Jordan Peterson and Theo Von Discuss Sobriety

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  • @TheoVonClips
    @TheoVonClips  Год назад +61

    bit.ly/theovonclips

    • @dirtypolish
      @dirtypolish Год назад

      Theo please do an interview with Billy Carson from 4biddenknowledge please

    • @tbbart6463
      @tbbart6463 Год назад

      Wow. Can’t even listen with Jp constantly needing to hear his own voice over Theo. I’ll find another video.

    • @Gozerthegozarian1984
      @Gozerthegozarian1984 10 месяцев назад +1

      This is maybe the best Jordon interview I’ve ever seen. Never seen Jordon so relaxed.

  • @andrew6846
    @andrew6846 4 года назад +4423

    The fact that these two worked so well together is confusing yet beautiful

    • @liljmarian7327
      @liljmarian7327 2 года назад +53

      Big facts bro it’s lit

    • @rocker99908
      @rocker99908 2 года назад +163

      I totally agree but also think that there's a lot of similarities in intelligence between philosophers and comedians

    • @hb15577
      @hb15577 2 года назад +80

      Well Theo has a long history of substance abuse, and this is basically what Peterson did his Phd about so I think they have plenty of talking points to work with.

    • @greg3318
      @greg3318 2 года назад +48

      I like to assume Theo is a deep thinker, some of his jokes have some layers so talking to someone that always tries to go even deeper might even provide more substance for his comedy.
      Not sure though.

    • @onlyleon855
      @onlyleon855 Год назад +6

      Enfp + Infj interactions almost always are this great!

  • @AO-vb3xd
    @AO-vb3xd Год назад +521

    This might be the most I’ve heard Jordan Peterson laugh or tell jokes in public. You’ve got a way of bringing the best out of us all Theo Von

    • @jaidaadiaj
      @jaidaadiaj 7 дней назад

      I came here to say exactly this! It's so cool to watch! 🤍🖤

  • @gntrihg
    @gntrihg 11 месяцев назад +70

    Just hit 1 year sober 3 weeks ago. At 26 - healthy relationship, temps, license, car, finished school and starting my career next week. Sobriety is beautiful!

    • @kyriakosgeorgioy7073
      @kyriakosgeorgioy7073 11 месяцев назад +3

      Am proud of you bro

    • @Citycityyy
      @Citycityyy 11 месяцев назад +2

      Congrats

    • @ericboyd74
      @ericboyd74 3 месяца назад +1

      Congrats bro. I’m 26 days sober right now. Currently in rehab, I’ll be 26 in two months - keep it up

  • @Spacecrust
    @Spacecrust 4 года назад +4084

    21 months sober. My life has never felt more calm, mind clear and collective.

    • @24james
      @24james 3 года назад +115

      Jesse James - cool! I will hit 12 months next week.

    • @deemore
      @deemore 3 года назад +96

      3 months here! its hard but i feel wayyy better and clearer

    • @Spacecrust
      @Spacecrust 3 года назад +67

      @@deemore times flies man, I have 29 months today. Trust me it's worth having your sanity back. Keep it up, it'll get easier to deal with how hard it is.

    • @JoshThomas9
      @JoshThomas9 3 года назад +9

      Keep rockin it Brotha!🤟

    • @foofan1974
      @foofan1974 3 года назад +22

      Do you have 28 months now. I would have to believe if someone is watching this, they are sober or looking for a way. I hope all is good with you.

  • @JoshThomas9
    @JoshThomas9 4 года назад +3946

    3 days sober, off 8 years of sever drinking🤟
    Update - Today I'm one year sober! Thank you so much, every single comment was beyond appreciated! If you want to become sober you can, I'm proof, and I believe in you. 🖤🤟
    February 10, 2023✨️Celebrated my 3rd year of sobriety yesterday! I'm beyond grateful for everyone in my life that has been my biggest support system, and to Each and EVERYONE that has left amazing comments, yall have helped me out more than you know. I thank Theo Von and Jordan Peterson for this video, I don't know where I'd be if I hadn't listened and used it as fuel to continue my journey. 🫶🤟
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Celebrating my 4th year of sobriety. I never thought I could be a sober person, now I've proven to myself I can. I have grown through my journey, and have learned that I can love myself again. I'm proud of myself. Thank you again to everyone that has responded to my comment. Seems when I get a notification, it was when I needed a little reminder I wasn't alone, and also helping others. 🫶

    • @conradbarrett6
      @conradbarrett6 4 года назад +58

      Josh Thomas nice dude keep it up.. I remember I was so excited when I become sober and started saying 3 days and it seems like a lot but when you been drinking heavily for years 3 days is a great start .. I’m 4 and a half months sober it’s awesome stick with it man

    • @JoshThomas9
      @JoshThomas9 4 года назад +10

      @@conradbarrett6 Thank you so much Brotha

    • @omerta5357
      @omerta5357 4 года назад +6

      I hope this comment resonates with me.good job bro

    • @geraldbutterpants5712
      @geraldbutterpants5712 4 года назад +6

      Well done Josh much respect keep er goin

    • @gilesmerlin8927
      @gilesmerlin8927 4 года назад +36

      @FBI always one fucken tool

  • @jgons
    @jgons 2 года назад +994

    Theo is so much deeper and contemplative than he often lets on. Great convo.

    • @jgons
      @jgons 2 года назад +5

      @Aaron B oh I’m aware most are. Just wasn’t aware HE was. 😉

    • @Danoff1111
      @Danoff1111 Год назад +2

      Top of the league 🎉

    • @boahnation9932
      @boahnation9932 Год назад +7

      Agreed. Alot of comedians are actually. They work with their brain and wit and that comes with spending a lot of time pondering I think

    • @omnacky
      @omnacky Год назад +5

      I think he lets it on very well (just not in a direct way)

    • @Deminutuv
      @Deminutuv Год назад +1

      Theo is a man of exploration of all things emotions, He is no jester only

  • @shaggyrogers7847
    @shaggyrogers7847 2 года назад +2075

    I’m closing in on 20 years of sobriety - Theo articulating how alcohol made him less insecure and more social hits close to home. Thankfully sobriety has taught me how to embrace challenges rather than run away into a bottle…I no longer live in fear.

    • @loto7197
      @loto7197 2 года назад +7

      Do you still get those same anxieties?

    • @Traforaj69
      @Traforaj69 2 года назад +18

      @@loto7197 I have been sober for 3 years, and yes, sometimes I get anxiety but I have good tools to keep it under control. I use Wim Hof breathing technique and cold showers and when I do them almost daily I don't have any issues with my anxiety, but when I don't do my daily rutine for couply of days, then my anxiety pops the head up a bit, but I know how to control it.

    • @vincentgiambrone8487
      @vincentgiambrone8487 2 года назад +8

      Hi mark coming up to 20 myself dec 17

    • @patriconious1949
      @patriconious1949 2 года назад +9

      Good on you all. 2 years in, having the right tools and mindset is key!

    • @loto7197
      @loto7197 2 года назад +3

      @@Traforaj69 that's quite impressive, congrats on the 3 years :)
      I wonder was your anxiety present before the drug or alcohol use, and if so was it as bad ?
      I had mild anxiety in my teens before beginning a very social life full of drugs, alcohol friends & parties; The anxiety I experience with sobriety now in my 20's is much worse in comparison.

