Heidi is bringing Paul back to court for an increase in child support. She says he is making a lot more money doing porn videos. Will his child support increase based on his porn earnings?
I think you misspelled "reversed". He should be given sole custody for a change, and she should get to enjoy paying child support... under penalty of incarceration, just like he was. Granted he'd need to dial back on his "hustle job", but it sure would be fun to watch her get hauled off. Also, whatever happened to imputation of income? She gets free rent, free utilities, and *can* work. Depending on the nature of their housing, that could easily be worth $50k a year all-in.
It happens alot more than youd think in fact im in the middle of it now where my ex filed for child support, the kicker i have him every single day if the week while shes at work and every single weekend since hes been born excluding once i was puking on myself. I have him 95 hours a week but she still thinks i should be paying her bills.
@@TheSean89420 Stay strong, yield nothing. Good luck to you. Hopefully this is not in a current marriage, so you aren't at risk of having to pay her legal bills too.
@@Limitlesspower98 are you sure? I only ask because she seemed extremely shocked when the judge told her how much she was getting. Also, I’ve never heard of this show so I don’t know if it’s real or not.
No. That would put any mother in the dependency child support was invented to prevent. Every parent has a responsibility. She is taking care for his child. If he does not want to see or deal with his child that puts the whole task on her shoulders. Living on 1k/month does only work because she has a free space to live in. You can not punish every single mother for the sins of some.
@@KarlSanathos that doesn't make sense. People shouldn't make a living for taking care of their own child. That's your responsibility, not a job. And if you can't even feed your own child then giving the custody to the other party who is financially stable should be the fucking right thing to do. Don't let the kid starve when there's a better option.
@@potatoes402 What the better option is depends on more factors than financial status. Forcing unwilling or endangered caretakers to stay with their partners just because they would lose custody enables all kinds of really bad situations. I do not deny that the system can be exploited. But combining custody and money while a child needs a caretaker which is at least for the first 3 years a full-time and then until the child has a job a part-time job puts the caretaker at the mercy of the money provider. Having to provide for one's offspring is an accomplishment not a burden. It gives freedom to the caretakers.
@@KarlSanathos lol, the topic is about the custody, so if there's a fight for custody, the one who can provide the best for the child should win. And clearly a mother who can't even feed her own child isn't suitable.
@@potatoes402 So the one who has a job and has the money but isn't available at least 10h/a day should win custody but the one who has the experience and time should loose? Not all caretakers are gold diggers. In my opinion no one should loose custody as long as there is no clear indication that the child is way better off without that person.
If a person is paying child support and the one receiving it ends up getting married and that person can provide for the child interestingly if it's reported to a court you will no longer have to pay child support cause all the basic needs are being meet
@@christianneikirk3723 I disagree with that. Another man shouldn't have to shoulder another man's child. That's like guy code 101, you sound like the type of guy that would fuck his homie's girlfriend & never tell him till he(homie) finds out himself or from others. Sad bro, sad.
@@dbzownz12345 dude is not saying you should have to shoulder another mans child dude literally says contact the courts so you dont have to lolol what crack are you smoking?
1. Refusing to get a job 2. Demanding for more child support 3. Complaining about her bedroom issues 🥴 WHO IN THE RIGHT FN MIND GET INVOLVED WITH THIS LUNATIC? Moral of the story: Being SINGLE might be a blessing for some.
She was taught that this was an okay way to act, and that as a mother she was entitled to that lifestyle. I pity the man for having children linked to her, and can only hope the kids at least are worth it.
@@johnhein2539 the judge should have overturned the custody to the father as soon as she revealed her laziness. Clearly not a penny is going to child care and I suspect child abuse is a daily thing in the house
Crazy cause she said that I believe right after she said “my mom pays for everything, she’s the homeowner” that shit sounds so crazy. Imagine how much hate a man would get for doing exactly what she’s doing…
She's an actress. Remember those are actors, the case is real but may have happened with different looking people. That audacity is probably for the show.
Their not together so it’s not cheating and so what if he making porn movies doesn’t mean he’s profiting off and he’s paying his child support she needs to get a job
Dad supporting the kid 100 percent and probably only seeing him every other weekend while good for nothing mother does nothing all day but talk shit on the dad. Basically family court in a nutshell
That woman did her best to try and get the Judge to look at the situation from an emotional standpoint. I was glad to see the Judge stayed on point and viewed the case from a logical standpoint, and just dealt with the facts of the case.
-"i will get more if i get a job ?" -"no it would be more for the child" shows she doesn t give a shit about the kid, she s just here cuz she wants to get money and not have to work for shit
Because "Child Support" isn't child support in the USA. It is long term alimony, which is slavery. Real child support is much different. It is a fraction of the cost and shared equally between the parents.
@@MrKentakie it's all depends on the cost of live, here where i live the cost to raise (with all of the better, like private school and top brand food and formula) for the children will cost around 2.500 of our currency, or 1.250 per parent, so the ideal cap here should be 1.250 per month
The fact that women actually go for money shows how weak some are. Here’s a suggestion, the relationship didn’t work. Move on, seek therapy, leave men alone especially if you have a child/children with a man. Be the strong and independent woman you are. Or be like this crab basket seeking money 🤦🏿♂️
The state of Texas is so lucky to have you, Your Honor! Thank you for being fair-minded. No idea how you hold your tongue in some of these cases and maintain your professionalism. Congrats on being a RUclips sensation and the NEXT Judge Judy :D
@@WizardsBastard but the reference was to her reaction when the judge lowered the payment by $110 (even though she's still getting a lot more money out of it)
If they're separated -- IE, *not together* -- then why is it her business if he's seeing someone else, or simply viewing pornography? She thinks she can retroactively control his life?
@@Kiriali If he actually was, I'd commend him on getting away with it. Because that all would have done, is prevent true legalized theft. Where they press a man for more of his money, to give to a throughly irresponsible woman, who should be getting nothing from him. This is why marriage and cohabitation has started dying in the US. It takes a lot to completely fck over the value people see in romantic relationships, but CG, you managed.
@@Kiriali It depends on the laws of your state. I don't know where this is and don't care enough to look into it, but in MOST states they get ONLY money based on ONE job, at whatever it works out as for a 40 hour work week. You could have 7 other jobs, and they are not eligible for one extra single dime beyond that one job, at that one rate.
@@Kiriali It's not illegal to lie about making money to someone you're dating (which they were). It's illegal to lie to a COURT about your income. But see, we have no reason to believe he has lied to anyone besides possibly his ex (and even here it depends on the exact words he used and she's interpreting). He said he's getting 90 on a GOOD year. Meaning that's not a normal case. This is still the sum the judge issues on and notes that it's a very slight increase over reported. So, based on that, for him to have lied, you'd have to prove that his previous actual income was a good year but reported as average.
@@danieljonsson8095 I also note that the "very slight increase" amounted to changing the situation from $600 a month plus the $100 for health insurance to $1100 a month, after deducting the $100 in health insurance. That's going from a total cost of about $700 to about $1200.
Just imagine how supportive and dedicated this woman would be to supporting her husband if child support only meant that the money was to be spent on the child and being divorced actually meant being homeless on the street with nothing.
Love the fact that she cam in for an increase and it actually got reduced. HaHa. The judges face when she said I live for free why would I work. Priceless.
@@michaelchapin1976 It didn't get reduced unfortunately. It got increased by $400, she reduced $120 from the new value which was double what it was before.
@@jirenthegray no you understood wrong. He was giving her 600 a month. His responsibility was increased to 1200 - 200 from the healthcare roughly he did not win.
Don’t forget a lot of people like to steal from the rich too in retail be like they make plenty of money not my problem. Lol or tax the rich more because they make so much money lol
I feel you, it’s so sad…This woman all she wanted was his money, like he owe her. TF…she tried everything to destroy him. She kept lying making up stories just to get his money. Her story didn’t add up, He’s a pornographer but then his thing ain’t working, she said that to destroy him just incase people see the show…This type woman can kill you. She gat some dark dark personality and 16yr old mind stupid AF!
this is exactly the problem with "child" support only the "dad" is supporting the child. the court should order her to get a job and offset the payments. she is a sponge and a leach. I could work but I don't want to if this was the father, he would be in jail.
Exactly. There should be a set cost that is a generalization based on factual evidence of raising a child and that amount should be split. Any amount more than that should be clearly proven the need for. If both parents are capable and fit they should have equal custody rights.
@@ashleybuster7386 well really its a situational thing not everyone is fit to raise a child and some people dont want rights and pay fully. because its so different on the case by case bases their cant be a set standard.
