The BEST Parenting Advice Ever from Scott Hahn
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
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Dr. Hahn talks about the practice of a Day of Jubilee and how Parenting like a Priest in the Confessional helped save his family over and over.
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Preparing for fatherhood, and I can't wait to be able to offer this mercy and love to my son.
May God bless you and your family.
Same here! April 2nd can't come fast enough, I can't wait to hold the fruit of my marriage
First thing you should do is not find out the gender of your growing family, trust me the feeling is unbelievable. Nothing in this world is a surprise, don’t be impatient it’s worth the wait 😄
Hang on tight to that feeling, ‘cause it’s a bumpy ride! 😂 Congrats on your little one.
Bless you
It hit me in prayer that I must be more merciful with my boys as God is merciful with me. I broke down into tears knowing that fatherhood is not only justice and law. But love through mercy. Then this video comes up. It is a phenomenal idea. My wife and I will pick a Jubelee day and pray for our children ahead of time so that the holy spirit helps them prepare for it.
I needed this tonight. God heard my prayer and led me to this video. Thank you, God.
Parenting is about learning to love unconditionally as Jesus does with us ! I've learned it recently when my oldest child did something bad , something so unlike him( something that implied lying to us for almost a year ) . I clearly heard Jesus telling me Love him anyway . That's what I did . I 've prayed a lot the Holy Spirit to guide me and it worked so well . 8 months after our relationship is as trustful as it used to be before . " Be merciful just as your Father is merciful " . 🙏🙏
We have 7 kids all have turned out well but we had trouble with them around 14 I knew that they were becoming adults and becoming independent so I had a serious talk with each one at that time and said you are now responsible for your own decision but always remember there are consequences with what you decide to do and then I let go, and prayed ❤️🙏🏻
I am a mother of 5 boys. I cry almost everyday over my children and how I feel like I am failing at raising them for God's kingdom. I am greatly encouraged to by the points shared in this video. Thank you. I will share this video to my husband and on my FB page
You will do well as long as you will seek to improve. Lord will help you.
Same here, sister. Mother of 3 young ladies
Surrender them to the Lord. Humble yourself to the Lord & ask him to help you be the mother he created you to be. He chose you to be their mother. The Praying Parent by Stormie O. is a great simple prayer book that really helped me. And parenting with Grace just as Jesus parents me. God bless you!
God help us
Your not alone 😢
A careful man I ought to be,
A little fellow follows me.
I dare not go astray,
For fear he'll go the self-same way.
I cannot once escape his eyes,
Whatever he see me do, he tries.
Like me, he says, he's going to be,
The little chap who follows me.
He thinks that I am good and fine,
Believes in every word of mine.
The base in me he must not see,
That little fellow who follows me.
I must remember as I go,
Thru summers' sun and winters' snow.
I am building for the years to be,
This little chap who follows me.
I don't know why I'm crying but, man, this hit hard. Beautiful stuff, guys. Thank you. Being a dad is so hard.
I read you brother.
Preparing for motherhood and I love these teaching.
Thank you♥️I’m going to send this to my non-Catholic husband so we can do this with our son. Please pray for my husband’s conversion 🙏♥️
I love listening to Dr. Hahn, his little bits of wisdom and soothing voice are so calming.
This is excellent advice! Thank you!! Being a father or a mother is truly the most difficult - and the most rewarding - role any human can undertake. You will discover all the virtues you lack and all the virtues you thought you had and, with Our Lord and Our Lady's help, you will grow in virtue like never before! 🌹
This is so very well said. ❤🙏🏿🙏🏿
So true !
@@rf4537 True! Like all difficulties and challenges, if you resist them you make them worse!
I’m sure you get this all the time but thank you Matt for all that your doing. I started watching your work a few years ago and have recently started RCIA! Please keep it up, you are helping so many people!
I'm so blessed to hear this today! Going through something with family. Thank you, thank you!
