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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @AllAboutCarmen
    @AllAboutCarmen  3 месяца назад +3786

    we moving on to A NEW JOURNEY 🕊️🤍 also thank y’all so much for 300k 🥹🪅 I LOVE Y’ALL FROM THE BOTTOM OF NY HEART💜

    • @zariiiii
      @zariiiii 3 месяца назад +54

      Wishing u the best 🙏🏿❤️

    • @allinwithangeliciadixon32
      @allinwithangeliciadixon32 3 месяца назад +28

      Yessssss and I love this for you! Blessings to you my love! Still praying that you continue to be strong and focused stay grounded and keep God First!🙏🏽💗 Love you Carmen!🫶🏽💕🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @KDoug4
      @KDoug4 3 месяца назад +14

      Blessings 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @ITSARLETV
      @ITSARLETV 3 месяца назад +13

      You are worthy of it! You are transforming into a stunning butterfly and flourishing into greater and more magnificent things! 💫💯💞

    • @flytyluv2laf356
      @flytyluv2laf356 3 месяца назад +12

      Peace and blessings queen,his lost your talented, a great mom and beautiful u goin be bigger and better.. bruh was type lame in my eyes from the jump never understood how he had u from the rip but much support and love on your future endeavors

  • @leashunna26
    @leashunna26 3 месяца назад +4204

    That “I miss who I used to be” hit hard. I feel every bit of that 🥺

    • @myalandry02
      @myalandry02 3 месяца назад +38

      I feel that in my soul

    • @chauncilanise
      @chauncilanise 3 месяца назад +38

      Same. Baby daddy toxic af , I almost lost my mind. I had to put it to an end.

    • @nimoprosper
      @nimoprosper 3 месяца назад +11

      Same sister

    • @asiaatiyanna2122
      @asiaatiyanna2122 3 месяца назад +9

      man what💯💯💯🥺

    • @N3isfree
      @N3isfree 3 месяца назад +5

      Reall

  • @mrstee7004
    @mrstee7004 3 месяца назад +5652

    Carmen, I want to apologize for judging you in a situation, that I knew nothing about. I also rushed to judgment about you not leaving sooner. I sincerely apologize. I'm glad your out. Thank God.

  • @verniecej
    @verniecej 3 месяца назад +1912

    Carmen was quiet so long im happy she finally been opening up and taking back her power. The pain this woman endored mentally and physically is beyond. Carmen US FANS WILL ALWAYS ALWAYS!!!!!!! BE HERE FOR U.

    • @cynthiadel9673
      @cynthiadel9673 3 месяца назад +5

      Who else jumped when her dog jumped up?

    • @cynthiadel9673
      @cynthiadel9673 3 месяца назад +5

      God loves you Carmen. Don’t skip this message.

    • @leledoss4628
      @leledoss4628 3 месяца назад +3

      Carmen is so strong and delt with all of this

    • @Megaknightguy
      @Megaknightguy 3 месяца назад

      @@cynthiadel9673❤aaaaaaaa

    • @ColorMeNaee
      @ColorMeNaee 3 месяца назад

      I y

  • @FamilyFirst-t3y
    @FamilyFirst-t3y 3 месяца назад +153

    Kat is definitely a friend every girl needs omg. I felt like she was speaking to me in some parts of the video. This video was beautiful to listen to. So proud of Carmen and being so vulnerable with the world thank you! For sharing your journey and your experiences with the world. You’re doing great Carmen continue to stay strong. You have a great support system

  • @crystalquintanilla5598
    @crystalquintanilla5598 3 месяца назад +278

    Everybody needs a sister in Christ like her !! 🥹💙 someone who goes in prayer war for you , does things out of love for you , surpasses all your flaws and mistakes may not agree with the decisions you make but truly sees your heart for the way God does . She is truly anointed !! And I know it because that’s how I am with my best friend !! Anybody can turn up with you , get drunk with you . But who’s going to go to war for you in prayer??? Someone who sees your anointed and listens to the Holy Spirit when your sister is in trouble .. man this is message !! We need more people like you !!💙💙 I fully understand where Carmen is coming from because I came from the same back story !! 2 young daughters and I got rid of an abuse relationship of 8 yrs ! God is good baby !! 💙 never loose faith ! Stay rooted into the word of God and keep seeking him !!

    • @Briiixoxoxo
      @Briiixoxoxo 3 месяца назад +1

      🩵🩵🩵 yes so beautifully said ..love this comment so much !!!! I can relate as well to everything you said 💯💯

    • @rbretigerlane6418
      @rbretigerlane6418 3 месяца назад +1

      Facts❤

    • @bleu22
      @bleu22 2 месяца назад +1

      You is pretty 🥰 but I just have to ask are you related to the Selena Quintanilla

    • @desharadiane3768
      @desharadiane3768 2 месяца назад

      COME ON NOW! I’m talking fasting, worship, and the whole nine! I wish more people realized how important having God at your front and center truly is! Abusers & evil ppl forget that we belong to HIM. NOT THEM. & God’s NEVER lost a battle!!! The way he will take you out of the depths despite how powerful a person may think they are?! babyyyy he’s bigger & he’ll never leave us🥹 prayer changes things! we all need friends and family who are faith based.

  • @FloatLikeButter
    @FloatLikeButter 3 месяца назад +1148

    Carmen still has darkness in her eyes as she continues to work on herself she will regain the sparkle in her eyes back 🌟

    • @Naiki29
      @Naiki29 3 месяца назад +48

      I think it’ll come with her healing. It will, it will, it will.