@@owenmckoy1202 your mother did not put him in jail, if she did there would be no chance of them getting back together, people are fools. I have an ex and I know we won't be getting back together but I have fun poking the bear. lol
In this type of situation, watching the man coming out the courtroom being the victor is a real breath of fresh air... I could see the tiny dim light of hope slowly approaching
Free food and free rent the dad is paying the insurance for the kid I don't know what you need to buy so bad but I think the kids needs are met without paying you a dime
@Mexicanus Prime i agree and with this cost for health issuance should be split 50-50 between the parents for the child no money should be going to the mother or what she wants
In Theory I agree but the reality is (though not in the fake case presented as she lived with family) is for most single parents man or woman receiving child support its very easy to justify it going towards rent alone. Dude was paying 600 a month. Im guessing they would be in Houston or DFW area if this case was real. 600 is approximately half the rent expected on an apartment with the child having their own bedroom. She upped his support to just over 1000. That kid almost certainly eats more than 200 a month in food and 200 in incidentals like hygiene products and growing out of clothing etc. What you want is an itemized receipt. News flash. you do that then someone in the government has to audit it. Guess what that means? Your support is going to go up for overhead costs or our taxes are. Are there deadbeat moms who go get free clothes at the church and salvation army cheese etc so they can spend that support check on themselves? Yep. Its not going to be most of them for the same reason most people follow other social norms. So what you want is to raise my taxes because you stuck your dipstick in crazy? No thanks.
All Soldiers in the military need you as a child support judge. From what I've seen with 23 years in the service, the single father usually gets raked over the coals.
There's two things that are wrong here! One is that child support is not a game as this judge constantly portrays in these videos it actually affects children and is the cause of many suicides and broken homes! Two child support is fundamentally and morally wrong in most case anyway because it is not based on actual necessity its just based on who makes more money which is not justice! These type of video do nothing to educate people its just gives low charactered people like the women in the video more vigor and confidence to continue being vindictive and spiteful!
She straight up just said “I can get a job but I’m not going to..” While he has to bust his ass working everyday while being a dad when he has the child and still has to pay that cow who is open about not wanting to work at all. Something HAS to be done about these child support laws.
She came there with every intention to make this man look bad! Her best interest was not of the child. It’s primarily about her getting her money! This is sad!
But instead made him look good. It showed him having more money. And also having way more sex. The way the judge sipped the cup when she mentioned it 😁.
and that's what she got 400 extra for a bum that sit's around collecting money from the dad that should have the child in the first place. when she said she doesn't work nor did she want to the judge should have put in a order for the dad to get the child. let a dad do that and see how fast the child get's rip from the dad lol.
@@matthewhummel1572 I got called less of a man the other day for not wanting to date a single mom at 23 years old. People that shame me for that are fucking delusional.
Fair?? How his child support increased because h is making more money. Why would he seek to further increase his income if he is going to get punished for it because let’s be honest she not using that child support for the kid she using it for herself that’s obvious but the court don’t care. The mom is lazy good for nothing and don’t want a job to take care of the kid so why do she have custody? Really think about it if he were to make himself a millionaire he would be paying thousands in child support and I bet you gunna see the ex wife driving a Mercedes.
@@davidtrojanowski1861 I agree with you and disagree because that same judge saw and literally heard from the ex wife mouth that she don’t want to get a job even if it’s for her kid. She is using her kid to get free money basically from the father. She showed what her plan was and it was scummy if the judge was really fair she wouldn’t have increased the child support and or just gave the father custody of the child he seem like a way better parent. In my opinion that would be rational and fair to both the kid and husband. Imagine that kid growing up with that mother and seeing her use him to get more and more money from the father.
@@Prec1sion-Aim I understand your point and agree with your stance. The problem is a judge cannot choose which laws to follow or ignore, especially laws that are clear cut like child support. Even if this judge denied an increase in child support, the woman would appeal to another judge and her request would be granted. These laws need to be changed.
She was trying to belittle the man to the judge by showing that the guy sucks in bed.... And the only correct response to that insult would have been "well maybe you should get yourself a mirror and you would see why the battery ran out before the climax"
This is very irritating.. women who can physically work and refuse to work still get child support increased.. the system is broken and shame on this so called mother who takes advantage of her mother and her kids father and doesn't have her own place.
Yes, If I had the chance I would make the child support upper limit to still be a percentage of the dads income, but to also be based on the moms income. Say up to 50% of the moms income, not to exceed 30% of the dads kind of thing(numbers are just an example). Then, mothers would have to work to receive support and if they don't, they should risk losing custody.
@@mithicash1444 That is honeslty a great idea. I mean 30% is kind of big amount still ( depending on place but here you get 3k per month and renting a flat (even 20 m square ) is taking about half of that up to two thirds. So I guess it should be just additional tax that get's taken out of ammounts you actually can save. Or simply do Salomon judgement. If both of them can't take care of kid then country will in orphanage. I guess that would cool some people a bit when it's not you that's gonna be getting cash.
At the end the lady tried to insult the man's performance, yet it's clear he's performing just fine with *thousands* of people... except her. Guess she just doesn't have what it takes to recharge the batteries.
He really needs a lawyer for this because it doesn't matter if his income has gone up she admitted while in court that she's misappropriating the child support funds for her own use as none of them are used to pay for the child combine that with her willful unemployment and she should absolutely not get a penny
And if she has no expenses, why would she need more money? I would have given her ZERO increase, in fact I might have decreased it until she came back to court and proved that she had worked at least six months in some full time job.
Isn't the point of child support to help pay expenses for the child? Like why is dad paying for all of his son's and his ex wife's expenses? This is wild. The mom's mom should kick her ass out until she gets a job.
@@maryannanderson2213 what the 'mom' in this case didn't grasp, is that the 'child' support is for the 'child'. Not for the mom.. especially when the mom has no expenses of her own. Her ex isn't required to continue to support her (the mom) after the divorce. She needs to grow up.
@@MikePurdue-ky9pm nah, some may pretend call themselves empowering, buy rest assured the rest of us knows it's not the case. It's time to call them out on it, so it get shamed away. There's a good reason to use shame. I remember having disagreement with a very good friend on that subject. I was frustrated that everyone thought she was exaggerating, but no one said it out loud, preferring to say, yes he's an ass. He wasn't she still doesn't realize it, but she did accept that her need for higher amount was her unwillingness to do the annoying job we all have to do. She worked but as a freelance and not sufficiently sustainable for the life style she wanted.
Just sad af she want that man to take care of her not the child she don’t want no money if she don’t wanna work and your bills free already she want everything free in life 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
If she has no rent, the child has no rent If she gets free food, the child has free food What is she gonna spend the money on, herself???? Wtf If y’all not together, get a damn job and stop being lazy, your teaching your child wrong habits
@@ApethGrader that's not the laws on the books. She has to still follow the law, even if she doesn't always agree with it. SCOTUS or the Circuit would have to get involved for that to change.
This is straight sad that she is allowed to basically sit around all day and able to work but chooses not to get a job while still collecting child support.
Well, first of all, this is scripted and these are actors. But let's assume this case is real: First of all, even though she is being portrayed as incompetent and arrogant, being a full time parent is not an "I do nothing" job. A stay home mom is celebrated when she's married. Why is she not when she's divorced? Most women do wanna have a career and a baby and people always assume they can't/shouldn't or even accuse them that they will be bad/ neglectful mothers. And that's when they actually do have a partner to share the house chores and parenting. But when they're completely on their own, with full custody, then the world expects them to pursue a career, cause otherwise they're taking advantage of men? I don't get it. Also, when a parent, regardless of gender, is making more money, they would want to spend more on their child as well, exactly because they can afford it. Why is it that divorce parents view child support as "giving my ex a salary" and try to avoid paying it? These are money they should be gladly spending for their child. Besides (again this is scripted, but for the sake of the argument), he couldn't have his career and shoot those thousands of porn videos, while being a real full time father to his own child. Thus his ex being a stay home mom and having full custody is actually helping him to make more money. Personally I believe both men and women should be independent financially and pursuing careers but, still, they should get child support if they have full custody. Child support exists for the children, not for the adults. Whoever gets full custody should always get it.
@@gk9546the problem is that she probably isn't even spending it on the child. She doesn't need to, her mommy is doing everything financially for him and her. That's why she was mad it was so low. Being a single mom is awesome if you have a s/o that makes enough so you don't have to and can be with your child. She's choosing to not do anything and is grossed out by the word job ffs. I guess because her mommy is paying for everything, that's okay. She should be showing her son what adults should be doing
Something seriously needs to be done about these child support laws. It's just insane how a person can come into a courtroom and right in front of a judge and the world to see and say I'm not doing anything and he's/she's going to pay for it. That should be unacceptable.
