Huh doesn’t matter the age should always be done the fact that he’s asking how am I suppose to take care of this child is a shame u made that baby now grow up and be a man
@@vanboyd8253 dude HAS grown up to be a man because the woman dipped, the mention of the age was because he is all alone at age 21 trying to take care of a child and trying not to be homeless, he isn't a single mother, he doesn't get as many "benefits" that single mothers get, all he wants is the ability to take care of the child when there is SUPPOSED to be a second party there helping him out, this take is absolutely fucking heartless. "just deal with it" stfu it's people with this kind of mindset that set our society further and further back.
@@lisbeth6911that applies to the mother too. Let’s stop acting like she’s not obligated. If this was a woman and the man didn’t show up that statement wouldn’t be said. 🎤 he was 💯 correct. Takes two to tango.
I hate to chime in late! New Subbie here!❤ but I had to clutch my invisible pearls when I first saw him! I said, in a small prayer...MOST HIGH? If I were about 25 years younger...I would've sent him my MySpace info!! You and your precious Blessing would've been A-OK right here with me! But oh well, he's definitely eye candy! Peace and Blessings!
Im so glad to see this!! Finally deadbeat moms are being held responsible for leaving their children behind. My son is a single dad of 3 children, mom took off to " live her best life" he's been a hard working wonderful father! Its tuff young man but u can do it!! The courts will catch up with her!! Happy Birthday to ur beautiful little girl, Judge.. Many blessing
I agree. This father is young, but he seems like he's willing to admit the mistakes he made and take responsibility for raising his child. That is RARE to see when a young man has a fling with a girl that results in a baby. Statistics show that 80% of young fathers do what this Mom did. They just move on with their lives and leave her to raise the baby alone or with Grandma. I do commend this young father for trying to do right by his child. He's cute too. And I commend your son as well. Raising 3 children as a single parent is TOUGH. You should be very proud of him for being such a good dad and taking care of your grandchildren.
@@CeltycSparrow Stats also show that mothers are given full child custody 8 times out of 10 and shared custody most of the remaining time. Foster care is mostly preferred to father care. For the same crimes (letting the child starve, to himself, ...), father tend to be charged more often while mothers tend to have warnings. There was a case that was remarkable as the mother was filmed banging her head onto the ground. She got full custody, screw the kid scholarity and was force into shared custody. The reasoning was that the father could fix things up so the kid could stay with the parents.
Then u should binge watch some of these episodes..she zap these mothers like nobody can.. & it involves family members who have neices ,nephews & grands etc.. interesting
Tell him stay strong and focused I am in the same situation with 3 daughters and the courts don’t really do much for the fathers . It’s not easy but the kids will remember and love him for his dedication
They live off other baby daddies child tax credit and unemployment how they get 2100 a month and not work broken system and then us dad's gets messed up on it going through this to
I love how empathetic Judge Vonda is to his plight. She really wants to help him, and fully supports getting him the money he's owed once more information is presented.
I had this exact court appearance 7 times (I had to pay my lawyer 7 times while she didnt show up) until I was finally granted custody. Meanwhile, 16 years later I have yet to see a single dime in the court ordered child support she was ordered to pay.....and still had to pay my lawyer fees.
I feel you man. I raised a kid that I wasn't the biological father of for two years without even being able to see the child after. The best revenge is just living your best life. A lot of women seem to get a free pass when it comes to these legal processes. All we can do is what we can to take care of things and cut these toxic women from our lives. PS I married a great woman and live as I wish now. Life gets better Man. I promise.👍
@@chrislee4602 happened to me too. Had a baby pinned on me by the state. Luckily I signed my rights over. Of course she was mad but DNA proved I was not the father. The judge called me names for "abandoning my child" when I told her that he had a father and that it was wrong to make me pay.
She’s gonna have pay back child support, my deadbeat dad never paid, and it all added up, he owed my mom nearly 10,000$ he had to pay her monthly, she will eventually still have to pay that. Even when your child turns 18, if they never paid before the turned 18, they still have to pay it.
Go for full custody because she will come back with the okey doke and she well he's young he needs help and if he can get some support from family he will be good
This poor kid. But man this is a life lesson that's for sure. These kids (some times older people) need to really think about who you are hooking up with and realize this could be a possible fellow parent you will be tied to. Some people are just not cut out to be parents.
Yeah, he will hopefully be more selective with who he porks from now on, of course being a single dad and working two jobs, odds are he won’t be dating at all. It’s a hard lesson for sure, but at least he’s doing the right thing by taking care of his son.
@@kathybarnett1905 there is nothing wrong with having sex, it's the fact that you should use protection if you are not ready to raise kids with the person you are having sex with. Having a sex life is healthy and important to have one, we shouldn't shame others for doing it.
I don't feel sorry for anyone, etc. for maybe the children. These people know what sex is and what the consequences that comes from doing the deed. I do hope he is getting assistance. But, he and his son's mother created the situation they are in.
Aww baby boy I’m so proud of you stepping up and taking care of your baby and being so young 💚 keep it up love. Your son is gonna be so grateful and proud of you.
