Separate bathroom…good or bad for your marriage? 💍

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  • @JamesTalvy
    @JamesTalvy 4 месяца назад +234

    How do you say that you’re extremely wealthy without saying it

  • @paigefantastic4292
    @paigefantastic4292 4 месяца назад +191

    We have separate bedrooms. I have night terrors and sleep problems and he is a horrific snorer. We just keep each other awake. Not a sign of a failing marriage. People act like marriage is suddenly gaining a parasitic twin or something.

    • @celiagarcia2885
      @celiagarcia2885 4 месяца назад +9

      I totally agree! Too much togerthness is awful.

    • @MaryJane-zw5pv
      @MaryJane-zw5pv 4 месяца назад +6

      It kind of is though... 😂

    • @justingraham281
      @justingraham281 4 месяца назад +1

      True my great uncle and aunt was married long as I can think until he died and they slept in deprecate rooms and was madly in love

    • @P4u1_08
      @P4u1_08 4 месяца назад +2

      Kinda is if you have kids, stay or pay 💰

    • @Cuvoastoh6321
      @Cuvoastoh6321 4 месяца назад +5

      I think some separate things are good, keeps the romance on sizzle, we are conscious of making certain things happen. My tub or yours tonite?

  • @lindacade3975
    @lindacade3975 4 месяца назад +248

    I was surprised there isn't a urinal in "his" bathroom.

    • @Allthingspoll
      @Allthingspoll 4 месяца назад +2

      Why?

    • @aleks-33
      @aleks-33 4 месяца назад +12

      ​@@Allthingspoll just trying to think why else idiot rich ppl would need completely separate his and hers bathrooms I guess

    • @Allthingspoll
      @Allthingspoll 4 месяца назад +7

      @@aleks-33 cos their shit still stinks lol

    • @ruslanr.6171
      @ruslanr.6171 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@aleks-33 so she would pull her hair out of shower, bath and sink herself.

    • @ruslanr.6171
      @ruslanr.6171 4 месяца назад

      there is sink and shower cabin for that.

  • @Me_Grimlock_King
    @Me_Grimlock_King 4 месяца назад +69

    I enjoy my personal space. I see this as a win in my book.

  • @jeremycarter
    @jeremycarter 4 месяца назад +41

    My wife and I have separate bathrooms and we love it! I don’t have to worry about showering with her hair that’s clogging up the drain or dealing with her stuff all over the counter and she doesn’t have to deal with my stuff in my bathroom! This has been very helpful for the marriage!

    • @janwillard6708
      @janwillard6708 4 месяца назад +1

      Do you each clean your own bathroom? Or have help?

    • @JoJo-op5xy
      @JoJo-op5xy 3 месяца назад +1

      @@janwillard6708 that’s the real question here. 😂 he probably still cleans out her drain. More work in my opinion

    • @jeremycarter
      @jeremycarter 3 месяца назад

      @@janwillard6708 we each clean our own bathrooms. Although I clean out the hair from her shower since she is grossed out by her wet hair on the floor of the shower.

    • @bassfan41
      @bassfan41 3 месяца назад +1

      her bathroom is in the master and yours is in the basement right lol

    • @JessLanthier
      @JessLanthier 2 месяца назад

      My husband and I moved into a 3 bedroom 3 bath townhome. With plans of babies filling those rooms. Eventually... lol but as of right now he has the master bathroom and walk in closet while I get an extra room with a walk in closet and my own bathroom. It's absolutely incredible. 17 years together and our first time having more then 1 bathroom. I can fill it with all my items and leave it a little messy sometimes. I have 3 different body washes and tons of different hair products in my shower and it doesn't feel crowded in the shower with both our things. It feels so good to take a steamy hot shower for 30 mins and not feel bad he has to take a boom boom. 😅 I highly recommend having your own space if possible. Also we clean our own bathrooms and I looovvvveeee that too. It's made us get along better cause I can shut the door for an hour and get ready for work while he gets ready at the same time. No elbowing each other or asking how much longer.. It's been a huge blessing ❤❤❤

  • @MIRSTROY
    @MIRSTROY 4 месяца назад +7

    Married, sleep in different bedrooms, totally recommended, marriage is a lot more than sleeping together in the same bed.