If child support is absolutely necessary, I think it should be enough for half for the care child, if the mother can work and chooses not to. But I understand if the mother CAN'T work and she needs help with the child then I'm all for a higher child support, so long as she can care for her child.
@@farewelljupiter I mean it's both parents' responsibility to provide for the child they created so yes they do. I just think the parent providing child support should only give enough to help the child, not the parent with custody. After all, sometimes custody isn't super easy. Saying no one should pay child support is pretty deadbeat material if I gotta be honest.
It caught my attention when she refer to her son as “the kid” as if he wasn’t hers, it seems distant, cold. You can tell she’s a bad example for that kid.
first red flag was her trippin off him making porn videos, i highly doubt she didnt know that but thought she would change him by having a kid to him (seen this many times with swinger women when i was i used to be friends with benefits with a swinger wife) second one was her being proud of not working then third shes only doing this because he wont quit being a porn star that she fully knew what he was and shes jaded fourth she referred $600 as "nothing"...shes a horrible mom im glad the judge didnt let that slide
I tell all women I date long term that if you're expecting marriage than you'd best abadon ship now cause that'll never happen. I don't care if I have 2 dollars to my name, that's my fucking 2 dollars!
@@insertname9581 obviously there are circumstances but that lazy woman is contributing nothing to the upbringing of that child. Financial responsibility works both ways.
Nope thats not good for the child at all and wouldnt work out for perents at all as well magine a perents working fulltime and now they also have a child fulltime with no one to look after it? they would also lose their job and then no one would ahve custody, you need to leanr to put some thought into your ideas
@@heedmywarning2792 that's actually a pretty good idea. And if you need to spend it on the kid for an emergency you gotta submit a receipt to ether Social Services of the IRS which ever is more appropriate.
The judge should have said something like ... You know this is Child support and not alimony, right? You should not be spending as much as a cent on yourself or your needs using your SONs money.
My uncle owns a construction business and he earns a pretty nice income a year. My ex aunt divorced him and of course got the custody of my little Couzin who as of right now is 5. He has to pay over 3k a month because it’s a certain percentage of his income. Wtf does a toddler need 3k for.
Some states actually have a cap on total support, meaning that the percentage you pay is only ever going to be out of this amount. I think it is all crap. Situations like this and like mine, are why the system is so backward. She refuses to work, my ex refuses to keep a job and yet always demands more from me.
@@2amoto my ex is the same. Lived with her BF and my father (yeah I know). She doesn’t work nor drove. I’ll hit the cap in my state soon. This drives me to go get mine reduced, but it’s hard to punish her without punishing the kids.
@MagmaApex321 Your uncle should have his business under an LLC. He should pay himself a reasonable salary (say 50k a year) under that LCC as an employee and pay a lot less. Understand? You may work for a company that makes $10million a year that pays you 50k a year. Child support would be based on your 50k and not on the companies 10 million. Simple
"Please hear me out on one thing." My mind was not ready for the brilliant analogy that followed. My faith in humanity was plummeting at that very moment.
fr what a crumb ass human being to straight say it loud and proud i don’t work or pay for anything at all but i just want him to give me more money so i can continue to sit on my ass all day and get free money while i freeload off my mother
@@briw8562 ,let me guess if it was a woman it would be OK right? I don't have a problem with people doing what the need to pay the bills and food on the table and roof over their head as long as their children don't exposed to it. In the 80's and 90's strippers would take their kids into the clubs to be watched by the other strippers so please save me the high and mighty talk.
You have a responsible dad, with a high income job, yet the child goes off to the extremely lazy, unemployed mom, that is living like an overgrown child.
@@xtrlsidma Yeah, I had that figured. The timing's a little too sharp and on the money to be for real, but I am not one to turn my nose up at a half-way decent script.
I couldn't be a judge. The moment she said "I could get a job, but I won't" I would have signed paper work to get her custody stripped away. A person like that is undeserving of the love of a child.
He couldn't be - he has dead batteries ;) And don't you love how HER EX-HUSBAND was cheating on her in HER/THEIR bed? When that D was finalized, there was no cheating and it wasn't HER?THEIR bed...Let it go...LOL
For an 11 year old boy that’s not to good he a boy going through puberty so they eat A LOT, he’s probably in a sport, there growing A Lot that means new clothes new shoes. They find interest in new activities (which is a good thing) art,tech,music,cooking all those things cost money. Now considering the mother lives with her mom this is fair she doesn’t have to pay for rent or food as said in the video that’s fair but for the average mother with a growing boy no.
@@gracehamilton7510 excuses is all I see. A man is yalls fucking bank account. These laws need to change. 1000 dollars a month is more than fair for an 11 years old CHILD. Hell eat more sure but that's still enough money for that. You just love the idea of men giving money to a women against his will
She's literally a grown-ass woman who is not only leaching off of her husband and her mom but ignoring the one responsibility she has as a single mother - TAKING CARE OF HER GODDAMN CHILD. At this point, the custody should go to the dad. Poor guy.
Well I know of a woman who had three kids and their father died and she lived off of their money they got from their father who worked for along time his security went to those kids and their mother never worked she used their money to live off right up till her last 3rd child graduated from high school just last year and dang woman never took care of herself health wise and she got too sick has heart problems and diabetic and she went on ssi.and here's the kicker the dumb woman won't try to improve her health its terrible that she is abusing alot ok f stuff..
As much as I am amazed and loves the entire video... Let me point out... Where are these videos? Please... Send me the link... Lol... I'd buy his video lol
Soooo she is saying he is bad in bed..... but also saying he is so good in bed, he is making bank off the 1000's of porn shoots he is doing in the house with 100's of women.
This is the case that I've went through. I have two child and the mother decided to split because all she wanted to do was party. So I got stuck with the two kids (full time) she took me to court for child support. It cost me almost $30,000.00. I had to take the money I put aside for the kids trust fund. Something that I started when they were babies. Anyways, through all the expenses and the hardship this woman put me through, I still won custody of my two kids but the court did not make her pay child support due to the fact that 1. I made more money than her and 2. the court felt more sorry for her through her lies. She lived with her mother, she somehow found money to party all the time. Plastered all the crap she put on social media bragging about how she don;t have to pay child support and able to party. I just laughed and said to myself; that's OK. I have the two kids and I won. Right now, I am happily married. The kids has an awesome step mother who is more of a mother to my two kids. So to the people out there who thinks that woman are all that, guess what. There are men out there who are like me and can handle to take care of our own child. Yes it's a huge challenge and responsibility but it's all worth it.
I am a single mom who’s child has an actual dead beat father. My son is 20 and hasn’t seen or heard from his dad in 18 years. I’m also a welder and I see men get screwed over all the time, although I do think it has changed a little in the last 10 years, though not enough. I never bothered going after my ex for money because screw him, I’ll do it on my own. My son did ask me one day why I chose that and when I said I was able to do it on my own he said well you’re letting him get away with it too. I’d never thought of that. The only thing I would say to you, as it sounds like you did the right thing, is maybe don’t word it that you got stuck with your kids. Just doesn’t come off great and I’m sure that’s not how you actually feel about having custody of them. But I do see and recognize how many fathers do the right thing even while dealing with selfish, greedy, vengeful women who use their children as pawns (that seems to me to be something only moms do for the vast majority). Good on you for being one of the good guys.
If the kids were in YOUR custody there is no way she could take you to court to get child support. And they still would have taken her to court to get some support out of her for the children no matter how much money you make. It might not be a lot but it would be done cause you had custody. Is there more to your story cause it doesn't make sense.
"He's cheating on me" "on our bed"- did she not just tell everyone that they were separated for a long time? And that they briefly tried to get back together and it failed? Fucking ludicrous
Time to sue the child support agency, the judge, clerk of courts, and if need be the local sheriff's office. Child support is unconstitutional under federal law and the U.S. Constitution. 45CFR 654 (3) 42CFR 666 gives you an idea of how child support is illegal.
Cases like this, the mother should have custody revoked. She had a clear desire to never work and live off his dime only. That’s so fucking shady.
I think you misspelled "reversed". He should be given sole custody for a change, and she should get to enjoy paying child support... under penalty of incarceration, just like he was. Granted he'd need to dial back on his "hustle job", but it sure would be fun to watch her get hauled off.
Also, whatever happened to imputation of income? She gets free rent, free utilities, and *can* work. Depending on the nature of their housing, that could easily be worth $50k a year all-in.
Happens all the time
It happens alot more than youd think in fact im in the middle of it now where my ex filed for child support, the kicker i have him every single day if the week while shes at work and every single weekend since hes been born excluding once i was puking on myself. I have him 95 hours a week but she still thinks i should be paying her bills.