    • @ladylowe3917
      @ladylowe3917 3 месяца назад +33

      You mean sadness...

    • @prettyne_xo
      @prettyne_xo 3 месяца назад +4

      Yes.

    • @ShaiLatese..
      @ShaiLatese.. 3 месяца назад +12

      She’s still going through it with you know who and but is in the beginning stages of healing so we will see that light in her eyes in due time ❤

    • @raven7978
      @raven7978 3 месяца назад

      The girl has been defeated and now she has to tell her embarrassing truth!

  • @Justtee1989
    @Justtee1989 3 месяца назад +779

    Kat is a FRIEND that every lady needs!! She brought life into not only you Carmen but a lot of other ladies on your channel! Your blessed to have her and I will pray for you both. Keep your head up Baby Girl❤

    • @Naiki29
      @Naiki29 3 месяца назад +5

      This. ❤

    • @mizz2ts86
      @mizz2ts86 3 месяца назад +6

      Yes! I absolutely love how she spoke so much life into her! Kat is an amazing friend‼️❤️

    • @Yfhmo
      @Yfhmo 3 месяца назад +3

      It’s crazy cause I said the same thing

    • @rosepoetically
      @rosepoetically 3 месяца назад +1

      well said

    • @elizabethstingaciu1681
      @elizabethstingaciu1681 3 месяца назад

      I agree! Wish I had a friend like Kat!

  • @desireyx
    @desireyx 3 месяца назад +715

    I wish her friend tay could’ve witnessed this new journey of Carmen’s. She would’ve felt so much more at peace knowing her friend got out of this horrible situation 😢🕊️🫶🏻

    • @kaylawynn3264
      @kaylawynn3264 3 месяца назад +117

      Tay is always with Carmen spiritually, she will always witness every step of Carmen’s walk of life.😊

    • @dezziii_69
      @dezziii_69 3 месяца назад +7

      Yessss😢

    • @dejagomes8484
      @dejagomes8484 3 месяца назад +48

      She’s probably the strength behind Carmen in this time as well

    • @shaanwestcoast
      @shaanwestcoast 3 месяца назад +23

      She’s literally watching her from up there. She sees it all 🥹

    • @AllAboutCarmen
      @AllAboutCarmen  3 месяца назад +156

      she’s with me every moment 🥺🙏🏼

  • @KaeRoshell
    @KaeRoshell 2 месяца назад +15

    I was in a similar situation. I thought I’d never get back to myself. Now I’m happily married, enjoying my children, and most importantly a beautiful relationship with God. Talking about it until I had nothing left to say really helped. There are many women who KNOW what you’ve experienced because they have, too! Focus on healing your way (I think you’re finding your way just fine!) and your beautiful babies and pursue God sis!

  • @YolandaK
    @YolandaK 3 месяца назад +117

    When Carmen talked about those boys whew chile I teared up. B/c my children & granddaughters kept me going several times. Your children will make you strive harder❤🙏🏾.

  • @t.chapman2670
    @t.chapman2670 3 месяца назад +1234

    Let’s get this girl to 1 million plus subscribers!!!

  • @ashekabennett3806
    @ashekabennett3806 3 месяца назад +1119

    I hope Netflix reaches out to you and works with you and put EVERYTHING in a Netflix series for your story to be heard . You deserve it !

    • @mrbrave29
      @mrbrave29 3 месяца назад

      You girls have been falsely accusing blk men for ages. You sided with Carolyn bryant as well. You want Netflix to falsely demonize corey as well

    • @JUlia6974
      @JUlia6974 3 месяца назад +36

      Still won't be the full story. She did say she's shielding details because of the kids

    • @hearmystory4971
      @hearmystory4971 3 месяца назад +37

      No shade but why would Netflix do? Carmen has a platform big enough. Making a documentary about this topic isn’t needed. As far as like a show with women telling their story. Yes I believe she should get an episode to tell what happened. Not saying this like Carmen isn’t good enough or high enough but I’m just saying in this world . We have millions of Carmen . Probably just in America alone too.

    • @WishySissy
      @WishySissy 3 месяца назад +7

      Netflix for what 😂

    • @aaliyahsharday
      @aaliyahsharday 3 месяца назад +3

      It Will Definitely Be A Good Netflix Series

  • @TOLLITOLLITV
    @TOLLITOLLITV 3 месяца назад +328

    It’s been Carmen for me the whole time. Proud of you chica …. You got this, CARMEN ABOUT TO BLOW UP… LETS GET CARMEN TO 3MILLION

    • @harddasheen98
      @harddasheen98 3 месяца назад +6

      I was always on Carmen side since day one🫡💯.... I been unfollow Corey 2 and a half years back cause Corey just immature and never learning from his mistakes!!

  • @ohheyymo
    @ohheyymo 3 месяца назад +80

    First off I want to say this anyone who has dealt with any type of abuse, you are worth so much more!! You are loved and appreciated !!It takes village and look at this!! God has plans for you and always remember what’s not for you will Be shown in many ways . Get out don’t be silent. Reading these comments are deep and just shows how powerful the words of the mouth is!! Whew I get chills knowing how many of us walk in the same or similar paths. Sisters we have to stand together and I’m telling anyone if you want to speak please come to me!! Never be ashamed to want better for yourself.

