Minimalist Baby Gear Haul || Preparing For Our First Child

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  • Опубликовано: 17 июн 2020
  • Hello!!
    In todays video I show you all the baby gear I have been gifted and collected. As Im getting closer to my due date, I have been scurrying to make sure I have all the gear I need for when the baby gets here. I tried to keep everything as minimal as possible, but we’ll see how realistic this is after the baby comes. Everything is linked below for if you’re interested in any of these products. I hope you enjoy this and get something out of it!
    GEAR ||
    Fjallraven Raven 20 Backpack Dark Olive - amzn.to/3fF8Yhz
    Pampers Sensitive Wipes - amzn.to/3ebjkFB
    Pampers Pure Diapers - amzn.to/3deG8CO
    Baby Bum Diaper Cream Applicator - amzn.to/2YEnZsY
    Desitin Diaper Cream - amzn.to/3fBOcz0
    Gathre Micro Change Mat - gathre.com/products/micro
    Oogie Bear Nose Cleaner - amzn.to/30T0C1G
    Nasal Aspirator - amzn.to/2YaAaid
    Gripe Water - amzn.to/3fDyBir
    Kyte Baby Ring Sling in Driftwood - amzn.to/30PVMC2
    Ergo Baby Embrace Carrier - amzn.to/30VMZP5
    Dr Browns Anti-Colic Bottle - amzn.to/37HTFBY
    Philips Avent Bottle - amzn.to/37G3yjf
    Tommy Tippy Bottle - amzn.to/3fzOLtn
    Medela Calma Bottle - amzn.to/3d8eAPv
    Medela Harmony Manual Breast Pump - amzn.to/3edgPSS
    Hakka Breast Pump - amzn.to/37E5l8u
    Wooden Bottle Brush - amzn.to/2YHshje
    Thermoflask Insulated Water Bottle - amzn.to/3hCwRbg
    Philips Avent Bottle Warmer - amzn.to/3hCvIAi
    Boon Bottle Drying Rack - amzn.to/2UXr7zc
    Cink Silicon Baby Bib - www.cinkshop.com/product-page...
    Copper Pearl Swaddle - amzn.to/30Y84sp
    Anna&Eve Swaddle - amzn.to/2N6n1R1
    Burts Bees Babe Towel - amzn.to/30QQI0h
    Tushy Towel Wash Cloth - hellotushy.com/products/bidet...
    Burts Bees Baby Lotion - amzn.to/2YQC7j4
    Wotnot All Natural Baby Wash - www.naturalhomeco.com.au/prod...
    Live Clean Baby Oil - amzn.to/3fwOkzY
    Chibello Hair Brush Set - amzn.to/2UVptOp
    Duck Thermometer - www.bedbathandbeyond.ca/store...
    Silicon Toothbrush - amzn.to/3ee1v8F
    Keekaroo Peanut Change Pad in Vanilla - amzn.to/2Cj1mmr
    Ingenuity Townsend SmartBounce Automatic Bouncer
    amzn.to/2BcH3q9
    KidCo DreamPod Bassinet - www.amazon.ca/Kidco-Dream-Pod...
    Thule Sleek Stroller - amzn.to/3ef20ze
    Nuna Pipa Lite Car Seat - www.babiesrus.ca/en/Nuna-PIPA...
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    MUSIC ||
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Комментарии • 207

  • @emloufox
    @emloufox 3 года назад +48

    I loved this video! Going to be honest I was worried when I saw “minimalist” because most RUclips minimalists tend to buy very expensive products just for aesthetics it seems. This was a really practical video and you have such a cute personality!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Oh thank you!

    • @ShayleneReynolds
      @ShayleneReynolds 3 года назад +3

      Same! Everyone is recommending $300+ items 😂 I love this channel because it’s minimalist AND financially mindful 🙌

  • @Dancer5617
    @Dancer5617 3 года назад +17

    I preferred the Medela hand pump+hakkaa combo over my electric pump! Less parts to clean, surprisingly faster, and I could do it wherever without being tied to an outlet

  • @amazev2710
    @amazev2710 3 года назад +43

    I’m due on December and I can’t wait to finally be able to see and hold my baby 💓

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +2

      Oh I’m so excited for you!