@@TheSean89420 Stay strong, yield nothing. Good luck to you. Hopefully this is not in a current marriage, so you aren't at risk of having to pay her legal bills too.
so common lol
The fact that she's able to collect child support at all being voluntarily unemployed says everything about why the system is broken.
They're actors
@@Limitlesspower98 are you sure? I only ask because she seemed extremely shocked when the judge told her how much she was getting. Also, I’ve never heard of this show so I don’t know if it’s real or not.
@@Limitlesspower98 They’re actors but the story is real. This is just a retelling.
@@normalguy5157 no this is real just like divorce court and paternity court and regular court
@@Snow-qv1kr No they were actors but the case is real
“It would be more for the child if YOU got a job.” 😂😂🥳 I love this Judge.
you know it’s staged right? but it’s good.
Exactly all actors fake judge
@@boyceboyce123 If it was a real judge they would of butchered the man. Always do.
its obviously fake
@@boyceboyce123 She is an attorney.
We need more judges like her. Specially in California
Good news. She's actually one in Texas
Texas models its state basically in the premise of doing the opposite of whatever Cali does lol
She's out of line for this entitled attitude ...stay at home mom but he's 11 and in school for 8 hours ,5 days a week
Whaaat?? Americans go to school for 8 hours? We only go for 6 in my country.
Americans do not go for 8 hours a day
@@circejanuary yes we did 😂
@@circejanuary Yes, they do. Most kids go from 7:50 to 3:30.
Yes we do... I had school from 7:45 to 3.
If a mother can't support her child with her own income she shouldn't have custody. Period
No. That would put any mother in the dependency child support was invented to prevent. Every parent has a responsibility. She is taking care for his child. If he does not want to see or deal with his child that puts the whole task on her shoulders. Living on 1k/month does only work because she has a free space to live in. You can not punish every single mother for the sins of some.
@@KarlSanathos that doesn't make sense. People shouldn't make a living for taking care of their own child. That's your responsibility, not a job. And if you can't even feed your own child then giving the custody to the other party who is financially stable should be the fucking right thing to do. Don't let the kid starve when there's a better option.
@@potatoes402 What the better option is depends on more factors than financial status. Forcing unwilling or endangered caretakers to stay with their partners just because they would lose custody enables all kinds of really bad situations. I do not deny that the system can be exploited. But combining custody and money while a child needs a caretaker which is at least for the first 3 years a full-time and then until the child has a job a part-time job puts the caretaker at the mercy of the money provider. Having to provide for one's offspring is an accomplishment not a burden. It gives freedom to the caretakers.
@@KarlSanathos lol, the topic is about the custody, so if there's a fight for custody, the one who can provide the best for the child should win. And clearly a mother who can't even feed her own child isn't suitable.
@@potatoes402 So the one who has a job and has the money but isn't available at least 10h/a day should win custody but the one who has the experience and time should loose?
Not all caretakers are gold diggers.
In my opinion no one should loose custody as long as there is no clear indication that the child is way better off without that person.
When she said “I’ll look for a job” she means “I’ll look for another victim to support me.”.
If a person is paying child support and the one receiving it ends up getting married and that person can provide for the child interestingly if it's reported to a court you will no longer have to pay child support cause all the basic needs are being meet
@@christianneikirk3723 I disagree with that. Another man shouldn't have to shoulder another man's child. That's like guy code 101, you sound like the type of guy that would fuck his homie's girlfriend & never tell him till he(homie) finds out himself or from others. Sad bro, sad.
@@dbzownz12345 He is just stating the law, educate yourself first.
@@dbzownz12345 oddly enough some people don't want birth their own children.
@@dbzownz12345 dude is not saying you should have to shoulder another mans child dude literally says contact the courts so you dont have to lolol what crack are you smoking?
1. Refusing to get a job
2. Demanding for more child support
3. Complaining about her bedroom issues
🥴 WHO IN THE RIGHT FN MIND GET INVOLVED WITH THIS LUNATIC?
Moral of the story: Being SINGLE might be a blessing for some.
Hahaha...
Tru dat
The best part is, that despite being this pathetic she still got more money xD
why is she a lunatic. its the law that's crazy. aswell as guys that don't use a condom or get married.
If his bedroom game is so lame how did he get a 1000 porno gigs like she claimed😳😄
Wow, just straight up admitted in court that she's a lazy good for nothing.
She was taught that this was an okay way to act, and that as a mother she was entitled to that lifestyle. I pity the man for having children linked to her, and can only hope the kids at least are worth it.
@@johnhein2539 the judge should have overturned the custody to the father as soon as she revealed her laziness. Clearly not a penny is going to child care and I suspect child abuse is a daily thing in the house
Dude this isn't real.
@@Celestial_Wing They are cases fictional for the purposes of training and such.
@@DataLog Yeah, if people took the time and googled the Judge's name they will see that it is not real. She is a lawyer.
The audacity this women has to say “I could get a job but I’m not gonna”
If a parent is voluntary unemployed…. They should lose custody and child support. Welfare and safe-keeping should come from the working parent.
Crazy cause she said that I believe right after she said “my mom pays for everything, she’s the homeowner” that shit sounds so crazy. Imagine how much hate a man would get for doing exactly what she’s doing…
She's an actress. Remember those are actors, the case is real but may have happened with different looking people. That audacity is probably for the show.
@@Chikiprofeamen brother
That lady is the tour of person to say "No one wants to work anymore, people are lazy"
6:30 “No, it would be more for the child if you got a job”
That made me CACKLE
Mother: (Faking emotions) "Your Honor, please, you don’t understand!"
If they're not together, it's literally not cheating.
exactly 😂😂
We were on a break
Women like this don't want men to be happy with someone else. Or even on there own.
She probably cheated on him
Their not together so it’s not cheating and so what if he making porn movies doesn’t mean he’s profiting off and he’s paying his child support she needs to get a job
Broke up already 9 years ago, and she claims he's cheating her. LoL. The audacity on this woman.
She's fucking crazy
1:12
I think she said they got back together
Oop hahaha she said KINDA HAHAHAHA
So I wonder how many guys she was with
I bet she smells like cigarettes and ramen noodles
Dad supporting the kid 100 percent and probably only seeing him every other weekend while good for nothing mother does nothing all day but talk shit on the dad. Basically family court in a nutshell
This pour man has to be a hooker to just get by and pay for his kids.
I'm not being sarcastic it's sad.
I have so much to say about the family court system not going to blast it on RUclips though as it does no good.
thats the patriarchy for you....oh wait!
@VNB Slash He should sue for full custody.
Sounds a lot like modern women
That woman did her best to try and get the Judge to look at the situation from an emotional standpoint. I was glad to see the Judge stayed on point and viewed the case from a logical standpoint, and just dealt with the facts of the case.
I'm looking at it from an emotional standpoint and she's still in the wrong. She's only thinking of her saggy ass self and not her kid
She deserves a pat on the back for sure
Why she kept saying, on our bed? She is scorned that he is enjoying his life while she is miserable.
Exactly my question, you’re divorced honey stfu
No, what she said was, "MY Child!", and then, "oUr BeD..."
bingo
And she says all of that, while she lives in her mothers house.
Exactly, what does what he does in his bed. Doesn't he be anything with her.
Men: show this to your nephews and sons before they reach puberty.
Preach!!!
Seeing shit like this we can afford to skip a generation or 2 of kids
Just go find a wife in a country where woman are still decent quite a few exist
@@Tombstone_Active same
@@ExplorationRandomDestination Japan
Judge: "You dond wanna work?"
Her: "No no"
It was after that she just lost all the credibility and the case.
She didn't lose the case. Child support was raised by 400 usd a month.
@@krzysztofmikosz The system's not just what a surprise...
If it was up to to anyone watching the video she wouldn't see a dime more.
…”so you’re just living off his child support”
Her: I am
With a straight face and noooooo accountability. Wow.
He needs to take her for full custody of this poor child.
She's going to ruin this child, and no woman will help him. Pathetic. Moms aren't the best parents... Period.
This one and the other entitled narcissistic mothers don't deserve kids
-"i will get more if i get a job ?"
-"no it would be more for the child"
shows she doesn t give a shit about the kid, she s just here cuz she wants to get money and not have to work for shit
Because "Child Support" isn't child support in the USA. It is long term alimony, which is slavery. Real child support is much different. It is a fraction of the cost and shared equally between the parents.
You’ll literally get more because you’re earning money, it’s called a paycheck 😂😂😂
if she gets a job, she loses welfare
That’s morally wrong. Child support shouldn’t be a percentage of income.
Percentage would be wise for lower income but it should have a hard cap like 2000 or so.