  • @jrsark
    @jrsark Год назад +21

    "those aren't friends, those are just people you know" can be pretty hard to come to grips with, but so very true

  • @Lucifer777_
    @Lucifer777_ 10 месяцев назад +50

    Loving the therapist, patient dynamic here.
    Theo really got him to open up

  • @laughwithmeshorts
    @laughwithmeshorts Год назад +131

    Smoked weed for about a decade. Sober for 8 months felt amazing. Backstepped for a month and it was just terrible. Now back sober for about 2 months. I feel so much more like me when not under any influences! I like myself more, talk with people easier, and my highs and lows are much closer to homeostasis than before. God is so good and I hear his voice when I’m sober.

    • @Alaninbroomfield
      @Alaninbroomfield Год назад +1

      I find hidden wonders as you describe, and I was drinking almost daily for many many years.

    • @i.r.weasel7042
      @i.r.weasel7042 10 месяцев назад +20

      Been on and off with Weed for 15+ years. I sometimes wish I could use it casually. Like, I can have a drink whenever, and not fall into drinking everyday. Weed though, that really puts its hooks in me, and it ends up becoming a daily thing. Been off for a few months now. It's nice not needing a substance to "feel good", I just feel good all the time!

    • @alku6074
      @alku6074 10 месяцев назад

      @@i.r.weasel7042same with me, not over such a long time but man I always told myself I can control it and I never could, I just had to give it up completely which thankfully I don’t have trouble with but the second I try it I’m hooked

    • @UmamiPapi
      @UmamiPapi 9 месяцев назад +2

      Praise God!

    • @AUXTREV
      @AUXTREV 9 месяцев назад +1

      Amen brother

  • @jmeyuh
    @jmeyuh Год назад +292

    Bro. This rocked my world. I feel like for the first time I've actually heard what I needed to hear about what I'm going through. From people who went through it. I have to get out of this slump. Needed this, thanks.

    • @mG-vl5xb
      @mG-vl5xb Год назад +9

      You can do it brother 💪

    • @RyanONeill86
      @RyanONeill86 Год назад +5

      You got this bro

    • @MrScrow1
      @MrScrow1 Год назад +3

      How is it going?

    • @Psilocybin77
      @Psilocybin77 Год назад +10

      I once heard that most people that quit don't go to programs like AA, but quit by themselves. On average it takes 7 attempts to quit. I thought it was BS, as I was a heavy binge drinker and saw no way out. I kept trying to quit and would last a few months at most. One day I knew I was going to end up homeless or dead and decided to never touch it again. I'm not proud of who I was, but I am proud of who I am. Life will always throw reasons at you to keep drinking, but at least my suffering has value now. I accept it and learn from it. No cliches, or speeches will make you quit. It's the most important choice you have to make, and I wish you luck.

    • @maldor56
      @maldor56 Год назад +1

      So did you quit or what?

  • @karencampbell2410
    @karencampbell2410 10 месяцев назад +18

    I thought the same. Thought I would lose my edge, black humour, friends. I became more interested in others, interesting as a person and my humour came back with stronger than ever. Sobriety has been the single best decision I made in my life.

  • @locker011
    @locker011 4 года назад +295

    You might have saved my life with this vid

    • @christophesimmons6740
      @christophesimmons6740 4 года назад +14

      Love you man keep at it

    • @weezypeezy1725
      @weezypeezy1725 4 года назад +13

      FunkMaster it’s only “might” if you let it be. You’ve got it man!

    • @charliebrown8608
      @charliebrown8608 4 года назад +6

      You can do it!

    • @colinbates1050
      @colinbates1050 4 года назад +10

      You are capable. You have the power over any substance. You are worthy of a quality life.

    • @zeroism6036
      @zeroism6036 4 года назад +4

      He did save your life. Your comment proves your commitment and that you know it to be true already! Enjoy your new life, it might just be even better than you ever dremth of :)

  • @cosmicatrophy4648
    @cosmicatrophy4648 4 года назад +750

    I like how Jordan doesn't straight out condemn drinking. He admits that it can be fun and has potential benefits, but it's not sustainable

    • @heat6498
      @heat6498 Год назад +33

      Same with most recreational drugs tbh

    • @JaySoul711
      @JaySoul711 Год назад +19

      Yea, when it turns into a habit then an addiction like you basically need alcohol to function then it’s a problem man

    • @Gem-Ex
      @Gem-Ex Год назад +3

      Would have respected him more if he had “condemned” it.

    • @jamiekelly6851
      @jamiekelly6851 Год назад +31

      @@Gem-Ex how fun must you be.....we all just need your respect.

    • @harrisbeatsfrankou6304
      @harrisbeatsfrankou6304 Год назад

      @@jamiekelly6851

  • @kylebrewster1205
    @kylebrewster1205 Год назад +309

    This is why I love Peterson. He lays out the pros and cons of every situation and what will happen if you decide to keep drinking and what will happen if you go sober. It’s very point blank and bullet proof , sometimes people get to analytical with decision making , it’s refreshing to hear either your going to stay drunk and be miserable or have to deal with your anxiety and get sober. Done

    • @joerichardsoilltryu8358
      @joerichardsoilltryu8358 Год назад +9

      Nothing like an over simplified false dichotomy

    • @replexity
      @replexity Год назад +10

      @@joerichardsoilltryu8358 There’s beauty in simplicity. Sure, the factors in each drunkard’s individual life may vary and create a more complex scenario; it’s really an option of either being an alcoholic or being sober.

    • @wakeupsunshine5799
      @wakeupsunshine5799 Год назад +11

      Though I don't wish to argue and I respect your right to an opinion, I can't help but add my two cents. I was a heroin(amongst other drugs) addict for 8 years. I've been sober now for 15 years. I don't know why but it was simplicity that finally got through to me. I had been to programs, incarcerated multiple times, etc so I knew everything they try to drill into you about addiction and how to stay clean but I continued to relapse anyway. Then one day someone said to me kind of dismissively, "You can keep doing what you're doing and you'll keep getting what you've been getting. If you want something different, you've got to start moving differently." Something about that very simple phrase hit differently. Did I quit in that moment? No, but it caused a change in my mindset which in turn caused me to start making different choices. I chose to show up to probation and outpatient services instead of making excuses and skipping out. It went from there. Anyway, sometimes simple works best... Especially when the people you're talking to don't have full clarity.

    • @enterpassword3313
      @enterpassword3313 Год назад +2

      Its also ironic because peterson was a drug addict while this was being filmed

    • @seanc2061
      @seanc2061 Год назад +2

      Wasnt he high as a kite on Benzos here?

  • @jbruno9796
    @jbruno9796 Год назад +48

    12 min to change my life. Snap me out of my depressive mindset. Thank you Jordan. Being the mentors I’ve never had.

    • @conorchapman5856
      @conorchapman5856 Год назад

      These videos keep me chugging along man. I recommend reading his book if you haven't yet. It is pretty interesting, he dives more into his past about growing up in a small town and stuff.

