I was with a woman for 10 years and then one day she said she was going to stay at her moms for the night. I was expecting her to be home when I got home from work the following day, she wasn’t. I didn’t call her so the next day the same thing. After a month her mom came to see me and asked why I wasn’t fighting for her. I told her that I had no need to fight for her if she loved me she would be here. After 8 years she still contacts me hoping I will beg for her back but I moved on. I am not begging for anyone nor am I going to play games. You left and didn’t come back, that’s on you. The weird thing is that there wasn’t even a fight. I think her mom talked her into it. I never cheated on her, never stayed away for a night and supported her through school if that wasn’t good enough I can’t satisfy her needs.
I would do the same thing and I actually am. Accept she contacted me while she was with someone. I was thinking how could she think I would switch spots only for her to do that to me
I'vd heard a similar story in Strong Successful Male, I think it's from Reddit. Fiancée broke up with OP and blocked him to go on a girls' trip in Europe for 6 weeks. She was shocked when upon returning, called OP to pick her up at the airport as nothing happened and he refused, reminding her she broke up with him. She really thought she was still going to marry him after the trip as nothing happened. OP couldn't prove his fiancée cheated on him during her trip. So he took the Reddit advice and reminded her she broke up with him before going on the trip. She wasn't prepared for that answer. I was hoping this was a fake story but after seeing the first clip, I realised these women are this stupid 🤦
How about the one where a guy makes plane and motel reservations for a romantic vacation (to Italy I think) for him and his fiancé and paid with his credit card. She invites about four of her friends and leaves without him. While she was on the plane he canceled the return trip and the motel reservations then blocked her. She arrives thinking she is going to have this great 304 vacation on his dime and she had no where to stay and no way for her and her friends to get home without paying themselves. I believe that was SSM also. Men are done with these 304's.
Fellow SSM watcher here. A lot of time I think the same when I listen to these reddit cheating stories, no way it is real and to be fair, some of these stories are definitely fake. But then stubbled upon videos like these where people tell about the worst cheating events and I realize "yeah people can actually be that stupid and selfish". Plus, listening to enough of these stories, it's crazy how much people who fool around follow the same patterns.
They want him to fight for what? She said she wasn't happy. So he left her alone to be happy, but that still wasn't enough. He was right to leave her alone.
Mental gymnastics from these 2 girls is insane. He dodged a bullet. She showed she didn't care about him at all. He ought to have moved on immediately.
She blocked him a week before, and still expected him to be there when she got back??? Really??? Only give these women 1 chance. If they block you that's it- NEVER see them again.
First chic really wanted total control in the relationship. She thought he was a weak simp who would bend to her will. She discovered that that was NOT the case.
he proposed to me, i ended the relationship, blocked him and went on a trip to have as many one night stands as possible, why is he acting like we ain't a thing anymore? 🤔
She will go crawling back. Sad thing is she will unblock him, demand to know why he wasn't at the airport on his knees holding flowers, chocolates, taking her by a stretch limo to a 5 star place to eat.
So let me get this straigth, she ended the relation, blocked him for 4 days, went to a "girls trip" as a single woman and she still believed that he will wait for her???? and is his fault???? that is some crazy woman,there is a little thing called SELF RESPECT
If my woman even asks to go on a girls trip or a girls night out, the relationship is over. There is no negotiating, no compromise, nothing. It is over that very second and yes, i have ended a relationship for this very reason. Even with her saying she won't go after i ended the relationship, i still ended it. If a woman wants to live a single life, let her go.
The first woman is lying through her teeth. She broke up with him 4 days before her girls trip and then blocked him so she could be single and free without guilt about being a 304 on the trip. Using this technique to shit test your boyfriends loyalty is really a ploy to give her the power in the relationship dynamic, That shyte doesn't work on men anymore. We don't chase. If you are interested in a relationship on equal terms we men are interested if not we block and walk away. The amazing thing is she came to this realization AFTER her 304 trip was over and she was ready to get back with her simp again.
Once you block him and breakup, and decide to go on girl's trip alone. That very moment you become something that is not worth fighting for. But it's a good way to console yourself that you did the right thing. Whatever helps you sleep better at night. You go girl.
She literally described a rom com airport scene, that's what she was expecting. That's how Hollywood shape people's idea of what love and relationship are supposed to be.
He might be waiting in the parking lot with flowers and diamonds......maybe.......maybe.......even though you broke up 4 years ago.......he might have been saving up for a huge diamond........you think........maybe.........don't give up, he is probably out there right now.
That first story was so ironic, she thought that if he loved her he would stalk her. He loved her so much he gave her what she wanted, she wanted out and he let her.
