Lived 23 years of my life with a narcissist partner...these people will make you feel guilty...keep you powerless...they have a very decent image outside the home...while a very different person inside...I always doubts that if I'm wrong....you always give them all importance but in return they will take you for granted...your likes and dislikes doesn't matter in every aspect of life...I'm living separately for upto 4 years but life's very difficult to live in Kerala...my major concern now is about my children.. what to do... life's mess
Hi deepa, I understand the pain what you are going through , I’ve been in the same situation since last 27 years of life . Prayers for you & your kids . Fondly from USA ❤️.
I am living with a narcissistic man for the last thirty-seven years. I can not leave him due to the culture and social stigma it creates in the life of my children.
നിങ്ങൾ രക്ഷപെട്ടു എന്ന് കരുതിക്കോ..ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ നമുക്ക് രക്ഷപ്പെടാൻ പറ്റാത്ത വിധത്തിൽ എല്ലാ വിധത്തിലും കുടുക്കിയിടും....സാമ്പത്തികം, സാമൂഹികം, കുട്ടികൾ അങ്ങനെ....കയറില്ലാതെ കെട്ടിയിടും...അന്ത്യശ്വാസം വരെ അനുഭവിക്കേണ്ടിവരും നരകം...37 വർഷമായി ഞാൻ അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു.......
I also trapped in such a relationship for the last 33 years...Every thing Dr told, even in comments, each and everyone shared here are 💯 true in my life.. I lost my life, even my children suffering depression, sad feelings,etc... We were in Mumbai... Isolated... For me prayers are helping me to cope with the situation... One imp thing...... If I haven't gone through such an experience, I would not know such a things are happening...😭😭😭... Still cannot believe... We are going through that... O God help all narcissistic victims and children to lead a healthy living...🙏🙏🙏
Dr, said all are true It helpful me to overcome from my guil victim mindset. Otherwise I will put to unnecessary thinking, divertedgame of a Narcississts
Now i have got all answers what i am searching for last 22 yrs...one of my friend sent ur video mam... Now i am trying to watch all ur classes about Narccistic behaviour.. Very helpful.... Thank u.. May God bless u
Yes women can be narcissist, victim of a narcissist mother.Had most of the symptoms mentioned above As a result, anxiety,fear and depression which lead to inability to stand up for myself. End up in another unhappy family life, due to inability to set limits, continued to be victim with help of mother & nasty sister. I had realised this before but didn’t know it’s narcissism
My sister in law (brother's wife) is an overt/grandiose narcissist. She destroyed my entire family. She turned my brother against me and my husband. He didn't talk to us for 3 years now.She does emotional abuse over phone. My parents became sick because of her emotional abuse and passed away.My brother is the only son and my parents were living with them. She gave them silent treatment .After 28 years I came to know that she is narcissist. By the time my parents were gone.They never heard about the word narcissism. My brother doesn't know how malignant she is and she is isolating him and kids from us.Female narcissists are also there in our society. Few days ago I came across your channel. I was so excited to see a malayalam channel on narcissism. Nobody in my family heard about narcissism. Hope this will help them to know about narcissism. I still regrets, that I couldn't save my parents from this evil lady.
My husband can fool police constables. But mediator police knew about his personality disorder. My husband said to mediator police "she is a psycho." Then sir reacted : we talked with her for a hour. I don't feel as she is a psycho, but with your talk i feel as you are a psycho. 😂😂😂😂😂
Hai Ma'am.. how can we know that a narcissistic person uses the mind games, mind cheating without physical attachment.. Can you please suggest some tricks that we can escape from the emotional intimacy from them.
💯 well said ma'am... It's all I m faced until i know about it.. Very happy to seeing you got more subscribers because it's very painful knowing our partner is a narcissist but now I can save so much energy and emotions..now I feel so free and trying to rebuild myself..I m sure healing is very slow..but I will try my best to being myself... Your vedios are very helpful to manage my life know... Mam please do vedios about codependency in npd victim and how to overcome it..?? And it's relation to child hood..
NPD can be developed through nature and nurture that is by hereditary and development and learning. It is a personality disorder that is developed since childhood and grow to its fullest in the adulthood. If childhood symptoms are treated you may be able to control this disorder.
@@DrSusanKoruthu how we can identify this decease in childhood???? It is due to changes in their brain.. How we can change absent of fear, Mercy...in their brain..