  • @user-mt5nb7kv8k
    @user-mt5nb7kv8k 4 года назад +194

    Just started the journey to sobriety. Good luck to everyone

    • @auroraborealis13579
      @auroraborealis13579 4 года назад +4

      👣👣👣👣

    • @ejRecording
      @ejRecording 4 года назад

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    • @nelsonx5326
      @nelsonx5326 4 года назад +3

      Find a hobby. Keep your hands busy so they can't hold a drink.

    • @Andreas-qm3cc
      @Andreas-qm3cc 4 года назад

      Way to go man!

    • @shuneughu4244
      @shuneughu4244 4 года назад

      Did you relapse?

  • @99kakaman
    @99kakaman 4 года назад +1092

    Petersons laugh is so wholesome. Hope his recovery is going well. Theo needs to get him back on :)

    • @shiggzay
      @shiggzay 4 года назад

      Hallal Chicken agreed

    • @aggaggang1753
      @aggaggang1753 4 года назад +4

      hes in a coma dude

    • @camerontheboy
      @camerontheboy 4 года назад +8

      aggaggang Nah man, he was only in one for a few days and it was medically induced. Watch his daughter’s update video.

    • @Ebb0Productions
      @Ebb0Productions 4 года назад +1

      the Theo healing experience

    • @camerontheboy
      @camerontheboy 4 года назад +16

      Dylyn Blue You’re a dumbfuck. Benzos are extremely hard to get off of when your anxiety is already extremely high. And he has an autoimmune disorder. Get off his videos if you think he’s a fraud. Loser.

  • @vone1914
    @vone1914 Год назад +85

    Today is 1 year sober for me. I was drinking a 6 pack to 12 pack a night for about 5 years. It was tough the first 2 months. It really affected my sleep. Once through that I was fine. If you really want to, you can. Congratulations to those who were able to quit. To those trying to quit or want to quit. You can do it.

    • @replexity
      @replexity Год назад +3

      Good for you man. For what it’s worth from a stranger, I’m proud of you. Keep increasing the number of years.

    • @southpawlibranine3511
      @southpawlibranine3511 Год назад

      Yea but it was piss weak amercian beer

    • @deltahomicide9300
      @deltahomicide9300 Год назад +1

      When does the weight loss start? 57 days sober and nada. Pretty disappointing for a guy who’s active and eating right.

    • @KyloB
      @KyloB Год назад

      ​@Delta Homicide calories in vs calories out. If you burn more calories than you consume, you'll lose weight. If you're active and "eating right" then eat less. More protein, don't cut carbs, remove sugar as much as possible.

    • @deltahomicide9300
      @deltahomicide9300 Год назад

      @@KyloB Yes a couple of weeks after my comment I cut out sugar. Down 8 lbs! 💪

  • @buzzy5350
    @buzzy5350 2 года назад +90

    After drinking nonstop for a good amount of time, and now being sober for around half a year, focusing on sports and academics, I’ll say this. I’m now much sharper, calmer, harder working, and focused. I don’t have the sad moments I used to have, and I feel self accomplished often. But, I don’t have fun or feel emotion the same way I used to. (I also smoked daily for around 8 months). Life is blander, and less exciting but your able to appreciate the small things more if that makes sense. Things are simple, and calm, yet drugs made it fast and exciting. I will always miss the phase of partying and drugs all the time, but it’s not sustainable long term. As the video said, it really is a struggle either way and your not going to be fully happy doing either. For you younglings watching, remember that drugs can give you some of the happiest and best times of your life, but they will also bring down your mental health forever, which isn’t worth it in most peoples opinions. No matter what you do, be safe, and remember to smile more, laugh more and love more.

    • @michaelh6611
      @michaelh6611 2 года назад +1

      @Lee McDabney You’ve never done drugs so you you really have no place to speak😂. This dude is just being honest

    • @michaelh6611
      @michaelh6611 2 года назад

      @Lee McDabney you are a loser

    • @GG-tn5dl
      @GG-tn5dl 2 месяца назад

      ​@michaelh6611 Alcohol is a drug fuckwit 😂 hilarious if you think otherwise

  • @johnhenry4
    @johnhenry4 4 года назад +360

    20 years of booze. 9 months done here, no looking back.

    • @stalls17
      @stalls17 4 года назад

      word up man I don't like it when people say congrats to me but good for you

    • @auroraborealis13579
      @auroraborealis13579 4 года назад +1

      Hell yeah, Mike. Welcome to the Wagon! 💗💗💗💗

    • @maryhadley7373
      @maryhadley7373 4 года назад

      There are so many ways to get recovery these days... meetings, on line meetings, pod cast... books, audiobooks....

    • @loungarounda
      @loungarounda 4 года назад +1

      I just got my purple nine month chip. Feels good, congrats man

    • @AndreasNilsson96
      @AndreasNilsson96 4 года назад

      Great work man, it only gets better with time!

  • @smoozerish
    @smoozerish 4 года назад +46

    I have an alcoholic father and 3 alcoholic brothers. I stand alone and apart being the only sober male in my family.

    • @shuneughu4244
      @shuneughu4244 4 года назад +3

      Both my parents are alcoholics
      They drink everyday
      I'm an alcoholic because once I start I can't stop
      I don't drink all the time and find if I go a few days not drinking I don't want to anymore
      But if I do start I have issue stopping

  • @sasquachjl1228
    @sasquachjl1228 Год назад +68

    About to hit 3 years sober. This was one of the first videos I watched at the start of my journey; seeing two men I look up to have this conversation gave me such confidence then and I come back each year to relearn and reflect. Thank you both for helping to give so many of us the confidence and understanding to start our sobriety journeys.

    • @ryansk8ter71
      @ryansk8ter71 Год назад +1

      Amazing to read this, congrats on that, super impressive brother great work!

    • @truebusker
      @truebusker Год назад +1

      Thanks for the comment brother!

    • @pickleboy5106
      @pickleboy5106 9 месяцев назад +1

      Good job man

    • @jak2828
      @jak2828 7 месяцев назад +1

      Congrats on your sobriety! I watched Craig Fergusons video about getting sober for years before I did it myself. Just hit 5 years on Oct 3

  • @jarretts.7429
    @jarretts.7429 Год назад +26

    Very beautiful stuff. 27 yrs of heroin abuse. Now I have 5byrs sober. Jordan and his wisdom definitely helped me navigate life. So grateful. We definitely do recover

    • @amandaforster9099
      @amandaforster9099 Год назад +3

      Congratulations man. As a daughter of a deceased heroin addict, i applaud you !!! You are a super hero!!! Keep it up

    • @inboundira329
      @inboundira329 Год назад

      Good luck 👍

    • @czapnation
      @czapnation 10 месяцев назад

      Awesome.

  • @o_Kurto
    @o_Kurto 4 года назад +162

    seeing so many comments about other people starting their journey of sobriety.... Makes me smile and i dont even know y'all. Stick with it, you wont regret it

    • @glassankles207
      @glassankles207 4 года назад +3

      the world needs more people like you

    • @kanescrimes4848
      @kanescrimes4848 4 года назад +1

      People like you make said journey much more possible.

