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  • the truth about living alone.. answering all of your questions about moving out x
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  • @katesipprell2625
    @katesipprell2625 2 года назад +338

    Hey Ava, I think that a "Making My Apartment Feel Like Home" video would be a great idea, like finding tips and tricks to make your space comfortable! This could be lighting candles to add scent/warmth, cooking a homemade meal (family recipe), inviting people over, etc!

  • @KiaraMadisen
    @KiaraMadisen 2 года назад +529

    yes you CAN. So proud of you for answering these questions and transitioning with such a positive and realistic attitude. I swear everyone needs to live alone at some point because you learn SO much even from the smallest hurdles you have to cross each day!

    • @surfpassion19
      @surfpassion19 2 года назад +5

      OMG hi Kiara! How funny running into you here! I love that you watch Ava too

  • @hannahsellers3851
    @hannahsellers3851 2 года назад +473

    No one talks about how hard it is leaving home as the last child. I felt so guilty leaving my parents behind!

    • @katiesutherland01
      @katiesutherland01 2 года назад +6

      Girl same!!

    • @shelbyw22
      @shelbyw22 2 года назад +81

      Just read a comment with almost the exact same wording hahah

    • @clarissaflores845
      @clarissaflores845 2 года назад +2

      I am the youngest and finally moving out and my parents have made me feel so bad, but sometimes we have to do what’s right for us in order to experience and learn new things as we grow older. It’s not like all of my siblings are gone either lol they still have the middle child and from what I know she’s not moving out any time soon!

    • @alexesjohnson4229
      @alexesjohnson4229 2 года назад

      🍋🍋🍋🍋

    • @Rico401Prov
      @Rico401Prov 2 года назад

      Make a video about it so you can start the conversation

  • @karisanchez4581
    @karisanchez4581 2 года назад +142

    Omg I could never relate to something so much “I have to keep myself alive” literally when I first moved out it was sooo hard to feed myself but now I’m a 5 star chef and I’m living 💅🏾

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +249

    I love your honesty and transparency. It can be scary making this big change but I think it’s apart of growing up. There’s ups and downs in all changes in life, you’ve got this girl ☺️💜💜

  • @natsinternetdiary
    @natsinternetdiary 2 года назад +59

    after living at home for 22 years, i'm moving out this month because i'm getting married! i feel like i'm on this moving journey with you, so just know you aren't alone! 💘💖💗💓💞

  • @Jasmine20012
    @Jasmine20012 2 года назад +102

    I loved this video, Ava! I'm 20 years old, a nursing student in college, and I still live at home with my family! My plan is to move out when I graduate. It's inspiring to see you move out and start "adulting" in that sense because you're stepping into a new chapter of your life! Thank you!!

  • @crcramer1
    @crcramer1 2 года назад +50

    I also moved out on my own. It can be lonely at times but I have grown so much in the past year. You learn so much about yourself. Congrats on the life accomplishment! Love your videos as usual! ❤️

  • @mildreddiaz4104
    @mildreddiaz4104 2 года назад +33

    i also just recently moved out by myself and it’s definitely hard and lonely. and i especially relate to having to control my impulse shopping lol! overall you got this girl and congrats on this big life accomplishment 🤍🍋

  • @gabby-cd1we
    @gabby-cd1we 2 года назад +14

    This made me wanna live alone again, i feel/felt the SAME EXACT THINGS when i moved out on my own. everyone thought i was crazy for wanting to live alone

  • @elisalopez8221
    @elisalopez8221 2 года назад +32

    Ava!!! i’m so happy u posted today… i’m so tired but u just gave me a bunch of energy thank you 💌🍋🍋🍋

  • @lauragarcia7475
    @lauragarcia7475 2 года назад +60

    I absolutely love that you keep us informed in your life! As a high school junior, I definitely feel like seeing this process in a more realistic way calms me down for when I leave. Also, do u have any podcast recommendations?? Love from Colombia!🇨🇴❤️❤️❤️