  • @Funtruck
    @Funtruck 4 месяца назад +47

    This is not overkill! Anyone who’s shared a bathroom with a partner will understand. Goals

    • @akiraic
      @akiraic 3 месяца назад

      not a single person living in that house cleans it 😂 they pay someone 100%

  • @Troltech
    @Troltech 4 месяца назад +5

    Separate houses in separate towns is the way.

  • @francoveritas2
    @francoveritas2 3 месяца назад +3

    Having separate bathrooms have saved many marriages!! I’m all for it! My parents beach house had 3 master retreats with two baths each and some were so big that had a “retreat” living area that had a bar, microwave oven, bar fridge and a powder room additional to the two full bathrooms! It was the best selling point when they sold it, you need a few more hands to clean all the toilets but it makes life a bit more enjoyable.

  • @AshleyPeterson-c1y
    @AshleyPeterson-c1y 4 месяца назад +17

    Depends on the couple. My husband and I have different ideas of “clean”. And he likes to take baths which if it was only one bathroom, would be difficult when I need to shower. So if I had the money, I wouldn’t mind separate bathrooms. Because he can always join me in mine, but not have the daily hassle of all my hair products cluttering the counter

    • @ogalief
      @ogalief 4 месяца назад

      I’ve always seen it the other way around where the guy prefers showers and she prefers baths.
      Reminds me of an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where the wife cleans the toilet and Larry falls in because she left the seat up

    • @leonardarch3092
      @leonardarch3092 3 месяца назад

      Questions adult male who prefers to take baths.

    • @tecumtrejo
      @tecumtrejo 6 дней назад

      Yup

  • @brianparkhurst1019
    @brianparkhurst1019 4 месяца назад +59

    Seems like a better plan would be to share the shower. Shower in the middle.

    • @calpurensoisduche
      @calpurensoisduche 4 месяца назад

    • @Gunter_Custom
      @Gunter_Custom 4 месяца назад +5

      I remodel homes and the best layout I've seen is on bathroom on the left, sink toilet and walk in closet
      ..right side another just mirrored ..
      In the back in between both bathrooms a room with a tub and separate big shower .. 😂😂

    • @tnails2397
      @tnails2397 4 месяца назад +1

      Separate bathrooms with shared shower. That's how I set up our master bathroom. It's best

    • @wesleypepple7525
      @wesleypepple7525 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Gunter_Customnot even close,been doing it for 36 yrs,to each his own

    • @Gunter_Custom
      @Gunter_Custom 3 месяца назад +1

      @@wesleypepple7525 not even close to what you didn't even give an idea or description.. I doubt your statement if you can't even come up with anything.. 🤣🤣

  • @traceyc130
    @traceyc130 4 месяца назад +11

    Good for a marriage

  • @user-er7yr9iy2h
    @user-er7yr9iy2h 4 месяца назад +3

    I prefer separate homes 😂

  • @elijahp.3720
    @elijahp.3720 4 месяца назад +278

    Waste of space and money

    • @rversocal8889
      @rversocal8889 4 месяца назад +32

      Not if you have both.

    • @IHaventCaredSinceYourMom
      @IHaventCaredSinceYourMom 4 месяца назад +15

      All you're saying is you don't have the money to do it 🤷

    • @kristytillman6845
      @kristytillman6845 4 месяца назад +12

      I agree with @elijahp.3720 I don't care how much money I have, this is ridiculous. Those bathrooms are huge and too much to clean. They are bigger than standard bedrooms lol. 2 smaller bathrooms? Sure. I'd be fine with that. This is way overkill though. Beautiful, but overkill.

