Tamera is not lying, my husband of 9 years is THEE same way & does not like the strip club. I didn't know there were guys like that who don't like the strip club. He refused to go even when his best friend practically begged him to go with him.
I am a man and I won't go to a strip club. I think only men with low confidence and low self-esteem go there. I am single now and some of my guy friends ask me weekly to go to a strip club with them and I still say no. I rather go to a gym or play tennis with my daughter.
+Michie Oo There weren't did you see there faces when she was trying to convince everyone that he doesn't like the strip clubs. There we like "Oh we believe it" The fact that their the one people each other has every had sex with and been together for over 8 years says that. lmfao!
+lstarsabb lmbo I legitimately started to brainstorm of a guy who doesn't enjoy strip clubs when I realized Adam, right in front of my face, is a perfect example of the kind of guy who would not get down at a strip club. I just can *_not_* see that man getting his life in a forest of poles and G strings, I can't 😂
It's a shame that this is even a debate. Why I should I take my man somewhere where he can lust for and desire another woman? Which sane woman would do that? Seriously!
If your secure with yourself I personally don't see the problem. It spontaneous and spicy for a relationship. Some women wanna see another woman dance more then the men
I have to agree with Tamera here. I asked my guy if he wanted to go to a strip club and he said no. I thought he could be lying at first but he then said "You are looking at half naked women that you are not going to have sex with while throwing your hard earned money at these girls that you are not going to be with in any way." So after 9 years, we still have not visited any strip clubs and I admit that I am thankful for it.
i don’t think it’s about “allowing” your husband to have a lap dance. i think it’s the fact that to me, he shouldn’t be interested in that in the first place. you can be perfectly secure in a relationship and still think this is weird
@Tolu Akin Exactly! Why would you let them?! If we ever told our man to go with us to see other guys dance and give them our money I bet they wouldn't like it.
@@dereka.b.8136 No she not putting herself in a situation that can lead the adultry. Thats having respect and love for herself. Plus all these stripclub supporter and now divorced.
Maybe I'm "boring" for this but I don't see the point in going to the strip club with your man. The atmosphere in a strip club isn't sexy to me... it's kinda sleezy and I hate seeing women look so desperate, tbh. if I wanna be in a sexy atmosphere to get my man and I in the mood... all we need is some alone time, dim lights, good food and drink. OKAY lol
If you need to go watch other women get naked to get turned on with your s/o then there's something wrong with your relationship. See, this is why so marriages fail. People don't seem to like having boundaries or having just plain old respect anymore for their marriage. So sad.
very sad...I strongly disagree with Jeannie.. you're married..why on earth would you let husband go to the strip club...everything he needs is right at home.. and then you guys can't turn each other on..you have to go to the strip club to make that happen..that is crazy...
did you know that many people, especially men watch hardcore porn, and soft porn like on game of thrones, etc. Cant stop your partner from watching other naked people. So I just let my partner know that if he's gonna watch naked girls w big T!T and @$$, then i will watch naked men w big P!n#$. I honestly don't care to watch porn, just saying, i can't control what he watches on tv, but i can control what i watch. I don't care for porn, and i wish that he would have eyes only for me. But the truth is that, most people, especially men look at other women, and we can't change their desire for other people. Almost everyone I know has a famous celebrity crush, Channing Tatum, naked women on Game of Thrones, etc. If you don't "let" them go to strip clubs, they go anyways, behind your back and don't tell you. I love my bf, but I do find Channing Tatum attractive. And he finds many women attractive, bc they are all over tv, movies, wearing short short skirts and boobs hanging out of their shirts (i don't dress like that). My bf told me he will go do things bachelors do for his party. I said, that's fine, i will also have my bachelorette party and do the same things that is usually done at the parties, magic mike! I just let him know that if he wants to do that, then I will too. And that usually makes him see where i'm coming from, that he doesn't want me looking at naked men, and then he'll see my point of him not looking at naked women. But just saying to your partner, don't go, i don't know if it's as effective as, well if your going to see naked girls, then i will go to a magic mike show! oh he hates that!!!
Bunny Cheeks nice method. But thinking that celebrities are attractive and stuff is different than a normal person that standing naked in front of you. And porn, Yea that is on TV. U can't physically touch them, but going to a strip club is out of line. Lol. But your right, all u can do is use the reverse psychology. Always get them. Lol
Tamera does a good job of sticking to her character but I hate when they passively belittle her because she don’t need to laugh, say, or do things they do to get fulfillment out a relationship or life in general. Her husband better not fucking do her wrong she’s a woman worth fighting/dying for I can tell ❤️
I don't like it when they passively belittle her either. Also, it always seems like they can't wait to get into her business, especially Tamar and Loni.
I agree with Tamera, why would you want to test your relationship in the first place, and yes there are men that wouldn't enjoy a strip club because they are committed to their wife's for example Adam. Why temp your own husband ? smh , now if he asked like adrienne said then yes question his reasoning .
I don't know.....no disrespect to these women who strip, but I just can't support a business that perpetuates the stereotype that woman are nothing more than their bodies. Again, no shade to anyone since everyone has a story. And I guarantee if Jeanie's or tamars husband went a little to far with a stripper then they'd be singing a completely different song. I must sound so boring to ya'll 😂😂😂 But I'd seriously wouldn't like my husband throwing dollar bills at another woman for shaking her ass at him.....as though she's his property to enjoy.
+Hannan Burale Girl its okay. You are not the only one that thinks the same. The idea of going to a strip club in the first place disgust me not to talk of taking my man there.
Thanks for the support guys😂😂😂😂 Its always nice to share your mind and have people who understand! And to Ali, I'm not for male stripping either. It's not for me, I don't find it entertaining and in terms of sexuality I prefer to share it with one person. I think there is something powerful about keeping your sexual desires private and only expressing it with those who you deem worthy. But having said that! If that's what other people enjoy then hey ho! Don't let me stop you 😂😂😂😂
+Akirra Raheem lol right. Men who are for going to the strip club with their girlfriend/wife only are for it when it's a female strip club, but if the tables turned they would be preaching all types of why it's wrong in a heartbeat. Double standards.
+Akirra Raheem I don't know about your experience, but female exotic dancers vs male exotic dancers are two totally different environments. Strip clubs with female entertainment has been a long-established entertainment business whereas the male strippers are a newer thing. You go to a Chip & Dales kind of thing and for one - most of the strippers are gay (not an opinion, but they are openly gay) and it's more of a burlesque comedy thing vs. a female stripper who is practicing a seductive dance form (female "seduction dancers" can be traced back through history). I have never felt "turned on" watching a male strip show, it's an event for middle-aged cougars or bachelorette parties - a laugh.
I went to two strip clubs in my life. The first one was simply because I wanted a beer and it was the only place in walking distance from where I was that sold liquor. I saw some stripper diddling her petals on stage and another one getting diddled by a dude who was playing pool. I left after I drank my Heineken. Second time was about four years later. I went with a co-worker of mine who claimed she was a lesbian... I sat at the bar. Several days later my co-worker told me she was pregnant. So imagine how confused I was.
