Dealing with Stigma after I publicly disclosed my HIV status

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024

Комментарии • 103

  • @SuzetteKhiba
    @SuzetteKhiba 4 года назад +43

    You're truly a strong and courageous woman. Believe it that you've changed many lives out there. God bless you❤️

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!

    • @kaymiller2441
      @kaymiller2441 3 года назад

      @@NozibeleQamngana I have just come across your channel and listened to your abortion journey, can you tell me how you told your mother about your abortion and being HIV negative. Presumably you told her before going public.

  • @fitnessvigour6051
    @fitnessvigour6051 4 года назад +43

    Until Woolworths give you the bag never mention them or any other brand please gal, u r the running machine now they better recognize that 8k subscribers.

  • @kudziechings8338
    @kudziechings8338 4 года назад +19

    I wish I had found you earlier you make it easy to accept your HIV status well done you are changing lives mine included

  • @asiphemdingi8873
    @asiphemdingi8873 4 года назад +27

    Sis’Asakhe please also talk about how your in-laws took it. You are a newly wed plus you are married umntu wasezilalin.

  • @abongilemduduma849
    @abongilemduduma849 4 года назад +7

    i still cannot believe that there is still a stigma about HIV, it is sad. keep doing what you doing sis!!!

  • @amandandlovu4743
    @amandandlovu4743 4 года назад +17

    Please monetize your page , I’ll watch all the ads... you’re worth it

  • @eneresmapfumo2650
    @eneresmapfumo2650 4 года назад +14

    Nozi yu are God sent yu are helping alot of people. I would want to have a copy of mine on the book you are writing lam watching you from Zimbabwe , l listen to your videos 3times a day

  • @thepurposeentrepreneur6953
    @thepurposeentrepreneur6953 4 года назад +10

    You are an all round winner 🥇

  • @patienced.8327
    @patienced.8327 4 года назад +7

    I've been watching your vids without commenting at any of them. I respect you for giving hope to every person who's infected with HIv. You getting unfairly infected with HIV wasn't a mistake. God knew. And now you're inspiring a lot of people, not just us your subscribers. I highly highly respect you.

  • @nhleleloshongwe2273
    @nhleleloshongwe2273 4 года назад +7

    I believe you girl, in fact we need more people like you in this world.

  • @_molebogeng6281
    @_molebogeng6281 4 года назад +5

    You are so vocal I love it 🙌.Shout out to your family and friends that have supported you on your journey

  • @RealTalkWorld
    @RealTalkWorld 4 года назад +4

    Girl you inspire not just positive people but those who are yet to engage in sexual activity on how to protect themselves, some to be in a relationship with a partner that is positive and some who are already positive on how to rise and keep going regardless of their status. Your mission or purpose is a good one and the lord has brought you thus far

  • @nombusontsimbi8291
    @nombusontsimbi8291 4 года назад +6

    “Guys the same questions you ask me , is questions I have already asked myself “😂😂🙌🏻

  • @kennykukuri464
    @kennykukuri464 2 года назад +2

    I fell inlove with your channel, you are a strong woman nozi,sending all the love from 🇳🇦 walvisbay...stay blessed my love...

  • @sihlem444
    @sihlem444 4 года назад +4

    I love you 😍❤️ uyasikhulisa sana. And I get the healing that comes with controlling the narrative.

  • @abongwemasiza534
    @abongwemasiza534 4 года назад +4

    "This is none alcoholic"😂😂.
    I love you sis❤❤❤, keep strong and beautiful.

  • @suzyomwagomba21
    @suzyomwagomba21 4 года назад +3

    I admire your strength and tenacity. Have you considered public speaking? U are such an encouraging woman

  • @elle_m5457
    @elle_m5457 4 года назад +15

    The day I have a child, I’m naming her after you.
    Baxelele 😂😂😂 Nooone alcoholic

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 года назад +2

      Tyini!!! I needed to make sure they understand its NON-ALCHOHOLIC! HAHAHA

  • @emihlexakana378
    @emihlexakana378 4 года назад +2

    I would usually scroll down to read the comments xa ndibukele videos zabantu but with her different story. Kuthi mmamele qha mntakabawo!!! 💯👌Unomkhitha sisi. Ungadinwa ❤️

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 4 года назад +8

    Hey, nice video.kindly cover on the short and long term side effects of the meds and how to overcome them.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 4 года назад +2

    Cheers Nozi, will sip onto my non alcoholic wine as well. Loving you and your story. Thank you for reclaiming your life even after your diagnosis. Your diagnosis does not define who you are. You are an inspiration sisi.