    • @raimundosilva4382
      @raimundosilva4382 4 года назад

      você já viu o Jack amiga andar junto com o FBI colaborando com a justiça você já viu Jack colaborar com todo Jack o Jack colaborar com o FBI junto para mim vestir prendereu que estou comentando sobre a minha vida é crime eu estou cometendo colocando o creme sobre a minha vida que confessa que me deramo que eles fizeram até agora como eu tento com a cor do crime sobre a minha vida o que eu estou fazendo o que eles confessa que me deu certo para mim entregar a cabeça dele sem juízo tribunais como prova e como e eles me deram até hoje isso aí para mim pegar a cabeça dele no tribunal me deram crime eles não me deram nada se não me engano palavras criminosas é o que

    • @raimundosilva4382
      @raimundosilva4382 4 года назад

      Cada cada vídeo que eu abri amigocada dia cada vídeo que eu abri um bloco eu vou ganhar multidão em voz do meu lado porque eles estão confessando o crime e eu tôeles confessam crime na minha vida e eu defendo de voz é por isso que eu tava achando a multidão tô crescendo cada vez maiscada cliente que eles comentários sobre a minha vida eu ganho em voz que eu tô com batendo em vós o crime que eles

    • @raimundosilva4382
      @raimundosilva4382 4 года назад

      o que que eles me deram amiga eles me deram palavra criminosas falta de respeito discriminando o tempo todo é o que eles me deram as palavras falta com respeito tempo todo é oconfesso que me deram foi bosta foi pouco foi cachorro foi grilo foi pênis foi p**** foi pica-pau que eles me deram é oo que eles confessaram que me deram só palavra d********* que eles colocaram para minha vida falta de respeito o tempo todo ele se ele tivesse me dado algo de bom vozes em vozes ficava do lado deleporque em vós as pessoas me defende porque em vós as pessoas tá do meu lado porque estou ligando palavras terminadas RUclips combatendo o crime de Lis em voz por que os tribunais

  • @voytron1
    @voytron1 2 года назад +24

    22 years of drinking and 10 years of blow. Now almost 2 years sober, life is so much better, getting up in the morning clear minded and productive.

  • @thefourthwritedjentleman3643
    @thefourthwritedjentleman3643 Год назад +13

    18 months sober next month
    Best thing ever
    Addiction is giving up everything for one thing
    Sobriety is giving up one thing for everything

  • @joshuasrulez
    @joshuasrulez Год назад +65

    I'm glad there are so many comedians, and famous people these days openly discussing addiction, and mental health. RUclips needs more of this.

  • @S0DAo
    @S0DAo 4 года назад +583

    Haven’t drank in six weeks, for the first time in 5 years. It’s incredible how much my life has improved. Physically, mentally, ethically, situationally, in practically every aspect my life is better. Swapping a couple nights of the week blacking out and regretting everything I do each time for the way my life is now is so damn worth it. I don’t even wanna drink. I will say this though, my life socially isn’t as good. The weekends are tough, no one likes to do anything that isn’t getting pissed in Ireland. Especially with the weather.

    • @cicada3357
      @cicada3357 4 года назад +6

      I lived with alcoholics in rehab/half way houses for the last 7 months and they all say their social life gets better with time, and like you said life in general gets better. Find a new social group (AA meetings are great for this) who enjoy doing things without getting fucked up first. In America there's a lot of "sober only" groups who go to events like football games and concerts together, created for people in recovery, maybe there's stuff like that near you too

    • @Josh-rn1em
      @Josh-rn1em 4 года назад +4

      I'm 1 month off opiates for pain. My choice is take opiates and my life is a room or live with pain but have much more life. Keep going man. Remember many people out there know what you're going through

    • @houstonhampton2418
      @houstonhampton2418 4 года назад +6

      Shardz Beats proud of you

    • @daireb123
      @daireb123 4 года назад +6

      Same boat here. If you're an active person you should try mountain biking or bouldering (both fun and addictive sports). Plenty of options if you're near Dublin and shouldn't be too hard to get a few mates involved

    • @Gabriel_Moline
      @Gabriel_Moline 4 года назад +1

      Shardz Beats Well that’s great for you. Congratulations, I hope you find that this works for you forever. Still, you weren’t a seven days a week drunk. That life is a lot different than a once in a while drunk. Not trying to take anything away from what you are doing, cuz that is a real accomplishment, really and honestly. Still. Every day drunks would have a harder time. For many reasons.

  • @kanescrimes4848
    @kanescrimes4848 4 года назад +328

    Praying for you Peterson.
    Addiction is a nightmare I wouldn't wish on my worst enemies. Especially opiate and Benzo addictions.
    14 years shooting dope and 6 years on methadone and 2 years sober. Peterson played a big part in my success, so it's only right we support him in his time of weakness.

    • @wickedgymdudes1147
      @wickedgymdudes1147 4 года назад +4

      Kane's Crimes good for you man keep That sobriety going💪

    • @dom-ct6ie
      @dom-ct6ie 4 года назад +3

      Kane's Crimes what happened to peterson

    • @kanescrimes4848
      @kanescrimes4848 4 года назад +6

      @Brother Jake's ReconnaissanceSorry but you're VERY wrong...twice.
      "but your comment implies that Dr. Peterson became addicted to drugs for the same reasons you did"
      No it doesn't. That's a misconception on your part.
      He had to have an emergency detox because of said paradoxical reaction, BUT that detox STILL amounts to the nightmare of detoxing from a substance you've become dependent on=addiction.(the coma will not omit experiencing all withdraw discomfort)
      YES, even people who experience an opposite reaction to that which was aimed for will experience one or both forms of dependence/addiction that makes detoxing SO hard for everyone, which is what I'm alluding to in the comment.
      There are different 'brands" of addiction/dependence and when paired with said reaction the fight is potentially even worse(what I'm alluding to in my comment)
      Paradoxical reaction DOES NOT negate the potential for dependent and experiencing withdraws.
      Fun-Fact: I volunteer at a methadone clinic in Halifax Nova Scotia called Direction-180.
      I'm also going to school for addictions counseling and will be employed there in a little longer than a year.

    • @kanescrimes4848
      @kanescrimes4848 4 года назад +2

      @@dom-ct6ie He was on benzodiazapams for 3 years, ran into some health issues, his dose was upped and he had an adverse reaction so severe he had to be emergency detoxed.

    • @kanescrimes4848
      @kanescrimes4848 4 года назад +2

      @Brother Jake's Reconnaissance Side note: You know he was on it for over 3 years before his dose as raised don't you?
      Mikhaila Peterson misrepresented(maybe misunderstood?) information given to her by the physician.
      She mildly makes it sound as if physical and psychological dependence are mutually exclusive(at least in this case she does) when they're not, ESPECIALLY when regarding a paradoxical reaction.

  • @zakariyasadig681
    @zakariyasadig681 2 года назад +10

    I’m almost a year sober and it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. But to anybody struggling, it’s worth it. Keep going.

    • @laza6141
      @laza6141 2 года назад

      how are you feeling , is it better than the first few months ?

  • @kaytlinrainemusic
    @kaytlinrainemusic Год назад +246

    These two together are a brilliant combination of intellect 🙏 I'm 26 years old, and I'm 13 days into my sobriety from alcohol and cannabis; best decision and first decision I have ever made that truly benefits me just as much inside (if not more) as the outside. Only the universe, your higher power (if you're lucky enough to come into contact with it), and YOU, know when it's time for change. Don't be hard on yourself if you're not there yet. Your time will come and you'll see and feel the world around you and within you for what they really are. 🙏

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 Год назад +5

      Youre still going strong?

