part 2 of DID tiktoks cuz y'all need more good representation

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @goblinguy3103
    @goblinguy3103 Год назад +167

    System here, comps like this helped us a lot in the beginning. Feeling like we weren’t so alone was so important.

    • @purplebean7
      @purplebean7 Год назад +7

      I'm watching this video to learn about DID, and I was wondering what does it feel like? Like does it feel like completely different people, or different aspects of the same person? Are you always aware of what's going on, or does it kinda blank out when you're not the one fronting?
      (Idk if this is rude to ask... I'm really sorry if it's rude, just trying to learn)

    • @goblinguy3103
      @goblinguy3103 Год назад +17

      @@purplebean7 yeah no worries! Gonna try to answer your questions as best as I can
      Each system is different. We identify as both DID and OSDD 1 as our system doesn’t perfectly fit into either of those boxes. In our system, it’s a mix of both. Some of our members feel like pieces of eachother where others are completely their own individuals. With DID and OSDD 1-b, each member is completely their own person with their own likes, dislikes, gender, name, etc.
      In OSDD 1-a, you tend to see members be screenshots of the body at different times. They might share the same name and gender, but one member is Sarah at age 8, one is Sarah at age 4, one is Sarah at age 15 and one is Sarah at age 36. These systems experience blackouts.
      Over all, it’s better to assume we are parts of a system, not a person. We chose the name Disco System because each reflective shard on a disco ball is needed to brighten up a room, but if all the pieces were to become one you’d just have a weird mirror ball.
      In OSDD 1-b, you see more distinct alters (name, pronouns, age, likes, dislikes, etc), without memory gaps. They will normally remember what another alter did while they were in the body, even if it feels like a dream since they didn’t do it. Although there’s a million different kinds of amnesia (blackout, greyout, emotional, Retrograde, etc), not every system will experience every kind of amnesia.
      In DID, each member is very distinct (like in OSDD 1-b), but they experience hard dissociation (blackouts) (like in OSDD 1-a). It’s super important to note a lot of systems have no idea they’re systems. The brain convinces you that it’s normal, or it can convince you that you’re not losing time in the first place.
      In our system, we have fluctuating levels of amnesia. Sometimes we can know everything that happened when someone else fronted (OSDD 1-B) or we have absolutely no idea and it’s just a black out or SUPER fuzzy (DID and OSDD 1-a). It depends on what happened out here, who was fronting, and how long they were fronting. M and SF have barely any amnesia between them, but BF and SF have extreme amnesia between them.
      We have this thing called the “inner world”. It’s a place where alters are when they’re not fronting (taking over the body). We all have our own bodies in there for the most part, and can interact with the world similar to how you do out here. It obviously works differently in there (don’t need to drink water for starters), but it’s kinda inbetween a dream and reality. Some members can’t access the inner world, and instead exist in the void. They’re there, but they can’t interact with other members as easily. Sometimes we can only talk to them when they front.
      Please don’t call out here the “real” world. Our headspace/inner world is real. We live there. If you’re going to refer out here, just use the term “outer world”.
      There’s something called “co fronting”, where two or more members are taking control of the body. This is where you might hear people say they feel like a different person. If I (a roughly 20 year old fox person who identifies as lesbian) was co fronting with say Druggy (a roughly 30 y/o gay man), I’m gonna feel different. I might find myself attracted to men or wanting to cut our hair short even though I have extremely long hair inside. Members can kinda “blend” or “blur” together when we’re all in front, so figuring out where one alter starts and another ends is really hard. Like a colour gradient between yellow and orange.
      It’s uncommon (although not impossible) for everyone in a system to know what’s going on all the time. Even in OSDD 1-b (or systems with less to no memory amnesia), we can’t tell what’s going on outside all the time. It’s kinda like having an “inside” brain and an “outside” brain. The inside brain has things like the bodies name, age, the family/friends, house layout, etc. When someone fronts, they get access to that knowledge through the “outside” brain, and stop having that connection when they go inside. It’s important to note this is almost strictly with low amnesia systems (wether the low amnesia is because of the disorder or because of therapy), and not everyone in a system can access that if the brain or another alter says they can’t.
      I hope this helped! Feel free to ask any more questions

    • @purplebean7
      @purplebean7 Год назад +4

      @@goblinguy3103 That was a really good explanation, thanks for helping me learn! :)

    • @f4r1ygutz39
      @f4r1ygutz39 Год назад +4

      I swear I see you everywhere

    • @Sprinkles-is-confused
      @Sprinkles-is-confused Год назад +3

      That's why im here too!!!