  • @shakiratanea3216
    @shakiratanea3216 2 года назад +16

    I’ve been loving these videos because it gives me an idea since I plan to move out after I graduate college. Thank you Ava for providing your experience 💛

  • @milastricevic6792
    @milastricevic6792 2 года назад +13

    I started living alone this year at 17 and it's been a pretty amazing experience. Learning to enjoy your own company is so difficult but also fulfilling and although I have definitely felt lonely at times, I wouldn't change it for anything! Can't wait to watch more apartment vlogs! 💗💗

  • @maryangonzalez4664
    @maryangonzalez4664 2 года назад +2

    i love this style of videos! i relate so much with u ava, i’m going to move out of my home for the first time also in the fall for college and i’m a nervous wreck. but watching ur videos really have in-sealed more confidence in myself and seeing u do it on ur own is inspiring especially since we around the same age! i send nothing but good videos towards u and this new chapter in your life❤️❤️❤️

  • @beckymurphy1994
    @beckymurphy1994 2 года назад

    I just found your videos at the beginning of the move and I’m obsessed! You seem so genuine and I look forward to every Sunday and Wednesday!🍋

  • @julesg
    @julesg 2 года назад +14

    you’ve inspired me forever and I’m so proud of you for going into this next chapter of your life. ALSO 🍋🍋🍋

  • @stefanienavarrosantiago3794
    @stefanienavarrosantiago3794 2 года назад +23

    I am currently struggling with loneliness. I had to go back in person for college which meant moving 4 hours away. I have been going to bed crying and waking up crying. I am trying everything I can to get over this especially because I have already been through this my first year. I’m about to graduate in June which is why I’m so embarrassed for feeling like this. But after 2 years being home to a sudden shift to being alone at school is really difficult. Thank you for this video. I love watching and hearing you in the background which helps with the loneliness.

    • @natalieenglebert7718
      @natalieenglebert7718 2 года назад +1

      I never reply to comments usually, but I really connected with this one! I also am graduating college in June and moving back to school has been so hard this year. I always miss my family and my boyfriend (who still lives at home) and feel very lonely. I’ve been experiencing anxiety for the first time ever and it’s just really hard. I just keep reminding myself that June will be here sooner than I know it and that I can get through it!

    • @marah5702
      @marah5702 2 года назад

      I moved to a different country for a semester abroad and even though I feel comfortable here the thought of not seeing my family, friends, home until July is very scary. It feels like such a long time :(

    • @laramack7440
      @laramack7440 2 года назад

      Hey! Did you find that the loneliness eventually went away and you got used to it? I’m just wondering if you eventually get used to it or if it’s something that will always be there

  • @zahraakhan2793
    @zahraakhan2793 2 года назад

    You Have got this girlllllll been here for the past ups and downs and we be here for the new one sending love ur wayy

  • @angelsadventurez
    @angelsadventurez 2 года назад

    Thank you for being so honest and open about the moving process. A lot of people talk more about how fun moving out and not so much on how scary it can be and you have shown how it feels for both sides which is really reassuring. Thank you so much for the amazing content, your videos always make me smile 😊

  • @Whitney12201
    @Whitney12201 2 года назад +7

    Been living alone for a couple years now. Loneliness comes in waves for sure. I’m a pretty independent person, but sometimes it’s hard coming home to an empty house (especially after a hard day). That being said, I’ve grown so much and learned a lot about myself! Have fun & enjoy this time!

  • @themindlessmess
    @themindlessmess 2 года назад +5

    Even though I’m older than you, you are one of my biggest role models! The way you live your life is just so inspiring. While keeping your life aesthetic and pretty, you never shy away from talking about important things and that is what I love about your videos and strive to have in my content as well. Just living through your videos and manifesting my move out as well!! ❤️✨✨ 🍋🍋🍋

  • @drizzle.shizzle
    @drizzle.shizzle 2 года назад +1

    I love how transparent u are, thank u for providing you're experience

  • @user-yf3oc9yr1p
    @user-yf3oc9yr1p 2 года назад +2

    I LOVE UR MOVING VLOGS AVA! I ALSO HOW THEY ARE SO LONG AND ENTERTAING. LOVE U AVA!~!