Unfortunately he's not going to get two red cents from Felicia. If she didn't have enough decency to just show up to court, then she doesn't care about giving any money. He might as well just apply for some benefits.
From one single dad to another u got this brother its not gonna be easy but I promise u son it will get better for and the love that little boy will show u will be more then she ever could stay strong head up u got this I'm 6 in half years with my youngest and not a cent from his mother ur not alone
Anthony, I’m in love with you! My heart is with you. You are such a good man. Stepping up to take care of your child like a real man. You deserve all the honor. ❤
Unfortunately, as a young woman, she can get by for a long time by riding the cc. But man, when she hits that wall, she’s in for one HELL of a rude awakening.
I feel for him because this is what most woman have to go through. This is exactly why you can't be so reckless with ppl. Child support can be ordered but it doesn't mean that she will pay anything.
Excuse me? Have you looked at any real studies? If he isnt showing up, theres most likely a reason. And it tends to be the actions of the mother that pushed him away or mad him so mad that he gave up. Men have been fighting to see their kids against a system that is actually stacked against us in the favor of mothers. Are you seriously playing the victim card and making it about you or women in general? Always the victim and never the villain, but in reality yall are capable of greater evils and acts of malice than I've ever seen from a normally sane man. But that sort of thought process is just normal with yall. Go look at some real facts about custody and child support before claiming that men always leave. Their taste in men is what's trash, stop searching in the dump and treat a good man right. He will never falter on you. Men fight for years just to get 50/50 and all a woman has to do is make one claim about him and CPS is all over him and he has to prove his innocence with no evidence against him, but go look at some crime stats about parents that are charged with abusing their kids or touching them. Do find that one.
@@Deathbomb9 What studies? Can you please provide a reference? It seems like you were triggered by the word “Most.” Many men do pay child support. My father left the state and hid for a couple of years and let my mom go bankrupt during the divorce. He was making 6 figures at the time and she was making much less. He eventually paid up after he had a brain injury. So I can’t speak to the word “Most” and people are people but child support isn’t evil. I am sorry that there is such animosity between you and your ex but picking the right people to have children with works both ways. To turn your comment back on you, maybe find a better quality woman to be your next babies mama.
Why couldn’t you just feel bad for him being the victim? Being a man or woman should be irrelevant here, but nice try, trying to take the spotlight from the actual victim. Can’t even offer this man any genuine sympathy without trying to relate it to how women are treated. Shameful entitlement.
In most states, failure to pay child support will result in suspended driver's licenses, professional licenses, tax refunds go towards support payments and ultimately jail.
This stuff makes kids not feel like a blessing. These days women seem like they don't want you in a child's life they just want your child support money.
@@benyaminj.akadarrkknyt5273 Statistics unfortunately support your view. I think it's just so bad for everyone involved. Terribly dysfunctional situations.
From someone who had a child with a 21 year old and had the complete opposite. This man is very very responsible for his age. I pray him and his son are happy. Well done young man your son should be and will be proud ❤
I feel sorry for this young father! I know he picked the wrong woman but dang! My ex lives in Texas. He owes me over $10 GRAND in spousal support & he found a loop hole in the system! As long as he is SELF employed, my state cannot take any wages for spousal support! It’s UNREAL!
You’re a grown woman why should men pay for life you had if you want to keep the same life then work for it like he did. But if he owes you money then by all means you have a right to it I think it’s messed up that men have to pay their exes money just because they live with them for a time. I was overseas and I had to pay my debt beat ex money Until I finally got divorced and she was going around getting porked By half of the state. And on top of that I was forced to pay her car payment the car that she crashed that was mine, and I had to pay for her rent as well well I was barely able to afford food for me to go to work while I was in Korea and was all court ordered but you can make do he’s gonna work for it like we all do
I am a brazilian lawyer and am totally impressed how our cultures differ. I guess in here we have more classical cases where women are looking for men to get child support, the other way round is so rare... it can't even get into my mind something like this
He's a handsome young man and I pray that he can stand up and do this for your little boy and become the father he deserves.🙏🙏 Very hardworking man and responsible I'm praying he and his son will be happy. Proud of you, kiddo. Stay strong and keep your head up.
I'm so sorry, Anthony. I get that you're hurting, and that you want a good and proper life for this child, but the absolute best thing you can do to get back at her is to be an incredible father, and successful without her. It won't be easy. It's never an easy thing to do, but it can be done, and with the resolve you showed her in court, I get the feeling you can make it as a single parent. And trust me, hers is coming. And when it does, don't stop what your doing-- keep going. Because every second you spend being happier and more successful than her all while raising your child is another second that the knife of jealousy twists in her back. No worries, though. She placed it there herself. Keep up the good fight, and good luck.
@@PuppetOnStrings666 Oh no, make no mistake-- I would. Revenge through success isn't based on gender-- it's based on pure, raw resolve-- it's a hard thing to keep going, but it gets easier with time. If it were a single mom we were talking about, I'd say the same: "Your best revenge is proving that you and your child can live life without them, and their betrayal of you and your child us the same knife that placed in their own back." A single parent that finds it in themselves to still raise a good, respectful kid, regardless of what's between their legs, is one of the most powerful people in my eyes, because they carry so much alone. So no. A single mom would get the same speech from me. No one deserves what Anthony went through. Period.