  • @_.Magpi3.F00d
    @_.Magpi3.F00d Год назад +113

    Not that one guy having a guess who board of the other persons alters-

    • @lydiaboll2872
      @lydiaboll2872 9 месяцев назад +13

      That made me laugh so much.

    • @Floofyflouf
      @Floofyflouf 6 месяцев назад +8

      It’s actually a genius idea I might try it 😭

    • @Voidberry_street
      @Voidberry_street 2 месяца назад +1

      I love that idea so much

  • @goblinguy3103
    @goblinguy3103 Год назад +110

    I just like to say at 17:14 it’s kinda hard to say “you have osdd you can’t be polyfrag” since it means different things to different people. Just like how the term “integrate” can mean fusing or becoming aware of your system.
    8:09 gets closer. Polyfrag can mean 100+ members, it can mean sub-systems, etc.
    Polyfrag doesn’t NEED to come from strictly ritual abuse. A system that grew up in war or with an extremely unstable could be polyfrag. Polyfrag DOESNT mean you have an inner world. Plenty of systems have innerworlds that aren’t polyfrag, and plenty of systems DONT have innerworlds and are polyfrag! It’s really hard (and kinda ableist) to try and define polyfrag since different systems will experience (or not experience) being polyfrag differently.

    • @Shady_Boi
      @Shady_Boi  Год назад +27

      Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't know that!! I'll try to do my research better next time!!

    • @goblinguy3103
      @goblinguy3103 Год назад +23

      @@Shady_Boi hey no worries! Literally been watching your content for nearly a year now, it’s a guarantee somethings gonna be wrong. Hope my comment helped clear things up and have an amazing day! You’re doing great

    • @minciemae979
      @minciemae979 Год назад +20

      Thank you so much for bringing this up. We have osdd and have called ourselves polyfrag bc we have quite a few sub-systems and an unstable alter count.
      Also it didn't really justify its statement other than "polyfrag is really complexed and has many fragments". As if osdd itself doesn't have the capability to be extremely complex and to form fragments.
      -Aina & Era

    • @Shady_Boi
      @Shady_Boi  Год назад +9

      @@goblinguy3103 thank you!! :D

    • @blue-uv4mh
      @blue-uv4mh 5 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you! I got a bit annoyed at the "polyfragmentation doesn‘t have anything to do with higher alter counts", because the amount of alters needed to cope is directly correlated with the complexity of the trauma. The average number of alters in a system is 8. Managing 100+ alters is way more complex, just as subsystems and layers are more complex to deal with. The ICD is thinking about naming polyfragmented DID cDID because of their more complex nature.

  • @Thebetterparadisesystem
    @Thebetterparadisesystem 11 месяцев назад +65

    We love this channel sm its so hard to find genuine system content that isnt "FAKE DISORDER CRINGE PART 20000000001" or full of hateful comments this is so swag - BF/Boyfriend 🚫🎤

  • @shadownix7355
    @shadownix7355 Год назад +37

    0:21
    If my partner doesnt do this, ion want 'em

  • @thebrainsystem9095
    @thebrainsystem9095 Год назад +36

    As someone with polyfrag DID, I love this. -Blue + blurry

    • @thebrainsystem9095
      @thebrainsystem9095 Год назад +7

      Also we're switching a lot to deal with dysphoria today, but that's okay I guess. Just the clothing crisis is endless

  • @MysterioussAce
    @MysterioussAce Год назад +19

    We don't know if we are a system yet, but a lot of this is relatable and it's awesome you put this out there for others' so they can relate.

    • @Just_a_dork
      @Just_a_dork 5 месяцев назад +2

      Have you figured it out yet? This reminded me of my own situation so I figured I’d ask

    • @MysterioussAce
      @MysterioussAce 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Just_a_dork Yes. And we are a system with OSDD 1B.