  • @mahrayeetm5239
    @mahrayeetm5239 3 месяца назад +21

    been through it, the beatings, the gun to the head, the death threats, the getting put out, i’m glad you’re telling your story, makes me feel stronger 💕 thank you Carmen ❤

  • @angelaunhinged
    @angelaunhinged 3 месяца назад +571

    Carmen baby let me tell you something. I am 21 years old. I found out about you when I was 14. I’m not gonna say I was a consistent supporter because over the years I have grown, and I kind of detached myself from content that wasn’t resonating with me anymore but for some reason your other video this morning popped up on my timeline and I watched it and I was like wow Carmen has turned into such a beautiful role model, and I just want to tell you how proud I am of you. Keep choosing the right path. This friend that you have beside you in this video is a very real friend and you need to keep her around your life for long as you live it’s very rare to find people like her these days God is with you trust in him at all times don’t lean on your own understanding but on his. Pray to your father for guidance. you’re going to make it through whatever you’re going through in Jesus name Amen. You’re so strong and resilient. I see God manifesting himself in your life. Stay strong sister. You’re doing amazing. Best believe that man will reap what he has sowed.

    • @zamariyalivingston7540
      @zamariyalivingston7540 3 месяца назад

      You’re a whole stranger 😂 she ain’t reading this shit. Poured your heart out to a complete stranger who don’t give two fucks about yo baby ass. You 21 grow up. Lmao

    • @SRoseBlog
      @SRoseBlog 3 месяца назад +5

      To the writer of this post,
      I am 30.
      Live in Trinidad, Caribbean island. And this post is as tho I wrote it.
      Everything you said was my thoughts.
      Blessings to you
      And to Carmen

    • @angelaunhinged
      @angelaunhinged Месяц назад +1

      @@SRoseBlog thank you mama you too, Jesus bless you and your loved ones

    • @shoneemcdougald31
      @shoneemcdougald31 14 дней назад +2

      Yessssss and we have front roll seats to that karma now ❤

  • @NinaCash5150
    @NinaCash5150 3 месяца назад +553

    It’s okay to feel weak, defeated, stuck, hopeless and even discouraged from praying and seeking GOD … all it takes is a believer to stand in the gap for you through prayer. These are the kinds of friends that turn into family. Kat is the kind of person God sends to you because she’s well EQUIPPED to assist , love and uplift Carmen through His word. Sometimes that’s all it takes for you to turn back to him every time.. I pray Blessings and Love Pour over these women’s lives in abundance in Jesus name❤️🙏🏾
    Let me get my snacks and get comfortable. Y’all stay positive in these comments. We ALL need it right now

  • @Iam.justlee
    @Iam.justlee 3 месяца назад +24

    Never judge a book by its cover, there’s always a touching story behind it. A beautiful cover always have the most painful stories 😢❤ I’m happy Carmen is finally seeing light🙏🏾

  • @BreTheBlkGenie
    @BreTheBlkGenie 3 месяца назад +48

    This was a beautiful interview. Very uplifting, eye opening, and therapeutic. Her friend is the type of friend we all need. I’m soooo proud of you Carmen, strong you are babygirl.

  • @gc6917
    @gc6917 3 месяца назад +302

    This friend seems genuine. She seems older than you but very genuine… I have to see more of her. One thing about her that I do like is she’s a praying friend.

  • @Thedanielleashlee
    @Thedanielleashlee 3 месяца назад +1011

    It’s something about Kat prayers that always touch me deep

    • @abae559
      @abae559 3 месяца назад +19

      No fr I love that lady she has a good spirit

    • @joyceg7859
      @joyceg7859 3 месяца назад

      What’s the girl name ? Or platform ?

    • @queenyolo9418
      @queenyolo9418 3 месяца назад +6

      Yes It Sends Me Chills 🙌🏼

    • @prettyne_xo
      @prettyne_xo 3 месяца назад +5

      No fr since the BOOTCAMP 😢

    • @prettyne_xo
      @prettyne_xo 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@joyceg7859 whose Kat ?!?!

  • @forever_brandey.8414
    @forever_brandey.8414 3 месяца назад +29

    Carmen I literally cried this whole video. I want to thank you so much for being so vulnerable and open. I also want to apologize for not fully understanding the situation. Ive gotten so much healing from this video I feel like it was a therapy session. I am praying hard for you and them boys and can’t wait to see the future and your journey. You have my upmost support.

  • @TonyaaNicolee
    @TonyaaNicolee 3 месяца назад +17

    A Carmen and Kat Podcast would be sooooo good!

  • @allinwithangeliciadixon32
    @allinwithangeliciadixon32 3 месяца назад +258

    A friend that prays is a friend for LIFE‼️‼️ Proud of you Carmen! Blessings to you my love🫶🏽💗

  • @monethinton6736
    @monethinton6736 3 месяца назад +125

    I’M SO PROUD OF YOU CARMEN!!! Been rocking since 2017-2018🥺you deserve nothing but greatness! Love you girly, WE got this 🫶🏾

  • @asiabradley601
    @asiabradley601 3 месяца назад +260

    i’m glad that they prayed because ik that it was needed i love this new life for Carmen ❤

  • @destini9986
    @destini9986 3 месяца назад +22

    Carmen , I ENJOYED listening to your story & I love when Kat prayed over u and gave u words of wisdom . That’s a true friend right there . I’m excited to see what the future holds for you . ❤🙏🏽

  • @AchanteHickman-iw5og
    @AchanteHickman-iw5og 3 месяца назад +17

    Carmen seems so much happier and just free. I love that for her!