    • @thesweetprince
      @thesweetprince Год назад +2

      Beautifully said!

    • @Iwish4zombies
      @Iwish4zombies Год назад +1

      Hows the sobriety did you go back to the dark side

    • @thefourthwritedjentleman3643
      @thefourthwritedjentleman3643 Год назад +2

      How you tracking?

    • @connormudie3870
      @connormudie3870 Год назад +4

      I hope you are still going strong. if you are, congratulations you are now over 100 days sober you have passed the worst of it and now can live in the clear headspace healthy lifestyle that you have worked hard to maintain. Good job and I’m glad you listening to the messages you received from your higher power, it knows best as does your heart and gut.

  • @listen2metalord1e
    @listen2metalord1e 3 года назад +37

    Been struggling with alcohol and drugs for the last 12 years of my life. I’ve lost friends, ruined relationships and sunk myself into a deep dark depression. Yesterday my friend and I decided it was time too finally get our lives together. First night without pot last night. It’s hard. It will get harder. But I can do this. So can you. God bless all of you

    • @tyson86overspinks
      @tyson86overspinks 2 года назад +3

      Hope it’s going well for you thus far

    • @jamieniche
      @jamieniche 2 года назад +1

      I found it took about 6 months for it to get better.

    • @lunchandmilk2537
      @lunchandmilk2537 2 года назад +1

      Been on and off pot for around 10 years plus
      Its insane how little people realise how addictive marijuana can be, its a case by case basis. Not to mention most dont realise there's actually a withdrawal period, not as extreme as herion etc, but cold Turkey sober can cause feverish symptoms and irritability.
      Met a new girl, got off for around 6 months, I felt amazing, got a good job, was absolutely loving life, slept better, put on 30kg (I was originally around 60kgs at 5'9 and was TINY)
      Then life turned around and did what life does and become so turbulent that I turned back to pot, im still smoking now but so much more conscious of my decision to keep doing this, I know that the only way forward is with careful planning and a goal to reach sobriety.
      Just get by each day, even if you have to pull all nighters and just play cod or halo for 12 hours straight to distract yourself, get through that first few days and it all becomes so much easier. The first night always sucks.

    • @hspinnovators5516
      @hspinnovators5516 Год назад

      There is an end to the suffering. The key is to stay on one road. It does get easier

  • @wrightcodyj
    @wrightcodyj 3 года назад +58

    I am one year sober/clean now. I somehow managed it completely without rehab, and let me tell you: it was fucking tough. And when I spoke out to my friends about it, they suddenly vanished. It was very painful to lose my social group, but I realized months later that they were holding me back from my true potential and perhaps I didn't need them around in my new sober reality. I've never felt better, and watching this really made me think about who my friends really are. Thank you, Theo.

    • @JJ-ev9uz
      @JJ-ev9uz 2 года назад +1

      Im currently going through this now and it hurts. But i know its for the best.

  • @clearlivcoaching4995
    @clearlivcoaching4995 Год назад +3

    One of the BEST chat on alcohol / drugs and friendship

  • @georgeandmyself7696
    @georgeandmyself7696 2 года назад +7

    its hard to stay sober when you got nothing to lose

  • @anothermike4825
    @anothermike4825 4 года назад +57

    I swear I had the DT's for a month after I quit drinking. About 6 months after I quit, I got a sensation of happiness and it reminded me of how numb I had been. If anyone out there is struggling, remember today is just as long as yesterday, and you made it yesterday. You can do this!

  • @dingledan1966
    @dingledan1966 4 года назад +87

    "I was afraid of dying in my sleep."
    "Yeah, it's not like that doesn't happen to comedians."
    "Yeah, it's one of our go-to moves!"

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 4 года назад +2

      Brandon Crosby yes, we caught that part...

  • @calebergh
    @calebergh 2 года назад +8

    Jordan Peterson is awesome: "That's a really good question". That is such a compliment from someone who is so brilliant.

  • @TVguy9999
    @TVguy9999 2 года назад +56

    My father struggled with alcohol for years (decades) but finally decided to leave it behind and turned 78 this year. I'm convinced that had he continued drinking, he wouldn't have made it to 50. I'm extremely proud of him for making a tough choice and sticking with it, even though he lost many "friends" along the way.

  • @kennethmesih1458
    @kennethmesih1458 4 года назад +80

    WE NEED HIM BACK ♥️

  • @onemulatto
    @onemulatto 4 года назад +59

    Alcohol almost killed me. I didn't care to live anymore. I never thought I could go even a day sober. Let alone a week. Rehab was the best thing to happen to me. Almost 11 months sober since I've been out. Never going back!

    • @onemulatto
      @onemulatto 4 года назад +1

      @Alan Doyle awesome. Fuck yeah! Can't wait to relapse!

    • @theotherguy4897
      @theotherguy4897 3 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing that.

    • @tealquartz
      @tealquartz Год назад +1

      God Bless!!!

    • @tealquartz
      @tealquartz Год назад

      @@onemulatto idiot

  • @SamboDaCambo
    @SamboDaCambo 6 месяцев назад +3

    I love how Jordan asked Theo questions to make him deeply think of his answers. Very caring ❤

  • @CCitis
    @CCitis 6 месяцев назад +3

    I will be 10 years sober in April. I do not look back. If you are struggling with it, you absolutely can do it. You can choose the path to life. It’s possible. Get help, do whatever you have to do. And one day, you will look back and you will have other issues sure, but you will be proud you are not drunk or on drugs. You can do it friend.

  • @SNiP3ZZxxPR3DAT0R
    @SNiP3ZZxxPR3DAT0R 3 года назад +19

    Went to my first aa class yesterday. The journey to sobriety begins now

  • @thedude1982
    @thedude1982 4 года назад +89

    Get well Jordan

  • @shaunjohnwood
    @shaunjohnwood Год назад +2

    As a struggling alcoholic this is HUGE.... change is needed

  • @DarkArtistic
    @DarkArtistic Год назад +11

    So nice to see Jordan just laughing and enjoying the conversation. Also so true about alcohol, been sober for 8 months now, and never felt better.

  • @6thouz
    @6thouz 4 года назад +11

    If you want to stop but you can’t stop get help, don’t do it alone! I’ll be a year sober March 5th 2020 at 22 when I stopped drinking I thought my life was over. But it’s just getting started.

    • @RyukyuStyle
      @RyukyuStyle 4 года назад

      the problem is a lot of people dont want to stop.. even when they know its impacting them negatively, often its the only thing they have to give them a reason to wake up tomorrow. so abstaining from the one thing that gives you joy is a very hard thing to cope with. imo at least

    • @6thouz
      @6thouz 4 года назад +1

      Tony Montana I totally understand your point. I had to get to a place where I felt my only options were suicide or sobriety. And somehow someway I had a moment of clarity that gave me the strength to seek the help I needed.

  • @loungarounda
    @loungarounda 4 года назад +131

    I’ve been sober just over 9 months now. I feel so much better, I wish I had done it sooner. Jordan and Theo both helped to plant the seed. They’re both great.