She broke up and blocked him to get her cheeks clapped and to be “free” while on a trip. She planned to come back with Chad’s sweat in her hair and not feel badly because they had “broken up.”
If she's not kind, loyal and in love with you, leave. I'm so tired of these mean, disloyal and emotionally stunted women. They want it but can't reciprocate.
That woman overvalued herself and miscalculated her importance to this man. Blocking him and disconnecting from him also gave him time to reevaluate the relationship! He probably realized that he was better off without her. Absence doesn’t always make the heart grow fonder. Sometimes it provides clarity. In her absence, he realized that she was the problem!
This is as insane as that girl that broke up with her boyfriend, blocked him on everything, told him to not talk to or bother her anymore and then showed up at his door a week later wondering why he didn't reach out to her
She ended it cause she knew she was going to be a 304 she was hoping he put his pride aside for some sloppy 2s why breaker up before vacation how freaking convenient
In the first case, Bravo to the guy who wasn't stupid enough to meet her at the airport. She blocked him so she could go cheat on a girls' trip and not feel guilty. Then she expected him to be there like a sucker waiting for her
The female breaks up with the guys, blocks him, and still expects him to show up?? How the hell does he know anything about your traveling schedule?? She thinks he's gonna do everything possible to know that crap?? She's outta her mind..
Am i the only one thats going to ask wtf is she doing going on a “girls trip” anyway?!?! He was probably already pissed off about that, then she breaks up with him and blocks him. Exactly what would make him want to fight for that string of disrespect???
She thought that his love for her would make him chase after her, he thought that her love for him would stop her from screwing around. Looks like they were both wrong.
If he would've taken her back, she would lose more respect for him, and would continue to do more disrespectful things to him in the future!. He made the right decision to bounce 👏.
Commonly, women don’t want a guy, they want the guy to want them. I guarantee if that dude would’ve showed up after being completely disrespected, she would’ve put him through pure hell. Hopefully he knows enough to not give her another chance. She’s sadistic.
"i ended the relationship but i expected him to fight for me. He didn't come back, that prooves he didn't care about me" Girl, ever heard the self-fulfilling prophecy?
He dodged a "bullet." She is obviously insecure and manipulative. She just wanted to be in charge instead of having a REAL relationship. She got what she asked for but not what she wanted. Welcome to real life.
Breaking up with him is one thing, but if he want to try to call you back in the phone to rekindle things you made it impossible making him believe that you didn’t want to fix it
" They left as a test "... they ended the relatonship and blocked to have the freedom to cheat on the trip as well as playing a game testing the guy's reaction. Fishing for any attention...
Woman quits relationship & blocks contact for “girls trip”. Man realizes she is going to screw around and has enough self respect to accept the relationship is over. Woman is upset the man stayed away for his own mental health.
This entitlement is ridiculous. Why should men bother when women play all these mind games. How would they react if roles were reversed? The hypocrisy.
he was right. she blocked him and broke up before the trip so she could do what she wanted and not feel guilty about cheating on him, and by breaking up let her feel like she was doing nothing wrong. what she did was save that man alot of bullshit. he should thank her for showing that she really didnt care about him.
Once you give a man, a reason there is no coming back do us right the first time and there’ll be no issues you don’t think a man wants to continuously sleep with women we do those feelings never go nowhere. It’s just if we can find the one we’ll give that up. Sad to see that woman won’t because of happiness happiness comes within.
Dude with the video game, walk away. This was not an accident She filmed it, then when she saw that it actually upset him, She posted it. It was a premeditated effort to publicly humiliate him. There is no relationship to save, walk away.
But women told us "No means no!" If he was to pursue her after she chooses to end things, he would be accused of SH and not respecting her boundaries. Men simply cant win, in both the real world and delusional world.
Still making pathetic excuses. The guy did the right thing.
I was with a woman for 10 years and then one day she said she was going to stay at her moms for the night. I was expecting her to be home when I got home from work the following day, she wasn’t. I didn’t call her so the next day the same thing. After a month her mom came to see me and asked why I wasn’t fighting for her. I told her that I had no need to fight for her if she loved me she would be here. After 8 years she still contacts me hoping I will beg for her back but I moved on. I am not begging for anyone nor am I going to play games. You left and didn’t come back, that’s on you. The weird thing is that there wasn’t even a fight. I think her mom talked her into it. I never cheated on her, never stayed away for a night and supported her through school if that wasn’t good enough I can’t satisfy her needs.
After 8 years, it time to block her. Make it very clear.
