No problem love, honestly you are one of the strongest women I know, you're showing me a lot of things to stay away from and open my eye to as a young woman, so thank you for going through all the trials you needed to, to finally let go and do what's best for you and your kids, I knew it had a reason for why you went back so I'm glad I was right, I'm proud of you for your growth and finally being able to get away from that monster, stay safe carmen, lots of love for you always❤
That’s what u call a real woman but Corey is a dick where he would not be a man and say what he did wrong that’s why us woman are more stronger than men and I am talking about the real woman not the little girls.
When we actually learn who our biggest enemy is that really want to to you fall and suffer….but God sis! God is rebuilding you for greater and better and he’s restoring you and renewing you ❤
I swear! This is me NOW! It was like looking in the mirror! Definitely made me feel good to know someone else was like me! I tried and tried with my bd and STILL allow him freedom to see my son and he won’t 🤦🏻♀️ the relationship is dead but the doors open whenever he wants to see his son
This is the clearest she has ever sounded and not just her accent but the way she worded things , the way she took accountability , the way she detailed her thought process in those moments , the way she gave reasoning behind her decisions , the way she told both sides without being evil , the way she made sure she didn’t say things out of spite .. so proud of her and wishing her nothing but success moving forward!
People judged her for always going back but she was fighting for her MARRIAGE until she couldn’t fight anymore. Marriage is work and she truly tried but sometimes, walking away is the only answer and I’m glad she got the strength to do so. Wishing you all the healing and peace, Carmen. You deserve it boo 💜
Corey said Carmen only tried to stay with him to get citizenship I love Carmen and I don't believe S#!t Corey talking bout he's a male Gemini that should say enough smfh!
This is what ppl don't understand a marriage is not the same as a regular relationship you don't get to just get up and leave when you want. Hell, shes finally don't and still cant get far enough away from him.
The fact that she is being mindful of what she says to protect her children from hating their father is a different type of strong!!! Carmen you may never know how powerful your testimony is! You are helping to not only heal yourself but you are helping to give strength and courage to other women of DV! Wishing you nothing but love, light, peace, and blessings!!!❤❤❤
Through her telling her story, she still gave this man credit for some stuff while reliving her truth. That tells you the woman she has grown to be. But the moment she said you only a father because you nutted in me is nothing but the truth. Carmen this is the most vulnerable you have been in a while. Even though I am older than you, I give you your flowers and you have much respect from me. Your accountability is amazing. Go ahead and write your book. This can save many more people. God got you. Love you!
She cleared him with so much grace🥺❤️ that’s how you know she loved that man she still hasn’t even bashed him the way he bashed her.. god is going to take care of her and her babies for certain and for sure❤️❤️
@@zxz4337gives them that push, someone to compare to. Seeing another woman in your situation speak up about this gives out courage in some way to leave that situation. just a video represents something big to many others.
This is a woman who waited to heal to tell her story because she knows that if she tried to in the heat of the things she would just look crazy. From one survivor to another I believe in you!
Amen, I'm so glad you're healed ..sending you live and blessings from NC ❤❤ Keep going, I BELIEVE IN YOU HUN..YOUR STRENGTH AND YOU BEING STRONG DOES HELP OTHERS !!
This video gave me chills 😢i salute you Carmen for being strong enough to walk away from an unsafe relationship so many people stay until it’s to late 🙏🏽
She needed to go back for this very reason. I can guarantee that a new version of Carmen is coming. Good job mama we are proud of you. Take your time and heal and be a better version of yourself ❤❤❤
The growth in Carmen is so clear. 💯 Being able to go back and be around the person who broke you the most is a different world of strength. She is still healing and probably will for a long time-like we all are- but Man U can just hear the amount of ways she has already healed so much and I am sooooo proud of her ❤❤
Its sad how many of us women suffer in silence to make a family work, with a man that is none deserving anyways... This is sad but so many deal with the same things, we have to start loving ourselves more!!! Proud of you for speaking up and getting that off your chest!!! 💓💓💓
@sammywilliam6 I’ve never met a woman who intentionally wanted a cheater. Men are such cowards that wait to show their promiscuity until years later when someone is already invested.
People don't talk about PTSD in relationships enough, I felt every word, especially "I had to get back in them shoes again", sometimes you need to go thru it ONE more time to really be done. IYKYK
Whew! When you said you couldn’t even be a mom or a woman to yourself!! Baby I cried like a baby. Trust me, us real women FEEL YOU!!!! I’m so proud of you Carmen!! Keep pushing, God has you!!!