    • @Ericthefilo
      @Ericthefilo 4 года назад +1

      Its all you man, all your effort too. Keep it up brother

    • @patc8735
      @patc8735 11 месяцев назад

      Does the 3 month mark feel heaps better than 1 month?(that's the most I've ever been able to do)

    • @Chonchoeagleclaw
      @Chonchoeagleclaw 4 месяца назад

      @@patc8735for me, any additional time feels better and makes it easier. I’m on 10 months now and I have no desire to drink again. It’s such a relief because I was an absolute destructive monster at my worst and stunting myself in so many ways at my best.

  • @BacalonaMessi10
    @BacalonaMessi10 Год назад +5

    Ive been struggling with my sobriety recently so this has been the inspiration i needed to continue . Thank you my brothers 🙏 💯 positive outlook and good choices for 2023

  • @Jim005
    @Jim005 10 месяцев назад +8

    When Jordan describes friends, I think of my best friend growing up who always held me to an achievable high standard. We could suffer together through things and celebrate things too. But he knew how to give me a dose of truth when I was being bitter or whatever other nonsense. These friends are such a blessing when you realize the role they've played in your life.

  • @OhMyGoog
    @OhMyGoog 4 года назад +19

    6 weeks sober partly thanks to these two gentlemen

  • @davekushner5340
    @davekushner5340 4 года назад +118

    Getting sober was the greatest thing that's ever happened in my life. A great deal of the process was Dr. Peterson's influence. Coming up on 2 years, back in my children's lives, back with my wife, in grad school, and deeper into my Catholic faith and philosophy than I ever thought possible.

    • @jixxytrix1705
      @jixxytrix1705 4 года назад +2

      Your Catholic faith...
      Have you read John 3?

    • @davekushner5340
      @davekushner5340 4 года назад

      @@jixxytrix1705 of course!

    • @jixxytrix1705
      @jixxytrix1705 4 года назад +1

      @@davekushner5340
      Then I have two questions.
      Are you born again? And do you worship Mary?

    • @davekushner5340
      @davekushner5340 4 года назад +3

      @@jixxytrix1705 yes I'm born again. Jesus is talking to Nicodemus about a birth from water and spirit (Baptism). So yes, I'm born again the biblical way. No, I don't worship Mary. I take her into my home as the mother of God (you can't separate Jesus' divinity and humanity) the way Jesus instructed the beloved disciple at the foot of the cross. (+ See Queen Mother teaching in the Davidic Kingdom and the teaching of Mary as the ark of the NEW Convenant). Mary is only significant in any way because of who Jesus is.

    • @jixxytrix1705
      @jixxytrix1705 4 года назад +1

      @@davekushner5340 No, no, my man. Mary is not the mother of God. You go way too far.
      Easy does it. She is the mother of Jesus the man. God says to Jesus at the river jordan, 'today I have begotten you'. He was made in likeness of sinful flesh. Is God then sinful?
      Jesus speaks to John at the foot of the cross, not to you. Mary is dead, you cannot take her into your home. Perhaps you have brought something else in...
      Queen Mother? What now? She is no queen, she is blessed among women, highly favored. If Jesus is the King and Mary the Queen, what does that mean?
      Read Jeremiah 44 and you'll find a queen of heaven mentioned. The passage is called 'Judgment for Idolatry'.
      Nowhere in the prophecies of the OT is Mary mentioned in connection to the Messiah. Shouldn't she be if she's so important?
      Get rid of whatever Icon you've brought into your home....

  • @arthurnorton284
    @arthurnorton284 2 года назад +5

    Two of my favorite men. Thank you both for being accessible to me and being sober. You inspire me. Almost 34 months sober for me.

  • @nathanalane2674
    @nathanalane2674 Год назад +48

    I quit drinking over 90 days ago and I came to these same conclusions and realizations over that time while processing this on my own - it’s SO NICE and affirming to hear this because it makes me feel like I’m not crazy and validates that I’m on the right path!

    • @bl0rex345
      @bl0rex345 Год назад +2

      you should celebrate with a drink

    • @deegrawnz
      @deegrawnz Год назад +1

      @@bl0rex345 bro

    • @nektekket852
      @nektekket852 Год назад +3

      Well done brother, 22 years sober here, and you know what? My contemporaries that kept on drinking aren't looking too good now....

    • @nialllappin4159
      @nialllappin4159 Год назад

      @@nektekket852 anecdotal evidence doesn't mean much because I know 40 and 50 yr alcoholic who are in perfect health and look great

    • @laurapalmerTDGE
      @laurapalmerTDGE Год назад

      Thanks for your comment. Whether a habitual drinker or an addict, the realization and understanding that you are no less than anyone else is important.
      After my studies as a civil engineer, which I successfully completed, I rolled into drinking. Started with a glass of port and occasionally vodka. After a few years it was a bottle of vodka a day to function properly.
      After various therapies and withdrawal and with the help of Tranxene, I have been on the right track for years now.
      Alcohol is a means of escape, a poison.
      There's nothing more pleasant than being sober.

  • @tiadiad
    @tiadiad 4 года назад +57

    The best thing about alcohol is quitting.

    • @lostintime8651
      @lostintime8651 4 года назад +2

      Nope. That's not it.

    • @ryanjohn2116
      @ryanjohn2116 4 года назад +7

      Alcohol is good in small amounts, if you over do it and black out a lot that’s where it gets dark

    • @tiadiad
      @tiadiad 4 года назад +2

      Quitting booze is the best thing for those who have a problem. The health benefits alone are worth it.

    • @razeezar
      @razeezar 4 года назад +1

      I've never had an alcohol problem but I just try to stay away from drinking in general except for maybe sometimes on social occasions.
      The shit's mostly overrated, anyway!

    • @hoop-djonez8669
      @hoop-djonez8669 3 года назад +1

      @tiadiad they missed your point...always a contrarian somewhere. U made a valid point. Not much good comes from alcohol PERIOD. The good things they want to imply isn’t even the alcohol. Fun maybe? That was parallel with the booze. It wasn’t the booze

  • @weedboyweedboy6191
    @weedboyweedboy6191 4 года назад +53

    Bring him back on when he gets better dawg! That’s a real genius bruh.

    • @Iwasthewalrus
      @Iwasthewalrus 4 года назад +1

      You need some David Goggins. JBP is great but does not practice what he preaches. To be fair...not many do.

    • @weedboyweedboy6191
      @weedboyweedboy6191 4 года назад +3

      @@Iwasthewalrus goggins a G. but jbp is the goggins of the intellects trust me cuzn.

    • @Iwasthewalrus
      @Iwasthewalrus 4 года назад +2

      @@weedboyweedboy6191 I can't argue with you brother. JBP absolutely helped me get on the path of bettering myself. David's method seemed to work better for me as far as consistency though.
      "Don't stop when you're tired. Stop when you're done."
      All the best my friend 👊🏻

    • @weedboyweedboy6191
      @weedboyweedboy6191 4 года назад +1

      @@Iwasthewalrus solid men they are aha. u too my G.

    • @Powence
      @Powence 4 года назад

      @@k.q.594 Theo von brings the best out of everyone, the most positive comment section and fans.