I'm glad that deadbeat parents are being accountable. Usually the mom would send the children that the grandparents...it awesome to see dads trying to hold it down and experience what many single moms experience.
I feel bad for this young man and he seems to be suffering from depression which is blocking Hume and being able to think outside of the box there’s plenty of help out there for people who are truly abusing it so why doesn’t he just ask for public assistance for the time being that way he can get food stamps to help with the grocery bills and possibly help with housing education for himself etc. there are opportunities out there and unfortunately or fortunately he is a white boy which means lots of doors will open up for him he just Hass to stop locking his way he’s a good boy he’ll find somebody
Watch her come back and accuse him of being a bad father smh. Seen it happen before and honestly if I was that dudes sister I would be helping him out. It's disappointing on how some mothers, (shouldn't even call them that) dump their kids on the father and blame him. It's incredibly disrespectful and disgusting.
Yep I know a guy that took care of his abandoned daughter for ten yrs mom popped back up and sued him for alienation of affection. The parent that abandons the child should lose all custody.
I used to think that filing for child support would make me a weak woman. I felt like I not only have them but I love and wanted them so they are my responsibility. I have an auto immune disorder and sick or healthy every day I am there for my children and provide them with all of their physical and emotional needs alone. Judge Vonda makes me feel like it shouldn't just be my responsibility and that it might even make me a stronger woman and better mother standing up for us demanding support from their father so they may have the life they deserve. I just have to get strong enough to take that step.
I can totally understand his frustration, she just up and bailed and he has no recourse if she just doesn’t get a job. Now what about if she were to go on Welfare? Would she still have to pay?
The thing I'm confused about is she ignored the court order for come in to see the judge to set child support. Why wasn't she arrested for not showing up?
My Ex sent my youngest back to me because he was a handful (I did straighten him out in the end) and she didn't want to deal with him while she partied. So, my other two were over 18 and out of child services and all I had were the payments for him, and when she sent him up I naively thought she would cancel the child support payments because she gave me custody. I can tell you it was no party, she had spoilt him. He was 14 and his attitude towards keeping his room clean, clothes in the wash and just generally keeping the place tidy was sadly lacking. He was failing 8th grade and had been kicked out of 4 schools that I knew of. I told him when he first got up to me that I was well known in the town and that there is nothing he can do that I will not find out about before lunch time I also asked him every time he wanted me to clean and cook and pick up after him that "Do I look like I have tits, or Do I look like I'm wearing a dress, and another do I look like your mother." I told him he was old enough and ugly enough to pull his own weight around the house. I knew all his teachers and I knew when he had assignments that needed to be handed in. Anyway, I stopped paying child support naturally and after almost 18 months they decided to send out a couple of officers to get me to get back to paying because my ex had complained that I had stopped. I told the child services officers that I now had my son and didn't think I needed to keep paying. They told me that as far as they knew my ex had the son and I was going to be taken to court if I didn't go back to paying. I held up my finger and said, just wait one second. I called my son and he came to the door. I indicated to him to tell these nice officers who he was and he told them that he was the son they were arguing about. They asked him how long he had been with me and he told them about a year and a half. The officers shook their heads, apologised and promptly left telling me they'll sort it out. This is where all my ex-wife's chickens came home to roost. I got a call from her, I had never had a phone call from her unless she was taking me back to court and she was rubbing it in that she could do as she pleased. Well this call was totally different. She screamed at me for telling child services that she didn't have our son. In addition they stopped all payments to her and fined her $3000 for making false representation to child support. I told her I got $500 from child support and that just about gave her a conniption fit. Mamma grizzly was not happy. ME, I went out a celebrated. That was the last I heard from her and although I lost a lot of battles with her over the years, I ended up winning the war. She died 3 years ago from Cirrhosis of the liver and kidney failure and I'm sure she had hep B and C. Her lifestyle wasn't conducive to good health. Once she got rid of our youngest she went off the rails from what I have been told and no one could get her to stop. No one would tell me how she contracted Hep C. I have my theories! It matters not to me now, I have my children (3)and grandchildren ((9) around me and I'm having the time of my life.
How come no one ever mentions how to petition to have sole custody of the child? She may never come back. While watching so many of these shows, and they are not real, they are actors, no one ever brings up giving the child back to the state for adoption when they don't want the child?
Unfortunately I would recommend a paternity test. She could have dumped a child that isn't his on him. Kudos that he stood tall and accepted responsibility. So sad the mom hasn't.
@@tsaligrass as a Child support officer, I see plenty of cases where dad is ordered to pay mom and no job is located for dad so no payments. So this is a very common.
I wish I would have you as a judge. My ex-wife damage me and we lived in. California and fathers don't have rights out there. I love you so much. And I watch your shows and I support you one hundred percent
What a f-ing joke. If this was the other way around, the dad would've been a hunted-down "deadbeat" in jail. At the very least, she should have been found in contempt of court by not showing up. At worst, her drivers licence should be suspended, and jailed if she doesn't pay, like Fathers who don't pay, not treat her with kiddy-gloves and "wait until she's employed" 🙄. No, no. You either pay or go to jail. Nobody is gonna "wait until I'm employed", to pay my support (and I do pay support btw). I either pay, or go to jail. Just goes to show you how Family Law is a misandrist Feminist joke.