This made me cry!!! Yelling at your child and catching yourself because you know it’s not them you just got a lot going on man right there every mother felt that!!! I hope you end up on top Carmen god bless you and your sons!!❤
She didn’t bash him, she told how she felt , said where she was wrong at, where he was wrong at, told us how she felt, and how she didn’t need him, AND SHE ATE HIM DOWN IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE❤❤
She said a lot of key details. The growth is real. Walking away is the easiest thing to do. Taking accountability during the relationship is the best way to avoid going back and forth. I’m proud of her. 👏👏👏
Can't nobody stop you from being a father. Go to court even if they are going to side with the mother. Did you even try? If not then you can't complain. Most don't even want the responsibility. They love having a piece of them on earth but to actually be responsible, nope they're not going. They'll make sis or mom play stepmom
He really felt like he had control over her bc she loved him & she not a US CITIZEN he thought she’ll never leave , SO PROUD THAT YOU LEFT YOU DESERVES BETTER 🩷🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
You are so strong for recognizing your kids needed to be in a safer place while you couldn’t be a mother. Ik that hurts and it may make you feel like a bad mother but you’re not! You were saving your children, you STILL thought about them and their well being while you couldn’t even think about what to do with yourself, and that takes a lot. In that’s moment you knew your kids were safer with your mom for a period of time. That was your motherly decision. When you couldn’t be a mother you still were being a mother and I hope you know that. Everything comes in steps and I’m proud you got out and I hope one day true love is presented to you and you live your happily ever after ❤️
Carmen crying got me ready to cry, especially talking about being a mother to her kids. I don’t care what they say about you, they could never make me hate you! Proud of you for telling your truth and may god continue to heal you on your journey 🩵🩵🩵
My daughter is with a narcissistic, I have been close to going to jail for pulling gun on him and moving my daughter out. Today she is still with him 5 yrs and still going through sugar honey ice tea. Praying for you all until you get tired and the strength to leave. Pray 🙏🏾
The fact you tried over and over don’t make you weak sis. It makes you humble and strong. Ignoring the red flags 🚩 is easy. It’s ignoring your own self worth that’s not. Don’t let people who not walking in your shoes call you anything less then a Queen. The same person downing you the same person who wish their situation was better. We all walking this story of life. Corey is a hurt goofy, let that man lay in his bed he made. Don’t keep addressing the devil and take your time moving on. It should be only about you and your kids on this healing journey. Ignore the noise and ignore opinions that’s all they were ever be.
I can see & hear the PTSD, the anxiety & the TRAUMATIZING PAIN in her voice when she is explaining the story and maaaaan can I relate so much. I’m so happy that you’re finally getting away and getting what you deserve Carmen. When I hear this story and seee how similar our situations are, I can’t help but to tear up. Praying for your strength! You’re so beautiful and deserve the world girl. Love you Carmennnn 🫶🏽
Omg I've been upset with her for the longest cause I felt she played victim in every situation but this video she held herself accountable fr I've never heard her do that genuinely do that and now I'm back in love with her again
😢 woman to woman mother to mother I felt this !! We gotta stick together my beautiful queens , uplifting and showing up for one another ‼️😭🫂🫂 I love you Carmen
Yes and he comes across like a younger version of Martell hold from love and marriage Huntsville I'm glad carmen had the strength to do what's best her and her beautiful boys
Carmen isn’t weak , she is a WOMAN that was fighting for someone she loves !! You are very strong baby , I’m praying for your healing !! GOD got you and your kids !
This is the best video Carmen has ever made. She is finally done. She is angry. She is healing and it’s so beautiful to see. Meechie… He’s waiting patiently for you to heal. He is a real one. I’m so glad that you were close in age chapter in your life. You are doing amazing at motherhood. You got this
This made a lot of things clearer after been watching Carmen from the beginning after a while the light in the eyes dimmed so now things are truly adding up it was fear I truly hope Carmen finds peace and love because she left her heart out in this video I felt every emotion from this video. I respect her even more for being this transparent with us love you Carmen.
As a former DV survivor, who fell for a controlling narcissist, I can relate to you so much. That man left me fighting for my life physically, mentally, and spiritually. I lost myself and was broken on every level. Proud to say 3 years later, I am about to go into my second year of law school and figuring it out as a single mother. Focus on your healing and prioritize yourself. SELF-LOVE is the ultimate! You got this Mama. You’re on the path of true self discovery!
You can’t hear her crying out for help and so detailed in this story, not to believe her. This is the clearest she has ever sounded and not to be funny. But I believe every piece of truth in her story.
2 girls that really inspired me are Queen Naija and Carmen. These girls have been thru so much from their ex husband and have learned to grow from it. I hope Carmen finds her peace with or without a partner
@@LadyJayx4 This has nothing to do with zodiacs and its not about being “built different” its about a serious situation with men so stop thinking everything is about zodiacs.
When she said there was a point she thought about letting her mom take the kids and she’ll just unalive herself 😢 Depression is such a lonely dark hole in our brains and when you’re left alone in there - a lot of monstrous voices will try to push you towards some real bad shxt. So proud of you Carmen for not giving in. You’re such a strong woman for that.
So glad she didn't because the biological father Corey would have received custody and shut her mom out of those boys lives or only used her for his own benefit for when he wanted a babysitter.
@@jiggaman000 what… lol? Are you good? The video is about HER Not about him He is blessed to be apart of HER story To be MENTIONED Blessed that she gave him kids But this VIDEO IS ABOUT HER CARMEN AND HER JOURNEY HER STRUGGLE HER STRENGTH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY her GROWTH Now get the fuck off my comment We don’t do that over here Go on his fucking video and comment
Bro I haven’t watched you on RUclips in years but tuning into this interview has me so proud of you! I respect you as a woman 100% you got this baby keep going GOD got you !! You are a beautiful soul Carmen 🩷 heart to heart I love you girl.
OMG Carmen got me tearing up :'( When she said, she felt like she couldn't be a mom, put a lump in my throat, because when you actually adore your kids, it hurts to even think about them being in the middle of any situation that doesn't benefit them, especially when it's with the other parent!
You deserve some fucking flowers ! I been here watching you since it started. Never called you stupid cause I’ve been in your shoes. Takes a different kinda woman to endure the things that come with abusive relationships. Financially and physically and emotionally. Im so proud of you Carmen. 👏🏽 so so so proud. Keep speaking ! Not only for you but for people who don’t have a voice. Continue to strive and grow. Gods plan is GREATER than any man’s.