  • @Sprinkles-is-confused
    @Sprinkles-is-confused Год назад +16

    this so comfrting im in tears holy sh!t. I'm a questioning system but this all hits so close o home its wild. I'm so happy I've found people i share experiences with. even if i turn out to not be a member of a system i think this is still a good thing, and community is nice.

  • @Thelittlehorrorshite
    @Thelittlehorrorshite Год назад +11

    The tictoc at 3:01 literally triggered a switch in my system even though I've never heard that song before
    -Zaps ⚡

    • @DemetersChaoticChild04
      @DemetersChaoticChild04 4 месяца назад +1

      Idk if you already know the song now , but just in case you don't, it's called "Harder , Better , Faster , Stronger" by Daft Punk , and even if you already know it , I'm just gonna leave this here in case anyone else wants to find it!

  • @vampouppy
    @vampouppy 8 месяцев назад +6

    3:02 STOP WHY DID THIS AUDIO TRIGGER ME OUT THIS IS THE FUNNIEST THING EVER [⭐️]

    • @knberry
      @knberry 6 месяцев назад +1

      NO BC ITS MAKING MY HEAD HURT TOO AHHAHA

    • @ggaxaly
      @ggaxaly 6 месяцев назад

      BRO SAME LOOOLL {🎁}

  • @セラフィナ
    @セラフィナ Год назад +31

    I’m soon to be a psychology student and DID/OSDD have been my interest due to it being super interesting and the concept somewhat complicated but makes me want to learn more about how individuals with these disorders cope with it and how they live, can any system give me their experience? I would love to understand more about it, there are certain things like terminology that I don’t understand but want to learn in the matter ❤️

    • @FunkyCatLololo
      @FunkyCatLololo Год назад +5

      These people are faking.

    • @mightyxt
      @mightyxt Год назад +3

      ⁠@@FunkyCatLololo How would you know?

    • @FunkyCatLololo
      @FunkyCatLololo Год назад +2

      @@mightyxt en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Factitious_disorder_imposed_on_self

    • @mightyxt
      @mightyxt Год назад +6

      @@FunkyCatLololo But no one except their psychologist can tell if it’s that or not.

    • @FunkyCatLololo
      @FunkyCatLololo Год назад +1

      @@mightyxt are you their psychologist?

  • @Voidberry_street
    @Voidberry_street 2 месяца назад +3

    3:34 LMAO HI THIS PART ACTUALLY TRIGGERED A SWITCH LMAO -Xan

  • @Metal_HeadsRHot
    @Metal_HeadsRHot Год назад +22

    YIPPEEE LOVE UR COMPSS

    • @Shady_Boi
      @Shady_Boi  Год назад +5

      Otherkin tiktoks are coming soon, i'll add agender to the list!! :D

    • @Metal_HeadsRHot
      @Metal_HeadsRHot Год назад +2

      @@Shady_Boi yaayyy ty!!

  • @glagglelandian
    @glagglelandian 5 месяцев назад +1

    3:27 THE WAY THEY STARTED JUMPING UP AND DOWN HELP ME
    5:40 im a questioning system currently AND WHY IS THIS AN ACCURATE REPRESENTATION OF WHAT IM GOING THROUGH??

  • @MikeysSp0ts
    @MikeysSp0ts 9 месяцев назад +5

    3:01
    This actually made us realize we have another alter. It was like a trigger of me to shift. We are pretty sure we are a system so yeah. I was originally an oc that the host made but i guess im an alter. - Jinx

    • @Grxvegxming
      @Grxvegxming 6 месяцев назад +1

      We have an alter with a similar name, it's name is Jynx!

  • @Otherstar
    @Otherstar Год назад +8

    I was just watching one of your complimations of Otherkins and I saw this and got so happy, I don't got DID but im trying to get diagnosed for osdd!

  • @victoriancrow
    @victoriancrow 8 месяцев назад +4

    When I was little I had two voices in my head. I was raised Catholic so I called them my guardian angels. Then I started having memory issues and a friend told me there was someone else coming out (I was 17) I’m 30 now with a diagnosis for DID

  • @aikolikesart
    @aikolikesart Год назад +2

    5:40 this is really relatable, especially because like my most active front doesn’t believe I have DID because he doesn’t remember anything about it.