You’re a king.👑
Yo Ryan, you are a solid dude. Stick to your guns 💪🏻 it’s great how you handled that. 👍🏼
I would do the same thing and I actually am. Accept she contacted me while she was with someone. I was thinking how could she think I would switch spots only for her to do that to me
We know where she learned phycho from. Her mom.
I'vd heard a similar story in Strong Successful Male, I think it's from Reddit. Fiancée broke up with OP and blocked him to go on a girls' trip in Europe for 6 weeks.
She was shocked when upon returning, called OP to pick her up at the airport as nothing happened and he refused, reminding her she broke up with him. She really thought she was still going to marry him after the trip as nothing happened.
OP couldn't prove his fiancée cheated on him during her trip. So he took the Reddit advice and reminded her she broke up with him before going on the trip.
She wasn't prepared for that answer.
I was hoping this was a fake story but after seeing the first clip, I realised these women are this stupid 🤦
There's zero doubt she cheated based on her actions. She definitely overestimated her value.
I watch him too
I thought that scenario sounded familiar!
How about the one where a guy makes plane and motel reservations for a romantic vacation (to Italy I think) for him and his fiancé and paid with his credit card. She invites about four of her friends and leaves without him. While she was on the plane he canceled the return trip and the motel reservations then blocked her. She arrives thinking she is going to have this great 304 vacation on his dime and she had no where to stay and no way for her and her friends to get home without paying themselves. I believe that was SSM also.
Men are done with these 304's.
Fellow SSM watcher here. A lot of time I think the same when I listen to these reddit cheating stories, no way it is real and to be fair, some of these stories are definitely fake. But then stubbled upon videos like these where people tell about the worst cheating events and I realize "yeah people can actually be that stupid and selfish". Plus, listening to enough of these stories, it's crazy how much people who fool around follow the same patterns.
Block him for your girls trip so you could sleep with everyone you meet and not feel guilty about it. You think he’s stupid and can’t see that?
break up with a guy and block him to go on a girl's trip and expecting him to be at the airport to welcome you back is next level delusional...
She got ran through. No thanks on the sloppy seconds.😅😂
Reminds me of that video of a woman who broke up with a guy then months later was at his doorstep demanding her birthday present.
Exactly!!! A TOTALLY WARPED REALITY!!!
NARCISSISTS!
They want him to fight for what? She said she wasn't happy. So he left her alone to be happy, but that still wasn't enough. He was right to leave her alone.
Mental gymnastics from these 2 girls is insane. He dodged a bullet. She showed she didn't care about him at all. He ought to have moved on immediately.
I've had several women pull this sort of thing!! Never take the bait!! Let them walk
Never dig through the trash after you've taken it to the curb. Once it's out, it's out.
Absolutely.
She blocked him a week before, and still expected him to be there when she got back??? Really??? Only give these women 1 chance. If they block you that's it- NEVER see them again.
First chic really wanted total control in the relationship. She thought he was a weak simp who would bend to her will.
She discovered that that was NOT the case.
I ended my relationship and blocked him, why is he acting like we aren't together anymore?!
he proposed to me, i ended the relationship, blocked him and went on a trip to have as many one night stands as possible, why is he acting like we ain't a thing anymore? 🤔
If you leave your partner as a test, you already know the relationship is in trouble otherwise you wouldn’t be testing!
She did him a favor......meteor dodged. You wont have to go through this non-sense with the right woman.
If she wasn't happy during the engagement, then why would he fight for her? She is pretty delusional.
WOW! 2 women believing each others bullshit.
She will go crawling back. Sad thing is she will unblock him, demand to know why he wasn't at the airport on his knees holding flowers, chocolates, taking her by a stretch limo to a 5 star place to eat.
And I bet you if he would’ve did this, she would’ve been turned off by thinking he was a beta or a Simp and end up breaking his heart anyways
@@willgee.1483 Yep
@@willgee.1483 ...but only AFTER getting catered to, lmao :V
She ended it, went on a girls trip to get used and then was amazed he walked. Too funny 😂
So let me get this straigth, she ended the relation, blocked him for 4 days, went to a "girls trip" as a single woman and she still believed that he will wait for her???? and is his fault???? that is some crazy woman,there is a little thing called SELF RESPECT
She blocked him 4 days before the trip, but hasn't unblocked him **
The peace and freedom of being single as a man: PRICELESS.
Breaking up to go on a girls trip so you can get smashed, guilt free??? No guilt, but no one’s waiting, no one with a pair, anyhow.
In their minds, it all makes sense. Women will ALWAYS justify their bad behavior and still blame men when the outcome doesn’t go their way.