Great research ...perfect words creating no confusion.... Everything you say is 100 percent correct . keep it up mam👍👍....like your presentation very much
Why NPD abuse doesn’t have a legal base in India? Other countries have it . Whats your take on BPD? Recent suicides in kerala is due to BPD’s? Why your community is not doing research in recent incident happened in Kerala?
@@DrSusanKoruthu One advocate told me , it is better not to mention about any kind of mental condition or illness. Then court will think of curing it. That wont be taken as a reason to detach. So without mentioning mental illness, victims can gather proofs for domestic violence.
Yess women also I know someone left her husband when he became sick on ventilator waiting for him to die so that she gets all his money but he survived and threw her out of house Smart😎 person
Absolutely Ma'am ... Extremely painful to live with a Narcissist ... And no one understands the pain other than the victim 😔😔
The saddest part is, there will be no one around us to realise the true character of the narcissist.
Correct anu
Exactly
Very true
Yes ...Narcissists are extremely dangerous 😥
Mam paranjath correct aahnu.. Njanum oru victim aan... Ipo devorce aayi... Veetukar nirbandhichitt polum enik vitt poran kazhyathoru avasthayilernnu... Ennaloo ayalde koode oru samadanavumilla thanum.. At last god sahayich enik avidann poranulla vazhiyoruki... Ippozhan enik manassilayth ingnoke ulla disorders undennum njn ithile victim aanennum... 3year engne ninnuvenn enikaryula... Totally confused aayrnn njan... Nthan nte lifil sambavikunnethennaryathe... Ipo am soo free... I feel just like nte kazhuthil ninn oru kayar ooriyitta pole... Thank god😊
Enteth angane aayirunnu...ethYalum with my mother help i deicded to divorce him
Hiiii
Hi I want to know how got out of this , me too can’t getting out. If u can share ur experience
Dr. പറഞ്ഞത് 100% സത്യം ആണ്... ഐആം എ വിക്റിം
ഞാനും
Me tooo😓
Yes me also
Me too
Lived 23 years of my life with a narcissist partner...these people will make you feel guilty...keep you powerless...they have a very decent image outside the home...while a very different person inside...I always doubts that if I'm wrong....you always give them all importance but in return they will take you for granted...your likes and dislikes doesn't matter in every aspect of life...I'm living separately for upto 4 years but life's very difficult to live in Kerala...my major concern now is about my children.. what to do... life's mess
Hi deepa,
I understand the pain what you are going through , I’ve been in the same situation since last 27 years of life .
Prayers for you & your kids .
Fondly from USA ❤️.
Me too🤝
I am living with a narcissistic man for the last thirty-seven years. I can not leave him due to the culture and social stigma it creates in the life of my children.
നിങ്ങൾ രക്ഷപെട്ടു എന്ന് കരുതിക്കോ..ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ നമുക്ക് രക്ഷപ്പെടാൻ പറ്റാത്ത വിധത്തിൽ എല്ലാ വിധത്തിലും കുടുക്കിയിടും....സാമ്പത്തികം, സാമൂഹികം, കുട്ടികൾ അങ്ങനെ....കയറില്ലാതെ കെട്ടിയിടും...അന്ത്യശ്വാസം വരെ അനുഭവിക്കേണ്ടിവരും നരകം...37 വർഷമായി ഞാൻ അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു.......
I also trapped in such a relationship for the last 33 years...Every thing Dr told, even in comments, each and everyone shared here are 💯 true in my life.. I lost my life, even my children suffering depression, sad feelings,etc... We were in Mumbai... Isolated... For me prayers are helping me to cope with the situation... One imp thing...... If I haven't gone through such an experience, I would not know such a things are happening...😭😭😭... Still cannot believe... We are going through that... O God help all narcissistic victims and children to lead a healthy living...🙏🙏🙏
Dr, said all are true
It helpful me to overcome from my guil victim mindset.
Otherwise I will put to unnecessary thinking, divertedgame of a Narcississts
Now i have got all answers what i am searching for last 22 yrs...one of my friend sent ur video mam... Now i am trying to watch all ur classes about Narccistic behaviour.. Very helpful.... Thank u.. May God bless u
Hi Ramla, Happy to know my videos helped.