  • @danielacmoran
    @danielacmoran 2 года назад +5

    Yes! Thank you for bringing up the sad parts of moving out, no one talks about it and it is sad a chapter is closing but also exciting a new one is beginning! 🍋

  • @annepersoon4356
    @annepersoon4356 2 года назад +3

    I really love this corner! The chair, the lamp! maybe in the future a plant or maybe a poster. The ambiance is so calm

  • @hopeward5992
    @hopeward5992 2 года назад +2

    My first video I ever watch of yours was your throwback playlist in 2017! to watch and see you grow as a person especially at the same age is amazing. So proud of you! 🍋🍋

  • @karenmaldonado6786
    @karenmaldonado6786 2 года назад +1

    honestly, you're such an inspiration and so down to earth that i really aspire to have that kind of mindset when i have to move out

  • @alyssadavidson2416
    @alyssadavidson2416 2 года назад +49

    So proud of you Ava!!🍋 These vlogs are the only thing getting me through.

  • @savannahkearns6504
    @savannahkearns6504 2 года назад +4

    I’m so excited to move out!! I’m 20 and will be moving out this summer so I’ve been in love with all of your content lately! Keep it up girl you’re killin it ☺️🍋🍋

  • @mia5077
    @mia5077 2 года назад

    i LOVE hearing you talk and tell us stories and your insights and such !! these types of videos are definitely welcomed in the future hehe . I’m not even close to moving out but all this is so nice to know ! Thank you for this video !! It is nice starting off my day with some positive vibes , hope you’re having a wonderful day today too

  • @celina_tn
    @celina_tn 2 года назад

    I love your videos! I found your channel as you posted the first moving video and now I am obsessed. I love you and what you do so much! ❤️🍋

  • @nikitapatel4233
    @nikitapatel4233 2 года назад +173

    Ava I just wanted to brighten up your day by saying We all love you and you are an amazing human being keep doing what you do ❤️☺️

  • @autumnalexander2222
    @autumnalexander2222 2 года назад +35

    I found your channel recently and I’ve been binge watching all your videos. You’re beautiful; cute, funny, fun, radiate positive energy and I love it, new subscriber btw💙💙💙!

  • @elleonair5125
    @elleonair5125 2 года назад

    hey Ava! I’m so proud of you. These videos truly make my week and days and you’re truly just a breathe of fresh air. I’m so sorry you’re struggling and you’ve got a comment section full of people ready to listen and advise best they can !! We love you, keep thriving and hustling you amazing human being :) we love ya

  • @vuyie8284
    @vuyie8284 2 года назад +1

    Love your videos Ava and I’m loving the new setup at well :)

  • @kateryan7900
    @kateryan7900 2 года назад +15

    i’ve been here for a few years now and seeing your growth has been so inspiring. i love these videos; i look forward to them always!

  • @tiffanypacheco_
    @tiffanypacheco_ 2 года назад +8

    So proud of you for living alone. Everyone should do it at least once in their life if they’re able to.

  • @zitapapp3022
    @zitapapp3022 2 года назад +1

    You are so inspiring!! I am proud of you! Anf thank you for being real and showing the reality and thr hardness of moving out and not just the pink cloud. ❤️❤️ 🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋

  • @lauraduplain-fedin9884
    @lauraduplain-fedin9884 2 года назад

    Moving out next fall and your series is sooo helpful! It feels good to hear you talk about your experience and it is especially comforting that you do it in such an authentic way. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, it’s truly inspiring ✨🌺🍋

  • @LifeWithSarai
    @LifeWithSarai 2 года назад +7

    As a 22-year-old that moved out at 18 and moved into a tiny house it is definitely a huge adjustment to life and adapting to being on your own but being on your own honestly it is one of the best feelings. So proud of you Ava