  • @jasminedanae6138
    @jasminedanae6138 3 месяца назад +435

    Wow Tay was & is your guardian angel Carmen! I thank God for amazing friends that have nothing but your best interest! So beautiful ❤ rest her soul🙏🏾

    • @nop710
      @nop710 3 месяца назад +2

      Well said!💯

  • @Laineys_Life
    @Laineys_Life 3 месяца назад +137

    This is really what she needed. This is the first step of healing. Letting everything out into the air and moving on. I’m so proud of you Carmen 🥹🫶🏼

  • @UsOutsidersLLC
    @UsOutsidersLLC 3 месяца назад +416

    KEEP TELLING YOUR TRUTH CARMEN AND KEEP HEALING. THIS JOURNEY WILL BE TOUGH BUT YOU ARE A FIGHTER AND YOU WILL WIN THIS BATTLE.
    WE STAND WITH CARMEN ❤

    • @renee2shay
      @renee2shay 3 месяца назад +15

      Glad to see other influencers showing their support ❤

    • @Unpackyourthoughts
      @Unpackyourthoughts 3 месяца назад +7

      Thank yall for this ❤

    • @Kenxie1441
      @Kenxie1441 3 месяца назад +4

      Yesss love y’all ♥️♥️

    • @LexxReacts
      @LexxReacts 3 месяца назад +1

      Period pooh 😂

  • @msmika24davis97
    @msmika24davis97 3 месяца назад +17

    Carmen I am so proud of you!!! I've been there and everyday I thank my self for choosing me and my kids over someone who never loved me to begin with... love should never hurt...betray...or be fake with hidden agendas... once you find you and cherish your life and how valuable your time is you will realize how strong you are. Even when you feel weak that strength will prevail... the best thing you did was leave and not go back! You got this sis... I promise you do! Love.. hugs...peace and many many blessings! 🙏 ❤

  • @JasHarris-p9i
    @JasHarris-p9i 3 месяца назад +9

    I love this for Carmen.. she has a really good friend in her corner .. I wish I had a friend like this. Keep your head up girl you the bomb fr 🥹🤞🏾

  • @thebiggesttrendsetter9545
    @thebiggesttrendsetter9545 3 месяца назад +84

    Kat Is A Real Friend That Everyone Needs🥹 Praying For You’re Healing❤️

  • @valenciajohnson358
    @valenciajohnson358 3 месяца назад +217

    You are so strong, Queen. Domestic violence is not okay. You never know what a person goes through behind closed doors. Praying for your healing journey ❤️‍🩹. We are rooting for you.

  • @unadulteratedwithdimorne
    @unadulteratedwithdimorne 3 месяца назад +202

    When Carmen said in her last video that she was done speaking about her story and everything that happened in the past, I was so conflicted because our testimonies are our encouragement and the encouragement for others to keep going.
    But I also in the same breath remembered that it is in everyone’s own time and healing. You have to be okay, first. So I am ecstatic to see Carmen speak!
    It ain’t nothing but the devil wanting Carmen to be quiet and avoid the pain of speaking and remembering but it gets easier. Testimonies build faith. Just don’t forget the story. Don’t forget what God did. Not the pain or the hurt. But the testimony that God brought you out and the tools and maturity that you gained from experience. You were built to succeed. Thank Gooooood. I’m so happy for Carmen.

    • @FloatLikeButter
      @FloatLikeButter 3 месяца назад +7

      I believe she is saving it for a book because she said she was going to tell the story how and the way she wants to

    • @Naiki29
      @Naiki29 3 месяца назад +6

      If you listen closely the way she talks NOW is a different from how she’s been talking. This woman she sits in front of is a woman of God and it’s a different kind of conversation. One that needed to be had. Like the glory of God is in that room.

    • @blurredxlines
      @blurredxlines 3 месяца назад

      this❤

  • @Randaj75
    @Randaj75 3 месяца назад +9

    I’m so happy and proud of you Carmen! The way you handled people turning their backs on you, criticizing you, judging you, and taking about you. Shows how strong of a person you truly are and what type of person you are. You had ample opportunities to tell your side of things but you didn’t. You waited until you were ready and not when everyone else thought you should’ve been…and for that I salute you. It’s only up from here! Side note: I really enjoyed you guys. It’s something about your aura, energy, and friendship that’s giving authentic vibes and made this interesting to watch. You guys should turn this into a monthly segment with different life topics women can relate too…call it Self Talk, Girl Vibes, Vibing!

  • @_doseofrisma
    @_doseofrisma 3 месяца назад +7

    I just want to say thank you Carmen for just be transparent with us and just being in your vulnerability because it definitely makes us stronger ❤️💪🏾 definitely rooting for you during your whole healing journey

  • @Meka_bby1
    @Meka_bby1 3 месяца назад +1023

    Sis in her HEALING ❤️‍🩹 SEASON meanwhile Corey reacting to her video of her exposing him being a ABUSER & NARCISSIST!!! I love this for you CARMEN 🫶🏾♥️ May god be with you going forward!

    • @verniecej
      @verniecej 3 месяца назад +2

      That boy a piece of work. He has no sympathy for the pain he caused this girl

    • @Marquette.115
      @Marquette.115 3 месяца назад +72

      Exactly, Corey is sick, and his pattern of abuse will follow him to the next relationship. He's mad cause Carmen finally chose her

    • @SassyClaudia22
      @SassyClaudia22 3 месяца назад +7

      Amen 🙏🏼

    • @amiracleoneal4061
      @amiracleoneal4061 3 месяца назад

      Did he delete his video??