I don’t think it’s insecure at all it’s common sense like your basically sending yo man off to cheat on you giving him the opportunity some stripper do more than dance . My best friend is a stripper and even she says a man in a relationship or marriage has no business there . If your man can’t even buy you a name brand purse but can go throw money at other bitches so they can get it one is insane 🤣 y’all bitches who let y’all mans go is dumb
If I would ever go to the strip with my man, then he better also be willing to go to a male strip club with me. but in all honesty I wouldn't do it. I prefer loyalty and faithfulness
Uuuuuh no! If your man needs to get turned on by another woman than obviously your not doing something right. And your basically allowing him to mentally cheat as well. No shade, but no sane and respecting woman or man is going to get a kick going to a strip club with their significant other. That just seems nasty. Tamar and Jeannie love your honesty, but y'all need some more sal to the vation.
+MRZ QUINTIN lol you make a good point, leaving your role of turning your man on to some other woman. If Jeanie don't know those moves, she needs to take classes by herself and bring them to the bedroom. lol
+MRZ QUINTIN They arent saying take him to the club every time yall are hookin up. Going to a strip club occasionally isn't the same as him having to picture other women instead of you when yall are getting together. It's an exhilarating outing that can be fun for the both of you and be sexually beneficial to both people in the relationship. I'm sorry but if you've been with someone for a long time, there needs to be a little spice to keep things fresh.
Sounds like insecurity to me. Attraction doesn't end with you, sorry about it, but your man likes other women too. I don't see the issue with going on a sexy adventure with your significant other. One of the most exciting things I've ever done with my husband was ask this cute lil thing from work to join us for a night of fun. We went on a sexual conquest together and it was really fun. Why oppress someone's attraction to others, and my own attraction to them aswell. I'd rather we play and have fun together than have one of us potentially stray, because let's be real here. People aren't meant to be with one person sexually for the rest of their lives. It's in our nature to explore
2OOPoVstrechnoy Exactly. A relationship isn't about being only attracted to one another until the end of time and if that's all you have, it probably wont last. A relationship is about trust and commitment and if two people can find pleasure in other people and still go home and have lots of sex, I don't see how that could be bad for a relationship unless there are already cracks in it's foundation.
I am just asking this out of pure curiosity; when does the moral compass kick in for Christians? I feel that in other religions they take what their religion says into consideration when they make certain debatable choices, but many Christians just do whatever they want to do never consulting Christianity. Is it the whole idea of "well they are saved now so they can sin freely?" But then what is the point of the Bible if it does not have to be followed?
That is what Christians are supposed to do and if you go to more conservatives countries you will see them doing that just as in other religions. You are basically talking about the difference btwn believers and followers. Most Christians you've seen are probably believers.
For those of you who want to say that Matthew 5:28 proves that getting turned on by the sight of women is a sin, consider this: It does NOT say essentially "looking at women for the purpose of getting aroused is another form of adultery." Why? (1) Don't overlook the word "ALREADY" in the verse. It seems that most people completely overlook it. (2) Don't overlook Romans 7:7, which shows that lust=covetousness. And then Romans 13:9-10, shows what's wrong with covetousness (as well as adultery itself, a SEX-RELATED sin): being unloving and working ill to your neighbor. Clearly Matthew 5:28 was referring to a situation where a man is *ALREADY* WORKING ILL in his heart. (3) If you try to apply Matthew 5:28 the way most people do, you would have false guilt over seeing videos from decades ago, or even paintings from centuries ago, that cause sexual arousal. Why do I say "FALSE guilt"? Because the absurdity of the following statement exposes the misinterpretation (this is impossible, as everyone is aware that adultery with Marilyn Monroe is literally impossible): "Whoever looks at Marilyn Monroe to LUST after her has committed adultery with Marilyn Monroe ALREADY in his heart." This shows that there can be SEXUAL AROUSAL, caused by deliberately enjoying the sight of a woman, but it's not lust and adultery has not occurred ALREADY in the heart.
I'm team Tamera. No offense to anyone who isn't. I still feel the ladies are bullying and condemning her for being who she is. They need to respect her and her beliefs. She respects them. I do enjoy all the ladies.
+RoyalMasterpiece i think they agreed with Tamera..apart from Tamar. I honestly didnt know what Tamar was going on about at the end of the clip. Take Adrienne for example, theres no WAY she would let her man get a lapdance, its clear from other clips thats not the kind of the girl she is, shes a little of the jealous type too. And Jeannie was like ''noo'!'
Strip clubs aren’t dirty places. But it makes sense that some women would be insecure. There are gorgeous women in little to no clothing. And your man eyes would constantly be elsewhere.
+Nicole Smith Ummmm monogamy is the practice or state of having a sexual relationship with only one partner. I don't see how watching strippers WITH your significant other isn't monogamy. 1) it's not a sexual relationship and 2) you would be doing it together LOL
+Jodean Blake as long as your both honest in a relationship then there is nothing wrong...I know a married couple that use to be swingers and they are still happily married to this day, unlike some others who men cheat on them in their marriage and were not being honest. Different strokes for different folks, but you can't judge what works for one couple may not work for you and that's fine..but if both parties stay honest with each other what's "wrong" with that?
Tany Britt that's not a marriage. That's a free for all. Right is right wrong is wrong. A marriage is a sacred union between man and woman under God. Anything sexual should be done in the comfort of ones home. Anyways I'm speaking from a Christian and moral point of view. There are married couples who don't do that and is still married and inlove.
I'm not that jealous of a person, and I trust my husband 100%. But like I told my husband! Why would I even let you go to the strip club. I should be the only one stripping for you! Whether or not you see it as cheating, it really is. And when you can choose to go to a strip club, it just shows me that I am.no longer good enough for you! Plain and simple. Strip club in my relationship, is not even an option.
I think she means that she is less wild and matured more in the Lord. I think a lot of has those moments before we got saved and we did some things.....
It still like upsets me to hear of the stuff folks will allow in their relationship. You'll go to the strip club with your man and let him get a lap dance (he aint going to any male strip show and letting you have one. either is horrible.), you'll allow him to watch porn, you'll casually go to the strip joint with him for some food like it's just the hang out spot. Where is the line drawn? This is some twisted stuff indeed. Marriage is supposed to be sacred and folks are letting all this trash into their relationship. You invite your man to lust after other ladies yet those who don't are "super saved" or something. I'm not here for this at all. The relationship should include the two of yall and not all this mess coming in from the outside. Your husband does not need to see some chik shaking anything.
I simply don't like the way women allow themselves to be disrespected and then if/when he cheats some women wonder why. But that is just my thoughts on it. You can do as you please of course
Fab Kat I completely agree with you. I don't allow those things in my marriage and I'm accused of being insecure, controlling, jealous, etc....how about, I just have different standards and morals than others? if other couples want to do those things and it works for them, then fine, good for them. But why do I get judged for NOT wanting those things in my marriage? They don't want me judging them...but most people are hypocrites.