    • @soulacious1438
      @soulacious1438 3 года назад +2

      Awwh Congratulations🥺🖤 I’m due in January with a baby boy

    • @11alliLo
      @11alliLo 3 года назад +1

      due Dec aswell! congrats!

    • @melanieelise5992
      @melanieelise5992 3 года назад +1

      I’m due in December also!!!

    • @tapangawest6550
      @tapangawest6550 3 года назад +2

      I’m due in December as well!!!!!!😍

  • @kirstieandfamily7175
    @kirstieandfamily7175 4 года назад +5

    I'm having a baby girl next month I know the feeling when you're getting so close! love the videos.

  • @normallynika6087
    @normallynika6087 3 года назад

    Thanks for being on RUclips!! Your videos are very helpful and practical 🥰

  • @isims2010
    @isims2010 4 года назад +2

    I loved this! Also loved how long it was! Thanks for posting.

  • @rmashers
    @rmashers 3 года назад

    I love how cost conscious you are! Yay minimalism!

  • @Cherylife
    @Cherylife 4 года назад +4

    Love this 💜

  • @celosamilochomil
    @celosamilochomil 3 года назад +5

    I'm 38 weeks tomorrow! Super excited to meet my little princess ❤️

  • @nikkiperdiz7058
    @nikkiperdiz7058 4 года назад +8

    Would love to see how you set up the babies room and dresser, or how you store their clothes. Maybe also a video on organization ideas for a small space?

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 года назад +2

      Totally! I’ll be coming out with something along those lines soon!

  • @sammiespat3029
    @sammiespat3029 3 года назад

    This is like literally the best video I watched so far...

  • @janebyrne6585
    @janebyrne6585 3 года назад +4

    I saw in the comments you wanted to use cloth. It is totally overwhelming to look at to begin with. If you look up “the nappy guru” you can do a questionnaire which recommends cloth to suit you. Get a couple and if it doesn’t work you can sell them on for practically the same price. Remember that it isn’t all or nothing and just using one a day saves 500 nappies from a landfill.
    You are going to be amazing and your “see how it goes” attitude is really going to benefit you as a new mum. Everything is trial and error xxxxx

    • @ruthfindlay6743
      @ruthfindlay6743 3 года назад

      I really thought you were talking about an online questionnaire. But this appears to be a sales questionnaire where you are given a personalized answer. I would love an automated questionnaire that wouldn't make me feel guilty wasting someone's time when I'm not going to buy their product.

    • @janebyrne6585
      @janebyrne6585 3 года назад

      Ruth Findlay - yeah, they email personally; they seem passionate about cloth so I don’t think they would be upset about you gathering info and shopping elsewhere! Xx

  • @ancanedelcu4508
    @ancanedelcu4508 3 года назад +1

    Lovely time!

  • @nourishingsun6321
    @nourishingsun6321 3 года назад +4

    Water bottle for yourself was smart! Sometimes we forget about taking care of Mom. ☀️ Heidi

  • @jessicabulloch5302
    @jessicabulloch5302 3 года назад +1

    Love it, so much fun getting ready for baby. I have watched some of your newer vlogs, your little guy is very sweet. I'm a mom to 8 kids and essentials for me where cloth diaps. and slings and carriers of all sorts. I have found ergo , Lila baby, boba wrap etc. All second hand. I had to laugh about the nose cleaner for 26$ I've never heard of that. I just would use a warm wash cloth or a q tip. I'm curious if you used the nose cleaner.

  • @kardancer1
    @kardancer1 3 года назад +4

    You should definitely try the Pamper’s Pure Aqua Pure Wipes. It looks like you got the Pampers Sensitive which are great but the Pampers Aqua Pure are Amazing and meant to coordinate with the Pampers Pure Diapers. We love the Pampers Pure line.

  • @kakprisca5865
    @kakprisca5865 3 года назад +1

    I just wait till may. . . Can't wait 💕🥰🥰

  • @Morgsthesahm
    @Morgsthesahm 3 года назад

    This video was SO helpful 💛

  • @anaw3929
    @anaw3929 4 года назад +2

    Our duck works already almost year)) Pampers pure the best 👍🏻 but also we using Charlie Banana at home, so nice cloth diapers! About Ergobaby, we had black first also, but in the desert gray one thick is the best option for you and for baby, so we got original and Omni360, it’s not so hot in there. About swaddlers SwaddleMe is nice (transition ones) if you want spend less, after 5-6 months we stopped swaddle and easy went to wearable blanket that much more safe.