    • @Vee.21xo
      @Vee.21xo 3 месяца назад

      ​@@amiracleoneal4061I think he did. It's not up anymore.

  • @zariiiii
    @zariiiii 3 месяца назад +203

    To be able to speak about your past is a different kind of strength, wishing u the best 🙏🏿💕❤

  • @Justbeingme_40
    @Justbeingme_40 3 месяца назад +417

    I been in a DV relationship 😢, I lost myself for 13 years 😢, I'm am so thankful I have God, you have a great friend/sis I wish I had at least one nobody wanted to see me get hurt. God is good.im so proud of you and I'm happy ur out... I need a HUG 🤗 ❤❤

    • @jk9084
      @jk9084 3 месяца назад +8

      Virtual hugs 🤗🤗🤗 please try therapy to rebuild yourself

    • @chunkybrewster2938
      @chunkybrewster2938 3 месяца назад +4

      Mine was 11.. glad you’re out of it! ❤you’re amazing!!

    • @krystynaa_
      @krystynaa_ 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m glad you’re out, keep your head up!!! Hugs 🤗 ❤

    • @Justbeingme_40
      @Justbeingme_40 3 месяца назад +1

      @@chunkybrewster2938 thank you ur amazing 💜

    • @Justbeingme_40
      @Justbeingme_40 3 месяца назад +2

      @@krystynaa_ thank you 🌹💜

  • @selenarodriguez7496
    @selenarodriguez7496 3 месяца назад +84

    The part where she spoke on how her kids saved her. Babyy it hit home. My babies keep me up even when i know the world on my shoulders. 🥹

  • @moniquestills3409
    @moniquestills3409 3 месяца назад +8

    This was a good conversation to have Carmen. Your friend is the best. She ROCKS! You don’t find friends like that in life. Keep your head up baby. God had a plan for you and your true friends. That stuck by you through it all my baby, and still there. Keep rising hun! You and your whole team.

  • @AkilahTierra
    @AkilahTierra 3 месяца назад +64

    Perfect example of you never judge a book by its cover. I’ve been in Carmen’s shoes. The signs were there and I knew! Praying for strength, peace, and happiness. We love you Carmen! Speak your truth!❤

  • @itsyurgirlcas8276
    @itsyurgirlcas8276 3 месяца назад +78

    Friends like Ebony and Kat Carmen you got real ones on your side !!!! I can’t wait for this new journey focus on yourself and your babies !!!! You are going to shine darling 🙌🏻🤞🏼!!

  • @VenishaSmith777
    @VenishaSmith777 3 месяца назад +53

    I had to stop the video multiple times from crying. It’s crazy we went through the same things around the same time. Looking at you is giving me the strength to pray. What keeps me going is that voice in me head telling me to go pray. I’m glad I can relate to you and you are overcoming your traumatic past. I wish you nothing but peace and blessing for you and your children moving forward.

  • @sister2theend04
    @sister2theend04 3 месяца назад +100

    The power of a praying friend❤
    I pray everyone finds a safe space like this ❤

  • @GirlJustGaming
    @GirlJustGaming 3 месяца назад +18

    Surviving Corey

  • @itssnynyyy
    @itssnynyyy 3 месяца назад +11

    Carmen I support you. This journey is never easy but you will get through. Praying for your healing and mental ❤

  • @nopressurenodiamond8062
    @nopressurenodiamond8062 3 месяца назад +48

    I love that you two prayed together before getting started. We always need a friend to pray with ❤

  • @ameliar9398
    @ameliar9398 3 месяца назад +52

    This is a friend to keep! The way she spoke with gentleness and care. Carmen she cares for you so much and I know she is God sent. Pick up that Bible sis continue journaling and start doing prayer request. I see that you will make a shift that you will be healed and be unrecognizable by your inner spirit. I love you sis I may not know you and you don’t know me but I love you girl keep your head up God has a plan for your life🤟🏾💚

  • @gorgeoussoboujee
    @gorgeoussoboujee 3 месяца назад +68

    I normally don't comment on these videos, this was a great sit down video, but I wish I was able to hear more of Carmen talking and telling her story. You can tell Kat really love Carmen ❣️ Best wishes to Carmen and her boys!

    • @Ney2109
      @Ney2109 3 месяца назад +6

      Carmen spoke on what she felt comfortable speaking on for now.. Kat was just giving her words or encouragement to keep her going . This was a great video ❤

  • @corisha1
    @corisha1 3 месяца назад +11

    Welcome back Carmen I’m 35 and you inspire me been following you for years seen that room you and Corey lived in at your moms I think. I’m rooting for you love!! You got this! You are strong mama

  • @larissao7614
    @larissao7614 3 месяца назад +17

    Loved this!! Kat is a one of a kind friend, very rare. Love that she is there for you Carmen. Keep your head up. It only gets better from here on out❤

  • @LifeofAntMariee
    @LifeofAntMariee 3 месяца назад +118

    Carmen!!!🥺🩷 babygirlllllll God got you covered already you are overcoming everything & more I’m so proud of youuuu 💯🥹💜

  • @Oneasha_Capri
    @Oneasha_Capri 3 месяца назад +71

    Kat is a good friend. I do wish she let you talk more and finish what you were saying before cutting you off. So glad you are healing & expressing yourself!