I'm not shocked by Tamera's answer. Adam is cheap. I faithfully watched their reality show and she bought some expensive veggies and he was like don't buy those anymore. Home boy is not about to make it rain at the club. Lol.
hahah there are different men in the world, not all men likes strippers and that vibe. kinda glad they did say that, I am tired of people always affirming what a man do and what they dont.
+jeanne violette yeah I know right? i feel sorry for guys sometimes, they can get the brunt of stereotyping and sweeping generalizations even worse than us ladies do. smh
+Helena I know. The standards for men in society is SO LOW , they should actually get offended. lol. Like it's okay for a woman to be into strip clubs or not, S&M, swinging, be prude, be a virgin etc. but if a man is a virgin he's perceived as weak, if he doesn't like the strip club he's lying, if he wants to wait to have sex with you he's possibly gay. Women need to stop with these double standards and stereotypes. It's not a good look on us. I'm glad Tamera checked that audience member.
Ama O Same with women. *sigh* If you like the strip club you get labeled a tramp or lesbian, if you're a virgin you're a prude, etc. so it's not that women don't face harsh judgment as well, I just think men are not immune to those "impossible" standards either. That said I agree we (both genders) need to stop reinforcing double standards and stereotypes of the other sex, it does nothing good for either gender.
I think it can open doors tothe man cheating, when a woman gives way for her man to lustfuly look at other women, he may find it ok to cross that line and cheat.
jennie is so weird...being excited about going to the strip club with your man? i think she tries too hard to be the "cool" wife or the "cool" girlfriend and lets her man loose. but im sorry, it won't be "cool" if he ACTUALLY goes away by her being so OK about everything. get your head on straight. her being so "cool" as a WIFE can actually make the man feel neglected
Tamar cracked me up. "Don't dance over my food cause I gotta eat." LOL. But I agree with the Burlesque. It is definitely more artistic than just stripping and shaking your butt.
+Shae G. What confused me about Jeannie's answer is that she said she wouldn't let her man get a lap dance. So she would just stand/sit there with her guy and watch?? lol that's coo' but I just don't see myself doing that with my S.O. ever. That sounds pretty boring and kinda awkward. If you're gonna be at a strip club at all, why wouldn't you get a lap dance? 2 for 1 deal, you and Freddie both can get one or something lol..... *shrug*
When you received Jesus Christ into your life, you become a new being in Christ, old things has past now you are a new being (2 Corinthian 5:17). Which means the things that you did when you were not in Christ you cannot do it when you are in the Lord and when You are a born again Christian, it means following the word of God, the steps of the Lord Jesus Christ. SO if you keep on going back to the world, well you have to figure out if you are truly born-again and not just running to God when it suits you or when there is trouble but when everything is rainbow and candy you do whatever. Everything is allowed but not anything is beneficial 1 corinthian 6:12) So in life you cannot serve 2 masters at the same time, either you ARE OF GOD or you are of the world. We are in the world but we are not of the world which means not everything worldly can be done. In everything you have to contemplate the Spirit of Yahweh the God of all to distinguish which does pleases Him or not. there is not grey area, choose the path wisely and stayed in that path. I am sorry for not eveyone who called me Lord Lord shall enter the kingdom of God except those who do the Will of the Father, which the Son had indicated us in the word of God. don't go with the full but in everything seek the Spirit and He will give you the wisdom of the know as well as to truly fear God for the fear of the Lord is the begining of Wisdom. I am not judging anyone but I am pointing out the Word of God. Things that bring lusts, promotes perversion, does it glorify God----Ask yourself do we christian truly are born again or do we just follow our own law and twist the word of God to suit our needs. Jesus is coming soon , Prepare yourself
Idk I feel like some women are okay w going to the strip club w their men because they both see the stripper as an entertainer. My brother goes to the strip club with his girl and the stripper will be dancing on my brother while his girl will smack her ass lol. Some ppl objectify them and some ppl see them as another girl who can take their man. I guess it depends.
+Elizabeth Taylor I so agree.. the girls at the strip club w/ their boyfriend be mad pretty. And at average strip clubs the girls are not that good looking just have nice bodies so you don't feel too bad lmao.
thats awsome your brother and his gf go to strip clubs, they have a strong relationship. So he'd be down for going to a Magic Mike club w his gf, while the male stripper gives his gf a lap dance, and he smack the stripper's ass, would be fun, don't knock it till he tries it. Same situation, just the roles are reversed.
I think it's all perception people can smell fear and insecurities which would make some dancers what to try to get at your man but if you are confident they are going to be cool with you
2 of my relationships had drama over lap dances, a female friend who was a stripper, & my last bf had a stripper addiction & it disgusted me. So I always had a bad taste in my mouth when it came to strip clubs. I wish I was more open to them but so many bad experiences & hurt feelings, the thought of them just makes me feel sad & hurt. So far I've never dated a guy that didn't like strip clubs... I hope one day I can meet a guy who doesn't like them. I would feel a lot better about the relationship
Couples who are in open marriages wouldnt have a problem going to the strip club,however couples in committed loving relationships would.Why would anyone want to go and view what their partner has unless they are dissatisfied.
I love Jeannie more and more. 😍 I like how open, open minded & honest she is. I feel sad for what she lost since she & Freddie are getting a divorce because it sounds like they were great friends.
Honestly, Tamara is the only one on this panel who consistently comes the closest thing to a follower of Christ. But that's the way it is now. Out of every 5 Christians, 4 are lukewarm and worldly and 1 who actually lives by the word.
A lot of women who claim not to insecure really are taking your man to the Strip Club is not going to ruin your marriage your man already looks at other women
@@maurovillarreal2037 yep I believe strip clubs can lead to divorce. Not at first, but eventually it can really hurt both of you to the point you need to have other people for your sexual gravitation because you two can't do it yourselves.
agree 100% with tamera and loni was trying to speak some sense into those ladies. why take your man to a strip club so weird and by the way isn't Jeannie and Tamar born again? smh
+Nallah Brown have u ever heard the term "pop culture"? Pop stands for popular...hip hop culture in atl is very much nice cars...spending money...and going to the strip club
Uh no...what the hell is my doing husband doing at a strip club anyways? Shoot he better set his priorities straight 🙄 he's crazy thinking I'm about to go there...smh
Don't agree with the strip club with my man, I don't ever want to think he's turnt up by another woman and thinking about her while he's making love to me....If he does go, don't let me know....I appreciate a man who is comfortable with what he has at home....
Tamara is exactly right! My husband is one of those men too. Now, IF my husband wanted to go. I would go with him. I don't think its ok tho for a married man to go w/out his wife.