Thank you so much Matt and Dr Hahn for this wonderful interview. I can't explain how much it has encouraged me and given me hope. God has given me 3 precious jewels for His crown and often I feel like instead of polishing them, I've been dulling their shine but I now greatly encouraged and I know God showed me this video so that when He reveals my own "jubilee" tactic, I can recognise it.
Great conversation ! God has the biggest dysfunctional family . Mankind. So we are not alone in the struggle . The devil waged war against every sacred good , God has. That’s the family. Parenting is tough, not for the slightest coward. There are things you can control and things beyond your grasp but always give your children fully to God and pray for the best.
„We are all wounded healers“❤
"We are all wounded healers" ❤
I am a failure as a mom and My poor kid deserve better, please pray for me and My family, he is a teenager and i feel so lost, i'm scared
No you're not. No child comes into the world bearing a parenting manual and no one knows it all! Please use the Word of God and the teachings of the Church to start over. Peace be with you!
Your family will be in my prayers.
So heart warming to hear that even Scott Hann has felt as a failure in parenting.. #Im not alone 😊
This is absolutely the best parenting advice I've ever heard. Incredible. Thank God.
New father here, thanks you
Very helpful and fun to listen to. Thank you.
Thank you!
I wish I had heard this 25 years ago!
Thank you. This interview came at the right time to give me hope ❤🙏
Beautiful. I’ll implement this with my kids. I already do something similar but this is a great way to do it. Not a Roman Catholic but thanks! 🙏🏼
This is amazing advice. I’m going to implement this.
This is perfect for me this week, my second daughter gets her first Confession this week. This will help.
Thanks❤
Wow! Thank you so much for this. I have no words to express how encouraging this is. We’re not alone in this process of rearing children. My husband and I are going to implement the “Day of Jubilee”. It was a definite conviction from Holy Spirit. Again, wow! Thank you Jesus. You know exactly what we need.
Homemaker here. My boys are 6, going to be 3 in January, and 3 months old… I would love to do this, and with me asking for forgiveness first.
Such beautiful advice! Thank you for these wise words and encouragement in parenthood - one of the hardest yet most beautiful blessings of life!
This is an absolutely beautiful way to bring the Gospel to our children! The law never changed anyone - only grace changes the heart
I am a Pints loving Protestant, that just tried Jubilee with our very sin captured 8 year old. Praise the Lord!! Wow! It was a lot of confession but seems like it may be a blessing. Praying that her heart and will yields to worship our glorious Lord!
❤ mother of three: 1girl and 2boys. I understand and identify with you. Somedays I just tell them: “are you going to start your day and my day like this? Before 7am?” because it is so petty. Patience, prudence and ask God for wisdom.
This is a great parent advising ❤
This was so encouraging
Thanks for this video.
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing your different ways of parenting. We all need to hear more of these to help each other to love and parent our children through different scenarios. The different ideas are So helpful. Coming from a single mom of 15 years trying to raise my children in the church actively. Since COVID they haven't returned to church.🙏🙏Many blessings to you.
Love. It. ❤ Thanks, Matt and Dr. Hahn! You're both amazing souls. Thank you for offering your advice and encouragement.
This is gold. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much for exploring this on your show!
I love the way Dr talks about the Holy Rosary
Thank you so much. I'm 😢😢😢😢😢. God bless you abundantly
Scott is amazing Thank you
This made my week. So glad I came across this video today
Great things, I agree that ability to apologize to children is really a key issue, because it shows that we all make mistakes but we have the courage to face it and admit it greeting from Poland
Thank you Matt for sharing this, especially to myself a father of two (boy & girl) who are both now 5-years old. and biggest thanks also to Dr. Scott Hahn for sharing his wisdom. As usual for years now, I can never resists to hear Dr. Scott's voice and wisdom. Personally, if I were to imagine how St Paul would looks and talks like, I will definitely look at Dr. Scott Hahn as the best representative.😇🙏
This is beautiful, thank you! I’m going to share with my husband.