  • @diamondashley6333
    @diamondashley6333 3 месяца назад +24

    I love me some Carmen, 10 months out of a 7 year relationship myself and you are an inspiration queen ✨ thank you for taking back your power. Lets continue healing ❤🥹

  • @imperfecttjazmyne5315
    @imperfecttjazmyne5315 3 месяца назад +7

    Kat ✨is one special soul felt like she was speaking to me at the end … we love you Carmen!! It’s only up from here babygirl ❤️❤️❤️

  • @beautybymeme_1507
    @beautybymeme_1507 3 месяца назад +89

    Telll her Kat!!!! Stop protecting people that don’t give a damn about hurting and destroying you! That’s a word! We have a habit of thinking about how others may feel. But who gave a damn when you felt suicidal, insecure, robbed and abused! You’re protecting your abuser. That’s a trait of trauma. You will unwrap that in therapy.

  • @Patt-lynnGrootboom
    @Patt-lynnGrootboom 3 месяца назад +67

    My girl back on the grind love this for her😊❤

  • @frankiejackson5278
    @frankiejackson5278 3 месяца назад +351

    Wait Carmen! Don’t delete this, imma watch when I get home😭😭😭

    • @nyatukmamed9026
      @nyatukmamed9026 3 месяца назад +7

      seriously

    • @Temekacarter
      @Temekacarter 3 месяца назад +26

      She telling her story healing and making a bag I’m sure she not going delete it

    • @angelturner9491
      @angelturner9491 3 месяца назад +3

      RIGHT !😂😂😂😂

    • @1120forevrr
      @1120forevrr 3 месяца назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 I ain’t click off since I started. I’m not missing nothing!

  • @litteah2.042
    @litteah2.042 3 месяца назад +68

    This right here is a beautiful start to a blessful chapter in your life…I can’t wait to see what god has planned for you!!! Amen❤ love you Carmen!!

  • @michalwilliams650
    @michalwilliams650 3 месяца назад +7

    Kat definitely gave me a word that I for sure needed!!! Please have her back on the channel

  • @KaliQueenn
    @KaliQueenn 3 месяца назад +33

    I’m surprised Carmen isn’t at 1m subscribers.. I know it’s coming! You deserve everything good coming your way! Blessings on top of blessings are coming! I’m proud of you girl! ❤

  • @D.J.cant_hold
    @D.J.cant_hold 3 месяца назад +320

    The fact that he kept talking and tryna make u look bad he made himself look worse than anybody in the situation cause it shows that he never cared. I love Carmen forever #carmenweloveu💜

    • @Marquette.115
      @Marquette.115 3 месяца назад +9

      Facts

    • @Whois_za13
      @Whois_za13 3 месяца назад +14

      It made him look guilty after she posted that video and he posted them pictures

  • @Bahiirah.liight
    @Bahiirah.liight 3 месяца назад +58

    Being someone that has witnessed abuse, it is a lot especially going back to the person because you love them. I’m glad you had the strength to tell your story and to let people know that have been in abusive relationships that they are not alone..❤️

  • @LOGabzMusic
    @LOGabzMusic 3 месяца назад +6

    The dog omg so beautiful
    But Carmen I've been watching you for years and I am so proud of you
    God got you
    Keep your head up we love you ❤

  • @zmeadows7300
    @zmeadows7300 3 месяца назад +36

    Carmen, I applaud you for having the strength to tell your truth. And I'm glad you got out of it. I went through a very very similar situation. With him for 20yrs and married 14 yrs. He changed when he moved me from my family. Broken jaw, he took keys to house and my car, take or break my phone, clock me outside for whole weekends in the rain, snow, heat, or cold. Two vehicles in the driveway and I walked over an hour to work every day. Gun point at me etc.. I finally got away and I am happy and with family and my kids again. Stay strong girl you got this ❤️

    • @xolianah
      @xolianah 3 месяца назад

      god bless u🥺🥺

    • @timekademery
      @timekademery 3 месяца назад +1

      Wow, I'm so sorry that happened to u! Thank God u got out of it and is here to tell your story. U r helping others. Thanks!❤

    • @zmeadows7300
      @zmeadows7300 3 месяца назад

      @@timekademery You are welcome and thank you ❤️

  • @khadijahdeshay94
    @khadijahdeshay94 3 месяца назад +33

    This the type of friend we all wish to have . I’ll find her one day ❤ Carmen we are so proud of you for finally speaking your truth . This healing journey is going to be so beautiful. Not saying it won’t get tough at times but ladies ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR WORTH . Anytime you think about going back think about all the BAD the person did.

  • @theoriginalamandamaria
    @theoriginalamandamaria 3 месяца назад +103

    when kat was talking about being a nurturing person, and that whole conversation about not letting certain people touch you or hug you, i FELT that whole conversation because that’s me and i had to learn the hard way to stay away from certain people and spirits who weren’t good for me at all. i love that she talked about that and she dropped some GEMS! 💎 i can definitely relate to what she said because it’s so TRUE! when God wants to LEVEL YOU UP, you have to cut off certain people and things and places because it’s not elevating or anything. yea i love these videos. thank you carmen and kat! God Bless you all and all women around who are genuine and searching for themselves when they don’t have anyone to talk to or vent.✨🙏🏽💎 God got us all. :)

    • @TaylorJonae
      @TaylorJonae 3 месяца назад +4

      yassssss!!!! i agreee she said a lot of think i needed to hear. ik she was talking to me directly but i caught them words

  • @sakiyacne
    @sakiyacne 3 месяца назад +52

    Omg I love Kat for Carmen I can feel her genuine energy through the screen !