They sound dumb to me. My man can go to a strip club and watch naked women dance but they just can't dance on him. What?? You're already welcoming sexual energy from another woman permeate your relationship just by being in that atmosphere and letting him look. But as long as he doesn't touch its okay? That type of stuff leads to other things he thinks will be okay as long as he's not "touching" someone else.
I'm truly confused about these women's "christianity" The christian word says "Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." So that topic should be out of the whole picture if they properly follow what they say they believe. Tamara...If you believe in something...Do not be ashamed or place EXCUSES where you say you stand
+Christina Wash It is just a deep contradiction. *especially* being in such a powerful position and reflective about what the Bible says about how people would treat Christianity. I am aware God is the only judge and one doesn't have to bring God in the topic to be judgemental. this is just about what *they say* they believe.
Ofcourse. What's sad is how many ppl will watch that and think it's OK. I often pay no mind to their views and discussions yet I couldn't not say something on this one.( I suppose it's about how serious this is to someone......)
Nessa121 only Extreme Christians and Catholics follow the bible completely . You can b religious and not follow the bible . And your still considered a true Christian and Catholic even if you don't
+soapqueen2008 To be a true Christian, is to follow Jesus Christ and obey his commandments. You are either for him or against him, there is no in between. John 14:15, 23-24 15. If ye love me, keep my commandments. 23. Jesus answered, and said unto him, if any man love me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and will dwell with him. 24. He that loveth me not, keepeth not my words, and the word which ye hear, is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.
It’s true some men don’t like it! The whole point of strip club is men’s hidden interests, not to share w ur women. If shared, then it’s like a restaurant. So, smart women will let her men try on her as a tease, but don’t give in. It’s a game he can play forever.
It's such a blessing to have Tamera on this panel....like for real lol.
Amen!
seriously thoo
+Empressive It really is
+Empressive Yes!!!!!!!!!!! She is a dying breed of women. I was hollering and clapping at what she said. I totally agree with her.
+Empressive lol right. Tamera is the only fully saved woman on this panel. I see God ain't done with the others one yet. haha
I am not big on the strip club at all. I rather make it rain on my wife and at least the dollars get to stay within the household
+DSJ Brigade lmao
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+DSJ Brigade OMG..no that doesn't do justice. Oh my GOD!!
yass
Tamera is not lying, my husband of 9 years is THEE same way & does not like the strip club. I didn't know there were guys like that who don't like the strip club. He refused to go even when his best friend practically begged him to go with him.
Ladies guys like this do exist.
+Elle Plow Plow I agree. My husband is the same way. Never been to one and doesn't care to.
+aarelis10 And there are guys who don't watch porn and no one believes them! Lol. I know a few.
I love her
+SangtotheDy my husband doesn't watch porn either lol he said he'd rather watch me 😊❤️
"No he's not lying" stand up for your man Tam. I agree that there are men who don't like strip clubs
Lol @ Tamera checking an audience member "no he's not lying" 2:38. My boyfriend doesn't like strip clubs neither. Thank God lol
I am a man and I won't go to a strip club. I think only men with low confidence and low self-esteem go there. I am single now and some of my guy friends ask me weekly to go to a strip club with them and I still say no. I rather go to a gym or play tennis with my daughter.
I get scared for some things jeannie will say 😂 😂 😂
Eve Yitagesu I love Jeannie mai
Yes Tamera you better put that audience member in check 😄
I wasn't surprised by Tameras answer and I'm sure the other girls weren't either 😂😂😂
+Michie Oo She tries to make him come off like he has this edge. Like it's okay girl be proud of that, lol!
Robyn Dae right‼️
+Michie Oo There weren't did you see there faces when she was trying to convince everyone that he doesn't like the strip clubs. There we like "Oh we believe it" The fact that their the one people each other has every had sex with and been together for over 8 years says that. lmfao!
+lstarsabb lmbo I legitimately started to brainstorm of a guy who doesn't enjoy strip clubs when I realized Adam, right in front of my face, is a perfect example of the kind of guy who would not get down at a strip club. I just can *_not_* see that man getting his life in a forest of poles and G strings, I can't 😂
Helena lol
Lmfao Tamar is a mess! 😂😂 she said "Ooo girl, wait" with that lil hand signal! I am dying
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My husband doesn’t like them. He said it’s somebody’s daughter or mother and he just isn’t interested in it. Thankfully!
It's a shame that this is even a debate. Why I should I take my man somewhere where he can lust for and desire another woman? Which sane woman would do that? Seriously!
a woman with low to no standards
MegaCadette55
exactly!!
They all talk about God, Jesus, the Bible, and then they talk about this? *cough* hypocrite *cough*
Grow up
If your secure with yourself I personally don't see the problem. It spontaneous and spicy for a relationship. Some women wanna see another woman dance more then the men
I have to agree with Tamera here. I asked my guy if he wanted to go to a strip club and he said no. I thought he could be lying at first but he then said "You are looking at half naked women that you are not going to have sex with while throwing your hard earned money at these girls that you are not going to be with in any way." So after 9 years, we still have not visited any strip clubs and I admit that I am thankful for it.
i don’t think it’s about “allowing” your husband to have a lap dance. i think it’s the fact that to me, he shouldn’t be interested in that in the first place. you can be perfectly secure in a relationship and still think this is weird
Why would your MAN want to lust over other woman?? Why would you even let him
@Tolu Akin Exactly! Why would you let them?! If we ever told our man to go with us to see other guys dance and give them our money I bet they wouldn't like it.
I think if a woman was ok with going it's probably because she's out there
Girl imma be the one lusting over more of the girls than him 😂 Sometimes it’s not just for the man, some women enjoy seeing other women as well
Well you're not insecure .... At all.
@@dereka.b.8136 No she not putting herself in a situation that can lead the adultry. Thats having respect and love for herself. Plus all these stripclub supporter and now divorced.
Maybe I'm "boring" for this but I don't see the point in going to the strip club with your man. The atmosphere in a strip club isn't sexy to me... it's kinda sleezy and I hate seeing women look so desperate, tbh. if I wanna be in a sexy atmosphere to get my man and I in the mood... all we need is some alone time, dim lights, good food and drink. OKAY lol
Same I never get turned on I just get a damn y’all down bad feeling
If you need to go watch other women get naked to get turned on with your s/o then there's something wrong with your relationship. See, this is why so marriages fail. People don't seem to like having boundaries or having just plain old respect anymore for their marriage. So sad.
true !!!! once married, there are some some things that should change. and there should be limitations.
very sad...I strongly disagree with Jeannie.. you're married..why on earth would you let husband go to the strip club...everything he needs is right at home.. and then you guys can't turn each other on..you have to go to the strip club to make that happen..that is crazy...
did you know that many people, especially men watch hardcore porn, and soft porn like on game of thrones, etc. Cant stop your partner from watching other naked people. So I just let my partner know that if he's gonna watch naked girls w big T!T and @$$, then i will watch naked men w big P!n#$. I honestly don't care to watch porn, just saying, i can't control what he watches on tv, but i can control what i watch. I don't care for porn, and i wish that he would have eyes only for me. But the truth is that, most people, especially men look at other women, and we can't change their desire for other people. Almost everyone I know has a famous celebrity crush, Channing Tatum, naked women on Game of Thrones, etc. If you don't "let" them go to strip clubs, they go anyways, behind your back and don't tell you. I love my bf, but I do find Channing Tatum attractive. And he finds many women attractive, bc they are all over tv, movies, wearing short short skirts and boobs hanging out of their shirts (i don't dress like that).