  • @aimemaggie
    @aimemaggie 2 года назад +9

    When I first moved out to paris alone it was so scary but once I found a routine and a community I was the happiest I’ve ever been

    • @Princesaoxo
      @Princesaoxo 2 года назад +1

      100% agree. I felt the same when I moved to Spain

  • @kelly_k01
    @kelly_k01 2 года назад

    I LOVE this kind of videos!! It feels like I'm talking with you too, and would love some more😊
    I'll fly to another country by myself and live there for a year in a few months, and just imagining about me being alone is nerve breaking.. you are so brave that you are thriving by yourself!

  • @breanamunroe8934
    @breanamunroe8934 2 года назад

    Love this and love following your journey!! Youve become one of my fav youtubers within the last couple months ❤️On the aspect of buying, you can buy condos as well which a lot of times are in a complex just like an apartment!

  • @vwallace4927
    @vwallace4927 2 года назад +5

    The moving vlogs are so good

  • @shantecarter172
    @shantecarter172 2 года назад +5

    Keep in mind, Ava is really lucky to get most of her furniture and decorations in a short amount of time. It’s not going to be this easy unless you have money. You may have your apartment fully furnished in a year or even more. You may be sleeping on a mattress for months. Furniture and kitchen supplies, etc, are very expensive.

  • @ridahaq9773
    @ridahaq9773 2 года назад +1

    🍋 Loved this! It’s so amazing to see you grow so much!

  • @leeleeacting
    @leeleeacting 2 года назад +1

    your moving videos have been so amazing, and make me so excited to move to an apartment when i am older. hope you have been enjoying living alone, and i love how you have been discussing the negative's of moving of living alone as well as the positives :)

  • @gwenythsamantha3128
    @gwenythsamantha3128 2 года назад +3

    heck yes.

  • @raeahsyed9011
    @raeahsyed9011 2 года назад

    i love these videos! Also your makeup in this video is soo pretty

  • @mashijunik9211
    @mashijunik9211 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing Ava. I really resonate with this. Love to feel not alone in this journey!

  • @avamakanui
    @avamakanui 2 года назад

    Ava I love these kinds of videos!!!! I’m so excited for you and can’t wait for more vlogs!

  • @lydiaelizabeth9470
    @lydiaelizabeth9470 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been eagerly awaiting your videos every week!! They make me so happy :))

  • @beccagens1867
    @beccagens1867 2 года назад

    Ahh I love this so much Ava, I’m 22 and moved out of my childhood home in 2021 to an apartment by myself. I’m still close to home and your story resonates with me so much!! It’s so good to feel so independent, I love being able to hear you talk about your experience!! Thank you always for sharing!! 🧡

  • @jaydas8976
    @jaydas8976 2 года назад

    Love your videos, thank you for your honesty and transparency. I loved hearing your thoughts on living alone 💗

  • @nova_merollis
    @nova_merollis 2 года назад +1

    hello! i have begun the process of moving out and having someone my age. in the same stage of life as me who's also figuring it out has been very helpful and comforting. i started watching you when i made my first internet friends because i was looking for vlogs of people meeting their internet friends for the first time. it's been so nice to have someone understand what I'm going through through life. thank you ava!

  • @karahgilfillan8915
    @karahgilfillan8915 2 года назад

    You’re making me want to move out !! Ahhhh! Lovin the moving content! So happy for you and your new journey. 🤩💜

  • @gcedggdd5812
    @gcedggdd5812 2 года назад +1

    These videos are just amazing because it helps a lot of people out there, starting a new chapter in their lives!☺️

  • @alliepasch
    @alliepasch 2 года назад

    🍋 I defiantly do enjoy your longer videos and Q&A videos. I also love how your channel is evolving. We are the same age (you're a tad older) and its fun to see where you're at in life compared to myself!