Now this is what holding yourself accountable, clearing the air, being a woman, keeping it a stack alp while standing on business looks & feels like bc even as a man i feel her heart & truth in this vid 🫡
At 20:21 when she said she was at the point where she lost herself and thats why she never had the kids, i instantly started to cry especially when she started crying, these are real feelings and emotions and I feel every last one of them, you can really lose yourself and lose your mind dealing with a man who treats you so poorly and its so sad… Carmen is speaking her TRUTH and her truth is alot of other women’s truth as well
Finally Carmen!! I have been praying for you to get away from him since y'all were on that influencer reality show that y'all did with the Prince family. You are a star on your own. You are tough sister. You don't owe anyone anything because a lot of us has been through the same exact thing. you are beautiful and only deserve God's best. He is weak and a narcissist. I hope and pray that I get to meet you one these days. Your testimony is about to help so many women who have been through all of this. You are not stupid for going back. I am so proud of you and the woman that you have grown into. May God continue to favor, Protect, cover, and bless you honey.
I have mad respect for her ..I’ve never watched a video of hers before ..but this video is something that need to be watched …my god continue to bless and watch over Carmen and the kids …blessings are coming her way for sure …
Same , never followed them but seen some things. But this video was everything and I’m glad I watched it . I respect her a lot for how she carried herself in this video. ❤️👌🏾
I thought it was sad in the beginning when she said she understood she had to deal with “her consequences” for texting another guy. Accountability is important but, I thought she was gonna say she got cursed out or something not physically abused over a text message. That’s sad she views that moment as a “consequence”.
@@biggerthanlyfe9853When you suffer from abuse and stay you start to think you deserved it. Plus your abuser will make sure you think it's your fault for them abusing you.
I started tearing when she says “I wasn’t a mom to be there for him.” I couldn’t even be there for myself” most of us woman go through something similar in diff levels these guys cant be real men. Only narcissistic people. Let’s not ignore the red flags sisters so we won’t loose ourselves. Ily Carmen ❤
“Don’t tell me this shit hot and expect me not to touch it. I wanna know how hot it is” she smart asf fr because that’s how humans learn they have to go through shit to know to move and be smarter. You’ll know once you experience it💯
Most humans, not all. I’ve avoided SO many trials and tribulations by learning from other ppl mistakes, understanding that I don’t know it all. That’s the difference between being smart and being wise. Remember, curiosity killed the cat!
You definitely speaking for a lot of us that don’t talk about it . I promise this video was needed . You definitely gave us strength to find ourselves .
When she got to talking about how she don’t feel like herself and it’s effecting her parenting & her just being her. That’s been me for months. I can’t wait to get back to myself again.
DV/Narcissist survivor here! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR SPEAKING OUT!!! Keep your head up and keep pushing! I will be praying for you and your healing‼️ Also praying for your protection!
@@Thelovelylifeefrr!! i’ve learned in my life never try to confront a narcissist about how they are treating u or acting towards u because it will backfire on u real quick … they will try to turn it on and say hurtful things to u that u think they would never do or say
damnnn this is a strong women. most women in a situation like this try and try again cause of the manipulation & narcissistic tendencies from the other person & once us women are done we are done! the dv of it all, doesn’t help, it’s extremely difficult to get out of a situation like that! she is so strong & so brave for telling her story cause we all know it wasn’t easy!!!! carmen you are glowing now & i can see it. you are HEALING, HAPPY & HEALTHY and i can see it. i am so proud of you ❤
Men will stress you out and drain tf out of you just to distract you from your life purpose & getting to the bag! Keep your emotions stabilized. Don’t chase nor force anything to work. We as women mess up when we let our emotions make decisions for us. I’ve been there and I’m still healing.
@ghost43881 you emotional af😂. The comment said men stress women out, if anything it's generalizing women as if we all live to please a man and can't handle our emotions.
This woman is broken and she has such a beautiful soul! She took accountability for her actions and told her truth! She went through so much! Her comeback is going to be EPIC just watch!!!!!
I swear I stay worried about Carmen and her baby’s Corey gives me Chris watts vibes 😞 the fact that he posted Carmen nudes on twitter after she drop her song proofs that he hates her so much he’s not scared to hurt her .
Your bestie Tay would be so proud of you, you finally released it all at your own time and God’s perfect timing. Praying for your strength, sanity, and serenity. May God continue to complete the good work He has already started in your healing, binding any negativity and evilness from striking. May He also continue orchestrating your life for you and your family's benefit🙏Psalms 91 is also a great scripture to read
Thank you for sharing your truth. Someone suffering in silence will be saved because of you being open honest and brave. God bless you and your family. 🙏🏽💜
ppl judged her for always running back but if yall never been in a situation where u constantly ran back to a person bc u loved them but also thinking they could change u will never understand until you’re finally fed tf up!! she tried to fix their marriage not only for herself but for her kids !! i respect this woman sm
I’m soo sorry you had to deal with this man and you had to go through that it’s a testimony that God had you go through.. And don’t ever feel bad you went back to him everyone went through that in life Real Shit your a STRONGER WOMAN can’t nobody try you
I have never cried listening to RUclipsrs talk or vent but Carmen this video was very much needed. I feel for you sooooo much I just want to hug you. Realizing there are actual women that goes through the same thing and be so scared to speak up because they stayed for whatever reason helped me overcome domestic violence in relationships
sorry my babies , We had to re-upload the video due to the hurricane, I hope everyone’s staying safe 🙏🏼🤍
praying for you carmen ❤️ you only going up from here
We love you so much Carmen. Sending you love and light. ❤
Love you queen! 💛
No problem Love you Carmen sending u so much love and I’m so proud of you for sharing your story
No problem love, honestly you are one of the strongest women I know, you're showing me a lot of things to stay away from and open my eye to as a young woman, so thank you for going through all the trials you needed to, to finally let go and do what's best for you and your kids, I knew it had a reason for why you went back so I'm glad I was right, I'm proud of you for your growth and finally being able to get away from that monster, stay safe carmen, lots of love for you always❤
She took accountability for her actions first before she spoke on the things he did . This is a honest strong women and she is up against the devil !
literally !
