How To Get Your Rebellious Loved One To Trust God | Christian Psychologist Dominic Herbst

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @LaMorena.Samara
    @LaMorena.Samara Месяц назад +1

    This is confirmation that I have heard correctly from God. I’m currently standing for my marriage which God is currently restoring, all glory be to God, but in this year or standing He has been telling me to be still and to obey Him. He has been telling me to allow Him to do the work and release my husband and marriage to Him. I’m so glad that i listened. Even when looking crazy to others for staying and fighting for my marriage, I knew God was telling me to stay and be still because He will do the rest.

  • @Salomesaville
    @Salomesaville 9 месяцев назад +2

    God knew all this pain cause He knows the future.

  • @joyofsalvation100
    @joyofsalvation100 2 года назад +7

    I've contaminated the whole process for five years and didn't work but things got worse. Now I am submitting 💯to the Lord. God showed me that I hadn't Let go and Let God 💯.

  • @debbiehamilton9771
    @debbiehamilton9771 2 года назад +5

    This was very helpful. This assured me my prayers are enough. I can't make my brother lay his sin down for the Lord to forgive him. He is tormented by evil & the manic behavior frightens me. I pray for him daily with the authority Christ gives me, to drive out his demons & to except Jesus as the way, the truth & the life our Savior.

  • @PeacefulCompositions7777
    @PeacefulCompositions7777 2 года назад +2

    This helped me to go back to resting in Him knowing that He is God in regards to my parents salvation who recently died. I didn't push them to believe, but have had resentment in my heart after they died that I never heard them confess Christ as Savior. I have to choose now to go forward with the Lord and trust that the seeds I did plant He grew in them as they were on their death bed. In other words I believe He called them as they were incoherent and reminded them of the seed of the Gospel that me and my sister planted in them. Also, I believe perhaps that if we would simply tell our own testimony to our loved ones, He takes it from there. Amen.

  • @WalkswithJESUS777
    @WalkswithJESUS777 8 месяцев назад

    Everything you are saying makes so much sense. I wish I would have kept my big mouth shut and let the LORD lead. I'm new on this journey and I'm learning so much. Thank you so much

  • @jenniferalshouse8254
    @jenniferalshouse8254 2 года назад +11

    only death breaks the marriage covenant. divorcing someone and marrying someone else is being in the state of adultery.

    • @tracyhamilton8439
      @tracyhamilton8439 Год назад +1

      I agree with you
      I stand for m’y marriage even tho he is living and in love with new woman

  • @lyndamodeste7902
    @lyndamodeste7902 2 года назад +4

    God bless you for doing this amazing work 🙏 in Jesus Christ.

  • @vickieherron6742
    @vickieherron6742 Год назад

    WOW!!!! Very eye opening. Thank you so much!

  • @elh5825
    @elh5825 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for the enlightening. The challenge is how discern the spirit, the flesh and the enemy’s voice. If you could shed some lights into this🙏🏻

  • @MihaZalar
    @MihaZalar 4 месяца назад +2

    Should we take back a spouse, when betrayed? I give it God. But I dont have yet a clear answer. I pray. God is Almighty. 🙏♾️ Amen

  • @glendagajsek-shears3890
    @glendagajsek-shears3890 Год назад

    😢💚🙏
    Wish none of us were "enemies" especially with the true loving God source Spirit Creator.
    Help us with these issues and balance...
    And where we are giving up or stepping up/back too much in knowing or not knowing what to do in and with the spirit and where we feeling lack or hopeless weak in were we should have been hope faith love balance in areas of life with Christ.😢

  • @janegriffin3872
    @janegriffin3872 11 месяцев назад

    I am more at the point of surrendering my will to God and all of this. I am at the point where I know that God has allowed this for my growth and change as well. It’s hard with my husband as he just has not wanted to talk And wants to be left alone. When he makes remarks that are critical Ior complaining, It’s hard not to react, but I’m learning and I hate to say it but it’s pushing me away and making you even question if this will work or not

  • @janegriffin3872
    @janegriffin3872 11 месяцев назад

    And yes, I am at the point more and more where I’m just praying for him that the Holy Spirit withdraw him back. He is in counseling right now with a Christian centered therapist Holy Spirit filled however, he keeps saying if he doesn’t think it’s for him anymore. I know it’s baggage from his past his childhood, his anger is so deep hurt is so apparent deep down. He doesn’t do all this either and just wants to give up. It’s almost like a midlife crisis too for him. He is 53 years old.