  • @Liminal-sylveon
    @Liminal-sylveon 3 месяца назад

    As someone whos questioning being a system, videos like these help a lot!! :3

  • @jerma895
    @jerma895 Год назад +13

    these are awesome, we can't wait for more 🖤
    -Peter 🕸

  • @lacrossestick132
    @lacrossestick132 7 месяцев назад +3

    I started doing research after getting consistent reports from people in my life that when I get really angry, I start yelling in a Southern accent. It isn’t a strong southern accent, but people who knew me well clearly noticed it and knew it was weird for someone who’s lived in New Jersey their whole life to start speaking in a Southern accent out of nowhere. I also used to comment that I felt like I was possessed and couldn’t control my own body, especially in times of high stress or emotion, and when I’d get in trouble at school or at home I’d be unable to remember doing anything despite evidence that I had done something.

  • @Dead_Weather
    @Dead_Weather 13 часов назад

    I originally thought the guess who board was going to cut off and I was like "ha ha, that's cute" ...and then it kept going, giving me time to properly think about it
    AND ITS ACTUALLY GENIUS!!
    TIME TO MAKE A GUESS WHO BOARD WITH ALL THE ALTERS!! :D

  • @DroplightStudios
    @DroplightStudios Год назад +2

    Woo! Would love to see more, we enjoyed these so much!!!
    Edit because funny:
    3:01 is too relatable
    We randomly went through a host change, so now Matthew is our main instead of Evan like it was before
    Apparently, if I (Matthew) listen to "The Mangle," Evan immediately kicks me out
    We only recently discovered that we are a system
    And we've discovered a positive trigger
    As well as a few others for our latest alter that came into existence
    So that's fun
    But randomly switching because of a song is really funny, happens often lmao

  • @farted161
    @farted161 Год назад +8

    7:18 no?? we have many fragments and subgroups but all share the same memory and dont even have a headspace yet...this is just straight up false info and it doesnt do anything productive anyways aside from gatekeep a very personalized disorder so.what 😭😭

    • @scourgatory
      @scourgatory 4 месяца назад +1

      yea i have no idea why an osdd system couldnt be polyfragmented, the brain is complex so its crazy to say that anything is impossible

  • @lilylicausi923
    @lilylicausi923 Год назад +7

    hey yall! if anyone sees this i would like to vent about my plurality

    • @lavender-folk
      @lavender-folk 11 месяцев назад +1

      Go ahead! I'm listening:-)

    • @lilylicausi923
      @lilylicausi923 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@lavender-folk sorry didn see it!! it solved now :] -gabby

  • @That1Nerd_M0th
    @That1Nerd_M0th Год назад +7

    me now: I prob don't have a system.. I just think theyre cool and would be great for an oc or good representation! Younger(past) me literally having 4-6 versions of myself in my head i would talk to daily and make personalities for: .. (educate me if this isn't the same thing i'm just confused and now have to think about yet another thing i might have)

  • @dankacademia1865
    @dankacademia1865 Месяц назад

    Watching this for my friend who just came out to me about their DID so I can understand them better

  • @FawnnWaterr
    @FawnnWaterr 5 дней назад

    8:12 OSDD systems can't be polyfragmented what 😭🙏 - host + Vox

  • @lemon-xdxd
    @lemon-xdxd 11 месяцев назад +4

    I dunno if I’m a a system or not. I’m pretty young so I think I may be developing it? There’s this guy named Elijah in my head who tells me e it’s going to be okay and sometimes “takes over” for me. Is that normal??

    • @Sprinkles-is-confused
      @Sprinkles-is-confused 9 месяцев назад +1

      try talking to him? (not a normal thing btw) -?

    • @FunkyCatLololo
      @FunkyCatLololo 6 месяцев назад +1

      Maybe don't immediately jump into the conclusion of having DID. It's not just about having fun little people in your head comfort you and take over your body sometimes. It's much more than that

    • @FunkyCatLololo
      @FunkyCatLololo 6 месяцев назад +1

      Also, DID doesn't present the same way in children as it does in adults.