ഞാൻ സഹിച്ചത് 14 വർഷങ്ങളാണ്.... ഒടുവിൽ ജീവൻ തന്നെ പോകും എന്ന ഘട്ടം വന്നപ്പോളാണ് കുറച്ചെങ്കിലും പുറത്ത് വരാൻ പറ്റിയത്....
Divorce ayo
I am a victim. It's really hard to survive the gas lighting. Pain is so terrible and OCD along with it makes it worse.
Yes women can be narcissist, victim of a narcissist mother.Had most of the symptoms mentioned above
As a result, anxiety,fear and depression which lead to inability to stand up for myself.
End up in another unhappy family life, due to inability to set limits, continued to be victim with help of mother & nasty sister.
I had realised this before but didn’t know it’s narcissism
I am always confused if I am wrong because my partner always deny my emotions... idk stuck aan
My sister in law (brother's wife) is an overt/grandiose narcissist. She destroyed my entire family. She turned my brother against me and my husband. He didn't talk to us for 3 years now.She does emotional abuse over phone. My parents became sick because of her emotional abuse and passed away.My brother is the only son and my parents were living with them. She gave them silent treatment .After 28 years I came to know that she is narcissist. By the time my parents were gone.They never heard about the word narcissism. My brother doesn't know how malignant she is and she is isolating him and kids from us.Female narcissists are also there in our society. Few days ago I came across your channel. I was so excited to see a malayalam channel on narcissism. Nobody in my family heard about narcissism. Hope this will help them to know about narcissism. I still regrets, that I couldn't save my parents from this evil lady.
That’s so terrible!! Poor parents ☺️
ഈ pullikkariyude videos കണ്ട് ippol എൻ്റെ wife നിങളുടെ ബ്രദറിൻ്റെ wifeine പോലെ ആയ്.
@@funandtipsmixedvideos3370 Nobody can become a narcissist by watching videos.
👍 well correct. Thank you . God bless you 🙏
100 percentage correct mam
Painful life long
A narccisst can fool everbody including advocate, police but don't partner who knew about their personality disorder
True.indeed.never accept.in their eye theyr mr. Or mrd. Right.
My husband can fool police constables. But mediator police knew about his personality disorder.
My husband said to mediator police "she is a psycho."
Then sir reacted : we talked with her for a hour. I don't feel as she is a psycho, but with your talk i feel as you are a psycho.
😂😂😂😂😂
Hai Ma'am.. how can we know that a narcissistic person uses the mind games, mind cheating without physical attachment.. Can you please suggest some tricks that we can escape from the emotional intimacy from them.
💯 well said ma'am...
It's all I m faced until i know about it..
Very happy to seeing you got more subscribers because it's very painful knowing our partner is a narcissist but now I can save so much energy and emotions..now I feel so free and trying to rebuild myself..I m sure healing is very slow..but I will try my best to being myself...
Your vedios are very helpful to manage my life know...
Mam please do vedios about codependency in npd victim and how to overcome it..?? And it's relation to child hood..
Thank you for your wishes. Yes, I will do the co-dependency as an enabling behaviour asap
@@DrSusanKoruthu ❤
Great
Well done 👍
Thank you ma'am
Very true maam , Very true
28 വർഷമായി അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു. മരിച്ചാൽ മതി. കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങളുടെ കല്യാണം കഴിഞാൻ എവിടെ ലും ഇറങ്ങി പോയേനെ
I m also a victim
Narcissists come to our lives to teach us some lessons.
@@defenderofdharma983 sathyam
Same experience. Very painful.
Same pinch. But i won't force my daughter for marriage. Lost trust n it.
Thank you, very helpful 🌹🌹
Informative😍
Very true.
Thank you for uploading these videos. They are really helpful. Can you make series in parenting styles and Parentification
Will try
@@DrSusanKoruthu 😊
Great 👏👏👏👏
Correct mam
Yes mom my son is painful because of his partner
Madam ellam 💯 💯 sathyam anu
Absolutely correct mam😢
Mam,what is the exact reason behind NPD?How it develops in a person ,at what age?
NPD can be developed through nature and nurture that is by hereditary and development and learning. It is a personality disorder that is developed since childhood and grow to its fullest in the adulthood. If childhood symptoms are treated you may be able to control this disorder.
@@DrSusanKoruthu how we can identify this decease in childhood???? It is due to changes in their brain.. How we can change absent of fear, Mercy...in their brain..