It's actually refreshing to see a man going through this crap for a change. Shows that it really does take two, and hopefully next time around he'll be more cautious. I also hope he makes sure that whoever he allows to play step mommy doesn't abuse his son. Sex isn't only for pleasure. It makes people.
The fact that he was 21 and still stood up to take care of the child. Very responsible
Hopefully this responsible young man will go far. I think he will!
Huh doesn’t matter the age should always be done the fact that he’s asking how am I suppose to take care of this child is a shame u made that baby now grow up and be a man
@@vanboyd8253 dude HAS grown up to be a man because the woman dipped, the mention of the age was because he is all alone at age 21 trying to take care of a child and trying not to be homeless, he isn't a single mother, he doesn't get as many "benefits" that single mothers get, all he wants is the ability to take care of the child when there is SUPPOSED to be a second party there helping him out, this take is absolutely fucking heartless. "just deal with it" stfu it's people with this kind of mindset that set our society further and further back.
Normal parent responsibility
Ironically unprotected sex is irresponsible.
I like how he never blamed the existence of the child. He knows that the natural consequence of his actions, all he wants is a little extra help
I wish nothing the best for this young man. He stepped into being an adult when he didn't have to.
@@kparsa1 young clowns effing up their lives cos the loved up after 1st night..dumb
@@kparsa1 actually, he did have to. But the fact that he knuckled under and did what was in the child's best interest is highly commendable.
Yes, he did have to….he’s the baby’s dad. The moral of the story: Use a condom if you don’t want to be a parent at 21 years old.🤷♀️
@@lisbeth6911that applies to the mother too. Let’s stop acting like she’s not obligated. If this was a woman and the man didn’t show up that statement wouldn’t be said. 🎤 he was 💯 correct. Takes two to tango.
I be cracking up when yall show the empty chair that the other parent should have been in 😂😂😭😭😂
I hate to chime in late! New Subbie here!❤ but I had to clutch my invisible pearls when I first saw him! I said, in a small prayer...MOST HIGH? If I were about 25 years younger...I would've sent him my MySpace info!! You and your precious Blessing would've been A-OK right here with me! But oh well, he's definitely eye candy! Peace and Blessings!
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Made me snicker! They should flash back to the chair for her response from time to time.
Me too Bro , me too😂😂😂
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Im so glad to see this!! Finally deadbeat moms are being held responsible for leaving their children behind. My son is a single dad of 3 children, mom took off to " live her best life" he's been a hard working wonderful father! Its tuff young man but u can do it!! The courts will catch up with her!! Happy Birthday to ur beautiful little girl, Judge.. Many blessing
I agree. This father is young, but he seems like he's willing to admit the mistakes he made and take responsibility for raising his child. That is RARE to see when a young man has a fling with a girl that results in a baby. Statistics show that 80% of young fathers do what this Mom did. They just move on with their lives and leave her to raise the baby alone or with Grandma. I do commend this young father for trying to do right by his child. He's cute too. And I commend your son as well. Raising 3 children as a single parent is TOUGH. You should be very proud of him for being such a good dad and taking care of your grandchildren.
@@CeltycSparrow Stats also show that mothers are given full child custody 8 times out of 10 and shared custody most of the remaining time. Foster care is mostly preferred to father care. For the same crimes (letting the child starve, to himself, ...), father tend to be charged more often while mothers tend to have warnings.
There was a case that was remarkable as the mother was filmed banging her head onto the ground. She got full custody, screw the kid scholarity and was force into shared custody. The reasoning was that the father could fix things up so the kid could stay with the parents.
Then u should binge watch some of these episodes..she zap these mothers like nobody can.. & it involves family members who have neices ,nephews & grands etc.. interesting
Tell him stay strong and focused I am in the same situation with 3 daughters and the courts don’t really do much for the fathers . It’s not easy but the kids will remember and love him for his dedication
They live off other baby daddies child tax credit and unemployment how they get 2100 a month and not work broken system and then us dad's gets messed up on it going through this to
This is a GREAT DAD only wanting a little help for their son. And standing up to take this child.
I love how empathetic Judge Vonda is to his plight. She really wants to help him, and fully supports getting him the money he's owed once more information is presented.
Wow! 21 Years old young man and matured more than many adults. GOD bless this young man and his son.🙏
I really feel for this dude, it really seems like he totally gets that he messed up hard and is doing what he can. The mom though, wow I am livid
Luckily they’re all actors and she’s not a real judge
@@jlothemagnificent8171 its a real case though. The actors are just acting out what the court transcripts said.
Mane facts! Vonda B gone get them together
@@dailydoser1309 that's true ?
@@momentswmommymil
I had this exact court appearance 7 times (I had to pay my lawyer 7 times while she didnt show up) until I was finally granted custody. Meanwhile, 16 years later I have yet to see a single dime in the court ordered child support she was ordered to pay.....and still had to pay my lawyer fees.