Forreal💯
For real❤
That’s what u call a real woman but Corey is a dick where he would not be a man and say what he did wrong that’s why us woman are more stronger than men and I am talking about the real woman not the little girls.
When we actually learn who our biggest enemy is that really want to to you fall and suffer….but God sis!
God is rebuilding you for greater and better and he’s restoring you and renewing you ❤
“I lost myself and couldn’t be a mother” I FELT THIS GOD BLESS U!!!!!!
Same I know the feeling
Exactly! same. iykyk!
Iys not a good feeling y’all
I swear! This is me NOW! It was like looking in the mirror! Definitely made me feel good to know someone else was like me! I tried and tried with my bd and STILL allow him freedom to see my son and he won’t 🤦🏻♀️ the relationship is dead but the doors open whenever he wants to see his son
Talk yo stuff, God got you. You'll get a new man, and keep putting music out. I can tell you healing.
Love Carmen button>
We all love you ❤❤
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Facts
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Awwwww, I don’t know you, but I love you and thank you for speaking up. This takes so much courage.
“ My mother don’t even hate you the way she should “ I FELT THAT.
File all the paperwork… cease and desist, restraining order, revenge p*rn charges, primary custody.. and everything else in between. And DONT GO BACK
Hope she sees this!!!
@@Naiki29just an update she did see it she actually liked it
Please dnt, she deserves so much better, I been noticed that years with his disrespectful ass
Take him to court
YES !
“Don’t you ever speak about my mother” I felt that with my soul “my family did nothing but love you” on my SOUL 😢
Whewwwww that hurt it hit home
facts cause I don't play bout my mama either
Bar from bar ❤❤❤
That hit home to !!! 😢
Us women have to start letting men stand in their own shit. We gotta stop protecting men and let people be themselves without our shield.
This is the clearest she has ever sounded and not just her accent but the way she worded things , the way she took accountability , the way she detailed her thought process in those moments , the way she gave reasoning behind her decisions , the way she told both sides without being evil , the way she made sure she didn’t say things out of spite .. so proud of her and wishing her nothing but success moving forward!
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I saw a clip on someone page and said the same thing. I was like she speaking clear AF!! That’s what made me come to watch the whole video!
Yessssss I fucking love this for her 🥹💔
She is mad and fed tf up.
And she still held back!
Her accent is crazy. It’s a mix of Latina meets southern belle. Dope!
Yasss I was like omg she live in Georgia or something 😂
@@alexislucas-webster6373 alabama
It’s like a southern black woman is taking over with a dominican undertone it’s one of the most unique accents I have ever heard in my life 😂
@@alexislucas-webster6373she lived in Alabama
It’s funny af
“I’m still healing. I’m still hurt. But I’m STRONGER.” That’s the realist shit I done heard somebody say in a long time 🥺👏🏾
Literally .💯 only peace and blessings is going come frfr and some healing
ok!! we need that on a shirt
@@Petty-s2w and really do I just might make my own shirts with that saying if so definitely will let you know because it’ll definitely be a hit 💯
Realllll talk 💯
People judged her for always going back but she was fighting for her MARRIAGE until she couldn’t fight anymore. Marriage is work and she truly tried but sometimes, walking away is the only answer and I’m glad she got the strength to do so. Wishing you all the healing and peace, Carmen. You deserve it boo 💜
Corey said Carmen only tried to stay with him to get citizenship I love Carmen and I don't believe S#!t Corey talking bout he's a male Gemini that should say enough smfh!
Marriage work both ways exactly he always playing he want his family back and when get them back it's back to the old corey
This is what ppl don't understand a marriage is not the same as a regular relationship you don't get to just get up and leave when you want. Hell, shes finally don't and still cant get far enough away from him.
Never fight when any type of abuse is involved!
you preaching brookiee ! say that !!!
“If a father wanna be a father, A father will be a fucking father” ATEEEE
Putting that on a shirt😂
Trust me.
@@keyypoppin2025 we definitely need that meme 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I agree
Yessss that part!!!!!!!!!
The fact that she is being mindful of what she says to protect her children from hating their father is a different type of strong!!! Carmen you may never know how powerful your testimony is! You are helping to not only heal yourself but you are helping to give strength and courage to other women of DV! Wishing you nothing but love, light, peace, and blessings!!!❤❤❤
Through her telling her story, she still gave this man credit for some stuff while reliving her truth. That tells you the woman she has grown to be. But the moment she said you only a father because you nutted in me is nothing but the truth. Carmen this is the most vulnerable you have been in a while. Even though I am older than you, I give you your flowers and you have much respect from me. Your accountability is amazing. Go ahead and write your book. This can save many more people. God got you. Love you!
When she said i ask god to forgive me, that hit me in my chest 😢
I promise it tore me up 😭😫
Yes😢
Man...in my soul 😢
Same
She cleared him with so much grace🥺❤️ that’s how you know she loved that man she still hasn’t even bashed him the way he bashed her.. god is going to take care of her and her babies for certain and for sure❤️❤️
You’re speaking for a lot of us women. You’re not the only one. I’m glad you’re free and you’re much stronger. I love you Carmen. Proud of you
What her speaking on this do for other women?
@@zxz4337gives them that push, someone to compare to. Seeing another woman in your situation speak up about this gives out courage in some way to leave that situation. just a video represents something big to many others.
@@zxz4337 Jesus is the True King. I’m walking my path and minding my own. Here to only spread love the way He did. God Bless ♥️
This is a woman who waited to heal to tell her story because she knows that if she tried to in the heat of the things she would just look crazy. From one survivor to another I believe in you!