  • @janegriffin3872
    @janegriffin3872 11 месяцев назад

    There is such a battle with my husband right now. He has been a Christian since we’ve met, but the last five months he is totally walled up with God not wanting him personally he is just totally backed away from him so because of that too, our marriage is really suffering.

    • @StormsHurt
      @StormsHurt 9 месяцев назад

      Prayers 🙏🏽

  • @janegriffin3872
    @janegriffin3872 11 месяцев назад

    I do get it for sure.

  • @glendagajsek-shears3890
    @glendagajsek-shears3890 Год назад

    😢😔🙏💚
    Wish none of us having the issues of being rebellious towards or against the true loving God source Spirit Creator most high and the true light Christos saviour 😔
    And wish none of us were failing bad or evil against each other or getting caught up in so much mess especially in the spiritual state in a bad connection mind set or or issues and influences by negative spirits/energies been made/Choosing to fail and dying/died spiritually etc.
    Or cannot stop the rebeling and loosing the battle fall with evil surrendering issues surrendering to the true loving God or cannot 😢 when we have this issue about ourselves too...

  • @MihaZalar
    @MihaZalar 4 месяца назад

    Its not your way. Gods way is different. Trust. Pray. Let go 💯 to God, he is Almighty. 🙏♾️

  • @godsowndeploy
    @godsowndeploy 2 месяца назад

    Facts but this is useful even for a kingdom spouse who know their person and going through this as u wait.

  • @marlenewoolford4232
    @marlenewoolford4232 2 года назад +2

    Thankyou and God Bless You
    sound cut out at 29.22
    on again at 29.34
    hope I didn't miss important words

  • @tiffhamill567
    @tiffhamill567 2 года назад +5

    Great message… I like a person who knows God but he’s reading Bible the way he wants to see it. Marriage to him means government interference & a fine. I see that was never God’s intention. Couples’ families and friends have a ceremony to help keep couple committed. Am I correct? No government involvement.

  • @clairegrossman9051
    @clairegrossman9051 2 года назад +3

    How does one just separate from a rebellious spouse after 37 years marriage? Do you mean to say I just tell my husband “We need to separate to get clarity from God? “ I’m really struggling with this concept.

    • @abigaledavis1223
      @abigaledavis1223 2 года назад

      Me as well. I’m not sure that is Biblical

    • @joyofsalvation100
      @joyofsalvation100 2 года назад +3

      No. That's not what he said. He is talking about stop trying to change your spouse. Only God spirit can change. Pray for them, set boundaries if needed, let God change them. Also you work on yourself while you pray for them.

    • @PatsyPritchard-c8o
      @PatsyPritchard-c8o 8 месяцев назад +2

      Me and my husband are separated right now because God needs us to come to him and surrender everything to him. God has allowed this separation to refine us, transform us, and give us a kingdom marriage. God has delivered me from the enemy's strongholds now I am battling for my husband's soul.

  • @janegriffin3872
    @janegriffin3872 11 месяцев назад

    He also keeps saying that he thinks he’s done as far as working on our relationship.

  • @ericgiordano5678
    @ericgiordano5678 2 года назад +4

    Do you believe people can get married and remarried because I believe there has been a problem with this. Jesus spoke against marriage and remarriage about those who do it commit adultery. These are verses I’ve had for this. Matthew 5:31-32, Matthew 19:9, Mark 10:11-12, Romans 7:2-3, 1 Corinthians 7:39. I’m not saying this to attack anyone but I believe this has been something that has been not spoken in the church.

    • @ericgiordano5678
      @ericgiordano5678 2 года назад

      I’m not saying once a spouse passes away from someone they can’t marry someone else. But I believe marriage in remarriage has been an issue.

    • @Morethanrubiesprov31
      @Morethanrubiesprov31 2 года назад +2

      Only death breaks a marriage covenant!

  • @janegriffin3872
    @janegriffin3872 11 месяцев назад

    Yes spirit of fear