I feel you man. I raised a kid that I wasn't the biological father of for two years without even being able to see the child after. The best revenge is just living your best life. A lot of women seem to get a free pass when it comes to these legal processes. All we can do is what we can to take care of things and cut these toxic women from our lives. PS I married a great woman and live as I wish now. Life gets better Man. I promise.👍
Had the shoe been on the other foot you’d be in jail smh
@@chrislee4602 happened to me too. Had a baby pinned on me by the state. Luckily I signed my rights over. Of course she was mad but DNA proved I was not the father. The judge called me names for "abandoning my child" when I told her that he had a father and that it was wrong to make me pay.
What kind of BS is that!?
She’s gonna have pay back child support, my deadbeat dad never paid, and it all added up, he owed my mom nearly 10,000$ he had to pay her monthly, she will eventually still have to pay that. Even when your child turns 18, if they never paid before the turned 18, they still have to pay it.
Go for full custody because she will come back with the okey doke and she well he's young he needs help and if he can get some support from family he will be good
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@Nihcas I know it's mock court
This poor kid. But man this is a life lesson that's for sure. These kids (some times older people) need to really think about who you are hooking up with and realize this could be a possible fellow parent you will be tied to. Some people are just not cut out to be parents.
Yeah, he will hopefully be more selective with who he porks from now on, of course being a single dad and working two jobs, odds are he won’t be dating at all. It’s a hard lesson for sure, but at least he’s doing the right thing by taking care of his son.
@@matthewhummel1572 true is true
Maybe more people need to keep thier pants zipped
@@kathybarnett1905 there is nothing wrong with having sex, it's the fact that you should use protection if you are not ready to raise kids with the person you are having sex with. Having a sex life is healthy and important to have one, we shouldn't shame others for doing it.
When I saw the empty chair I lost it😭😂
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Felicia always messing up
@@Haroldcarroll-eh9fu LMAO
This lady is so underrated. She is amazing entertainment and very educational at the same time .
He looks so young I actually feel sorry for him I hope his parents help him 🙏
Damn I felt that ☹️
@ Nihcas Ofn
I don't feel sorry for anyone, etc. for maybe the children. These people know what sex is and what the consequences that comes from doing the deed.
I do hope he is getting assistance. But, he and his son's mother created the situation they are in.
Plus her family. Just because she not taking care of the baby don’t mean her family can’t support him.
Her parents should help until the mother does her part.
Deadbeat mom, didn't show up, they will be back when she gets the child support papers.
I love these shows it should be on tv
Facts
True but I don’t think she’s a real judge
I agree. Wished this was televised
@@itunsco Attorney, still good entertainment and informative for your average citizen.
@@itunsco none of tv judges are actual judges they just have some kind of jurisdiction to make certain rulings mostly civil
Aww baby boy I’m so proud of you stepping up and taking care of your baby and being so young 💚 keep it up love. Your son is gonna be so grateful and proud of you.
I feel so bad for him. Hopefully he keeps doing what he does for his son. It’s hard but keep your head up. Don’t give up on your son please.
He will survive.... many mothers did it.... God is able to keep them
@@lydiapaddie7763 as a single mother who’s child father is a Felicia, many great single dads have too.
Unfortunately he's not going to get two red cents from Felicia. If she didn't have enough decency to just show up to court, then she doesn't care about giving any money. He might as well just apply for some benefits.
Since he knows her name and now she has a court order if she doesn’t pay he can call the cops and say she is not following the law
In cases like this, I think the court or production team should offer resources for the parent (job, public assistance, etc)
I feel for him. Got a bustdown pregnant & stood up and did the right thing. I hope he gets that $377 asap.
From one single dad to another u got this brother its not gonna be easy but I promise u son it will get better for and the love that little boy will show u will be more then she ever could stay strong head up u got this I'm 6 in half years with my youngest and not a cent from his mother ur not alone
Your compassion is unmatched. He straight swore to you(not at you I hope). I was like “where’s the mug?”🤣💀
Apply for foodstamp the first step taking her to court you did well man 🤞🏽
And wic.
And housing depending on where he lives
NO. Everyone expects the tax payers to always bail you out when you mess up. Too bad. Earn your own way like an adult. Quit looking for handouts.
@@dcg590 get over it. Lol I’m one of those taxpayers but, it is what it is. I wish Americans helped EACH OTHER more.
That's what a dad should be. He's doing an excellent job by putting his child first. Shame on the "mom".
Anthony, I’m in love with you! My heart is with you. You are such a good man. Stepping up to take care of your child like a real man. You deserve all the honor. ❤
Took the words right out of my mouth😄😊
Unfortunately, as a young woman, she can get by for a long time by riding the cc. But man, when she hits that wall, she’s in for one HELL of a rude awakening.
I feel for him because this is what most woman have to go through. This is exactly why you can't be so reckless with ppl. Child support can be ordered but it doesn't mean that she will pay anything.