    • @whattheschmidt
      @whattheschmidt 4 месяца назад +4

      ​@kristytillman6845 "overkill" you're not getting it - think of having a lot of money and then multiply by at least 10. When you just have too much money you may choose to get things that would be absurd to 99% of people, but you can afford it easily and have this extra luxury.

    • @angelic710
      @angelic710 4 месяца назад +6

      @@whattheschmidtRight but if having the “so called luxury” doesn’t bring any value or purpose to a person or the couple, it just doesn’t matter. I’d rather having a personal theater or extra office space or even extra bedroom. Then an extra bathroom. Like how much time you need in there.

  • @donaadler6208
    @donaadler6208 4 месяца назад +1

    We ended up buying a house with 2 master bedrooms, and now we both have our own space. I will never give up my own closet, my own bathroom or even my own bed. But I surely love my husband!! Its a marriage SAVER if you ask me!

  • @zzzz759
    @zzzz759 4 месяца назад +11

    You just called me broke in every language

  • @ladywhite79
    @ladywhite79 4 месяца назад +3

    We have our own space.
    Sleep is amazing.
    Stress level down.
    His room his taste.
    My room full of plants.
    Best marriage.

  • @nriqueog
    @nriqueog 4 месяца назад +25

    This means IF you can afford separate bathrooms then you can afford to hire a FULL TIME house keeper to keep them both clean.
    Definitely a RICH PERSON thing.

    • @fredflintstone5356
      @fredflintstone5356 4 месяца назад

      Or maybe they just clean their own space instead?

    • @sparkythancztwise
      @sparkythancztwise 4 месяца назад

      @@fredflintstone5356 very near *nil* chances of that. It's rare for people who have spaces like that to have any incentive, or time they are willing to spend, to clean their enormous sprawling homes.

  • @donnamccutchen5672
    @donnamccutchen5672 4 месяца назад +2

    I get the have separate bathrooms but bedrooms? We got a problem Houston!!

  • @KCWorld-rz3tx
    @KCWorld-rz3tx 4 месяца назад +11

    Honestly this would solve A LOT of issues in our relationship!! 😂
    Edit to add: even if I just had a darn closet with a toilet, I'd be good, I can wash my hands in the kitchen sink 😂

  • @ak22gml85
    @ak22gml85 4 месяца назад +1

    Only if the bathrooms are ensuite to separate bedrooms 😉

  • @katyasehryn8810
    @katyasehryn8810 4 месяца назад +8

    Fantastic bank account for sure! Im sure they have a lovely cleaner.
    Idk guess I'm old skool and I don't mind seeing my spouse around the house.

  • @theatheearthkiller5281
    @theatheearthkiller5281 4 месяца назад +1

    All that space and no vanity area in the woman’s. Maybe she didn’t want or need one, but 100% I’d be putting one in.

  • @MoneyPitCastle
    @MoneyPitCastle 4 месяца назад

    Absolutely a great idea. This is the best thing for a marriage.

  • @mrme7531
    @mrme7531 4 месяца назад +1

    Instead of flaunting your wealth on the internet. Perhaps you could donate some of it to charity. heres the challenge though, youre not allowed to make a vid about it or post to any social media telling what you did. Dont even call your bff. Simply give and then fill your heart with that warmth of helping others. Focus on that warmth and compare it to the dopamine rush you're accustomed to from social media. I bet one feels more peaceful and in tune with the universe.

    • @ciaomamabella
      @ciaomamabella 4 месяца назад +1

      This is quite the inner self reflection / deflection comment you’ve left. Super detailed and everything.

  • @katiefitzgeraldfyten7197
    @katiefitzgeraldfyten7197 4 месяца назад +1

    They still sleep in the same bed so I wouldn't call it a failing marriage. Id call it a spoiled rich couple.

  • @justbeingme7719
    @justbeingme7719 4 месяца назад +2

    Have separate bathrooms and we love it...not this luxurious though.

  • @joan4449
    @joan4449 4 месяца назад +3

    Being in close quarters helps keep short accounts. My baby and I are in it for the long haul!

