneaky 😈!!! Follow the 💰 Money, not your ❤️ ❤❤! !! It makes me sick as they have spread this virus to the world 🌎!!! More deadly than the covid pandemic 😷!!!
I may be silly, but if I am that afraid of my ex husband, I will walk away with nothing. Let him stew in his things. My life is more important than marital assets.
She never wrote him letters and he felt embarrassed because his shipmates received plenty. Then he goes home and she accuses him of being distant? I don't get it.
to critique Bob is not fair, the navy or army and the war makes their brain melt, Becky was fine and kept it all together and paid for it, no winners in this story.
What an odd story, odd woman. If your husband declares his love when abroad and you never respond, what the heck do you expect???? Crazy woman. Passive aggressive is an understatement.
@denisemoore6134 They did back then... especially in long distance jobs /relationships She didn't respond to his letters, then complains he's "distant"... hmmm🤔
What a terrible outcome for a hard-working, distinguished naval officer, but to blame his wife for everything going wrong in his life is beyond the pale. He should have divorced years ago, and she shouldn't have left all the finances to him.
during their early relationship, remember that the wife live like queen with her own son on other man...not even care of Bob..its no blaming game..and the wife enjoying all the luxury...and who knows if she's having someone that's why she has no taste with Bob
I find it sad that so many people always do a lot of victim blaming when it comes to female victims, but this is almost never the case when the victim is male.
This is such a tragic tale of wasted lives. And this killing themselves on cardboard has a major message, I'm just not sure what. She pulled the first cardboard boxes out and he did his.
Laying out the cardboard is intriguing to say the least but it is also a speculation that it was her decision to do it first, to save the cleaners a major cleanup. This is just another opinion (among many) by the narrators, to portray her of being very considerate. Since it is obvious that he was the last to die, it seems reasonable to assume for consistency, that he made the decision for her first and them for himself afterwards.
Becky was a heartless wife. Period. She was all about status and want someone to fund her lifestyle but she wasnt there for him emotionally which is important if youre in the navy. Im not saying its okay for anything Bob did. He did not handle rejection well and instead of understanding why Bob behaved the way he did and try to be supportive, she in return reacts again to that negative behaviour and so on and so forth.
This narrative is too one sided. I find that when they incorporate dramatization, the producer can slant the imagery to suit their end goal of painting who was at fault. Also inserting unsubstantiated accusations such as: I ¨heard¨ that she had a bruise and it probably happened when he forced her... Then saying that Becky convinced him to take on this lucrative non-govt job, which was a ¨great opportunity¨. They could have just as easily said that with her convincing him to take this job, it placed him in a situation of being out of his realm of comfort. Then trivialising him having an a lingering emotional impact of her(unbeknownst to him), aborting his and her unborn is unwarranted, as even women very often can have a lifetime of remorse for making such a decision. These are a few of the examples of rumours and injection of opinion, that should be left out of the narrative or at least present alternative points of view.
Gosh...makers of this documentary please be aware that you do not have to say the same thing over and over. Some of us have memory!! Cant keep watching too laboured and boring. Also lose the shrinks....not needed.
Listening to this again I realise that Becky was not a nice wife she blamed him for the break down of the marriage but she has alot to be blame for too like when he writes to her when he is away she would not respond but expect him to come home all lovey dovey why would he then get pregnant killed the babies say nothing to your husband and use it as ammunition to hurt him then sabotage his career she was vile and wicked
true, they seem like they are having fun talking about real life tragedies like they would know it all or the would talk about lab bunnies or rats, shame on them and thus OUT
@julieoluna8887 Yup. Well, you can see I am very slow and dense by responding to you. I see and learn from everything. WOW! I just learned that you are a self-centered know‐it-all jezebel. Ruminate on that, Julie Jezebel.
There should be a law, a strict one, concerning adultery. If the spouse commits a crime such as killing wife and/or kids because of the mistress, the culpability would also reach the mistress or the lover of a married woman, meaning they would be both accused for that crime. I am sure many people would think 3x before getting involved with married people. The only way to stop all these tragedies and at least diminish them in numbers, because there are too many killing them family for a mistress/lover or for money. We need some kind of legislation for it.
@denisemoore6134 if that could fix the situation, I would be OK with that too. However, it would not fix either. Muslim men still cheat on their wives. But if a law could be created in the Western world to cause fear, true terror and prevent all these cases, I will be the first one to vote for it.