Excuse me? Have you looked at any real studies? If he isnt showing up, theres most likely a reason. And it tends to be the actions of the mother that pushed him away or mad him so mad that he gave up. Men have been fighting to see their kids against a system that is actually stacked against us in the favor of mothers. Are you seriously playing the victim card and making it about you or women in general? Always the victim and never the villain, but in reality yall are capable of greater evils and acts of malice than I've ever seen from a normally sane man. But that sort of thought process is just normal with yall. Go look at some real facts about custody and child support before claiming that men always leave. Their taste in men is what's trash, stop searching in the dump and treat a good man right. He will never falter on you. Men fight for years just to get 50/50 and all a woman has to do is make one claim about him and CPS is all over him and he has to prove his innocence with no evidence against him, but go look at some crime stats about parents that are charged with abusing their kids or touching them. Do find that one.
@@Deathbomb9
What studies? Can you please provide a reference? It seems like you were triggered by the word “Most.”
Many men do pay child support. My father left the state and hid for a couple of years and let my mom go bankrupt during the divorce. He was making 6 figures at the time and she was making much less. He eventually paid up after he had a brain injury.
So I can’t speak to the word “Most” and people are people but child support isn’t evil. I am sorry that there is such animosity between you and your ex but picking the right people to have children with works both ways.
To turn your comment back on you, maybe find a better quality woman to be your next babies mama.
Why couldn’t you just feel bad for him being the victim? Being a man or woman should be irrelevant here, but nice try, trying to take the spotlight from the actual victim. Can’t even offer this man any genuine sympathy without trying to relate it to how women are treated. Shameful entitlement.
Sorry? But the woman has the choice to make or not the baby in the first place -_-'
In most states, failure to pay child support will result in suspended driver's licenses, professional licenses, tax refunds go towards support payments and ultimately jail.
Why did Judge not question if dad knew about resources such as Medicaid, WIC, food stamps, food pantries or diaper pantry?
I'm literally a lesbian who never ever ever wants children. Yet I watch this show all the time lol.
This stuff makes kids not feel like a blessing. These days women seem like they don't want you in a child's life they just want your child support money.
@@benyaminj.akadarrkknyt5273 Some women, yeah.
@@benyaminj.akadarrkknyt5273 Statistics unfortunately support your view. I think it's just so bad for everyone involved. Terribly dysfunctional situations.
Good for you
Same! I only want dogs and cats instead lol
From someone who had a child with a 21 year old and had the complete opposite. This man is very very responsible for his age. I pray him and his son are happy. Well done young man your son should be and will be proud ❤
I hope his family and friends can help. He’s a very good dad!
I love that you are open minded ma’am…
We need more than once a week videos!! I binge watched every video and ran out of new ones to watch! LOVE YOUR SHOW!!
Fathers are thrown in prison for non-payment of child support, why not mothers? Put out a warrant on her for a no-show to court. IMHO
Poor guy not knowing when he’ll get any money. And she left the baby and took off. I feel so bad for the baby but at least his dad stepped up. ♥️
Sir us single moms have to wait until they can catch them 🤷🏾♀️. I commend you on being a single dad
"So...she got up and left after...the morning after?" Teacup ALL the way up! 🤣🤣 Lemme find out Judge used to be a heartbreaker...lol
That cuss got me too judge Vonda lol at 4:29😂💀
As someone who learns constantly I am infatuated with your channel. Good Work Judge. I see what your doing and I support it!
I feel sorry for this young father! I know he picked the wrong woman but dang! My ex lives in Texas. He owes me over $10 GRAND in spousal support & he found a loop hole in the system! As long as he is SELF employed, my state cannot take any wages for spousal support! It’s UNREAL!
You’re a grown woman why should men pay for life you had if you want to keep the same life then work for it like he did. But if he owes you money then by all means you have a right to it I think it’s messed up that men have to pay their exes money just because they live with them for a time. I was overseas and I had to pay my debt beat ex money Until I finally got divorced and she was going around getting porked By half of the state. And on top of that I was forced to pay her car payment the car that she crashed that was mine, and I had to pay for her rent as well well I was barely able to afford food for me to go to work while I was in Korea and was all court ordered but you can make do he’s gonna work for it like we all do
Spouse support is Completely different than Child Support. A child can't get a job an adult can.
Good for him, get a job.
I cannot see myself having a child at 21. I wish him and his child the best.
I seriously need an update on him because I love him! How sweet and responsible of him.
Happy Birthday to your daughter & I’m loving these premiers
Thank you so much!😘
Rough for him 😢. I Wish him good Luck 🍀
I seriously hope he's doing better! I'd definitely donate some money to him to help ❤️
Free advice: use a rubber!!!!
It's a free country so do whoever you want whenever you want but use a rubber and stay safe people!!!!
Lord knows I love this judge she be cracking me up😂🤣😂❤❤💯💯👍🏿👍🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
My story is so freaking similar but I gave his employer information and he is $97,370 behind in support payments and walking free dodging the law
I am a brazilian lawyer and am totally impressed how our cultures differ. I guess in here we have more classical cases where women are looking for men to get child support, the other way round is so rare... it can't even get into my mind something like this
How could a woman just leave her child with his or her father and never come back? Wow. Just wow.
What abt when dads do?
It's exactly the same when a father runs off and leaves his son or daughter.