  • @agnieszkabecker5689
    @agnieszkabecker5689 4 года назад +1

    Have you heard of the puj tub? When we had H we didn’t have space for a baby tub and it was a huge help.

  • @alexandracorder3367
    @alexandracorder3367 3 года назад +9

    36 weeks tomorrow which means baby could come whenever, I’m so excited. :) were cloth diapering and I’m nervous to see how that goes but the days are going by so slow

  • @marisakaye2224
    @marisakaye2224 2 года назад +1

    I’m currently pregnant (just like you now in ‘22 😄) almost 13 weeks. My biggest struggle has been picking a stroller/car seat. Did this stroller/car seat meet your expectations & do you plan on continuing to use with the new baby.

  • @TheKimani33
    @TheKimani33 3 года назад

    I LOVE that you thrift shop! I try to get nearly everything we purchase (besides food) 2nd hand. Lots of baby stuff will have to be new but I'll def be buying 2nd hand too.

    • @corinatralala2556
      @corinatralala2556 3 года назад

      Want to do that as well....and ask around in my family.

  • @ashleynoble2880
    @ashleynoble2880 4 года назад

    I've seen so many vids that talk about drying racks and i always wondered why it was a necessity. Thanks for not making the assumption that we know why. Haha. I have cats so idk what im going to do about a drying rack and floating hair

  • @joleneelizabeth6268
    @joleneelizabeth6268 3 года назад

    Due November 10th and this video really helped me to feel calm and content that we have what we need ❤️

  • @mariahallender8874
    @mariahallender8874 3 года назад +2

    Hello bello wipes are the best! I love them there all I use

  • @demirintjema1362
    @demirintjema1362 3 года назад

    When you made your own swaddles from fabricland, how much fabric did you buy for each one?? Thank you so much!!

  • @ashleynoble2880
    @ashleynoble2880 4 года назад +9

    The Thule stroller is great. My brother works for that co and my mom said she's going to get me a stroller from there. Yeah...not pregnant. Lol

  • @RoseVampireGirl4
    @RoseVampireGirl4 3 года назад +2

    Im due march 31st! And im so excited! This video helps!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +1

      Congrats! March is coming up so soon!

    • @johannamcc96
      @johannamcc96 3 года назад +1

      Hope your birth/labor goes well!

  • @Tenshigram
    @Tenshigram 3 года назад +6

    The best diaper cream
    Of all time is....wait for it....sudocrem. It is magic. I have 3 kids so I should know.

    • @ilonakat9379
      @ilonakat9379 3 года назад

      I have read and heard corn flour is great also.

    • @NatalieJM4
      @NatalieJM4 3 года назад

      Yes! I’ve tried so many things, then I went to England and bought sudocrem and fell in love! I get one every time I’m there

  • @Thelilmissbz
    @Thelilmissbz 4 года назад

    I love your glasses! Congrats on your bundle of joy on the way! Btw love hello bello prenatals they taste SO good!!! I am due in Nov. actually between thanksgiving and the 30th, I’m in between that 4 days haha 😆 anyway, congrats again! Praying for a great delivery/recovery!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! It’s so nice having other pregnant women to go on this journey with! Good luck with your babe on the way!

    • @TinasEZrecipes
      @TinasEZrecipes 3 года назад

      Im due thanksgiving day!!!!

  • @Hot8903
    @Hot8903 3 года назад

    Wondering if the baby pillow helped? I put the same one on my registry my brother got a flat head when he was a baby so i wanted to get this pillow to avoid that

  • @k8linwhite327
    @k8linwhite327 3 года назад

    Hi Ashley, is this the video you said ur mother thrifted burp cloths ? If so what did she use? What material are they made from

  • @jenniesmythe8188
    @jenniesmythe8188 3 года назад +9

    insurance may cover an electric pump. check !!!
    Nothing wrong with manual some ppl love it

    • @ashleyackerman7590
      @ashleyackerman7590 3 года назад +3

      I used my insurance for the free electric pump and the hospital gave me a free manual. I actually sold the electric one and loved my manual more!