Perfectly said!!!!
Exactly!!
Amen, I'm so glad you're healed ..sending you live and blessings from NC ❤❤ Keep going, I BELIEVE IN YOU HUN..YOUR STRENGTH AND YOU BEING STRONG DOES HELP OTHERS !!
Yuppp she’s not lying you can tell she waiting
This !!!
"They only your kids bc u n*tted in me!"
Whew sis meant that with her whole soul‼️ wishing her and the boys nothing but positivity and blessings❤
Cut throat and straight to the point! I love this Carmen!!!!
he just an ex sperm donor.
Time stamp?
CLOCK IT 😜
@@slowed-camille3011 40:24
This video gave me chills 😢i salute you Carmen for being strong enough to walk away from an unsafe relationship so many people stay until it’s to late 🙏🏽
THE BIGGEST COME BACK IS MAKING YOURSELF HAPPY AGAIN.
She needed to go back for this very reason. I can guarantee that a new version of Carmen is coming. Good job mama we are proud of you. Take your time and heal and be a better version of yourself ❤❤❤
Damn right we all went back to get closure and then that's it for good you could Say what bring down the world no going back
YUP
When she started crying talking about her mothering 😢 so true once it affects the way you mother your kids you know it's time.
This!!! I felt that and it’s so hard trying to deal with pain, heartbreak & still have to be a loving mom.
Pure Facts🤍
Fr that made me cry 🥺
Facts 😢
Type shit
The growth in Carmen is so clear. 💯 Being able to go back and be around the person who broke you the most is a different world of strength. She is still healing and probably will for a long time-like we all are- but Man U can just hear the amount of ways she has already healed so much and I am sooooo proud of her ❤❤
"All because you tryna prove a point to the world that dont give a fuck about you". I felt that in my soul. We love you camen.
That part!
Don't forget the 1 or 2
🥹Ooooowwww... When she said "til this day my mom don't hate you like she should." That was a lot!! That was heartbreaking.😔
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Its sad how many of us women suffer in silence to make a family work, with a man that is none deserving anyways... This is sad but so many deal with the same things, we have to start loving ourselves more!!! Proud of you for speaking up and getting that off your chest!!! 💓💓💓
This‼️‼️
Speak on it Sis! ❤
Y’all like cheaters until y’all get older aka yall prime years are done for 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sammywilliam6 I’ve never met a woman who intentionally wanted a cheater. Men are such cowards that wait to show their promiscuity until years later when someone is already invested.
@@sammywilliams6 what point are you trying to make with this comment. No women likes to be abused hush up you sound like a weirdo.
People don't talk about PTSD in relationships enough, I felt every word, especially "I had to get back in them shoes again", sometimes you need to go thru it ONE more time to really be done. IYKYK
You never know how strong you can be until you have to be STRONGER.
OKAY!
Amen
💯hello
For real!!
Whew! When you said you couldn’t even be a mom or a woman to yourself!! Baby I cried like a baby. Trust me, us real women FEEL YOU!!!! I’m so proud of you Carmen!! Keep pushing, God has you!!!
Cory big head ass still talking too.
Lol. What do you mean, "Us REAL women," feel you? Are they fake women out there?
I felt that too!!🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
Yesss I cried with her ❤😩💗
Me too
This made me cry!!! Yelling at your child and catching yourself because you know it’s not them you just got a lot going on man right there every mother felt that!!! I hope you end up on top Carmen god bless you and your sons!!❤
This💯
She didn’t bash him, she told how she felt , said where she was wrong at, where he was wrong at, told us how she felt, and how she didn’t need him, AND SHE ATE HIM DOWN IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE❤❤
Damn 😳 you make Diddy look like an angel. Carmen you are so resilient and brave and I’m so proud of you for sharing your truth. Keep healing ❤️🩹
“For I know the plans I have for you” - God
Keep pushing Carmen baby ♥️♥️
JEREMIAH 29:11
She said a lot of key details. The growth is real. Walking away is the easiest thing to do. Taking accountability during the relationship is the best way to avoid going back and forth. I’m proud of her. 👏👏👏
“if a father want to be a father then a father will be a fucking father” STAMPEDDDD‼️
Can't nobody stop you from being a father. Go to court even if they are going to side with the mother. Did you even try? If not then you can't complain. Most don't even want the responsibility. They love having a piece of them on earth but to actually be responsible, nope they're not going. They'll make sis or mom play stepmom
When Carmen Said Let’s B Honest Evrybody Was Coming To Watch The Videos To See Me && She Told Nothing But The Truth
The whole truth!
Nothing but the truth!!
That part ‼️
100 bc she was funny - she had me in tears
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He really felt like he had control over her bc she loved him & she not a US CITIZEN he thought she’ll never leave , SO PROUD THAT YOU LEFT YOU DESERVES BETTER 🩷🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Little did she know she could have qualified for papers after reporting her eye injury
@@giselletoscano9248exactly. I wonder if she took pictures of herself. If so she could still use that to her advantage.
I thought they were married? Doesn’t she get her residency asf so many years
I didn’t get that far into the video yet but she’s from Puerto Rico right? In that case, she is a US citizen. Is that something he thought?
She’s from Honduras not PR
You are so strong for recognizing your kids needed to be in a safer place while you couldn’t be a mother. Ik that hurts and it may make you feel like a bad mother but you’re not! You were saving your children, you STILL thought about them and their well being while you couldn’t even think about what to do with yourself, and that takes a lot. In that’s moment you knew your kids were safer with your mom for a period of time. That was your motherly decision. When you couldn’t be a mother you still were being a mother and I hope you know that. Everything comes in steps and I’m proud you got out and I hope one day true love is presented to you and you live your happily ever after ❤️
when she started crying my heart broke. I been believe Carmen since day one. Everytime she went back I understood.