@@MrKentakie it's all depends on the cost of live, here where i live the cost to raise (with all of the better, like private school and top brand food and formula) for the children will cost around 2.500 of our currency, or 1.250 per parent, so the ideal cap here should be 1.250 per month
Should be based on the mother’s salary to at least make her middle class
@@jujugohard4289 nop, it's need to focus on the care of the children
@@jujugohard4289 No, it shouldn't
I love when men actually win. We just lose so much
He won, but at what cost. Why would he have any further incentive to increase his income if its just going to be taken from him.
@@FCNMike1 Exactly! I wouldn't call that a win in anyway. He still has to pay more money because hes increased his income!
Ya his child support almost doubled. That’s not a win.
The fact that women actually go for money shows how weak some are. Here’s a suggestion, the relationship didn’t work. Move on, seek therapy, leave men alone especially if you have a child/children with a man. Be the strong and independent woman you are. Or be like this crab basket seeking money 🤦🏿♂️
@@FCNMike1 I remember I didn’t take a raise just because but now the cost of the courts cost more than a “win”.
The state of Texas is so lucky to have you, Your Honor! Thank you for being fair-minded. No idea how you hold your tongue in some of these cases and maintain your professionalism. Congrats on being a RUclips sensation and the NEXT Judge Judy :D
Her face when judge reduces the payment, priceless.
It was 600 and went up by 400.
@@adjcsee4476 6:02 -$110/mo for health insurance
@@WizardsBastard but the reference was to her reaction when the judge lowered the payment by $110 (even though she's still getting a lot more money out of it)
Just saying some films ... you may be paid in cash but bruh thousands I'm a marine but wow that's impressive he should join the Olympics
These are actors. The judge is not a real judge either.
If they're separated -- IE, *not together* -- then why is it her business if he's seeing someone else, or simply viewing pornography? She thinks she can retroactively control his life?
@@Kiriali If he actually was, I'd commend him on getting away with it. Because that all would have done, is prevent true legalized theft. Where they press a man for more of his money, to give to a throughly irresponsible woman, who should be getting nothing from him.
This is why marriage and cohabitation has started dying in the US. It takes a lot to completely fck over the value people see in romantic relationships, but CG, you managed.
@@Kiriali It depends on the laws of your state. I don't know where this is and don't care enough to look into it, but in MOST states they get ONLY money based on ONE job, at whatever it works out as for a 40 hour work week. You could have 7 other jobs, and they are not eligible for one extra single dime beyond that one job, at that one rate.
You see this is divorces alot. Ex Wives hold grudges and want their exs to SUFFER forever. Husbands just want to be done and gone.
@@Kiriali It's not illegal to lie about making money to someone you're dating (which they were). It's illegal to lie to a COURT about your income. But see, we have no reason to believe he has lied to anyone besides possibly his ex (and even here it depends on the exact words he used and she's interpreting). He said he's getting 90 on a GOOD year. Meaning that's not a normal case. This is still the sum the judge issues on and notes that it's a very slight increase over reported. So, based on that, for him to have lied, you'd have to prove that his previous actual income was a good year but reported as average.
@@danieljonsson8095 I also note that the "very slight increase" amounted to changing the situation from $600 a month plus the $100 for health insurance to $1100 a month, after deducting the $100 in health insurance. That's going from a total cost of about $700 to about $1200.
“I will go look for a job”...... she didn’t say she would get a job, only look for one.
There's gotta be one out there somewhere lol
@@draskocis not for her
The job is another male victim to rob. That's the job 😂
That ending though 😂🤣💀 "the batteries go out"
I love how she said "a measly $600 a month." If that's measly why doesn't she get a job?
Just imagine how supportive and dedicated this woman would be to supporting her husband if child support only meant that the money was to be spent on the child and being divorced actually meant being homeless on the street with nothing.
Love the fact that she cam in for an increase and it actually got reduced. HaHa. The judges face when she said I live for free why would I work. Priceless.
@@michaelchapin1976 It didn't get reduced unfortunately. It got increased by $400, she reduced $120 from the new value which was double what it was before.
@@vicbirth1649 He was payin $1,203 a month. Now he’s payin $1,093 a month. That’s a reduction pal!
@@jirenthegray no you understood wrong. He was giving her 600 a month. His responsibility was increased to 1200 - 200 from the healthcare roughly he did not win.
I YELLED OUT LAUGHING when the judge said..."and you're proud of that?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Who wouldn't? The girl is a bum and a freeloader.
Lmfaoooooooooo
LMAO i read this as she said it and it sent me
This proves how the system is broken. A man who does well in life has to pay for a pathetic excuse for a human being and still gets no justices.
Don’t forget a lot of people like to steal from the rich too in retail be like they make plenty of money not my problem. Lol or tax the rich more because they make so much money lol
I feel you, it’s so sad…This woman all she wanted was his money, like he owe her. TF…she tried everything to destroy him. She kept lying making up stories just to get his money. Her story didn’t add up, He’s a pornographer but then his thing ain’t working, she said that to destroy him just incase people see the show…This type woman can kill you. She gat some dark dark personality and 16yr old mind stupid AF!
Imma keep it a bean with you. This show isn’t real. She’s not a real judge. She’s an attorney in Dallas. It’s amazing entertainment though
@@taijb11 it happens all the time irl tho
@@taijb11 she does remakes of cases. These case’s actually happen
Can you hear me out on one more thing?
Make it quick.
Ok, pretend you have a battery-powered vibrator!
We're done.
"Let's say...that you have....a battery operated vibrator."
It is at this moment I lost my composure
Yup
I’m deaddddd lmao
Ye like wtf😂
That's the wrong analogy to make in court 😭😭🤣🤣
😭😭😭😭
This dude's absolutely crushing it in life and she just can't allow that to happen
Fr , making 90k at his job and getting laid 😂 thats life
@@VictorArgeniss lol that’s what I was thinking bro just clapping cheeks an making bread
@@Squidgawddd96 man i can only dream of making 90k having fun thats my definition of the American dream
@@VictorArgeniss😂😂😂🍆
@@VictorArgenissbros living like the King he is 👑
this is exactly the problem with "child" support only the "dad" is supporting the child. the court should order her to get a job and offset the payments. she is a sponge and a leach. I could work but I don't want to if this was the father, he would be in jail.
Sounds like my ex.
Exactly. There should be a set cost that is a generalization based on factual evidence of raising a child and that amount should be split. Any amount more than that should be clearly proven the need for. If both parents are capable and fit they should have equal custody rights.
nah lol my dad didnt work because he didnt wanna pay child support. lived off his gf for years and never got a job never went to jail
@@ashleybuster7386 well really its a situational thing not everyone is fit to raise a child and some people dont want rights and pay fully. because its so different on the case by case bases their cant be a set standard.
@@owenmckoy1202 your mother did not put him in jail, if she did there would be no chance of them getting back together, people are fools. I have an ex and I know we won't be getting back together but I have fun poking the bear. lol
In this type of situation, watching the man coming out the courtroom being the victor is a real breath of fresh air... I could see the tiny dim light of hope slowly approaching
Paying $1000 a month is a victory?!?! Ouch!!!
the person paying child support should have the right to see how that money is being spent ON ..... THE ..... CHILD.
Free food and free rent the dad is paying the insurance for the kid I don't know what you need to buy so bad but I think the kids needs are met without paying you a dime
@@Bigotsandwich1995 women have a tendency to replace the word 'want' with 'need' very easily.
and modify it make it less if the child is getting to much
@Mexicanus Prime i agree and with this cost for health issuance should be split 50-50 between the parents for the child no money should be going to the mother or what she wants
In Theory I agree but the reality is (though not in the fake case presented as she lived with family) is for most single parents man or woman receiving child support its very easy to justify it going towards rent alone. Dude was paying 600 a month. Im guessing they would be in Houston or DFW area if this case was real. 600 is approximately half the rent expected on an apartment with the child having their own bedroom. She upped his support to just over 1000. That kid almost certainly eats more than 200 a month in food and 200 in incidentals like hygiene products and growing out of clothing etc. What you want is an itemized receipt. News flash. you do that then someone in the government has to audit it. Guess what that means? Your support is going to go up for overhead costs or our taxes are. Are there deadbeat moms who go get free clothes at the church and salvation army cheese etc so they can spend that support check on themselves? Yep. Its not going to be most of them for the same reason most people follow other social norms. So what you want is to raise my taxes because you stuck your dipstick in crazy? No thanks.
All Soldiers in the military need you as a child support judge. From what I've seen with 23 years in the service, the single father usually gets raked over the coals.
I got screwed and I was in the military when it happened.