    • @Txst21
      @Txst21 4 месяца назад

      I agree very much

  • @hagancs
    @hagancs 4 месяца назад

    It’s a sign of a well thought out plan to stay married.

  • @nukeman2171
    @nukeman2171 4 месяца назад

    I like the idea of sharing spaces and learning how to be considerate of each other in said space. Only exception is couples that are light sleepers for bedrooms, or a hobby room depending on the hobbies and how much they clash.

  • @daver4874
    @daver4874 2 месяца назад

    I used to lay floors in Park City UT and saw things like this all the time. The difference is that they would have a toilet and vanity on either side but one big shower connecting both sides in the middle. Also the toilets were usually out of view of the shower so your wife could shower while you were dropping a duece without making it uncomfortable for either person.
    Its nice to be able to take your time and have privacy on the toilet but then i still like to shower with my wife on occasion.

  • @CrazennCajunn
    @CrazennCajunn 3 месяца назад

    Being married tells you what you do and don't want to share. A failure of a marriage is one based on what the world thinks you should do instead of what works for the two

  • @amazon4716
    @amazon4716 11 дней назад +1

    Where is the fun in that 😮😅😊

  • @farmergirlofchickens8779
    @farmergirlofchickens8779 3 месяца назад

    Obviously not cleaned by either. 🚽 🚿 🪞 Because BOTH are spotless.

  • @sjhopper4990
    @sjhopper4990 4 месяца назад

    Absolutely gorgeous!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @anthonyrunstedler
    @anthonyrunstedler 3 месяца назад +1

    Sign of DINKS
    Dual income no kids

  • @endless_summer_rose
    @endless_summer_rose 4 месяца назад

    Great idea!

  • @mentallycolourful
    @mentallycolourful 4 месяца назад

    It's lovely! I can place all my beauty, hair and nail care products in tidy baskets and whatnot.
    No one is rushing the other to get out of the bathroom, and when you want privacy when menstruating and/ or ill, it's perfect.
    Also, with mobility issues, I can have mine adapted without bothering the rest of the family with my equipment.
    I'm in the UK though... so a bathroom this size is for royalty and billionaires. 😂😂😂

  • @novocaine223
    @novocaine223 4 месяца назад

    Sign of a happy marriage you have your space and I have mine

  • @cozydiyboutique
    @cozydiyboutique 4 месяца назад

    Could be a sign of a perfect marriage!!!

  • @andrewgoddard3350
    @andrewgoddard3350 4 месяца назад +1

    You should shower together as much as possible

  • @TorriiLove03
    @TorriiLove03 4 месяца назад

    Fantastic, you have your own privacy and own space.

  • @Marlessa98
    @Marlessa98 4 месяца назад

    Absolutely yes!

  • @deplorable_2024
    @deplorable_2024 3 месяца назад

    Great set up

  • @chica2020
    @chica2020 4 месяца назад

    I love it! Nothing wrong with this❤

  • @sakitoby1581
    @sakitoby1581 Месяц назад

    There is NO downside to separate bathrooms. It's a marriage-preserver, if you can afford it.

  • @EdugeBDroN
    @EdugeBDroN 4 месяца назад

    How big is this house?

  • @navaskyy7764
    @navaskyy7764 4 месяца назад

    Fantastic! Everybody needs their own space for men it's often times the garage and women the bathroom. Also, if you have the money, why not?

  • @pacifiquekwizera1521
    @pacifiquekwizera1521 4 месяца назад +1

    Nah man, one thing that I always look forward is to see my wife showering. Damn it, it ain’t happening if we got two showers

  • @patrick014
    @patrick014 4 месяца назад

    My wife has her bathroom in our bedroom, and I have three other bathrooms-one upstairs, one in the basement, and one in the garage. 100% happy wife, happy life.