  • @melanieelise5992
    @melanieelise5992 3 года назад

    I’m due December 17, this helped me! I’m a first time mom and just keep watching videos trying to get suggestions lol

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +1

      Awesome! Congrats on the baby 💛

  • @AnuschkavanDijke
    @AnuschkavanDijke 4 года назад +19

    I would recommend to any new mom to be, not to buy stuff beforehand. Wait and see what your baby needs. People tell you you need stuff that may applied to their baby, but isn't essential to your baby's needs. And borrow stuff to try it out first. Things like bouncy chairs, carriers, etc. Baby might hate them. Some babies do. Borrowing items, trying out what worked for my baby and then purchasing if I needed it, saved me loads of money.

    • @ruthfindlay6743
      @ruthfindlay6743 3 года назад

      Totally agree, especially if you know you'll have a good baby shower. It doesn't have to be expensive. Anything you're not sure about, borrow ahead of time if at all possible.
      This did backfire for me in terms of carriers. I wish I had at least an idea of what and where to purchase one ahead of time, instead of listening to the advice, wait to see what your baby likes, took me more than 2 months to get something and almost 5 months before I got something that was ergonomic and worked for the whole family. (thrift store miracle, 3 carriers at $25 total including an infantino, a mei tai and a ergobaby360.) At 2 months i finally found a local carrier group that had a selection to try on and test, I would recommend finding a group while you're pregnant.
      On that note, join new mom groups when you're pregnant and you might find people to borrow from and great insight.

  • @AnuschkavanDijke
    @AnuschkavanDijke 4 года назад +1

    I preferred the manual pump in the early days of breastfeeding. Cos I was sore. Like, a lot. And the electric pump started off way too harsh, making me cringe. With manual pump I was able to start off very very softly. And it was also quiet enough to use close to the baby after she fed and was dozing off.

  • @barlevi2045
    @barlevi2045 4 года назад +3

    Stokke bath is really good you should check it out.

  • @pamelacarney4595
    @pamelacarney4595 3 года назад +2

    Best thing for a rash is changing immediately and bathing and airdry

  • @mariettemayisa
    @mariettemayisa 3 года назад +6

    Why do I feel like when the baby is born all the extra stuff like putting the drying rack in the cupboard and hand pumping milk will go out of the window, lol.

  • @sophyamiranda1719
    @sophyamiranda1719 3 года назад

    Triple paste is awesome! Its a bit pricey but my daughter had super sensitive skin and the brand triple paste was amazing

  • @ShayBeKillnEm
    @ShayBeKillnEm 4 года назад +5

    The diaper rash cream applicator is a life saver. I even bought a mini one from amazon for my diaper bag. I used it with my last baby and I’m due in a few weeks and I’ll be using it again.

  • @amberlancaster7055
    @amberlancaster7055 3 года назад +8

    Hi minimalist mama of soon to be 3! I’m a little surprised you didn’t go with cloth diapers and wipes. No judgment was just surprised. Also those butt spatula is the best thing on the planet! I have 2 per kid 🤣 1 for changing around the house and 1 for the diaper bag. I just don’t want the same spatula on different cheeks 😅 also insurance might cover an electric pump.

  • @savagecabbage7781
    @savagecabbage7781 3 года назад +6

    I'm 17 weeks and haven't bought anything yet. My family keeps talking about all the stuff they're going to buy so we are waiting to see what they get.

    • @IraG0427
      @IraG0427 3 года назад

      Same😁

    • @JA-xv3qp
      @JA-xv3qp 3 года назад

      Nice tactic! I’m only 5 weeks and I’m in research mode haha

  • @KamoreeLove
    @KamoreeLove 3 года назад +1

    Thank you fir the great idea with the swaddles I do the same for my head wraps with fabric from hobbie lobby didn’t think for swaddles 🥰

  • @Erinraewellness
    @Erinraewellness 4 года назад +1

    Did you have any feelings about what you were having? I'm due in Jan. and we aren't finding out until birth :)

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 года назад +1

      I always thought it was a boy, but it was less of a motherly instinct and more of a wish