Always
If your in the military buy a Fleshlight. They're like 100 for a good one and it prevents you from STDs
Damn all those dependas lookin for a fresh private in the strip club down post.
There's two things that are wrong here! One is that child support is not a game as this judge constantly portrays in these videos it actually affects children and is the cause of many suicides and broken homes! Two child support is fundamentally and morally wrong in most case anyway because it is not based on actual necessity its just based on who makes more money which is not justice! These type of video do nothing to educate people its just gives low charactered people like the women in the video more vigor and confidence to continue being vindictive and spiteful!
“He’s making more money and I want it” is all I heard
literally she’s tryna get every penny off him he doesn’t need to give her every single dollar he makes
She straight up just said “I can get a job but I’m not going to..” While he has to bust his ass working everyday while being a dad when he has the child and still has to pay that cow who is open about not wanting to work at all. Something HAS to be done about these child support laws.
She came there with every intention to make this man look bad! Her best interest was not of the child. It’s primarily about her getting her money! This is sad!
But instead made him look good. It showed him having more money.
And also having way more sex. The way the judge sipped the cup when she mentioned it 😁.
Men are so mistreated in the court system its crazy... fathers are second class parents
agree, and the judge prepetuates this lazy woman's values
and that's what she got 400 extra for a bum that sit's around collecting money from the dad that should have the child in the first place. when she said she doesn't work nor did she want to the judge should have put in a order for the dad to get the child. let a dad do that and see how fast the child get's rip from the dad lol.
Shining example why I refuse to date a single mother.
You the type to impregnate a woman and leave her helpless.
@@tsumi_the_hapa4009 actually, all I ever wanted was a family. Just wasn’t in the cards for me.
@@tsumi_the_hapa4009 simp
@@matthewhummel1572 I got called less of a man the other day for not wanting to date a single mom at 23 years old. People that shame me for that are fucking delusional.
@@Kiriali the truth is sad not always the happiest crap ever welcome to the real world 👍
I like this judge, she seems fair and rational.
Fair?? How his child support increased because h is making more money. Why would he seek to further increase his income if he is going to get punished for it because let’s be honest she not using that child support for the kid she using it for herself that’s obvious but the court don’t care. The mom is lazy good for nothing and don’t want a job to take care of the kid so why do she have custody? Really think about it if he were to make himself a millionaire he would be paying thousands in child support and I bet you gunna see the ex wife driving a Mercedes.
@@Prec1sion-Aim not the judges fault, blame politicians for making these laws or not changing existing laws that are clearly outdated.
@@davidtrojanowski1861 I agree with you and disagree because that same judge saw and literally heard from the ex wife mouth that she don’t want to get a job even if it’s for her kid. She is using her kid to get free money basically from the father. She showed what her plan was and it was scummy if the judge was really fair she wouldn’t have increased the child support and or just gave the father custody of the child he seem like a way better parent. In my opinion that would be rational and fair to both the kid and husband. Imagine that kid growing up with that mother and seeing her use him to get more and more money from the father.
@@Prec1sion-Aim I understand your point and agree with your stance. The problem is a judge cannot choose which laws to follow or ignore, especially laws that are clear cut like child support. Even if this judge denied an increase in child support, the woman would appeal to another judge and her request would be granted. These laws need to be changed.
@@davidtrojanowski1861 Ahhhh I see what you mean now that makes a lot of sense. Then yes the laws do need to be changed then.
Ms. Vonda "IS" the best. She's so fair and knows exactly when someone is trying to take advantage of the other person. Love ya' Ms. Vonda!
How was she fair?
The father is paying CHILD SUPPORT AND INSURANCE. Meanwhile the mom pays absolutely NOTHING!!
NAHHHHH THE DYING VIBRATOR AS AN EXAMPLE IS WIIIIILLLLDDDD🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what did that have to do with ANYTHING????🤣
I laughed my ass off. I literally was thinking irrelevant! Wtf does that have to do with anything? 😂😂😂
The judges face and reaction to that tho😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She likes sex wit hhim but because they are separated and he is fucking other women on screen, she is jealous? Thats all I got
She was trying to belittle the man to the judge by showing that the guy sucks in bed.... And the only correct response to that insult would have been "well maybe you should get yourself a mirror and you would see why the battery ran out before the climax"
The way the judge sipped her coffee when the lady was talking about the man making porn was priceless, I don't see how nobody bursted out laughing
If she double handed sips that cup, you know she gonna RIP them apart
She always be sipping that coffee like it's tea 🤣
I thought she was doing to keep from laughing. 😆
The girl behind the blonde looked towards him with her eyebrows raised 😂 Like she’s gonna go find his videos
I did! I was ohhhh some tea, spill it sister!
This is very irritating.. women who can physically work and refuse to work still get child support increased.. the system is broken and shame on this so called mother who takes advantage of her mother and her kids father and doesn't have her own place.
Yes, If I had the chance I would make the child support upper limit to still be a percentage of the dads income, but to also be based on the moms income. Say up to 50% of the moms income, not to exceed 30% of the dads kind of thing(numbers are just an example). Then, mothers would have to work to receive support and if they don't, they should risk losing custody.
@@mithicash1444 That is honeslty a great idea. I mean 30% is kind of big amount still ( depending on place but here you get 3k per month and renting a flat (even 20 m square ) is taking about half of that up to two thirds. So I guess it should be just additional tax that get's taken out of ammounts you actually can save. Or simply do Salomon judgement. If both of them can't take care of kid then country will in orphanage. I guess that would cool some people a bit when it's not you that's gonna be getting cash.
At the end the lady tried to insult the man's performance, yet it's clear he's performing just fine with *thousands* of people... except her. Guess she just doesn't have what it takes to recharge the batteries.
I'm so confused
Docking station wasent good enough for the battery 🤣
They're actors dude
I think she was trying to compare that to finding out she wasn’t getting more money.
Luckily for me I have rechargeable ones 🤣
He really needs a lawyer for this because it doesn't matter if his income has gone up she admitted while in court that she's misappropriating the child support funds for her own use as none of them are used to pay for the child combine that with her willful unemployment and she should absolutely not get a penny
"I have literally no expenses, why would I work?" "Well he makes more so I need more"
And if she has no expenses, why would she need more money? I would have given her ZERO increase, in fact I might have decreased it until she came back to court and proved that she had worked at least six months in some full time job.
Isn't the point of child support to help pay expenses for the child? Like why is dad paying for all of his son's and his ex wife's expenses? This is wild. The mom's mom should kick her ass out until she gets a job.
@@maryannanderson2213 what the 'mom' in this case didn't grasp, is that the 'child' support is for the 'child'. Not for the mom.. especially when the mom has no expenses of her own. Her ex isn't required to continue to support her (the mom) after the divorce. She needs to grow up.
This woman is a nightmare! She gives honest, hardworking moms a bad name.. she’s awful!
Lmao....its called acting....
@@lindajackson8876 lots of women really are like this though. In real life. And in this day and age, they are considered to be.... "empowering" 🤢🤮
@@MikePurdue-ky9pm nah, some may pretend call themselves empowering, buy rest assured the rest of us knows it's not the case. It's time to call them out on it, so it get shamed away. There's a good reason to use shame. I remember having disagreement with a very good friend on that subject. I was frustrated that everyone thought she was exaggerating, but no one said it out loud, preferring to say, yes he's an ass. He wasn't she still doesn't realize it, but she did accept that her need for higher amount was her unwillingness to do the annoying job we all have to do. She worked but as a freelance and not sufficiently sustainable for the life style she wanted.
@@MikePurdue-ky9pmand they get away with it
"lets say... you have a battery.operated.vibrator- you know what we're done here?" SO ICONIC
Lol, I would have liked to hear where she was going with that XD
I actually really wanted the hear what was going to be a truly bonkers analogy.
@@alexpeters3328 she said image you where about to climax and the batteries die …. That’s him
Bro that shit was WILD
I died laughing at that😂😂😂
bruh, the way she took a sip. 😭😭 Im ☠️ 1:47
Just sad af she want that man to take care of her not the child she don’t want no money if she don’t wanna work and your bills free already she want everything free in life 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
18 years of age comes
IKR! GO GET A JOB
You people realize these are ALL actors, right? There’s a disclaimer. These are ALL fake 😂
@@amyyoung2455 these arent fake
If she has no rent, the child has no rent
If she gets free food, the child has free food
What is she gonna spend the money on, herself???? Wtf
If y’all not together, get a damn job and stop being lazy, your teaching your child wrong habits
Mom- “Let’s say.. you have a battery operated…. Vibrator… “
Judge 👩⚖️ : you’re done. ☝🏼You’re done. ☝🏼
Ik like wtf?? 😂😂😂😂
This took me out 🤣🤣🤣
Right I was like What does this have to do with anything. 😂😂😂😂
This lady really said that in a courtroom
A court of law, regarding a child support case, she asked the judge to imagine a vibrator
Your about to climax then the battery runs out
WELL RACHARGE THE BATTERY Maybe your boring
I love this judge. Smart, beautiful, fair, legit. Much respect
Yes she is very beautiful,I wonder if she is single.....