  • @thabsilenkosi1200
    @thabsilenkosi1200 4 года назад +2

    Yaz kodwa you've grown unto me,everytime I get a notification you've posted I silently scream "Noziii" 😍😍😍. Keep it up though girl♥️🌹

  • @lisaskepe_Amisu
    @lisaskepe_Amisu 4 года назад +2

    Matseee wam njee. You are soo loved ke yaz. I took it after u am courageous bcoz of u now.

  • @sabelanimoni4664
    @sabelanimoni4664 4 года назад +2

    Its so important to understand that each story is unique and that not everyone has the support of family and friends. Im happy that you highlited the fact that you are not doing this for "fame" and there are people you are helping. #Womandla

  • @ProphetEdgarkapanga
    @ProphetEdgarkapanga 4 года назад +6

    Admire your strength and courage
    Over a decade since this first appeared, yet still taboo🤔
    Intolerance

  • @ezikanozifaithnozizwematho5580
    @ezikanozifaithnozizwematho5580 3 года назад

    So beautiful and authentic, I believe you are saving lives and giving people hope with your personal testimony.

  • @enigma6451
    @enigma6451 4 года назад +2

    I love your personality. Just beautiful and warming

  • @Thembeka_Baliso
    @Thembeka_Baliso 2 года назад +1

    Your face when you say "this is non alcoholic"💔😭😭🤣🤣🤣🙈

  • @vuyiswancwaiba1053
    @vuyiswancwaiba1053 4 года назад +7

    Hey babe. Just subscribed to your channel and I'm loving it 😊😊. Just wondering, would you kindly make a video talking about your experiences with your in-laws like how did they react to you and whether they gave you any problems or not. Love your videos ❤❤❤

  • @nthabisengmetsing5467
    @nthabisengmetsing5467 4 года назад

    I doubt this could could have been your way of seeking attention, not in our society that views HIV they way they do!!! Your strength is impeccable, love you 😍 girl!! Thank you for allowing us into your world. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @goitsepheko4263
    @goitsepheko4263 4 года назад

    I found myself in your channel and this is my 4th video. I will never judge you or other regardless of my opinion it’s better if people can keep their negativity to theirselves if thy have nothing better to say. Am proud of you because you are changing lives and living the truth. “Let is support others guys because tomorrow it might happen to our beloved ones”

  • @magdelinemakgatho6115
    @magdelinemakgatho6115 4 года назад +2

    I love your personality and positive spirit ❤️ you are doing a great job... God bless you ❤️

  • @nozukophumla5121
    @nozukophumla5121 4 года назад +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️And you need to be really really ready when opening up I love your confidence.... May God continue to bless you ntinga ntaka 😊😊😊😊

  • @assanacampbell6487
    @assanacampbell6487 4 года назад +3

    You’re a sweet heart! I love your accent. 🇯🇲

  • @phelomatomanematomane1952
    @phelomatomanematomane1952 4 года назад +8

    Semhle samthandi marn 😊♥️ " none alcoholic" 😂😂

  • @keshebileonekbmorwe3163
    @keshebileonekbmorwe3163 4 года назад +3

    "Because I can🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣" Nozi though🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dikeledithoba4169
    @dikeledithoba4169 4 года назад +2

    I love everything about you, you are so beautiful 😍. God uses the worst situation to bring out the . best in us. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @lightslite
    @lightslite 4 года назад +2

    Hey Nozi, I really like your content. I wish a lot of young people can be glued up on your content like I am.

  • @sipepelapindlovu5876
    @sipepelapindlovu5876 4 года назад +1

    You really are a strong woman hey, have been listening to your videos all morning out here in Zimbabwe, would love to meet you one day,woooow

  • @mathapelomagagula3152
    @mathapelomagagula3152 4 года назад

    I just love you. Watching your videos always makes me happy.