  • @minenhlemkhabela7541
    @minenhlemkhabela7541 3 месяца назад +11

    I can’t wait to see this transformation unfold. Love and light ❤️🫶🏽

  • @kb63036
    @kb63036 3 месяца назад +4

    carmen you are so much more powerful than you know. i am so proud of you for no longer allowing someone to scare you away from telling your truth and protecting yourself. you didn’t deserve anything that you’ve went through but i promise you do deserve every good thing coming your way in the future ❤ keep on healing & getting stronger bc we see you coming back

  • @Mayalena14
    @Mayalena14 3 месяца назад +82

    so proud of you carmen 🫶🏾

  • @Youre_Just_Watching_It
    @Youre_Just_Watching_It 3 месяца назад +32

    I don't know why but I literally don't sit down and just watch a whole hour video but when I see Carmen videos pop up I always watch it all the way to the end, I'm so happy that you're able to talk about it with your head up and that you are moving on and happy. 🎉❤❤ all love 💗🙏🏽

  • @VlogsW-KylieMarie
    @VlogsW-KylieMarie 3 месяца назад +16

    😭😭😭😭 I loved everything about this video! The rawness, the motivation, the accountability, the struggle, the hustle, the truth. I am taking your advice kat!!!
    You are a light for others Carmen! You going through this right now; is motivating me in my own situation!
    Thank you for your story, thank you for your strength.
    I needed to hear “ you can get through anything, it doesn’t matter”
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @MiasmaBeasley
      @MiasmaBeasley 3 месяца назад

      Lmao off subject but I did not notice that dog

  • @JolleanArroyo
    @JolleanArroyo 3 месяца назад +7

    I stayed in an EXTREMELY abusive relationship/situationship(when u "break up", but they STILL have control over you) for 7yrs PLUS a few. Sometimes the emotional abuse is just as bad as the physical ..

    • @JolleanArroyo
      @JolleanArroyo 3 месяца назад +2

      I could have DIED..SEVERAL times. & when friends tried to HELP me I used to think they were against me and rly just making it WORSE for me. So when she made sure the police were gunna handle carmen with care I rly respected that 🙏 Kat is a REAL one!

  • @LifeAsSarahm
    @LifeAsSarahm 3 месяца назад +9

    Literally so proud of you 🥺your story makes me cry but you are telling the reality of so many women. I love the support that you have from your friends and your team. The way your friend just comforts you throughout this video just makes me so happy. Her presence makes me want to talk to her about my problems lol but let this next chapter be about you and your healing journey. This next chapter is all about you 💕❤️

  • @Marquette.115
    @Marquette.115 3 месяца назад +81

    Carmen, I'm so proud of you finally choosing you. Corey is mad he can no longer control you or the situation and now he's mad. Tell your story so you can help other women suffering from abuse. I'm a domestic violence survivor, and it's not easy to leave. Once i saw my ex-husband wasn't going to stop cheating and beating me and trying to kill me and i had 2 kids by him, i finally left. You are awesome. Thanks for sharing your story

  • @ITSARLETV
    @ITSARLETV 3 месяца назад +101

    One minute in and these comments going crazy! I'm all here for it ❤❤

  • @HoodEloquence
    @HoodEloquence 3 месяца назад +56

    I appreciate your unraveling your past pains. This is a beautiful way to heal and move forward. Once you sit with what was and accept what isn't your pathway forward is clearer. Free of pain, bitterness and you can begin to rebuild. Blessings to you Beautiful Women. Appreciate this moment of release and clarity for you Carmen.

  • @Queen08497
    @Queen08497 3 месяца назад +11

    I love you Carmen! I’m glad you’re finding your light ! Being raw and telling your truth! Thankful to see this growth from you mama❤️

  • @Unconditionallove7
    @Unconditionallove7 3 месяца назад +25

    To have a friend/ team that speaks life into you is very rare. LOVE THIS!!! I pray you continue to heal Carmen, I love this for you!!!

  • @lenamiller6798
    @lenamiller6798 3 месяца назад +82

    Kat spoke the truth i been that stupid before baby, in October i left my last toxic relationship, i don’t have the money you have but i have my peace, I’m happy and so is my son, you got this Carmen and Kat thanks for being her friend, i have my sister circle and i so happy you found yours 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @DestinyRichardson-t6q
      @DestinyRichardson-t6q 3 месяца назад +8

      IT'S NOT STUPID AT ALL ITS WANTED THE 1 YOU LOVE TO WORK OUT ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE SMALL ONES 💯💯💯LISTEN TO KELLY ROLAND- DIRTY LAUNDRY 💯💯💯

  • @koracake
    @koracake 3 месяца назад +173

    Whew girl 5/6 blunts a day. You was going through it! I’m happy to hear that you are doing better. I pray for nothing but the best for you and your boys Carmen ❤

    • @liyahbonds
      @liyahbonds 3 месяца назад +5

      From somebody who smoke 5/6 blunts a day ts takes days sometimes to a week to recover after you finally recover from ts you don’t remember sh!t that happened

    • @xolianah
      @xolianah 3 месяца назад

      @@liyahbondsmonths even i remember when i finally stopped my body didn’t get back to normal for a while.