@@riversdarrell2000Calm down bud 😂
Nah she ain’t
If she was actually fair she would base his child support on actual cost instead of percentage of his salary.
@@ApethGrader that's not the laws on the books. She has to still follow the law, even if she doesn't always agree with it. SCOTUS or the Circuit would have to get involved for that to change.
1000's of DVDs? My man working hard! 😂
The analogy with the battery-powered vibrater is all i needed to hear💀
This is straight sad that she is allowed to basically sit around all day and able to work but chooses not to get a job while still collecting child support.
The primary caretaker receives child support from the other parent. If a man had the children, the woman would be required to pay!
@@lolahdjames1032yeah, but men rarely receive custody of their child.
Well, first of all, this is scripted and these are actors. But let's assume this case is real:
First of all, even though she is being portrayed as incompetent and arrogant, being a full time parent is not an "I do nothing" job. A stay home mom is celebrated when she's married. Why is she not when she's divorced? Most women do wanna have a career and a baby and people always assume they can't/shouldn't or even accuse them that they will be bad/ neglectful mothers. And that's when they actually do have a partner to share the house chores and parenting. But when they're completely on their own, with full custody, then the world expects them to pursue a career, cause otherwise they're taking advantage of men? I don't get it.
Also, when a parent, regardless of gender, is making more money, they would want to spend more on their child as well, exactly because they can afford it. Why is it that divorce parents view child support as "giving my ex a salary" and try to avoid paying it? These are money they should be gladly spending for their child.
Besides (again this is scripted, but for the sake of the argument), he couldn't have his career and shoot those thousands of porn videos, while being a real full time father to his own child. Thus his ex being a stay home mom and having full custody is actually helping him to make more money.
Personally I believe both men and women should be independent financially and pursuing careers but, still, they should get child support if they have full custody. Child support exists for the children, not for the adults. Whoever gets full custody should always get it.
@@gk9546This is not scripted
@@gk9546the problem is that she probably isn't even spending it on the child. She doesn't need to, her mommy is doing everything financially for him and her. That's why she was mad it was so low. Being a single mom is awesome if you have a s/o that makes enough so you don't have to and can be with your child. She's choosing to not do anything and is grossed out by the word job ffs. I guess because her mommy is paying for everything, that's okay. She should be showing her son what adults should be doing
Something seriously needs to be done about these child support laws. It's just insane how a person can come into a courtroom and right in front of a judge and the world to see and say I'm not doing anything and he's/she's going to pay for it. That should be unacceptable.
You shouldn’t have to pay the mom to take care of a kid. If the mom wants to leave she should have the money to pay for it
Dude should have been / should be granted custody of his child and she should start providing for him and paying child support....
If child support is absolutely necessary, I think it should be enough for half for the care child, if the mother can work and chooses not to. But I understand if the mother CAN'T work and she needs help with the child then I'm all for a higher child support, so long as she can care for her child.
@@bizzybee_animations they don’t need child support at all.
@@farewelljupiter I mean it's both parents' responsibility to provide for the child they created so yes they do. I just think the parent providing child support should only give enough to help the child, not the parent with custody.
After all, sometimes custody isn't super easy. Saying no one should pay child support is pretty deadbeat material if I gotta be honest.
Does anyone know if the dad’s movies are available anywhere? Asking for a friend.
Have a friend that would also like to know
"nothing"
"and youre proud of that?"
GIVE THIS WOMAN ALL THE LIKES AND SUBS SHE DESERVES DAUM
It caught my attention when she refer to her son as “the kid” as if he wasn’t hers, it seems distant, cold. You can tell she’s a bad example for that kid.
"The kid" is her career choice
first red flag was her trippin off him making porn videos, i highly doubt she didnt know that but thought she would change him by having a kid to him (seen this many times with swinger women when i was i used to be friends with benefits with a swinger wife)
second one was her being proud of not working
then third shes only doing this because he wont quit being a porn star that she fully knew what he was and shes jaded
fourth she referred $600 as "nothing"...shes a horrible mom
im glad the judge didnt let that slide
Men: don’t get married! This is extortion against men!
Amen to that Bosnian guy!!!!!
This is child support though. So you'd still be on the hook regardless.
She gone come up missing im not paying shit
I tell all women I date long term that if you're expecting marriage than you'd best abadon ship now cause that'll never happen. I don't care if I have 2 dollars to my name, that's my fucking 2 dollars!
Don't get legally married.
Have a ceremony and thats it.
Nah she shoulda got contempt of court with that vibrator analogy 😂
Parents that separate and dont have an income/job should NEVER get custody.
@@insertname9581 obviously there are circumstances but that lazy woman is contributing nothing to the upbringing of that child. Financial responsibility works both ways.
Nope thats not good for the child at all and wouldnt work out for perents at all as well magine a perents working fulltime and now they also have a child fulltime with no one to look after it? they would also lose their job and then no one would ahve custody, you need to leanr to put some thought into your ideas
And the mom probably doesn't even have a brown penny set aside for the child... Foolery
I would like to see a child support option where the money goes into a trust fund for the kid.
@@heedmywarning2792 that's actually a pretty good idea. And if you need to spend it on the kid for an emergency you gotta submit a receipt to ether Social Services of the IRS which ever is more appropriate.
Just imagine how many fathers out there actually faces these type of situations and the system still stick it to him!
He needs to petition for custody and put her on cs. As long as she has the child, he will have to provide his portion of the child's care.
Right here
The judge should have said something like ...
You know this is Child support and not alimony, right? You should not be spending as much as a cent on yourself or your needs using your SONs money.
"..And you are Proud of that?"
*Love this Judge*
My uncle owns a construction business and he earns a pretty nice income a year. My ex aunt divorced him and of course got the custody of my little Couzin who as of right now is 5. He has to pay over 3k a month because it’s a certain percentage of his income. Wtf does a toddler need 3k for.
Some states actually have a cap on total support, meaning that the percentage you pay is only ever going to be out of this amount. I think it is all crap. Situations like this and like mine, are why the system is so backward. She refuses to work, my ex refuses to keep a job and yet always demands more from me.
@@2amoto my ex is the same. Lived with her BF and my father (yeah I know). She doesn’t work nor drove. I’ll hit the cap in my state soon.
This drives me to go get mine reduced, but it’s hard to punish her without punishing the kids.
@@nathanhedglin931 exactly. Every way you turn the children end up suffering because of a greedy "parent".
@@nathanhedglin931 I'm sorry what was that. Can you repeat that one more time? YOUR father, let YOUR ex, live in HIS house with another man?
@MagmaApex321 Your uncle should have his business under an LLC. He should pay himself a reasonable salary (say 50k a year) under that LCC as an employee and pay a lot less. Understand? You may work for a company that makes $10million a year that pays you 50k a year. Child support would be based on your 50k and not on the companies 10 million. Simple
“ you don’t wanna work?”
“No....no🤢” LMAO girl what
Your Honor, I’m addicted to your content… 😂 much better than Netflix….
these types of women call themselves independent but they are actually leeches. Proud of the judge.
"Please hear me out on one thing." My mind was not ready for the brilliant analogy that followed. My faith in humanity was plummeting at that very moment.
lmao
i had to go back and hear it again hahah
It astounds me how the mother just demands handouts while point blank refusing to work or get a job.
I would love to see a follow up when the child support stops!
fr what a crumb ass human being to straight say it loud and proud i don’t work or pay for anything at all but i just want him to give me more money so i can continue to sit on my ass all day and get free money while i freeload off my mother
You are incredible Judge!!! I am Brazilian and I’m using your perfect videos to improve my English 😊
If I were the dad I would go to the different court and see about changing custody and than if granted come back to yours for her to pay child support
That's actually a great idea!
Bri W that’s another solution because they’d both have to pay child support to the mom. Problem is dad has more chance than granny to get the kids
@@briw8562 ,let me guess if it was a woman it would be OK right? I don't have a problem with people doing what the need to pay the bills and food on the table and roof over their head as long as their children don't exposed to it. In the 80's and 90's strippers would take their kids into the clubs to be watched by the other strippers so please save me the high and mighty talk.
Why would you go to a different court, I would try to go the the same court and judge if possible, the judge already saw straight through her bs.