As catholic parents that are suffering please get together and agree on how you are going to raise them. And listen to each other.
Brilliant and beautiful. I’d never heard of this concept. I think I’m going to try it out.
Thank you so much for this interview and topic
I wish he’d quit interrupting! Let Scott speak.
I love this. Thank you.
Wonderful advice. Thank you and God bless 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
This is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤
I need a tissue. This is so beautiful.
Thank you for this video! ❤
Wow. Just wow. Thank you
It’s amazing how all these examples show how attachment is completely God’s design. How He is with us through our hard feelings/moments and we are asked to be with our children through their hard feelings/moments. Also, how even though parenting/marriage/family can be so unbelievably hard-it continually calls us to be more saint like, humble, reflective and loving.
Well said ❤
Amazing
I absolutely love this! 😭❤️🙏🏽
"We're all wounded healers." - Carl Jung (that line about "rearing" children, hurts my Soul ❣ )
I love this! I think I’ll try to implement this at my home.
I love this so so so much and am eager to be able to implement this as my kiddos grow up
I love it! :) go girl!
Fantastic!
Excellent!
Beautiful
Wow! Great advice! A Day of jubilee. I may have to try that.
I wish I'd known this when raising our son, but I will be passing this on to younger parents.
This is awesome.
I regard your forgetfulness as a beautiful thing. The sins are in the deepest sea as far as east is from west. This is the joy of love and forgiveness for all our family and friends.
Please write a book on parenting tips!
This is beautiful
i can't wait to be a mother. i always wonder how are we gonna be as a parent cause my husband and i want to raise holy kids who fear, revere, and trust our God. i am already 31, please pray for me that God may bless me and be fruitful 🙏✝️🛐
Nice video guys
Confess your sins to one another and you will be healed
Sam Shamoun and Scott Hahn should take a meeting together....would be awesome for both of them.
Great idea!!!
This video it’s amazing! Is it possible to have subtitles in Spanish please? It would be very very helpful, for much more people. Thank you so much!
Wow this was beautiful
What kids need to be good is humility, charity, and compassion, they also need to grow up surrounded by a loving community of people who share a culture..... unfortunately you're not gonna get any of these things in the USA, unless you lock yourself up in some kind of locked down isolated place which is a terrible way to raise kids. My advice: move to rural Europe where strong interconnected communities are still flourishing within western culture, and with great social services and excellent schools, and very little crime compared to the US.
I love this idea, but I'm worried about implementing it some day when I have kids. Are there ever times when a child confesses something, but absolutely needs to still be punished? Or what if it's a situation where the kid needs to remedy the chaos they have caused, but they feel that it would be hard or embarrassing for them to fix it (like if they need to confess to a teacher that they cheated on a test)? Would it be punishment for me to make them fix it?
well I think Scott Hahn's basis is that they are never punished since it is supposed to be an imitation of God the father. Remember the parable with a man who owed a great debt and did not forgive someone who was indebted to him. Maybe, there are other ways not so extreme to remedy it, like doing some act of penance, perhaps restitution can be like giving to charity or smth or in the case you propose, helping fellow students, and making a firm resolution not to do it again. I don't know, I don't advise doing it if there isn't mercy in the absolute sense, at least I wouldn't go to confession, if I thought one day I could commit a sin so heinous that the priest might spill it to the court or whoever.
I also wonder this. Perhaps reparations or penance instead of spanking or removal of privileges
Problem solve with them, and help them discern the best way to repair or an appropriate penance-which is how one should aim to parent every day. Through loving guidance.
If they come forth and repent why would you punish them ? Of course they may have to repair some of the consequences but this is not punishment.
I think it depends on the severity of the deed. For example, if they cheat on a test or steal, they should have to make reparations and face the consequences. If not punishing them. It's teaching them to be accountable for their actions.