    • @liyahbonds
      @liyahbonds 3 месяца назад +1

      @@xolianah exactly & i was stressed asf so for carmen to do that ? Corey stressed ha ass out

    • @xolianah
      @xolianah 3 месяца назад

      @@liyahbonds deadass😐

  • @Natalie-d8q
    @Natalie-d8q 3 месяца назад +129

    Carmen you deserved nothing he did to you! we all love u so much AND CONGRATS ON 300K

  • @BabyGirl-xu7sn
    @BabyGirl-xu7sn 3 месяца назад +6

    Carmen I really want to apologize to you & your kids for going through this terrible situation smh🤦🏽‍♀️ We NEVER kno what goes on behind closed doors & yall put on a smile for the camera & u was trying to work it out for your family!! Im definitely proud of this new journey for u👏🏽👏🏽🤍🤍🤍🔒

  • @liyahswiffy
    @liyahswiffy 2 месяца назад +1

    I wish I had someone like Kat! God bless you Carmen and your journey ahead of you. The hug at the end gave me absolute CHILLS!!!

  • @Jace-w8u
    @Jace-w8u 3 месяца назад +231

    How a man treats you while you're carrying HIS child. That's tells you everything you need to know. It's the "real him" One of the first red flags. I'm telling you from experience.

    • @jillmarie4240
      @jillmarie4240 3 месяца назад +9

      This right here is one of the best comments I have seen!!!! It’s the truth the way a man treats you when you are growing his offspring in your body is very telling about the type of man he is!!!! When you’re at one of your lost vulnerable points in your life!!!!

  • @iamkoko3624
    @iamkoko3624 3 месяца назад +19

    We’re here for this healing and open Carmen. Keep releasing , growing and progressing! We love you Carmen and so so sorry you endured so much behind the scenes.

  • @pinkylyon4404
    @pinkylyon4404 3 месяца назад +43

    So proud of you babygirl and can I say you’ve been looking extra extra good these days like stop playingggg❤ and shoutout to your camera production the last 2 videos ! Leveling up! Period!

  • @willishajohnson4662
    @willishajohnson4662 3 месяца назад +5

    you deserve every piece of love & care that there is. your team is 100% behind you. WE watched everything Carmen, from start to finish & that MAN was your personal HATER !! its okay , we all make mistakes ! cant wait to see you during & after this journey of healing . i love you girl 🩷🥺

  • @noellesfamily
    @noellesfamily 3 месяца назад +2

    I love kat so well spoken , mature , intelligent such an amazing friend ❤

  • @RE-fi7mo
    @RE-fi7mo 3 месяца назад +39

    So happy to see a notification, miss you Carmennn, your so strong 🤍

  • @daniellealvida671
    @daniellealvida671 3 месяца назад +17

    Glad you are healing and telling your story. I wish the best for you and your children. Keep shining and always know you are beautiful and special and don’t let anyone take your happiness❤️❤️

  • @azurereynolds5174
    @azurereynolds5174 3 месяца назад +693

    Don’t get me wrong, I thank God for placing Kat in Carmen’s life, but she should’ve sat back more and let Carmen fully answer the questions she asked her. Kat kept over talkin Carmen, kept asking her questions while Carmen was trying to answer…. Something’s she brought up I feel that she should have given Carmen the chance to say instead of speaking for Carmen first. Not trying to talk bad or downplay her as a good friend in Carmen’s life. But some questions she wouldn’t even let Carmen fully answer or explain because she kept speaking over her. This is Carmen’s story, so please sit back and give her the chance to explain it in her own way and in her own time.❤

    • @tmill2703
      @tmill2703 3 месяца назад +195

      I think she was doing that strategically. Meaning trying not to give Corey the opportunity to be able to use something Carmen has said in court.

    • @nas3692
      @nas3692 3 месяца назад +161

      Someone understands. She is protecting Carmen. We understand your point but it’s to save Carmen from saying a lot of things that can be used against her in Court

    • @hillaryziah
      @hillaryziah 3 месяца назад +35

      I felt exactly the same too. Thanks for writing this.

    • @Chelseaxoxx
      @Chelseaxoxx 3 месяца назад +17

      I felt the same way tbh

    • @anniepeterson9614
      @anniepeterson9614 3 месяца назад +23

      I so agree with you @azureynolds5174. Not to be disrepectful to Kat at all, she did more talking than listening to Carmen...It truly made me feel some type of way for real. I truly pray that @allaboutcarmen eyes are shining, I mean open. When people show you who they are, believe them!!

  • @Briiixoxoxo
    @Briiixoxoxo 3 месяца назад +1

    We love you Carmen!!!!! Everyone is rooting for you girl!!! Thank you for sharing with us .. God has a plan for you and your beautiful kids! You got this Mama 💪🏼🩵🩵🩵

  • @nia8738
    @nia8738 3 месяца назад +9

    I felt this on so many levels especially when you said I tried and don’t regret it because you can never say you didn’t try but you tried now you’re letting go and letting God you did everything right truly let God do what he should do! I’m so proud of you ❤👏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🫂 keep healing ❤️‍🩹 one day at a time you live and you learn please continue to put God and yourself first ! This is truly your testimony! God is still working on you and through you 👏🏽🙌🏽🩷🩷 you are very beautiful and strong 💪🏾 most definitely an amazing mother !!! Thank you for sharing your story and much more ! Keep on being successful beautiful

  • @fredericavlogs
    @fredericavlogs 3 месяца назад +60

    We need more episodes with you and Kat!! I love how she prayed with you in the beginning, and it was like we were looking at two best friends chatting with each other, and we were looking in!! Carmen, I'm proud of you and this new journey you are on. God is with you always! STAY STRONG as you have already been doing. ❤❤🙏🏽