Agine sariyakiadukam mam igane ullavare
you cannot, they themselves should come forward to change.
മേം ഇതുപോലുള്ള മൂന്ന് പേരിൽനിന്നും ഞാൻ പലതും അനുഭവിച്ചു നേരിട്ട് സംസാരിക്കണം മേം
I'm also
Fear,guilt,shame..ivayil ninnokke engine rakshappedaam?
മറ്റുള്ളവർ എന്ത് കരുതും എന്ന ചിന്ത മാറ്റി വെയ്ക്കുക. ഒരുത്തനെയുംപേടിക്കണ്ട... സന്തോഷം ഉണ്ടാക്കുന്ന ഏരിയ സ്വയം കണ്ടു പിടിക്കുക...
You need to undergo proper therapy to overcome these common Narcissistic victim syndrome
Great research ...perfect words creating no confusion.... Everything you say is 100 percent correct . keep it up mam👍👍....like your presentation very much
Thank you
Extremely true!!!!!!
Ithrayum kaalam enikkum manasilayinilla
Mam i face the same from my hus
Each and every word is 100 % correct. Wasted a lifetime.
Very true
Why NPD abuse doesn’t have a legal base in India? Other countries have it . Whats your take on BPD? Recent suicides in kerala is due to BPD’s? Why your community is not doing research in recent incident happened in Kerala?
If you are able to prove the abuses you may get legal protection. Legally it is difficult to prove not just in India, in any country.
@@DrSusanKoruthu One advocate told me , it is better not to mention about any kind of mental condition or illness. Then court will think of curing it. That wont be taken as a reason to detach. So without mentioning mental illness, victims can gather proofs for domestic violence.
@@DrSusanKoruthu Victims can obtain restraining order against abusers.
Enne doctor martam annu manassilakki talk cheyyunnatu.
Mam can u please make a talk about narcisstic children?
I will
ഒറ്റക്കാണെന്നു മനസ്സിലായാൽ ഉള്ളിൽ നിന്നും ഒരു ശക്തി വരും. ഇന്ന് ഞാൻ രണ്ട് പട്ടികളെ പേടിപ്പിച്ച് ഓടിച്ചു. 😂😂😂😂
Mam iam a victim. My children also suffering.
Prandaaanu avark..ennitt aa prand nammukkum infect cheyyan shremikkum...chance undenki oodi rekshapedukka...allathe vere oru vazhiyum illa
Ma'am, please do a video on how to face them in court, living in kerala very difficult, the lawyers all handle take them as normal.
Please tune into my next video on Friday, you will hopefully get your answer.
Mam ente kuttikalodu enne kurichu kuttamaropikkunnu oru matterum ella the, oodi pokan thonunnu
An NPD will do that to promote them as the best parent.
👌🏻💯true. How can I contact personally as you resides in Dubai
Hi Liz, Please send a mail to drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
I am, and mychildren are victims. But how to escape from him
Hi Sreeja, Please seek help
100% correct
Maam inganeyulla aalukal victmnu dangerous aano . I'm avar parayanunnathinu against reply koduthaal do they harm the victim?
Do not engage is the golden.Avarude rage kandal valare dangerous ayi thonnum..Ennum adupichu jeevikan pattumo ...so ignore..
how can i contact you? i need help,
Please send a mail to drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
Madam I myself is a narcisst...entha cheyendennu ariyilla..pls help me..
Please send a mail to drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
Madathinte no. Tharoo
Please send a mail to drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
Madam, kuttikalil npd kk chance undo?
yes, they show such traits, and is called oppositional defiant disorder
Mam inner child healing ne patty oru video cheyyamo pls?
I will
@@DrSusanKoruthu thanks mam😊
Dr.kuttikalil narcissistic traits undo ennu engane ariyaam? Oru video cheyyaamo?
Sure I will.
Highly manipulative they are. Nobody will understand.
❤❤❤
Now i am suffering
അവർക്ക് വൈഫെനോട് സെക്സ് പോലും തോന്നില്ലേ മാം
Some withheld to punish the partner.
No
♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yess women also I know someone left her husband when he became sick on ventilator waiting for him to die so that she gets all his money but he survived and threw her out of house Smart😎 person
💯% correct. I think i am a victim here.
Very true
very true