Carmen crying got me ready to cry, especially talking about being a mother to her kids. I don’t care what they say about you, they could never make me hate you! Proud of you for telling your truth and may god continue to heal you on your journey 🩵🩵🩵
One thing about a quiet person is when they finally speak they are LETTING ALL THE PAIN AND HURT GO. No lies are told when a quiet person speaks!!!!
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yesssss
Exactly 💯😊
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My daughter is with a narcissistic, I have been close to going to jail for pulling gun on him and moving my daughter out. Today she is still with him 5 yrs and still going through sugar honey ice tea. Praying for you all until you get tired and the strength to leave. Pray 🙏🏾
Prayers to your daughter. I hope she finds the strength and courage to leave her narcissistic bf. ❤
Yessss my dad has just found out about my DV and I went back as well but Carmen gave me a voice
The fact you tried over and over don’t make you weak sis. It makes you humble and strong. Ignoring the red flags 🚩 is easy. It’s ignoring your own self worth that’s not. Don’t let people who not walking in your shoes call you anything less then a Queen. The same person downing you the same person who wish their situation was better. We all walking this story of life. Corey is a hurt goofy, let that man lay in his bed he made. Don’t keep addressing the devil and take your time moving on. It should be only about you and your kids on this healing journey. Ignore the noise and ignore opinions that’s all they were ever be.
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I love you so much Carmen 💋 u very humble I could really be ur friend in real life
You could not have said this better!! ❤❤ much love and respect to all the woman suffering in silence, 🙏
That “Don’t you ever in your fuckin life speak about my mother” 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Period cause Carmen mom is the sweetest 😭💕
Felt it deep down!! That came from her healing soul
Okay!?! I was like, “Get it Carmen!!”
time stamp?
@@prettyy.kiaundra34:50
You can tell she is strong when she can talk about this and only cry one time
She so real about what she said about her kids and being a mom to them and admitting she needed help I’m glad she had her mom to support her
I can see & hear the PTSD, the anxiety & the TRAUMATIZING PAIN in her voice when she is explaining the story and maaaaan can I relate so much. I’m so happy that you’re finally getting away and getting what you deserve Carmen. When I hear this story and seee how similar our situations are, I can’t help but to tear up. Praying for your strength! You’re so beautiful and deserve the world girl. Love you Carmennnn 🫶🏽
30:45 “i went back for me not for you and now i can let you go for me” a worrrdddd!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽 keep pushing carmen you got this 💕✨
She’s taking accountability for her actions for the things she has done. She’s not blaming
Omg I've been upset with her for the longest cause I felt she played victim in every situation but this video she held herself accountable fr I've never heard her do that genuinely do that and now I'm back in love with her again
😢 woman to woman mother to mother I felt this !! We gotta stick together my beautiful queens , uplifting and showing up for one another ‼️😭🫂🫂 I love you Carmen
Yes and he comes across like a younger version of Martell hold from love and marriage Huntsville I'm glad carmen had the strength to do what's best her and her beautiful boys
Carmen isn’t weak , she is a WOMAN that was fighting for someone she loves !! You are very strong baby , I’m praying for your healing !! GOD got you and your kids !
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👏🏽👏🏽it takes a lot of strength to leave something like this. Facts
I felt Carmen when she said that she tried until she couldn’t no more
Yes. That's deep.
I really Believe Carmen is done done.
Praying for Healing 🙏
Yes. That's deep.
I really Believe Carmen is DONE DONE✅
Praying for Strength and Comfort, during the emotional Healing process 🙏
@@Kym633Blessed
ODEE‼️
Facts
This is the best video Carmen has ever made. She is finally done. She is angry. She is healing and it’s so beautiful to see. Meechie… He’s waiting patiently for you to heal. He is a real one. I’m so glad that you were close in age chapter in your life. You are doing amazing at motherhood. You got this
This made a lot of things clearer after been watching Carmen from the beginning after a while the light in the eyes dimmed so now things are truly adding up it was fear I truly hope Carmen finds peace and love because she left her heart out in this video I felt every emotion from this video. I respect her even more for being this transparent with us love you Carmen.
As a former DV survivor, who fell for a controlling narcissist, I can relate to you so much. That man left me fighting for my life physically, mentally, and spiritually. I lost myself and was broken on every level. Proud to say 3 years later, I am about to go into my second year of law school and figuring it out as a single mother. Focus on your healing and prioritize yourself. SELF-LOVE is the ultimate! You got this Mama. You’re on the path of true self discovery!
Congrats on Law School 🎉🎉 so proud of you for fighting!
Congratulations sis!!!! Wishing you an abundance of joy and prosperity. 💖💖
Congratsss sis from another DV survivor 💜
“If a father want to be a father, a father will be a f’n father”. Whewwww chile, I felt that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
You can’t hear her crying out for help and so detailed in this story, not to believe her. This is the clearest she has ever sounded and not to be funny. But I believe every piece of truth in her story.
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Omg you hit it on the nose
This!!!!!!!
She didn’t stop talking not once I believe her and I feel so bad for her😢
I never watched your vids but I came across this one and now I’m crying 😭 so many of us have the same story , love you ❤
2 girls that really inspired me are Queen Naija and Carmen. These girls have been thru so much from their ex husband and have learned to grow from it. I hope Carmen finds her peace with or without a partner
definitely kinda the same but queen left chris fast she wasn’t playing she knew that nixga wasn’t right
@@LadyJayx4it has nothing to do with your zodiac sign 🙄 A woman gained her strength after trying to love a broken man.