@@dr1609 Your comment doesn't make any sense, firstly you say my question is irrelevant but yet continue to suggest that I should brush up on my History. Unless of course you don't know what irrelevant means.
Becky was never a decent wife. No support for her husband throughout their entire marriage. So sad for him the day he crossed paths with this creature. Her vocal, supporters in this video, so blinded by what this Woman actually did to her husband over many many years. She lied, betrayed and savaged him emotionally. Karma.
Those psychologists explain that covering crimes against women shall be supported by a wife? Okay, happily those were the 90s and hopefully do not happen at these time. This was the first story I could hardly see till the end. Like always (almost) the man makes his career, the woman changes her career to an unpaid household job. She then behaves like a navy wife has to behave, nothing was ok for this guy. And he is doing what many men do: he ist cheating with prostitutes, paying tons of money to them - but both psychologists blame the wife? Really strange.
Becky was a nervous wreck but is still sleeping with him...😂😂😂...they both contributed to this ridiculous farce of a marriage. They were both selfish and their communication was poor asf. The sister's views are not unbiased and they dont think thier families are responsibility for anything they did. Ridiculous.
I watch this a pay close attention to all the details. His wife despite all the ups and downs this man love this woman with the fibers in his body his wife was his everything there no life for him without her.
So he was willing to risk his wife's death rather than having the abortion. How crazy is that! And how could a wife ever love a husband again after that?
That’s not the issue. She exaggerated her illness. Either way as a legally married wife her husband was 50% owner of those kids. He should have been informed and involved in the discussion to abort.
@@tmcurlyum... 1,you don't "own" kids. 2,he was away and it was her life in danger, her body, not his. If I need an abortion I'll tell my partner that it is happening, sure. I have a healthy relationship, he is here and I have no reason to keep it from him. But he does not get a say about if I do or not get an abortion. He can feel however he wants to feel but you can't compromise on having kids.
WASTE OF TIME! BORING AF! Boring time-wasting naval biography instead of a CRIME DOCU! Halfway through and still waiting ... thanks but no thanks! Bye! Some channels so desperate for a few more YT cents and waste our time with CLICKBAIT TITLES!
I do find watching these programmes that American people love money more than people, from Ireland
The US is based on gold-diggers since the Gold fiver times😮😮😮! Nothing has changed since then accept they are moore greedy😮 and sneaky 😈!!!
Follow the 💰 Money, not your ❤️ ❤❤! !!
It makes me sick as they have spread this virus to the world 🌎!!!
More deadly than the covid pandemic 😷!!!
Money and guns.
I may be silly, but if I am that afraid of my ex husband, I will walk away with nothing. Let him stew in his things. My life is more important than marital assets.
She never wrote him letters and he felt embarrassed because his shipmates received plenty. Then he goes home and she accuses him of being distant? I don't get it.
Neither do I. Bizarre.
Narcissistic personality disorder. Matches 100%.
Me too
Bizarre indeed.
Me too 😮
He was complaining ABT the lawyer's fees, but buying a car to his lover was ok?
She was happy to be a "housewife"! and of course she had someone to pay the bills.
She aborted the babies without even letting him know.
If only the analysis in between would stop ...this could be interesting
Wait he couldn't have PTSD because he didn't exhibit nightmares? Idk but her ignoring him is also cold af, enough blame to go around here.
Did you not watch the episode? This was back in the 70’s and 80’s. The diagnosis and symptoms of PTSD were still in the infancy stages.
I am sure that’s what the fake psychologist meant 😳.
PTSD you get the minute you join the army....
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to critique Bob is not fair, the navy or army and the war makes their brain melt, Becky was fine and kept it all together and paid for it, no winners in this story.
Yes, I'm thinking the same thing. It's very unfair. 😢
Excellent episode, very educational.
Sleeping together while having a divorce? Immature behavior.
🤯
Disgusting
Many many many couples do this 😳…
@@tmcurlyMany immature couples.
Fun stuff! Need to be realistic!
What an odd story, odd woman. If your husband declares his love when abroad and you never respond, what the heck do you expect???? Crazy woman. Passive aggressive is an understatement.
Many people do not write letters.
@denisemoore6134 They did back then... especially in long distance jobs /relationships
She didn't respond to his letters, then complains he's "distant"... hmmm🤔
He was a bully, a cheater and a murderer! "Crazy Woman" You are the crazy one.
Totally agree.
Both of them contributed to the demise of the relationship.