  • @matthewcheatham3850
    @matthewcheatham3850 4 года назад +1

    Congratulations to you and your family you look absolutely stunning beautiful gorgeous what brand of diapers are you going to use

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 года назад +1

      Thank you! So far our favourite is Huggies Special Delivery

  • @thuyrannosaurus
    @thuyrannosaurus 3 года назад

    Great idea on making your own swaddle! What fabric did you pick? The burnt orange fabric looks exactly like the Max and Moose one I have in my registry and it’s $45! I would love to see your video on how you make your play mat because I purchased one from value village but it doesn’t have enough cushion for the baby. I love and appreciate your content girl, I am due February 2021 and it’s really helping me minimize my registry and expectations because this baby thing is overwhelming and expensive! Thank you! I keep thinking to myself, back in the day they didn’t need cribs or bassinets they used a dresser drawer or a Moses basket. My have we evolved into something completely different lol.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +1

      Hello! For the swaddle I don’t remember exactly what the fabric blend was, I think it was mostly cotton with some spandex. I mostly went on feel, stretchy and soft. I know, swaddles can be SO expensive! I’ll be coming out with a video soon talking about how I made the play mat so watch out for that. Congratulations on the pregnancy! Baby gear can definitely be overwhelming so I’m glad I can help 😊

    • @thuyrannosaurus
      @thuyrannosaurus 3 года назад

      @@AshleyEmbers thank you !! 🥰

  • @yuppers530
    @yuppers530 3 года назад

    Did you check to see if insurance will pay for a pump. You might have one at this point but you could maybe submit the bill for reimbursement.

  • @katjacornucopia
    @katjacornucopia 4 года назад +10

    When you are at home, just wash your baby's butt in the sink with water and dry with a towel. It helps the most against diaper rash, as well as keeping them naked from time to time. Plus is the most efficient.
    The first month you should give a sponge bath and not bathe, according to the doctors and midwives in Germany. And then for months you can use water with no detergent. Babies are not really dirty.
    The nose sucker and pucker are not useful. The sucker powered by the vacuum is the most efficient.
    If you would be doing baby led weaning, that bib is also useless. Just do it in a diaper only.
    Babies can be fed through various devices, such as a spoon or a cup, just in case.

    • @ruthfindlay6743
      @ruthfindlay6743 3 года назад +2

      Totally agree with all of this.
      I do EC occasionally so we're in the bathroom a lot and the sink is so convenient. Wipe them off with toilet paper or a baby cloth, hose them down in the sink and dry them with their towel. I haven't used wipes for months.
      I live in a hot climate and my baby spends a lot of time in diapers. During meals he eats with no bib and then gets hosed off in the shower.
      My pediatrician recommended cup feeding and I've realized that even though its easier to leave a bottle with a babysitter, your breastfed baby never needs to learn to use a bottle. Cup, spoon, syringe, etc. All viable options.
      Also, I loved my manual pump. I was an exclusive breastfeeder, so I wasn't going to buy a pump, but I had trouble the first week and bought the cheapest option, manual, to help draw out milk. I was so surprised that it was super efficient for me. If you practice and as your milk comes in, you can hand express as well. It will seem impossible at the beginning, but it will get easier and great for an exclusive breastfeeder who don't want to buy more than just a hakka.

  • @kamiifae
    @kamiifae 3 года назад +2

    Off topic but your curls are amazing.

  • @elliemccarthy5672
    @elliemccarthy5672 3 года назад +1

    Check out water wipes! They a legit have nothing in them besides water and a drop of fruit extract! Love them for myself too hahaha

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Oh yeah I’ve heard they’re good! I’m currently using hello hello wipes because I like they have a top that actually closes ☺️

  • @leighreynolds8648
    @leighreynolds8648 3 года назад +1

    I heard the Medula pump maybe covered by insurance. Check it out!

  • @kitaaallen9297
    @kitaaallen9297 3 года назад +1

    Came here for the minimalism and you hit me with a bottle warmer

  • @annuliikoo275
    @annuliikoo275 3 года назад +4

    What part of this video is minimalism?