My bf told me he will go do things bachelors do for his party. I said, that's fine, i will also have my bachelorette party and do the same things that is usually done at the parties, magic mike! I just let him know that if he wants to do that, then I will too. And that usually makes him see where i'm coming from, that he doesn't want me looking at naked men, and then he'll see my point of him not looking at naked women. But just saying to your partner, don't go, i don't know if it's as effective as, well if your going to see naked girls, then i will go to a magic mike show! oh he hates that!!!
Bunny Cheeks nice method. But thinking that celebrities are attractive and stuff is different than a normal person that standing naked in front of you. And porn, Yea that is on TV. U can't physically touch them, but going to a strip club is out of line. Lol. But your right, all u can do is use the reverse psychology. Always get them. Lol
Oh wow I never thought of it that wayyyy interesting (im only 15)
😂😂😂"you be eating your chicken, then you be like ooo girl wait"
Tamera does a good job of sticking to her character but I hate when they passively belittle her because she don’t need to laugh, say, or do things they do to get fulfillment out a relationship or life in general. Her husband better not fucking do her wrong she’s a woman worth fighting/dying for I can tell ❤️
I don't like it when they passively belittle her either. Also, it always seems like they can't wait to get into her business, especially Tamar and Loni.
I agree with Tamera, why would you want to test your relationship in the first place, and yes there are men that wouldn't enjoy a strip club because they are committed to their wife's for example Adam. Why temp your own husband ? smh , now if he asked like adrienne said then yes question his reasoning .
I don't know.....no disrespect to these women who strip, but I just can't support a business that perpetuates the stereotype that woman are nothing more than their bodies. Again, no shade to anyone since everyone has a story. And I guarantee if Jeanie's or tamars husband went a little to far with a stripper then they'd be singing a completely different song. I must sound so boring to ya'll 😂😂😂 But I'd seriously wouldn't like my husband throwing dollar bills at another woman for shaking her ass at him.....as though she's his property to enjoy.
+Hannan Burale Girl its okay. You are not the only one that thinks the same. The idea of going to a strip club in the first place disgust me not to talk of taking my man there.
trueee
Here for this!!
What about male strip clubs? It's really just a place with sexual themes for everyone. Not just women put on display.
Thanks for the support guys😂😂😂😂 Its always nice to share your mind and have people who understand! And to Ali, I'm not for male stripping either. It's not for me, I don't find it entertaining and in terms of sexuality I prefer to share it with one person. I think there is something powerful about keeping your sexual desires private and only expressing it with those who you deem worthy. But having said that! If that's what other people enjoy then hey ho! Don't let me stop you 😂😂😂😂
Nah Fam I'm good lol😂 but question would guys go to the male strip club with their girlfriends/wives?🤔 because it always vice versa..
+Akirra Raheem Lol true. Would they be fine if a potentially naked male stripper dry humped their wife/gf while they sit there and watch? I doubt it.
+Akirra Raheem lol right. Men who are for going to the strip club with their girlfriend/wife only are for it when it's a female strip club, but if the tables turned they would be preaching all types of why it's wrong in a heartbeat. Double standards.
+dont ask lmfao helicoptered
+Akirra Raheem I don't know about your experience, but female exotic dancers vs male exotic dancers are two totally different environments. Strip clubs with female entertainment has been a long-established entertainment business whereas the male strippers are a newer thing. You go to a Chip & Dales kind of thing and for one - most of the strippers are gay (not an opinion, but they are openly gay) and it's more of a burlesque comedy thing vs. a female stripper who is practicing a seductive dance form (female "seduction dancers" can be traced back through history). I have never felt "turned on" watching a male strip show, it's an event for middle-aged cougars or bachelorette parties - a laugh.
I wouldn't even want my husband to go to a male strip club
I love how Tamera defended her man. She had so much force in that "No, he's not lying & using that finger," lol!
I went to two strip clubs in my life. The first one was simply because I wanted a beer and it was the only place in walking distance from where I was that sold liquor. I saw some stripper diddling her petals on stage and another one getting diddled by a dude who was playing pool. I left after I drank my Heineken. Second time was about four years later. I went with a co-worker of mine who claimed she was a lesbian... I sat at the bar. Several days later my co-worker told me she was pregnant. So imagine how confused I was.
bwahahahahahahahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh am dead
😂
I am a very jealous girlfriend. Even my boyfriend seeing nudity in movies bothers me. So clearly strip clubs will never ever be a place we go.
same. I thought that's not normal being too jealous. -_-
+Rosa Lopez lol Im glad im not the only one, it bothers me too!!!
Insecurity.
@@mgnjnse you’ll see that people have boundaries and Collett insecurity and then wonder why none of your relationships last
I don’t think it’s insecure at all it’s common sense like your basically sending yo man off to cheat on you giving him the opportunity some stripper do more than dance . My best friend is a stripper and even she says a man in a relationship or marriage has no business there . If your man can’t even buy you a name brand purse but can go throw money at other bitches so they can get it one is insane 🤣 y’all bitches who let y’all mans go is dumb
If I would ever go to the strip with my man, then he better also be willing to go to a male strip club with me. but in all honesty I wouldn't do it. I prefer loyalty and faithfulness
Uuuuuh no! If your man needs to get turned on by another woman than obviously your not doing something right. And your basically allowing him to mentally cheat as well. No shade, but no sane and respecting woman or man is going to get a kick going to a strip club with their significant other. That just seems nasty. Tamar and Jeannie love your honesty, but y'all need some more sal to the vation.
+MRZ QUINTIN lol you make a good point, leaving your role of turning your man on to some other woman. If Jeanie don't know those moves, she needs to take classes by herself and bring them to the bedroom. lol
+MRZ QUINTIN They arent saying take him to the club every time yall are hookin up. Going to a strip club occasionally isn't the same as him having to picture other women instead of you when yall are getting together. It's an exhilarating outing that can be fun for the both of you and be sexually beneficial to both people in the relationship. I'm sorry but if you've been with someone for a long time, there needs to be a little spice to keep things fresh.