True, but he is the only one responsible for their deaths.
What a terrible outcome for a hard-working, distinguished naval officer, but to blame his wife for everything going wrong in his life is beyond the pale. He should have divorced years ago, and she shouldn't have left all the finances to him.
She never wrote him many letters as it was a pay back. Who wants to be around with someone who drinks all the time
during their early relationship, remember that the wife live like queen with her own son on other man...not even care of Bob..its no blaming game..and the wife enjoying all the luxury...and who knows if she's having someone that's why she has no taste with Bob
She was just looking for some one to pay for her kid
She was not!
True 😢
I find it sad that so many people always do a lot of victim blaming when it comes to female victims, but this is almost never the case when the victim is male.
She used him to care for her child while refusing to have his children.
25:41 the empty seat is the cherry 🍒 on the story
This is such a tragic tale of wasted lives. And this killing themselves on cardboard has a major message, I'm just not sure what. She pulled the first cardboard boxes out and he did his.
Laying out the cardboard is intriguing to say the least but it is also a speculation that it was her decision to do it first, to save the cleaners a major cleanup. This is just another opinion (among many) by the narrators, to portray her of being very considerate. Since it is obvious that he was the last to die, it seems reasonable to assume for consistency, that he made the decision for her first and them for himself afterwards.
It takes two to tango
Bob had full blown PTSD and his wife very hard for her. They were not meant to be together
I love these stories confirms why i,m staying single😮😮😮😮
💯👍🏽
I mean yeah he would lose money but I’m sure he could build stuff back up and actually still be alive instead of killing his wife and himself
it is so sad to see that they have ended their lives in such a tragic way.
Becky was a heartless wife. Period. She was all about status and want someone to fund her lifestyle but she wasnt there for him emotionally which is important if youre in the navy. Im not saying its okay for anything Bob did. He did not handle rejection well and instead of understanding why Bob behaved the way he did and try to be supportive, she in return reacts again to that negative behaviour and so on and so forth.
Oooh childish I didn't get any letters and the other ADULTS did!
Totally agree.
This narrative is too one sided. I find that when they incorporate dramatization, the producer can slant the imagery to suit their end goal of painting who was at fault. Also inserting unsubstantiated accusations such as: I ¨heard¨ that she had a bruise and it probably happened when he forced her... Then saying that Becky convinced him to take on this lucrative non-govt job, which was a ¨great opportunity¨. They could have just as easily said that with her convincing him to take this job, it placed him in a situation of being out of his realm of comfort. Then trivialising him having an a lingering emotional impact of her(unbeknownst to him), aborting his and her unborn is unwarranted, as even women very often can have a lifetime of remorse for making such a decision. These are a few of the examples of rumours and injection of opinion, that should be left out of the narrative or at least present alternative points of view.
Gosh...makers of this documentary please be aware that you do not have to say the same thing over and over. Some of us have memory!! Cant keep watching too laboured and boring. Also lose the shrinks....not needed.
Stop it. You complain too much. It's not all that serious. Just take a chill pill and relax. Live and let others live.
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@lornamalcolm553 😅😅😂😂😂
Don’t watch
Listening to this again I realise that Becky was not a nice wife she blamed him for the break down of the marriage but she has alot to be blame for too like when he writes to her when he is away she would not respond but expect him to come home all lovey dovey why would he then get pregnant killed the babies say nothing to your husband and use it as ammunition to hurt him then sabotage his career she was vile and wicked
That snorting sound 😂😂😂😂😂
Bob is a proper narcissist. Learn your DSM-5, Ms Psyhotherspist.
Drop the two armchair psychologists.
true, they seem like they are having fun talking about real life tragedies like they would know it all or the would talk about lab bunnies or rats, shame on them and thus OUT
Why? I am learning and reinforcing my knowledge of human behavior from these trained people. Leave them alone.
@@lornamalcolm553You are learning something from them?! WOW! To the rest of us they just state the obvious and at times say complete nonsense.
@julieoluna8887 Yup. Well, you can see I am very slow and dense by responding to you. I see and learn from everything. WOW! I just learned that you are a self-centered know‐it-all jezebel. Ruminate on that, Julie Jezebel.
@julieoluna8887 Yup. Don't care what you want to say Miss JulieJezebel.
I think she was a gold digger, right from the beginning. It was all about her, not him.
And he was all about himself.