  • @markgarland2926
    @markgarland2926 2 года назад +5

    This was great. Two of my favorite people in the world talking it out. Great work guys. Keep up the good work!

  • @Mingotheking
    @Mingotheking Год назад +7

    Finding friends who encourage me has been the most rewarding part about sobriety. “A friend is someone who can listen” the people who don’t support you are just people you know not friends.

  • @dadams9158
    @dadams9158 4 года назад +165

    Theo,
    This small twelve-minute four-second clip of a podcast where you and Jordan Peterson discussed sobriety could possibly be your living legacy.
    Probably saved and will continue to save lives.
    And help three generations of people seek sobriety with success.
    Thank you, Lord, for Theo.
    Thank you, Theo and Jordan for delivering His message in His own time.

    • @dadams9158
      @dadams9158 4 года назад +2

      @Bill Brown
      Welcome. I dont think i can take credit for these words. They popped into my head and came out my fingers.
      Amen

    • @KenjiSummers
      @KenjiSummers 4 года назад

      Wow, I agree and hope Theo reads your comment.

    • @dadams9158
      @dadams9158 4 года назад

      @@KenjiSummers
      Even more than that, I hope he sees the one from hoya vp I wish everybody sees that one responds to him

    • @leesun9523
      @leesun9523 4 года назад +1

      Cheers good sir

    • @dadams9158
      @dadams9158 4 года назад

      @@leesun9523
      Cheers

  • @travismester
    @travismester 3 года назад +16

    It’s great to see Jordan laughing. It’s also great to see Theo branching into a new self. Kudos.

  • @donnystarkins33
    @donnystarkins33 2 года назад +14

    Love this conversation! Seriously cant thank you enough for being vaulnerable and sharing your story. And sharing the story you were telling yourself!

  • @NRM-X
    @NRM-X Год назад +6

    Beautiful to see that Farley was somehow in the room for this conversation. A legend gone way too young.

  • @mollycote1021
    @mollycote1021 4 года назад +12

    13 yrs sober. Nothing better! Thanks for this video!!❤️👍🏻✌🏻🙏🏼Theo, congrats!!

  • @dinoradja242
    @dinoradja242 4 года назад +6

    "I was so drunk on my own insecurities and low self worth" that's so important theo said that. I know that feeling, feels so isolating.

  • @jt.thomas
    @jt.thomas 2 года назад +6

    Today is year 2 of living a non-alcoholic lifestyle for me and Theo has been a great source of inspiration. Thanks, brotha.

  • @joshuarandolph8765
    @joshuarandolph8765 Год назад +1

    It's nice seeing Jordan laugh alot! He is so straight to the point and seems that he has so much on his mind.

  • @marycallahan2334
    @marycallahan2334 4 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing this frequency of courage and sobriety!!

  • @hemskywalker7924
    @hemskywalker7924 4 года назад +5

    Stay Strong & Sober my fellow people.... Stay strong and Sober. May JP have a full recovery and we can hear him speak and have a good time like this again, here with Theo.

  • @jamesfreeman4884
    @jamesfreeman4884 Год назад +1

    This is my favourite interview. I love how they let each other speak.

  • @Ivan220996
    @Ivan220996 Год назад +12

    It's nice watching Theo speak to an intelligent person because you can actually see how intelligent he himself is. Theo has a deep understanding of the human condition. Which I guess is part of the reason why he's such a great comedian.

  • @fooshfoosh
    @fooshfoosh 4 года назад +18

    This is such a great interview! You can tell Jordan Peterson really enjoyed talking with Theo, they vibe well of each other and discussed a lot of great topics. Theo is a good interviewer, even if he thinks he's not.

  • @chazconner2601
    @chazconner2601 4 года назад +28

    Thanks Jordan for helping turn my life around. I lived in my car after I quit being an emt. And I listened to hours of your content and it helped me redefine myself

  • @CoCojoy420
    @CoCojoy420 2 года назад

    My soul emits tears, seriously, thank you for this video, I finally found a podcast that hits my small soul, gracias grazie

  • @iconocast
    @iconocast 4 года назад +9

    these two had some chemistry

  • @yeseniaarias2493
    @yeseniaarias2493 3 года назад +34

    After 3 months of sobriety with alcohol I went back to it after the lockdown. I was out of work for a month and lets just say the month of April was a whole lot of partying w drugs and alcohol. Fast forward to now and I’m realizing (again) how I can not live with alcohol in my life. It’s what’s going to kill me. It’s what’s hurting my personal growth as a person. It’s just doing a whole lot of damage.
    I’ve looked at a lot of videos on the subject lately and how Theo explains his relationship with alcohol and why he chose to be sober makes me feel not so alone. Thank you so much Theo you’re awesome!

    • @bakedpotato420
      @bakedpotato420 2 года назад +3

      How's things going for you now? Hope the last year has been good to you.

    • @Bonez0r
      @Bonez0r 2 года назад +2

      I heard someone say in an interview, I think it was on Joe Rogan, although I can't remember the guest, that every time you try to quit, the more likely you are to succeed that time. I think they were talking about smoking but it may be the same for drinking.

    • @colinbradfield72
      @colinbradfield72 2 года назад +1

      Every time I hear a great story about sobriety usually people relapse because addiction is a really really terrible thing. I struggle with it all the time. Theo could totally go bonkers overnight as could Peterson. But it’s good that they are happy for the time being. Addiction just sucks. Gosh I sound like such a downer, I guess because I struggle and sometimes I feel like I’m doing good and sometimes I feel like I’m not doing so good, but I have yet to meet Anyone in my personal life that has been addicted and didn’t struggle with getting out of it or they would get out of it for a moment and then sometimes relapse once in a while, I just never have met someone to just have an awakening. Maybe that’s just my reclusive life

    • @Bonez0r
      @Bonez0r 2 года назад +1

      @@colinbradfield72 I wonder how effective a psychedelic experience with magic mushrooms would be in your case. I've heard Peterson say that in a scientific study (on the effectiveness of psychedelics on smoking addiction), people were permanently cured of their addiction after just one experience, although I wonder how permanent that really was, they may have had relapses after the study.

    • @colinbradfield72
      @colinbradfield72 2 года назад

      @@Bonez0r I’ve done that, somethings just work for different people from a Neurological standpoint I haven’t really found anything that just made me want to stop drinking accept for feeling like crap. However perhaps my comment last night was a little negative

  • @costeno0990
    @costeno0990 Год назад

    Two great minds battling it out in such a eloquent manner I applaud both of you gentlemen 👏🏽

  • @sharonscott4296
    @sharonscott4296 Год назад

    What a comforting interview and to feel the love between two intelligence guys🥰they got the good stuff going, just having an honest conversation🙏🙏🙏

  • @vmwindustries
    @vmwindustries 4 года назад +42

    Poor Jordan. I hope he gets out of hospital soon. Also is terrible what happened to his wife. Very sad.

    • @ElDuardo01
      @ElDuardo01 4 года назад

      @Eric W. wtf?