Sounds like insecurity to me. Attraction doesn't end with you, sorry about it, but your man likes other women too. I don't see the issue with going on a sexy adventure with your significant other. One of the most exciting things I've ever done with my husband was ask this cute lil thing from work to join us for a night of fun. We went on a sexual conquest together and it was really fun. Why oppress someone's attraction to others, and my own attraction to them aswell. I'd rather we play and have fun together than have one of us potentially stray, because let's be real here. People aren't meant to be with one person sexually for the rest of their lives. It's in our nature to explore
2OOPoVstrechnoy Exactly. A relationship isn't about being only attracted to one another until the end of time and if that's all you have, it probably wont last. A relationship is about trust and commitment and if two people can find pleasure in other people and still go home and have lots of sex, I don't see how that could be bad for a relationship unless there are already cracks in it's foundation.
Ama O lol right. Learn on their own and then show their man what they learned. That's actually what Tia Mowry did. haha
And people wonder why the divorce rate so high. Don’t open Pandora’s box.
My man hates the strip club. He thinks it's absolutely disgusting.
Keep HIM
@@lenajuliette9643 I still got him sis 😊
@@shanelknight8730 yay 🙌 👏 😀
I am just asking this out of pure curiosity; when does the moral compass kick in for Christians? I feel that in other religions they take what their religion says into consideration when they make certain debatable choices, but many Christians just do whatever they want to do never consulting Christianity. Is it the whole idea of "well they are saved now so they can sin freely?" But then what is the point of the Bible if it does not have to be followed?
+4men2women Well said.
That is what Christians are supposed to do and if you go to more conservatives countries you will see them doing that just as in other religions. You are basically talking about the difference btwn believers and followers. Most Christians you've seen are probably believers.
Amen!
4men2women you ain’t lying. It’s sad.
Elli N Exactly!
No, we're not goin' to the skrip club and that's final.
lol
+yawnsterbas656 true that
+LaCheleWallace it's the "and that's final" girl😂
***** I ain't lyin'.....shoot.....
Not " Skrip " tho 😭😭
For those of you who want to say that Matthew 5:28 proves that getting turned on by the sight of women is a sin, consider this: It does NOT say essentially "looking at women for the purpose of getting aroused is another form of adultery."
Why?
(1) Don't overlook the word "ALREADY" in the verse. It seems that most people completely overlook it.
(2) Don't overlook Romans 7:7, which shows that lust=covetousness. And then Romans 13:9-10, shows what's wrong with covetousness (as well as adultery itself, a SEX-RELATED sin): being unloving and working ill to your neighbor. Clearly Matthew 5:28 was referring to a situation where a man is *ALREADY* WORKING ILL in his heart.
(3) If you try to apply Matthew 5:28 the way most people do, you would have false guilt over seeing videos from decades ago, or even paintings from centuries ago, that cause sexual arousal. Why do I say "FALSE guilt"? Because the absurdity of the following statement exposes the misinterpretation (this is impossible, as everyone is aware that adultery with Marilyn Monroe is literally impossible): "Whoever looks at Marilyn Monroe to LUST after her has committed adultery with Marilyn Monroe ALREADY in his heart." This shows that there can be SEXUAL AROUSAL, caused by deliberately enjoying the sight of a woman, but it's not lust and adultery has not occurred ALREADY in the heart.
I'm team Tamera. No offense to anyone who isn't. I still feel the ladies are bullying and condemning her for being who she is. They need to respect her and her beliefs. She respects them. I do enjoy all the ladies.
+RoyalMasterpiece i think they agreed with Tamera..apart from Tamar. I honestly didnt know what Tamar was going on about at the end of the clip. Take Adrienne for example, theres no WAY she would let her man get a lapdance, its clear from other clips thats not the kind of the girl she is, shes a little of the jealous type too. And Jeannie was like ''noo'!'
@@lisareilly4466 Tamara has the best relationship😂😂
Nope, too jealous. They seem like dirty places anyway.
Strip clubs aren’t dirty places. But it makes sense that some women would be insecure. There are gorgeous women in little to no clothing. And your man eyes would constantly be elsewhere.
@@amiia7345 I am very confident and not insecure and I hate the idea of strip clubs. Waste of money just to see the same dance over and over again 🙄😒
I can't believe what our society has come to. Watching strippers with your husband? No. Monogamy, hun.
preach sista
+Nicole Smith Ummmm monogamy is the practice or state of having a sexual relationship with only one partner. I don't see how watching strippers WITH your significant other isn't monogamy. 1) it's not a sexual relationship and 2) you would be doing it together LOL
Tany Britt it's just wrong. You are opening up your marriage or relationship to other things and ppl.
+Jodean Blake as long as your both honest in a relationship then there is nothing wrong...I know a married couple that use to be swingers and they are still happily married to this day, unlike some others who men cheat on them in their marriage and were not being honest. Different strokes for different folks, but you can't judge what works for one couple may not work for you and that's fine..but if both parties stay honest with each other what's "wrong" with that?
Tany Britt that's not a marriage. That's a free for all. Right is right wrong is wrong. A marriage is a sacred union between man and woman under God. Anything sexual should be done in the comfort of ones home. Anyways I'm speaking from a Christian and moral point of view. There are married couples who don't do that and is still married and inlove.
I'm not that jealous of a person, and I trust my husband 100%. But like I told my husband! Why would I even let you go to the strip club. I should be the only one stripping for you! Whether or not you see it as cheating, it really is. And when you can choose to go to a strip club, it just shows me that I am.no longer good enough for you! Plain and simple. Strip club in my relationship, is not even an option.
Same here! No temptation in my marriage
Can somebody please help me figure out the difference between Pre-Jesus and Post-Jesus Jeannie other than not dating rappers?? 😂
I think she means that she is less wild and matured more in the Lord. I think a lot of has those moments before we got saved and we did some things.....
She did drugs and slept around, that's most likely what she means.
She was even involved in gangs
+NayaMasters All yall answers cracked me up 😂😂😂😂😂
+NayaMasters lol when was she involved in gangs?
Note the ones who are okay with this are no longer married to their man.
It still like upsets me to hear of the stuff folks will allow in their relationship.
You'll go to the strip club with your man and let him get a lap dance (he aint going to any male strip show and letting you have one. either is horrible.), you'll allow him to watch porn, you'll casually go to the strip joint with him for some food like it's just the hang out spot. Where is the line drawn?
This is some twisted stuff indeed. Marriage is supposed to be sacred and folks are letting all this trash into their relationship. You invite your man to lust after other ladies yet those who don't are "super saved" or something.
I'm not here for this at all.
The relationship should include the two of yall and not all this mess coming in from the outside. Your husband does not need to see some chik shaking anything.
I swear some women have low standards and they wonder why their men cheat.smh the devil is at work
***** This is my perspective and my opinion. Not speaking on anyone's relationship in particular.
Fab Kat why does what other people do in their relationship bother you?
I simply don't like the way women allow themselves to be disrespected and then if/when he cheats some women wonder why.
But that is just my thoughts on it.
You can do as you please of course
Fab Kat I completely agree with you. I don't allow those things in my marriage and I'm accused of being insecure, controlling, jealous, etc....how about, I just have different standards and morals than others? if other couples want to do those things and it works for them, then fine, good for them. But why do I get judged for NOT wanting those things in my marriage? They don't want me judging them...but most people are hypocrites.