  • @elizabethreyfman7793
    @elizabethreyfman7793 2 года назад

    I absolutely love your interior decor style, it looks so cozy and comforting! Love your videos, they always brighten my day❤️🍋

  • @dajana6053
    @dajana6053 2 года назад +1

    Ava thank you so much for your videos! ❤️
    you are like an older sister to me giving the best advices and just popping up with a video when I really need one😊
    I recently moved out myself at the age of 19 into my first appartment and I can relate to so much of what you say
    I´m sending you all my love from Germany❤️❤️

  • @mimmiihanamaki749
    @mimmiihanamaki749 2 года назад

    i think i'm moving out this fall and i'm so grateful for these videos

  • @peanut751
    @peanut751 2 года назад

    Hey! Um, I just got to your channel because of your moving videos, and usually, I don't like videos where people are just talking and answering questions and things like that, but I just loved listening to you talk. I love your voice, it's so easy to listen to. 🍋🍋🍋

  • @mirabella4174
    @mirabella4174 2 года назад

    I've been waiting for a sit and talk video Ava.... I love your videos so farrrrr❤

  • @karisanchez4581
    @karisanchez4581 2 года назад

    You’re so pretty ava, love your energy!❤️

  • @rebeccasummers2735
    @rebeccasummers2735 2 года назад +1

    Youre learning so much! Later you'll look back on this time as being one of the best times of your life. Enjoy the small moments of the transition, and appreciate all the "life lessons" . You're doing great! And dont be afraid to ask friends and family for support when you ned t

  • @llovekikii
    @llovekikii 2 года назад +1

    I love how honest and genuine you are Ava! I’m actually planning on leaving home soon to live on my college campus and I am super nervous about it. I’m trying to prepare myself mentally and this really helped. Thank you so much for sharing!💕 also, I would LOVE to see more videos like this pls

  • @lylarandolph9323
    @lylarandolph9323 2 года назад

    you are such an inspiration Ava! My roommate moved out a couple weeks ago and I’ve been living alone (in a sense) so it was really nice to hear your experience and advice and find some comfort in the fact that I’m not the only one who struggles with it. keep being your amazing self - I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you!! 🍋🍋💜💜

  • @Samantha-vlly
    @Samantha-vlly 2 года назад +1

    I’m kinda late but thank you for this. I feel like I’m on the right path right now. My whole mindset these past few years now has rapidly shifted since 15 and I'm also going to turn 18 next year so, I think that explains these changes in my life. Hoping for the best for all of us!!

  • @ryleemccart6999
    @ryleemccart6999 2 года назад

    i love you and i’m so inspired by your confidence and empowerment! 🍋🍋

  • @precyllaracheal2149
    @precyllaracheal2149 2 года назад +1

    I really love this video. I've been thinking a lot about having my own place after I graduated. And I can really connect with you when you say you just feel ready to move out for the good reason. I feel the same way like I want to grow and experience the next phase in life. 🍋🍋🍋

  • @ella-qc8is
    @ella-qc8is 2 года назад +2

    as i’m watching all your moving videos i’m really wishing that when i move out i’ll remember to watch your videos again because i know they’ll be so comforting :) 🍋

  • @PrincessyAnya
    @PrincessyAnya 2 года назад

    I love this sit and talk video
    Somehow found myself motivated to do stuff I gotta do while listening to you talk 😌

  • @lauragriffiths4967
    @lauragriffiths4967 2 года назад

    loved this! you always know how to make someone's day just that little brighter through your videos:))

  • @inesandrade2626
    @inesandrade2626 2 года назад

    This type of videos are the best thing!
    Love the content Ava ❤️🍋

  • @kenzcanuel1
    @kenzcanuel1 2 года назад

    you were so vulnerable in this video and I love it so much. It feels like your everyone's internet sister and I appreciate you!!!