Your hair is always on point but it looks beautiful today😊❤
Thank you.❤️
He's a handsome young man and I pray that he can stand up and do this for your little boy and become the father he deserves.🙏🙏 Very hardworking man and responsible I'm praying he and his son will be happy. Proud of you, kiddo. Stay strong and keep your head up.
1:05 😂 The best part
I'm so sorry, Anthony. I get that you're hurting, and that you want a good and proper life for this child, but the absolute best thing you can do to get back at her is to be an incredible father, and successful without her.
It won't be easy. It's never an easy thing to do, but it can be done, and with the resolve you showed her in court, I get the feeling you can make it as a single parent.
And trust me, hers is coming. And when it does, don't stop what your doing-- keep going. Because every second you spend being happier and more successful than her all while raising your child is another second that the knife of jealousy twists in her back.
No worries, though. She placed it there herself. Keep up the good fight, and good luck.
If the roles were reversed, I doubt you'd be saying that
@@PuppetOnStrings666 Oh no, make no mistake-- I would.
Revenge through success isn't based on gender-- it's based on pure, raw resolve-- it's a hard thing to keep going, but it gets easier with time.
If it were a single mom we were talking about, I'd say the same: "Your best revenge is proving that you and your child can live life without them, and their betrayal of you and your child us the same knife that placed in their own back."
A single parent that finds it in themselves to still raise a good, respectful kid, regardless of what's between their legs, is one of the most powerful people in my eyes, because they carry so much alone.
So no. A single mom would get the same speech from me. No one deserves what Anthony went through. Period.
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Liked before watching! Dang I thought I was about to see some drama but baby mama didnt even show up * s i g h* lol
I'm glad that deadbeat parents are being accountable. Usually the mom would send the children that the grandparents...it awesome to see dads trying to hold it down and experience what many single moms experience.
Ooh poor guy he is doing it hard. You can do this mate xx just one day at a time. He’s just a baby himself 💙💙
I feel bad for this young man and he seems to be suffering from depression which is blocking Hume and being able to think outside of the box there’s plenty of help out there for people who are truly abusing it so why doesn’t he just ask for public assistance for the time being that way he can get food stamps to help with the grocery bills and possibly help with housing education for himself etc. there are opportunities out there and unfortunately or fortunately he is a white boy which means lots of doors will open up for him he just Hass to stop locking his way he’s a good boy he’ll find somebody
I just love watching your court proceedings. Very informative 👏🏽. And btw I so love the different hair styles that you rock
I felt sorry for him man I hope nothing but the best for him
What an amazing dad! Really working hard to take care of his child. This man is a tribute to good fathers.
Watch her come back and accuse him of being a bad father smh. Seen it happen before and honestly if I was that dudes sister I would be helping him out. It's disappointing on how some mothers, (shouldn't even call them that) dump their kids on the father and blame him. It's incredibly disrespectful and disgusting.
Yep I know a guy that took care of his abandoned daughter for ten yrs mom popped back up and sued him for alienation of affection. The parent that abandons the child should lose all custody.
He said could you get her ash in here lmao 🤣 exactly dad tell it
Good luck baby. Thank you for caring for that baby.
Hands down!! Give Judge Vonda B her own Tv Show!!!! Move over Judge Judy! This Storm is Coming!!!!😂😂😂
He’s a great guy, hopefully he gets what he needs….and a good woman.
This kid ain't ever going to get anything from the so called mom of the child! She'll never get a job because of child support will take her paycheck!
I used to think that filing for child support would make me a weak woman. I felt like I not only have them but I love and wanted them so they are my responsibility. I have an auto immune disorder and sick or healthy every day I am there for my children and provide them with all of their physical and emotional needs alone. Judge Vonda makes me feel like it shouldn't just be my responsibility and that it might even make me a stronger woman and better mother standing up for us demanding support from their father so they may have the life they deserve. I just have to get strong enough to take that step.
Take it! You did not make those babies by yourself
😂😂😂😂 my name is Felicia. Just know ima great wife and a great momma. Not all Felicia’s are bad I promise you 😂😂😂😂
Oh my he swore in the court did I hear that right? Also, he stepped up for the child when she didn't want to.
Had a baby when i was 22 , biggest mistake of my life .
Never date a narcissist.
Well, let's hope your kid doesn't find this comment.
On my birthday!! I can’t wait!!
Happy early birthday!! My daughter will be two years old on tomorrow!🥰
@@JudgeVondaB awwww
That's nice ms.vonda ☺🤩
Happy Birthday
@@JudgeVondaB thank you and happy birthday to your daughter!! 🤗 ♌️
I can totally understand his frustration, she just up and bailed and he has no recourse if she just doesn’t get a job. Now what about if she were to go on Welfare? Would she still have to pay?
She couldn’t help herself “her name really Felicia” lol she knew the title of the video right then.
Great sketch.. Waowww… Judge you amazing, the young man, being dad on point. Wauww
Happy Birthday to your daughter...
Thank you!!!❤️
Happy birthday day to your baby
Biggest ad for abstinence before marriage and not just sleeping around.
Considering how selfish and irresponsible the "mother" is, I would definitely be having a DNA test, as bad as that may seem.