I'm not shocked by Tamera's answer. Adam is cheap. I faithfully watched their reality show and she bought some expensive veggies and he was like don't buy those anymore. Home boy is not about to make it rain at the club. Lol.
No, that's disrespectful.
hahah there are different men in the world, not all men likes strippers and that vibe. kinda glad they did say that, I am tired of people always affirming what a man do and what they dont.
+jeanne violette yeah I know right? i feel sorry for guys sometimes, they can get the brunt of stereotyping and sweeping generalizations even worse than us ladies do. smh
+Helena I know. The standards for men in society is SO LOW , they should actually get offended. lol. Like it's okay for a woman to be into strip clubs or not, S&M, swinging, be prude, be a virgin etc. but if a man is a virgin he's perceived as weak, if he doesn't like the strip club he's lying, if he wants to wait to have sex with you he's possibly gay. Women need to stop with these double standards and stereotypes. It's not a good look on us. I'm glad Tamera checked that audience member.
Ama O Same with women. *sigh* If you like the strip club you get labeled a tramp or lesbian, if you're a virgin you're a prude, etc. so it's not that women don't face harsh judgment as well, I just think men are not immune to those "impossible" standards either. That said I agree we (both genders) need to stop reinforcing double standards and stereotypes of the other sex, it does nothing good for either gender.
The moment I saw the title, I knew Jeannie was gonna talk about taking Freddie there and loving it. Girl is hilarious.
LOL Eeeeeeeverybody thought they had Tamar figured out on the teaser yesterday. So funny.
I think it can open doors tothe man cheating, when a woman gives way for her man to lustfuly look at other women, he may find it ok to cross that line and cheat.
yep. it's open a door for temptation. smh.
@@SeniorLife2012 yesssssss
jennie is so weird...being excited about going to the strip club with your man? i think she tries too hard to be the "cool" wife or the "cool" girlfriend and lets her man loose. but im sorry, it won't be "cool" if he ACTUALLY goes away by her being so OK about everything. get your head on straight. her being so "cool" as a WIFE can actually make the man feel neglected
Tamar cracked me up. "Don't dance over my food cause I gotta eat." LOL. But I agree with the Burlesque. It is definitely more artistic than just stripping and shaking your butt.
LMFAOOO Tamar killed me at the end "Ooo girl wait." 😂😂😂
Didn't Jeannie get upset when Porsha was talking about going to the strip club with her man
***** lol right! I was surprised by Tamar's answer , you know she don't play that!
She was referring to going to the strip club as a first date
+Shae G. What confused me about Jeannie's answer is that she said she wouldn't let her man get a lap dance. So she would just stand/sit there with her guy and watch?? lol that's coo' but I just don't see myself doing that with my S.O. ever. That sounds pretty boring and kinda awkward. If you're gonna be at a strip club at all, why wouldn't you get a lap dance? 2 for 1 deal, you and Freddie both can get one or something lol..... *shrug*
Nope nope nope! Who needs the strip club when you have Jesus?
Amen!
Yes!! AMEN!
Alie Oh Gosh
+C Ali lol, yeah, jesus is real sexy.
+C Ali You better preach!
Once again, Tamera and I are on the same page. :)
When you received Jesus Christ into your life, you become a new being in Christ, old things has past now you are a new being (2 Corinthian 5:17). Which means the things that you did when you were not in Christ you cannot do it when you are in the Lord and when You are a born again Christian, it means following the word of God, the steps of the Lord Jesus Christ. SO if you keep on going back to the world, well you have to figure out if you are truly born-again and not just running to God when it suits you or when there is trouble but when everything is rainbow and candy you do whatever. Everything is allowed but not anything is beneficial
1 corinthian 6:12) So in life you cannot serve 2 masters at the same time, either you ARE OF GOD or you are of the world. We are in the world but we are not of the world which means not everything worldly can be done. In everything you have to contemplate the Spirit of Yahweh the God of all to distinguish which does pleases Him or not. there is not grey area, choose the path wisely and stayed in that path. I am sorry for not eveyone who called me Lord Lord shall enter the kingdom of God except those who do the Will of the Father, which the Son had indicated us in the word of God. don't go with the full but in everything seek the Spirit and He will give you the wisdom of the know as well as to truly fear God for the fear of the Lord is the begining of Wisdom. I am not judging anyone but I am pointing out the Word of God. Things that bring lusts, promotes perversion, does it glorify God----Ask yourself do we christian truly are born again or do we just follow our own law and twist the word of God to suit our needs. Jesus is coming soon , Prepare yourself
+Immanuel-Rabbouni The King of Salvation
GOD THE CREATOR OF ALL MANKIND IS WHAT YA'LL NEED.
So yesterday's teaser got some of yall hating on tamar cause yall think she was gone disagree, where yall at👀👀👀
They waiting for the next chance
J Brown exactly nd she wasn't even doin too much in this video
they'll be back in a few hours 😂
Oh they'll find something wrong with what she said or didn't say. They get mad at the slightest things that she does.
+Love Alexis (LoveNaturally) Me...I did...check up top! Lol.
Idk I feel like some women are okay w going to the strip club w their men because they both see the stripper as an entertainer. My brother goes to the strip club with his girl and the stripper will be dancing on my brother while his girl will smack her ass lol. Some ppl objectify them and some ppl see them as another girl who can take their man. I guess it depends.
+Elizabeth Taylor I so agree.. the girls at the strip club w/ their boyfriend be mad pretty. And at average strip clubs the girls are not that good looking just have nice bodies so you don't feel too bad lmao.
+Elizabeth Taylor i would love to go to one with mine but idk how strippers would feel about $1 bills LOL
(We're both cheap)
thats awsome your brother and his gf go to strip clubs, they have a strong relationship. So he'd be down for going to a Magic Mike club w his gf, while the male stripper gives his gf a lap dance, and he smack the stripper's ass, would be fun, don't knock it till he tries it. Same situation, just the roles are reversed.
Right! I agree with this!
I think it's all perception people can smell fear and insecurities which would make some dancers what to try to get at your man but if you are confident they are going to be cool with you
2 of my relationships had drama over lap dances, a female friend who was a stripper, & my last bf had a stripper addiction & it disgusted me. So I always had a bad taste in my mouth when it came to strip clubs. I wish I was more open to them but so many bad experiences & hurt feelings, the thought of them just makes me feel sad & hurt. So far I've never dated a guy that didn't like strip clubs... I hope one day I can meet a guy who doesn't like them. I would feel a lot better about the relationship
Couples who are in open marriages wouldnt have a problem going to the strip club,however couples in committed loving relationships would.Why would anyone want to go and view what their partner has unless they are dissatisfied.
if my bf asked me to go to a strip club I'd make myself a single gal within the first couple seconds of him asking. Jeanie is crazy
I love Jeannie more and more. 😍 I like how open, open minded & honest she is. I feel sad for what she lost since she & Freddie are getting a divorce because it sounds like they were great friends.