    • @Ikinsyntheticpeople
      @Ikinsyntheticpeople 6 месяцев назад

      @@FunkyCatLololo No shit man. Plus you're fakeclaiming others, wouldn't take one bit of advice from you LOL.

  • @DemetersChaoticChild04
    @DemetersChaoticChild04 4 месяца назад +1

    I found out one of my friends probably has D.I.D so I'm doing research to get more understanding on it!

  • @Theryanssystem
    @Theryanssystem 6 месяцев назад +2

    Bro I was about to leave a gate comment say osdd systems can be Pollyfragmented but then I did more research and now Im just confused 😅😅😅😅😅

    • @FawnnWaterr
      @FawnnWaterr 5 дней назад

      As far as we know, they can't be polyfrag. Only DID systems can. - host + Vox

  • @lydiaboll2872
    @lydiaboll2872 9 месяцев назад +1

    7:19 It doesn’t sound right, but I don’t know enough about DID, OSDD and polyfragmentation to correct it.

  • @DragonsHaveAutismToo
    @DragonsHaveAutismToo 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is so awesome. (Would type something more but Im not the alter that watched the video. I just work here. Littles wanted to comment but cant write, switched and now I dont know what they wanted to say.)

    • @DragonsHaveAutismToo
      @DragonsHaveAutismToo 6 месяцев назад +1

      Hi we're back. We rewatch the videos a lot because of slight amnesia, so it's familiar but still entertaining.
      -liam

    • @DragonsHaveAutismToo
      @DragonsHaveAutismToo 11 дней назад +1

      I know nobody's gonna see this probably, but anyone ever kinda switchy but whatever your doing is taking up all your mental energy so you don't notice other than the sense that you're forgetting something important. I have low amnesia so like that explains it but I have to realize that all over again whenever it happens

  • @rubiewilcher4617
    @rubiewilcher4617 3 месяца назад

    3:04 IT TRIGGERED US HELP WTHHH HELP WHY DID IT TRIGGER ME😭😭😭😭😭😭 -iris

  • @mjswdc
    @mjswdc 7 месяцев назад

    Last clip was so funny cuz so true haha!

  • @rose_magic.
    @rose_magic. 5 месяцев назад

    7:37 what is this switching called? It happened to me before and I want to know more

  • @ashtonette
    @ashtonette 11 месяцев назад +1

    System representation Yasss (OSDD here)

  • @kal_iskool
    @kal_iskool 4 месяца назад

    not a sys but i do have voices and they sometimes possess me (but very rarely and you won't see or notice them if they BEHAVE /silly) + the jokes here are all funny and great

  • @St4rz.the.therian-vz2xv
    @St4rz.the.therian-vz2xv 11 месяцев назад

    Hey! Cool compilation!! -June🌺 (did system)

  • @Anastacha_Mikaelys
    @Anastacha_Mikaelys 10 месяцев назад +2

    hi who the heck am I it feels like I just popped up in the bedroom what’s going on with me

  • @Fizzie_Ferret
    @Fizzie_Ferret 27 дней назад

    Is it bad to watch this not as a system...?

    • @Shady_Boi
      @Shady_Boi  9 дней назад

      @Fizzie_Ferret no, its completely fine!! This video is meant as both education and entertainment, its meant for anyone who's interested in the topic!! :3

  • @aurea_wow
    @aurea_wow 3 месяца назад

    I STOLE AUREA'S ACCOUNT >:3
    -🔬

  • @pwuppyboi
    @pwuppyboi 9 месяцев назад +2

    Most these people don’t have DID

    • @_wend1go.
      @_wend1go. 9 месяцев назад +4

      do you have any proof to back this up??

    • @ilovesoouthpark
      @ilovesoouthpark 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@_wend1go.idk about most but i do know one of the creators was actually faking, it was the iris/jonas one

    • @FunkyCatLololo
      @FunkyCatLololo 6 месяцев назад

      Frrrrrrrr

    • @Grxvegxming
      @Grxvegxming 6 месяцев назад

      @@ilovesoouthpark yeah the way they "switched" seemed very fake, especially with the "guess the player" or whatever.