  • @samimercyber8715
    @samimercyber8715 4 года назад +1

    I discovered your channel the other day. I could listen to you all day 😁😁. So much love from Kenya

  • @asiphemdingi8873
    @asiphemdingi8873 4 года назад +1

    Loving the sound on this video. Also I see the hair is down Enkosi kuBhuti Mkhaya. I love you Sis’Asakhe wam ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️......

  • @lucywaiharo6742
    @lucywaiharo6742 3 года назад

    Watching your story from Kenya. I discovered you on Sunday and I just cant stop binge watching

  • @nomzomhlekona1859
    @nomzomhlekona1859 4 года назад +3

    You are inspirational kumkanikazi❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @morongoamanyathela6484
    @morongoamanyathela6484 4 года назад +2

    That "Is not alcoholic"🤣😂🤣 i felt it😂🤣

  • @Mellie_Matshubeng
    @Mellie_Matshubeng 4 года назад +7

    Your courage 🤯🤩

  • @sieroalf7675
    @sieroalf7675 4 года назад +1

    You are beautiful and an inspiration

  • @thembinxitywa9754
    @thembinxitywa9754 4 года назад

    And you are owning your story. It’s so sad that even in 2020 there is still this stigma around HIV. And people will always talk, whether you do good or bad they talk. That we cannot change. You have a strong support system 💕. 🤣🤣 “This is non-alcoholic”. Ukhona ebeseye ready to tell your mom 🤦‍♀️.

  • @fakeittillyoumakeitwithus5525
    @fakeittillyoumakeitwithus5525 4 года назад

    Thank you for the honesty❤️👏🏽

  • @nomsantsoane3984
    @nomsantsoane3984 3 года назад +1

    You are soooooo sooooo super strong

  • @priscillasabi8325
    @priscillasabi8325 3 года назад

    But i was not shocked for the merw fact that i am living around ppl who are hiv positive..nd the support i am giving them is out of this world..i started following you i think about a month ago nd i felt inlove with u..u are an inspiration..nd no1 askes to be hiv positive it happens..big up Ausi Asakhe

  • @mercymarunda9692
    @mercymarunda9692 4 года назад +5

    You are so beautiful😍😍

  • @lindamoji5133
    @lindamoji5133 4 года назад +8

    Semhle 💐

  • @fakeittillyoumakeitwithus5525
    @fakeittillyoumakeitwithus5525 4 года назад +1

    Ayiselwa nale shapopo! ngoku😂🤣❤️

  • @hapiloemoabi10
    @hapiloemoabi10 4 года назад

    I'm happy that i came across your ..I'm definitely gonna watch all the videos from the very first

  • @maqelesinazo7793
    @maqelesinazo7793 4 года назад +3

    My inspiration😍😍

  • @thabileramootla1595
    @thabileramootla1595 4 года назад

    Be strong Gul u Wil get 100% support from other people.

  • @saniquehouston912
    @saniquehouston912 3 года назад

    I’d love to meet you someday........ your story is truly beautiful

  • @noxolo_n_msibi2261
    @noxolo_n_msibi2261 3 года назад +1

    Yup there's still stigma.

  • @dikeledimonang6334
    @dikeledimonang6334 2 года назад

    God bless you. Love you Nozi .

  • @zintledwabayo7429
    @zintledwabayo7429 4 года назад +1

    Hey Nozi ❤❤ please tell us the story of disclosing your status to your hubby.

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 года назад +2

      Our next video will feature him, I promise :) And we will talk all about that.

  • @boitumelomalaka9396
    @boitumelomalaka9396 4 года назад +3

    Hey Nozi😊 been watching your videos since day one! You truly inspire me⚘
    Can I ask... I just started with prep and it really doesn't treat me so well. I vomit and feel nauseous the morning after I had it. What do you think I should do?