  • @auroraautumn8764
    @auroraautumn8764 3 года назад +1

    Focusing on the essentials
    Crib, crib mattress, pack n play (portable for Grandma or when I’m in the kitchen), stroller, car seat.
    A few pieces of clothing and towels.
    Everything else, I’ll buy if I need.
    I’m in the US and I’ve seen my clients receive tons of goodies from the hospital (diapers, diaper cream, formula and clothing).
    Also, I don’t know if baby will wear newborn or 0-3 months.
    I’m keeping all my receipts and only shop from stores where I can return/exchange 60 or 90 days later.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Wow you have such a great plan set out!

  • @bostonbound2323
    @bostonbound2323 3 года назад +11

    It's cute how within the first 5 min you can tell she's a first time mom.

  • @ashlypeeples
    @ashlypeeples 3 года назад +2

    Lol my name is Ashly, and my husband’s name is Josh. I call him Joshee🥰 how ironic and i’m about to have a babyboy December 1st or sooner. But I already have 3 kids, 1 girl and two boys.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +1

      Oh my, so many similarities! Good luck with your pregnancy!

  • @Devonshire27
    @Devonshire27 3 года назад

    Some health insurance companies will cover the cost (or some of the cost) of a breast pump (durable medical equipment). Might be worth looking into.

  • @JS-xz7go
    @JS-xz7go 3 года назад

    You can get the oogiebear in the buybuybaby registry box for free just pay shipping. I bought one on Amazon and then got one in my registry box

  • @MissGhostface
    @MissGhostface 3 года назад

    I have the SAME EXACT hair as you!!! I need your hair routine/products! 😍😍😍

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      I have a couple videos on the topic!

  • @elephantcarnal
    @elephantcarnal 3 года назад

    Huggies wipes are 10x better. They are thicker and take less wipes to clean messes

  • @anamee5290
    @anamee5290 3 года назад +1

    Oh I hope we can afford the basics for our baby due in May. Our business has been closed since the pandemic since march so we haven't had income since then...😱

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry this year has been so hard on you 💛

    • @anamee5290
      @anamee5290 3 года назад

      @@AshleyEmbers that's sweet thank you! Just financially hard. We are healthy and having the best gift of a baby so we are over the moon!❤️

  • @yuenath
    @yuenath 3 года назад

    i already had my baby a month ago but i really enjoyed listening to you talk about the process you went through with slowly accumulating the stuff you needed; i ended up super hesitate on what to get because this is my second and i knew how different babies were.. and now i'm like buying everything at once lol, for example, i needed like a whole bunch set of burp cloths because my daughter spits up and pukes no matter what
    i also really wish and still want the nuna combo but it's currently out of my budget and i'm manifesting a blessing to get it lol

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +1

      Yeah there’s definitely advantages and drawbacks to over preparing. It’s nice to have everything ready but you don’t know if you need it all. Also watch out for sales! I got my nuna 20% off!

  • @catherineok
    @catherineok 3 года назад +3

    is that what pregnancy hair looks like............ sign me up

  • @Desibfit4life
    @Desibfit4life 4 года назад

    Amazon has a breast pump I believe it’s called the Bella pump it’s top rated and only 59.99 I am a first time mom and was going to get that just to have on hand even though I do plan on breast feeding.

    • @doyouhearthepeoplesing2
      @doyouhearthepeoplesing2 4 года назад

      Dont breastfeed your baby will never get enough to eat and will end up malnurished or even dead

    • @goddessflower4018
      @goddessflower4018 3 года назад

      @@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 false.

    • @doyouhearthepeoplesing2
      @doyouhearthepeoplesing2 3 года назад

      @@goddessflower4018 true

    • @emilie2667
      @emilie2667 3 года назад

      @@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 that’s completely false. Whiles some women do have problems and can’t produce enough, most can feed their babies fine.

  • @user-ul2mw6fu2e
    @user-ul2mw6fu2e 3 года назад

    i am from azerbaija.i like your videos

  • @elizabethdacosta1182
    @elizabethdacosta1182 3 года назад

    Okay so im sad to say i bought a bunch of this stuff and i dont use alot of it.. The oogie boogie my baby hates and seems traumatized whenever i use it. My biggest regret.. Besides the baby bullet.. Lol new moms get taken so hard! Haha

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Oh I’m so sorry that didn’t work for you! I definitely also bought some stuff I thought I would use, but I didn’t

  • @sherryemiller
    @sherryemiller 3 года назад +1

    Pampers really sucks. We use hello bello but huggies lil swaddlers is my favorite

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Yeah, pampers ended up not working for us. We're loving huggies for diapers and Hellp Bello wipes.

