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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025

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  • @SAD-ij8in
    @SAD-ij8in Год назад +19

    This is so well said. I have been thinking on this a lot lately. I am a convert, raised Wesleyan in a very prosperity gospel congregation. I didn't have a lot of boundaries as a child in that my parents spoiled us and didn't give us a lot of outright rules but there were 2 overarching manipulative behavior controls in play. 1) if we were really saved, we'd just naturally want to do good. 2) we were only supposed to feel good feelings because bad feelings, even at funerals, were a sign that you didn't really have a personal relationship with God. This had a really devastating effect on me because bad feelings are normal. God created our bodies to communicate with us. Bad feelings let us know when we're not safe, when we need rest, when we need to eat, when we need to distance ourselves from unhealthy relationships and when we need to seek consolation from God or healthy relationships. I've just read the book boundaries and realized that a lot of the ensuing depression I endured in my teens and 20s had to do with never learning virtue as you put it, experience with self control, feeling the feelings and moving through them with proper self control. I converted to the Catholic church at 29 and am now 48. I have spent so many of my years in what I call Catholic ICU, just letting the Church nourish me and help me heal. Now I am seeing so much of why it has been so healing. I am so grateful for this explanation and how it connects to my experience.

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  Год назад +3

      Thanks for sharing your personal experience. I appreciate it. 🙏

    • @cathydecarles7084
      @cathydecarles7084 Год назад +1

      Ken and Janell I love watching you guys and Your beautiful family 🙏🏻✝️☮️📿🙏🏻✝️☮️📿

  • @lindawilson7908
    @lindawilson7908 Год назад +5

    Even as a mother of grown children, I find this topic fascinating! I wish I'd understood this when I was raising my family! Thank you so much for the information. I hope this message reaches a lot of young parents!

  • @richardkasper5822
    @richardkasper5822 Год назад +4

    Common sense is hard to find these days. I will pray for Ken's message to be heard far and wide.

  • @TheLonertellsstory
    @TheLonertellsstory Год назад +5

    Love your content ❤❤❤ keep making content related to psychology like this, it is also very important to build virtuous catholic family

  • @patodwyer721
    @patodwyer721 Год назад +1

    Nice one Ken, I agree with you 100%
    Children need to be let be Children
    Unfortunately some people are not fit to be parents
    Anybody can have a child but not everyone is everyone is capable of being a parent

  • @albertvasquez-d3s
    @albertvasquez-d3s Год назад +2

    God bless you peace be with you and your children, I pray for you. My brother pray for me, my wife, Maria, my daughter, destiny, what you're saying is so true if you live here in United States or in California, it's totally upside down and what you're saying is so true. Good thing you live in a good place in Canada that didn't live here in California were so many bad freedom and judgments for people peace be with you. I pray for you. Pray for me, my family God bless you.❤

  • @kristielagasse1447
    @kristielagasse1447 Год назад +3

    So much truth.

  • @dducas188
    @dducas188 Год назад +3

    Thank you, God bless you 🙏❤

  • @mazikode
    @mazikode Год назад +1

    Thank you Ken..this is most profound especially now. Thank you for sharing this book also. What a cute baby..he is so beautiful. His picture made this message all the more touching.

  • @uteme
    @uteme Год назад +4

    + Listening to you right now, St. Joseph is smiling. +

  • @elizabethjackson2928
    @elizabethjackson2928 Год назад +1

    Thank you Ken! Great message! Makes us stop and think. God bless you for never shying away from topics that are sometimes difficult to address. You do a great job!! 👏 I love your videos and have learned so much over the years. God bless you! 🙏

  • @fantasticfamily5004
    @fantasticfamily5004 Год назад +2

    So very true!
    Blessings 📿

  • @DarleneAuthement-kc6re
    @DarleneAuthement-kc6re Год назад +1

    Glory to God 🙌🩸 So thankful God called you to create this video!

  • @marysutton5711
    @marysutton5711 Год назад +1

    Very well said. Such a great teaching. ❤

  • @nickyionta
    @nickyionta Год назад +1

    Thank you Ken!