  • @enoughalready45
    @enoughalready45 3 месяца назад

    We use separate bathrooms, originally because he smoked and I hate the smell of steam and smoke. I think it is a great thing for a marriage 😊

  • @HollisterDenimDress
    @HollisterDenimDress 2 месяца назад

    Separate bathrooms is the greatest marriage investment.

  • @edwindelgado8775
    @edwindelgado8775 3 месяца назад +1

    In NY you would pay $4.000 a month just for the bathroom

  • @fuqit88
    @fuqit88 4 месяца назад

    SEPERATE BATHROOMS ARE PERFECT!

  • @bassfan41
    @bassfan41 3 месяца назад

    damn, how much square footage and counter space you need? I'm not a fan of having toilets out in the wide open. Like it better when it in a closet of its own

  • @zPersius
    @zPersius 3 месяца назад

    God, I wish... separate bedrooms would be even better. Maybe even separate houses, in separate states.

  • @rachel031404
    @rachel031404 4 месяца назад

    Only good things lol 💯 support this

  • @peep_show8037
    @peep_show8037 4 месяца назад

    Thats a cool idea and all but i don’t see the putter or tv for his toilet

  • @0nillevass
    @0nillevass 3 месяца назад

    We'll have separate bathrooms when the kids move out. Cannot wait!

  • @alihaiderfarooq007
    @alihaiderfarooq007 4 месяца назад

    Fantastic marriage ❤️

  • @darian.the.barbarian
    @darian.the.barbarian 4 месяца назад

    Having breathing room makes every relationship last. Sharing everything is really cute for about one year and afterward is just annoying. If you have to money to do it, you definitely should imo

  • @aaaaaaaaaa697
    @aaaaaaaaaa697 Месяц назад

    It doesn’t matter how big and separated it is. Unless there is a deadbolt on that door, her garbage will end up in your bathroom boys.

  • @CANA_PR
    @CANA_PR Месяц назад

    Brilliant 💯
    One day when I grow up, I want to be rich 🤑 like you 😅
    In my house, family of 6 we have to share one bathroom 5x7 😅

  • @user-st9oq1zy3f
    @user-st9oq1zy3f 4 месяца назад

    Yup, don’t see the issue with this at all. I hate sharing a bathroom and closet, so separate bathrooms and closets was a nonnegotiable.

  • @managerof3monsters
    @managerof3monsters 3 месяца назад

    If you’ve got money like that, you shouldn’t have any big problems in life, especially your marriage.

  • @janemendenhall7583
    @janemendenhall7583 2 месяца назад

    I love it🎉

  • @P4u1_08
    @P4u1_08 4 месяца назад

    This is the “we wanna be divorced but would feel bad for out kids” setup, if there was love in this marriage they would shower together, sorry not sorry, this just says they don’t love eachother 😂

  • @nray349
    @nray349 4 месяца назад

    This I love. I don’t want to smell his number 2 when I need to shower or get ready or if I just woke up n need to shower. This is genius to me lol

  • @Otho1001
    @Otho1001 4 месяца назад

    Have a feeling there’s very little happiness in a place like this. Big no thanks!

  • @mattmathematics3591
    @mattmathematics3591 4 месяца назад

    Ok everyone is different ig but one of those showers would be perfect for me and misus we love doing stuff together. Plus if u have kids its one of the few moments you have together ;)

  • @MsNobelle
    @MsNobelle 4 месяца назад

    Naw. I would rather use the space for something else. I have no problem sharing a bathroom

  • @OCKymberly
    @OCKymberly 4 месяца назад

    This is how you stay married.😂😂😂

  • @BryanL1982
    @BryanL1982 3 месяца назад

    I left a company to start my own business the last project I worked on had a master suite for the man and woman

  • @Sketchbook999
    @Sketchbook999 2 месяца назад

    Many couples actually sleep seperately

  • @theotheralan5511
    @theotheralan5511 3 месяца назад

    I like it. You don't see many custom homes with a lot of thought and detail put into the restroom. Most bathrooms in million dollar and up homes look roughly equivalent to the bathroom in my trailer. 😂

  • @red.heifer
    @red.heifer 4 месяца назад

    I love this and understand this

  • @davep4240
    @davep4240 3 месяца назад

    That’s called winning

  • @scoobydoo5447
    @scoobydoo5447 3 месяца назад

    If you can afford to have a “his” and “hers” bathroom, it can only help your marriage.