He cheated on her ?
Maybe because he went to a strip club 🤔
Jeannie just doesn't know how hurtful this will be to a marriage.
literally . . . i can’t even understand how this is a debate.
I'm sorry but baby Loni been slaying the other co host with these new hair looks & everything. You better work Loni, come thru honey!
Lmao, did y'all see the wink Tamar made at 00:53 😂.
Tamar is a bully
+MegaCadette55 she just a donkey...
Amanda Blose lmao
Adrienne did it back
A and Tamar they bullies!! And those 3 have no clue!
Honestly, Tamara is the only one on this panel who consistently comes the closest thing to a follower of Christ. But that's the way it is now. Out of every 5 Christians, 4 are lukewarm and worldly and 1 who actually lives by the word.
"Ooh girl wait" Tamar please come back 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭
A lot of women who claim not to insecure really are taking your man to the Strip Club is not going to ruin your marriage your man already looks at other women
Going to a strip club with my man is NEVER going to happen!
"Hoooool' up waaaiit a minuuteeee" loool Adrienne 😂😂
I love Tamera! She's so cute, but I agree with Tamar. It's a normal thing in Atlanta
Marriage & Motherhood for her and Vince and look where that got them
genie got divorced
@@maurovillarreal2037 yep I believe strip clubs can lead to divorce. Not at first, but eventually it can really hurt both of you to the point you need to have other people for your sexual gravitation because you two can't do it yourselves.
Tamar's Face When Adri Said "So Jeannie" 😂😂😂 0:39
agree 100% with tamera and loni was trying to speak some sense into those ladies. why take your man to a strip club so weird and by the way isn't Jeannie and Tamar born again? smh
Born again doesn't mean quit living and enjoying life.
You sound ridiculous 😂
They don't act like they are. But such is modern Christianity now!
@@annieparker2788 didn’t know going to sexually charged places was the only way to live life lol typical fake modern day christians
“Sometimes you eating yo chicken & you like ooh girl wait” lmaoo😂😂😂😂
Loni's makeup is so 💯 today omg
+caelumxcv i agree
1:15 the black man with glasses throwing bunch of palm trees to Jeannie like "poor lil girl u so delusional.but you will learn" 😂😂
That's why there are more divorce rates than ever...smh
LMAOOO Loni's laugh at 2:11... Just me? Yeah, no it's cool! **continues eating dry lucky charms**
Love, Tamera's no's. Lol! Loni I love your Jean outfit, girl! You look so pretty!
Tamar's jacket is giving me life and her makeup is on point 😍😍 yaaaas
pause at 3:12 the way adrianne says girl makes her face look hilarious
Tamar and the chicken wings at the end 😂😂😂😂 lol girl wait no dancing over my chicken wings
Girllll, I'm from ATL too, don't claim that foolishness as our culture. Television is making Atlanta look like a ratchet Hollywood already. smh
Im from ATL and if youve been here long enough then u know strip clubs are very popular here
+J Brown There's a difference between them being popular and apart of the "culture", that's what I'm saying.
+Nallah Brown have u ever heard the term "pop culture"? Pop stands for popular...hip hop culture in atl is very much nice cars...spending money...and going to the strip club
+Nallah Brown it IS apart of the culture in Atlanta.
Not to be rude but ATL is rated the highest for HIV/Aids.....
When it got to Tamera she was like uh uh guys😂😂😂 I love her!
People have to be careful what they open their relationships to (threesomes, strip clubs etc..). I am not for strip clubs at all.
Uh no...what the hell is my doing husband doing at a strip club anyways? Shoot he better set his priorities straight 🙄 he's crazy thinking I'm about to go there...smh
Tamera went to a burlesque show when Tia performed and it was so awkward lol
+VONiiE8 Corey looked so embarrassed lol!
+Danielle Martinez it is by far my fav. episode.
Tamar's analogies are the funniest thing ever
I loveee Jeannie's different lip colors
That pole dance section of Loni is the bomb. Thank you Ellen and thank you Loni for going through that.
Don't agree with the strip club with my man, I don't ever want to think he's turnt up by another woman and thinking about her while he's making love to me....If he does go, don't let me know....I appreciate a man who is comfortable with what he has at home....
I HATE when Adrienne makes that face at 3:40 lol
Didn't work out too well for Jeannie...
True. Would you rather go to a male or female club?
😂 Tam's so cute singing no no no, "I wanna give my man the lap dance...meeee....meeeeeee...noooo"
Tamara is exactly right! My husband is one of those men too. Now, IF my husband wanted to go. I would go with him. I don't think its ok tho for a married man to go w/out his wife.
They sound dumb to me. My man can go to a strip club and watch naked women dance but they just can't dance on him. What?? You're already welcoming sexual energy from another woman permeate your relationship just by being in that atmosphere and letting him look. But as long as he doesn't touch its okay? That type of stuff leads to other things he thinks will be okay as long as he's not "touching" someone else.
My first time going to a strip club I was traumatized, it was also my last time...
why were you traumatized ?
Somebody in the audience called Adam a liar, Tam said whoa derr, calm it down lol she doesn't play about hers!!
Almost all the Muslim men, Very religious Jews and Christian men don't go to the strip club too.
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Jeannie has the worst marriage, she doesn't even know what she committed to.
I see nothing wrong with going to a strip club with your man 💅🏾 I’m very confident in my marriage and we have a blast..
My man aint gonna be “eye-cheatin” on MY FUCKING expense!
I'm truly confused about these women's "christianity" The christian word says "Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."
So that topic should be out of the whole picture if they properly follow what they say they believe. Tamara...If you believe in something...Do not be ashamed or place EXCUSES where you say you stand
+Christina Wash It is just a deep contradiction. *especially* being in such a powerful position and reflective about what the Bible says about how people would treat Christianity. I am aware God is the only judge and one doesn't have to bring God in the topic to be judgemental. this is just about what *they say* they believe.
Ofcourse. What's sad is how many ppl will watch that and think it's OK. I often pay no mind to their views and discussions yet I couldn't not say something on this one.( I suppose it's about how serious this is to someone......)
Nessa121 only Extreme Christians and Catholics follow the bible completely . You can b religious and not follow the bible . And your still considered a true Christian and Catholic even if you don't
soapqueen2008 According to who?
+soapqueen2008 To be a true Christian, is to follow Jesus Christ and obey his commandments. You are either for him or against him, there is no in between.
John 14:15, 23-24
15. If ye love me, keep my commandments.
23. Jesus answered, and said unto him, if any man love me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and will dwell with him.
24. He that loveth me not, keepeth not my words, and the word which ye hear, is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.
It’s true some men don’t like it! The whole point of strip club is men’s hidden interests, not to share w ur women. If shared, then it’s like a restaurant. So, smart women will let her men try on her as a tease, but don’t give in. It’s a game he can play forever.