  • @alcidebouchard5315
    @alcidebouchard5315 Год назад

    I really appreciate your teaching; that you don't omit things that will offend some, especially in this time of great confusion. I am concerned though, about something you shared, that there are coyotes on your new property. I'm not sure if you're a hunter, but you somehow need to make sure that they know that your property is not a safe place for them (do some research if needed). To your children, those are wolves. They are hunters, and even to an adult, as a pack, they can be dangerous.

  • @letsy4001
    @letsy4001 Год назад

    Super helpful, thanks Ken!
    I cannot find the link after the video for the tips. Could someone please share it with me?

  • @fram1111
    @fram1111 Год назад

    We don't have much property, well I think would be awesome to have hey small chapel on your property, yours might need to be a little larger, I think it would be awesome do I have a place for God and for prayer.
    Just an idea, perhaps you could even have adoration.
    I've been praying for your family I'm glad to see you starting to pay off!

  • @katrina_atienza
    @katrina_atienza Год назад +3

    💗💗💗

  • @helenebernardin668
    @helenebernardin668 Год назад +1

    When you say click the link at the end of the video, are you referring to the referring to the list of Related Videos? If not, then I don’t know where to find it.

    • @Catholicspeaker
      @Catholicspeaker  Год назад

      In the last 12 seconds of the the video, a video end screen appears. Click on it to see the video I was referring to.

    • @helenebernardin668
      @helenebernardin668 Год назад

      Unfortunately, nothing shows up on my iPad. Thanks anyway.

  • @josefinaalvarez766
    @josefinaalvarez766 Год назад

    Does this video have subtitles in Spanish? or dubbed into Spanish? I want to share it with people who speak Spanish and don't speak English.

  • @dawnmireles2912
    @dawnmireles2912 Год назад

    November 8, 2023

  • @smithathoppil9378
    @smithathoppil9378 Год назад

    🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @alan-muscat
    @alan-muscat Год назад +2

    That thumbnail picture of the child looks like AI art. It's on the edge of looking scary.

  • @JenniferHampton-e9o
    @JenniferHampton-e9o 6 месяцев назад

    Technology wont hurt the kids if the screensaver is of the sacred heart 🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @annie5441
    @annie5441 Год назад

    MOST OF THE WORLD NEVER GETS IT RIGHT:
    BOTH THE BLIND AND THE LEADERS OF THE BLIND WILL FALL INTO THE DITCH OF HELL (MATTHEW 15:14). EVEN IN TIMES OF OLD, PEOPLE WERE AGAINST JESUS, ALTHOUGH HE WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO COULD TELL US ABOUT THE FATHER. INSTEAD, THEY THOUGHT HE WAS CLAIMING TO BE GOD AND NEVER SAW THE TRUTH. HISTORY ALWAYS REPEATS ITSELF, ONLY THIS TIME MOST OF THE WORLD THINKS JESUS IS GOD. MOST CAN'T SEEM TO GRASP THE TRUTH, EVEN THOUGH IT'S STARING THEM STRAIGHT IN THEIR FACE. EVERYTHING JESUS SAID IS VERY CLEAR FOR THOSE WHO HAVE THE HOLY SPIRIT OF GOD. HERE ARE A FEW OF MANY VERSES JESUS SAID ABOUT THE FATHER: JOHN 14:28, JOHN 17:3, JOHN 5:26, JOHN 12:48-50, JOHN 8:54, JOHN 7:16-18, AND SO ON. THOSE WHO TRY TO CHANGE THESE WORDS ARE NOT OF GOD (MATTHEW 24:35).

  • @johncats805
    @johncats805 Год назад

    Teach your children all about Jesus from the Gospels not wasting time teaching on kissing rings of Popes and Archbishops or going to mass or Mary devotion which all helped destroy all my 30 family members ability to find saving faith in Jesus Christ, they all now on the devil's new age yoga team. Just me and my 3 little children now following the actual teaching of Jesus of the Gospel, as born again Christians we are grateful for the aid of the Holy Spirit from God. Come out of Roman Catholicism, it's past it's sell by day and won't get you through the gates of The Kingdom of God, just follow Jesus in the Gospel and forget about priests in glorious flowing robes...