I thought that a man refusing to accept a breakup was called a stalker and lead to restraining orders...
Silence is golden to him lol.
If my woman even asks to go on a girls trip or a girls night out, the relationship is over. There is no negotiating, no compromise, nothing. It is over that very second and yes, i have ended a relationship for this very reason. Even with her saying she won't go after i ended the relationship, i still ended it. If a woman wants to live a single life, let her go.
I guess guys are tired of those Disney,Hallmark Channel,and romance novel games.
Stop playing games. Did your mom not teach you not to play mind or emotional games with people? Grow up lady.
I'd take serious bets her mom is a single one, too. And is certain that's because her ex was the Ah0le...
2:20 Logic? What logic?
The delulu is strong with this one!
Come on, she blocked him and went on a girl trip. She returned home full of other men's DNA for sure.
These women have Simone Biles levels of mental gymnastics. As N’Sync said: Bye Bye Bye.
Why do people want others to fight for relationships, when they themselves are not willing to fight for the relationship?
Never wait for these women, because they'll never stay with you
He should have been waiting at the airport with some fresh knickers
The first woman is lying through her teeth. She broke up with him 4 days before her girls trip and then blocked him so she could be single and free without guilt about being a 304 on the trip. Using this technique to shit test your boyfriends loyalty is really a ploy to give her the power in the relationship dynamic, That shyte doesn't work on men anymore. We don't chase. If you are interested in a relationship on equal terms we men are interested if not we block and walk away. The amazing thing is she came to this realization AFTER her 304 trip was over and she was ready to get back with her simp again.
I like a story where the good guy wins!
She wanted to be single she got her wish.
She got her wish, just not what she actually wanted.
Once you block him and breakup, and decide to go on girl's trip alone. That very moment you become something that is not worth fighting for. But it's a good way to console yourself that you did the right thing. Whatever helps you sleep better at night. You go girl.
It's 2024. Show up at the airport and find yourself at the receiving end of a restraining order and the accusation of being a stalker.
Your happiness, your problem. I'm a very happy male going my own way.
Ain’t no man gonna do shit like that ain’t no man gonna simps for no shit like that
She literally described a rom com airport scene, that's what she was expecting. That's how Hollywood shape people's idea of what love and relationship are supposed to be.
He might be waiting in the parking lot with flowers and diamonds......maybe.......maybe.......even though you broke up 4 years ago.......he might have been saving up for a huge diamond........you think........maybe.........don't give up, he is probably out there right now.
😂
She f*cked around....then she found out.
You wanted to be single for a "relaxation retreat"? Yeah, I don't know why he wasn't there, either. Makes total sense to me. LMAO!! 🤣
Both of these 304s are off their rockers. Ladies, we're not going to play games. If you leave, we're not gonna chase you.
That first story was so ironic, she thought that if he loved her he would stalk her. He loved her so much he gave her what she wanted, she wanted out and he let her.
They want the option of calling you a stalker who won't leave them alone and move on. Why deny them that?? 🤣
Remember Bros, no matter how crap your day is going, it could be worse. You could be Diddy!! 😂
She broke up and blocked him to get her cheeks clapped and to be “free” while on a trip. She planned to come back with Chad’s sweat in her hair and not feel badly because they had “broken up.”
This is comparable to a child wishing their favorite object was broken and then getting upset when someone breaks it for them. Childish behavior...
She went on Holiday and got ran through by CHAD.
She failed to secure CHAD, and thought her ex would still want her.
304.
If she's not kind, loyal and in love with you, leave. I'm so tired of these mean, disloyal and emotionally stunted women. They want it but can't reciprocate.
Sounds like she did him a favor.
HA HA HAAAA!!!!! Hilarious, so silly, how could anyone expect the guy coming back with flowers after you kicked him out?
That woman overvalued herself and miscalculated her importance to this man. Blocking him and disconnecting from him also gave him time to reevaluate the relationship! He probably realized that he was better off without her. Absence doesn’t always make the heart grow fonder. Sometimes it provides clarity. In her absence, he realized that she was the problem!
"Naw, Im good!" And he went on with his life.
4:54 female logic🤦🏾♂️, when will they learn?🤷🏾♂️
This is as insane as that girl that broke up with her boyfriend, blocked him on everything, told him to not talk to or bother her anymore and then showed up at his door a week later wondering why he didn't reach out to her
You are ignoring the fact she went to sleep around.
If someone else forces you to leave him, OF COURSE a man will fight for you. But if you leave willingly you're on your own buddy
She ended it cause she knew she was going to be a 304 she was hoping he put his pride aside for some sloppy 2s why breaker up before vacation how freaking convenient
Delusions are important. Some people can't live without them.