@@mithicash1444 I think custody isn’t in this court. Your right though if he can go to the same court
You have a responsible dad, with a high income job, yet the child goes off to the extremely lazy, unemployed mom, that is living like an overgrown child.
This is a SNL sketch, right? "Cos the end of this thing after de judge has laid down her decision is comedy gold.
Has SNL ever been "comedy gold"?
Close, it is scripted and they are actors
@@RealMcLovin Once upon a time SNL was good before they became too worried about only offending the right people.
Its an educational skit
Edit an auto corrected to and
@@xtrlsidma Yeah, I had that figured. The timing's a little too sharp and on the money to be for real, but I am not one to turn my nose up at a half-way decent script.
Of this young child. She should be ashamed putting her former father in law through all of this. He has earned his free time. Honorable man.
I couldn't be a judge. The moment she said "I could get a job, but I won't" I would have signed paper work to get her custody stripped away. A person like that is undeserving of the love of a child.
But what about the POOR POOR WOMAN
Not how that works but I guess that's more testament how that's why you couldn't be a judge lol
The dad can't have custody of the kid because he is busy doing his stuff. Kids can't grow in such environment. Lol
I would’ve hit her with everything in my hand 😂😂
That was not the responsibility of the judge, this was support court. Also the child was not neglected or abused!
This guys a legend 😂😂 “I mean there are thousands of them not hundreds but thousands” buddy was fuckin the whole city 😂😂😂😂
Lol this is so fked up
He couldn't be - he has dead batteries ;)
And don't you love how HER EX-HUSBAND was cheating on her in HER/THEIR bed?
When that D was finalized, there was no cheating and it wasn't HER?THEIR bed...Let it go...LOL
you know he has more than 1 kid
legendary
Probably was a fokin lie
Did anyone else come here from the TikTok ?🤣
Yup
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Me lol
The way Judge D. sips her tea when this lady spills hers got me 😂
The way the judge start sipping her coffee when she started to explain her story was priceless! 🤣 😂 🤣
When she start sipping on her coffee that means it means something like i careless 😂😂😂
She knew her ass was lying 😂😂
She was handling that cup, like there was nothing in? Mhmm
What a sad situation!!! I feel so sorry for the dad and the child who have to deal with this toxic woman.
She's a real piece of work she should lose custody
1,000$ a month?! Why is she complaning? That's pretty good for just 1 kid to take care of, she should be thanking the dad
For an 11 year old boy that’s not to good he a boy going through puberty so they eat A LOT, he’s probably in a sport, there growing A Lot that means new clothes new shoes. They find interest in new activities (which is a good thing) art,tech,music,cooking all those things cost money. Now considering the mother lives with her mom this is fair she doesn’t have to pay for rent or food as said in the video that’s fair but for the average mother with a growing boy no.
@@gracehamilton7510 if that isnt enough, the mother should get a job so her child has more $$
@@jondoe406 please read my full comment before replying
That’s definitely enough for the child and then some idk what that lady was talkin bout
@@gracehamilton7510 excuses is all I see. A man is yalls fucking bank account. These laws need to change. 1000 dollars a month is more than fair for an 11 years old CHILD. Hell eat more sure but that's still enough money for that. You just love the idea of men giving money to a women against his will
She's literally a grown-ass woman who is not only leaching off of her husband and her mom but ignoring the one responsibility she has as a single mother - TAKING CARE OF HER GODDAMN CHILD. At this point, the custody should go to the dad. Poor guy.
What is she going to do when the child turns 18🤔
Well I know of a woman who had three kids and their father died and she lived off of their money they got from their father who worked for along time his security went to those kids and their mother never worked she used their money to live off right up till her last 3rd child graduated from high school just last year and dang woman never took care of herself health wise and she got too sick has heart problems and diabetic and she went on ssi.and here's the kicker the dumb woman won't try to improve her health its terrible that she is abusing alot ok f stuff..
She's probably hoping that she would have another child by then.
K Hubbard Tell the child to go to work and look after her financially
@@gwendolinelindsay4647 even though I hope that she doesn't do that, that's probably what she'll do.
@@raheempeters6813 your probably right! I hope not but its plausible...if only people would just grow up...
“Let’s say, that you have a battery-operated vibrator…”
“You know what? We’re done right there.”
That was hilarious.
I don't understand where she was going with that lol
No doubt. That was an actual legitimate *cringe*. 😂
🤣🤣🤣
She is mentally unstable, probably just wanted to embarrass him
@@487racksthis ain’t even court
Just goes to show that she does not have the best interests for the child at heart. That kid is a paycheck.
As much as I am amazed and loves the entire video... Let me point out... Where are these videos? Please... Send me the link... Lol... I'd buy his video lol
Yup only to piss off the ex
"Let's say, you have a battery operated vibrator."
lolololol
"You're about to climax...the batteries go out.."
This was hilarious...
I audibly asked in an empty house wtf was wrong with this woman
@@yourfriendlyneighborhoodla2091 SAME
Soooo she is saying he is bad in bed..... but also saying he is so good in bed, he is making bank off the 1000's of porn shoots he is doing in the house with 100's of women.
She actually thought that attacking his sexual prowess would somehow help her in this case, after she already called him a prolific porn star.
That's how the judge treated this
This is the case that I've went through. I have two child and the mother decided to split because all she wanted to do was party. So I got stuck with the two kids (full time) she took me to court for child support. It cost me almost $30,000.00. I had to take the money I put aside for the kids trust fund. Something that I started when they were babies. Anyways, through all the expenses and the hardship this woman put me through, I still won custody of my two kids but the court did not make her pay child support due to the fact that 1. I made more money than her and 2. the court felt more sorry for her through her lies. She lived with her mother, she somehow found money to party all the time. Plastered all the crap she put on social media bragging about how she don;t have to pay child support and able to party. I just laughed and said to myself; that's OK. I have the two kids and I won. Right now, I am happily married. The kids has an awesome step mother who is more of a mother to my two kids. So to the people out there who thinks that woman are all that, guess what. There are men out there who are like me and can handle to take care of our own child. Yes it's a huge challenge and responsibility but it's all worth it.
When a friend of mine got custody of his son he was told that if he filed for child support he’d lose custody
I am a single mom who’s child has an actual dead beat father. My son is 20 and hasn’t seen or heard from his dad in 18 years. I’m also a welder and I see men get screwed over all the time, although I do think it has changed a little in the last 10 years, though not enough. I never bothered going after my ex for money because screw him, I’ll do it on my own. My son did ask me one day why I chose that and when I said I was able to do it on my own he said well you’re letting him get away with it too. I’d never thought of that. The only thing I would say to you, as it sounds like you did the right thing, is maybe don’t word it that you got stuck with your kids. Just doesn’t come off great and I’m sure that’s not how you actually feel about having custody of them. But I do see and recognize how many fathers do the right thing even while dealing with selfish, greedy, vengeful women who use their children as pawns (that seems to me to be something only moms do for the vast majority). Good on you for being one of the good guys.
@@sjosleyn08 that's outrageous!
My complete respect bro. You should be proud of yourself. Kudosssss
If the kids were in YOUR custody there is no way she could take you to court to get child support. And they still would have taken her to court to get some support out of her for the children no matter how much money you make. It might not be a lot but it would be done cause you had custody. Is there more to your story cause it doesn't make sense.
"I CAN, but I'm not going to." This line got me. I wanted throw a brick at her. And look how she just interrupts the judge!
“Let’s just say you have a battery operated vibrator……” bro what?! 😂
Man I found this channel today after seeing it on TikTok. I have been binging the entire day 😂
Welcome!!!😊
This is not real lol
Tha'ts exactly how i found this channel. Last week on tic tok.
I literally just came from TikTok and typed in Support Cour
Me too❤
"He's cheating on me" "on our bed"- did she not just tell everyone that they were separated for a long time? And that they briefly tried to get back together and it failed?
Fucking ludicrous
She’s crazy in the head.
I’d bet money that she cheated on him while they were married
Yup
@@hsharma3933 Facts on facts
Thousands of dvds? Surprised there's enough space for a bed
It's time to sue child support
Time to sue the child support agency, the judge, clerk of courts, and if need be the local sheriff's office. Child support is unconstitutional under federal law and the U.S. Constitution. 45CFR 654 (3) 42CFR 666 gives you an idea of how child support is illegal.
You can do that you know
They need to change the laws. Right now they favor mom.
It’s time to stop allowing people to procreate mindlessly. there must be a license to marriage and have children.
@@vkrgfan Would you like to know more! (Starship troopers)
Batteries go out, that's him!lmao 🤣
Apparently not if he got 1000’s of porn scenes 😂 you picked a bad analogy ma’am!