  • @nataliaherboso1539
    @nataliaherboso1539 2 года назад +2

    AVAAA i know you were planning on getting art for this corner to film but I am loving the minimalistic video. It's so easy and calming/ theraputic to watch. I would love it if you kept it like that. Obviously I am just one person but do a poll maybe? I LOVE IT

  • @tophluck98
    @tophluck98 2 года назад

    Listening to you talk was so comforting!! Loved this style of video

  • @erinadoria
    @erinadoria 2 года назад

    Been binging her vids lately and been on the edge of my seat waiting for a new vid. And I’m here in 2 minutes

  • @karolinahoresovska9542
    @karolinahoresovska9542 2 года назад

    i always look forward for your vids, brightens my day ❤🍋

  • @sarabissaro9038
    @sarabissaro9038 2 года назад +1

    Thank you!! school don't teach you anything about life and how to manage it. I'll never stop complaining about this even if I finished school 2 years ago! Anyway thank you for the video, you're such an inspiration!! Killing it :)

  • @beatrice6902
    @beatrice6902 2 года назад

    loving the style of the video and the talk, thank you

  • @chasecollins9708
    @chasecollins9708 2 года назад +1

    Hi Ava! Every person I know usually goes through some type of depression after moving. A lot changes fast and it takes a while to process. Be kind and patient with yourself. All of these feelings are perfectly normal. 💕

  • @itsme-yl7db
    @itsme-yl7db 2 года назад

    The✨vibes✨ of this video setting are perfect! Ava's videos are so enjoyable ❤️

  • @ruthneuhaus3369
    @ruthneuhaus3369 2 года назад

    I loved this video! It was so nice to just listen and relate to you! Looking forward to more of your videos! 🍋

  • @femmeh9236
    @femmeh9236 2 года назад

    Hi ava 💕 I’m on my first solo trip (to Spain) ever, and you bring me so much comfort while being alone. Thank you so so so much 💗

  • @emilymionske6043
    @emilymionske6043 2 года назад

    all this content is amazing I rewatch ur vlogs so many times haha!

  • @nataliejacobs4040
    @nataliejacobs4040 2 года назад

    Literally love how honest and real you are

  • @kalimarie3457
    @kalimarie3457 2 года назад

    🍋🍋🍋🍋👀🤍
    Loved this video Ava! It’s so fun following you on this journey of living by yourself, definitely something i want to do very very soon! love ya girl

  • @josleydy1536
    @josleydy1536 2 года назад

    I was looking forward to you posting thank you so much for sharing ❤️ 🍋

  • @kucharskajuliaa
    @kucharskajuliaa 2 года назад +1

    get excited whenever you post!!!

  • @katherinethompson9630
    @katherinethompson9630 2 года назад

    i love watching you grow! you are so strong! 🍋🍋

  • @lunaportman4972
    @lunaportman4972 2 года назад

    Just wanna say I just came back to UH for spring semester from the east coast and your living alone videos really help me to adjust to being so far from home ❤️

  • @likeamotherbitchh5540
    @likeamotherbitchh5540 2 года назад

    oh my gosh ava i absolutely love you , and have forever! been here a long time! i was just thinking how absolutely awesome it would be if you started a podcast!! holy 💩 i would love it!!

  • @Sophworld98
    @Sophworld98 2 года назад +1

    I love having you make these videos bc I’m living alone at the same time u moved out and it’s cool to relate to someone.

    • @Sophworld98
      @Sophworld98 2 года назад

      A whole condo two bedrooms and two baths w a loft so far not bad and I lock all the doors and my bedroom door cause a girl is scared

  • @earthangel614
    @earthangel614 2 года назад

    Omg such a long chatty video!! Yeees! ily

  • @caprigutierrez756
    @caprigutierrez756 2 года назад

    Loved this video 🍋🍋🍋 it’s so nice to hear another side of moving out

  • @viwi1545
    @viwi1545 2 года назад

    Lemoooonn🍋 that vlog was really educational ms Ava! Love it!😘

  • @daniellaurena3589
    @daniellaurena3589 2 года назад

    🍋 love these vids!

  • @0kur123
    @0kur123 2 года назад

    omg its literally been a month since I officially live alone, this video-. Thank you. genuinely, thank you. I feel the exact same