She probably would have said what are you doing here are you stupid we broke up
In the first case, Bravo to the guy who wasn't stupid enough to meet her at the airport. She blocked him so she could go cheat on a girls' trip and not feel guilty. Then she expected him to be there like a sucker waiting for her
No high value man will fight for a 304. It's called self respect gentlemen.
The dating method I enjoy,even when I ain’t hunting=staying outdoors,shopping & talking to strangers & neighbours & being a well behaved person.
CGA said it best, “women are children in adult bodies”. What kind of delusional world is she living in?
They always think they are so special 😂
The female breaks up with the guys, blocks him, and still expects him to show up?? How the hell does he know anything about your traveling schedule?? She thinks he's gonna do everything possible to know that crap?? She's outta her mind..
Dude dodged a bonkers bullet.
My head is killing me trying to understand her logic
Am i the only one thats going to ask wtf is she doing going on a “girls trip” anyway?!?!
He was probably already pissed off about that, then she breaks up with him and blocks him. Exactly what would make him want to fight for that string of disrespect???
Facts. She does not deserve better, and she will not get someone better.
If a girl dumps you or blocks you before going on a “girl’s trip” or bachelorette party then she is intending to cheat.
She thought that his love for her would make him chase after her, he thought that her love for him would stop her from screwing around.
Looks like they were both wrong.
If he would've taken her back, she would lose more respect for him, and would continue to do more disrespectful things to him in the future!. He made the right decision to bounce 👏.
It’s amazing how delulu a lot of these women are 😂
Ashamed of nothing, offended by everything.
Yo... Delusions is worse than any drug. If she had any logic she wouldn't had shit tested him 😂🤣😂🤣
Never take one back. They aren't worth it
She wanted him to "fight" for the relationship - purely for her own ego.
WTF she is delusional I can’t believe that she would think everything is normal
Commonly, women don’t want a guy, they want the guy to want them. I guarantee if that dude would’ve showed up after being completely disrespected, she would’ve put him through pure hell. Hopefully he knows enough to not give her another chance. She’s sadistic.
"i ended the relationship but i expected him to fight for me. He didn't come back, that prooves he didn't care about me"
Girl, ever heard the self-fulfilling prophecy?
"Let's work this out" means that the man has to make all the compromises and sacrifices. The woman gets everything she wants because feelings
It's one thing to end it and expect him to wait for you but to end it and block him then expect him to wait is beyond crazy.
He dodged a "bullet." She is obviously insecure and manipulative. She just wanted to be in charge instead of having a REAL relationship. She got what she asked for but not what she wanted. Welcome to real life.
Breaking up with him is one thing, but if he want to try to call you back in the phone to rekindle things you made it impossible making him believe that you didn’t want to fix it
" They left as a test "... they ended the relatonship and blocked to have the freedom to cheat on the trip as well as playing a game testing the guy's reaction. Fishing for any attention...
Woman quits relationship & blocks contact for “girls trip”.
Man realizes she is going to screw around and has enough self respect to accept the relationship is over.
Woman is upset the man stayed away for his own mental health.
He took the life long advice the best way to get over someone is to get under someone
This entitlement is ridiculous. Why should men bother when women play all these mind games. How would they react if roles were reversed? The hypocrisy.
Zero Accountability. What about the love you were supposed to have for him?
Nah if she says im unhappy then you have to accept her feelings
he was right. she blocked him and broke up before the trip so she could do what she wanted and not feel guilty about cheating on him, and by breaking up let her feel like she was doing nothing wrong. what she did was save that man alot of bullshit. he should thank her for showing that she really didnt care about him.
Once you give a man, a reason there is no coming back do us right the first time and there’ll be no issues you don’t think a man wants to continuously sleep with women we do those feelings never go nowhere. It’s just if we can find the one we’ll give that up. Sad to see that woman won’t because of happiness happiness comes within.
Most men won't simp for a cheating woman.
Women weep to gain their will.
- Socrates
You threw his love for you in his face. Well now you're back on the street. That's what happens when you think your better than others.
accountability is a bitc. , seriously people will take a stand if you fubar them over , you reap what you sow
When dating modern women you need a Quantum Chip in your brain to understand her
Dude with the video game, walk away. This was not an accident She filmed it, then when she saw that it actually upset him, She posted it. It was a premeditated effort to publicly humiliate him. There is no relationship to save, walk away.
But women told us "No means no!" If he was to pursue her after she chooses to end things, he would be accused of SH and not respecting her boundaries. Men simply cant win, in both the real world and delusional world.