You are 100% correct.
Poor guy. One of the saddest cases. What a genuine guy. He is overwhelmed by the situation. I hope a good samaritan sees this video and helps him out.
Would love to know the results of this one it's it's very interesting
Why isn't she being found in contempt and picked up for failure to appear? She skipped court.
Fellas!!! When your "Pull-out game" is weak, this is a classic case. Don't be weak, be strong 👍🏾👌🏾💯
What a way, to start an opening argument 😭😭
The thing I'm confused about is she ignored the court order for come in to see the judge to set child support. Why wasn't she arrested for not showing up?
My Ex sent my youngest back to me because he was a handful (I did straighten him out in the end) and she didn't want to deal with him while she partied. So, my other two were over 18 and out of child services and all I had were the payments for him, and when she sent him up I naively thought she would cancel the child support payments because she gave me custody.
I can tell you it was no party, she had spoilt him. He was 14 and his attitude towards keeping his room clean, clothes in the wash and just generally keeping the place tidy was sadly lacking. He was failing 8th grade and had been kicked out of 4 schools that I knew of. I told him when he first got up to me that I was well known in the town and that there is nothing he can do that I will not find out about before lunch time
I also asked him every time he wanted me to clean and cook and pick up after him that "Do I look like I have tits, or Do I look like I'm wearing a dress, and another do I look like your mother." I told him he was old enough and ugly enough to pull his own weight around the house. I knew all his teachers and I knew when he had assignments that needed to be handed in.
Anyway, I stopped paying child support naturally and after almost 18 months they decided to send out a couple of officers to get me to get back to paying because my ex had complained that I had stopped. I told the child services officers that I now had my son and didn't think I needed to keep paying.
They told me that as far as they knew my ex had the son and I was going to be taken to court if I didn't go back to paying. I held up my finger and said, just wait one second. I called my son and he came to the door. I indicated to him to tell these nice officers who he was and he told them that he was the son they were arguing about. They asked him how long he had been with me and he told them about a year and a half.
The officers shook their heads, apologised and promptly left telling me they'll sort it out.
This is where all my ex-wife's chickens came home to roost. I got a call from her, I had never had a phone call from her unless she was taking me back to court and she was rubbing it in that she could do as she pleased. Well this call was totally different. She screamed at me for telling child services that she didn't have our son. In addition they stopped all payments to her and fined her $3000 for making false representation to child support. I told her I got $500 from child support and that just about gave her a conniption fit.
Mamma grizzly was not happy. ME, I went out a celebrated. That was the last I heard from her and although I lost a lot of battles with her over the years, I ended up winning the war. She died 3 years ago from Cirrhosis of the liver and kidney failure and I'm sure she had hep B and C. Her lifestyle wasn't conducive to good health. Once she got rid of our youngest she went off the rails from what I have been told and no one could get her to stop. No one would tell me how she contracted Hep C. I have my theories!
It matters not to me now, I have my children (3)and grandchildren ((9) around me and I'm having the time of my life.
Sad to see, he just needs to hire a private investigator (if possible) or do some investigation on his part and find out who her employer is!
I need a part 2 with the mom haha
How come no one ever mentions how to petition to have sole custody of the child? She may never come back. While watching so many of these shows, and they are not real, they are actors, no one ever brings up giving the child back to the state for adoption when they don't want the child?
I wanted to laugh bc of the title but damn this guy got it rough
Get government assistance she will have to pay it back
"Watch yo profanity"
Unfortunately I would recommend a paternity test. She could have dumped a child that isn't his on him. Kudos that he stood tall and accepted responsibility. So sad the mom hasn't.
Yea great he won. But is she never gets a job or hides from him that she has a job he will never get the help he needs to take care of his kids.
then arrest her for failure to pay.
they wouldn't be waiting if it was man doing this. Once again a woman gets reasonable doubt and not held to same standards
@@tsaligrass as a Child support officer, I see plenty of cases where dad is ordered to pay mom and no job is located for dad so no payments. So this is a very common.
I wish I would have you as a judge. My ex-wife damage me and we lived in. California and fathers don't have rights out there. I love you so much. And I watch your shows and I support you one hundred percent
What a f-ing joke. If this was the other way around, the dad would've been a hunted-down "deadbeat" in jail.
At the very least, she should have been found in contempt of court by not showing up. At worst, her drivers licence should be suspended, and jailed if she doesn't pay, like Fathers who don't pay, not treat her with kiddy-gloves and "wait until she's employed" 🙄. No, no. You either pay or go to jail. Nobody is gonna "wait until I'm employed", to pay my support (and I do pay support btw). I either pay, or go to jail.
Just goes to show you how Family Law is a misandrist Feminist joke.
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It's actually refreshing to see a man going through this crap for a change. Shows that it really does take two, and hopefully next time around he'll be more cautious. I also hope he makes sure that whoever he allows to play step mommy doesn't abuse his son. Sex isn't only for pleasure. It makes people.
I just love these video’s
Its crazy how texas does not provide county assistance and these type of situations it seems most necessary and helpful.
She should be arrested for not showing up to court, especially in the matters of a child’s life 😭