@@LadyJayx4 This has nothing to do with zodiacs and its not about being “built different” its about a serious situation with men so stop thinking everything is about zodiacs.
@@50shadesofkay61😂😂😂😂
When she said there was a point she thought about letting her mom take the kids and she’ll just unalive herself 😢 Depression is such a lonely dark hole in our brains and when you’re left alone in there - a lot of monstrous voices will try to push you towards some real bad shxt. So proud of you Carmen for not giving in. You’re such a strong woman for that.
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So glad she didn't because the biological father Corey would have received custody and shut her mom out of those boys lives or only used her for his own benefit for when he wanted a babysitter.
Good thing she didn’t cuz her family would’ve been sooo heartbroken 💔
Fr
A million views in 1 mothafuckin day?
He couldn't command this attention if he TRIED.
SHE WAS ALWAYS SPECIAL!!
Give Carmen her fucking flowers
period!!
the video is about him.
@@jiggaman000 what… lol?
Are you good?
The video is about HER
Not about him
He is blessed to be apart of HER story
To be MENTIONED
Blessed that she gave him kids
But this VIDEO IS ABOUT HER
CARMEN
AND HER JOURNEY
HER STRUGGLE
HER STRENGTH
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY
her GROWTH
Now get the fuck off my comment
We don’t do that over here
Go on his fucking video and comment
@@jiggaman000no it’s about her abuse
She’s a women ofc yall finna hype her up not knowing what she actually has done to dude as..😂
Bro I haven’t watched you on RUclips in years but tuning into this interview has me so proud of you! I respect you as a woman 100% you got this baby keep going GOD got you !! You are a beautiful soul Carmen 🩷 heart to heart I love you girl.
OMG Carmen got me tearing up :'( When she said, she felt like she couldn't be a mom, put a lump in my throat, because when you actually adore your kids, it hurts to even think about them being in the middle of any situation that doesn't benefit them, especially when it's with the other parent!
You deserve some fucking flowers ! I been here watching you since it started. Never called you stupid cause I’ve been in your shoes. Takes a different kinda woman to endure the things that come with abusive relationships. Financially and physically and emotionally. Im so proud of you Carmen. 👏🏽 so so so proud. Keep speaking ! Not only for you but for people who don’t have a voice. Continue to strive and grow. Gods plan is GREATER than any man’s.
You can hear the frustration in her voice 😢😢I’m glad she can speak about her story when she want but not when the public forces her to
Now this is what holding yourself accountable, clearing the air, being a woman, keeping it a stack alp while standing on business looks & feels like bc even as a man i feel her heart & truth in this vid 🫡
At 20:21 when she said she was at the point where she lost herself and thats why she never had the kids, i instantly started to cry especially when she started crying, these are real feelings and emotions and I feel every last one of them, you can really lose yourself and lose your mind dealing with a man who treats you so poorly and its so sad… Carmen is speaking her TRUTH and her truth is alot of other women’s truth as well
thought I was the only ONE!!
I'm crying hysterically, I want this young lady to win in every area of life so bad. Just like she said, she's powerful - so real and engaging.
I agree!! God got her and them babies covered ❤💪🏽🙏🏽
I was crying like a baby. Been there so I understand.
❤❤❤❤ I definitely concur!!!!
and she still didn't discredit his name ! i love that ! you got this girl
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Finally Carmen!! I have been praying for you to get away from him since y'all were on that influencer reality show that y'all did with the Prince family. You are a star on your own. You are tough sister. You don't owe anyone anything because a lot of us has been through the same exact thing. you are beautiful and only deserve God's best. He is weak and a narcissist. I hope and pray that I get to meet you one these days. Your testimony is about to help so many women who have been through all of this. You are not stupid for going back. I am so proud of you and the woman that you have grown into. May God continue to favor, Protect, cover, and bless you honey.
I have mad respect for her ..I’ve never watched a video of hers before ..but this video is something that need to be watched …my god continue to bless and watch over Carmen and the kids …blessings are coming her way for sure …
Same , never followed them but seen some things. But this video was everything and I’m glad I watched it . I respect her a lot for how she carried herself in this video. ❤️👌🏾
I love how she take a accountability but he blame everything on her 😭
Right
That’s how my breakup was too… a narcissistic man with a guilty conscious will say anything that make himself look and feel better about his actions
I thought it was sad in the beginning when she said she understood she had to deal with “her consequences” for texting another guy. Accountability is important but, I thought she was gonna say she got cursed out or something not physically abused over a text message. That’s sad she views that moment as a “consequence”.
@@biggerthanlyfe9853it's sad bc he cheated multiple times but has never did him dirty
@@biggerthanlyfe9853When you suffer from abuse and stay you start to think you deserved it. Plus your abuser will make sure you think it's your fault for them abusing you.
“Go back till u hate em” once you’re done, you’re done forever!
That doesn't mean she should go back he's disgusting
YUP
That feeling of disgust hit different u dont even look at them same no more
I started tearing when she says “I wasn’t a mom to be there for him.” I couldn’t even be there for myself” most of us woman go through something similar in diff levels these guys cant be real men. Only narcissistic people. Let’s not ignore the red flags sisters so we won’t loose ourselves. Ily Carmen ❤
“Don’t tell me this shit hot and expect me not to touch it. I wanna know how hot it is” she smart asf fr because that’s how humans learn they have to go through shit to know to move and be smarter. You’ll know once you experience it💯
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Most humans, not all. I’ve avoided SO many trials and tribulations by learning from other ppl mistakes, understanding that I don’t know it all. That’s the difference between being smart and being wise. Remember, curiosity killed the cat!