  • @christinemanuelsson9580
    @christinemanuelsson9580 3 года назад

    Dunno why I’m watching this now, but the backpack is pronounced kinda like “fjellreven”, and it roughly translates to “the Arctic fox” 🥰

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +1

      Thank you! Also that’s such a cool meaning

  • @meaghanchasse3845
    @meaghanchasse3845 3 года назад

    I hope you bought a sound machine 😬

  • @JC-it5wd
    @JC-it5wd 3 года назад +1

    My baby grew up of the nuna car seat at four months😭

    • @SaltyTribeCo
      @SaltyTribeCo 3 года назад +1

      J C wow really?! My 8 month old is still in his and with plenty of room! He’s not tiny either 😂

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      thats crazy!

  • @dilekmahmutoglu8944
    @dilekmahmutoglu8944 3 года назад

    Well I am not trying to be negative dont get me wrong but some of the items looked like you wouldnt need for a very long time to me :) But ofc if it made you feel good to buy thats ok

  • @hoops876
    @hoops876 4 года назад

    Have you thought about cloth nappies?

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 года назад +1

      I have! I didn’t want to feel overwhelmed with motherhood so I’m holding off considering it

    • @doyouhearthepeoplesing2
      @doyouhearthepeoplesing2 4 года назад +1

      Cloth nappies are disgusting and unhygenic

    • @cloudedcolour5329
      @cloudedcolour5329 3 года назад +2

      @@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 no actually they're not they get washed just like your clothes do so unless you don't wash clothes or are a nudist, they're no different.

    • @doyouhearthepeoplesing2
      @doyouhearthepeoplesing2 3 года назад

      @@cloudedcolour5329 they are very different clothes dont have urine and feaces all over them that harbers bacteria

    • @daisyd392
      @daisyd392 3 года назад +3

      @@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 as do most baby clothing

  • @genevieveemond843
    @genevieveemond843 4 года назад +8

    I want an update on this
    Tell me how much useless stuff you got!

  • @macigilbeau3988
    @macigilbeau3988 3 года назад

    Your insurance should cover a pump!!!

    • @macigilbeau3988
      @macigilbeau3988 3 года назад

      But I am a breast feeding mom, and I don’t use my electric I got. I just use my haaka

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Mine doesn’t cover it, but I’m also hoping I would even need one

  • @NannyMcPhi
    @NannyMcPhi 3 года назад

    your insurance gives you a free electric pump. some insurance companies even give the medela one

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Mine doesn’t!

    • @NannyMcPhi
      @NannyMcPhi 3 года назад

      @@AshleyEmbers really?! thats how my sister got her pump, she had healthfirst though I think

  • @priscillasojo1857
    @priscillasojo1857 3 года назад +1

    Im 33 weeks and i have avoided to buy anything!!!

  • @simcerity
    @simcerity 3 года назад +7

    it seems like really NOT minimalistic gear :DD but thanks for ideas

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +3

      Hahaha I feel like it is compared to others! But since then, I’ve noted what items I didn’t end up using. It’s in my Newborn Gear Regrets video if you’re interested

    • @simcerity
      @simcerity 3 года назад

      @@AshleyEmbers thanks a lot! ❤️

  • @mirelamuresan2125
    @mirelamuresan2125 3 года назад

    Health insurances companies tends to cover brest pump

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Mine doesn’t!

    • @mirelamuresan2125
      @mirelamuresan2125 3 года назад

      @@AshleyEmbers
      K the only reason I know is because other youtuber mentioned it in their video so I thought I would like to share

  • @MrsAmberSearle
    @MrsAmberSearle 4 года назад

    Hey! Not sure if you already know this or not but I figured I'd share this just in case. Most health insurances will cover the cost of a breast pump for you. :) CONGRATS on the baby!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 года назад

      Mine doesn’t, but thanks!