  • @TaxTheChurches.
    @TaxTheChurches. 3 месяца назад

    Fantastic.

  • @skeinofadifferentcolor2090
    @skeinofadifferentcolor2090 4 месяца назад

    Definitely not signs of a failing marriage. If we had the resources I would have my own bathroom as well, and you wouldn't see a shower, rather you would see a delicious soaking bathtub.

  • @tlove5288
    @tlove5288 3 месяца назад

    No thanks, I'm not cleaning two tubs/shower/toilets!

  • @muh-reeasmr7515
    @muh-reeasmr7515 3 месяца назад

    Oh me and my boyfriend have separate bathrooms and it's the best. We have our own spaces but can join in each other's if we want.

  • @lydiaajohnson
    @lydiaajohnson 3 месяца назад

    I just wonder why the bathrooms have so much wasted space. Looks like they built two bathrooms in the square footage space of four.

  • @tinaf600
    @tinaf600 4 месяца назад

    I keep telling my husband I want us to have a three-bedroom house where I get my own bathroom lol😂

  • @jamesnichols7507
    @jamesnichols7507 4 месяца назад

    When building any issue can be solved with enough square footage but not enough sq ft can solve marriage issues. For her side with all of that sq ft I saw no makeup vanity so she is alway standing.

    • @MaryJane-zw5pv
      @MaryJane-zw5pv 4 месяца назад

      Rich people don't do their makeup in the bathroom. They generally have a separate vanity/makeup station from what I have seen anyways.

  • @benquackenbush3336
    @benquackenbush3336 4 месяца назад

    Fantastic

  • @mistert7958
    @mistert7958 3 месяца назад

    I'd rather have that fifth bedroom.

  • @Yaslovezz
    @Yaslovezz 3 месяца назад

    I mean if I ever got remarried I want separate houses. I dont really like people 😂😂😂😂.

  • @Delisosrotties
    @Delisosrotties 4 месяца назад

    I’d love a private bathroom. 😂

  • @PeaBraine
    @PeaBraine 4 месяца назад

    They’re probably two very much type A personalities that want their stuff certain ways not being interfered by the other.

  • @t7710-e2q
    @t7710-e2q 4 месяца назад

    one of those bathrooms is the same size as some studio apartments

  • @LaraDeLozier-hd9vb
    @LaraDeLozier-hd9vb 2 месяца назад

    Nope. Best marriage ever, I’m sure 😂🎉

  • @swatzinatorhanselhoff7858
    @swatzinatorhanselhoff7858 4 месяца назад

    Good for marriage i say

  • @fimbulsummer
    @fimbulsummer 4 месяца назад

    Wow. My entire apartment is the size of their bedroom.

  • @matthewp1682
    @matthewp1682 3 месяца назад

    Thats amazing. His bathroom will always be spotless and hers will be an extreme mess

  • @codymuckerheide5773
    @codymuckerheide5773 3 месяца назад

    Why the hell would you ever need a shower that big for one person lol my wife and our shower is pretty big, not quiet this big but there is a shower head on each side with its own controls so if we need to both shower at the same time we can, this is just wasteful of space

  • @LongPeter
    @LongPeter 4 месяца назад

    Each of those bathrooms is larger than my house.

  • @treniqwakirk4210
    @treniqwakirk4210 4 месяца назад

    Perfect coming from a homemaker

  • @hanyhash2218
    @hanyhash2218 2 месяца назад

    Fantastic!

  • @KandiNicoleARISE
    @KandiNicoleARISE 2 месяца назад

    A separate room is the sign not bathroom