Na wise people learn from the mistakes of others. Curiosity literally kills
That’s not smart at all…..i would never purposely touch a hot stove. If yk it’s not good or going to benefit you, stay away.
Real talk💯
You definitely speaking for a lot of us that don’t talk about it . I promise this video was needed . You definitely gave us strength to find ourselves .
When she got to talking about how she don’t feel like herself and it’s effecting her parenting & her just being her. That’s been me for months. I can’t wait to get back to myself again.
You got this. Sending you tons of love
Same, we got this though. Keep fighting and pushing!
You got this girl 🙌🏼🙌🏼 Praying for you 🙏🏼❤️
Girl sameeee especially after having a baby
You got this 🙏❤️
Lawd I’m crying! Carmen you did your big one sis and I’m praying for bigger and better things to come for you love❤
I’m soooooo glad Carmen is back and better 🥺🥰💙
Back and beautiful and better
DV/Narcissist survivor here! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR SPEAKING OUT!!! Keep your head up and keep pushing! I will be praying for you and your healing‼️ Also praying for your protection!
This is what happens when you’re dealing with a NARCISSIST!! You are NOT WRONG SIS!! Keep GOING YOU GOT THIS 🙌🏾
Man them narcissist ain’t nobody to play with , then will have you on a emotional roller
@@Thelovelylifeefrr!! i’ve learned in my life never try to confront a narcissist about how they are treating u or acting towards u because it will backfire on u real quick … they will try to turn it on and say hurtful things to u that u think they would never do or say
@@Thelovelylifeebroo stggg I lost my hair and I cried everyday I believe Carmen I delt with that too smh 🤦🏽♀️
@@ThelovelylifeeSo freaking true. Its horrible. Literally so mentally and emotionally torturing
@@daniellerenee2008 💯
damnnn this is a strong women. most women in a situation like this try and try again cause of the manipulation & narcissistic tendencies from the other person & once us women are done we are done! the dv of it all, doesn’t help, it’s extremely difficult to get out of a situation like that! she is so strong & so brave for telling her story cause we all know it wasn’t easy!!!! carmen you are glowing now & i can see it. you are HEALING, HAPPY & HEALTHY and i can see it. i am so proud of you ❤
she ateeeee, “it couldve been corey and carmen but it was carmen and corey”😂😂😂
Left no crumbssss😂.
ate down bad😂 i love that for her
lmaoo love her down
clock it😂
No Cs she really ATE DATT 😂😭
Men will stress you out and drain tf out of you just to distract you from your life purpose & getting to the bag! Keep your emotions stabilized. Don’t chase nor force anything to work. We as women mess up when we let our emotions make decisions for us. I’ve been there and I’m still healing.
Your generalizing us men. "Bad" men may do this. Not "all' men. Talk your talk but lets be specific.
Your purpose is a man, duh!!
Women do the same shit lol
@@ghost43881they on crack
@ghost43881 you emotional af😂. The comment said men stress women out, if anything it's generalizing women as if we all live to please a man and can't handle our emotions.
When Carmen said don't ever fuckin speak on my mother I felt sis anger.... sis plugged tf out there
This woman is broken and she has such a beautiful soul! She took accountability for her actions and told her truth! She went through so much! Her comeback is going to be EPIC just watch!!!!!
Cause the way she stood behind her mother said so much about her 🖤🥰🗣️💯‼️
Carmen this was it!!!! You did that! You spoke your peace you did it respectfully you owned your faults!!! This is healing!
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Yes! She did it! 🙌🏾
She not playing with him. I know that’s right Carmen! 😭😭 You can tell she’s fed tf up. Keep healing and growing! Its nothing but up from here ❤️
When she started tearing up speaking about her kids 🥺🥺🥺 I felt that fr been there love ,Keep your head up you got this ❤❤❤
The knot in my throat crying for you! Lord please protect this woman and her babies!!!!! Keep the devil away from her!!!
I swear I stay worried about Carmen and her baby’s Corey gives me Chris watts vibes 😞 the fact that he posted Carmen nudes on twitter after she drop her song proofs that he hates her so much he’s not scared to hurt her .
Girl sameeeee, I was crying ngl
“I ain’t perfect but i’ve been a great mom”💯
Your bestie Tay would be so proud of you, you finally released it all at your own time and God’s perfect timing. Praying for your strength, sanity, and serenity. May God continue to complete the good work He has already started in your healing, binding any negativity and evilness from striking. May He also continue orchestrating your life for you and your family's benefit🙏Psalms 91 is also a great scripture to read
Thank you for sharing your truth. Someone suffering in silence will be saved because of you being open honest and brave. God bless you and your family. 🙏🏽💜
I love that she’s finding her own voice and speaking her truth💕💕🥹 We love you Carmen🦋
“Nobody give a fuck about no Facebook”😂 - Talk yo shit Carmen lol
I said the same thing 😂😂
Naw fr. The whole video, I’m like “TALK YO SHIT “
Had me wheezing 😂
He threatened her on sc
lol screaming that throughout the whole video 😂 👏🏾 🗣️
ppl judged her for always running back but if yall never been in a situation where u constantly ran back to a person bc u loved them but also thinking they could change u will never understand until you’re finally fed tf up!! she tried to fix their marriage not only for herself but for her kids !! i respect this woman sm
I’m soo sorry you had to deal with this man and you had to go through that it’s a testimony that God had you go through.. And don’t ever feel bad you went back to him everyone went through that in life Real Shit your a STRONGER WOMAN can’t nobody try you
I have never cried listening to RUclipsrs talk or vent but Carmen this video was very much needed. I feel for you sooooo much I just want to hug you. Realizing there are actual women that goes through the same thing and be so scared to speak up because they stayed for whatever reason helped me overcome domestic violence in relationships