    • @MrsAmberSearle
      @MrsAmberSearle 4 года назад

      @@AshleyEmbers aw sorry to hear that! I'm sure the manual one will work out great 😊

    • @doyouhearthepeoplesing2
      @doyouhearthepeoplesing2 4 года назад

      Use formula and a bottle breast milk is bad for a babies

    • @MrsAmberSearle
      @MrsAmberSearle 4 года назад +2

      @@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 I'm not sure where you're getting that information but you're incorrect. There is nothing wrong with breastfeeding or formula feeding.

    • @doyouhearthepeoplesing2
      @doyouhearthepeoplesing2 4 года назад

      @@MrsAmberSearle ruclips.net/video/H9mgCvja-L8/видео.html thats what breast milk does to your kids teeth 1000s of babies have also died because of breastfeeding and not getting any milk

  • @anamarijamartincic5296
    @anamarijamartincic5296 3 года назад

    Pampers are natural? Since when??

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      They make a specific cleaner version 😊

  • @AnuschkavanDijke
    @AnuschkavanDijke 4 года назад

    The silicone bib remark cracks me up. So that food doesn't end up everywhere. Food WILL end up everywhere, unless feeding toddler inside a plastic tent. I preferred fabric bibs so they could double as wipes for quick food drop/dribble catches. For play mat I used a yoga mat. You'll find out why wipeable surfaces on play mats are ideal ;) Never used a drying rack, bottle brush or bottle heater. I used a pot, cooked water, boiled bottle clean and let them air dry on a clean towel that was new, wasn't used for anything else, and only washed with non perfumed detergent. For teeth, you can use waterwipes as well. I preferred those wipes, since they can be used for face, teethe and bum. We live and learn, hahahaha.

  • @RIOTinyourface
    @RIOTinyourface 3 года назад +1

    I’m probably late but if you have health ins you can get a breast pump for free. At least in America. I’m new here and your accent sounds Canadian so it might not be relevant to you lol

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      I am Canadian! Good ear. Yeah I don’t have insurance for a pump 😄

  • @aidamontanez1708
    @aidamontanez1708 3 года назад +1

    FYI.... you can get an electric breast pump for free through your insurance company.

  • @jeaniebean5989
    @jeaniebean5989 3 года назад +3

    What you've bought isn't what I would call minimalist but good video.

  • @sammarshall604
    @sammarshall604 3 года назад +1

    Why would a minimalist have a diaper cream applicator 😂

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад +4

      Minimalist are people who keep what is essential to them. Essentials are different for everyone. Being a first time mom, I thought it would be an essential

  • @roxannawhittaker-lewis1707
    @roxannawhittaker-lewis1707 3 года назад +1

    Minimalist?

  • @naizamariezhyrhyzes
    @naizamariezhyrhyzes 3 года назад

    It's better to cupfeed your baby rather than using bottles if you want to successfuly breastfeed your baby.

  • @sah7456
    @sah7456 4 года назад

    Wannabe LoeppkysLife much 😂 lol you look exactly like her. Also if you’re trying to be more natural then disposable diapers aren’t the way at all. Especially not pampers lol. Try a more hybrid option of cloth diaper, like gDiapers. They offer both cloth and disposable flushable inserts. But the inserts are more biodegradable if you don’t want to do laundry as much. I’m cringing at the diaper genie. So bad for the environment girl! But I applaud you for you effort.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 года назад +12

      I love LoeppkysLife and if you want to be precise, I actually had the short hair and round glasses before her. Not like either of us invented this super trendy style lol. Also we should be celebrating each others efforts towards zero waste instead of tearing each other down. We’re all on our own journey. I would love to eventually try cloth diapers but I want to get a hold on motherhood first. Plus flushable inserts don’t decompose and wreck havoc on the sewer system. You’re better off just throwing them out.

    • @happycakeshappycakes6921
      @happycakeshappycakes6921 4 года назад +4

      Sa H, who hurt you?

    • @shadegarden7375
      @shadegarden7375 3 года назад

      Embers & Ash I wanted so badly to use cloth diapers! BUT, every time my newborn urinated... she woke up and cried! She could feel the wet and cold! As soon as I put her in disposable diapers, she stopped waking up! Each child is different and WILL teach/let you know what does not work for them😘

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 года назад

      Totally! 😄