Great video but it’d be nice if the other speakers would stop cutting him off.
Loved this video! ❤❤❤
Parenting 101 is there a work book we can purchase thay can guide parents.
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This is where my dad failed with us when me, and my sisters were younger, he such an imbecil.
And after the rest of the family became Catholic, did you then encourage them to go to Confession?
I assume so. Dr. Hahn's youngest sons are priests who have heard his confession!
Love your videos but they are so short.
Shut up and let the man finish his story for crying outloud!
While I can appreciate the sentiment being portrayed here I can't help but get bogged down by how all parenting advice seems to be in dire circumstances: uprooting "deadly weeds", dramatic day of jubilee forgiveness, crawling into a metaphorical cave where your child is so at a loss they can't even talk... and I'll admit that while I'm not the biggest Hahn fan, this is honestly good parenting advice for extremeties. But doesn't anyone have encouragement or advice or anecdotes for/about maintaining the good times? Of course I want my children to come to me with everything and anything they need to discuss, but I don't want them doing it nervously and backing slowly away because normally I would be swatting them. I want them to interact with me in joyful confidence, I just didn't hear anything like that in this discussion. So, good parenting advice in times of darkness and disquiet? Sure. "BEST parenting advice ever"? Not precisely.
I don’t think his 5 and 7 year old kids were in dire circumstances when he first offered this “day of jubilee” . I think this advice applies to the small mistakes and transgressions our children make as well as big ones . I understood him to be saying that he allowed special times where his children could confess their sins to their father and know they wouldn’t have the consequences they probably deserved ( Like time out , losing privileges, etc. ) . Instead, they would experience grace and mercy. He also said he prayed with them- which was beautiful because it didn’t just sweep the sins under the rug. Also, I thought the mention of the child backing away was because he knew he has been very naughty. I don’t think Hahn was saying he intended to hit his child and his kid knew to seek cover .
I appreciated the advice in this video and the spiritual wisdom in it. Conveying unconditional love towards our children .
Also- joy can exists amidst sadness . If anyone sins or does something wrong - they ought to feel bad and sad- even while confessing their sins. However , if they experience the love of their parents - even at their ugliest- it strengthens their confidence and makes it easier for them to believe that God truly loves them. It also makes it easier for kids to get help and guidance from parents - which parents can’t do if they have no idea their kids are engaged in certain behaviors. If our little kids can confess to hiding a toy or lying about taking their siblings’s cookie, they can better confess to trying alcohol at high school party OR using curse words when with their friends. Big and small sins altogether . Parents are the first tangible exposure to God children have.
I thought the parenting advice was really good. I don’t think he intended it to be all encompassing as it regards disciplining children. I think it was relational advice on a spiritual plane that had practical advantages as well .
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If you’re swatting your kids all the time you’re going to set them up for not wanting to come to you. Personal experience it made me angry and resent my parents. Corporal punishment doesn’t do what you want it to do. I have 7 kids and I don’t have to spank them. I have very open and honest conversations and try to see myself as a child in my kids and how I was as a child or my thought processes.
I think the point is that by making them feel safe and unafraid to come to you, will get you through the tough times. And because they know they are able to bring things to you knowing they will be guided and not punished but rather held accountable, the events you describe as " dire" will lessen as they mature and develop discernment.
Good idea on uprooting "deadly weeds". Unfortunately the synod did not provide abuse survivors with sufficient support and the church has failed in its attempt to uproot its own weeds
With Jesus every day is a day of Jubilee. Every day. Not once a year. That was the king of the cross. That’s why you don’t need to go to a priest for confession either. Everyone who follows Jesus Christ as a priest and a king. You can go boldly before the throne of grace and ask for mercy in time of need, so go straight to The Mercy Seat.
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Beautiful
Amazing!
This one was a great piece of advice for me. Very inspiring. Thank you Matt, thank you Dr. Hahn.