    • @Kurostyle21
      @Kurostyle21 4 года назад

      That's some dedicated Peterson mud campaign and strongly focused at his family at that. Haven't seen such an attack on his character yet.
      Get a life, Eric

    • @ElDuardo01
      @ElDuardo01 4 года назад

      @Eric W. explain please

    • @HDitzzDH
      @HDitzzDH 4 года назад

      @Grinder Man I think he deleted all of his comments, looks like you're talking to no one lol.

    • @HDitzzDH
      @HDitzzDH 4 года назад +1

      @Eric W. What sexy selfies? She rarely uploads images of herself lightly dressed, and when she does it's at the beach/sunbathing, and I'm pretty sure Jordan doesn't like the photos for the reason you think, it's simply because she's his daughter, he doesn't have the perverse mindset you do clearly. And no I don't doubt the fact that you rephrased something, I do it all the time.

  • @nateone6632
    @nateone6632 4 года назад +4

    I swear this video was God sent, been needing comedy and Jordan lately perfect blend and I found it today when I was ready to hear, thank you guys

  • @williamthomas5215
    @williamthomas5215 Год назад +11

    Theo is so oddly intelligent whenever he talks about personal issues and sobriety. He has such a gift at articulating feelings and ideas that create and produce addiction.

    • @danieleubanks558
      @danieleubanks558 11 месяцев назад

      It's called being honest with yourself, even when others are around. Knowing that you have faced those issues head on and fixed them or even avoided them all together when they are ever present in a potentially vulnerable position in your life , should provide some sort of morality that you can be proud of and discuss you're recovery as a celebration not as lies pretending your better.

  • @AdamMeyer78
    @AdamMeyer78 Год назад +6

    Day 100 of my sobriety and I have lost a lot of people that were toxic, and that is what needed to happen because the ones who were meant to be stayed in my life because they are my true friends.

  • @johnnydelrome
    @johnnydelrome 4 года назад +56

    Man this was one of the best conversations Theo has ever had. I just past 100 days, and my biggest obstacle is meeting girls and partying with them and what not. It’s challenging giving up typical habits of going to the bar and picking up girls, but the rewards are so much better. I fell clear headed, I’m much more productive, and I just feel healthy.

    • @astrogamezhd3153
      @astrogamezhd3153 2 года назад +12

      Trying meeting some real women… hint they are definitely not in those places

    • @timharper4246
      @timharper4246 2 года назад +8

      There's no wife material in bars. Only girls you temporarily have fun with.

    • @patrickswope5437
      @patrickswope5437 Год назад +1

      You can go to the bar and not drink alcohol…

    • @johnnydelrome
      @johnnydelrome Год назад +6

      @@patrickswope5437 you can go to the gym and not workout

  • @eternelle143
    @eternelle143 3 года назад +17

    Thank you Theo, this was a treat! Congrats to everyone on their sobriety thus far. Keep going, even if you fall, pick yourself up again. You're stronger than you think. Keep well.

  • @teunl387
    @teunl387 Год назад +1

    this has huge educational value, respect brothers!

  • @jefftorbenson8831
    @jefftorbenson8831 Год назад +3

    this was a good show Theo, liked it a lot, always love listening to Mr. Peterson, but you also had a little humor in there too !!

  • @JFLO455
    @JFLO455 4 года назад +5

    Seeing everyone talking about the sobriety is amazing! At the end of the day everyone is going through it and we gotta stick together. Hope y’all have an amazing day!

  • @mooalijasmine
    @mooalijasmine 4 года назад +6

    “Something to run towards and something to run from.” And “A friend is someone you can tell good news to. If they get in the way of you getting your life together, those are just people you know.”

  • @kydop6128
    @kydop6128 Год назад +1

    this is a very good talk. thank you both.

  • @iurhviusdfavhi
    @iurhviusdfavhi Год назад +2

    This conversation was actually incredible and underrated.

  • @rulivingyou1347
    @rulivingyou1347 4 года назад +8

    NOT taking THE risk is the GREATEST RISK.
    THIS QUOTE got me to start doing open mics.
    and Bobby Lee.
    Thank you Mr. Bobby Peterson

  • @aaron4ism
    @aaron4ism 4 года назад +55

    "That's what you were afraid of if you stopped drinking, what were you worried would happen if you kept drinking?" The only question some need to think about. JP is dropping knowledge in this 💯

    • @dadams9158
      @dadams9158 4 года назад +3

      Then he sits quietly, looking at Theo with love and peace , as force at work.
      Theo had no choice but to dig deep and answer .

    • @CarnivalofLVX
      @CarnivalofLVX 4 года назад

      That was a great way to put it! Wish someone asked me that in my dark years of drug and alcohol use.

    • @dadams9158
      @dadams9158 4 года назад +2

      @@CarnivalofLVX
      Pray for them.
      For Jordan to recover his health and for Theo to
      persevere in this attack from the lord of lies.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 4 года назад

      It’s really not that deep.

    • @aaron4ism
      @aaron4ism 4 года назад +2

      Dewi Lew that's the beauty of it, it's simple and straight to the point. And leaves it up to the person to really think it over.

  • @paristaylor4838
    @paristaylor4838 5 месяцев назад +1

    Two of fav people..both so different..great to see them share together.❤

  • @64kdawg
    @64kdawg 4 года назад +5

    God bless Jordan Peterson. He's good man who's helped so many. 🙏🙏

  • @lelandc9763
    @lelandc9763 2 года назад +34

    Been wandering this world alone in my mind for 30 years. Glad I found something to help guide me now. Keep it coming theo and dr Peterson!

    • @brettdwyer4837
      @brettdwyer4837 2 года назад +6

      Hi Leland,
      Not trying to get into your business or preach . I'll just say that when I finally decided to seek recovery with my best sustained 3fforts ( which sometimes didn't feel like much other than laying my head on my pillow sober that night ) little by slow the miracle of sobriety happened for me. I need good people iny life to support my efforts at recovery and whom I can support in theirs. AA saved my life and I was no longer alone .
      Best wishes to you

    • @chumdinger8320
      @chumdinger8320 Год назад +1

      Man.. that first sentence… I feel that

  • @markgraham8125
    @markgraham8125 10 месяцев назад

    Great video guys, and good on you Theo for being so open and honest, I am trying to get on the sober train myself and with each week I can feel myself becoming less anxious.. Time is the key factor, it all takes time..

  • @timbbldr
    @timbbldr Год назад +16

    I've watched clips and such of Jordan for the last few years and he's made me cry, made me laugh, made me wonder, and made me try and change my life.
    I'm just over 4 months sober again after a recent relapse, and his clips certainly help me continue to fight to stay sober. Theo is a great help as well. Thanks.

    • @angru_arches
      @angru_arches Год назад

      Did you get to the DTs? Last November I had my first acute withdrawals and was rushed to the ER not knowing what it was...I have gone about. This is my 5th month without a drop. Was treated with Diazepam, a Benzo, and Vitamin B1...but never fully recovered fully from the symptoms...I literally just yesterday found out about PAWS (Post-Acute Withdrawal Symptoms)...breathing difficulties, bit of tremors...occasionally spooked by hallucinations...but research says PAWS lasts 1-2 years, and I'm scared.
      How long had you gotten clean for before relapsing?

  • @gangstaflamingo
    @gangstaflamingo 4 года назад +27

    “Thats one of our go to moves” lol