When a man spends his money to a mistress and blame things to wife? A woman will never complain and will never leave a husband if she says safe
There should be a law, a strict one, concerning adultery. If the spouse commits a crime such as killing wife and/or kids because of the mistress, the culpability would also reach the mistress or the lover of a married woman, meaning they would be both accused for that crime. I am sure many people would think 3x before getting involved with married people. The only way to stop all these tragedies and at least diminish them in numbers, because there are too many killing them family for a mistress/lover or for money. We need some kind of legislation for it.
@@laurids2007Az a jogszabály neve,hogy Biblia!
9.Parancsolat!
@@mariakerenyi3572 when you learn English, you can reply to me.
See u.
@@laurids2007What do you want Sharia Law, and to wear a burka!
@denisemoore6134 if that could fix the situation, I would be OK with that too.
However, it would not fix either.
Muslim men still cheat on their wives.
But if a law could be created in the Western world to cause fear, true terror and prevent all these cases, I will be the first one to vote for it.
"He was busy dropping bombs in Libya" What did Libya do to America?
Irrelevant comment.Maybe you need to brush up on history ie Pan AM airplane bombed..
@@dr1609 Your comment doesn't make any sense, firstly you say my question is irrelevant but yet continue to suggest that I should brush up on my History. Unless of course you don't know what irrelevant means.
So sad a man of high esteem was pushed to a point of no return.🤔
R.I.P. 🙏
Once your hear power couples run away, they have stressful marriage that you can't imagine.
This sister is getting on my nerves
Becky was never a decent wife. No support for her husband throughout their entire marriage. So sad for him the day he crossed paths with this creature. Her vocal, supporters in this video, so blinded by what this Woman actually did to her husband over many many years. She lied, betrayed and savaged him emotionally. Karma.
Those psychologists explain that covering crimes against women shall be supported by a wife? Okay, happily those were the 90s and hopefully do not happen at these time. This was the first story I could hardly see till the end. Like always (almost) the man makes his career, the woman changes her career to an unpaid household job. She then behaves like a navy wife has to behave, nothing was ok for this guy. And he is doing what many men do: he ist cheating with prostitutes, paying tons of money to them - but both psychologists blame the wife? Really strange.
Madic depression causes you to collect lots of items of clothing, shoes etc
How horrible?!?
I was in the navy and that is not a high rank
Why didn't she want any more children? BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T WANT TO!!!! Period, no more discussion!!!!
Becky was a nervous wreck but is still sleeping with him...😂😂😂...they both contributed to this ridiculous farce of a marriage. They were both selfish and their communication was poor asf. The sister's views are not unbiased and they dont think thier families are responsibility for anything they did. Ridiculous.
I watch this a pay close attention to all the details. His wife despite all the ups and downs this man love this woman with the fibers in his body his wife was his everything there no life for him without her.
Oh he loves her so much he kills her!
Wts...he spent recklessly on women wine and song. He put them in the poor house....
Plain coward 😔
The top is normally a political post
Doing that on your own shore's just think what they were doing at wartime
Bob wanted babies...while his job is dropping bombs on other people babies😂😂😂😂😂talk bout irony😂😂😂😂2024.,.I weqk
The to back seat drivers get s real job
What language was that?
I think he was possibly on the autism scale.
stacy and brian as useless as usual
This could be a quit interesting true crime serie if you dumped these boring selfabsored shrinks!
You are so NICE!
So he was willing to risk his wife's death rather than having the abortion. How crazy is that! And how could a wife ever love a husband again after that?
That’s not the issue. She exaggerated her illness. Either way as a legally married wife her husband was 50% owner of those kids. He should have been informed and involved in the discussion to abort.
I bet some people have never been wives and wouldn’t have a clue 😳
@@tmcurlyum... 1,you don't "own" kids. 2,he was away and it was her life in danger, her body, not his.
If I need an abortion I'll tell my partner that it is happening, sure. I have a healthy relationship, he is here and I have no reason to keep it from him. But he does not get a say about if I do or not get an abortion. He can feel however he wants to feel but you can't compromise on having kids.
@@tmcurly.... When it has to do with you, come back and say the same thing
Time to sack the shrinks , they swerve no purpose on here , &they are annoying .
WASTE OF TIME! BORING AF!
Boring time-wasting naval biography instead of a CRIME DOCU! Halfway through and still waiting ... thanks but no thanks! Bye!
Some channels so desperate for a few more YT cents and waste our time with CLICKBAIT TITLES!