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 года назад +1

      Hi B - remember this, PreP like any other drug. When a drug is foreign in your body, your system would try to fight it out because its not used to it. I felt the same way when I started my ARVs. I would feel dizzy and nauseous. But my doctor had already prepared me. You should give it another week or so. But if it persists, please speak to your doctor :)

    • @boitumelomalaka9396
      @boitumelomalaka9396 4 года назад

      Thank you so much sis♡ I'll give it a week and see how it goes

  • @nosibusisocele984
    @nosibusisocele984 4 года назад +3

    Your courage. Your beauty. 👌🏾❤

  • @nomsantsoane3984
    @nomsantsoane3984 3 года назад

    Guys Nozibele is extraordinary strong

  • @tobekilemdumata8910
    @tobekilemdumata8910 4 года назад +1

    Hi Nozie, I truly like your energy and confidence to come up and assist others please continue doing the great thing 😘.
    I just wanna know that how is your understanding between alcohol and ARVs since you mentioned it from the begging of your video.
    Like does liquor disturb the functioning of the above metioned drugs within the body or what?
    Thank you in advance for answering ❤❤

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 года назад +1

      Hi Tobekile,
      In general, one or two drink is likely to be fine, if this is something you enjoy. There are no interactions between alcohol and ARVs. More heavy drinking however can lead to missing doses of your ARVs. Alcohol, taken excessively, can also make efavirenz side effects worse, in particular feeling dizzy.
      So, it all depends on how often do you drink and in what moderation.

    • @tobekilemdumata8910
      @tobekilemdumata8910 4 года назад +2

      Thanks dear, I'm gathering this information so that I can also assist when necessary.

  • @melisagabagas4046
    @melisagabagas4046 3 года назад

    I could watch you all day ❤☺😊

  • @busin6388
    @busin6388 4 года назад +3

    People are so judgmental yhu... Unbelievable.

  • @edwards3367
    @edwards3367 4 года назад +1

    I would like to know if you have plans on having children in more years to come and if so,what has to be done in order to keep your partner safe.Also are there any concerns of using Arvs in pregnacy.Is it something you would even like to do?Any advice to hiv positive women with hiv positive partners anout staring a family.Thanks.Your a gem😊

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 года назад

      Hi Chelsea,
      I covered this topic a few weeks ago. The link to the video is as follows:
      ruclips.net/video/SaInaD94sHU/видео.html

  • @graciousmasa492
    @graciousmasa492 4 года назад +3

    ❤️❤️

  • @natashandou7153
    @natashandou7153 4 года назад +3

    I Love You ❤️♥️💜💙

  • @Vuyo_maNkwali
    @Vuyo_maNkwali 4 года назад

    Nozi how can one get your book... I would love to read it especially now that we have all the time being in lockdown

  • @noloyisomakaziwembali7867
    @noloyisomakaziwembali7867 4 года назад +2

    I love you❤️

  • @silindilewitness943
    @silindilewitness943 4 года назад +6

    Is your husband HIV positive also? If not how does he deal with this situation?

    • @lorrainemadure2837
      @lorrainemadure2837 4 года назад +1

      Silindile, apparently they met after she was already Hiv positive. Husband is negative. He persued her knowing about her status.

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 года назад +18

      He's HIV negative. He has been very supportive. The next video we're going to share, next time, will include him :)

    • @silindilewitness943
      @silindilewitness943 4 года назад +3

      @@NozibeleQamngana okay please do I can't wait for that video. I send my love to you ❤❤❤

  • @mpumingcobo9899
    @mpumingcobo9899 4 года назад +1

    I can't comment on your Facebook page ican react or share😔

  • @timnaseisi6969
    @timnaseisi6969 3 года назад

    I love you so much ❤️

  • @kagisoletoaba9189
    @kagisoletoaba9189 4 года назад +4

    I can understand your husband accepting your status, what about his mother and his family as a whole. Already it’s a battle between mother in laws and daughters in law but having a daughter in law whose hiv positive must have been a struggle mind sharing that.

  • @cikizwabikitsha4571
    @cikizwabikitsha4571 4 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ceciliachitsumba5240
    @ceciliachitsumba5240 4 года назад +1

    ❤️

  • @rumbidzaigloriatigere9096
    @rumbidzaigloriatigere9096 3 года назад

    🌹

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 3 года назад

    🧡🧡💗💗

  • @k88k82
    @k88k82 4 года назад

    Can you please spell out how to pronounce your name?

  • @rosaokoye605
    @rosaokoye605 4 года назад +1

    People dont need to agree with you. If you, your husband and your family are agree with you? That is what is important for you, forget about people out there what trash they have to say dear.